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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.84,0:00:02.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh No!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.04,0:00:03.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have an exam coming up.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.58,0:00:06.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is trans generational systems theory?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.58,0:00:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Woah there!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.97,0:00:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You sound a little nervous.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.52,0:00:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't worry,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.38,0:00:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am here to help.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.58,0:00:21.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First! All trans generational theorist share the belief that
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.68,0:00:26.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,present day problems are related to issues in a persons family of origin
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.07,0:00:28.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all though their theories and practices may differ.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.89,0:00:31.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They all agree that the way to problem resolution involves
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.45,0:00:36.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,working with more than on generation in therapy.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.06,0:00:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trans generational approaches to family therapy grow out of the work of
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.78,0:00:43.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such pioneers as Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.60,0:00:45.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,James Framo,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.28,0:00:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Norman Paul,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.24,0:00:47.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Murray Bowen.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.08,0:00:49.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Although their theories and practice my differ,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.46,0:00:53.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of them agree that the royal road to problem resolution
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.36,0:00:56.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,involves working with more than one generation in therapy.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.82,0:01:03.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Specifically, it is the unresolved conflicts, beliefs and roles in a individual
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.77,0:01:07.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are thought to be transmitted across generations.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.52,0:01:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know you want to know about all the theories,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.21,0:01:15.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but how about we just stick to one today.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.27,0:01:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today lets talk about Bowen's Model of family therapy.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.36,0:01:21.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to help me
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.83,0:01:23.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I brought along Murray Bowen.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.97,0:01:24.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hi class!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.96,0:01:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am Murray Bowen.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.27,0:01:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen conducted clinical studies at the National Institute of Mental Health
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.32,0:01:35.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in which entire families lived on a psychiatric ward with their family members.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.65,0:01:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He noticed the patients and their parents
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.84,0:01:41.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acted in predictable inter-actional patterns.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.97,0:01:47.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He found that anxiety was often transmitted from
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.60,0:01:49.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one family member to another
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.67,0:01:52.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and even to other staff members working on the unit.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.96,0:01:55.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, he found that a families anxiety often subsided
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.96,0:01:58.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as various members of the unit staff
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.73,0:02:03.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,began to take on the anxiety for them.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.39,0:02:07.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These observations lead Bowen to develop a system concept for
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.69,0:02:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Schizophrenia and other disorders.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.27,0:02:16.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A core assumption of Bowen system theory
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.54,0:02:19.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that families and other natural systems
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.01,0:02:21.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,response in organized pattern behaviors.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.95,0:02:25.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This instinctual organizing into repetitive patterns
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.74,0:02:28.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is called the emotional system.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.79,0:02:33.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Although there is a lot of information in my theory
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.86,0:02:36.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really want to talk about the six major concepts.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.23,0:02:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good idea, Murray!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.60,0:02:42.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are Differentiation of Self,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.30,0:02:44.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Triangles,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.60,0:02:46.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuclear Family Emotional Process,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.82,0:02:48.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Family Projection Process,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.33,0:02:52.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Multi Generational Transmission Process.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.37,0:02:54.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that's it, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.38,0:03:00.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You forgot Sibling Position.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.08,0:03:03.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then there is my other ideas:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.11,0:03:07.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Genograms, Coaching, Eye Position, Person to Person Relationship,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.58,0:03:14.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Process Questions, Emotional Reactivity, Emotional Cutoff, Projective Hypothesis.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.27,0:03:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could go on and on.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.66,0:03:23.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes Murray! But we don't have time to talk about all of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.05,0:03:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So how about we pick a few and talk about them individually.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.19,0:03:27.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How's that?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.57,0:03:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah! Let's do it!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.82,0:03:35.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen theorized that families are living organisms
