1 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Bell 2 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Dear community, we are August the 10th in the year 2023, 3 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we are celebrating, savoring the last day of our Wake Up retreat, 4 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Love in Action", here in the Upper Hamlet, 5 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in the Still Water meditation hall. 6 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm having an interesting moment sitting here. 7 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 When we first started creating youth retreats, about 15 years ago, 8 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it was a real challenge to try and find enough young people 9 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to have a retreat. 10 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And first there was forty, then the next year there was like 65, 11 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and then I remember the year we hit 100, 12 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we were so excited that we had 100 registrations! 13 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we went to report to Thay. This must have been around 2010. 14 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Thay, there's a hundred young people in Europe 15 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that want to learn about mindfulness. 16 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Can you believe it? 17 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And he was like - well done! 18 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And then, we started to create the Wake Up movement. 19 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I said (to Thay) it's a little bit overwhelming! 20 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And he said, and he lit up with sparkles, 21 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 excellent, it should feel overwhelming! 22 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and then I'm sitting here and I don't know how many hundreds 23 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of you there are, overwhelming so I guess Thay's smiling with 24 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a sparkle in his eyes, be careful what you wish for, because it may come true. 25 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I hope that's going to make it easier, but hey I think speaking in front of 26 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 spiritual friends, and 27 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is both challenging and wonderful, because on the one hand 28 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I feel I want to share my heart with you all, 29 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and on the other, I have the same feeling that we all do. 30 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of whether I can be enough in this moment. 31 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But I will share from my, my joy my experience and my practice 32 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and that is my best. We will see. 33 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We had some little flowers here thank you, thank you. 34 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Emotional support flowers, we also have an emotional 35 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 support cello, that we might need to call on. 36 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was 21 when I first came to Plum Village 37 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and I was one of the people who as soon as there was 38 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a chance to receive the five mindfulness trainings, I 39 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wanted to do it. And I was here for three weeks that summer] 40 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ]and I was also one of the people who was like I am going to wait 41 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 until the last week. 42 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So I know some have been here through the summer 43 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and have received the five mindfulness trainings 44 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this morning, and some of us are here for the first time 45 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we also made that commitment and I have to say, getting on the train 46 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in some form, with the five mindfulness trainings in my pocket, in some form 47 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in my back pack, my life was different. It just was! 48 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 49 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I felt that I had a path. I felt that I knew what was important to me. 50 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I felt that what the experience was I can't fall that far anymore. 51 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It felt like the mindfulness trainings were a safety net or something. 52 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like, I'm held in their embrace that has been my experience. 53 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And although I was sharing with my dharma sharing famiy 54 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like the path of the five mindfulness trainings is not exactly 55 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 `like a straight highway, 56 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 its more like this, and thats definitely been my experience. 57 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 That it has been an adventure, an experiment, a work in progress 58 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a challenge and also a training, like really a training. 59 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And as many of us know whatever kind of training we do, we learn 60 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by making mistakes. 61 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And by trying things out, 62 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and by realizing ... oops, that was not in alignment or 63 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I have strayed far off my path at this point 64 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But it was wonderful and has been wonderful to feel that they are part of my life 65 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and I don't know if your facilitators shared with you 66 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but the dharma name we get with our five mindfulness trainings 67 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is the dharma name for your life. 68 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So even if you become monastcs your monastic name is not as important 69 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as your five mindfulness trainings name. 70 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because we are kind of born into our spiritual path with this practice 71 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and with this training. 72 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And so this morning, definitely more than a hundred of us, 73 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maybe more than a hundred and fifty possibly closer to two hundred of us 74 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 across the different hamlets. 75 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 made apassionate, wholehearted commitment to take the insight 76 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and practises of the five mindfulness trainings 77 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into our lives 78 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and so when we get on the train tomorrow, car or however we'r getting 79 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 home. 80 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 these mindfulness trainings will be with 81 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and even if we didn't make a formal commitment to receive them 82 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 please take the piece of paper with you. 83 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 They can penetrate our life because in a way they 84 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 encapsulate everything we have been experiencing 85 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 together in this retreat. 86 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And, 87 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 these trainings are, I guess, the kind of Plum Village blueprint for 88 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 changing the world. 89 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 They are nothing less than our full vision for the kind of 90 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 loving action that can transform society and the future. 91 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Someone asked me in the earth retreat earlier in this year 92 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I find the Plum Village teachings on the earth and climate so 93 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fascinating, but do you have some kind of manifesto? 94 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or something. 95 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I said yeh - we have the five mindfulness trainings. 96 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And the person was like, no I didn't meet that. 97 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I was like, oh I mean that. 98 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because they are applied, they live they are kind of mult-dimensional. 99 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Each one of them is about bringing the energy of awakening and love 100 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 directly into the heart of our daily lives, our relationship and our society. 101 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And so, as we take the practice home, maybe you go home and 102 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 somebody comes up to you and says, how was your retreat? 103 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And you say ... brilliant, great wonderful. 104 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm going to practice meditation every day. 105 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we may have a tendency to think that 106 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the most easily applicable thing we can take from this retreat 107 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is ten minutes sitting every day. 108 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we may think, that's going to be my aspiration, my intention 109 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 my volition, I'm going to put it all into that. 110 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and that is good, 111 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but I feel we can be more ambitious then that, and I say that because 112 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if we only do 10 minutes of sitting meditation a day, and then the 113 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rest of our life is the same, 114 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the transformation will not be very radical. 115 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But what we can see in each one of these amazingly challenging 116 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and inspiring trainings in the five mindfulness trainings is 117 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that they're about far more than sitting meditation. 118 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 In fact, as a relatively active person, 119 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when I left Plum Village I, found it really hard to do sitting meditation 120 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I think it was very rare that I made time. 121 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was able to make time to do sitting meditation in my daily life. 122 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But, my life was utterly transformed. 123 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by the five mindfulness trainings. 