Yini Ngisuke ngicabangani? Mortgage, izikweletu, imali sithululele ... Futhi Ngazizwa yinhlama ... Ngiyazi umdlavuza uma nginomuzwa wokuthi. Uphi yena? Uzokwenzani Kuze? Ungalokothi engibiza, ungalokothi bathi Vu ... Ukucindezeleka. Kuyinto wesihogo wonke umuntu, bedeviling izingqondo zethu, igniting nights yethu, upending equilibrium yethu, kodwa ibilokhu ingeyona kangaka. Once, injongo yayo kwaba ukusisindisa. uma ungumuntu esincelisayo evamile, yini izinkinga kuba imizuzu emithathu aklabalase ukwesaba on the Savannah, okwathi ngemva kwalokho kungcono noma phezu nawe noma wena kuka nge. Kodwa konke kwashintsha. Yini once kwasisiza basinde manje useyiNkosi isishayo yezimpilo zethu. Futhi ngavele nje waqhumuka wakhala izinyembezi, wakhala, wakhala. Namuhla, zesayensi, in the field futhi lab, zifakazela ukuthi ukucindezeleka akuyona isimo sengqondo, kodwa into eyi futhi iyingozi. Lokhu akuyona into umqondo abstract. Akukona into mhlawumbe ngelinye Ilanga Wena yenze okuthile ngokuphela. Udinga ukuya kuso namuhla. Kwezinye izindawo ezingalindelekile, ososayensi embula nje ukuthi ukucindezeleka ebulalayo kungaba. Ukucindezeleka okungapheli angenza okuthile njengoba unsubtle futhi elibi njengoba abulale abanye Ingqamuzana lakho ubuchopho. Umthelela ukucindezeleka ingatholakala ekujuleni kwethu, sihlehlela ubuchopho bethu, wanezela fat khaba yethu, ngisho Ukwambula chromosome ethu. Lokhu ungokoqobo lokhu akulona nje omunye ukububula. Ukucindezeleka ... umsindisi, umashiqela, isifo ... portrait kwembulwa. Lolu hlelo Lwenziwe ngeminikelo yakho PBS isiteshi kubabukeli onjengawe. Ngiyabonga. Sonke abe nobuhlobo bomuntu siqu ukucindezeleka, kodwa bambalwa kithi uyazi ukuthi usebenza ngaphakathi kithi, noma ukuqonda ukuthi ukuhlaselwa isici sezwe lanamuhla angase agcizelele ukuba kube seqophelweni lokufa. Ambalwa namanje ukuthi yini esingayenza ngakho. Kodwa phezu engamashumi amathathu edlule, Stanford University neurobiologist Robert Sapolsky, iye ethuthuka ukuqonda kwethu ukucindezeleka, ukuthi imithelela it imizimba yethu, nokuthi ukuma kwethu social angasinika more noma ngaphansi singangena. Ingabe izindaba ezimbi sesisonke futhi more ... Iningi isikhathi, ungathola naye efundisa futhi ucwaningo the , Umhlaba high-ekufezeni eliphezulu wagcizelela ingqondo science. Leli phephandaba yilo umehluko omkhulu phakathi ... class ... Kodwa lokho kuphela ingxenye indaba yakhe. Kwaphela amasonto ambalwa njalo ngonyaka noma kunjalo, Sapolsky usekhuluma lab wakhe endaweni more kuka 9.000 miles away on the Plaines of amaMasai Mara Reserve, e Kenya, East Africa. Robert Sapolsky kuqala wafika Africa engaphezu kwengu-30 edlule ukusola. Ayesola wayekwazi ukuthola okwengeziwe ukucindezeleka womuntu kanye nezifo ngokubheka non-abantu, futhi wayazi nje non-abantu. Uhlala endaweni enjengale, wena imfene, futhi une kuphela ukuchitha mayelana amahora amathathu ngosuku ekutholeni kilojoule yakho. Futhi uma une nje ukusebenza amahora amathathu ngosuku, ufanele amahora ayisishiyagalolunye of time khulula nsuku zonke esingakanani okufanele usichithe ekwenzeni lalomunye nje esidabukisayo Akhiwe hhayi agcizelela amabhubesi nokujaha kwabo sonke isikhathi, babekwa kwagcizelela nomunye. Uqamba kwagcizelela social and inhlokomo ngokwengqondo kusungulwe yohlobo lwazo. Ziyakwazi A yisibonelo Sethu esiphelele Westernized ehlobene nokucindezeleka isifo. Ukuze anqume nje lokho ukucindezeleka toll wayethatha imizimba yabo, Sapolsky wayefuna ukubheka ngaphakathi lezi izimfene zasendle emangqamuzaneni ngokokuqala ngqa. Ukuze Wenze lokhu wayezolinda ukuthatha igazi labo ngendlela enesizotha kakhulu. Ngokuyinhloko, yini ozama ukukwenza kuba anaesthetize imfene, ngaphandle kwakhe ukuthi ngokwazi uyeza. Ngoba ungafuni ukuba kukhona lokhu ukucindezeleka yokulinda, ngakho ngeke nje, niyazi, uthole in engibaziyo yakho futhi ukuxosha imfene up and down the field amahora amathathu, futhi ekugcineni lapho yena winded, ngehubo kuye nge izinzwa. Manje, izinzuzo enkulu isibhamu igalelo kukhona ukuthi kungcono pretty okuningi buthule, futhi has not a lonke eziningi izingxenye ezinyakazayo, kodwa ethile big wukuthi akayi kude kakhulu. Ngakho lokho uchitha nje isamba ezimangazayo isikhathi ukwenza, uzama ukuthola ukubheka kanjani sokunganaki nxazonke imfene. Kwamfaka ... Isikhathi? Kulungile, yena ungazamazami manje. Whoop, khona ukuthi liyaphi. Ibhayisikobho ngamunye Isampula imfene igazi, uRobert kulinganiswa amazinga ama-hormone usekelwe ukucindezeleka Ukusabela. Kahle, ukwenza umqondo ukuthi kwenzekani emzimbeni wakho, uthola lezi Hormone amabili ukuthi kukhona workhorses of the wonke ukucindezeleka impendulo. Omunye Wabo Sonke wazi adrenaline, ukulandisa American, epinephrine, omunye a hormone kancane eyaziwa ngokuthi glucocorticoids ephuma indlala adrenal kanye adrenaline lawa backbones omabili osabela ngayo ekucindezelekeni. Lokho osabela ngayo ekucindezelekeni futhi labo hormone ezimbili ezibalulekile siphile. Ngoba lokho ukucindezeleka imayelana wukuthi umuntu ngenhloso kakhulu edla wena, noma wena ngenhloso kakhulu ukudla omunye, futhi kukhona Inkinga ngokushesha siyaqhubeka. Uma abaleke ukuze asindise ukuphila kwakho, eziyisisekelo kukhona konke daba. Amaphaphu asebenze isikhathi esengeziwe ukumpompa nenani omkhulukazi oxygen emgudwini wegazi. The izinhlanga inhliziyo ukumpompa ukuthi oxygen wonke umzimba kanjalo imisipha asukumele. Udinga Blood pressure yakho Kuze ukuletha ukuthi energy. Udinga ukuvala nganoma yini ebalulekile ... ukukhula, imifanekiso, niyazi, usebenzisa ukuphila kwakho lesi akusona isikhathi ovulate, izicubu ukukhanda, konke inhlobo yento ... kamuva, uma kukhona kamuva. Lapho zebra seqa, alo osabela ngayo ekucindezelekeni amvalele phansi. Kodwa ongowokwakheka kwabantu ubonakala ungakwazi ukuthola kwabo Switch off. We