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Bell

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Dear community, we are August 
the 10th in the year 2023,

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and we are celebrating, savoring
the last day of our Wake Up retreat,

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"Love in Action", here 
in the Upper Hamlet,

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in the Still Water meditation hall.

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I'm having an interesting 
moment sitting here.

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When we first started creating
youth retreats, about 15 years ago,

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it was a real challenge to try and
find enough young people

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to have a retreat.

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And first there was forty, then
the next year there was like 65,

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and then I remember 
the year we hit 100,

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and we were so excited that
we had 100 registrations!

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And we went to report to Thay.
This must have been around 2010.

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Thay, there's a hundred 
young people in Europe

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that want to learn about mindfulness.

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Can you believe it ?

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And he was like - well done!

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And then, we started to 
create the Wake Up movement.

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And I said (to Thay) it's a little 
bit overwhelming!

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And he said, and his eyes 
lit up with sparkles,

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he's like "excellent, it should 
feel overwhelming!"

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and then I'm sitting here and I
don't know how many hundreds

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of you there are, but it feels little 
overwhelming

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so I guess Thay's smiling 
with a sparkle in his eyes,

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and be careful what you wish for, 
because it may come true.

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I hope that's going to make it easier,
but hey, I think speaking in front of

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spiritual friends

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is both challenging and wonderful,
because on the one hand

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I feel I want to share my heart
with you all,

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and on the other, of course, I have the
same feeling that we all do.

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of whether I can be enough
in this moment.

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But I will share from my, my joy
my experience and my practice

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and that is my best, so,
we will see.

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We had some little flowers here
thank you, thank you.

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Emotional support flowers,
we also have an emotional

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support cello, that we might, that I might
need to call on.

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I was 21 when I first came 
to Plum Village

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and I was one of the people
who as soon as there was

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a chance to receive the five
mindfulness trainings, I

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wanted to do it. And I was
here for three weeks that summer

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and I was also one of the people
who was like I am going to wait

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until the last week.

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So I know some of us have
been here through the summer

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and have received the five
mindfulness trainings

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this morning, and some of us
are here for the first time

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and we also made that commitment

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and I have to say, 
getting on the train in Saint-Foy,

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with the five mindfulness trainings,

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kinda in my pockets, in my back pack

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My life was different. It just was!

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I felt that I had a path. I felt that 
I knew what was important to me.

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I felt that what the experience was that
I can't fall that far anymore.

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It felt like the mindfulness trainings
were a safety net or something.

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Like, I'm held in their embrace
that has been my experience.

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And although I was sharing
with my dharma discussion family

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like the path of the five mindfulness
trainings is not exactly

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like a straight highway,

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its more like this, and thats
definitely been my experience.

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That it has been an adventure,
an experiment, a work in progress

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a challenge and also a training,
like really a training.

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And as many of us know whatever
kind of training we do, we learn

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by making mistakes.

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And by trying things out,

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and by realizing ... oops, 
that was not in alignment or

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I have strayed far off my path
at this point

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But it was wonderful and 
has been wonderful to
feel that they are part of my life

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and I don't know if your facilitators
shared with you

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but the dharma name we get
with our five mindfulness trainings

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is the dharma name for your life.

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So even if you become monastics
your monastic name is not as important

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as your five mindfulness trainings name.

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because we are kind of born into our
spiritual path with this practice

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and with this training.

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And so this morning, definitely
more than a hundred of us,

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maybe more than a hundred and fifty
possibly closer to two hundred of us

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across the different hamlets.

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made a passionate, wholehearted
commitment to take the insight

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and practises of the five mindfulness
trainings

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into our lives

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and so when we get on the train 
tomorrow, car or however we'r getting

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home.

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these mindfulness trainings
will be with us

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and even if we didn't make a formal
commitment to receive them

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please take the piece of paper
with you.

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They can penetrate our life
because in a way they

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encapsulate everything we
have been experiencing

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together in this retreat.

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And,

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these trainings are, I guess, the 
kind of Plum Village blueprint for

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changing the world.

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They are nothing less than 
our full vision for the kind of

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loving action that can transform
society and the future.

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Someone asked me in the
earth retreat earlier in this year

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I find the Plum Village teachings
on the earth and climate so

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fascinating, but do you have
some kind of manifesto?

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or something.

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I said yeh - we have the
five mindfulness trainings.

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And the person was like, no I
didn't mean that.

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And I was like, oh I mean that.

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Because they are applied, they live
they are kind of mult-dimensional.

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Each one of them is about bringing
the energy of awakening and love

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directly into the heart of our daily 
lives, our relationship and our society.

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And so, as we take the practice
home, maybe you go home and

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somebody comes up to you and
says, how was your retreat?

