1 00:00:00,896 --> 00:00:02,600 Here's an intriguing fact. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,016 In the developed world, 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:10,200 everywhere, women live an average of six to eight years longer than men do. 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,136 Six to eight years longer. 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,040 That's, like, a huge gap. 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,696 In 2015, the "Lancet" published an article 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,176 showing that men in rich countries 8 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,176 are twice as likely to die as women are 9 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,400 at any age. 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,976 But there is one place in the world 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,920 where men live as long as women. 12 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:34,536 It's a remote, mountainous zone, 13 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:35,776 a blue zone, 14 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,296 where super longevity 15 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,120 is common to both sexes. 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,856 This is the blue zone in Sardinia, 17 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:43,896 an Italian island in the Mediterranean, 18 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,536 between Corsica and Tunisia, 19 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,936 where there are six times as many centenarians 20 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,856 as on the Italian mainland, 21 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,480 less than 200 miles away. 22 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:55,816 There are 10 times as many centenarians 23 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,640 as there are in North America. 24 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,560 It's the only place where men live as long as women. 25 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:02,456 But why? 26 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,120 My curiosity was piqued. 27 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:08,056 I decided to research the sights and the habits of the place, 28 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,496 and I started with the genetic profile. 29 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,576 I discovered soon enough 30 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:16,616 that genes account for just 25 percent of their longevity. 31 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,160 The other 75 percent is lifestyle. 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,760 So what does it take to live to 100 or beyond? 33 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,760 What are they doing right? 34 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,656 What you're looking at is an aerial view of Villagrande. 35 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,216 It's a village at the epicenter of the blue zone 36 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,376 where I went to investigate this, 37 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,120 and as you can see, architectural beauty is not its main virtue, 38 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,456 density is: 39 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,456 tightly spaced houses, 40 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,016 interwoven alleys and streets. 41 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,640 It means that the villagers' lives constantly intersect. 42 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,016 And as I walked through the village, 43 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,176 I could feel hundreds of pairs of eyes watching me 44 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,816 from behind doorways and curtains, 45 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:58,576 from behind shutters. 46 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,016 Because like all ancient villages, 47 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,616 Villagrande couldn't have survived 48 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,896 without this structure, without its walls, without its cathedral, 49 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,816 without its village square, 50 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:13,000 because defense and social cohesion defined its design. 51 00:02:13,920 --> 00:02:17,896 Urban priorities changed as we moved towards the industrial revolution 52 00:02:17,920 --> 00:02:20,776 because infectious disease became the risk of the day. 53 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,000 But what about now? 54 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:27,280 Now, social isolation is the public health risk of our time. 55 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,456 Now, a third of the population says 56 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,080 they have two or fewer people to lean on. 57 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,736 But let's go to Villagrande now as a contrast 58 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,816 to meet some centenarians. 59 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,736 Meet Giuseppe Marino. He's 102, a supercentenarian 60 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,816 and a lifelong resident of the village of Villagrande. 61 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,776 He was a gregarious man. 62 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,096 He loved to recount stories 63 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,776 such as how he lived like a bird 64 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,096 from what he could find on the forest floor 65 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,496 during not one but two world wars, 66 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,616 how he and his wife, who also lived past 100, 67 00:03:00,640 --> 00:03:03,976 raised six children in a small, homey kitchen 68 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,200 where I interviewed him. 69 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,576 Here he is with his sons Angelo and Domenico, 70 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,656 both in their 70s and looking after their father, 71 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,936 and who were quite frankly very suspicious of me and my daughter 72 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,696 who came along with me on this research trip, 73 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,536 because the flip side of social cohesion 74 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,376 is a wariness of strangers and outsiders. 75 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,296 But Giuseppe, he wasn't suspicious at all. 76 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,256 He was a happy-go-lucky guy, 77 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,936 very outgoing with a positive outlook. 78 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,496 And I wondered: so is that what it takes to live to be 100 or beyond, 79 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:39,720 thinking positively? 80 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,216 Actually, no. 81 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,800 (Laughter) 82 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,456 Meet Giovanni Coreas. He's 101, 83 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,496 the grumpiest person I have ever met. 84 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,016 (Laughter) 85 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,736 And he put a lie to the notion 86 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:00,320 that you have to be positive to live a long life. 87 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,136 And there is evidence for this. 88 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,696 When I asked him why he lived so long, 89 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:09,136 he kind of looked at me under hooded eyelids and he growled, 90 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,296 "Nobody has to know my secrets." 