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.92,0:03:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with identifiable patterns of behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.32,0:03:42.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the family organism patterns of dysfunctional behavior
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.100,0:03:46.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tend to be repeated and become stabilized over time
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.62,0:03:50.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and can under mind family relationships.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.18,0:03:57.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Individuals within the family system are pulled between
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.71,0:04:00.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,belonging to the group and being separate.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.87,0:04:02.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ideally there should be balance.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.37,0:04:06.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you talk more about that?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.59,0:04:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isn't it your idea of differentiation?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.72,0:04:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! My idea of Differentiation of Self
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.49,0:04:17.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,explains the degree of closeness and distance individuals are in their family.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.24,0:04:23.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen coined the term differentiation to address the life long process individuals
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.63,0:04:28.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go through to define the self within the family emotional system.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.75,0:04:32.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Differentiation of Self is demonstrated by the degree to which a person can
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.98,0:04:38.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think, plan, and follow his or own values or convictions separate from
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.32,0:04:39.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their families emotional system.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.17,0:04:46.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Highly differentiated individuals are able to react to the world
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.15,0:04:50.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rationally and enter into relationships while balancing competing needs
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.97,0:04:53.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for belonging and being an individual.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.42,0:04:59.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would you say differentiation is the corner stone of your model?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.20,0:05:04.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! And the goal of therapy is to help one or more family members to a
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.40,0:05:07.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,higher level of differentiation
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.03,0:05:11.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that they can form open and honest relationships with others.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.87,0:05:14.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those persons with low levels of differentiation
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.64,0:05:22.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cannot think clearly for themselves and tend to be emotionally reactive.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.55,0:05:26.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without their own identity these persons mimic views they have heard
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.59,0:05:31.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than developing ideas of their own.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.07,0:05:34.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In order to classify all levels of human functioning,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.84,0:05:39.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen developed the differentiation of self scale.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.38,0:05:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The scale quantifies from zero to hundred the basic level of self in a person.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.29,0:05:48.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People at the higher end of the scale or said to have a solid self.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.23,0:05:52.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A person with a solid self is more differentiated and is able to function
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.48,0:05:58.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based upon a personal defined set of values, beliefs and life principles.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.76,0:06:02.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those at the lower end of the scale have a pseudo self
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.42,0:06:04.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is negotiable in relationships
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.14,0:06:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and are easily influenced according to others emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.00,0:06:10.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The pseudo self is composed of beliefs and ideas
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.80,0:06:13.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are essentialy borrowed.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.20,0:06:19.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those with a pseudo self live according to feelings not facts.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.15,0:06:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen developed this scale from zero or no self
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.44,0:06:26.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to one hundred, the highest level of differentiation
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.32,0:06:30.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a way to evaluate the degree of emotional fusion one has
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.04,0:06:36.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with others and their families of origin.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.48,0:06:41.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bowen believes that people chose mates with levels of differentiation
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.01,0:06:42.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,similar to their own.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.84,0:06:44.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His concept of Nuclear Family Emotional System
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.96,0:06:49.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,describes three possible patterns in a nuclear family
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.05,0:06:52.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when patterns are intensely fused.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.43,0:06:54.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.63,0:06:55.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Martial Conflict,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.68,0:06:58.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Impairment In One of More of the Children,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.92,0:07:01.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Dysfunction In The Spouse.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.69,0:07:05.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's meet the Smith Family, who will show us examples.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.71,0:07:08.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My mom's coming over for dinner.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.07,0:07:09.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you get rid of that hat?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.07,0:07:11.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know how much she hates it.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.59,0:07:13.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No way!