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And you say ... brilliant, great
wonderful.

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I'm going to practice meditation
every day.

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And we may have a tendency to
think that

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the most easily applicable thing
we can take from this retreat

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is ten minutes sitting every day.

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And we may think, that's going to
be my aspiration, my intention

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my volition, I'm going to put 
it all into that.

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and that is good,

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but I feel we can be more ambitious
then that, and I say that because

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if we only do 10 minutes of sitting
meditation a day, and then the

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rest of our life is the same,

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the transformation will 
not be very radical.

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But what we can see in each one of
these amazingly challenging

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and inspiring trainings in the
five mindfulness trainings is

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that they're about far more 
than sitting meditation.

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In fact, as a relatively active person,

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when I left Plum Village I, found
it really hard to do sitting meditation

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I think it was very rare that I made time.

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was able to make time to do sitting
meditation in my daily life.

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But, my life was utterly transformed.

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by the five mindfulness trainings.

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One thing I learned, I used to
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be present for the people
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my feelings.

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And honestly, I think I got
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perspective and way of living
in the way I sat on buses in

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central London then I would
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because I lived like many of us 
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active and hyperstimulated life.

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I was juggling a job in journalism and
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Like too much input, so if 
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heard or saw was just all
the inputs

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but when I was in relation 
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following my breathing and
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it's like I opened up a whole
new way of experiencing life

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and that was really transformative
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So as we think about what we
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this retreat, i'm gonna sort of
reflect back to some of the

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things that we've been experiencing

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and we can see for ourselves
which of these elements

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do I want to incorporate in 
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One of the things, perhaps
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we've been doing on this
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relaxing

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and spending time in silence

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both with people but
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and so we may ask ourselves

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in my daily life, am I making
time to rest

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So resting without screens

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resting wihtout maybe headphones

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am I able to rest and listen to 
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and how might we incorporate
a practice of resting in our daily lifes

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So those of us that work from home
we have a great chance to do relaxation

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after lunch.

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Because no one can see you.

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So, you can find the Plum Village App
or your favorite relaxation teachers

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and you can listen to a relaxation

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and make it a part of your working day.

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We can make a commitment to 
ourselves, a promise to ourselves

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to spend more time in our 
nearest park, or to use

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our days off from study or
work to actively go out into

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nature.

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And we can also , like, 
learning from this experience of being

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with people, in nature, is great.

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How can we invite our friends 
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in nature together.

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That is actively cultivating
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our awakening and also our resistance.

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What I mostly want to talk to you today

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about is, spiritual resistance.

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How the choices we make about
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are a fundamental, deep 
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to collective consciousness 
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So choosing to rest in our super busy
world is a form of resistance

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we don't need to consume, we don't 
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we're gonna be in the way
that is the future we would

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like to see.

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more simple, more connected
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not relying on external things.

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like consuming and doing to be happy.

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Another thing we've been doing on
this retreat has been stopping

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and looking deeply. We have 
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from our life, to step outside

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the constant

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pressures that we are under

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to kind of take stock to reflect 
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and so the question about how we
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stopping back with us could be

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is there a practice that you 
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every day has at least 
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So when I went back from
Plum Village, the something

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that I chose was drinking a
glass of water from the water

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cooler at work.

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And my work was in a newsroom

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so it was a very overstimulated
environment, but I wanted to

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keep this connection to Plum
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and the spiritual dimension of
my being because being in a -

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I was in the politics department
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so its probably like the 
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But I was determined, I was
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that ethical news was possible

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thats another story.

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So I chose that the moment 
that I drank water was the moment

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when I would be deeply into
touch with my spiritual life

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and I recited the poem that
we have here in plum village

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for drinking water, many of us

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know this poem, but if we are
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you might have just seen it
near a water tap somewhere

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and this poem goes like this

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Now, with the collective 
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the first word.

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Water, thank you.

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My brain is a social brain.

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Water comes from high
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water runs deep in the earth

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miraculously water comes to us
and sustains all life.

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My gratitude is filled
to the brim.

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I was working in the newsroom
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I was a peace activist and it
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And every time I went to the
water cooler, I recited this poem.

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There were screens all around me
that had a live screen from the war

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zone. And this was my act of 
resistance. This was my resolve

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my heart alive, to keep my hear
open and to stay in touch with

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the beauty and wonder of life

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so that I could see clearly the 
destruction and injustice of war.

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It is very interesting to practice
mindfulness in the workplace

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so I invite you to try it out.

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You could choose drinking water,
you could choose maybe if you go

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to a place of work or study, you
could choose some part of

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the distance when you are transitioning
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to go int work, you can take 
200 meteres, and you can say

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to yourself, I will walk as a
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self including my spiritual 
aspect from this lamppost

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to that pedestrian crossing
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I will do this.

