WEBVTT 00:00:00.320 --> 00:00:01.839 hey select goers we hope you're doing 00:00:01.839 --> 00:00:04.000 well and finding time for self-care 00:00:04.000 --> 00:00:06.799 now let's begin do you go through life 00:00:06.799 --> 00:00:08.800 and feel a lingering sadness that 00:00:08.800 --> 00:00:12.240 never seems to improve you're not alone 00:00:12.240 --> 00:00:14.000 depression is a complicated condition 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:15.839 and affects you in different ways than 00:00:15.839 --> 00:00:17.119 you may think 00:00:17.119 --> 00:00:18.960 so with that said here are six signs 00:00:18.960 --> 00:00:21.199 that you are subconsciously depressed 00:00:21.199 --> 00:00:22.720 please note the information in this 00:00:22.720 --> 00:00:24.640 video is not intended nor implied to be 00:00:24.640 --> 00:00:26.240 a substitute for professional medical 00:00:26.240 --> 00:00:26.800 advice 00:00:26.800 --> 00:00:29.359 diagnosis or treatment all content 00:00:29.359 --> 00:00:31.039 contained in this video is for 00:00:31.039 --> 00:00:32.960 general information purposes only and 00:00:32.960 --> 00:00:34.559 does not replace a consultation with 00:00:34.559 --> 00:00:35.920 your own doctor or mental health 00:00:35.920 --> 00:00:36.880 professional 00:00:36.880 --> 00:00:40.719 let's begin number one you always feel 00:00:40.719 --> 00:00:41.920 tired 00:00:41.920 --> 00:00:43.520 when you wake up are you finding 00:00:43.520 --> 00:00:45.200 yourself feeling drained does this 00:00:45.200 --> 00:00:47.120 feeling seem to last no matter how much 00:00:47.120 --> 00:00:48.399 sleep you get 00:00:48.399 --> 00:00:49.680 depression comes with a number of 00:00:49.680 --> 00:00:51.360 physical effects that are often passed 00:00:51.360 --> 00:00:52.800 off as something else 00:00:52.800 --> 00:00:54.879 constant exhaustion is a common physical 00:00:54.879 --> 00:00:56.160 side effect 00:00:56.160 --> 00:00:58.079 even if you sleep a good number of hours 00:00:58.079 --> 00:01:00.160 each night you can never seem to catch 00:01:00.160 --> 00:01:01.039 enough rest 00:01:01.039 --> 00:01:02.399 this makes it hard to function during 00:01:02.399 --> 00:01:04.720 the day number two 00:01:04.720 --> 00:01:07.920 you're easily irritated and angered does 00:01:07.920 --> 00:01:08.799 it seem like 00:01:08.799 --> 00:01:11.200 everyone gets on your nerves even if 00:01:11.200 --> 00:01:12.479 these people are well-meaning 00:01:12.479 --> 00:01:15.280 you can't help but wish they'd go away 00:01:15.280 --> 00:01:17.119 it's not uncommon for depressed people 00:01:17.119 --> 00:01:18.640 to foster negative thoughts and feelings 00:01:18.640 --> 00:01:20.320 about the people around them 00:01:20.320 --> 00:01:22.320 while we all have those days where we 00:01:22.320 --> 00:01:24.080 prefer to keep away from others 00:01:24.080 --> 00:01:25.520 if you're noticing that you're pushing 00:01:25.520 --> 00:01:27.520 people away more than normal or if a 00:01:27.520 --> 00:01:29.040 friend is withdrawing from others 00:01:29.040 --> 00:01:31.360 it can be a sign of something more 00:01:31.360 --> 00:01:32.400 number three 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:34.880 you have a hard time with emotions how 00:01:34.880 --> 00:01:36.400 do you feel right now 00:01:36.400 --> 00:01:38.159 are you able to describe which emotions 00:01:38.159 --> 00:01:39.759 you're experiencing 00:01:39.759 --> 00:01:41.759 do you often have periods of time where 00:01:41.759 --> 00:01:42.960 you can't 00:01:42.960 --> 00:01:45.680 psychiatrist peter cifios coined the 00:01:45.680 --> 00:01:46.439 term 00:01:46.439 --> 00:01:49.200 alexithymia as being unable to describe 00:01:49.200 --> 00:01:50.399 how you feel 00:01:50.399 --> 00:01:52.479 for example while you may notice that 00:01:52.479 --> 00:01:53.600 your heart is racing 00:01:53.600 --> 00:01:55.280 a normal person would be able to tell if 00:01:55.280 --> 00:01:56.880 they're excited or nervous 00:01:56.880 --> 00:01:58.960 easily on the other hand a person with 00:01:58.960 --> 00:02:00.719 alexithymia wouldn't be able to 00:02:00.719 --> 00:02:02.799 distinguish if it was fear or excitement 00:02:02.799 --> 00:02:03.759 causing it 00:02:03.759 --> 00:02:05.119 not knowing your emotions makes it 00:02:05.119 --> 00:02:06.880 extremely difficult to know where to 00:02:06.880 --> 00:02:08.560 begin in tackling them 00:02:08.560 --> 00:02:11.920 number four you don't eat or you eat too 