0:00:00.178,0:00:04.001 (dial tone) 0:00:04.001,0:00:05.519 There will be bad days. 0:00:07.181,0:00:08.142 Be calm. 0:00:09.326,0:00:12.478 Loosen your grip, opening[br]each palm slowly now. 0:00:14.078,0:00:14.960 Let go. 0:00:16.391,0:00:17.235 Be confident. 0:00:18.542,0:00:20.901 Know that now is only a moment 0:00:21.732,0:00:24.438 and that if today is as bad as it gets 0:00:25.023,0:00:27.737 understand that by tomorrow,[br]today will have ended. 0:00:28.521,0:00:29.422 Be gracious. 0:00:30.406,0:00:32.638 Accept each extended hand offered, 0:00:32.638,0:00:35.147 to pull you back from[br]the somewhere you cannot escape. 0:00:35.147,0:00:36.118 Be diligent. 0:00:36.826,0:00:38.693 Scrape the gray sky clean. 0:00:39.208,0:00:41.861 Realize every dark cloud is a smoke screen 0:00:41.861,0:00:43.668 meant to blind us from the truth, 0:00:44.021,0:00:46.495 and the truth is whether we see them or not 0:00:46.571,0:00:48.630 the sun and moon are still there 0:00:48.631,0:00:51.339 and always there is light. 0:00:52.240,0:00:53.300 Be forthright. 0:00:53.925,0:00:55.702 Despite your instinct to say 0:00:55.702,0:00:58.137 "it's alright, I'm okay"... 0:00:58.814,0:00:59.817 be honest. 0:01:00.485,0:01:05.895 Say how you feel without fear or guilt,[br]without remorse or complexity. 0:01:06.556,0:01:10.399 Be lucid in your explanation,[br]be sterling in your repose. 0:01:11.243,0:01:14.950 If you think for one second[br]no one knows what you've been going through; 0:01:15.119,0:01:17.548 be accepting of the fact that you are wrong, 0:01:18.090,0:01:23.100 that the long drawn and heavy breaths of despair[br]have at times been felt by everyone 0:01:23.647,0:01:25.748 that pain is part of the human condition 0:01:25.748,0:01:28.130 and that alone makes you a legion. 0:01:29.087,0:01:33.326 We hungry underdogs,[br]we risers with dawn, 0:01:33.741,0:01:37.551 we dismissers of odds,[br]we pressers of on 0:01:37.982,0:01:40.246 we will station ourselves to the calm. 0:01:40.246,0:01:42.527 We will hold ourselves to the steady, 0:01:42.527,0:01:44.224 be ready player one. 0:01:45.009,0:01:48.758 Life is going to come at you[br]armed with hard times and tough choices, 0:01:49.089,0:01:52.529 your voice is your weapon,[br]your thoughts ammunition 0:01:52.840,0:01:54.755 there are no free extra men, 0:01:54.810,0:01:57.295 be aware that as the instant now passes, 0:01:57.448,0:01:59.069 it exists now as then. 0:01:59.626,0:02:02.160 So be a mirror reflecting yourself back, 0:02:02.209,0:02:03.977 and remembering the times when you thought 0:02:04.161,0:02:07.210 all of this was too hard[br]and you'd never make it through. 0:02:07.756,0:02:10.006 Remember the times you could have pressed quit 0:02:11.092,0:02:12.420 but you hit continue. 0:02:13.416,0:02:14.324 Be forgiving. 0:02:15.074,0:02:17.456 Living with the burden[br]of anger is not living. 0:02:18.010,0:02:22.265 Giving your focus to wrath[br]will leave your entire self absent of what you need. 0:02:22.434,0:02:26.584 Love and hate are beasts[br]and the one that grows is the one you feed. 0:02:26.892,0:02:28.167 Be persistent. 0:02:28.444,0:02:31.266 Be the weed growing through[br]the cracks in the cement... 0:02:32.604,0:02:33.333 beautiful 0:02:34.717,0:02:37.672 because it doesn't know[br]it's not supposed to grow there. 