[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.19,0:00:19.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sangat Ji, today I am going to tell you about my mother. Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.68,0:00:22.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is also your mother. Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.11,0:00:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am going to speak about Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.44,0:00:28.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is the mother, the spiritual mother of Khalsa Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.61,0:00:32.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji from a very, very young age, Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.04,0:00:36.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she has been devoted to Sikhi and to Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.38,0:00:38.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no one could understand why. Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.51,0:00:42.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From a very young age, \Nshe could memorise Japji Sahib, Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.51,0:00:45.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she started doing a lot of Simran and Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.18,0:00:47.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,starting memorising countless other teachings as well. Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.89,0:00:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she would always speak about \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.26,0:00:54.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she would always dream about\NGuru Gobind Singh Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.26,0:01:02.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time even came, such, where the villagers \Nin her village started calling her Mata Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.01,0:01:07.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because at a very young age \Nshe portrayed those virtues, those attributes Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.50,0:01:11.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that a young woman, that a lady,\Na Mata Ji would have. Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.95,0:01:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So with respect they started calling \Nher Mata Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.77,0:01:18.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Mata Sahib Deva Ji when \Nshe came of age to get married, Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.86,0:01:22.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she told her parents\NI will only get married to Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.93,0:01:27.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even her parents say that\Nfor someone like Mata Sahib Deva Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.43,0:01:31.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is no one else but Guru Gobind Singh Ji \Nwho could get married to her, Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.73,0:01:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or who is compatible to her as well. Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.78,0:01:38.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because as a woman, her wishes, her desires\Nare not of the worldly ones, Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.47,0:01:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but of the spiritual ones. Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.78,0:01:44.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there is no man here \Nwho could be compatible to her. Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.59,0:01:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.44,0:01:49.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So her parents went to Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.52,0:01:53.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and did Benti that please take \Nmy daughter's hand in marriage Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.06,0:01:54.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get married to her. Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.51,0:01:57.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But at that point Guru Gobind Singh Ji \Nsay that I am already married Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.66,0:02:03.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and now I have become Brahamchari,\Nwhere I have renounced all the physical relationship Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.47,0:02:07.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of a household and now I am only \Nfocused on the panthic matters. Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.65,0:02:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I can't get married to your daughter. Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.27,0:02:15.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji parents say that\Nshe only thinks about You, Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.37,0:02:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she only looks up to You and \Nshe will not get married to anyone else but You. Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.96,0:02:24.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At that point, Mata Sahib Deva Ji stood up and\Nshe does Benti, she says that Sache Paatshaah Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.26,0:02:31.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a wife I will not demand anything from You,\Nall I want is to be able to do your Seva Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.34,0:02:37.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I can do that if I am in your palace,\Nif I am near You I can do that Seva of You. Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.84,0:02:42.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Guru Gobind Singh Ji said \Nthat I have a few conditions Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.03,0:02:43.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you want to get married to me. Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.67,0:02:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first condition is that we are not \Ngoing to be taking part in any physical relationship Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.78,0:02:55.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a husband and wife and with that \Nwe will not bear any children as well. Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.92,0:03:00.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, \Nshe said Sat Bachan. Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.10,0:03:04.