91 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,536 (Laughter) 92 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,776 But despite being a sourpuss, 93 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,136 the niece who lived with him and looked after him 94 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,720 called him "Il Tesoro," "my treasure." 95 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:24,536 And she respected him and loved him, 96 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:28,240 and she told me, when I questioned this obvious loss of her freedom, 97 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,256 "You just don't understand, do you? 98 00:04:31,280 --> 00:04:33,976 Looking after this man is a pleasure. 99 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,976 It's a huge privilege for me. 100 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,320 This is my heritage." 101 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,696 And indeed, wherever I went to interview these centenarians, 102 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,000 I found a kitchen party. 103 00:04:43,461 --> 00:04:45,176 Here's Giovanni with his two nieces, 104 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,416 Maria above him 105 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,376 and beside him his great-niece Sara, 106 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,176 who came when I was there to bring fresh fruits and vegetables. 107 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,496 And I quickly discovered by being there 108 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,776 that in the blue zone, as people age, 109 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,256 and indeed across their lifespans, 110 00:05:00,280 --> 00:05:04,376 they're always surrounded by extended family, by friends, 111 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,696 by neighbors, the priest, the barkeeper, the grocer. 112 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:10,016 People are always there or dropping by. 113 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,160 They are never left to live solitary lives. 114 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:16,296 This is unlike the rest of the developed world, 115 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:17,776 where as George Burns quipped, 116 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,840 "Happiness is having a large, loving, caring family in another city." 117 00:05:22,280 --> 00:05:23,976 (Laughter) 118 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,416 Now, so far we've only met men, 119 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,536 long-living men, but I met women too, 120 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,160 and here you see Tzia Teresa. 121 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:36,056 She, at over 100, taught me how to make the local specialty, 122 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,736 which is called culorjones, 123 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,536 which are these large pasta pockets 124 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,720 like ravioli about this size, 125 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:44,656 this size, 126 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,216 and they're filled with high-fat ricotta and mint 127 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,016 and drenched in tomato sauce. 128 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,280 And she showed me how to make just the right crimp 129 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,776 so they wouldn't open, 130 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,816 and she makes them with her daughters every Sunday 131 00:05:57,840 --> 00:06:00,800 and distributes them by the dozens to neighbors and friends. 132 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,656 And that's when I discovered a low-fat, gluten-free diet 133 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,296 is not what it takes to live to 100 in the blue zone. 134 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,576 (Applause) 135 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:15,216 Now, these centenarians' stories along with the science that underpins them 136 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,056 prompted me to ask myself some questions too, 137 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:21,720 such as, when am I going to die and how can I put that day off? 138 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:26,040 And as you will see, the answer is not what we expect. 139 00:06:26,840 --> 00:06:30,736 Julianne Holt-Lunstad is a researcher at Brigham Young University 140 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,656 and she addressed this very question 141 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,176 in a series of studies 142 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,096 of tens of thousands of middle aged people 143 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,256 much like this audience here. 144 00:06:39,280 --> 00:06:42,216 And she looked at every aspect of their lifestyle: 145 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,376 their diet, their exercise, 146 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:45,896 their marital status, 147 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,576 how often they went to the doctor, 148 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,096 whether they smoked or drank, etc. 149 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,336 She recorded all of this 150 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,936 and then she and her colleagues sat tight and waited for seven years 151 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,680 to see who would still be breathing. 152 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,880 And of the people left standing, 153 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,880 what reduced their chances of dying the most? 154 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,056 That was her question. 155 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,616 So let's now look at her data in summary, 156 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:16,376 going from the least powerful predictor to the strongest. 157 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:17,616 OK? 158 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,896 So clean air, which is great, 159 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:21,960 it doesn't predict how long you will live. 160 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,736 Whether you have your hypertension treated 161 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,096 is good. 162 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:28,896 Still not a strong predictor. 163 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,416 Whether you're lean or overweight, you can stop feeling guilty about this, 164 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,816 because it's only in third place. 165 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,336 How much exercise you get is next, 166 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,696 still only a moderate predictor. 167 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:44,456 Whether you've had a cardiac event and you're in rehab and exercising, 168 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,016 getting higher now. 169 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:47,656 Whether you've had a flu vaccine. 170 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:48,936 Did anybody here know 171 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,760 that having a flu vaccine protects you more than doing exercise? 172 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,216 Whether you were drinking and quit, 173 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,216 or whether you're a moderate drinker, 174 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,720 whether you don't smoke, or if you did, whether you quit, 175 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:07,176 and getting towards the top predictors 176 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,736 are two features of your social life. 177 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,136 First, your close relationships. 