WEBVTT 00:00:00.095 --> 00:00:39.553 ♪ Intro Music ♪ 00:00:39.831 --> 00:00:40.871 Hello there ... 00:00:41.657 --> 00:00:42.855 It's a common pattern 00:00:42.887 --> 00:00:44.466 for some of us in relationships 00:00:44.522 --> 00:00:45.871 to be 'rescuers'. 00:00:46.338 --> 00:00:48.998 It's like we're on the lookout for someone who we can save 00:00:49.030 --> 00:00:50.332 and rehabilitate. 00:00:50.394 --> 00:00:52.728 A Rescuer often feels a duty or obligation 00:00:52.760 --> 00:00:54.538 to maintain a relationship 00:00:54.641 --> 00:00:55.641 - as it is - 00:00:55.665 --> 00:00:57.736 even when they're feeling used. 00:00:57.784 --> 00:01:01.427 A Rescuer often makes excuses for someone else's behavior 00:01:01.585 --> 00:01:04.617 even when it's self-destructive or harmful to themself. 00:01:05.117 --> 00:01:07.966 A Rescuer, like everyone else, has needs. 00:01:08.125 --> 00:01:09.625 But Rescuers don't feel worthy enough 00:01:09.665 --> 00:01:11.879 to ask for what they want, and need. 00:01:11.918 --> 00:01:13.292 Instead, they convince themselves 00:01:13.347 --> 00:01:14.807 that if they give enough to others, 00:01:14.863 --> 00:01:16.506 the recipient of their giving 00:01:16.530 --> 00:01:19.443 will clearly appreciate the Rescuer so much 00:01:19.482 --> 00:01:23.053 that the Taker will begin to give back to the Rescuer 00:01:23.307 --> 00:01:26.450 (which is what the Rescuer secretly wanted all along). 00:01:26.911 --> 00:01:30.189 They wanted to be loved, nurtured and cared-for. 00:01:30.728 --> 00:01:34.490 That is the hope - and the fantasy - of the Rescuer. 00:01:34.871 --> 00:01:37.212 But because the Rescuer has chosen a Taker 00:01:37.260 --> 00:01:39.958 (someone who by definition takes and cannot give 00:01:39.974 --> 00:01:41.450 because of the state they're in) 00:01:41.514 --> 00:01:44.506 the Rescuer never gets what he or she really wants, 00:01:44.585 --> 00:01:46.260 which is - to be rescued. 00:01:47.490 --> 00:01:50.093 There is no such thing as a Rescuer 00:01:50.149 --> 00:01:52.292 that doesn't want to be rescued. 00:01:52.990 --> 00:01:55.855 If we're the classic Rescuer (which I've just described) 00:01:55.895 --> 00:01:58.292 it's really important for us to look at the resistance 00:01:58.331 --> 00:02:00.585 that we have to asserting our needs and wants - 00:02:00.617 --> 00:02:02.641 to asking for what we need and want. 00:02:03.250 --> 00:02:04.538 We also have to understand 00:02:04.577 --> 00:02:06.807 that we have a difficult time receiving - 00:02:06.982 --> 00:02:10.092 so we have to also look at our resistance to receiving, 00:02:10.258 --> 00:02:12.760 and begin to take steps to open ourself up 00:02:12.792 --> 00:02:16.030 to receiving things from other people, more and more. 00:02:17.696 --> 00:02:20.982 Now you might be watching this episode and thinking: 00:02:21.093 --> 00:02:24.387 'Wha..? Thank God that's not me, I'm definitely NOT a Rescuer!' 00:02:24.458 --> 00:02:26.204 You can go ahead and think again - 00:02:26.633 --> 00:02:28.395 because what I'm about to demonstrate 00:02:28.490 --> 00:02:31.593 is that most of us are, in fact, Rescuers. 00:02:31.665 --> 00:02:34.800 Attraction is simple - it's either there or it isn't there. 00:02:34.847 --> 00:02:36.926 And yet, it's a much more complicated thing 00:02:36.950 --> 00:02:38.593 than you've been led to believe. 00:02:40.061 --> 00:02:42.744 Many things draw us to a specific person ... 