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in her mind, all she wanted was \Nto do Seva of her husband Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.40,0:03:06.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was to do Seva of Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.36,0:03:11.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sundri Ji was also there\Npresent in the palace of Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.30,0:03:12.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Gujri Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.80,0:03:18.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Deva Ji, she loved Mata Sundri Ji\Njust like her own sister. Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.22,0:03:21.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both of them had that sisterly love \Nbetween each other. Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.92,0:03:25.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And both of them loved Mata Gujri Ji \Njust like their own mother, Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.89,0:03:28.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was no difference between the 3 of them. Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.09,0:03:33.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Deva Ji, she had so much love \Nfor the Chaar Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.81,0:03:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was her responsibility to get them ready \Nevery morning. Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.41,0:03:44.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji would put small small Kalgia \Non the Dastar of the Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.07,0:03:46.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially Baba Fateh Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.47,0:03:49.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she would be so happy to \Nsee the Chaar Sahibzaade, Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.76,0:03:55.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was like as if these 4 are her own children,\Nthat's how she loved them and took care of them. Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.02,0:03:58.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These peaceful times were only \Nshort-lasting. Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.58,0:04:04.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the whole Parvaar they got separated \Nin Sirsa River. Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.31,0:04:13.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji's Nem, her routine \Nwas that she would not have her food Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.13,0:04:17.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she would not have her breakfast \Nher meal of the day Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.61,0:04:20.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until she had the Dashan of \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.80,0:04:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is one condition of Mata Sahib Deva Ji as well\Nwhich she put forward to Guru Gobind Singh Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.88,0:04:30.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she said that I know You are busy with\NYour daily routine, Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.94,0:04:36.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of meeting the Khalsa Panth, \Nof strategising for war against the enemies Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.99,0:04:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all that, but this is my humble Benti. \NThat please come to me daily Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.36,0:04:44.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have your meal so that \NI can have your Darshan. Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.43,0:04:46.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And only then I will have my meal. Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.71,0:04:51.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Gobind Singh Ji, knowing this Iccha \Nof Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.26,0:04:55.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Sahib knew how much love\NMata Sahib Kaur Ji had for Them Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.99,0:04:58.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they agreed to this condition. Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.94,0:05:03.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And daily Guru Gobind Singh Ji would come\Nand have meal with Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.66,0:05:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eat the food that she made and \Ngave her Darshan. Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.60,0:05:11.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was not possible when the \Nseparation of the family happened Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.77,0:05:17.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji and a few \NGursikhs such as Bhai Mani Singh Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.08,0:05:18.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,went towards Delhi. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.68,0:05:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Sangat Ji, this is a point Sangat Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.66,0:05:29.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can see how the role of the woman \Nchanges from just practising Sikhi in a family Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.43,0:05:36.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just like Bebe Nanaki Ji, Mata Khivi Ji then came \Nforward and started serving her community. Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.08,0:05:42.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we can see like Bibi Bhani Ji has \Nnow started doing Seva in other communities as well. Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.90,0:05:47.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Started going out there to different villages \Nand started doing Seva and doing Parchaar. Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.24,0:05:53.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now we'll see when the time came to Mata Sahib\NKaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji they have gone Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.28,0:05:59.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,completely to a different state and now \Nthey are taking up the role that a man would take. Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.97,0:06:05.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Such as the economical aspect, the political aspect\Nof Panthic matters. Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.09,0:06:11.