178 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:17,456 These are the people that you can call on for a loan 179 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,096 if you need money suddenly, 180 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,696 who will call the doctor if you're not feeling well 181 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,536 or who will take you to the hospital, 182 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:29,376 or who will sit with you if you're having an existential crisis, 183 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,376 if you're in despair. 184 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,015 Those people, that little clutch of people 185 00:08:34,039 --> 00:08:37,576 are a strong predictor, if you have them, of how long you'll live. 186 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,936 And then something that surprised me, 187 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,576 something that's called social integration. 188 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:46,656 This means how much you interact with people 189 00:08:46,680 --> 00:08:48,080 as you move through your day. 190 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,856 How many people do you talk to? 191 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,456 And these mean both your weak and your strong bonds, 192 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,976 so not just the people you're really close to, 193 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,376 who mean a lot to you, 194 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:02,936 but, like, do you talk to the guy who every day makes you your coffee? 195 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:04,736 Do you talk to the postman? 196 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,216 Do you talk to the woman who walks by your house every day with her dog? 197 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,216 Do you play bridge or poker, have a book club? 198 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,416 Those interactions are one of the strongest predictors 199 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:15,776 of how long you'll live. 200 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,760 Now, this leads me to the next question: 201 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:24,256 if we now spend more time online than on any other activity, 202 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:25,936 including sleeping, 203 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,136 we're now up to 11 hours a day, 204 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,656 one hour more than last year, by the way, 205 00:09:30,680 --> 00:09:32,496 does it make a difference? 206 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:36,536 Why distinguish between interacting in person 207 00:09:36,560 --> 00:09:38,776 and interacting via social media? 208 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,656 Is it the same thing as being there 209 00:09:41,680 --> 00:09:45,360 if you're in contact constantly with your kids through text, for example? 210 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,336 Well, the short answer to the question is no, 211 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,016 it's not the same thing. 212 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:54,856 Face-to-face contact releases a whole cascade of neurotransmitters, 213 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,176 and like a vaccine, they protect you now in the present 214 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,056 and well into the future. 215 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,600 So simply making eye contact with somebody, 216 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,176 shaking hands, giving somebody a high-five 217 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,256 is enough to release oxytocin, 218 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,496 which increases your level of trust 219 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,360 and it lowers your cortisol levels. 220 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:14,760 So it lowers your stress. 221 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,256 And dopamine is generated, which gives us a little high 222 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,496 and it kills pain. 223 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,440 It's like a naturally produced morphine. 224 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,856 Now, all of this passes under our conscious radar, 225 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:29,560 which is why we conflate online activity with the real thing. 226 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,536 But we do have evidence now, fresh evidence, 227 00:10:32,560 --> 00:10:33,896 that there is a difference. 228 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:35,976 So let's look at some of the neuroscience. 229 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:39,296 Elizabeth Redcay, a neuroscientist at the University of Maryland, 230 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,136 tried to map the difference 231 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,816 between what goes on in our brains when we interact in person 232 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,056 versus when we're watching something that's static. 233 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,509 And what she did was she compared the brain function 234 00:10:50,533 --> 00:10:52,576 of two groups of people, 235 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,896 those interacting live with her 236 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,056 or with one of her research associates 237 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,256 in a dynamic conversation, 238 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,776 and she compared that to the brain activity of people 239 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:06,536 who were watching her talk about the same subject 240 00:11:06,560 --> 00:11:09,040 but in a canned video, like on YouTube. 241 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,576 And by the way, if you want to know 242 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,416 how she fit two people in an MRI scanner at the same time, 243 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:15,640 talk to me later. 244 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,760 So what's the difference? 245 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,000 This is your brain on real social interaction. 246 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,736 What you're seeing is the difference in brain activity 247 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:30,896 between interacting in person and taking in static content. 248 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:35,896 In orange, you see the brain areas that are associated with attention, 249 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:37,136 social intelligence -- 250 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,736 that means anticipating what somebody else is thinking 251 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,496 and feeling and planning -- 252 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,056 and emotional reward. 253 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,856 And these areas become much more engaged 254 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,160 when we're interacting with a live partner. 255 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,816 Now, these richer brain signatures 256 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,896 might be why recruiters from Fortune 500 companies 257 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:58,856 evaluating candidates 258 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,656 thought that the candidates were smarter 259 00:12:01,680 --> 00:12:03,160 when they heard their voices 260 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:07,416 compared to when they just read their pitches in a text, for example, 261 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:08,856 or an email or a letter. 