00:02:42.982 --> 00:02:45.530 Some are savory, some are unsavory. 00:02:46.061 --> 00:02:47.101 But it is to be understood 00:02:47.141 --> 00:02:48.609 that when we are searching for a mate 00:02:48.649 --> 00:02:51.506 we're looking for a match, an equal. 00:02:51.633 --> 00:02:55.125 We are in fact, looking for Ourselves in Another. 00:02:56.038 --> 00:02:59.403 In the big picture, opposites don't really attract. 00:03:00.093 --> 00:03:02.926 One could say that the fact females and males 00:03:02.974 --> 00:03:04.300 generally attract each other 00:03:04.323 --> 00:03:06.299 is evidence that opposites attract, 00:03:06.482 --> 00:03:08.371 but if you expand your view you'll see that 00:03:08.419 --> 00:03:11.268 even though there might be a male and a female 00:03:11.593 --> 00:03:14.863 both are Human - so same attracts same. 00:03:15.163 --> 00:03:17.125 In many ways, it could be argued 00:03:17.188 --> 00:03:20.886 that Duality and Non-Duality is just a matter of perspective - 00:03:21.347 --> 00:03:23.291 but as it applies to Humans, 00:03:23.807 --> 00:03:25.942 what happens when people are dealing with pain 00:03:26.006 --> 00:03:27.879 or a baseline Vibration, 00:03:28.085 --> 00:03:30.990 is that they swing to one degree or the other. 00:03:31.442 --> 00:03:34.910 For example, let's take two people - a male and a female. 00:03:34.974 --> 00:03:37.411 Both of them have social anxiety. 00:03:37.918 --> 00:03:39.522 Because of that social anxiety, 00:03:39.577 --> 00:03:41.784 one, might decide to become a wall-flower - 00:03:41.815 --> 00:03:44.759 to withdraw from the group and to hide in the corner. 00:03:45.347 --> 00:03:47.760 Now, the same kind of person 00:03:48.680 --> 00:03:50.569 (who, also has social anxiety) 00:03:50.625 --> 00:03:54.300 might decide to swing the pendulum to the entire opposite side - 00:03:54.458 --> 00:03:56.244 they might become the Class Clown, 00:03:56.315 --> 00:03:58.291 developing a facade that they put forth 00:03:58.339 --> 00:04:00.045 that they can hide behind. 00:04:00.371 --> 00:04:01.649 Now, it's easy to say 00:04:01.688 --> 00:04:03.275 - if these two people fell in-love - 00:04:03.307 --> 00:04:05.037 that 'Opposites Attract'. 00:04:05.823 --> 00:04:06.974 But when we look at them closer, 00:04:07.014 --> 00:04:10.816 we see that *both* had social anxiety. 00:04:10.950 --> 00:04:15.426 So the baseline Vibration that unites them is exactly the same. 00:04:15.719 --> 00:04:17.125 Most of the process of attraction 00:04:17.180 --> 00:04:19.434 is happening on a subconscious level - 00:04:19.474 --> 00:04:22.791 we're looking for the person who mirrors us the very-best. 00:04:22.870 --> 00:04:25.427 This is the way that the Universe or Collective Consciousness 00:04:25.474 --> 00:04:27.466 ensures the most Expansion. 00:04:27.665 --> 00:04:31.768 Self-Actualization is facilitated by our relationships. 00:04:32.077 --> 00:04:33.275 Because of the Law of Attraction, 00:04:33.322 --> 00:04:34.855 the Universe draws us to the person 00:04:34.895 --> 00:04:37.133 who mirrors us the very-best. 00:04:37.982 --> 00:04:39.545 It feels great when our partner 00:04:39.577 --> 00:04:41.140 mirrors good-feeling things within us, 00:04:41.180 --> 00:04:44.148 like our caring or our depth or our intellect; 00:04:44.387 --> 00:04:47.760 but that is not the only Vibration that is resident within us - 00:04:47.815 --> 00:04:50.411 we also have bad-feeling things within us as well, 00:04:50.458 --> 00:04:53.712 like our inability to receive or our self-centeredness 00:04:53.768 --> 00:04:55.530 or our close-mindedness. 