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Mata Sundri Ji took care of all \Nthese matters for the Khalsa Panth in Delhi. Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.26,0:06:19.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because they knew that war was coming\Nand normally with war there's always chaos Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.31,0:06:20.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attached to it as well. Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.81,0:06:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it was in the hands of Mata Sahib Kaur Ji \Nand Mata Sundri Ji, both together sisters, Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.08,0:06:31.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ensure that there was peace and Sikhi \NParchaar was still continuing in Delhi as well. Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.51,0:06:35.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the time came when they found out that Guru Gobind Singh Ji Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.02,0:06:42.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is in Damdama Sahib and They are writing \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.19,0:06:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they are doing Santhiya there \Nfor 9 months. Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.13,0:06:48.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sundri Ji and Mata Sahib Deva Ji,\Nthey go to Damdama Sahib Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.87,0:06:50.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have Darshan of Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.57,0:06:54.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They spend time there and\Nthey did darshan of Guru Maharaj, Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.44,0:06:56.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they did Seva of Guru Maharaj as well. Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.41,0:07:01.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, as the mother of the \NKhalsa Panth, also served the Khalsa - Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.89,0:07:03.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her children, the Sikhs. Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.48,0:07:07.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She would take care of their needs,\Nof their daily needs: Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.36,0:07:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,food, medication, anything else, money. Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.54,0:07:14.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then Guru Gobind Singh Ji decided that They \Nwere going to go to Hazoor Sahib. Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.27,0:07:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At that point, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji did Benti \Nthat I cannot be separated from You any longer. Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.58,0:07:22.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please keep me with You. Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.40,0:07:26.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sundri Ji then say, I will go back to Delhi Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.28,0:07:31.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Sahib Kaur Ji stayed on with \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji in Hazoor Sahib. Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.30,0:07:36.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at the Asthaan of Mata Sahib Kaur Ji\Nthe Sikhs, the Khalsa Panth would come Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.13,0:07:38.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have langar made by her. Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.93,0:07:42.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they would come to Mata Sahib Kaur Ji\Nwhenever they needed anything, Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.60,0:07:46.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,medication, they need help, they need advice, \Nthey need money Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.22,0:07:49.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they would come to Mata Sahib Kaur Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.64,0:07:51.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.48,0:07:55.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were preparing for the day \Nwhere They would leave this world. Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.14,0:08:02.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And They knew that Mata Sahib Kaur Ji \Nhad so much love for Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj. Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.76,0:08:11.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Mata Sahib Kaur Ji's life was such\Nthat she would sacrifice her life for Me Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.95,0:08:15.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if, after I'm gone, she would have no purpose. Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.54,0:08:21.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Gobind Singh Ji calls Mata Sahib Kaur Ji\Nand tells her, gives her the Hukam Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.69,0:08:26.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she is to go back to Delhi\Nto help Mata Sundri Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.58,0:08:29.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To serve the Khalsa Panth there. Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.34,0:08:34.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that Guru Gobind Singh Ji does not want\Nher to be here when He leaves this world. Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.64,0:08:40.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, she wouldn't be able to\Nbear the pain of separation because Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.31,0:08:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is so in love with Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.66,0:08:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like how Guru Angad Dev Ji was so in love \Nwith Guru Nanak Dev Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.16,0:08:50.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Nanak Dev Ji also told Guru Angad Dev Ji\Nto leave Kartarpur Sahib, Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.65,0:08:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go to Khadur Sahib, so that They would not have\Nto see the day when Guru Nanak Dev Ji Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.50,0:08:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leaves this world. Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.46,0:09:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The same was for Mata Sahib Kaur Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.40,0:09:04.