uvule ngqo efanayo ukucindezeleka impendulo ngoba uthi luyingxenye ngokwengqondo ... ngicabanga ngokwengeziwe ngaYe ungqimba lwe-ozone, izintela ekhuphuka, lokufa, Oneminyaka engu-30 mortgages ... thina uvule impendulo efanayo ukucindezeleka futhi isihluthulelo umehluko okhona, thina asishumayeli ngenxa isizathu sangempela bokuphila futhi siyakucela nikwenza non-stop. By hhayi kokuvala osabela ngayo ekucindezelekeni lapho zisabela isiminyaminya zokuphila, thina ubhuquze a bath insimbi hormone. Nakuba akunjalo ukuphila noma ukufa, thina hyperventilate, izinhliziyo zethu nesiwuruwuru, imisipha esishubile. Okuxakayo, emva kwesikhashana osabela ngayo ekucindezelekeni ziyalimaza ukwedlula yokucindezeleka uqobo, ngoba yokucindezeleka ezinye umbhedo ngokwengqondo ukuthi ubhekene ina. No zebra Emhlabeni, egijima ngoba ukuphila sawo, kwakuyoba baqonde ukuthi kungani ... ukwesaba ukukhuluma obala lengakukhweshisa ukuba secrete amahomoni efanayo ukuthi ukwenza ngaleso sikhathi ukusindisa ukuphila yayo. Ukucindezeleka kuyindlela somzimba lokuvukela nenselele, ukuthi inselele esisongela ukuphila, eziwubala noma fun. Uthola isilinganiso esifanele ukucindezeleka futhi sikubiza ingqondo. Umgomo ekuphileni is hhayi ukuqeda ukucindezeleka, umgomo ekuphileni banelungelo uhlobo ukucindezeleka, ngoba uma uhlobo ilungelo, thina singayithandi. Siziphonse out of sisabele ukuzibonela mathupha, sikhokha imali enhle wagcizelela ukuthi indlela. It ivame ukuba kube imbangela yokucindezeleka ngokulinganisela, lapho unethalente yokucindezeleka yilokho izivakashi ... kungcono hhayi ize ukushintsashintsa ugibele akuzona amasonto amathathu eside. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ziyini mayelana nguwe udele kancane kancane of control in a setting ukuthi jikelele uzizwa ephephile. kodwa ekuphileni kwangempela for sekutholakala nezilwane nabantu abaningi kangaka kithi kuhlanganise Roberts izimfene ukulawula akuyona indlela. Lapha unayo owesilisa enkulu elahlekelwa impi futhi esukela sub-omdala ngubani eluma on a female ngubani okushaya ngempama umsolwa sidilize usana esihlahleni, bonke imizuzwana eyishumi nanhlanu uyazi waze wengxenye enkulu yokucindezeleka kuba Ukuntuleka, ukungabi nokubikezela uhlezi khona kanye nje ukubukela zebra futhi omunye umuntu is kokuba usuku olubi futhi kuba lenu labaqaphi elingemuva-ekupheleni ukuthi uya ukuze kwazinciphisa abanye kakhulu nasengqondweni ezicindezelayo ngoba abantu eminye phansi sabaphathi. Omunye Roberts nezambulo lokuqala ekuboneni ukuhlobana phakathi ukucindezeleka futhi isigaba sabaphathi in izimfene. Amanye amasosha izimfene siphezu 100 eqinile abanjengathi baye savela ubuchopho elikhulu indlela eziyinkimbinkimbi ezinkulu imiphakathi okusinda lapha kudinga uhlobo imfene savvy wezombusazwe abesilisa ngobuqili kakhulu futhi ngaba nolaka ukuzuza isikhundla phezulu futhi bonke ozitholayo, females for the eyayikhethwe, zonke ukudla ungadla futhi i retenue engapheli groomers uzimisele. Bonke abesilisa uyazi lapho umi emphakathini abangakwazi ahlupha kuye lowo kungaba ahlupha futhi yena lo torturee kungaba ahlupha Empeleni kuzwakale sengathi into ebuhlungu ukuvuma ngemuva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu kodwa I do not empeleni like izimfene konke okuningi futhi sekube guys ngamunye eminyakeni edlule ukuthi ngiyithanda kodwa lezi scheming, emuva-sigameko Bastards machiavellian ukuthi ubuhlungu nomunye kanjalo bayazivikela esikhulu kwami isayensi, I mean Angisona lapha ukuyokhuluma nabo bayazivikela ephelele ngalokho Ngiyafunda. Eminyakeni 22 edlule eneminyaka ucwaningo isikhonkwane 30 Sapolsky sika amenza MacArthur Foundation Genius ukuhlangana umsebenzi wakhe ekuseni yokulinganisa hormone okucindezeleka egazini ekhishwe kwaholela ezitholwe amabili aphawulekayo isikhundla imfene yikona okunquma ezingeni hormone yokucindezeleka esimisweni sakhe ngakho uma ungumuntu wesilisa ephezulu ungalindela hormone lakho lokucindezeleka ukuba low futhi uma bayazithoba okuningi ephakeme, kodwa kwakukhona ukwambulwa ngisho nangokwengeziwe eyitholile e isampula Sapolsky sika rankers low imbuya ngothi lase lenyuke rates inhliziyo futhi nomfutho ophakeme wegazi. Lokhu kwaba ngokokuqala okwakucatshangwa exhumene ukucindezeleka kuya yempilo A hlobo of lwezinkawu endle. Ngokuyinhloko uma ungumuntu ucindezelekile, imfene engenampilo impi ejwayelekile High Blood pressure. amazinga ama-Hormone okucindezeleka ephakeme, une omzimba uhlelo lokho kungasebenzi kahle isimiso sakho sokuzala usengozini kakhudlwana kokuba akhishwe Whack chemistry yakho ubuchopho yilowo has azifane nalokho okubona abantu isifo ecindezelekile futhi konke izinto lezo akuzona predictors of a Hale futhi eqotho nokuguga le futhi njalo ukuthi nezinye hlobo lwezinkawu njengoba Robert Sapolsky kwaba ukuqapha ukucindezeleka uprofesa izimfene USir Michael Marmot wayehola isifundo eGreat Britain bona zilandelwa impilo ngaphezu Abantu 28.000 phakathi kweminyaka engamashumi amane wawubizwa ngokuthi for Uphawu lwesigaba, eShushani endlini kwahulumeni British lapho wonke umsebenzi esibalwa in a esigabeni sabaphathi eqondile elabhorethri ephelele ukunquma ukuthi abantu kungase kube ukuxhumana phakathi erenki nokucindezeleka I mean ukuthi into mayelana ukucindezeleka Ngicabanga ufanele ukubheka it in zombili imigomo sibi futhi ngokulandela ezingalapheki Ngicabanga Ingihlabe ngaphansi ukucindezeleka okungapheli kule nhlangano ngoba nje Ngingumuntu isikhonkwane square emzuliswaneni imbobo Kevin Brooks kuyinto ummeli kahulumeni, isikhundla sakhe Izinga 7 kusho anakho ubudala encane uMnyango wakhe yena uphila ukuphila ongaphansi Ngicabanga ukuthi ngangineminyaka kakhulu uyazi ngesikhathi kwakuzowunciphisa futhi kanjani Kwadingeka iningi ngaphansi kokulawula kodwa omunye amacala kwami akubanga ngokupheleleyo