00:04:56.061 --> 00:04:58.649 I have yet to meet a person, in my lifetime, 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:00.894 who has never experienced trauma. 00:05:01.276 --> 00:05:05.728 Even if parents were capable of providing a perfect upbringing, 00:05:05.791 --> 00:05:08.903 full of complete love and everything else you could hope 00:05:08.950 --> 00:05:11.506 for an individual to grow into a healthy adult, 00:05:12.014 --> 00:05:13.173 just the experience 00:05:13.228 --> 00:05:15.791 of being separated from Collective Consciousness 00:05:15.831 --> 00:05:17.220 into a separate Identity 00:05:17.260 --> 00:05:19.982 (which happens upon coming into this physical dimension) 00:05:20.053 --> 00:05:21.966 *is* a traumatizing event. 00:05:22.418 --> 00:05:23.363 So what you're looking at 00:05:23.403 --> 00:05:24.987 when you're looking at a group of people, 00:05:25.038 --> 00:05:27.824 is just varying degrees of Trauma. 00:05:28.212 --> 00:05:32.061 These traumatizing experiences cause wounds within us - 00:05:32.125 --> 00:05:34.458 emotionally, mentally, and even physically - 00:05:34.561 --> 00:05:37.561 and sometimes these wounds go unhealed. 00:05:37.895 --> 00:05:39.863 Whether you're conscious of it or not, 00:05:40.109 --> 00:05:43.990 your Being's ultimate desire is for complete Healing. 00:05:44.030 --> 00:05:45.213 And, rather than Healing, 00:05:45.260 --> 00:05:48.482 let's say: complete Wholeness, complete Integration. 00:05:49.180 --> 00:05:50.355 Because of this, 00:05:50.434 --> 00:05:52.553 you'll be drawn towards partners 00:05:52.593 --> 00:05:53.958 who make you aware of 00:05:54.029 --> 00:05:56.743 those particular wounds that are unhealed within you. 00:05:56.877 --> 00:05:58.307 You will be drawn to the partners 00:05:58.331 --> 00:06:00.648 who mirror those aspects of you. 00:06:00.973 --> 00:06:03.609 Because you are not Conscious and aware of these wounds, 00:06:03.656 --> 00:06:05.823 because they happened so long ago, 00:06:06.156 --> 00:06:09.180 the people that we are inexplicably drawn to 00:06:09.244 --> 00:06:11.688 have the same wound that we do. 00:06:11.783 --> 00:06:13.752 And because they have the same wound that we do, 00:06:13.807 --> 00:06:17.253 it causes a flare-up in the wound that we both share. 00:06:17.490 --> 00:06:20.101 Here is where the Rescuer dynamic comes in. 00:06:20.648 --> 00:06:21.513 You have always 00:06:21.553 --> 00:06:23.085 (even if it's on a subconscious level) 00:06:23.117 --> 00:06:25.998 wanted to heal that deep wound within you 00:06:26.307 --> 00:06:29.371 but you buried it, deep in your subconscious. 00:06:29.625 --> 00:06:32.458 So the only way to see that wound again 00:06:32.545 --> 00:06:34.402 is to step in front of a mirror - 00:06:34.450 --> 00:06:36.260 the mirror is the partner. 00:06:36.489 --> 00:06:38.228 So the minute you step in front of the partner, 00:06:38.283 --> 00:06:40.656 you have that wound mirrored for you. 00:06:40.711 --> 00:06:41.855 But here's the issue: 00:06:41.910 --> 00:06:44.259 then you go to work, trying to heal the wound 00:06:44.283 --> 00:06:45.553 in the reflection, 00:06:45.640 --> 00:06:46.942 in the other person, 00:06:47.625 --> 00:06:49.895 you try to rescue, or heal, 00:06:49.918 --> 00:06:52.148 the wound within you, through them ... 