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I had my anti-war umbrella.
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except recently but that's 
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I had my peace umbrella, in London
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ago still wore black in the city
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so my umbrellas was white and
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on my way to the newsroom, 
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that was quite nice, right in the
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I will walk as a free person, free
from my anger about the war

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free from my fear about the days
work ahead,

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free from the fights, I will walk
as a free human being on this

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beautiful planet earth and I 
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and these were delicious 200
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think of London, my heart goes
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and whenever I have a chance to 
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my corner of these few hundred
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deep refuge for me
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a commitment to do that
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our whole body remembers
the feeling, our whole

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body remembers, I feel
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so even if my mind is
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what was happening or 
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that step up onto the pavement
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gate, the step to the right
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all the signals where, you
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you are a free person.

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home, that we can,

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take something as simple
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resistence and an act of
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of our daily life.

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I was walking in the rush hour
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overtaking me, because
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that I found could tasted free
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overtaking me.

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I don't agree with the direction
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from this rat race, from this
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present with discomfort, with
discomfort in the body,

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discomfort in our feelings, 
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I think these things are changing
now but at least this was not

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something that I had a chance 
to learn at school, it was only

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something I had a chance to 
learn at age 21 when I came

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have a lot of emotional maturity.
I feel that I'm the kind of -

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I'm a millenial and I
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are Gen Z - so we're possibly 
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in the young generation. That we
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the landscape of our emotions.

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And we hope that over the last
few days, we've learned something

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really tangible, felt ways that 
we can be with a painful feeling

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when it comes up.

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We've been learning how to
name it, or even beyond naming

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how to feel it, in the body,

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how it might effect our breathing.

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Our breathing becomes more tense,
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Our jaw becomes tighter, and 
we've been learning how to encounter

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and accompany and embrace
unconditionally, challenging and

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uncomfortable feelings that come up.

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just that this is a really 
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I feel that as a human being when
we can be with and master some

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of the most painful feelings that
we have, it's honestly, close to a

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superpower, kind of. It allows us
to have agency, to have freedom

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to have a way out, of some really
difficult situations that we will

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be encountering in our life.

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To be able to feel the feel, feel
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but, not be overwhelmed by them.

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mindfulness, we hold on to

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our breathing, we hold onto 
our felt sense of our physical body.

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Something as simple as feeling our
hands, or feeling our toes.

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We find a way to be and breathe
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And what we've found on this retreat
I'm thinking, I'm sure in every

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dharma sharing circle group, is
that when we can be with a

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difficult feeling, it allows us
to be authentic. We can be real.

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We can share our whole self
because we're not afraid of it

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And we've been able to speak
our truth in our dharma sharing

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circle, and we've been training how
to listen to other people's uncomfortable

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feelings and to accompany and offer
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To be able to show up for our friends

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without fear, but with a real strong,
and loving presence.

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with us tomorrow.

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When we are with our friends and 
when they are having a difficult

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moment, we know how to come
back to our breathing, we know how

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to feel the reflection of their suffering
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Take care of it there and be with
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but to be not alone.

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We've been learning how to
be together, even in suffering.

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the path ahead will be challenging
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a really important skill and training.

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And this brings us to something
really important, which is, something

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that Br. Phap Huu touched on in the 
first talk, that mindfulness is not

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just to make us feel better.

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Many of us may have come to 
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of wellbeing program or because
someone said you can take care

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of your mental health with
mindfulness so please practice

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mindfulness to be well.

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mindfulness that only go that

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far. But in deep mindfulness,

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authentic mindfulness, original
mindfulness, real mindfulness,

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I don't know - whatever this
thing is that we do here, that

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has ancient roots, more than
2,000 years old, in our kind of

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mindfulness, we don't just practice
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understand our suffering and

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to find a way out, for ourselves,
for our loved ones, and for our

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society. So deep in the DNA of
our kind of mindfulness, is a kind

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of radical transformation.

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A way out, changing things.

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[Bell]

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We are leaving this retreat with
a spiritual path.

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Path.

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And it has something to do with
suffering and it has something to

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do with happiness.

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Suffering , illbeing,

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Happiness, illbeing

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We're learning how to handle
painful feelings and suffering

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and we have been very actively
musically, joyfully, learning how to

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generate happiness. These are two
really important skills.

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Sometimes we may think that
happiness only comes from

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outside. And we may sort of 
outsource our happiness ...

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oh you know because the conditions 
are not enough, I can't be happy.

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So we kind of give up our agency,
give up our freedome to be happy

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by making it someone else or something
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say that it is possible to learn to train ~

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to create a happy moment for ourself
and for the people around us.