ngaphansi kokulawula I wasiqashisa lushelele futhi kwaba kancane like ngokuba imoto ukushaya i patch ice futhi ngezicathulo ezinamasondo kodwa ezazibalulekile ngahlangana NgoMsombuluko ekuseni Umphathi wami ngokushesha ake ukumbiza Ben ke ufuna izwi nawe, kanjalo sithola indawo yena amvalele umnyango, bese uthi wazi ukuthi yini oyenzile Uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani ngenkathi away asikwazanga ukuthola omunye amafayela akho Uyazi Yini ukuthi kwakusho? Wavele wanginikeza okuhle ukukhahlela, nasengqondweni wenza ukuzongibona futhi ekupheleni kwalo kwaba izinsongo more. Lase ilungelo ukuthi Kuxhomeke izigwegwe mhlawumbe ngakho ngahamba ekamelweni wawela phezu corridor ekamelweni lami siqu mina nje waqhumuka wakhala izinyembezi, wakhala futhi ngakhala Sarah Woodall futhi usebenzela uhulumeni ngokungafani Kevin lapho eyincekukazi senior civil khona ikhulu namashumi ayisithupha abantu nokubika kimi ekugcineni ngandlela thize emkhakheni. Ngiyavuma ngempela ukujabulela ukusebenza nazo enkonzweni yethu kungcono impela ashukumisayo imvelo, kungaba ngempela okuthakazelisayo Ngiyathanda esebenza abantu abaningi Angazi ngempela ukujabulela umsebenzi WAMI. Ukuzindla ngaleyo ndlela kakhulu kwesama ilingisa omunye ezimangalisa kakhulu yocwaningo lwesayensi in the uphawu lwesigaba Ucwaningo Okokuqala babonisa ukuthi ephansi kade sabaphathi ayanda ingozi yesifo senhliziyo kanye nezinye izifo, ngakho abantu owesibili kusuka phezulu kwadingeka nengozi kwaleyo abantu phezulu lesithathu kusukela phezulu waba nengozi kunalawo owesibili kusuka phezulu futhi wagijima yonke indlela kusukela phezulu kuya phansi. Sisebenzelana nabantu imisebenzi esitebeleni akukho sichayeka industrial nokho isikhundla sakho sabaphathi ngokuseduze ezihlobene ingozi yesifo futhi Lenght yokuphila. Ingihlabe Lucky kakhulu Engingakaze ngiyizwe nezinkinga zezempilo zami kusukela Ingihlabe enkonzweni senior angizange kwadingeka usuku off kanye nempilo ebuthaka, bengilokhu nenhlanhla kakhulu In isimo sami siqu ngicabanga ukuthi career yami kugcwele zingcoliswe, pretty okuningi Kuboshwe ngoba ngiye ngaba Ngokwesibonelo, ngoba kule minyaka emithathu eyedlule emsebenzini Ingihlabe off abagulayo ngoba cishe isigamu sikhathi. Lolu cwaningo ikakhulukazi uhlobo the Rosetta Stone of lonke ensimini ngoba ukuthi lo British uhlelo umphakathi, everybody ngayithola ukunakekelwa zokwelashwa ezifanayo everybody ngayithola ohlelweni lokunakekelwa kwezempilo efanayo jikelele njengenkomo izimfene zonke izimfene udle into efanayo, babe ezingeni elifanayo yomsebenzi akusiwona izinto oh uma ungumuntu imfene-simo low ubhema ukuba okuningi futhi uphuza ngokweqile futhi uma isevisi-simo low wokuqalisa civil guy ungalokothi ukuya kudokotela futhi ungatholi yokugoma zokuvimbela kokubili lokhu Izifundo siqambe konke lokhu confounds futhi akhiqize okutholakele cishe ezifanayo. On zombili izinhlangothi hlobo lwezinkawu uhlukanise kukhona umphefumulo kubuhlungu izindaba kanye nemiphumela esongela ukuphila Ngoba wonke okhonzile like Kevin ukuphila imfene ukungaqiniseki kukhona alpha strutting Izinto yakhe, wokuzibonga ngamandla phezu omunye umuntu engaqaphile umuntu simo ongaphakeme Got kuye. 12:46 ingabe kungaba ubona lapho nomcibisholo kuba? Yebo. Guys kulungile ngubani Ucabanga liphakeme-simo? Guy wethu ... Yebo. Kuningi ngokucophelela qinisekisa omunye umfana akusho bekuhlupha kuye. kulo nyaka Robert ngathutha umkhaya wakhe ukuba Africa umkakhe oyisazi sezinzwa Lisa Sapolsky uye kwenziwe ucwaningo olunzulu izimfene futhi ngokokuqala Baletha kanye izingane zabo Benjamin and Rachel. Njengoba ubuthongo njengoba ebuka ... zonke izimfene bazimisele ngokuphelele ukuze kakhulu freaked out by a human ngiza futhi othinta omunye walaba bafana kodwa bayigubungele naye burlap futhi abekho akabe aphinde oh Nkulunkulu wami yena khona, yena ... engekho manje lokhu akulona ngempela like ukuthatha izingane zakho ukuba asebenze imini kodwa kungcono isici pretty lemcoka ngingubani manje futhi ngubani futhi mina nomkami futhi izingane bafuna ukwazi ukuthi sivelaphi lokhu futhi Pretty eliyisisekelo. Njengoba in zonyaka odlule Robert ulinganisa abantu kanjani kulelo nalelo zinga sabaphathi imfene ihlangana futhi uyalulama ukucindezeleka Ngakho lokho Sisenza kuba, siyakucela manje siya inselelo uhlelo nge amazinga okukhishwa elandayo epinephrine impendulo imfene is wathatha masinyane igazi layo izimpawu ezibalulekile ezingasetshenziswa ejulile iqandiswe unomphela Kuba lokhu inqolobane yolwazi okungenzeka bakuqashe kanye ngathola engu-30 alabo amasampula egazi ayiqhwa away kuleli qophelo ngoba ngeke wazi ukuthi nini hormone abanye amasha noma ezinye into entsha noma ezinye pops up futhi leyo nto ukubheka futhi uqale wasiphula lokhu amasampula emuva lapho niyazi Jimmy Carter kwaba umengameli. 50 ... 25 ... Ukulangazelela abanakusithola eside ukucindezeleka kuyinto umqondo yamuva, ngoba munye lapho robert eseneminyaka kaRaheli, ososayensi babekholelwa ukucindezeleka kwaba imbangela Inkinga kuphela ezinkulu. Lena isithombe american enkulu Inkinga abasebenzi ... isilonda ugly ukuthi odokotela ukubiza isilonda peptic kokudla away at odongeni esiswini somuntu. Labo izinhlungu esiswini ukuthi ukhuluma ngayo, the gnawing, nokushiswa, lezo izimpawu ezisobala isilonda esiswini. Eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu edlule, yini isifo ofika engqondweni wonke umuntu uma ziyakhuluma ukucindezeleka ... kungcono izilonda, ukucindezeleka futhi izilonda. Futhi lokhu kwaba ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nesifo eyaqala ukutholwa, eqinisweni iminyaka engu-70 edlule. Yini Ngifuna ukwenza ukusebenza esimweni sakho sengqondo. Isimo sami sengqondo? Kulungile. Izilonda ukuzalela uhlobo olungafanele imizwa. Ufanele uthembeke kuwe ngokwakho mayelana