124 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 One thing I learned, I used to sit on public transport and 125 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be present for the people around me, and present for 126 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 my feelings. 127 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And honestly, I think I got more kind of shift in my 128 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 perspective and way of living in the way I sat on buses in 129 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 central london then I would have done by sitting on my cushion. 130 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because I lived like many of us a very 131 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 active and hyperstimulated life. 132 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was juggling a job in journalism and a masters degree. 133 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like too much input, so if I sat on a cushion all I 134 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 heard or saw was just all the inputs 135 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but when I was in relation with the world, 136 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 following my breathing and being in contact with my body 137 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's like I opened up a whole new way of experiencing life 138 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and that was really transformative for me. 139 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So as we think about what we might want to take away from 140 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this retreat, i'm gonna sort of reflect back to some of the 141 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 things that we've been experiencing 142 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we can see for ourselves which of these elements 143 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do I want to incorporate in my daily life. 144 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 One of the things, perhaps the most important thing 145 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we've been doing on this retreat is resting. 146 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 relaxing 147 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and spending time in silence 148 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 both with people but also with nature 149 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and so we may ask ourselves 150 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in my daily life, am I making time to rest 151 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So resting without screens 152 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 resting wihtout maybe headphones 153 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 am I able to rest and listen to my body 154 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and how might we incorporate a practice of resting in our daily lifes 155 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So those of us that work from home we have a great chance to do relaxation 156 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 after lunch. 157 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because no one can see you. 158 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So, you can find the Plum Village App or your favorite relaxation teachers 159 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and you can listen to a relaxation 160 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and make it a part of your working day. 161 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We can make a commitment to ourselves, a promise to ourselves 162 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to spend more time in our nearest park, or to use 163 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our days off from study or work to actively go out into 164 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nature. 165 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we can also , like, learning from this experience of being 166 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with people, in nature, is great. 167 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How can we invite our friends and organize to have more time 168 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in nature together. 169 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 That is actively cultivating ourselves, our body and mind 170 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our awakening and also our resistance. 171 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What I mostly want to talk to you today 172 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about is, spiritual resistance. 173 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How the choices we make about how we live our life 174 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are fundamental, deep form, or resistance. 175 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to collective consciousness and to society. 176 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So choosing to rest in our super busy world is a form of resistance 177 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we don't need to consume, we don't need to do, 178 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we're gonna be in the way that is the future we would 179 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like to see. 180 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more simple, more connected and more whole in ourselves, 181 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not relying on external things. 182 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like consuming and doing to be happy. 183 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Another thing we've been doing on this retreat has been stopping 184 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and looking deeply. We have had a chance to step back 185 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from our life, to step outside 186 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the constant 187 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pressures that we are under 188 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to kind of take stock to reflect alittle bit and to listen 189 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and so the question about how we could take this kind of 190 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stopping back with us could be 191 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is there a practice that you can take in your life where 192 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 every day has at least one moment of stopping in it. 193 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So when I went back from Plum Village, the something 194 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that I chose was drinking a glass of water from the water 195 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cooler at work 196 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And my work was in a newsroom 197 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so it was a very overstimulated environment, but I wanted to 198 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 keep this connection to Plum Village into my spiritual life 199 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and the spiritual dimension of my being because being in a 200 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was in the politics department of the newsroom 201 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so its probably like the least, a very no spiritual place. 202 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But I was determined, I was there for ethical reasons because 203 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that ethical news was possible 204 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thats another story. 205 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So I chose that the moment that I drank water was the moment 206 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when I would be deeply into touch with my spiritual life 207 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and I recited the poem that we have here in plum village 208 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for drinking water, many of us 209 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 know this poem, but if we are here for the first time 210 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you might have just seen it near a water tap somewhere 211 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and this poem goes like this 212 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Now, with the collective consciousness I don't have 213 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the first word. 214 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Water, thank you. 215 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 My brain is a social brain. 216 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Water comes from high mountain sources, 217 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 water runs deep in the earth 218 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 miracously water comes to us and sustains all life. 219 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 My gratitude is filled to the brim. 220 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was working in the newsroom in Spring 2003 221 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was a peace activist and it was at the outbreak of the Iraq war 222 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And every time I went to the water cooler, I recited this poem. 223 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 There were screens all around me that had a live screen from the war 224 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 zone. And this was my act of resistance. This was my resolve 225 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 my heart alive, to keep my hear open and to stay in touch with 226 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the beauty and wonder of life 227 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so that I could see clearly the destruction and injustice of war. 228 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It is very interesting to practice mindfulness in the workplac 229 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so I invite you to try it out. 230 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You could choose drinking water, you could choose maybe if you go 231 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to a place of work or study, you could choose some part of 232 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the distance when you are transitioning from your home life 233 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to go into work, you can take 200 meteres, and you can say 234 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to yourself, I will walk as a free person, as my whole 235 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 self including my spiritual aspect from this lamppost 236 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to that pedestrian crossing and you make a resolve, 237 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I will do this. 238 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So this was another thing I did. 239 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Across the center of London 240 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I had my anti-war umbrella.In London it always rains 241 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 except recently but that's a different story. 242 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Sorry. No diversion. 243 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I had my peace umbrella, in London everywhere, everyone about 15 years 244 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ago still wore black in the city and had black umbrellas, 245 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so my umbrellas was white and it had the words peace that I 246 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 had stencilled on to it. 247 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I got lots of reactions as I would walk through the city 248 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on my way to the newsroom, but that was my almost resistance. 249 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And when I can to a certain place near a cathedral, I chose a stretch 250 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that was quite nice, right in the heart of the city and I said 251 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I will walk as a free person..