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In Buddhism we are not afraid
of suffering. We're ready to name it.

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To call it out, to look at it
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deeply aware and awake to
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One sister reflected to me

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sometimes it might be that in
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right now,

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we think that we have the right
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we have the right to suffering

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because the situation is so bad

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in every aspect.

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But we don't think we have the 
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It's quite interesting - think
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We allow ourselves to suffer
but we don't allow ourselves to

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be happy.

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That's a bit of a koan for us.
Maybe its' not true.

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But we can investigate that 
a little bit, why we might

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think it is. And perhaps it 
has something to do

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with the collective consciousness
that surrounds us and we'll go into

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that in a little bit.

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Our teacher said that learning how to 
suffer is an art and a training and

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yesterday in the Q&A there was
a really interesting question

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I think it was the second question
about on the one hand we know that

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we are enough, and we alrady
are what we want to become

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and we can feel complete and whole

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but sometimes with the energy of mindfulness
or professional settings

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we become aware that we are lacking
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and we want to train or to cultivate

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And I really appreciated this 
question

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because both are true. There is
a kind of energy in mindfulness.

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that when we wake up to
for example our habits

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or the thoughts and feelings
that are coming up in us

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we may want right away
to do something, to change

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the situation, there's a kind
of dynamism. On the one

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hand we accept it totally
on the other hand we see

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the possibility for change.

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things are impermanent - we 
can effect things.

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So actually in Buddhism, the
spirit of training, cultivating

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is really, really important, and
i think that the one skill

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that I've really got better at
in the monastery because

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I was the nearer of the four
is how to suffer.

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And the immediate result of
learning how to suffer

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is that you are also actually
directly learning how to be happy

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because for me the obstacle for 
my happiness was my suffering

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and the compost in my suffering
has given me more joy.

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But it's really interesting, because
it's not that my suffering has

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neccesarily gone away,

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But that I've learned to be with it
differently.

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And this is something our teacher
said, to be aware of the misconception

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that we somehow might need to take
our suffering out of us

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put it down or take it out
that I've learned that the way

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I can be with it, because my
suffering is kind of real

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in some sense, because it's
felt, how can I be with it.

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And ye, for me what I've learned is
that my,

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my suffering is not something
kind of fixed, it's a bit more like

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a river. And this is really interesting
to kind of unpack a little bit.

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So when we talk about taking care
of our suffering. The mind is an

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embodied mind. So we're taking
care of our mind and we're taking

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care of our body at the same time.

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They're not two different things.

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This is really important.

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How we are living in our body,
how we are taking care of body

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how we're eating, acting, consuming

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has a direct link also to our 
suffering.

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And, our suffering may kind of
reflect, reflect the collective,

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And this is what I have kind of
discovered.

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That, my suffering has quite
a bit to do with the suffering

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of my family.

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LIke many of us I have a
strong seed of despair

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I also have another one of
fear and anxiety.

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I have another one that's a
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melancholy.

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And, when I've learned how to suffer
with them, I've learned not to

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see them as mine alone.

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But to see them as something
that belongs to a river of

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ancestors. And so when I'm taking
care of it, I'm taking care of it

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on behalf of my father, his father,
and grandfather and grandmother,

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and other grandfather, and other
grandmother.

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So I would like to give you this
image of our emotions being this

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river, kind of being fed by different
inputs, so that the lineage that

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comes from our ancestors and
somewhat in the body, and

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so from our childhood and our
nurturing, and there are also

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the inputs from our society.

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From kind of collective consciousness.

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And our way of consuming.

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So one of the interesting 
things about this week is that

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we have consumed a differend
kind of consciousness.

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I think the kind of screen 
consumption, has probably

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gone down by like 90%.

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We have been with a lot of 
non-violence, a lot of compassion

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and good will.

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A lot of presence rather than
distraction.

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We've had healthy good - very 
particular kinds of the day

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I don't know if this is normal for
you to have three healthy

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regular meals may be very 
new for our body and

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our body may be feeling
good aobut it.

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WE've had a different kind of 
experience about our own

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consciousness, because our 
own good seeds, have been

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triggered, while we've been here
they've been kind of activated.

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Each of us, our seed of compassion
our seed of stillness, our seed of joy

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in different ways.

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So what we have been kind of
immersing ourselves in

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is what Thay calls, community

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of resistence.

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WE have given ourselves the chance
to experience something difference

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this week, and to see how it feels.

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And all the insight that we've
had about our own, suffering

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our other's suffering, our families

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suffering, about different decisions
and choices, we have to make, is

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because we have given our 
consciousness, a really deep

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kind of bath, in a different
environment.

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So to recap something we were
learning this week, we were learning

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about the different kinds of fuel.