[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.67,0:00:12.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One second. Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.04,0:00:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It took me one second. Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.14,0:00:18.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I entered his apartment.\N Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.07,0:00:21.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He was cooking\Nand was standing in his kitchen. Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.85,0:00:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Along the wall was a recipe book. Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.63,0:00:31.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He was weighing potatoes\Nthat were already peeled, Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.89,0:00:33.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to cook a potato gratin. Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.81,0:00:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He was weighing peeled potatoes. Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.78,0:00:38.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One second! Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.66,0:00:44.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In one second, I saw his essence,\Nthe beauty of his being. Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.40,0:00:46.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was in love. Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.93,0:00:49.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was twenty years ago. Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.52,0:00:53.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was passing by his house unexpectedly.\Nit was raining. My hair was soaked. Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.34,0:00:55.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I started spreading happily\Nthe content of my bag Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.98,0:00:58.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on his couch to dry it. Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.92,0:01:02.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'd have seen the content of my bag! Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.59,0:01:04.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One second! Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.35,0:01:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In one second, he also fell\Nhead over heels for me. Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.79,0:01:14.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I saw him in his wonder,\Nand I saw him as a wonder. Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.76,0:01:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until the day his tidy apartment,\Nhis tendency to organize everything, Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.45,0:01:22.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the well planned weeks, Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.81,0:01:25.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started to really get on my nerves. Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.23,0:01:33.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I came from a very free\Nand happily messy childhood. Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.92,0:01:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At home, for example,\Nat the moment of eating, Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.21,0:01:39.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we opened the fridge, took\Nwhat were inside and put it in the oven, Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.92,0:01:42.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it delighted everyone who were there. Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.70,0:01:47.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So can you imagine me weighing\Npotatoes that were already peeled? Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.76,0:01:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this guy loved it so much. Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.02,0:01:53.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Twenty years ago, he loved\Nso much my "last minute" side, Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.00,0:01:56.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my tendency to improvise, Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.21,0:01:58.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my things scattered\Neverywhere in the apartment, Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.70,0:02:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,life. Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.67,0:02:06.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He saw me as a wonder,\Nand he saw me in my wonder, Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.35,0:02:12.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until the day he started to feel\Nwhat a rubbish it was to live like that. Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.80,0:02:17.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And gradually, like all\Nthe couples in the world, Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.23,0:02:23.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we switched from a crazy love\Nto a more difficult daily life. Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.73,0:02:26.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does it speak to you? Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.52,0:02:33.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ten years later, we had\Nthree children, a house, our jobs, Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.09,0:02:35.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a lot of pain together, Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.17,0:02:39.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enervating moments \Nwhere each theme goes into a spin. Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.10,0:02:41.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we weren't together,\N Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.76,0:02:44.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really felt love for him,\Nand I cared about him. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.57,0:02:49.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as soon as we'd discuss a subject,\Nwe'd fail to get along. Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.27,0:02:53.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt desperate. I was terrified. Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.78,0:02:56.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I began to think about separation. Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.03,0:02:58.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a nightmare. Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.32,0:03:02.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does this speaks to you? Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.92,0:03:09.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"They got married, were happy\Nand had many children" is a hoax. Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.14,0:03:12.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All that stuff about\Nthe Charming Prince is a hoax. Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.92,0:03:17.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are just myths\Npreventing us from getting to work, Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.16,0:03:19.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because love requires work. Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.03,0:03:25.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For us, it started as a workshop, Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.93,0:03:30.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an Imago couple workshop\Nin three days that changed everything. Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.07,0:03:32.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They made us do incredible stuff Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.77,0:03:36.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as take a pause, slow down,\N Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.34,0:03:38.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,breathe, Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.57,0:03:41.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interact and understand. Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.93,0:03:54.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These three days changed everything. Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.77,0:03:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We understood we had made \Nthe perfect enrollment Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.89,0:03:59.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to become alive again. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.89,0:04:04.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is romantic to talk about \Nenrollment in love, isn't it? Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.19,0:04:10.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet, it was a fundamental recruitment\Nbecause we are born wonders. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.41,0:04:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are born wonders\Nthat are full of potential. Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.87,0:04:20.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then, we made a trip. Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.34,0:04:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But look my dears, Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.87,0:04:27.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have the ability to connect\Nor be in our bubble. Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.32,0:04:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've tenacity, tenderness, sensuality,\N Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.78,0:04:34.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curiosity, creativity, joy and so on. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.97,0:04:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are really born as wonders. Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.05,0:04:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we made a trip. Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.61,0:04:44.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We made a trip in a family,\Nin a community. Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.51,0:04:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We made a trip in a world\Nthat gave us messages Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.30,0:04:51.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and made us "psychiatrices". Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.01,0:04:54.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, that's not a slip of the tongue. Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.47,0:04:59.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Psychiatrices" means\N"bruises on the soul," Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.21,0:05:02.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or "psychic scars." Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.49,0:05:05.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,During that trip, we put parts of us, Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.00,0:05:11.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parts of our vitality,\Nour freedom to be and our joy... Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.88,0:05:13.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,... in a freezer. Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.35,0:05:17.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's how we enter\Nthe life of those wonders, Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.56,0:05:19.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while we are partly frozen. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.78,0:05:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here is the "Theory of the freezer."\N Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.22,0:05:27.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, do you see a freezer? Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.79,0:05:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not this one. Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.67,0:05:33.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is another kind of freezer,\Nmuch more important, Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.52,0:05:37.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the one in which we burried parts of us. Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.28,0:05:45.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There may have been mourning,\Nabuse and maltreating. Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.86,0:05:48.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, simply growing up\Nwithing my family Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.94,0:05:52.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,makes me decide to freeze parts of me. Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.87,0:05:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, I'm four years old,\N Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.55,0:05:59.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm exploring Grandma's sewing box. Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.68,0:06:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm discovering the reels,\Nthe scissors - I'm four, it's magic. Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.95,0:06:08.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Grandma comes back, \NI understand immediately. Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.07,0:06:12.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her face, the tone of her voice,\Nsomething is wrong with me. Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.74,0:06:14.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I am four, Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.58,0:06:18.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I decide that my curiosity, Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.25,0:06:21.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll put it in my little freezer. Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.84,0:06:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because as a child, I'll always decide\Nto let go of parts of myself Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.15,0:06:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than risk losing \Nmy connection with the other. Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.61,0:06:39.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then as a child too, \NI'm going to take pictures. Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.07,0:06:45.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll create photographic-like images\Nof the inside of my little world. Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.61,0:06:48.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I make my little personal photo album Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.19,0:06:52.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the positive and negative\Npersonal traits Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.21,0:06:54.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the people who took care of me. Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.86,0:07:00.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And do you know what I'm going\Nto do when I reach adulthood? Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.35,0:07:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I'm going to fall\Nin love with someone Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.19,0:07:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who looks like the photos in my album. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.35,0:07:12.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is how, in a relationship,\Nwe're wired to react agitatedly Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.35,0:07:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for better and for worse. Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.91,0:07:20.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now let me recap. Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.86,0:07:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I fall in love, Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.21,0:07:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,1. I saw the wonder and I know\Nhow wonderful you are. Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.14,0:07:37.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2. I am still really alive in places\Nyou have frozen a lot. Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.81,0:07:41.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's when we say\N"opposites attract each other." Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.30,0:07:47.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,3. I have the superpower\Nto push your buttons. Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.85,0:07:52.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Indeed, I'm in your photo album! Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.61,0:07:55.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.74,0:08:01.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tirelessly, since I have seen \Nthe wonder and know it, Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.46,0:08:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to touch your nerve\Nto transform you Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.28,0:08:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I want the great "you". Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.47,0:08:09.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you entirely. Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.33,0:08:14.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's what creates crisis. Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.32,0:08:17.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The intelligence of love, it's going from Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.34,0:08:21.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ouch, you hurt me!"\Nso I defend myself in the relationship, Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.77,0:08:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to "Ouch, I make you so close to my heart, Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.02,0:08:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you move,\Nyou put your hand on my bruises. Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.31,0:08:33.