nendlela ozizwa ngayo. Ukuthola udokotela omusha umsindo like a impendulo engcono kimi. Ukuhlobana phakathi ukucindezeleka futhi izilonda kwaba iqiniso medical kuqhakanjiswe kwaze kwaba sekuqaleni 1980. Bese abacwaningi Australian wakhomba bacteria njengoba imbangela enkulu izilonda. Futhi lokhu wagumbuqela yonke insimu, lokhu kwaba, kubenjalo lutho nokucindezeleka, kungcono disorder amagciwane. Futhi ngizimisele ukugembula kwesigamu gastroenterologists Emhlabeni lapho wezwa ngalokhu, waphuma futhi kugujwa ngalobo busuku. Lokhu kwaba, like, uJesu oyisibonelo esikhulu kunazo Izindaba ... akaphindanga Babezobathola kufanele ahlale phansi iziguli zabo, futhi Mbuke emehlweni ubacela kunjani uya, ngakho, yini esicindezelayo ... kubenjalo lutho nokucindezeleka, kungcono disorder esibangelwe igciwane ... Ngakho ayisekho ababeyobhekana Isixazululo kube ukuphathwa ukucindezeleka, manje Kungase kube yinto elula njengoba iphilisi. Kwaba intuthuko enkulu. Ukucindezeleka akazange izilonda zangaphakathi. Case ivalwe. Kodwa eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, ucwaningo wathatha Twist entsha. Ososayensi bathola Le ukuthi amagciwane isilonda-okubangela wayengekho unique ... eqinisweni, okuningi njengoba amabili kwamathathu labantu emhlabeni has it. Ngakho kungani yingxenye encane kuphela laba bantu ukuthuthukisa izilonda? Ucwaningo lwembula ukuthi lapho ucindezelekile, umzimba uqala ukucisha bonke izinhlelo non-abalulekile, kubandakanya amasosha omzimba. Futhi kwaba sobala ukuthi, uma ucisha isimiso somzimba sokuzivikela, ama-bacterium isisu ungagijima engalawuleki ... Ngoba lokho ukucindezeleka akwenzayo, is asule ikhono lomzimba wakho ukuba baqale ukulungisa isisu izindonga zakho Lapho beqala abolile kude le amagciwane ... So ukucindezeleka Kungabangela izilonda zangaphakathi, by ukubhidliza ikhono lomzimba wethu lokuzelapha. Uma ukucindezeleka angenza buthaka izivikeli mzimba, Yini ezinye umonakalo Kungashiwo uyahlasela? Omunye impendulo Livela ikoloni oyisithunjwa monkeys macaque Winston-Salem eduze, North Carolina. Abantu ucabange ukucindezeleka njengoba into egcina kubo ebusuku, noma into okubenza ukuthethisa at izingane zabo. Kodwa, uma ubuza kimi, uyini ukucindezeleka, ngithi asibheke, kungcono lokhu uqweqwe elikhulu kule Umthambo, yilokho ukucindezeleka. Kwaphela amashumi eminyaka amabili udokotela Carol Shively iye ukutadisha imithambo of macaques. Like izimfene Nezinceku British Civil, lezi wezinkawu azihlele ukuba abe amaqembu ngokugqamile phezulu, futhi omunye ngale ndaba ngesinye ukucindezeleka social. Ukucindezeleka hormone angadala i negative response okukhulu zenhliziyo, inhliziyo ishaya ngamandla, ngesikhathi kakhudlwana blood pressure Ngakho uma ukucindezeleka kanje isikhundla, obungenza esimiso senhliziyo nemithambo yegazi of a esiphakeme macaque, ukumbiza CEO hlobo lwezinkawu, oyohluka kuyo okhonzile yakhe? Uma Shively ebuka imithambo imfene ephezulu, omunye umlando okuncane ukucindezeleka, kwemithambo yayo zazihlanzekile. Kodwa imithambo a monkey ongaphansi sika utshele a tale elibuhlungu ... A Umthambo okhonzile aman- more atherosclerosis build ngaphakathi it kuka a Umthambo ephezulu has. Ukucindezeleka, futhi uzamcolo umphumela hormone, kwadingeka yanda blood pressure, kulimaze Umthambo izindonga, okuwenza izinqolobane uqweqwe. Ngakho manje, uma uzizwe usongelwa, imithambo yenhliziyo yakho musa wandise, futhi inhliziyo yakho esilimele angawutholi begazi, futhi lokho kungaholela ukuhlaselwa yinhliziyo. Lokhu akuyona umqondo abstract, into akunjalo ukuthi mhlawumbe ngelinye ilanga kufanele ngenze okuthile, kudingeka ukuya kuso namuhla, ngoba kuphazamisa ngendlela umzimba wakho imisebenzi, futhi namuhla ukucindezeleka kuyoba nomthelela impilo yakho kusasa futhi iminyaka eminingi. Social nokucindezeleka ngokwengqondo, ukuthi macaque, wobuntu, noma imfene, kungacinanisa imithambo zethu, ivimbe igazi ukugeleza, kukhinyabeze impilo inhliziyo yethu ... futhi lokho nje ekuqaleni ukucindezeleka sika isiqalekiso ezibulalayo. Ucwaningo Robert ekuqaleni yabonisa ukuthi ukucindezeleka zizosebenza kithi ngendlela esethusayo ngisho nangokwengeziwe. Phela, emuva lapho mina wayeqala kule bhizinisi lokho I ahlala sigxile kwaba yilokho kwabonakala umqondo ngokupheleleyo akunasisekelo ngaleso sikhathi, okwakukhona ukucindezeleka okungapheli futhi ukuchayeka okuqhubekayo glucocorticoids angenza okuthile njengoba unsubtle futhi elibi njengoba ukubulala abanye amangqamuzana akho ubuchopho. Njengoba ukhetho PhD at Rockefeller University in the 80s zakuqala, Sapolsky wabambisana umeluleki wakhe, udokotela Bruce McEwan, ukulandela indlela ukucindezeleka singene ubuchopho. Bathi sezithotshiselwe amagundane lab nesifo ukucindezeleka, futhi babe sebehlola amaseli Wabo ubuchopho. Iqembu wenza i eyitholile esethusayo. Nakuba amaseli rat ubuchopho evamile sibe namagatsha olunzulu, wagcizelela amagundane amangqamuzana obuchopho babe ephawulekayo ezincane. Futhi lokho kwaba ezithakazelisayo kakhulu ngezindlela eziningi waba ingxenye yobuchopho lapho lokhu okwakwenzeka ... hippocampus. Uthatha Intro Neurobiology kunini for the Last 5,000 kweminyaka and lokho okufundayo kuba: hippocampus ukufunda Kanye inkumbulo. Ukucindezeleka kulezi amagundane wenqulu ingxenye yobuchopho babo obhekene inkumbulo. Yokucindezeleka ekuthinta inkumbulo ngezindlela ezimbili. Ukucindezeleka okungapheli kungayilimaza ngempela ukushintsha izifunda ubuchopho, ukuze silahlekelwa umthamo ukukhumbula njengoba izinto kudingeka. Kakhulu ukucindezeleka okukhulu lingaba nenye effect, okuyinto evame ... thina sikubiza ukucindezeleka kwenza wena stupid, okuyinto okwenza kwaba nzima ngawe, esikhathini esifushane ukukhumbula izinto wazi kahle kamhlophe. Sonke siyazi ukuthi mkhuba, sonke siyazi ukuthi omunye, kusukela emuva