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Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.72,0:00:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd like to tell you a story.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.90,0:00:30.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's about a little boy
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.12,0:00:35.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who grew up in Sweden, \Nin the '60s and '70s.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.13,0:00:39.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His dad was this tall,\Ngood-looking army officer.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.93,0:00:43.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His mom was this pretty but shy linguist.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.97,0:00:48.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He had a brother and two sisters,\Nand they lived in suburb of Stockholm.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.08,0:00:53.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that little boy was me.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.80,0:01:00.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I remember\Nthe first time my dad hit me.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.23,0:01:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was around three or four, I think.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.66,0:01:07.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was walking in front of the TV\Nand he kicked me,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.01,0:01:09.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I flew into some bookshelves.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.59,0:01:13.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I remember there was blood\Nand my mom was screaming.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.30,0:01:18.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, my dad had a lot of problems\Nand he took it out on me and my mom.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.20,0:01:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He never touched my brothers or sisters.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.93,0:01:24.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this started\Nwhen I was about three or four
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.15,0:01:28.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and went on till I was about 11 or 12.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.57,0:01:30.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a really hard part of my life
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.30,0:01:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I had to go to school\Nwith a black eye or, you know,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.72,0:01:38.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of my hair was missing\Nbecause he'd been yanking my head.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.64,0:01:42.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think some of you may know\Nwhat I'm talking about.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.14,0:01:46.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I understand how you're feeling.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.94,0:01:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, when you get abused at home,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.78,0:01:53.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have two choices, \Njust like and animal: fight or flight.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.38,0:01:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can either run away,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.79,0:01:59.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which was impossible for me\Nbecause I was a little kid living at home;
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.44,0:02:01.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you can fight back,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.55,0:02:04.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which I couldn't do because,\Nyou know, I was just a little kid.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.52,0:02:06.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My dad was my size.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.91,0:02:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I learned later \Nthere's a third choice:
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.96,0:02:14.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you freeze.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.19,0:02:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like a gazelle being taken by a lion.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.85,0:02:23.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You just freeze and go dead;\Nall your emotions are bottled up inside.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.99,0:02:26.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would just [lie] there.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.34,0:02:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When he was hitting me,\NI wouldn't even cry.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.21,0:02:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, by the time I was 11 or 12,\NI was smoking, I was drinking,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.13,0:02:38.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was running away from home\Non stolen motorcycles,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.37,0:02:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sleeping over in someone's garage,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.25,0:02:43.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but my dad always found me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.15,0:02:47.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Back home for another beating.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.12,0:02:49.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, my grades at school were terrible,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.37,0:02:51.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my dad said, \N"I've got to do something.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.58,0:02:54.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've got get rid of this kid somehow\Nand get him out of here."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.66,0:02:58.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, he decided to send me up north,\Nto his parents', my grandparents'.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.40,0:03:01.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they lived in a small town\Nin the northern part of Sweden.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.40,0:03:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, Sweden is a country pretty far north.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.65,0:03:09.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, Stockholm in the winter\Ngets dark at 2:30 p.m..
