0:00:00.000,0:00:08.425 He told me racism is fake and was made up by social media and institution. 0:00:35.502,0:00:37.687 Hello everyone, welcome back to my channel. 0:00:37.687,0:00:41.775 Today, I want to talk to you about dating apps, 0:00:41.775,0:00:45.395 Which I've never talked about on my channel before. 0:00:45.395,0:00:54.738 I wanted to talk about dating apps because they're still somewhat controversial. 0:00:54.738,0:00:59.692 There's a preference for meeting people naturally, which I think is great, but 0:00:59.692,0:01:03.129 I think with the pandemic, it's been hard to meet people naturally, 0:01:03.129,0:01:04.647 Especially in person. 0:01:04.647,0:01:08.835 And dating during the pandemic has just been really strange. 0:01:08.835,0:01:14.157 I just wanted to share my experience on using dating apps. 0:01:14.157,0:01:19.362 I actually first went on dating apps as soon as I was vaccinated. 0:01:19.362,0:01:27.937 The reason why I started dating apps was because I started graduate studies 0:01:27.937,0:01:33.209 here at Stanford, right when the pandemic was at its worst. 0:01:33.209,0:01:37.080 There weren't a lot of people on campus, first of all. 0:01:37.080,0:01:41.267 We weren't even able to intermingle with people on campus. 0:01:41.267,0:01:49.192 The only people I got to hang out with were the 11 other students in my cohort. 0:01:49.192,0:01:57.767 - in my program. After hanging out with the same 11 people for a year, 0:01:57.767,0:02:05.275 I just wanted to meet someone else. I hadn't dated anyone at all 0:02:05.275,0:02:14.467 I hadn't been on any romantic dates or in relationships for about... 0:02:14.467,0:02:21.324 Maybe 3-4 years at that point? I got out of a relationship my Senior year of college 0:02:21.324,0:02:26.529 And then I did 2 years of work in Baltimore, and I knew I didn't want to stay 0:02:26.529,0:02:30.817 in Baltimore for a long period of time, so I didn't look for anything serious. 0:02:30.817,0:02:35.672 And then I got to campus and it was the pandemic. So I just spent a year 0:02:35.672,0:02:41.544 not meeting people romantically. And I finally went on dating apps and I 0:02:41.544,0:02:45.882 went on a few that my friends have been really successful on. 0:02:45.882,0:02:50.987 Honestly, most people around me found their significant others through dating apps. 0:02:50.987,0:02:53.857 So I wanted to give them a try. 0:02:53.857,0:02:59.162 I first want to show you which dating apps I used and try to compare them. 0:02:59.162,0:03:04.117 One of the dating apps I used is one that I've actually used before. 0:03:04.117,0:03:11.324 It's called Coffee Meets Bagel. That app has been around for a long time. 0:03:11.324,0:03:16.996 I used it once when I was in college and was visiting UCLA as a student researcher. 0:03:16.996,0:03:21.634 I actually did get into a serious relationship through that app. 0:03:21.634,0:03:25.672 But we were long-distance and things didn't really work out. 0:03:25.672,0:03:31.010 And then I never went back on [apps]. I downloaded that and tried it out. 0:03:31.010,0:03:35.848 I think it's a bit outdated now. The interface seems old to me. 0:03:35.848,0:03:41.688 The good thing about Coffee Meets Bagel is, 0:03:41.688,0:03:44.507 you only get a certain number of matches per day. 0:03:44.507,0:03:47.577 I think you're only shown 10 profiles a day or something 0:03:47.577,0:03:53.066 And you can choose from these profiles who you like. 0:03:53.066,0:03:57.537 I think generally for women, it works a bit differently. 0:03:57.537,0:04:00.873 At least from what I remember, when I was first on it, 0:04:00.873,0:04:04.544 You were only shown people who had already liked you. 0:04:04.544,0:04:09.032 So you could choose who you wanted to match with right away. 0:04:09.032,0:04:12.769 I think you could only get 1 match a day or something. 0:04:12.769,0:04:15.321 I think now it's a couple more per day? 0:04:15.321,0:04:19.692 I think it's a good app for people who don't have a ton of time 0:04:19.692,0:04:21.694 And don't want to be overwhelmed by dating apps 0:04:21.694,0:04:24.714 Because dating apps can be just endless scrolling 0:04:24.714,0:04:26.899 through profiles and swiping. 