WEBVTT 00:00:00.146 --> 00:00:02.146 [ Bell Rings ] 00:00:02.286 --> 00:00:04.166 >> Hey, Barb, what's up? 00:00:04.166 --> 00:00:05.766 I've never seen you this sad on nugget day. 00:00:06.016 --> 00:00:09.236 >> I don't care about stupid nuggets or stupid dipping sauces. 00:00:09.396 --> 00:00:10.576 >> But there's three flavors. 00:00:10.956 --> 00:00:12.736 Three flavors. 00:00:12.736 --> 00:00:17.956 >> It's just, Mr. Squall asked me to stay after school for the third time this week. 00:00:18.166 --> 00:00:20.976 And sometimes he gets a little too close. 00:00:21.256 --> 00:00:22.456 >> Squirrely Squall? 00:00:22.936 --> 00:00:24.356 That guy's a total perv. 00:00:24.436 --> 00:00:26.616 >> Wait. Are you saying that Mr. Squall -- 00:00:27.086 --> 00:00:31.166 I mean, are you worried he might sexually assault you? 00:00:31.166 --> 00:00:32.095 >> Sarah! Shh! 00:00:32.095 --> 00:00:33.496 >> Uh, can we talk about dipping sauces? 00:00:33.496 --> 00:00:35.716 >> I know it's uncomfortable to talk about this stuff. 00:00:36.016 --> 00:00:37.436 But it's really important. 00:00:37.956 --> 00:00:39.386 My sister's a social worker. 00:00:39.526 --> 00:00:41.626 And she told me all about sexual assault. 00:00:42.296 --> 00:00:46.576 Basically, sexual assault is when someone does something sexual to another person, 00:00:46.876 --> 00:00:48.306 without getting their permission first. 00:00:48.756 --> 00:00:53.016 That can include anything from touching someone's genitals, breasts, or butt. 00:00:53.646 --> 00:00:57.856 Inserting something into any of their body parts or showing them something sexual, 00:00:58.176 --> 00:01:00.186 when they haven't given their explicit consent. 00:01:00.496 --> 00:01:01.516 >> Explicit consent? 00:01:01.876 --> 00:01:05.866 >> Explicit consent is a clear, voluntary agreement to do something. 00:01:06.036 --> 00:01:07.856 In this case, something sexual. 00:01:08.426 --> 00:01:10.876 A shrug or silence, doesn't count. 00:01:11.296 --> 00:01:15.726 And you can't give consent if you're feeling threatened or if you're drunk or high. 00:01:16.666 --> 00:01:19.766 If you consent to one thing, it doesn't mean you consent to everything. 00:01:19.766 --> 00:01:22.926 And you can take it back at any time you change your mind. 00:01:23.306 --> 00:01:26.306 >> Okay. But what do I do about Mr. Squall? 00:01:26.776 --> 00:01:31.346 >> If he assaults you in any way, first remember that it's not your fault. 00:01:31.916 --> 00:01:35.356 No matter who you are with, how you were dressed or what you were doing, 00:01:35.876 --> 00:01:38.606 you have nothing to feel guilty about, period. 00:01:39.356 --> 00:01:43.696 If anyone ever rapes you or hurts you in any way, get to a hospital fast. 00:01:44.626 --> 00:01:45.546 Tell them what happened. 00:01:45.716 --> 00:01:48.816 And they can help you take the steps to prevent illness or pregnancy. 00:01:49.146 --> 00:01:51.146 And get you to the additional support you'll need. 00:01:51.936 --> 00:01:56.396 Most importantly, you should tell someone you trust like your mom or a school counselor. 00:01:56.906 --> 00:02:01.686 You can tell them face to face, over text, on the phone, or however you're most comfortable. 00:02:02.246 --> 00:02:03.946 Talking to us was a good start. 00:02:04.226 --> 00:02:06.086 >> Oh, I'm freaking out! 00:02:06.156 --> 00:02:06.856 >> Me, too! 00:02:07.096 --> 00:02:12.856 >> It's normal to feel weird or scared about speaking up, especially if you know the abuser. 00:02:13.486 --> 00:02:18.306 But it's brave to talk about sexual assault or any unwanted sexual behavior 00:02:18.396 --> 00:02:19.856 that makes you feel uncomfortable. 00:02:20.286 --> 00:02:22.956 You'll be protecting yourself and other people, too. 00:02:23.386 --> 00:02:23.856 >> Thanks, Sara. 00:02:24.276 --> 00:02:27.136 I think I better go talk to the counselor. 00:02:27.536 --> 00:02:29.606 >> We're here for you, Barb, no matter what. 00:02:30.416 --> 00:02:32.226 Here, take one of my dipping sauces. 00:02:32.386 --> 00:02:33.456 Just not the Szechuan. 00:02:34.516 --> 00:02:46.500 [ Music ]