[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.11,0:00:23.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.72,0:00:38.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Dutch)\NWhy is my brother so annoying? Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.67,0:00:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(English)\NWhy is my brother always\Nso nasty towards me? Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.34,0:00:49.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.46,0:00:57.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is a good question! Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.64,0:00:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Loud laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.94,0:01:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why is my brother always nasty to me? Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.25,0:01:08.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before answering, Thây would like\Nto ask you a question. Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.80,0:01:12.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you nasty to your brother? Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.08,0:01:13.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.60,0:01:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes? Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.42,0:01:20.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.72,0:01:22.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Loud laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.89,0:01:24.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you sure? Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.44,0:01:25.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.93,0:01:28.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you sure?\NThat is another question. Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.41,0:01:29.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.01,0:01:36.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe that when we are\Nfresh, smiling, lovable Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.13,0:01:38.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people will not be nasty to us. Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.02,0:01:41.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you agree? Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.89,0:01:51.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we are fresh, smiling, kind, lovely,\Npeople will not be nasty to us. Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.72,0:01:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In any case... Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.59,0:02:02.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is what usually happens. Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.35,0:02:07.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is very difficult for someone\Nto be nasty to us Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.87,0:02:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we are so lovable\Nand fresh and loving. Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.32,0:02:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then when you are fresh and lovable,\Nyou can help the guy to be less nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.10,0:02:27.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.60,0:02:32.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can help a fellow to be less nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.16,0:02:45.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is something we can say. Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.87,0:02:51.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we are fresh, when we are loving,\Nwhen we are pleasant, Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.79,0:02:55.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can help another\Nperson not to be nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.76,0:03:00.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then... Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.34,0:03:09.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can do more. Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.84,0:03:16.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Someone who is nasty, Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.00,0:03:22.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is someone who is not very happy. Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.75,0:03:25.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you are happy, you are not nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.86,0:03:34.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we can look to see what\Nmakes that person unhappy and nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.98,0:03:37.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is meditation. Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.38,0:03:42.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Meditation is to look\Nand ask the question: Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.07,0:03:47.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why is that fellow nasty?\NWhy is that fellow unhappy?" Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.56,0:03:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We ask the question. Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.38,0:03:55.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we try to look deeply\Nto find the answer. Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.42,0:03:58.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There must be a reason. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.46,0:04:01.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is meditation. Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.19,0:04:06.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Meditation is to have the time\Nto look and to listen Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.52,0:04:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to see why someone is not happy,\Nwhy he is always nasty. Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.02,0:04:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we come to Plum Village,\Nwe learn that. Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.23,0:04:24.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We learn to sit quietly and to look\Nto see why a person is nasty, Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.09,0:04:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why a person is not kind,\Nwhy a person is unhappy. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.18,0:04:33.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we will find the answer. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.76,0:04:39.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we have found the truth,\Nwe may do something Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.44,0:04:43.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or say something to\Nhelp him or her suffer less. Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.05,0:04:48.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that person will not be nasty anymore. Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.68,0:04:50.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the practice. Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.14,0:04:55.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what we try to learn\Nwhen we come to Plum Village. Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.69,0:04:58.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come again next year. Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.27,0:04:59.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.70,0:05:01.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And learn more about this. Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.50,0:05:03.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is very important! Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.84,0:05:07.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And not only children can learn that,\Nbut adults can learn that also. Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.92,0:05:11.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you for asking this\Nvery interesting question. Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.98,0:05:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you think that is a good answer? Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.71,0:05:21.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.68,0:05:23.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or is it not good enough? Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.03,0:05:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)