lapho thina ucindezelekile thina hhayi ukuthola ubuthongo nhlobo. Futhi Ngakusasa ekuseni Ngehora lesishiyagalolunye, asikwazanga ukukhumbula into eyodwa for ukuthi ukuhlolwa kokugcina. Uthatha engumuntu futhi bagcizelela kubo big time, isikhathi eside, futhi Uya abe hippocampus okhokhela intengo Kanye. Ngaphezu KWE kokubukela phansi impilo yethu ukucindezeleka ezingasenza sizizwe plain esidabukisayo Carol Shively ezibekwe ukuthola ukuthi kungani waqala hhayi hlupheka kodwa injabulo Shively okusolwa ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi ukucindezeleka injabulo lapho simi phezu nezicukuthwane like nje ukucindezeleka, ubumnandi kuhlobene chemistry zobuchopho uma neurotransmitter ebizwa Dopamine ukhululeka ebuchosheni it sibopha ukuthi ezenza uphawu injabulo Shively esetshenziswa isithwebuli positron isidoda tomography ukuba sihlole ubuchopho non-ucindezelekile hlobo lwezinkawu CEO yethu hlobo lwezinkawu. Lokho esikubonayo wukuthi ubuchopho monkeys ephezulu ikhanyisa eliqhakazile kunothile Dopamine zibopha kule ndawo ukuthi kubaluleke kangaka okuvuza uzizwa injabulo ngempilo Shively ke wabheka ubuchopho abangaphansi lokho sesithola wukuthi ubuchopho nezinkawu okhonzile kukhona zibuthuntu kakhulu ngoba kukhona kakhulu kancane yokwamukela-zibopha kwenzekani kule ndawo kungani lokho, kuyini ngalokhu engxenyeni yobuchopho uma une kancane Dopamine konke abakuzungezile ukuthi ngokuvamile uyijabulele. mancane mnandi ngakho Sun lingaphumi, avalele izinkanyezi ayakhanya utshani akuyona obuluhlaza kangaka ukudla kungemnandi ezinhle kungcono ngenxa yendlela ubuchopho bakho siyasebenza ukuthi wenza ukuthi and ubuchopho bakho isebenza ngale ndlela ngenxa yokuthi wena low on sabaphathi isimo senhlalo. Omunye SICI zesigaba ongaphakeme ofundiswa ongaphakeme simo ngokoqobo, isici luqine ngaleso sikhathi ufika abantu, kuba hhayi nje ukuba simo ongaphakeme noma abampofu, kungcono umuzwa ongaphakeme simo noma abampofu futhi enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu ukuba umphakathi kukwenze uzizwe njengomunye imbuya ngothi kuba ukukuthinta ekhaleni lakho phezu and ngokuphindaphindiwe nalokho ungenayo. Richmond California a town lapho imiphakathi ukweqisa kungenziwa nezimagqabhagqabha ilungelo emotweni yakho lena esendleleni njalo wenhliziyo Jeffrey Ritterman Ungafunda okuningi mayelana nosizi umphumela impilo nje omakhelwane uvakashela futhi kulendawo sobude bokuphila kuhle ngempela futhi iningi labantu kukhona pretty bephilile futhi njengoba sifika esiqongweni sentaba kwalo uthola ukuba kancane kancane nelungelo futhi njengoba senza lolu shintsho isimo senhlalo uqala uphonsa futhi alifani kulezo zindawo umphumela impilo zimbi kakhulu futhi laba bantu Ngeke ube isilinganiso sobude bokuphila efanayo njengoba abantu kuleyo ndawo middle class saqala ngo. Abantu niqaphe, abantu siphapheme, baphila impilo nakakhulu lokhu umphakathi ukuthi amahomoni ukucindezeleka okusezingeni e abantu isikhathi futhi esengeziwe kube ngumqansa. Omunye udokotela Ritterman sika isiguli Emanuel Johnson engu-65 ubudala career yakhe, isiqondiso umeluleki kwelinye omakhelwane eziyingozi kakhulu America kahle ngonyaka odlule empeleni ngicabanga ukuthi kwakufanele ngokudutshulwa amane nesikhombisa in the last ezine zinsuku sasiba 11 kudutshulwa ukufa kwabantu abathathu futhi izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye kweziyishumi ukuthi kuzoba isihlobo noma umuntu I ukugembula izingane Azi. For Emanuel Johnson kukhona amanani zokusondelana chronic kule ukucindezeleka eminyakeni emihlanu edlule I wamelwa inhliziyo ngingumKristu sikashukela kakhulu. Kumele basebenze kuwo njalo ngoba Ngiye ngaba kule ibhizinisi engamashumi amabili, kanjalo nje kungcono esicindezelayo ukusebenza nje umsebenzi, ngakho eminyakeni edlule ukuthi, niyazi cholesterol, i-blood pressure, ushukela wehlela phezu kamuva kodwa ukucindezeleka kwaba njalo phambi bafika Umzimba Emanuel Johnson angase etshela nangenye indaba zokucindezeleka cwaningo uphawu lwesigaba in england wathola i isixhumanisi Amazing phakathi ukucindezeleka, isikhundla sakho e-nezicukuthwane nokuthi Wena gqoka isisindo. Ngakho kungase kungabi nje ukugqoka isisindo kodwa ukwabiwa of ukuthi isisindo kanye nokusakazwa ukuthi isisindo uyifake kwi sizungeze inkaba ihlobene isikhundla sabaphathi nokuthi baphendukela kungase kuhlobane ezingamahlalakhona nokucindezeleka ezindleleni kanjalo thina wathi, ingabe lokho kwenzeke in monkeys ngoba azihlele ngendlela isigaba sabaphathi kakhulu futhi kuvela ukuthi enza monkeys ongaphansi maningi amathuba ukuba fat emzimbeni yabo Ke izinkawu ephezulu. Ngicabanga amazing kakhulu observation ukuthi Ngiye okwenziwe lab yami ingabe lo mbono wokuthi ukucindezeleka babeba ukushintsha indlela Nibeke wena fat emzimbeni wakho kimi ukuthi lona ngumbono yinqaba ukuthi ungase empeleni kuguqule indlela fat isakazwa Sapolsky Shively nabanye bacabanga ukucindezeleka kungaba yintfo lebalulekile in the global ukukhuluphala ubhubhane Fat Okubi nakakhulu, okwakubangelwe ukucindezeleka kuba fat esiyingozi. Uyazi ukuthi fat athwalwa esiqwini noma empeleni ngaphakathi esiswini mubi kakhulu kuwe kunakho fat kuyiswe nakwezinye izingxenye zomzimba eziphatha ehlukile, uveza izinhlobo ezahlukene amahomoni namakhemikhali kanye kunemiphumela ehlukile empilweni yakho noma yini imisebenzi kumuntu, badinga uyayazisa ukuncishiswa ukucindezeleka. Ngicabanga inkinga emphakathini wethu liwukuthi siyobe senza ngeke value ukucindezeleka ukuncishiswa thina eqinisweni value okuphambene Siyayazisa umuntu nje kuphela multitasks futhi enza izinto ezimbili ngesikhathi esisodwa owenza kodwa izinto ngesikhathi ezinhlanu esisodwa. Siyayazisa lowo Muntu. Abeve ukuphatha ukuthi uyazi ukuthi i esicindezelayo emangalisayo indlela yokuphila kumele ushintshe amagugu ethu futhi