00:06:52.442 --> 00:06:54.386 It's as if you're subconsciously thinking: 00:06:54.466 --> 00:06:56.522 'If I can just heal that wound in this other person, 00:06:56.561 --> 00:06:58.323 I will have healed it myself'. 00:06:58.545 --> 00:07:00.870 You are insatiably attracted to the people 00:07:00.925 --> 00:07:02.347 who provide you with the opportunity 00:07:02.386 --> 00:07:04.497 to become aware of, and heal, that wound - 00:07:04.553 --> 00:07:07.672 thus becoming a Rescuer to that hurt aspect of them 00:07:07.728 --> 00:07:09.212 *and* you. 00:07:09.378 --> 00:07:12.474 Those of you who can recognize chronic patterns 00:07:12.521 --> 00:07:14.958 that are painful within your relationships 00:07:15.077 --> 00:07:18.561 need to pay special attention to this particular dynamic. 00:07:18.886 --> 00:07:22.164 Because, painful relationships that are chronic, 00:07:22.625 --> 00:07:23.966 in their patterning, 00:07:24.379 --> 00:07:28.808 tend to be the result of people who are chronically trying 00:07:28.894 --> 00:07:31.410 to heal their own wounds through other people. 00:07:32.323 --> 00:07:37.371 We are, in essence, trying to heal ourselves (or love ourselves) 00:07:37.426 --> 00:07:38.870 by loving them. 00:07:39.799 --> 00:07:42.188 Take a very objective look at what you are attracted to 00:07:42.244 --> 00:07:45.038 about the people you have been in a relationship with 00:07:45.093 --> 00:07:47.069 (or are in a relationship with). 00:07:48.236 --> 00:07:50.903 What are you drawn to, again and again? 00:07:51.093 --> 00:07:52.490 Rather than get lost in how 00:07:52.537 --> 00:07:54.696 any of them were different from each other, 00:07:54.720 --> 00:07:57.657 begin to look for what they had in common with each other. 00:07:57.823 --> 00:07:59.260 Then ask yourself: 00:07:59.910 --> 00:08:03.664 What am I drawn to, that keeps causing me problems? 00:08:04.632 --> 00:08:05.449 For example - 00:08:05.505 --> 00:08:08.624 A woman might look back over her dating record 00:08:08.680 --> 00:08:10.140 (or relationship record) 00:08:10.211 --> 00:08:12.774 and she might notice that all of these men 00:08:12.822 --> 00:08:14.743 seem to be different at face-value 00:08:14.775 --> 00:08:16.521 but the thing that they all have in common 00:08:16.569 --> 00:08:19.736 is that they're all athletes, and they're all loners. 00:08:20.425 --> 00:08:22.513 She is insatiably attracted to outcasts 00:08:22.537 --> 00:08:24.640 who are lost with nowhere to belong. 00:08:25.497 --> 00:08:27.203 She might recognize that the fact 00:08:27.243 --> 00:08:30.068 that she's been with athletes isn't causing her pain - 00:08:30.140 --> 00:08:31.377 what's causing her pain 00:08:31.449 --> 00:08:34.909 is the Loner aspect that all of these men have in common. 00:08:35.061 --> 00:08:37.918 The reason that that aspect is what's causing her pain 00:08:37.996 --> 00:08:40.948 is that chances are about 50-50 that you end up 00:08:40.996 --> 00:08:44.616 with somebody who's lonely for 'reasonable' reasons, 00:08:44.695 --> 00:08:48.671 or someone who's lonely because of their personality. 00:08:49.045 --> 00:08:52.140 Loners tend to keep people at arm's length - 00:08:52.180 --> 00:08:54.251 they tend to be emotionally unavailable, 00:08:54.299 --> 00:08:57.005 so no one really wants to spend time with that kind of person - 00:08:57.077 --> 00:08:59.291 and that might be just why they're alone. 