[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.32,0:00:02.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hey psych2goers welcome back to our Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.16,0:00:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,channel thank you all so much for the Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.16,0:00:05.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,love that you've given us Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.60,0:00:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your ongoing support has helped us make Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.44,0:00:08.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,psychology and mental health more Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.72,0:00:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accessible to everyone Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.00,0:00:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thank you now let's continue as human Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.36,0:00:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beings we are all hardwired Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.36,0:00:17.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to feel things and react on an emotional Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.20,0:00:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,level to the things going on around us Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.76,0:00:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the moment we're born we cry when Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.00,0:00:24.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're sad or hungry or in need Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.24,0:00:25.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we feel angry towards the people who Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.92,0:00:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hurt us we're afraid of the things that Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.00,0:00:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,might be dangerous Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.28,0:00:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we feel happy when we're given love Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.76,0:00:32.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kindness Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.32,0:00:35.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and affection these emotions come so Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.12,0:00:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,naturally to us Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.16,0:00:38.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's natural for us to express them Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.56,0:00:40.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but somewhere along the way Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.24,0:00:42.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it all gets complicated we start getting Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.96,0:00:44.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confused about Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.08,0:00:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what we were feeling and why we were Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.60,0:00:47.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feeling it Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.12,0:00:48.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there were some emotions that we didn't Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.72,0:00:50.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,quite know how to deal with Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.16,0:00:52.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we ended up repressing denying or Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.88,0:00:54.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hiding our true feelings Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.96,0:00:57.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,understanding our emotions not only Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.12,0:00:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helps us better understand ourselves Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.20,0:01:00.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also helps us build a deeper and Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.80,0:01:02.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more meaningful life so Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.40,0:01:04.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with that said here are seven of the Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.48,0:01:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most important things Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.68,0:01:08.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you need to know about your emotions Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.48,0:01:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,number one Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.76,0:01:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are not your emotions emotions are Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.64,0:01:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,important Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.36,0:01:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they don't define who we are there Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.52,0:01:17.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are electrochemical signals Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.20,0:01:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,flowing from your brain to your body as Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.88,0:01:20.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a reaction to your day-to-day Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.32,0:01:21.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experiences Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.76,0:01:23.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your emotions are simply there to Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.52,0:01:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,regulate your thoughts and behaviors Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.44,0:01:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on these experiences and provide Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.60,0:01:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you data about the world around you Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.76,0:01:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they don't inform your character or Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.84,0:01:33.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,impact who you are Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.52,0:01:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unless you want them to and to think Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.00,0:01:38.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise robs you of your identity as a Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.08,0:01:40.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,person outside of your emotions Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.40,0:01:42.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can allow yourself the freedom to Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.72,0:01:44.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get angry without thinking it makes you Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.88,0:01:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an angry person or to feel happy Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.00,0:01:49.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without pressuring yourself to act like Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.76,0:01:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a happy person all the time Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.00,0:01:55.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two emotions come and go Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.36,0:01:57.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of the main reasons why we say Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.20,0:01:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's so much more to a person than Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.20,0:02:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just their emotions Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.40,0:02:02.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is because our emotions frequently come Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.48,0:02:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and go Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.44,0:02:05.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and something is fundamental to us as Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.52,0:02:06.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our identity Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.72,0:02:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shouldn't be defined by something as Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.16,0:02:11.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fickle and ever-changing as how we feel Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.52,0:02:13.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even the most intense emotions and Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.28,0:02:14.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,physical reactions like Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.72,0:02:18.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,crying shaking and screaming rise Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.56,0:02:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,peak and fall within a matter of minutes Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.00,0:02:24.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,number three emotions don't always need Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.32,0:02:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a specific reason Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.08,0:02:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have you ever felt a certain way but Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.60,0:02:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,didn't know why or had to grapple with Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.76,0:02:30.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an emotion that hit you Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.96,0:02:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,out of nowhere while it can be confusing Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.60,0:02:34.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and difficult to make sense of our Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.88,0:02:36.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotions when we don't know what the Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.24,0:02:37.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reason behind them is Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.84,0:02:39.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sometimes you just need to let yourself Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.44,0:02:41.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel whatever it is that you're feeling Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.76,0:02:43.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and try not to get so caught up in Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.68,0:02:45.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,figuring out why you're feeling it Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.84,0:02:47.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there could be a dozen different reasons Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.44,0:02:48.