value ntu azi sokuphila okulinganiselayo nesokuba serene Ngomzuzwana owodwa nje ezibuhlungu emlandweni kwembula ukuthi ukucindezeleka empeleni kulimaze us eside ngaphambi kokuba thina ngisho nokuwabona Holland Ngasekupheleni kuka-1944 a ebusika ngesihluku futhi ibutho engenaluzwela bomsebenzi wakuceba azibulale isizwe kuyaziwa njengoba Dutch nendlala ebusika for labo abayosinda namuhla lezi kuthiwa okwesabisayo izinkumbulo. Kwadingeka lutho. Ngangingasakwazi ondle indodana yami. Ngase. Futhi ke kufanele anakekele ingane. Ngathola ukuthi esabekayo. Ngaya esontweni at the Dam eduze esigodlweni, futhi wacela umkakhe yompristi uma ayengadla ukukhulisa ingane yami njengoba nje impi zenzeka. Ngoba Angikwazi ukukwenza kusaba. Umcwaningi Dutch Tessa Roseboom wayezwile abaningi Lezo zinkumbulo edabukisayo yena nethimba lakhe wayefuna ukwazi ukuthi bakhona yini imiphumela ephikelelayo Roseboom wayazi ukuthi imizimba yethu aphendule indlala ngendlela efanayo Basabela kwabanye stressors kanjalo yena ezibekwe ukubona uma imibungu of abesifazane abakhulelwe phakathi nalezi zinsuku olukhandlayo kungenzeka ehlaselwe ukucindezeleka ngenxa ngokucophelela zokugcina amarekhodi by the Dutch Roseboom wakwazi ukukhomba abantu 2400 phezu owayengakwazi Kuye nomthelela. Yena nethimba lakhe bacubungula idatha kusuka kulabo abazalwa ngesikhathi futhi emva indlala bafika esiphethweni isimanga. Ngicabanga ukuthi ungase uthi lokho lezi zingane babenabuphi ukucindezeleka ekuphileni fetus futhi usalokhu nemiphumela ukuthi Manje, eminyakeni engamashumi ayisithupha kamuva. Eziningi zalezi Dutch indlala ebusika izingane bukhoma namuhla konke sixties zabo eziningi namanje athwale izibazi zempi sathola ukuthi izingane ezazifunda wakhulelwa ngesikhathi sendlala sengozini enkulu yokuthola izifo eziphathelene nenhliziyo abanakho hypercholesterolemia bangaba kubhekeleke kangcono izimo ukugcizelela futhi ngokuvamile in zezempilo empofu kunabantu abazalwa ngaphambi indlala noma wakhulelwa ngemva kwalo Abacwaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukucindezeleka hormone igazi likamama kwabangela ushintsho isimiso sezinzwa umbungu njengoba zalwa indlala lokhu kwaba imibungu yokuqala ubhekana nokucindezeleka engamashumi ayisithupha kamuva izidumbu zalezi indlala Dutch ebusika izingane namanje abakakhohlwa. Yini thina manje ukuthi akuwena wedwa fat amaseli akho ukuthi avale ukuba sengozini ukwakha towards imicimbi efana le, kungcono chemistry yakho ubuchopho, kungcono ngamandla akho ukuba ufunde kungcono umthamo wakho ukuze aphendule ukucindezeleka adaptively kunokuba maladaptively indlela kalula uhileleka ukucindezeleka, ukuthi abasengozini wena ukuba zengqondo iziyaluyalu kodwa kwenye indawo lapho okuhlangenwe nakho kwengane isencane futhi nokucindezeleka zakuqala angashiya kakhulu lokungcolisa embi kakhulu. If I eyayiphakathi option bengingeke wakhetha ukuba bipolar kodwa manje ukuthi nginguJehova bipolar Kuzodingeka ngibuye aphile Nalo. Kunzima ukuba ngibe nezimo. I am esheshayo kakhulu ukuthukuthela. Okushiwo Dutch mkhuba indlala ebusika kuba ngaye isipiliyoni, isimo uqale eside ngaphambi kokuzalwa and esibi izindawo ezicindezelayo zingaba sigxilise futhi ushiye izibazi obuhlala njalo a lifetime imbobo. Sithatha iminwe ngokuba akukho imfene ine yeminwe kuyafana esinye. Ngakho thina nje wathatha gummi amabhere futhi ngithemba laphaya bese uthole yakhe. Phakathi neminyaka engaba lolu cwaningo multi-generational, Robert osechithe nokubhala yakhe career Ugcizelela imiphumela ngamunye futhi phezu cell amathrekhi umzila yokucindezeleka nakakhulu emizimbeni yethu Omunye isiqondiso ezintsha ezithakazelisayo kakhulu ocwaningweni ukucindezeleka uthatha imiphumela yokucindezeleka phansi amabhawodi futhi izinga nuts cells asebenze kanjani, izakhi zofuzo asebenza kanjani, ukuthi eminyakeni kwabayisithupha edlule akekho bebengaba wacabanga the ones zicatshangwe izakhiwo zofuzo ngokuthi ama-telomere evikela imikhawulo chromosome ethu kusukela fraying njengoba siguga kwama-telomere ethu ukunciphisa, yini Kuyathakazelisa ukucindezeleka ngendlela lama-hormone okucindezeleka Ingasheshisa ukuncipha kwe-telomere, ngakho isiphetho iwukuba ngqo guys efanayo abaneminyaka engu uma ungumuntu umfana-simo ongaphakeme ubani zokuyithambisa nje hormone okucindezeleka telomere Zakho abazobe mfushane. Pho lokhu okwatholakala nengwenya zisebenza kanjani kuthina San Rafael California kanye ngesonto Janet Lawson egcina kunesithembiso esibaluleke kakhulu wahlanganyela nabanye omama abahlanganyela izimo eziveza okungamahlalakhona ukucindezeleka wenkuthalo. Ngakho ... kodwa yena looses balance wakhe futhi lelo scary okuyingxenye kanjalo thina nje waphuma empeleni ebusuku wathenga isigqoko omusha nje for fun Akezwa ukuthola abadala futhi abafuna ukuzimela kuba nzima Ngayinye yalezi besifazane umama ingane ekhubazekile Kithina indodana yami kuphela 8 kanye no kukhona ngokwanele ngikwazi ukusingatha futhi angithandi ukuvumela nami ukuya ngokweqile out, ngeke ngikwazi. Kwadingeka umngane usanda owathi Kimi wazi Ngicabanga ukuthi ngempela kufanele ucabange ngokubeka Lexie ekhaya futhi ukuthi yayicindezela ngempela futhi ngokwalo ukucabanga wahou kanjalo ... ngakho-ke like ungakunqoba kanjani baze bathi? Nanguya, Niyazi A intombi kancane yena, nakuba yena akakwazi ngempela ukuxhumana uyabuthanda uyabuthanda Lezi besifazane ephawulekayo wafika ukunakwa isazi udokotela Elizabeth Blackburn. Angizange ngqo ukwazi abantu kodwa ngiyazi izindaba Ngingumama wezingane mina manje lapho ngizwa ngalokhu welicembu I ngempela ngacabanga ukuthi wawufaneleka bekuthola lokho ngempela kwenzekani ngesikhathi inhliziyo amangqamuzana lomama abenza into enzima enjalo isikhathi eside enjalo Udokotela Blackburn ungumholi emkhakheni ucwaningo telomere. Sine chromosomes 46 futhi