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Kaur Ji says that \NI can't live without having Your darshan. Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.57,0:09:22.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at that point, Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj\Ngave Mata Sahib Kaur Ji five Shastar Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.43,0:09:29.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and told her that have my darshan daily \Nby looking at these shastar. Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.79,0:09:32.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From these shastar I will give you My darshan Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.71,0:09:33.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then you can have your meal. Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.56,0:09:39.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And not only that, but Guru Gobind Singh Ji also\Ntold Mata Sahib Kaur ji, Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.22,0:09:44.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it is her responsibility to bring up young\NJassa Singh Ahluwalia and to bring him Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.93,0:09:50.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,along with her to Delhi. Take care of him.\NGive him that Vidhiya, that Sikhi Vidhiya Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.41,0:09:53.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Shastar Vidhiya to Jassa Singh Ahluwalia, Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.18,0:09:56.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that when he grows up he can serve \Nthe Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.60,0:09:59.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's exactly what Mata Sahib Kaur Ji did. Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.22,0:10:02.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Delhi, Mata Sahib Kaur Ji \Nhelped Mata Sundri Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.50,0:10:09.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They would address panthic issues,\Nthey would give out Hukamnaame to the sangat Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.55,0:10:12.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in Punjab, in Delhi and in other states as well. Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.90,0:10:21.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They would put Gursikhs to do seva and \Nthey actually made a fortress that was given to them Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.21,0:10:25.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into a Dharamsala. In the Dharamsala they \Nstarted doing Langar. Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.29,0:10:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They started asking the Sikhs in Delhi to give Dasvand. Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.77,0:10:39.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when they found out that \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji has left for sachkhand Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.06,0:10:45.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that They have given the Gurgaddi to Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj. Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.21,0:10:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now imagine sagat ji, a kingdom without a king\Nwill become chaotic Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.70,0:10:57.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and those people who know about the Gurgaddi of \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.07,0:10:59.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in Hazoor Sahib with Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.19,0:11:03.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When the Hukamaama, when the letter \Nwas sent to the mothers in Delhi, Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.92,0:11:07.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that now the Gurgaddi is given to \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj, Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.24,0:11:15.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mothers Mata Sahib Kaur Ji and Mata Sundri Ji,\Nthey took it upon themselves Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.33,0:11:18.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to spread, to do this Parchaar that Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.43,0:11:24.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They started doing Paatth of \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.84,0:11:30.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that Gursikhs, they would not lose hope\Nthat now Guru Sahib is not here anymore. Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.53,0:11:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because it was a transition sangat ji\Nfrom a physical Guru to Granth Guru, Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.00,0:11:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was a transition and it was not perhaps \Nan easy one as well. Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.23,0:11:47.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that faith had to be instilled in the Sikhs,\Nthat now your Guru is Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.48,0:11:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.62,0:11:51.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have faith in Guru Granth Sahib Ji, \Nbecause it is the Bachan Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.63,0:11:53.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Guru Gobind Singh Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.42,0:11:57.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the Rehitnaame as well Guru Gobind Singh Ji\Nsays that if you want to have My darshan Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.64,0:11:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have darshan of Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.99,0:12:02.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to speak to Me, \Nread Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.69,0:12:06.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to listen to Me, listen to My voice,\Nlisten to My words, Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.75,0:12:11.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,listen to the Hukamnama of Guru Granth Sahib Ji \Nand that will be Me speaking to you. Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.74,0:12:14.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the mothers did this parchaar in Delhi Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.82,0:12:18.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they also ensured that the Sikhs would \Nnot lose hope, Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.84,0:12:20.