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.14,0:03:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stockholm was like Miami Beach,\Ncompared to the place I was being sent.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.34,0:03:18.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But my grandparents were quite nice to me,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.67,0:03:22.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they took care of me\Nand my grades got better.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.54,0:03:26.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I discovered ice hockey,\Nand then weight training, and karate,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.44,0:03:28.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I started to heal.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.41,0:03:34.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, by the time I was about 17 or 18,\NI remembered something my dad had told me.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.79,0:03:37.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because, you know,\Nmy dad was this pretty smart guy,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.21,0:03:39.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he was very charming, he was a nice guy -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.28,0:03:44.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most of the time,\Nwhen he wasn't going nuts.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.17,0:03:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he told me, "Listen -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.46,0:03:51.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, kid, this socialistic country,\Nforget it, you can't do anything here.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.03,0:03:53.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to be somebody,\Nyou've got to go to America."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.97,0:03:55.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I always remembered that.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.23,0:03:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I kind of got all the scholarships\NI could because I didn't have any money.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.18,0:04:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a scholarship to WSU,\NWashington State University;
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.80,0:04:03.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,another one to Clemson.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.98,0:04:06.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finally, I got a\NFulbright sholarship to MIT,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.87,0:04:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is the reason I am standing here.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.99,0:04:10.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there was just one little snag -
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.94,0:04:15.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, my forth year\Nto my last year as a master's,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.03,0:04:18.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was in Sydney,\Nat the University of Sydney,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.22,0:04:21.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was studying engineering\Non a scholarship,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.33,0:04:24.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was working extra as a bouncer
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.68,0:04:27.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, you know,\Nthat trauma is really helpful
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.20,0:04:29.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you get into a ring with somebody.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.46,0:04:31.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I became a pretty good fighter.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.47,0:04:35.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a karate champion and I had\Nwhat you call a "killer instinct."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.75,0:04:38.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, me and my buddy\Nwho was my sparring partner
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.35,0:04:42.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,got hired to do some special work\Nat a rock concert, different artists,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.50,0:04:46.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one of them was\Nthis beautiful black singer,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.52,0:04:49.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a statuesque lady named Grace Jones.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.86,0:04:51.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We worked there and, afterwards,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.48,0:04:55.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she hired some of us to do\Nespecial security at her party
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.31,0:04:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when she was going to go out\Nand hang out at the nightclubs in Sydney.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.18,0:05:04.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't really realize right away why\Nshe'd picked this tall, blond, buff guy
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.15,0:05:06.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be her special security.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.15,0:05:09.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, you know, I found out\Nlater that evening.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.47,0:05:11.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.52,0:05:13.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I, uh -
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.29,0:05:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.23,0:05:17.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ended up in a hotel room,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.89,0:05:21.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,missed a few classes\Nthe next day, college -
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.45,0:05:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, you know, \Nshe was a world-class artist,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.56,0:05:25.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,totally out of my league.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.99,0:05:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what I thought,\Nbut she didn't agree, you know.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.53,0:05:30.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, we ended up having this relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.90,0:05:34.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to Tokyo to do some karate,\Nshe was there doing a commercial.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.67,0:05:36.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then I ended up moving to New York.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.77,0:05:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I had a couple of months\Nbefore I was going to start at MIT,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.29,0:05:43.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and those months literally changed my life\Nbecause my what happened was -
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.73,0:05:47.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was New York city, Studio 64 -
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.29,0:05:50.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I met David Bowie, Michael Jackson.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.05,0:05:52.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First week I was there,\NI went to some party.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.16,0:05:54.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a little guy with white hair.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.03,0:05:57.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He came up to me and said,\N"Hi! What are you famous for?"
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.31,0:06:00.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He took a picture of me and I'm like,\N"Nothing, as far as I know."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.42,0:06:02.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he goes, "Hey, I want\Nto put you on my magazine."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.91,0:06:05.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, that was Andy Worhol,\NInterview Magazine.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.41,0:06:11.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, finally, when it was time to go back\Nto school, to Cambridge, MIT,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.06,0:06:15.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chemical engineering just didn't seem\Nas exciting, somehow.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.78,0:06:17.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.26,0:06:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.82,0:06:23.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, anyway, I picked this big black\Nmotorcycle I had bought, 1200CC,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.29,0:06:27.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,threw Grace on the back,\Nall decked out in leather.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.01,0:06:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got in my leather pants,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.28,0:06:30.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't wear a shirt\Ntoo often in those days.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.43,0:06:32.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I drove up to Cambridge,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.74,0:06:36.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think the professors at MIT\Nhad a slightly different idea