0:04:26.899,0:04:31.888 I tended to match with similar people on CMB 0:04:31.888,0:04:37.126 as I did on Hinge. So I think they have similar algorithms 0:04:37.126,0:04:39.829 in terms of matching people. 0:04:39.829,0:04:45.952 Next I used Hinge, which I thought was the best out of the ones I used. 0:04:45.952,0:04:52.859 Hinge is really interesting. I don't know exactly how their algorithm works 0:04:52.859,0:04:58.765 But I like that they have different sections so you can see who's liked you. 0:04:58.765,0:05:01.334 You could just go through that pile. 0:05:01.334,0:05:04.454 Or you can choose from people's favorites 0:05:04.454,0:05:06.839 profiles that have received a lot of attention 0:05:06.839,0:05:10.326 over the past week or so. You can send them roses 0:05:10.326,0:05:15.014 if you want. A rose is something you pay extra money for 0:05:15.014,0:05:17.433 You also get 1 free rose a week. 0:05:17.433,0:05:20.153 You can use that to show someone you really like them, 0:05:20.153,0:05:21.971 instead of just sending them a like. 0:05:21.971,0:05:25.458 Hinge is really similar to normal social media 0:05:25.458,0:05:28.094 I thought it was really similar to Instagram, 0:05:28.094,0:05:29.412 where you can look through pictures, 0:05:29.412,0:05:32.815 And they have short prompts to 0:05:32.815,0:05:36.069 allow you to show your personality. 0:05:36.069,0:05:38.821 There's also an explore page 0:05:38.821,0:05:41.140 where you can go through profiles in your area. 0:05:41.140,0:05:45.094 They have similar settings to any other app; 0:05:45.094,0:05:49.048 You can choose if you like women, or men, or both. 0:05:49.048,0:05:54.404 You can choose whether certain things are deal-breakers. 0:05:54.404,0:05:59.826 Generally, they'll show age, religion- if you have one- 0:05:59.826,0:06:02.295 What sort of drugs you do, which I thought was interesting. 0:06:02.295,0:06:04.347 I think that's a somewhat new feature. 0:06:04.347,0:06:09.268 Where you live, where your hometown is- so where you're from. 0:06:09.268,0:06:13.990 And your job. I actually ended up only using Hinge for most of my dating. 0:06:13.990,0:06:20.213 It worked better for me. I liked the pool of people I saw on Hinge 0:06:20.213,0:06:25.485 compared to other dating apps. It seems like all of the young professionals 0:06:25.485,0:06:28.955 are using Hinge these days, and it just worked really well. 0:06:28.955,0:06:37.964 I also used Bumble for a little bit toward the beginning of my dating endeavors. 0:06:37.964,0:06:41.017 I think there were a few things I didn't like. 0:06:41.017,0:06:44.303 One of the things is you can't see who's liked you so far. 0:06:44.303,0:06:48.291 So you have to do endless swiping until you connect 0:06:48.291,0:06:50.126 with someone who's already liked you. 0:06:50.126,0:06:56.949 And I think it's up to the women on Bumble to initiate conversations. 0:06:56.949,0:07:04.724 Recently, I went on a different app. It's a religion-based app called Upward. 0:07:04.724,0:07:10.213 I had never heard of it before. I went on it because faith is really important 0:07:10.213,0:07:14.083 Religion is important, spirituality is really important for certain people. 0:07:14.083,0:07:19.188 And I was just really curious to see what type of people I'd find on the app. 0:07:19.188,0:07:21.240 So I went on it. 0:07:21.240,0:07:25.962 I personally am Christian, but I saw a lot of people 0:07:25.962,0:07:29.048 on there with a variety of religions. There were 0:07:29.048,0:07:33.202 people who were Muslim, people who were Christian, 0:07:33.202,0:07:37.607 like myself. People who were Buddhist. 0:07:37.607,0:07:39.892 A lot of these different things... 0:07:39.892,0:07:45.097 I thought the pool of people I saw on there were much older than me. 0:07:45.097,0:07:49.519 Generally not the type of people I would imagine myself with. 0:07:49.519,0:07:54.473 But it works similarly to Bumble, where you have to keep swiping. 