00:02:11.920 --> 00:02:12.720 much 00:02:12.720 --> 00:02:14.319 have you developed different eating 00:02:14.319 --> 00:02:16.080 habits do you find yourself forgetting 00:02:16.080 --> 00:02:16.879 to eat or 00:02:16.879 --> 00:02:19.280 are you unable to stop eating you may 00:02:19.280 --> 00:02:20.959 develop chaotic eating habits as a way 00:02:20.959 --> 00:02:22.720 to cope with how you're feeling 00:02:22.720 --> 00:02:24.560 overeating may be your only source of 00:02:24.560 --> 00:02:26.400 pleasure causing you to lose sight of 00:02:26.400 --> 00:02:27.680 your physical health 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:29.599 on the other hand you may lose interest 00:02:29.599 --> 00:02:31.680 in food and end up missing meals 00:02:31.680 --> 00:02:33.040 different stressors in your life can 00:02:33.040 --> 00:02:34.560 throw off your sense of balance which 00:02:34.560 --> 00:02:36.720 can also affect your eating habits 00:02:36.720 --> 00:02:38.959 number five others don't think you look 00:02:38.959 --> 00:02:40.800 like a depressed person 00:02:40.800 --> 00:02:42.800 has anyone ever told you that you don't 00:02:42.800 --> 00:02:44.319 seem depressed 00:02:44.319 --> 00:02:46.800 you or they may be accustomed to the 00:02:46.800 --> 00:02:48.560 media's portrayal of what a depressed 00:02:48.560 --> 00:02:50.640 person looks like someone who never 00:02:50.640 --> 00:02:51.440 leaves their room 00:02:51.440 --> 00:02:52.879 doesn't dress well and always has a 00:02:52.879 --> 00:02:55.200 miserable look while those are clear 00:02:55.200 --> 00:02:56.640 signs of the condition 00:02:56.640 --> 00:02:58.239 depression doesn't always appear that 00:02:58.239 --> 00:03:00.400 way according to psychotherapist 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:02.560 jody amen depression affects all 00:03:02.560 --> 00:03:03.519 personalities 00:03:03.519 --> 00:03:05.200 and can look very different from person 00:03:05.200 --> 00:03:07.519 to person people depression can suffer 00:03:07.519 --> 00:03:08.959 in silence too 00:03:08.959 --> 00:03:10.959 these are people that can perform tasks 00:03:10.959 --> 00:03:12.239 towards their goals and do their 00:03:12.239 --> 00:03:13.280 day-to-day tasks 00:03:13.280 --> 00:03:15.920 but still have lost their spark and 00:03:15.920 --> 00:03:16.879 number six 00:03:16.879 --> 00:03:18.480 you find it hard to put a smile on your 00:03:18.480 --> 00:03:20.879 face but you still do 00:03:20.879 --> 00:03:23.280 do you try to mask yourself as a happy 00:03:23.280 --> 00:03:24.159 person 00:03:24.159 --> 00:03:25.680 even if you don't feel that way deep 00:03:25.680 --> 00:03:27.760 inside many people who experience 00:03:27.760 --> 00:03:30.000 depression conceal it behind a smile 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:32.480 depression can be quiet on the outside 00:03:32.480 --> 00:03:35.440 but extremely painful inside for some 00:03:35.440 --> 00:03:37.200 while others display their symptoms more 00:03:37.200 --> 00:03:38.560 outwardly 00:03:38.560 --> 00:03:40.239 having an honest conversation with a 00:03:40.239 --> 00:03:41.760 mental health professional or someone 00:03:41.760 --> 00:03:42.400 you trust 00:03:42.400 --> 00:03:44.640 should be a top priority even if you 00:03:44.640 --> 00:03:46.000 worry about burdening others 00:03:46.000 --> 00:03:48.400 appearing weak or feeling vulnerable 00:03:48.400 --> 00:03:50.319 confronting and processing your emotions 00:03:50.319 --> 00:03:51.840 with others is a great first step to 00:03:51.840 --> 00:03:53.200 recovery 00:03:53.200 --> 00:03:55.200 it's difficult to deal with depression 00:03:55.200 --> 00:03:57.519 alone you may be struggling now 00:03:57.519 --> 00:03:59.360 but there's a world out there of people 00:03:59.360 --> 00:04:00.560 cheering you on 00:04:00.560 --> 00:04:02.159 confide with someone you trust and talk 00:04:02.159 --> 00:04:03.599 to a trusted professional to get the 00:04:03.599 --> 00:04:04.799 help you need 00:04:04.799 --> 00:04:06.239 be sure to like this video and share 00:04:06.239 --> 00:04:07.760 with anyone you feel will benefit from 00:04:07.760 --> 00:04:08.239 it 00:04:08.239 --> 00:04:09.760 make sure to subscribe to psyc2go and 00:04:09.760 --> 00:04:11.360 turn notifications on to keep up with 00:04:11.360 --> 00:04:12.239 our uploads 00:04:12.239 --> 00:04:13.680 thank you so much for watching and stay 00:04:13.680 --> 00:04:25.919 tuned for the next video take care