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.89,0:07:15.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't care what she thinks.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.31,0:07:15.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love this hat.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.12,0:07:18.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You never do what I ask you to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.76,0:07:19.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ask you to mow the lawn,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.72,0:07:20.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't mow the lawn.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.69,0:07:22.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ask you to clean the dishes,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.09,0:07:23.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't clean the dishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.09,0:07:24.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ask you to take your hat off,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.24,0:07:25.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't even take your hat off.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.60,0:07:31.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Blah, blah, blah, that's all I ever hear is blah, blah, blah.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.21,0:07:31.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't do this,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.94,0:07:32.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't do that.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.68,0:07:34.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't take it anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.39,0:07:40.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Family Projection Process described the primary way
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.41,0:07:44.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parents transmit their emotional problems to a child.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.23,0:07:47.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Children can inherit problems as well as strengths
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.51,0:07:50.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through the relationship with their parents.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.09,0:07:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Undifferentiated parents can transmit their immaturity
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.50,0:07:59.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or lack of differentiation to their children through the Family Projection Process.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.53,0:08:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see how one child was affected.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.04,0:08:07.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mom can I please have candy?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.08,0:08:10.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please, please, please, please, so much please.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.64,0:08:12.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will give you a dollar.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.71,0:08:14.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.07,0:08:14.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I please have candy?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.57,0:08:16.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I please have candy?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.19,0:08:19.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I please, please, please have candy?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.20,0:08:23.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to Bowen, the position the child has within the family
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.46,0:08:26.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,impacts their development and behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.06,0:08:29.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This child is the youngest and has turned out to be quite demanding.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.70,0:08:33.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dad give me candy, but you don't.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.11,0:08:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please just give me some candy.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.66,0:08:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wow! This family could use some help.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.03,0:08:40.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How bout Murray?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.07,0:08:45.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But wait! Now is a good time to talk about triangles.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.33,0:08:49.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know what a triangle is.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.21,0:08:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.27,0:08:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It has one face and three corners.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.54,0:09:00.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,CORNERS!!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.05,0:09:06.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! In my model a triangle is the smallest unit in a family system.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.07,0:09:08.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When anxiety forms between two people
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.60,0:09:11.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drawing in a third person helps stabilize the system.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.35,0:09:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And let's bring in the mother in law to show us an example.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.74,0:09:19.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hey honey!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.86,0:09:23.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I bought you some groceries seeing we all know your wife hates to cook
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.59,0:09:25.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and doesn't know how to food shop.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.86,0:09:29.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks mom!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.47,0:09:30.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're the best.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.88,0:09:35.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Triangles are the basic build blocks of an emotional system
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.54,0:09:38.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and serves to connect individuals to each other
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.46,0:09:41.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as anxiety builds between two members of a family.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.56,0:09:45.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A third individuals involved to stabilize the relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.35,0:09:47.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or bind the anxiety.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.90,0:09:51.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bye guys.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.04,0:09:51.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love you.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.64,0:09:54.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Glad I could help.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.19,0:10:00.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to Bowen; roles, patterns, emotional reactivity and family structure
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.54,0:10:06.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is passed from one generation to another.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.07,0:10:10.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In each generation, the child that is most fused with the family
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.28,0:10:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the less differentiated.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.49,0:10:16.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conversely, the one that is less anxiously involved
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.71,0:10:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,becomes the most differentiated.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.29,0:10:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mr. Murray are you almost done?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.03,0:10:26.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really want to talk about treatment.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.65,0:10:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! But first let me tell the class a little about some of my treatment ideas.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.13,0:10:36.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First, my model doesn't required all members of the family to be present.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.45,0:10:40.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it does require an understanding of how they family system operates
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.89,0:10:44.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,across multiple generations.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.09,0:10:48.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Second, I will do a family Gemogram and collect important information including
Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.42,0:10:53.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ages, marriages, divorces, births, deaths and the quality of relationships.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.81,0:10:57.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It will indicate any loyalties, conflicts and cutoffs.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.88,0:11:01.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Bowen's model, the therapists role
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.57,0:11:04.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is one of helping the client start a life long process
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.32,0:11:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of self discovery and differentiation.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.26,0:11:10.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The therapists encourages family members to take
Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.45,0:11:14.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,increasing responsibility for their roles in creating and maintaining problems
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.53,0:11:18.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by coaching them to make statements to reflect their own thoughts and feelings
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.68,0:11:20.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming others.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.86,0:11:25.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And of course without getting triangulated into the system themselves.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.88,0:11:28.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Simply put,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.02,0:11:31.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the therapist teaches them how emotional systems operate.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.19,0:11:39.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and initiate the work of differentiation from the respective families of origin.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.69,0:11:41.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well! I've got to get back to class.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.81,0:11:43.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But thanks for your help Murray.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.58,0:11:45.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to everyone else good luck on your exam.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.90,0:11:52.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now we can relax.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.76,0:12:15.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[upbeat music]