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.79,0:06:39.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of who this Swedish star student was -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.38,0:06:40.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.75,0:06:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, when this thing just - "vroom" -\Nwent past a window,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.80,0:06:47.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think they were\Nsort of shocked, you know.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.01,0:06:49.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They expected somebody else,\Nslightly smaller,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.18,0:06:51.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe with some Coke-bottle\Nglasses or something,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.52,0:06:57.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, anyway, they were as shocked\Nas I was not belonging there.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.27,0:07:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt that right away,\Nand three weeks later I was gone.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.60,0:07:02.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went back to New York,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.99,0:07:06.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,got an agent - so all other actors -
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.07,0:07:08.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started studying, acting,\Ngot up for a couple of movies.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.75,0:07:10.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One was a "boxing" movie.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.62,0:07:15.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It turned out to be Rocky IV,\Nand I auditioned for it.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.26,0:07:17.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finally, I got the role, moved out here.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.37,0:07:22.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was training with Sly Stallone\Ndown here, about a mile away from here.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.95,0:07:28.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the film was shot and opened\N30 years ago, Memorial Day.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.01,0:07:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I came out of the theater with Grace\Nand people were taking pictures of me,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.76,0:07:35.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm like, "What happened?\NOh, I guess I'm a movie star. OK, great."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.57,0:07:39.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, you know, the problem was this:\Nmy troubles had only started,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.98,0:07:42.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because what happened\Nwas that frozen part of me -
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.54,0:07:43.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember that I told you? -
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.84,0:07:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started coming out\Nand kind of running my life.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.44,0:07:49.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because what happens is this:\Nwhen you have this trauma,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.07,0:07:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's like a soldier\Nwith post-traumatic stress.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.95,0:07:55.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You end up acting on something\Ncalled escape behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.72,0:07:58.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You try to escape from something\Nyou can't escape from
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.27,0:08:00.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's inside of you:
Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.15,0:08:07.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drinking, sexual affairs,\Novereating, violence, you name it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.75,0:08:10.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did a lot of bad things to myself,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.87,0:08:13.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, 25 years later, 40 movies later,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.80,0:08:17.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yeah, I was a movie star,\Nbut I was miserable most of the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.50,0:08:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had a failed marriage,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.88,0:08:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two daughters who I loved,\Nbut they didn't even know me.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.76,0:08:25.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My career was kind of rock-bottom.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.38,0:08:27.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was only five years ago,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.34,0:08:29.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I didn't know how to get out of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.46,0:08:32.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Two things happened.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.26,0:08:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a call from\Nmy old buddy Sly Stallone,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.68,0:08:36.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, Dolph, how are you doing?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.59,0:08:38.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.55,0:08:41.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I've got this script, so check it out,\Nsee what you think."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.43,0:08:44.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, the script was called\NThe Expendables.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.46,0:08:48.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a big hit, I was back\Nin the big screen after 15 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.73,0:08:51.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other thing is I met this girl,\Nfell in love with her,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.35,0:08:55.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I knew I was going to embark\Non the same stupid path
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.17,0:08:56.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd been down before.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.92,0:08:58.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Actually, something happened.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.32,0:09:00.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some girl was flirting with me,\NI gave her my number -
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.85,0:09:03.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The usual: the text,\Nthe pictures; she saw it -
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.90,0:09:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A few of you may have been there.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.50,0:09:07.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She went nuts, we were about to break up,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.54,0:09:11.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I said, "I can't do this.\NI've got to change my life somehow."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.23,0:09:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She'd told me before,\N"Why don't you try therapy?"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.60,0:09:15.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was like, "Forget about it.\NIt's for sissies."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.84,0:09:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What about meditation?"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.58,0:09:20.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ah, do I look like an Indian guru?\NI don't think so."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.11,0:09:21.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.13,0:09:22.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, to make a long story short,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.97,0:09:26.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I took up therapy\Nthree years ago, meditation,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.45,0:09:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it totally changed my life.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.64,0:09:33.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Suddenly, this fog\Nthat I was living in lifted.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.23,0:09:35.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did the therapy\Nwhere you go back in time,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.72,0:09:40.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you relive your experiences, you cry,\Nscream, you roll up in a little ball,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.73,0:09:43.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you hit the couch\Nwith a baseball bat, you know,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.44,0:09:47.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anything you've got to do\Nto start to attack this part of you,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.50,0:09:50.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this frozen part of me\Nthat was running my life.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.18,0:09:52.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And slowly it started to become\Nsmaller and smaller,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.76,0:09:55.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I could sort of see my life\Ncome back to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.39,0:09:57.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the meditation helped as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.39,0:10:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, the first thing I did:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.64,0:10:03.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went back to see my kids,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.38,0:10:05.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I asked them for forgiveness\Nfor what I had done
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.82,0:10:09.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I told them\Nwhat happened with my dad,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.11,0:10:11.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was a guy who\Ndidn't like what I'd done,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.25,0:10:12.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they started crying right away.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.94,0:10:16.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I realized they had had a lot of pain,\Nand I cried with them.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.98,0:10:19.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did the same with my ex-wife,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.28,0:10:21.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a few other people I had hurt.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.75,0:10:26.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, as a matter of fact,\NI also, in my head, forgave my dad