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Sikh will not stop doing seva. Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.94,0:12:25.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji sent out nine Hukamnaame,\Nthat now we can find. Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.27,0:12:26.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We still have these Hukamnaame. Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.83,0:12:37.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where in each letter, in each Hukamnaama,\NMata Sahib Kaur Ji addressed the Khalsa Panth Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.39,0:12:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as her Frarsand Puttar, Farsand Puttar here meaning\Nhere beloved children, her brave children, Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.74,0:12:52.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her brave sons, her good children, good sons. Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.25,0:12:58.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She will address the Khalsa Panth that way\Nand that in that same Hukamnaame Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.16,0:13:03.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every Hukamnaama you can see the same bachan\Nof Mata Sahib Kaur Ji which is Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.06,0:13:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that do not forget to do Simran of Vaheguru \Nand this should be your purpose of life. Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.34,0:13:23.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To do Simran of Vaheguru, so that your life\Nbecomes fruitful. Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.20,0:13:24.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does not go to waste. Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.74,0:13:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The same bachan we can find in \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji as well. Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.28,0:13:32.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By Guru Arjan Dev Ji Maharaj, \Nwhen they were going to Lahore Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.50,0:13:36.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bibi Bhani Ji does the same bachan\Nto Guru Arjan Dev Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.48,0:13:37.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They say Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.65,0:13:46.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That this is an Aseesa a mother would\Ngive to the child, Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.08,0:13:48.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that do not forget Vaheguru for even an instant. Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.11,0:13:55.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now sangat ji let me ask you,\NMata Sahib Kaur Ji is our spiritual mother, Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.29,0:14:02.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mother of Khalsa Panth, all of us Sikhniaa \Nwe are also going to be a mother some day, Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.85,0:14:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,many of us are already a mother. Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.10,0:14:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I ask you what aseesa do we give to our children? Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.04,0:14:17.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is the aseesa like how Mata Sahib Kaur Ji gave to her\NGursikhs, children, to Khalsa Panth - to do Simran? Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.68,0:14:23.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is the aseesa like how Bibi Bhani Ji gave to \NGuru Arjan Dev Ji? Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.18,0:14:31.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What aseesa do we give to our children? Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.18,0:14:33.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What advice do we give to our children? Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.13,0:14:35.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is something we need to ponder on. Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.43,0:14:41.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, in her Hukamnaame she would\Nrefer to the Khalsa Panth as Farsand Puttar Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.05,0:14:42.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she would say Dialogue: 0,0:14:47.00,0:14:54.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That don't forget the Guru and the Guru will \Nfulfils all your desires and help you in all your affairs. Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.65,0:14:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then the third bachan that Mata Sahib Kaur Ji \Nwould write in her Hukamnaame Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.83,0:15:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that give your dasvand, put your dasvand \Ninto the langar. Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.80,0:15:12.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Start doing langar wherever you are,\Ndo not stop langar. Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.79,0:15:18.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if some Gursikhs in those village, \Nthey would write a letter Dialogue: 0,0:15:18.35,0:15:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we do not have a well in our village. Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.42,0:15:25.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in order for langar to go on there must\Nbe a permanent source of water. Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.36,0:15:28.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And some villages would not have a well. Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.09,0:15:34.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then Mata Sahib Kaur Ji would send Gursikhs \Nfrom Delhi to build a well in those villages. Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.42,0:15:37.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then send in a Hukamnaama that a well \Nis being built, Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.84,0:15:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,build a well and start doing langar seva. Dialogue: 0,0:15:40.02,0:15:44.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Collect dasvand and don't ever for one day \Nstop langar. Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.89,0:15:48.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those were the bachan of Mata Sahib Kaur Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.18,0:15:54.