0:07:54.473,0:07:56.409 And once you match with someone, 0:07:56.409,0:07:59.495 I think it's up to you to try to initiate conversation with them. 0:07:59.495,0:08:02.415 So now I'm going to show you what my profile looked like. 0:08:02.415,0:08:04.700 This is my Hinge profile. 0:08:04.700,0:08:07.753 I currently have it on pause, but I unpaused it 0:08:07.753,0:08:12.074 for a couple of days, just to show you how people 0:08:12.074,0:08:15.344 How men would respond to certain prompts 0:08:15.344,0:08:19.265 and pictures on my profile. It has my real name on it, 0:08:19.265,0:08:23.369 I used this as my main profile photo. 0:08:23.369,0:08:26.222 It's one that I took at a winery. 0:08:26.222,0:08:32.578 Most of these pictures are from before I started bleaching my hair 0:08:32.578,0:08:34.614 Which was this past summer. 0:08:34.614,0:08:40.703 I actually changed this prompt. It used to be something like- 0:08:44.607,0:08:48.144 I don't think that's really conducive to serious matches. 0:08:48.144,0:08:49.962 So I changed it to- 0:08:59.005,0:09:01.691 I got a lot of really interesting responses to that. 0:09:01.691,0:09:05.328 I think generally, men my age are not ready for that. 0:09:07.096,0:09:11.317 It shows my age, my height- that's also something they show. 0:09:11.317,0:09:16.372 My location, whether you have children or not. 0:09:16.372,0:09:18.741 Whether you want children or not. 0:09:18.741,0:09:22.628 Whether you're vaccinated; that's something new they've added. 0:09:22.628,0:09:24.997 Whether you drink, whether you smoke, 0:09:24.997,0:09:29.235 Whether you smoke week, whether you do drugs. 0:09:29.235,0:09:35.024 My job, my school- it also shows the school you graduated from 0:09:35.024,0:09:40.112 What sort of degrees you have, your religion if you have one. 0:09:40.112,0:09:41.597 And your hometown. 0:09:41.597,0:09:43.833 Not all of these need to be shown. 0:09:43.833,0:09:49.472 The only mandatory ones are age, height, and location. 0:09:49.472,0:09:52.391 It's just a picture of me on a carousel. 0:09:52.391,0:09:53.542 It says, "Don't judge me." 0:09:53.542,0:09:56.912 I think my prompts and photos are kind of lame. 0:09:56.912,0:09:59.031 So I'm surprised I ever matched with anyone. 0:09:59.031,0:10:00.600 But... yeah.... 0:10:00.600,0:10:05.254 I have this one photo I added after I went back on the dating apps. 0:10:05.254,0:10:10.893 I was only on it for a month when I first went on. 0:10:10.893,0:10:14.463 And then I got into a serious relationship with someone. 0:10:14.463,0:10:18.334 And then I got out of that relationship after about 6 months. 0:10:18.334,0:10:22.121 I dated someone who was another student here. 0:10:22.121,0:10:26.058 We just decided it was best to just be friends. 0:10:26.058,0:10:28.911 But everything's okay and I'm back to dating. :) 0:10:28.911,0:10:36.018 I added this photo just to show people... I... I had pink hair. 0:10:38.287,0:10:41.073 I'll fall for you if you... 0:10:41.073,0:10:44.593 Oh God... it's grammatically incorrect. 0:10:56.555,0:11:04.830 This is just a random pink wall corner in Busan, in Korea. 0:11:06.382,0:11:09.201 I changed a lot of these prompts, now that I think about it. 0:11:10.302,0:11:16.692 This one says, "My ideal date from home: Watching kdramas over a glass of wine and cuddles" 0:11:23.783,0:11:26.602 "Felt cute, might delete later" 0:11:26.869,0:11:28.187 I should delete that. 0:11:28.187,0:11:33.976 Now I'm going to show you how guys generally responded to my prompts. 0:11:33.976,0:11:38.781 I'll go into actual matches. So these are people who've liked me. 0:11:38.781,0:11:41.650 Who liked me over 2 days in winter break. 0:11:41.650,0:11:43.919 They show you people who've sent you roses first, 0:11:43.919,0:11:48.057 Because those are the people who are most interested in you. 0:11:48.057,0:11:50.659 So you can see how they're responded to certain prompts. 0:11:50.659,0:11:55.564 To my "I'm looking for" prompt, 0:11:55.564,0:11:58.717 "I want lifetime of fun and laughter." 0:11:58.717,0:12:02.938 This guy, to my "help me glean fruit", 0:12:02.938,0:12:06.409 "I'm a bit too short, but maybe I can give you a boost?" 0:12:06.409,0:12:11.180 This guy says, "Hi Yoo Jin! We're looking for the same thing. Let's get a meal together sometime!" 0:12:11.180,0:12:14.850 Some guys like girls who are looking for serious relationships 0:12:14.850,0:12:16.452 Because that's what they're looking for as well. 0:12:17.103,0:12:21.624 "Glean. I'm expert on this subject. That's a strong shared interest. 0:12:21.624,0:12:25.561 By the way, your name in Japanese means "Friend."" 0:12:27.480,0:12:30.750 He has the wrong Chinese characters for my name. 0:12:31.066,0:12:34.587 This guy, to the serious relationship prompt, 0:12:34.587,0:12:39.058 "If we have 5 kids that sounds like a lifetime of financial pain. 0:12:39.058,0:12:44.630 But otherwise that sounds great. Guess we can save money by stealing Stanford fruit." 0:12:45.948,0:12:48.050 Pretty good response. 0:12:49.452,0:12:52.621 That's generally what a lot of guys said to that prompt. 0:12:52.621,0:12:54.807 They were like, 3-5 kids is maybe too much. 0:12:54.807,0:12:56.308 Especially for California. 0:12:57.576,0:13:01.497 This guy to the "watching kdramas over wine and cuddles" says, 0:13:01.497,0:13:05.734 "Annyeong, how is life? Any good drama recommendation?" 0:13:05.835,0:13:08.521 I got this a lot, actually, as well. 0:13:09.421,0:13:12.107 In regards to the serious relationship, 3-5 kids thing, 0:13:12.107,0:13:15.678 He says, "Do you also have a big family?" 0:13:16.796,0:13:20.232 I actually don't. I only have one sister. 0:13:20.232,0:13:21.600 But I want a big family, so... 0:13:23.419,0:13:26.572 To the gleaning fruit prompt, "I've only successfully gotten oranges." 0:13:26.572,0:13:37.483 To the kdramas thing, "What kind of kdramas are you watching nowadays? What do you watch? BTW Merry Christmas!" 0:13:37.483,0:13:42.838 To the gleaning fruit prompt, this guy says, "Yes, hello, I'm your guy." 0:13:44.673,0:13:49.328 One of his prompts on his profile actually says, "I won't shut up about Puerto Rico and my love for fruit trees." 0:13:49.795,0:13:52.047 This is probably a really good match. 0:13:54.333,0:13:59.788 To the gleaning fruit prompt, "First we need to set up a calendar and buy a huge ladder." 0:14:00.773,0:14:01.907 Realistic guy. 0:14:01.907,0:14:04.310 Sometimes I'll get weird guys. 0:14:05.261,0:14:09.181 This guy responded to one of my photos and just said, "Netflix and chill?" 0:14:10.583,0:14:12.701 Did he read any part of my profile? 0:14:15.838,0:14:20.209 He said, "I know it's time to delete Hinge when I match with my sister again." 0:14:24.363,0:14:25.030 Poor guy. 0:14:25.948,0:14:30.319 To kdramas, "This sounds super fun. Any plans for NYE?" 0:14:30.319,0:14:35.641 "I love how we have so many fruit trees on campus. Do you have any favorite spots?" 0:14:35.641,0:14:38.794 "I love this! Do you have a favorite kdrama currently?" 0:14:38.794,0:14:41.530 I got a lot of those questions too. 0:14:41.530,0:14:45.918 This guy's cute, but also... 0:14:45.918,0:14:50.372 He says he's a trauma surgeon at OHSU, which is in Oregon. 0:14:50.372,0:14:52.458 So I'm not sure why he matched with me...? 0:14:56.612,0:14:58.180 I got this a lot too! 0:14:58.914,0:15:02.835 To the 3-5 kids thing, he says, "5? That's ambitious!" 0:15:02.835,0:15:09.091 "What's your fave drama rn? I'm watching Our Beloved Summer- so cute and funny." 0:15:09.091,0:15:15.297 To the serious relationship prompt, "Sounds amazing, I want the same." 0:15:15.297,0:15:21.120 To the gleaning fruit prompt, "Haha my family has def done this." 0:15:23.739,0:15:30.129 To the serious relationship thing, "I might not be looking for something serious at the moment, 0:15:30.129,0:15:34.550 but maybe I can be a stop along the way. What kdramas are you into?" 0:15:34.550,0:15:39.538 In response to the kdramas, "As long as it's Crash Landing on You." 0:15:39.538,0:15:45.644 but maybe I can be a stop along the way. What kdramas are you into?" 0:15:47.046,0:15:48.981 It's not a euphemism... 0:15:49.365,0:15:52.968 Just to tell you a little bit about my matching and dating experience, 0:15:52.968,0:15:59.308 I generally didn't text a lot on the dating app, because I first of all hate texting, 0:15:59.308,0:16:03.462 But I also had a really bad experience with texting and then meeting in real life. 0:16:03.462,0:16:11.186 which I'll tell you about really soon. But because of that, I always tried to meet in person, 0:16:11.186,0:16:18.661 as soon as I could after I matched with them and could tell they weren't dangerous. 0:16:18.661,0:16:24.533 Some of you may judge me for this, but I went on the same date with every single person. 0:16:24.533,0:16:31.423 So the first date was always- I would get them to come to campus and go on a walk with me. 0:16:31.423,0:16:35.210 And we would almost always start in the same place 0:16:35.210,0:16:41.617 and end in the same place. And it would always be about an hour long. 0:16:41.617,0:16:46.055 It was really boring going on the same date every single day. 0:16:46.055,0:16:52.344 But I think it was really helpful in terms of comparing people 0:16:52.344,0:16:58.534 and figuring out who was really fun to be with vs who I didn't connect with. 0:16:58.534,0:17:05.841 I really only had a few people out of like 30 guys that I really wanted to see again. 0:17:05.841,0:17:11.080 If I did want to see them again, I would ask them out on a second date. 0:17:11.080,0:17:17.052 This is another thing I think people will judge me on, but I also kept... 0:17:17.052,0:17:22.808 A very detailed list of guys and their pros and cons; what I liked about them, 0:17:22.808,0:17:29.398 what I didn't like about them. I did this because when I first went on the dating apps, 0:17:29.398,0:17:34.470 I hadn't dated anyone romantically in years- like 3-4 years. 0:17:34.470,0:17:39.458 I didn't really understand what I wanted in a relationship because I'd changed 0:17:39.458,0:17:50.319 so much from my last relationship. So I made charts listing each guy. 0:17:50.319,0:17:54.356 That's just me. You don't have to do this if you already know what you like 0:17:54.356,0:17:57.576 And you have a good memory for people you meet. 0:17:57.576,0:18:01.814 In terms of how I decided who I wanted to meet in person- 0:18:01.814,0:18:04.917 I think at first I wasn't super picky about who I met. 0:18:04.917,0:18:12.858 But I think now, in terms of dating, I know I prefer dating students because it's easier. 0:18:12.858,0:18:17.012 It's just convenient- you're both on campus, you live next to each other. 0:18:17.012,0:18:20.249 You can see each other all the time, you can work together. 0:18:20.249,0:18:22.835 They understand that you're really busy because they're also really busy. 0:18:22.835,0:18:29.274 Now I generally don't meet anyone who lives farther than 20 min away from me. 0:18:29.274,0:18:33.562 30 min away from me? Because I think it really becomes work 0:18:33.562,0:18:36.431 to meet the person for dates and stuff. 0:18:36.431,0:18:43.305 I don't have a preference for how someone looks, as long as I'm attracted to them. 0:18:43.305,0:18:49.611 I feel like I have really weird standards that generally don't agree with others'. 0:18:49.611,0:18:53.916 But if there's one thing I really have to choose- 0:18:53.916,0:18:58.487 One feature I have to choose that I really need or prefer- 0:18:58.487,0:19:01.123 I really need them to have nice eyebrows. 0:19:01.123,0:19:04.376 Because I actually don't have eyebrows; these are completely drawn on. 0:19:04.376,0:19:08.864 So I think it's really nice when a guy has pretty eyebrows. 0:19:13.135,0:19:17.039 So now going into why I don't text on dating apps. 0:19:17.039,0:19:23.679 I used to text. But there was this one guy that I texted for about a month. 0:19:23.679,0:19:27.199 We kept missing each other because we were both traveling at the time. 0:19:27.199,0:19:34.373 He lived around Stanford, and he was about 35 years old. 0:19:34.373,0:19:40.829 On his profile, it said that he was the CEO of a company. 