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[ Bell Rings ]

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>> Hey, Barb, what's up?

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I've never seen you this sad on nugget day.

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>> I don't care about stupid
nuggets or stupid dipping sauces.

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>> But there's three flavors.

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Three flavors.

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>> It's just, Mr. Squall asked me to stay
after school for the third time this week.

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And sometimes he gets a little too close.

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>> Squirrely Squall?

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That guy's a total perv.

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>> Wait. Are you saying that Mr. Squall --

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I mean, are you worried he
might sexually assault you?

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>> Sarah! Shh!

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>> Uh, can we talk about dipping sauces?

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>> I know it's uncomfortable
to talk about this stuff.

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But it's really important.

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My sister's a social worker.

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And she told me all about sexual assault.

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Basically, sexual assault is when someone
does something sexual to another person,

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without getting their permission first.

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That can include anything from touching
someone's genitals, breasts, or butt.

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Inserting something into any of their body
parts or showing them something sexual,

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when they haven't given their explicit consent.

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>> Explicit consent?

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>> Explicit consent is a clear,
voluntary agreement to do something.

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In this case, something sexual.

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A shrug or silence, doesn't count.

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And you can't give consent if you're feeling
threatened or if you're drunk or high.

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If you consent to one thing, it
doesn't mean you consent to everything.

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And you can take it back at
any time you change your mind.

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>> Okay. But what do I do about Mr. Squall?

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>> If he assaults you in any way, first
remember that it's not your fault.

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No matter who you are with, how you
were dressed or what you were doing,

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you have nothing to feel guilty about, period.

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If anyone ever rapes you or hurts you
in any way, get to a hospital fast.

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Tell them what happened.

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And they can help you take the steps
to prevent illness or pregnancy.

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And get you to the additional
support you'll need.

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Most importantly, you should tell someone you
trust like your mom or a school counselor.

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You can tell them face to face, over text, on
the phone, or however you're most comfortable.

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Talking to us was a good start.

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>> Oh, I'm freaking out!

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>> Me, too!

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>> It's normal to feel weird or scared about
speaking up, especially if you know the abuser.

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But it's brave to talk about sexual
assault or any unwanted sexual behavior

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that makes you feel uncomfortable.

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You'll be protecting yourself
and other people, too.

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>> Thanks, Sara.

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I think I better go talk to the counselor.

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>> We're here for you, Barb, no matter what.

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Here, take one of my dipping sauces.

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Just not the Szechuan.

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