basuke eneziqongo off ekupheleni ngayinye telomere. Akekho wayazi abantu wether telomere futhi fraying zabo phansi ukuphila yayiyobizwa ehlaselwe ukucindezeleka okungapheli, futhi kanjalo, sanquma singathanda sibheke lokhu welicembu of onesifo wagcizelela omama. Futhi sanquma ukubuza okwenzeka Yabo telomere futhi nokugcinwa kokuthula telomere yabo. Yini sathola kwaba ubude telomere okuhlobana ngokuqondile inani ukucindezeleka umuntu ngaphansi, kanti nesibalo seminyaka ukuthi uke WABA ngaphansi kokucindezeleka. Okunjalo omama wagcizelela lagxila A befunda Uzakwabo udokotela Blackburn sika, sokusebenza kwengqondo Elissa Epel. Omama nezingane ezincane iqembu wagcizelela kakhulu. Avame kulinganisa izimfuno ancintisanayo like umsebenzi futhi izingane, futhi ngokuvamile akudingeki isikhathi ukuzinakekela. Ngakho, uma wengeza phezu ukuthi, umthwalo extra of onakekelayo ngoba ingane abanezidingo ezikhethekile, kungaba obuqand. kungaba intela kakhulu zigcine esekela abantu, futhi uma uqamba wagcizelela, uma bavele ukucindezeleka, zivame ukuba afe ekuqaleni. Laba besifazane ube mfushane kwama-telomere, lehla umsebenzi lokhu enzyme, futhi nenombolo kakhulu rough kakhulu minyaka yonke base nginakekela a onesifo kwenza ingane eyihlongandlebe, ozithole cishe iminyaka eyisithupha elibiza yokuguga. Lokhu ungokoqobo, lokhu akulona nje omunye ukububula ... lokhu ungokoqobo, sína kwezokwelapha ukuguga kwenzekani, futhi siyabona ukuthi empeleni ibangwa by the ukucindezeleka okungapheli. Kodwa likhona iThemba. Doctor Blackburn co-wathola i enzyme, telomerase, ezingaba ukulungisa umonakalo. Kunjengoba ngishilo njalo ushayele usongo iThemba ... Lokho kuhle. Lokho okuhle ... Yebo. Idatha owandulelayo isikisela ukuthi umhlangano izingqondo, ezifana le, kungenzeka ukuthi empeleni abe inzuzo impilo, by inkanuko imiphumela okuphulukisa telomerase. Futhi ukuhleka futhi ukuhleka, uma ungenawo ukuhleka, khohlwa, ngeke ukwazi ukusingatha it ... Kuba ... Yini Ngathola wukuthi amancoko yinto ... kukhona ezingeni elithile black amahlaya ukuthi esinayo mayelana izingane zethu ukuthi kuphela silazisa, thina uku yibo bodwa ababekwazi uthole amahlaya, futhi ngendlela yithi kuphela obani abavunyelwe behleka amahlaya. Omunye wemibuzo ensimini nokucindezeleka, niyazi, yiziphi ezisebenzayo ukuthi unciphise ukucindezeleka futhi ezikhuthaza nanokuphila? Futhi uzwela futhi nokunakekela abanye mhlawumbe ungomunye walabo izithako ezibalulekile kakhulu. Ngakho, Labo mhlawumbe lezi zici ezikhuthaza ubude besikhathi sokuphila ukwandisa telomerase, futhi sigcine amangqamuzana ethu ekuvuseleleni futhi Lentulo Ngakho, mhlawumbe okade nasekusizeni abanye engasisiza ukuze alungise ngokwethu, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho baphile isikhathi eside, izimpilo ezinempilo. Eminyakeni engamashumi amabili edlule, uRobert got a preview esishaqisayo lo mbono. The iviyo lokuqala wake wafunda, lo izimfene wazizwa eziseduze futhi wayebhale izincwadi, wahlupheka inhlekelele. Kwakuyoba abe nethonya elikhulu nocwaningo lwakhe. The Keekorok iviyo nguye Ngaqala engamashumi amathathu edlule, futhi base yakho eyisisekelo imfene elidala iviyo ngaleso sikhathi, futhi okusho abesilisa babe nolaka, futhi umphakathi waba wakubo kakhulu, futhi females Kwangithatha usizi, futhi eziyisisekelo yakho off the iviyo yokubeka imfene. Futhi-ke mayelana, manje cishe amabili edlule kwenzeka into ezihlasimulisa umzimba futhi ngokwesayensi kakhulu ukuthi lixuku. The Keekorok iviyo wathatha ukudla ukudla yokulahla udoti of a popular lodge izivakashi. kwaba sinyathelo ukubulala. Inyama kadoti wawuhlanganisa ingcoliswe sofuba. Umphumela waba ukuthi cishe isigamu besilisa troop wafa. Not engazwakaliko, ngacindezeleka njengendawo yabafileyo kanye pretty Day ethukuthele ngalokho kwenzeka. Uyazi, uma uneminyaka eyi-30 ubudala, ungakwazi ukukhokhela ukuba basebenzise eziningi imizwelo on lixuku imfene, futhi kwakukhona okuningi imizwelo lapho. Ukuze Robert, a eyishumi yocwaningo wabonakala ezalahleka. Kodwa wenza observation curious ke mayelana owayesefile futhi ababesindile. Kwakungekhona nomaphi owafa. Kuleso Troop, ubungumfazi nolaka, futhi uma awazange ikakhulukazi axhunyiwe ngokwezenhlalo, zezenhlalo affiliative, awuzange uchithe isikhathi sakho nokuzilungisa uyahlanganyela, ukube hlobo besilisa ungashona. Bonke abesilisa Alpha wayesehambile. The Keekorok Troop ayekade aguqulwe. Futhi Yini Basala NGE kwaba Females kabili abaningi njengoba abesilisa. Futhi abesilisa ababesele babe, Wazi, nje ukusebenzisa amagama anzima zesayensi, base guys okuhle. Babengesibo jerks nolaka, base nice ukuba abesifazane, base kakhulu zezenhlalo affiliative, it siguqulwe ngokuphelele isimo troop. Uma izimfene owesilisa ukufinyelela usakhula, ngokuvamile sokushiya ikhaya labo Kwenziwe inhlanhla and zululeka, zigcine sezithole impi entsha. Futhi lapho abesilisa ezintsha usakhula uzojoyina lixuku, Zazisho ingene njengoba nje nomqwayiba njengoba yimuphi abesilisa usakhula kwenye indawo kule planethi, futhi ahambe nabo cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha ukufunda ... siyakucela kabanjalo e laleliviyo. Asazi ukwenza izinto abanjalo. Asifanele ukuthi nolaka. Sinesikhathi esiningana zichobana. Amaduna ukuzola komunye nomunye. Awudingi alahle on A female uma uku ucasukile. Futhi kuthatha lezi guys ezintsha ngezinyanga eziyisithupha, futhi bona sigxilise lesi sitayela, futhi une mfene isiko in laleliviyo ikakhulukazi has a isiko amazinga aphansi kakhulu uchuku, futhi amazinga aphezulu obulungu social, siphelela ukwenza ukuthi engamashumi amabili kamuva. Futhi ngakho nhlekelele Wanikeza Robert nge isifundo esiyisisekelo, hhayi nje cells, kodwa indlela ukungabikho ukucindezeleka zingayikhinyabeza emphakathini. Ingabe lezi guys babe nezinkinga ezifanayo nge high blood