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's painful. I need your help." Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.74,0:08:39.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in love, we mustn't\Nmistaken the enemy. Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.58,0:08:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other is not the enemy,\Nthe enemy is the bruises of my childhood. Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.93,0:08:48.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's our childhood's bruises\Nthat take us hostage in the relationship. Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.25,0:08:51.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And all that is of the order \Nof criticism, blame, Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.49,0:08:53.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,changes of mood and anger, Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.99,0:09:00.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all that is just the twists our heart\Nmakes to talk about deep needs. Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.73,0:09:05.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we've to learn\Nhow to express them differently Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.23,0:09:08.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because in a relationship,\Nwe have a mission. Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.35,0:09:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the couple's mission\Nis to bring us back to our wonder, Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.52,0:09:15.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to become whole again, alive, thawed ... Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.20,0:09:17.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it stings. Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.83,0:09:26.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, those tinglings in our hands \N Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.14,0:09:28.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after touching the snow, Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.29,0:09:31.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we readily believe\Nthat it's the cold that hurts, Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.16,0:09:34.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but no, the cold numbs! Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.17,0:09:38.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What burns us is the blood\Nthat brings back life. Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.47,0:09:44.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we made an appointment. Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.20,0:09:46.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a scoop for you: Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.75,0:09:51.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between lovers,\Neven if we live together 24/7, Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.03,0:09:53.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have to make\Nappointments, in the diary, Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.62,0:09:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with an agenda and a process\Njust like in the office. Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.90,0:10:03.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's how both of us, Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.35,0:10:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by way of conversations,\Nwe managed to make that journey Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.44,0:10:12.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and welcome a little boy\Nfrom my husband's story Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.89,0:10:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who always had to be tidy\Nin order to be loved, Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.85,0:10:20.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and manage to welcome\Nand give love together Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.42,0:10:26.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to a little girl from my childhood's trip\Nwho had lacked quite a bit of guidance. Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.85,0:10:28.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then, those recurring conflicts\N Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.51,0:10:34.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about messiness, tidiness,\Nimprovisation, planning,\N Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.66,0:10:40.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all those moments\Nwhere we had an argument, Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.19,0:10:43.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all that dissolved. Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.60,0:10:50.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a second scoop for you: Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.52,0:10:55.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conflict is not a problem,\Nit's the heart of the reactor. Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.58,0:10:58.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's precisely the moment\Nwe have together Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.64,0:11:01.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where we can turn lead into gold. Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.23,0:11:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And without tools, without conscience,\Nlead is turned into a slurry. Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.71,0:11:08.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because our conflicts are gifts. Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.78,0:11:12.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conflict is growth knocking at the door. Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.63,0:11:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But we pack those gifts \Nwith such a repulsive paper Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.01,0:11:19.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that no one wants to open them. Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.85,0:11:25.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who wants anger, rejection, violence,\Nbad mood, criticism, and victimization? Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.95,0:11:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one! ... No one. Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.32,0:11:35.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now this man and I, Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.81,0:11:38.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each time a conflict emerges, Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.62,0:11:40.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we sit down, Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.64,0:11:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we breathe, Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.02,0:11:44.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we connect, Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.39,0:11:50.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we make this trip\Nto enlighten our childhood, Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.47,0:11:54.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in safety and connection. Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.52,0:11:58.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the two of us open those freezers Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.80,0:12:01.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that prevents us from\Ncompletely loving ourselves. Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.09,0:12:06.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's similar to a relational meditation Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.55,0:12:10.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whose purpose is to release\Nsmoothly the cries from within, Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.05,0:12:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and put them in another place. Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.83,0:12:18.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be in a relationship\Nis an initiatory journey. Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.58,0:12:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ladies and gentlemen, watch out! Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.66,0:12:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being in relationship\Nputs us in danger of living! Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.68,0:12:33.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, let's live! Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.40,0:12:43.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I can't resist presenting you ... Dialogue: 0,0:12:45.42,0:12:47.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughing) ... my laboratory of life! Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.54,0:12:49.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers) Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.23,0:12:51.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause) Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.48,0:12:58.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers)