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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.15,0:00:08.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vlog Every Day August\NLos Angeles! ...and me, Paul!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.13,0:00:15.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not a sad vlog, the topic might seem\Nlike it, but it's really just a confused vlog.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.09,0:00:18.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know how to hang out with people!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.45,0:00:19.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just to hang out!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.45,0:00:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, it seems like a thing people do.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.88,0:00:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know how to get there.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.81,0:00:30.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If there's a thing that I specifically want\Nto do, like go to a movie, go to a restaurant,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.70,0:00:37.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go to a beach, go to VidCon, then I can say,\N"Hey, friend!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.54,0:00:38.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Want to do these things with me?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.90,0:00:40.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Want to meet up when we're there?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.15,0:00:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Want to, like, talk about the thing that we're\Ndoing?"
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.17,0:00:44.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can do that!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.87,0:00:49.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But outside of that, it's hard for me to go\Nfrom no catalyst to just thinking, this is
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.62,0:00:54.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a person who is near me, I think we're kinda\Nfriends, I would like to hang out with them,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.60,0:00:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.30,0:00:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,making that happen!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.96,0:01:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ho-- how do-- how do people do-- how do people\Ndo that?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.62,0:01:11.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In high school, I would call up my friend\Nacross the street, Erik, and say, "Hey, want
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.71,0:01:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to play computer games or something?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.36,0:01:16.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.36,0:01:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or he'd call me up and say, "Hey, get your\Nstupid butt out here, we're going to go to
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.18,0:01:23.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the mall or something."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.09,0:01:24.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we would!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.09,0:01:29.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I've developed many of my friendships\Nwith people on the internet, I'm not exactly
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.35,0:01:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sure where the appropriate boundaries are.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.82,0:01:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, I have no problems tweeting one of my\Nfriends at two o'clock in the morning.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.18,0:01:41.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or, even like, sending them a direct message\Nat any time of the day with no instigation.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.87,0:01:44.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Easy peasey, can do it, no problem.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.63,0:01:45.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BUT
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.63,0:01:49.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I'm seeing somebody that I think I'm kind\Nof friends with, and they're doing something
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.81,0:01:51.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in LA?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.47,0:01:53.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I just...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.23,0:01:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tweet at them or direct message them or email\Nthem saying, "Hey, I saw that you're, you're
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.88,0:02:02.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing this thing! i live near that!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.97,0:02:03.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.97,0:02:06.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I join in?"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.80,0:02:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have this concern in the back of my mind\Nthat I presume too much of our friendship.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.91,0:02:17.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, I mostly know people from talking with\Nthem on twitter, so maybe they don't want
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.14,0:02:19.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to go to a concert with me!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.51,0:02:23.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe they don't want to go hike in the mountains\Nwith me!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.71,0:02:24.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.71,0:02:25.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.87,0:02:26.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do you find out?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.87,0:02:29.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you just ask people, "Hey, are we friends?"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.39,0:02:30.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can do that!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.39,0:02:33.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I like taking the direct approach on things,\NI'm just not sure if it's acceptable.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.42,0:02:38.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, I've tried going to events, like at\Nthe YouTube Space LA.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.10,0:02:39.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Uh, I've tried going there.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.94,0:02:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And meeting people.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.04,0:02:42.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That kinda, kinda worked.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.98,0:02:46.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I definitely made friends with people at VidCon...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.69,0:02:49.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most of them were not in LA!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.56,0:02:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,*pbbt!*
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.56,0:02:52.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the weird thing is, I don't feel like\NI have a lack of friends.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.75,0:02:55.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like I've got plenty of friends, LOTS\Nof friends, even.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.69,0:02:56.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm just not sure.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.90,0:03:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm just not sure how to be in their vicinity,\Ndoing friend things.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.92,0:03:03.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's ridiculous.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.92,0:03:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like other people figured out how to\Ndo friend things, like, in elementary school
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.58,0:03:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or junior high or high school or...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.15,0:03:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know, other things that people do\Nwhen they're young.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.00,0:03:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I... did not!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.58,0:03:25.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, this whole #VEDA is just to ask you the\Nquestion, "How do you know how good of friends
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.12,0:03:28.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are with somebody from the internet?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.23,0:03:33.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what are the boundaries about asking to\Ndo things with them?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.56,0:03:36.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which, I think, is the way to get to be better\Nfriends.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.80,0:03:38.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please tell me in the comments below.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.78,0:03:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I literally do not know.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.54,0:03:42.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanna, I wanna find out!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.20,0:03:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I can be a good friend who hangs out with\Nfriends.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.65,0:03:48.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or tell me anything that matters to you, because\NI want to know what matters to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.100,0:03:51.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also, I have a Patreon!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.09,0:03:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also I do some live shows.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.80,0:03:54.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Check all those out on my channel...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.58,0:03:56.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All the promo in this video, too.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.26,0:04:00.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you for making it to the end of my video,\Nthis is where I always say:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.66,0:04:01.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tomorrow
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.72,0:04:02.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will be even better!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.72,0:04:03.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,*whispers*: Ooh!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.72,0:04:05.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to the beach!