262 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,656 Now, our voices and body language convey a rich signal. 263 00:12:11,680 --> 00:12:13,696 It shows that we're thinking, feeling, 264 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,376 sentient human beings 265 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,896 who are much more than an algorithm. 266 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,976 Now, this research by Nicholas Epley 267 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,280 at the University of Chicago Business School 268 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,120 is quite amazing because it tells us a simple thing. 269 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,816 If somebody hears your voice, 270 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,160 they think you're smarter. 271 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,920 I mean, that's quite a simple thing. 272 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,240 Now, to return to the beginning, 273 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,936 why do women live longer than men? 274 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:42,296 And one major reason is that women are more likely 275 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:45,696 to prioritize and groom their face-to-face relationships 276 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,376 over their lifespans. 277 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,056 Fresh evidence shows 278 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,776 that these in-person friendships 279 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,776 create a biological force field against disease and decline. 280 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,976 And it's not just true of humans 281 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:00,376 but their primate relations, our primate relations as well. 282 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:04,056 Anthropologist Joan Silk's work shows that female baboons 283 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,976 who have a core of female friends 284 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,576 show lower levels of stress via their cortisol levels, 285 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,080 they live longer and they have more surviving offspring. 286 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,016 At least three stable relationships. 287 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,536 That was the magic number. 288 00:13:18,560 --> 00:13:19,776 Think about it. 289 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,086 I hope you guys have three. 290 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,720 The power of such face-to-face contact 291 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,296 is really why there are the lowest rates of dementia 292 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:32,136 among people who are socially engaged. 293 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:33,976 It's why women who have breast cancer 294 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:39,296 are four times more likely to survive their disease than loners are. 295 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:43,296 Why men who've had a stroke who meet regularly to play poker 296 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:44,976 or to have coffee 297 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,256 or to play old-timer's hockey -- 298 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:48,576 I'm Canadian, after all -- 299 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,736 (Laughter) 300 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,256 are better protected by that social contact 301 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,296 than they are by medication. 302 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,416 Why men who've had a stroke who meet regularly -- 303 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,896 this is something very powerful they can do. 304 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:03,616 This face-to-face contact provides stunning benefits, 305 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:08,120 yet now almost a quarter of the population says they have no one to talk to. 306 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,496 We can do something about this. 307 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,296 Like Sardinian villagers, 308 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:17,016 it's a biological imperative to know we belong, 309 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,056 and not just the women among us. 310 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:23,216 Building in-person interaction into our cities, into our workplaces, 311 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:24,720 into our agendas 312 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,296 bolsters the immune system, 313 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:31,336 sends feel-good hormones surging through the bloodstream and brain 314 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:32,960 and helps us live longer. 315 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,496 I call this building your village, 316 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,120 and building it and sustaining it is a matter of life and death. 317 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:41,976 Thank you. 318 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,680 (Applause) 319 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,896 Moderator: Susan, come back. I have a question for you. 320 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:52,816 I'm wondering if there's a middle path. 321 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,256 So you talk about the neurotransmitters connecting when in face-to-face, 322 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,936 but what about digital technology? 323 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,536 We've seen enormous improvements in digital technology 324 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,016 like FaceTime, things like that. 325 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:04,296 Does that work too? 326 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:05,576 I mean, I see my nephew. 327 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,016 He plays Minecraft and he's yelling at his friends. 328 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,056 It seems like he's connecting pretty well. 329 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,856 Is that useful? Is that helpful? 330 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,216 Susan Pinker: Some of the data are just emerging. 331 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:17,216 The data are so fresh that the digital revolution happened 332 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,976 and the health data trailed behind. 333 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,376 So we're just learning, 334 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,416 but I would say there are some improvements 335 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,256 that we could make in the technology. 336 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,736 For example, the camera on your laptop is at the top of the screen, 337 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,816 so for example, when you're looking into the screen, 338 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,736 you're not actually making eye contact. 339 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,936 So something as simple as even just looking into the camera 340 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,216 can increase those neurotransmitters, 341 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,816 or maybe changing the position of the camera. 342 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,536 So it's not identical, but I think we are getting closer with the technology. 343 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,296 Moderator: Great. Thank you so much. 344 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:48,536 SP: Thank you. 345 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:49,710 (Applause)