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even now sangat ji, Sant Gurbachan Singh Ji\Nin their book also write this Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.43,0:16:01.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we go for Yatra, when we go to all the\NPanj Takht and all the other Gurdware Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.52,0:16:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we Matha Tek money into the collection box,\Nthat money goes for the Gurdwara, Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.23,0:16:12.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we must also give Bheta into the the langar. Dialogue: 0,0:16:12.80,0:16:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So a lot of Gursikhs they would give bheta into the \Ncollection box for the Gurdwara Dialogue: 0,0:16:18.82,0:16:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they will also give bheta for Karah Prashad \Nor for langar. Dialogue: 0,0:16:22.02,0:16:27.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That bheta that goes for langar goes to \NMata Sahib Kaur Ji Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.19,0:16:33.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Kaur Ji give us her blessings\Nwhen we give bheta for langar in the Takht. Dialogue: 0,0:16:33.13,0:16:37.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the bachan written by Sant Gurbachan Singh Ji\Nin their book as well. Dialogue: 0,0:16:37.84,0:16:42.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Sahib Kaur Ji would send out these \NHukamnaame with the same bachan Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.54,0:16:47.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you read these Hukamnaame, even now,\Nyou can feel so much of love Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.03,0:16:49.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in those letters by Mata Sahib Kaur Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.23,0:16:55.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that way they did Sikhi parchaar in Delhi \Nand they took care of panthic matters Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.48,0:17:03.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,economically, politically as well, they sent out Gursikhs \Nto solve the affairs of Sikhs in other states, Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.86,0:17:04.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in other villages as well. Dialogue: 0,0:17:04.91,0:17:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, Mata Sundri ji they brought up\NJassa Singh Alhuwalia sangat ji, Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.30,0:17:15.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that now we know the history what \NJassa Singh Ahluwalia did for the Khalsa Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.10,0:17:20.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Won the Lal Qila, fought again the Turks, fought again the Mughals Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.17,0:17:23.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and became Sultan E Quam. Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.38,0:17:29.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That because of Mata Sahib Kaur Ji Mata Sundri Ji Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.27,0:17:33.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I want to stress this point Sangat Ji \Nwhat a woman can do. Dialogue: 0,0:17:34.23,0:17:40.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have that ability in our hands, \Nwe have the power in our hands to build a panth, Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.81,0:17:47.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to bring up children who would grow up to \Nbe Gursikhs, who would grow up to be Bhagats, Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.82,0:17:50.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who would grow up to serve the Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:17:50.05,0:17:57.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have that ability in our hands, \Nto bring up our children so that they will serve Dialogue: 0,0:17:57.28,0:17:59.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Gobind Singh Ji, they will serve \NGuru Granth Sahib Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.91,0:18:02.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They would serve the purpose of Sikhi. Dialogue: 0,0:18:02.28,0:18:06.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We also have the power in our hands \Nto break a panth as well. Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.33,0:18:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a woman, as a mother, as a wife \Nwe have that ability. Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.26,0:18:19.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can see this how Mata Sahib Kaur Ji and\NMata Sundri Ji Dialogue: 0,0:18:19.61,0:18:23.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their whole life after Guru Gobind Singh Ji\Nthey spent just to ensure Sikhi parchaar Dialogue: 0,0:18:23.61,0:18:29.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was going on, that people will not lose faith in Sikhi,\Nand they brought up children, they brought up Gursikhs Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.39,0:18:32.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like Jassa Singh Ahluwalia to fight for Khalsa Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.51,0:18:40.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even where Banda Singh Bahudar fought to \Nseek justice of the Sahibzaade Dialogue: 0,0:18:40.58,0:18:44.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at that point Bahadur Shah, who was the emperor at that time, Dialogue: 0,0:18:44.16,0:18:47.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bahadur Shah had so much respect for Mata Sahib Kaur Ji and Mata Sundri Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:18:47.85,0:18:52.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he would come daily to have their darshan, to meet \Nthem, even to seek advice from the mothers as well. Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.73,0:18:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whatever money or whatever help needed to build\Na dharamsala or anything, Bahadur Shah would help them. Dialogue: 0,0:18:59.18,0:19:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Bahadur Shah would always say if there is \Nanyway I can help, please tell me Mata Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:19:03.62,0:19:09.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at that point when Bahadur Shah found out that \NBanda Singh Bahadur had approached the Mughals Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.43,0:19:14.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he came running to Mata Sahib Kaur Ji and Mata Sundri Ji asking what is happening? Dialogue: 0,0:19:14.40,0:19:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought everything is fine, \Nwhy is Banda Singh Bahadur now fighting? Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.38,0:19:19.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's trying to kill the mughals. Dialogue: 0,0:19:19.72,0:19:28.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine a man, a mughal emperor asking for\NDilasa from mothers, from both the Mata Jis. Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.59,0:19:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I imagine that our Mata Jis, Mata Sundri Ji\Nand Mata Sahib Kaur Ji telling, Dialogue: 0,0:19:33.60,0:19:37.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't worry Bahadur Shah, you're okay. Dialogue: 0,0:19:37.79,0:19:42.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Banda Singh Bahadur is serving based on a \NHukam of Guru Gobind Singh Ji, Dialogue: 0,0:19:42.59,0:19:45.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is to seek justice for the shaheedi of\Nthe Sahibzaade. Dialogue: 0,0:19:45.43,0:19:50.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is to give punishment to those \Nwho have become so unjust Dialogue: 0,0:19:50.73,0:19:51.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who have become so cruel. Dialogue: 0,0:19:51.87,0:20:00.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're okay, but if you do something wrong \Nthen we have no guarantee for you as well. Dialogue: 0,0:20:00.50,0:20:04.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, as long as you are doing good \Nyou stay righteous Dialogue: 0,0:20:04.06,0:20:05.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you are fine, you are safe. Dialogue: 0,0:20:05.78,0:20:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Bahadur Shah had the dilasa from both \NMata Jis Dialogue: 0,0:20:09.82,0:20:12.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he kept continuing to serve the Mata Jis as well. Dialogue: 0,0:20:13.12,0:20:15.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So sangat ji look at how powerful a woman can be. Dialogue: 0,0:20:15.100,0:20:19.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Never think, that as a woman, we have no \Npower in us. Dialogue: 0,0:20:19.59,0:20:24.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the whole history of the Sikh Panth,\Nyou see how Bebe Nanaki Ji Dialogue: 0,0:20:24.19,0:20:28.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started doing seva, started doing Sikhi \Nparchaar from home, Dialogue: 0,0:20:28.59,0:20:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then you can see how Mata Khivi Ji \Nthen came out and fought the society, Dialogue: 0,0:20:35.26,0:20:39.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the stigma set by the society. She did not care\Nabout what the world was saying, Dialogue: 0,0:20:39.97,0:20:44.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all she cared about was to follow the hukam of \NGuru Angad Dev Ji and Guru Nanak Dev Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:20:44.27,0:20:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then you can see Bibi Bhani Ji doing parchaar\Nof Sikhi, going village to village, Dialogue: 0,0:20:49.34,0:20:53.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being a head of a Manji and doing parchaar of Sikhi. Dialogue: 0,0:20:53.12,0:21:00.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then you can see Mata Sahib Kaur Ji and Mata Sundri Ji being the forefront of Khalsa Panth. Dialogue: 0,0:21:00.27,0:21:04.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Taking care of the political, economical aspect of Sikhi\Nin Delhi. Dialogue: 0,0:21:04.51,0:21:07.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And giving out Hukamnaame to Khalsa Panth as well. Dialogue: 0,0:21:07.27,0:21:11.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then you can see people like Mai Bhago Ji,\Nwho fought in the battle, Dialogue: 0,0:21:11.100,0:21:15.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who became the personal bodyguard of \NGuru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:21:15.59,0:21:23.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who led one of those bibi who fought with the \NChaali Mukte, who inspired the Singhs as well Dialogue: 0,0:21:23.07,0:21:24.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to fight for Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Dialogue: 0,0:21:24.63,0:21:26.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is what a woman can do. Dialogue: 0,0:21:26.44,0:21:30.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And never for once think that you have no power\Nin your hands. Dialogue: 0,0:21:30.69,0:21:34.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have the power in our hands to build our panth as well. Dialogue: 0,0:21:34.22,0:21:39.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a woman, as a mother, as a wife we have that \Nchoice, Dialogue: 0,0:21:39.72,0:21:41.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what kind of family do I want to build. Dialogue: 0,0:21:41.54,0:21:44.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What kind of children that I want to bring up. Dialogue: 0,0:21:44.14,0:21:46.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have that choice in our hands. Dialogue: 0,0:21:46.04,0:21:50.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so I hope that we are inspired by these \Nmothers in our Khalsa Panth Dialogue: 0,0:21:50.95,0:21:55.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we can take some advice, we can take some examples\Nfrom their life Dialogue: 0,0:21:55.56,0:21:57.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are practical in our life as well. Dialogue: 0,0:21:57.99,0:22:01.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can practise, follow the steps of these mothers \Nas well. Dialogue: 0,0:22:01.41,0:22:07.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How they have become Sohagan, how they have \Nmade Parmatma happy. Dialogue: 0,0:22:07.76,0:22:14.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have become so virtuous, that they are called Gunvanti, that they are called sohagan. Dialogue: 0,0:22:14.24,0:22:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How we too can become like that as well Dialogue: 0,0:22:16.51,0:22:21.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hope that this series of 'Mothers of the Panth' has been an inspiring one, Dialogue: 0,0:22:21.70,0:22:25.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For especially all the Sikh women out there as well. Dialogue: 0,0:22:25.02,0:22:30.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's so much that we can learn and I urge all the Sikh women Dialogue: 0,0:22:30.03,0:22:38.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to go and do research, to read about the lives of other\NSikh women as well and be inspired from their Jeevan. Dialogue: 0,0:22:38.89,0:22:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So please forgive me for any mistakes I've made.