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.30,0:10:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for what he did,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.80,0:10:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my mom, for what she didn't do.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.60,0:10:31.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I started embarking on this new life.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.57,0:10:34.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was like a fight worth fighting,\Nto come to terms with yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.78,0:10:36.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to heal yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.78,0:10:39.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what I didn't realize\Nwas there's another level to that,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.79,0:10:42.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, once you start\Nhealing yourself and feel better,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.47,0:10:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you see other people around you\Nwho need help, who have pain.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.24,0:10:47.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And faith kind of came to me,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.84,0:10:52.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I wrote and produce a movie\Nabout human trafficking,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.18,0:10:53.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called Skin Trade.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.51,0:10:57.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I learned about human trafficking,\Nwhich is a terrible crime.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.69,0:11:00.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are 20 million slaves\Nin the world today.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.72,0:11:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a 20-billion-dollar industry,\Nsecond largest in the world.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.21,0:11:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These people are physically humiliated,\Npsychologically abused.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.86,0:11:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have no self worth,\Nsort of like how I used to feel.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.49,0:11:16.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And kind of faith brought me\Nin contact with this,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.32,0:11:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with human trafficking and these victims.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.80,0:11:22.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I came back to LA,\NI called an organization called CAST,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.76,0:11:24.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and asked them if I could help -
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.68,0:11:28.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Coalition to Abolish\NSlavery and Trafficking.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.16,0:11:30.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I've been helping them ever since,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.34,0:11:34.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's a great feeling for me\Nto finally give something back.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.12,0:11:36.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, a lot of this human trafficking
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.09,0:11:39.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,isn't just happening in, like, India,\Nand Africa, and over there.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.63,0:11:42.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a matter of fact,\None of the most interesting cases
Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.51,0:11:45.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was a girl that was brought over\Nfrom a Third World country
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.96,0:11:48.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by a very wealthy family.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.04,0:11:50.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was kept in a house,\Nthey took her passport,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.69,0:11:53.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kept on the guard all the time,\Nthreatened her with violence,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.57,0:11:54.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,threatened her family.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.94,0:11:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know where the house was?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.86,0:12:00.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Brentwood, right here,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.67,0:12:02.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about a mile from here.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.54,0:12:05.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she didn't know what to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.10,0:12:08.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They brought this American nanny in\Nto take care of the little kid,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.24,0:12:11.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they talked, and the American\Nnanny said she'd help her,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.07,0:12:15.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but nothing happened,\Na week passed, a month passed -
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.16,0:12:17.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finally, they were coming back\Nfrom the park one day.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.97,0:12:21.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was taking care of this kid,\Nand there was this security guy as usual,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:23.16,0:12:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there were 15 FBI agents\Noutside of the house.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.34,0:12:29.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took her inside and said,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.87,0:12:32.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Do you want to stay\Nor do you want to leave?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.28,0:12:33.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said, "I want to leave."
Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.53,0:12:38.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,CAST got her into a shelter,\Nre-educated her, brought her back.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.48,0:12:41.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She learned a job.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:41.37,0:12:44.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She finally ended up \Ngetting a green card.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.72,0:12:46.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a matter of fact,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.45,0:12:50.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she met this man from her home country,\Nthat she fell in love with,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.26,0:12:52.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they got married.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.59,0:12:58.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to be part of something\Nlike that is just amazing.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.90,0:13:04.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a matter of fact, Alice is also\Npregnant with her new baby,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.14,0:13:08.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and towards the end of my talk,\NI wanted to say hi to Alice.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.35,0:13:09.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please stand up.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:10.23,0:13:12.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.24,0:13:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anyway,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.10,0:13:24.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess, for me, the experience\Nthat I told you about is -
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.24,0:13:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, you have to come\Nto terms with yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.21,0:13:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to love yourself so you can\Nappreciate those things in others.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.68,0:13:35.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you heal yourself, you can heal others.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.94,0:13:37.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And -
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.82,0:13:42.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think if you take time\Nto look inside and find that little boy,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.31,0:13:45.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that little girl, inside yourself -
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.99,0:13:50.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, you treat them well -
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.15,0:13:52.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and are you ready to look
Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.19,0:13:55.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see a little boy or a little girl next\Nto you that may need some help?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.24,0:13:58.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because, if you do that,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.57,0:14:00.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's just
Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.17,0:14:04.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the greatest feeling in the world.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.91,0:14:06.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.14,0:14:08.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.31,0:14:20.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.57,0:14:22.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)