pressure? No. Ingabe lezi guys babe nezinkinga ezifanayo ngengqondo chemistry ahlobene ekukhathazekeni amazinga Hormone yokucindezeleka? Lutho neze. Akukona nje isikhundla sakho, yilokho isikhundla Sakho kusho emphakathini wakho. Futhi kunjalo ngabantu, kuphela ukushintshashintsha kancane. SingabakaJehova Hierarchies amaningi, futhi ungase ube umsebenzi ngcolile corporation yakho, futhi akukho ukufuna ukuzibusa kanye nokulawula nokubikezela, kodwa uwena induna team inkampani softball ngalowo nyaka. Futhi wena ukugembula kangcono uya ukuba zonke izinhlobo izindlela ngokwengqondo ukuze ukunquma kungcono nje umsebenzi, 9 ukuze 5, akuyona yini izwe imayelana, yini umhlaba ufana ngaye softball, I am ikhanda ithimba lami, abantu babheke phezulu kimi futhi uphume ukuthi kokunquma wena phezu phezulu ukuthi okubalulekile kuwe. Awu, ukuthi wasebenza ... futhi eziningi imfene indle. Yikuphi, ngaphansi kwezimo ilungelo, kanye UCWANINGO ngesikhathi esifanele kuyinto imayini yegolide. Ngeshwa, kulokhu emhlabeni kumane yezinyoni ukuthi kumele uhlanza manje. Ngifundela ukucindezeleka iminyaka engamashumi amathathu manje, futhi mina ngisho ukutshela abantu indlela okufanele baphile ngendlela ehlukile, kanjalo mhlawumbe I kufanele zihlanganiswe konke lokhu, futhi empeleni, like, I am ezingakholeki wagcizelela, futhi hlobo A, futhi kabi zokubhekana, futhi enye kungani ngingafuna ukutadisha Izinto amahora angu-80 ngesonto? No konke ukungabaza I leluleka angalahlekelwa yonke ukwethenjelwa kwalo uma i Keel phezu kwabafileyo from a heart attack in my early 50s. Angisona okuhle ngaso ekubhekaneni nokucindezeleka. Uyazi, into eyodwa osebenzayo inzuzo yami ingu Ngiyawuthanda umsebenzi wami futhi ngiyamthanda zonke izici zako, ukuze okuhle ... Noma kunjalo, lokhu pretty ngokucacile indawo ehlukile ukwedlula Savannah e East Africa. Ungenza isayensi lapha ezahlukene kakhulu futhi more interesting kwezinye izindlela, ungaba izihlambi hot on a more njalo Yilokho a more , Umhlaba ezithakazelisayo ehlukahlukene eziningi ngezindlela kodwa kukhona okuningi phandle lapho wena miss isiqiniseko. Kukhona indawo pretty ngokuyisimangaliso, lapho zonke kokudla kunambitheka, futhi yakho izikhathi eziyishumi uyazi zonke isasasa. Lena okulukhuni eze unyaka nonyaka ngaphandle kokuthola, ngicabanga, a kakhulu umzimba ezahlukene kanye Ubumnene. I am extroverted lapha, ngiyiso kakhulu kunabo, happy more ... It is a okulukhuni hhayi ukuba sijabule. Ngakho ngelinye yokuvimbela ukucindezeleka kungase lokuthola indawo lapho siba control kodwa sithi kanjani nazo zonke isikhathi esisichitha emsebenzini Ngingathi lokho thina ngakufunda kusuka cwaningo uphawu lwesigaba, kusukela izifundo wezinkawu non-human izimo lapho abantu baphile futhi umsebenzi baqiniseka ebalulekile empilweni Isisebenzi sikahulumeni Senior Sara Woodhall uyasijabulela izinzuzo control. Ngeke Ngicabanga bekhathazwa khona ukucindezeleka Angisebenzi amahora 100 ngeviki I ukulawula bomsebenzi ukuthi ngenzeni ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi Angikwazi ukuqhubeka ukuletha isikhathi eside Control ... inani yokulawula kuhlobene lapho kukhona esigabeni sabaphathi emsebenzini futhi kulokho esikuthole is in general abantu ukubika kithi ukuthi izinto sezizimbi ukuthi bomsebenzi ukucindezeleka wenyukile rates abo ukugula akhuphuke. Lapho abantu ukubika kithi ukuthi walawula more uqamba ukuphathwa oluphakeme emsebenzini, kukhona ubulungisa more in inani ukwelashwa kanjalo izinto ziya ziba ngcono, umthamo lokugula Uya phansi. Ingihlabe Lucky I kakhulu Engingakaze ngiyizwe nezinkinga impilo yami. Kodwa akubona Bonke kunjalo Lucky kukhona amaphilisi iningi lethu abangewona phezulu? Nikeza abantu ukuzibandakanya emsebenzini ibanike e besathi benzani ibanike umvuzo umthamo kwemizamo abeka out futhi kungase kube kuhle awunalo nje emsebenzini kunempilo kodwa emsebenzini ikhiqize kakhudlwana kanye. Ngiye wakwazi ukufeza enegunya elithile lokulawula okwamanje Ngingumfana sesimweni esihle kakhulu lokhu babe okokuqala ngizizwa Ngiye ngabhekana A boss Kimi ozazisayo. Akenzi Busa imihlangano team uhlala emuva umema abantu esivivaneni, awuyeke abanye abantu chair Muhle umphathi wangempela futhi, kusukela ekuqaleni lapho ngiphindela abagulayo yami yakamuva shiya izinyanga eziyisithupha nje edlule yena sasikhuthaza ngakho ngicabanga ngizizwa ngokwanele ngokungachemile Ngubani ngabe wacabanga ukuthi izimfene URobert bangathi thina bantu Towards A Utopia ukucindezeleka-free. Lokhu kungase kuzwakale a little ezihlotshisiwe kodwa ngicabanga ngalokho sizama ukwakha umphakathi ongcono. Lezinyathelo zombili izimfene kanye amasevisi civil British kuba singasilingisa kanjani ukudala umphakathi ukuthi ine izimo ezokwenza abantu ukuba ichume futhi lapho lokhu ababeya ukudala umphakathi ongcono okhuthaza echumayo womuntu Ngakho yini izimfene bafundisa umuntu ovamile lapho musa ukuluma omunye ngoba ubhekene kokuba usuku olubi musa nje azixoshe phezu kwabo yiluphi uhlobo indlela, obulungu nomphakathi ngokuphawulekayo Into enamandla futhi ukuthi kusho by omunye ohlala ezweni lapho afuna ukuvelela futhi drive bese ubhala izinto futhi konke lokho uhlobo lwezinto abayenzayo lezo zinto ezibaluleke ngempela futhi omunye amafomu olukhulu kunalo lonke sociality unika kunokuba nokwamukela kanye zonke lezo zinto zenza izwe elingcono Enye yezinto ukuthi izimfene zisifundisa uma bekwazi, phakathi nesizukulwane esisodwa uguqule lokho okufanele uku emabhukutifundvo zomphakathi uhlobo, ka libhalwe zamatshe, asinalo izaba lapho senza bathi uku inevitabilities ezithile mayelana izinhlelo human social Futhi kanjalo, umbuzo haunting ukuthi umi kusukela ukuphila emsebenzini URobert Singaphetha nesibindi ukuze sifunde imfene? The Kikarak iviyo akazange nje siphile ngaphandle kokucindezeleka sakhula. Can thina?