[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sangat Ji, today I am going to tell you about my mother. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is also your mother. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am going to speak about Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is the mother, the spiritual mother of Khalsa Panth. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji from a very, very young age, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she has been devoted to Sikhi and to Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no one could understand why. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From a very young age, \Nshe could memorise Japji Sahib, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she started doing a lot of Simran and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,starting memorising countless other teachings as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she would always speak about \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she would always dream about\NGuru Gobind Singh Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time even came, such, where the villagers \Nin her village started calling her Mata Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because at a very young age \Nshe portrayed those virtues, those attributes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that a young woman, that a lady,\Na Mata Ji would have. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So with respect they started calling \Nher Mata Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Mata Sahib Deva Ji when \Nshe came of age to get married, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she told her parents\NI will only get married to Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even her parent say that\Nfor someone like Mata Sahib Deva Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is no one else but Guru Gobind Singh Ji \Nwho could get married to her, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or who is compatible to her as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because as a woman, her wishes, her desires\Nare not of the worldly ones, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but of the spiritual ones. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there is no man here \Nwho could be compatible to her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So her parents went to Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and did Benti that please take \Nmy daughter's hand in marriage Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get married to her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But at that point Guru Gobind Singh Ji \Nsay that I am already married Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and now I have become Brahamchari,\Nwhere I have renounced all the physical relationship Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of a household and now I am only \Nfocused on the panthic matters. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I can't get married to your daughter. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji parents say that\Nshe only thinks about You, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she only looks up to You and \Nshe will not get married to anyone else but You. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At that point, Mata Sahib Deva Ji stood up and\Nshe does Benti, she says that Sache Paatshaah Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a wife I will not demand anything from You,\Nall I want is to be able to do your Seva Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I can do that if I am in your palace,\Nif I am near You I can do that Seva of You. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Guru Gobind Singh Ji said \Nthat I have a few conditions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you want to get married to me. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first condition is that we are not \Ngoing to be taking part in any physical relationship Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a husband and wife and with that \Nwe will not bear any children as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, \Nshe said Sat Bachan. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in her mind, all she wanted was \Nto do Seva of her husband Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was to do Seva of Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sundri Ji was also there\Npresent in the palace of Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Gujri Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Deva Ji, she loved Mata Sundri Ji\Njust like her own sister. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both of them had that sisterly love \Nbetween each other. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And both of them loved Mata Gujri Ji \Njust like their own mother, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was no difference between the 3 of them. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji, she had so much love \Nfor the Chaar Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was her responsibility to get them ready \Nevery morning. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji would put small small Kalgia \Non the Dastar of the Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially Baba Fateh Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she would be so happy to \Nsee the Chaar Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was like as if these 4 are her own children,\Nthat's how she loved them and took care of them. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These peaceful times were only \Nshort-lasting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the whole Parvaar they got separated \Nin Sirsa River. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji's routine \Nwas that she would not have her food Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she would not have her breakfast \Nher meal of the day Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until she had the Dashan of \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is one condition of Mata Sahib Deva Ji as well\Nwhich she put forward to Guru Gobind Singh Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she said that I know You are busy with\NYour daily routine, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of meeting the Khalsa Panth, \Nof strategising for war against the enemies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all that, but this is my humble Benti. \NThat please come to me daily Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have your meal so that \NI can have your Darshan. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And only then I will have my meal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Gobind Singh Ji, knowing this Iccha \Nof Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Sahib knew how much love\NMata Sahib Kaur Ji had for Them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they agreed to this condition. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And daily Guru Gobind Singh Ji would come\Nand have meal with Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eat the food that she made and \Ngave her Darshan. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was not possible when the \Nseparation of the family happened Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji and a few \NGursikhs such as Bhai Mani Singh Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,went towards Delhi. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Sangat Ji, this is a point Sangat Ji. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can see how the role of the woman \Nchanges from just practising Sikhi in a family Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just like Bebe Nanaki Ji, Mata Khivi Ji then came \Nforward and started serving her community. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we can see like Bibi Bhani Ji has \Nnow started doing Seva in other communities as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Started going out there to different villages \Nand started doing Seva and doing Parchaar. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now we'll see when the time came to Mata Sahib\NKaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji they have gone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,completely to a different state and now \Nthey are taking up the role that a man would take. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Such as the economical aspect, the political aspect\Nof Panthic matters. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji took care of all \Nthese matters for the Khalsa Panth in Delhi. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because they knew that war was coming\Nand normally with war there's always chaos Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attached to it as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it was in the hands of Mata Sahib Kaur Ji \Nand Mata Sundri Ji, both together sisters, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ensure that there was peace and Sikhi \NParchaar was still continuing in Delhi as well.