0:02:38.518,0:02:39.594 Be resolute. 0:02:40.194,0:02:43.605 Declare what you accept [br]as true in a way that envisions 0:02:43.605,0:02:45.646 the resolve with which you accept it. 0:02:46.461,0:02:50.227 If you are having a good day,[br]be considerate. 0:02:51.140,0:02:54.968 A simple smile could be the first-aid kit [br]that someone has been looking for. 0:02:55.337,0:02:59.813 If you believe with absolute honesty[br]that you are doing everything you can... 0:03:01.419,0:03:02.246 do more. 0:03:03.817,0:03:05.513 There will be bad days. 0:03:06.606,0:03:11.442 Times when the world weighs on you for so long[br]it leaves you looking for an easy way out. 0:03:12.165,0:03:15.508 There will be moments when [br]the drought of joy seems unending. 0:03:16.338,0:03:21.789 Instances spent pretending that everything[br]is alright when it clearly is not. 0:03:22.820,0:03:24.164 Check your blind spot. 0:03:25.056,0:03:26.528 See that love is still there. 0:03:27.035,0:03:28.087 Be patient. 0:03:28.487,0:03:30.169 Every nightmare has a beginning, 0:03:30.169,0:03:31.864 but every bad day has an end. 0:03:32.156,0:03:34.333 Ignore what others have called you. 0:03:36.133,0:03:37.710 I am calling you friend. 0:03:38.495,0:03:41.319 Make us comprehend the urgency of your crisis. 0:03:41.658,0:03:44.644 Silence left to its own devices breeds silence. 0:03:44.644,0:03:46.691 So speak and be heard. 0:03:46.999,0:03:51.180 One word after the next, express [br]yourself and put your life in the context. 0:03:51.487,0:03:53.706 If you find that no one is listening... 0:03:55.044,0:03:56.023 be loud. 0:03:57.299,0:03:58.323 Make noise. 0:03:58.984,0:04:01.434 Stand in poise and be open. 0:04:01.665,0:04:06.109 Hope in these situations is not enough[br]and you will need someone to lean on. 0:04:07.509,0:04:10.073 In the unlikely event that you have no one, 0:04:11.658,0:04:12.680 look again. 0:04:14.111,0:04:16.753 Everyone is blessed with the ability to listen. 0:04:17.676,0:04:19.733 The deaf will hear you with their eyes. 0:04:20.163,0:04:22.282 The blind will see you with their hands. 0:04:22.328,0:04:24.066 Let your heart fill their news-stands, 0:04:24.066,0:04:25.924 Let them read all about it. 0:04:26.386,0:04:30.198 Admit to the bad days, the impossible nights. 0:04:30.645,0:04:34.172 Listen to the insights of those who[br]have been there, but come back. 0:04:34.172,0:04:35.218 They will tell you; 0:04:35.588,0:04:38.085 you can stack misery,[br]you can pack dispair 0:04:38.085,0:04:39.784 you can even wear your sorrow 0:04:40.446,0:04:42.686 but come tomorrow you must change your clothes. 0:04:42.686,0:04:45.159 Everyone knows pain. 0:04:46.574,0:04:48.950 We are not meant to carry it forever. 0:04:49.965,0:04:52.436 We were never meant to hold it so closely, 0:04:52.436,0:04:58.633 so be certain in the belief that what pain [br]belongs to now will belong soon to then. 0:04:59.172,0:05:01.329 That when someone asks[br]you, "How was your day?", 0:05:01.945,0:05:03.641 realize that for some of us 0:05:03.980,0:05:06.189 it's the only way we know how to say, 0:05:08.050,0:05:08.971 be calm. 0:05:10.386,0:05:11.671 Loosen your grip, 0:05:11.671,0:05:12.647 opening each palm, 0:05:12.647,0:05:14.208 slowly now... 0:05:16.608,0:05:17.376 let go.