0:19:40.829,0:19:45.434 His education said Stanford. We texted for a month and 0:19:45.434,0:19:50.939 I really liked the guy and I was looking forward to meeting him. 0:19:50.939,0:19:56.161 Then we finally met up, and it was the worst date I've ever been on. 0:19:56.161,0:20:03.185 He basically had failed to tell me he was still an undergrad... at 35 years old... 0:20:03.185,0:20:08.023 I just thought it was weird that he had never mentioned he was still an undergrad. 0:20:08.023,0:20:14.046 He made it seem like his main job was being the CEO of a company 0:20:14.046,0:20:21.320 when we were texting. But all of that aside, the reason why it was the worst date 0:20:21.320,0:20:27.910 was because he was really racist. I never talk about race on my dates with people. 0:20:27.910,0:20:34.016 Especially the first date. But this guy and I ended up talking about race 0:20:34.016,0:20:41.607 And he told me that racism was fake, and that it was made up by social media 0:20:41.607,0:20:43.342 and institutions. 0:20:48.313,0:20:49.982 And he was a white male. 0:20:49.982,0:20:54.620 He told me he was sick of everyone in the Bay Area being a "social justice warrior" 0:20:54.620,0:20:58.307 And I basically had to fight with this guy for Black people's rights. 0:20:58.307,0:21:04.980 Then, he got really mad at me and texted me afterwards. 0:21:04.980,0:21:11.503 He said he was really disappointed in me for trying to tell him off about racism. 0:21:11.770,0:21:15.590 So after that, well honestly, texting doesn't seem to tell you about 0:21:15.590,0:21:19.044 What the person is like, so I don't really text people anymore. 0:21:19.044,0:21:22.748 I immediately just say, 'I'm not really into texting on dating apps, 0:21:22.748,0:21:26.485 but I'd love to meet up and talk in person if you'd like." 0:21:26.485,0:21:31.807 Do I have any other... juicy... stories? 0:21:31.807,0:21:35.477 Mmmm I did match with this one professor at Stanford? 0:21:35.477,0:21:41.850 He was one of my first matches on Hinge. We also matched on CMB. 0:21:41.850,0:21:47.456 He was really cool! He was in a different department from me, so that was fine. 0:21:47.456,0:21:50.225 He was a fairly young professor. 0:21:50.225,0:21:55.530 This video is getting kind of long, so I'll just end it on the basic 0:21:55.530,0:21:58.583 Pros and cons of dating apps in my opinion. 0:21:58.583,0:22:03.071 The pros are, you're meeting up with someone and you don't have to play the game of 0:22:03.071,0:22:04.639 Are they single? 0:22:04.639,0:22:07.159 Are they interested in me? 0:22:07.159,0:22:08.710 What do they do for a living? 0:22:08.710,0:22:12.197 All of this stuff. It's just all on a profile. 0:22:12.197,0:22:17.252 You get to meet so many people outside of your general environment. 0:22:17.252,0:22:22.724 If I hadn't gone on dating apps, I wouldn't have been able to meet a lot of people here. 0:22:22.724,0:22:24.159 Because I'm a student. 0:22:24.159,0:22:28.146 I think it's also good for students like me because I've been connected 0:22:28.146,0:22:31.583 with a lot of other students. I've made a lot of connections through dating apps. 0:22:31.583,0:22:38.023 I think if you're both looking for something similar, whether it's casual or serious, 0:22:38.023,0:22:42.994 I think there's a lot of potential to find something meaningful through these apps. 0:22:42.994,0:22:47.499 I think some cons are, you don't really get to know the person as a friend first. 0:22:47.499,0:22:51.787 All you know is what's on their profile when you first meet them. 0:22:51.787,0:22:56.341 I think another con for dating apps is that they're very superficial. 0:22:56.341,0:23:00.979 It's basically like social media. You're just swiping and judging people based on looks. 0:23:00.979,0:23:08.086 Based on a lot of surface factors... so it's really hard to tell whether you're going to 0:23:08.086,0:23:10.021 get along with someone or not. 0:23:10.021,0:23:14.242 Anyway, let me know if you decide to try dating apps yourself, 0:23:14.242,0:23:18.747 And how all of that goes! Thanks for watching :)