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why you're feeling something Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.96,0:02:51.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's okay to feel it whether you're Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.52,0:02:52.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feeling sad Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.64,0:02:56.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,upset happy or scared be honest about Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.24,0:02:57.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how you feel and accept it without Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.84,0:02:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,judgment Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.88,0:03:01.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of your feelings are valid number Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.36,0:03:02.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,four Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.08,0:03:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotions don't always need a reaction Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.80,0:03:06.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether it's anger Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.16,0:03:09.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jealousy sadness or discontentment Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.20,0:03:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's nothing wrong with feeling a Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.56,0:03:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,certain way you don't have to feel Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.40,0:03:14.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,guilty or ashamed about your emotions as Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.24,0:03:15.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,long as you also understand Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.68,0:03:17.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that not every emotion deserves to be Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.68,0:03:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acted upon Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.36,0:03:21.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you wind up losing control and let Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.20,0:03:23.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your emotions get the better of you Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.12,0:03:24.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can say hurtful things or do Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.48,0:03:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something you'll later come to regret Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.56,0:03:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,number five there are no negative Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.80,0:03:30.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotions Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.40,0:03:32.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while most of us believe that feelings Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.40,0:03:33.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can be either good Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.52,0:03:36.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or bad psychologists actually argue that Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.72,0:03:38.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all feelings are neutral Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.56,0:03:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no such thing as a positive or Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.08,0:03:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,negative emotion because emotions aren't Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.00,0:03:42.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inherently Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.96,0:03:45.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anything they're only what we make of Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.76,0:03:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.48,0:03:48.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and though it can sometimes feel painful Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.32,0:03:50.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or overwhelming to feel things so Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.08,0:03:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strongly and deeply Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.60,0:03:53.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,allowing yourself to experience your Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.20,0:03:55.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,true emotions can teach you a great deal Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.04,0:03:55.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about yourself Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.92,0:03:59.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and who you really are this is because Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.44,0:04:02.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,six all emotions serve a purpose Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.96,0:04:05.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you experience a wide spectrum of Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.12,0:04:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different multifaceted emotions Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.00,0:04:10.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your feelings are a natural part of life Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.48,0:04:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they serve to let you know Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.00,0:04:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how you're affected by what goes on both Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.00,0:04:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,within your life and within yourself Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.56,0:04:19.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every emotion serves a purpose to point Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.04,0:04:20.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you in the right direction Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.64,0:04:22.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to help make sense of what you're Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.08,0:04:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going through for example Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.72,0:04:27.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,envy and discontentment can signal that Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.28,0:04:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a need you're not satisfying for Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.52,0:04:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yourself Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.24,0:04:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and could be missing from your life Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.48,0:04:34.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anger lets you know that your boundaries Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.40,0:04:35.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have been crossed Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.84,0:04:38.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anxiety and fear keep you safe from Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.40,0:04:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,potential danger Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.08,0:04:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happiness teaches you to seek out the Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.92,0:04:43.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people and places that make you feel Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.68,0:04:44.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,loved Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.72,0:04:46.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feelings of sadness are a way for you to Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.56,0:04:48.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,process the loss of something that was Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.24,0:04:49.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,once important to you Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.31,0:04:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Music] Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.56,0:04:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven emotions are contagious Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.00,0:04:56.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,last but not least something you need to Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.56,0:04:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,know about your emotions Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.24,0:05:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that they can be very contagious Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.04,0:05:02.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,several scientific studies have found Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.96,0:05:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that when you're in a group of people Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.64,0:05:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you subconsciously mimic the emotions of Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.48,0:05:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those around you Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.44,0:05:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as an expression of your innate desire Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.28,0:05:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to belong Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.56,0:05:12.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with that in mind it's no wonder why Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.88,0:05:14.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having toxic people in your life Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.48,0:05:16.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can bring you down and emotionally drain Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.24,0:05:18.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you this is why it's important to Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.40,0:05:19.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,surround yourself with people who Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.92,0:05:22.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lift you up that you enjoy spending time Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.48,0:05:22.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.96,0:05:25.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and whom you truly feel connected to did Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.84,0:05:27.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you learn something new about yourself Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.52,0:05:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your emotions Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.80,0:05:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,please like and share this video if it Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.24,0:05:31.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helped you and you think it could 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