[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.90,0:00:10.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When people are very old and deteriorated Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.58,0:00:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no one enters their world Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.74,0:00:14.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they're just sitting there Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.94,0:00:17.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will withdraw inward more and more Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.18,0:00:21.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their desperate need for connection Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.96,0:00:23.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is all now inside Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.04,0:00:27.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if a person is all alone Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.95,0:00:30.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if they're very, very deteriorated Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.71,0:00:35.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a longing for this kind of closeness Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.82,0:00:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs. Wilson, Hello. Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.44,0:00:43.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want me to sit? Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.41,0:00:45.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you see me good? Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.73,0:00:50.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gladis Wilson is a wonderful example of Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.66,0:00:52.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a person who was in the phase Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.68,0:00:53.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of repeptative motion Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.87,0:00:55.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where people use movements Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.71,0:00:57.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,repeptitive movements Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.18,0:00:59.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they don't have any more speech Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.54,0:01:00.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or very little speech Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.88,0:01:02.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they have human needs Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.73,0:01:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that need to be expressed Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.64,0:01:05.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,... Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.54,0:01:07.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you crying? Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.66,0:01:11.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're crying, you have a tear right here. Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.88,0:01:15.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In your face. Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.34,0:01:16.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have a little pain? Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.84,0:01:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want me to touch you? Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.76,0:01:23.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're very sad? Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.15,0:01:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you see me? Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.80,0:01:33.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is it scary? Are you afraid? Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.28,0:01:36.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if this person sits with their eyes closed Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.70,0:01:40.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rocking back and forth and maybe there's a tear Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.50,0:01:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,coming down Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.45,0:01:45.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a need there Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.09,0:01:48.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a little tear, that's coming out Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.28,0:01:50.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You feel it? Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.54,0:01:51.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You feel a little tear? Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.94,0:01:53.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you gently Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.83,0:01:57.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,use touch, and I touched Gladis Wilson with the fingertips Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.94,0:01:59.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right here on the cheek Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.42,0:02:00.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is where the mother Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.59,0:02:01.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,usually touches a child Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.84,0:02:02.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you touch an infant there Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.91,0:02:05.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it looks up and every cell Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.28,0:02:06.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remembers where it was touched Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.83,0:02:08.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the mother Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.02,0:02:09.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and often that person Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.47,0:02:10.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,knows even if they can't Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.82,0:02:12.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,say a word at that moment Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.59,0:02:14.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they won't talk. Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.43,0:02:15.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or they don't want to talk Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.95,0:02:18.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there's a communication Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.17,0:02:22.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that person is no longer alone Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.70,0:02:25.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can you let me in a little bit Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.84,0:02:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you think, just a little Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.90,0:02:32.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you think I could be with you and Jesus for a minute Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.14,0:02:35.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,{\i1}{\b1}pat, pat, pat{\b0}{\i0} Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.52,0:02:38.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus loves me Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.57,0:02:41.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this I know Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.89,0:02:47.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the bible tells me so. Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.36,0:02:49.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I used music because Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.38,0:02:51.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when speech is gone Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.41,0:02:52.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,music especially Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.58,0:02:55.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with Gladis Wilson it was religious music. Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.25,0:02:57.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because there's an emotion tied to it. Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.25,0:02:58.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And safety tied to it. Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.82,0:03:02.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So i used her old church songs. Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.51,0:03:16.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Singing: {\i1}{\b1}Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me, Yes Jesus loves me, the bible tells me so{\b0}{\i0} Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.22,0:03:18.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I did was when she moved Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.97,0:03:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I moved with her Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.22,0:03:25.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when I was singing because she didn't sing with me so I Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.53,0:03:31.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,matched the intensity of my voice to the intensity of her movements Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.36,0:03:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and pretty soon for a split second Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.60,0:03:36.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we became one person Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.34,0:03:44.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me, the bible tells me so. Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.68,0:03:46.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So at one point when she got Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.30,0:03:48.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very quite Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.69,0:03:49.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and very peaceful Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.79,0:03:50.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my voice became Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.93,0:03:54.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very quiet as hers and very peaceful and my breathing Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.58,0:03:56.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,slowed to her breathing Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.98,0:03:58.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she pulled me to her Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.59,0:04:00.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I moved with her Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.59,0:04:03.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for her at that moment Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.30,0:04:07.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe I was a symbol of her mom Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.96,0:04:11.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you open your eyes now? Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.37,0:04:13.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you see me? Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.35,0:04:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Feel safe and warm? Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.46,0:04:21.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, yes can you sing with me? Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.82,0:04:26.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got the whole world Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.06,0:04:29.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands, Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.48,0:04:35.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's got the whole world in his hands Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.94,0:04:40.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's got the whole world Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.07,0:04:41.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands he's got the whole world Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.99,0:04:43.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands. Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.13,0:04:48.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got the whole world in his hands. Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.08,0:04:51.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got the mother's and the father's Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.98,0:04:53.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.77,0:04:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's got the mother's and the father's Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.49,0:04:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.24,0:05:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's got the mother's and the father's Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.10,0:05:02.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in his hands Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.63,0:05:07.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's got the whole world in his hands. Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.15,0:05:08.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got the mother's and the father's Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.91,0:05:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The breakthrough Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.10,0:05:11.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't happen every time Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.19,0:05:11.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the person Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.99,0:05:12.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will not always Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.94,0:05:14.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,open their eyes and look at you Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.92,0:05:16.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if you keep trying Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.64,0:05:20.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you keep centering yourself Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.04,0:05:22.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and really look at that person Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.28,0:05:25.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and really mirror their movements Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.17,0:05:27.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe not this time Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.54,0:05:28.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the next time you come Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.56,0:05:30.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll have a communication. Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.98,0:05:34.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you feel safe? You feel safe? Yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.06,0:05:42.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With Jesus, yeah. And me.