00:08:59.505 --> 00:09:00.354 So she notices 00:09:00.401 --> 00:09:01.735 that when she gets into a relationship 00:09:01.767 --> 00:09:03.696 with these type of Loner men, 00:09:03.783 --> 00:09:05.228 she ends up feeling even more lonely 00:09:05.275 --> 00:09:06.926 than she did to begin with. 00:09:07.632 --> 00:09:11.029 They end up mirroring her own wounds of loneliness. 00:09:11.243 --> 00:09:13.687 You see the reality, if this woman was to look deep enough, 00:09:13.712 --> 00:09:15.649 is that she, herself, was lonely. 00:09:16.251 --> 00:09:18.767 Her wound is that she feels like a loner 00:09:18.815 --> 00:09:20.688 who is lost with nowhere to belong. 00:09:20.758 --> 00:09:23.696 She is attracting men with her exact same wound. 00:09:23.743 --> 00:09:25.251 She is subconsciously convinced 00:09:25.291 --> 00:09:26.450 that if she can get a Loner 00:09:26.489 --> 00:09:29.179 who is lost and who doesn't belong, 00:09:29.513 --> 00:09:31.838 to feel lovingly connected to her, 00:09:31.901 --> 00:09:33.505 and feel like they belong with her - 00:09:33.569 --> 00:09:35.648 she has solved her own loneliness problem. 00:09:36.180 --> 00:09:38.117 When this woman thinks about the prospect 00:09:38.148 --> 00:09:39.942 of being with a man who is not lonely 00:09:40.013 --> 00:09:41.045 and who is not lost 00:09:41.069 --> 00:09:43.744 and who feels as if he *does* belong in the life he's living, 00:09:43.823 --> 00:09:47.053 she feels as if there'll be no space for her in his life. 00:09:47.220 --> 00:09:49.014 She fears that he will only make her feel 00:09:49.085 --> 00:09:50.204 like *she* does not fit in, 00:09:50.235 --> 00:09:52.806 and thus feel lonelier and more like an outcast. 00:09:52.862 --> 00:09:55.013 This woman is trying to rescue herself 00:09:55.053 --> 00:09:56.807 through the men she is with. 00:09:56.926 --> 00:09:58.283 She is trying to rescue and heal 00:09:58.347 --> 00:10:00.410 the parts of herself that need healing, 00:10:00.450 --> 00:10:01.640 through him. 00:10:02.100 --> 00:10:04.275 We look for others who have the same wounds 00:10:04.339 --> 00:10:07.625 so we can heal ourselves, externally. 00:10:08.696 --> 00:10:12.696 We are chronically drawn to 'rescuing' in this way - 00:10:13.220 --> 00:10:17.006 but we are, vicariously, trying to rescue ourselves. 00:10:17.474 --> 00:10:18.815 Here's another example: 00:10:19.172 --> 00:10:21.894 Say that a man looks back over his relationship record. 00:10:21.942 --> 00:10:23.379 Even though the women he has been with 00:10:23.426 --> 00:10:25.442 might seem different at face-value, 00:10:25.505 --> 00:10:28.037 he notices that they all have something in common. 00:10:28.434 --> 00:10:30.474 They have all been unstable, 00:10:30.553 --> 00:10:31.958 they have all been 'dark', 00:10:32.108 --> 00:10:33.671 and they've all been negative. 00:10:33.902 --> 00:10:38.561 Also, they've all had this driving urge to be famous - 00:10:38.948 --> 00:10:40.227 which of course, to us means 00:10:40.275 --> 00:10:42.545 that they lack a sense of significance. 00:10:43.225 --> 00:10:44.323 This man notices, 00:10:44.393 --> 00:10:46.696 that even though all of these women have been beautiful 00:10:46.743 --> 00:10:48.211 (that's another thing they have in common), 00:10:48.290 --> 00:10:49.561 that fact that they're beautiful 00:10:49.584 --> 00:10:51.497 does not really cause him problems. 00:10:51.545 --> 00:10:53.307 What's causing him problems 00:10:53.378 --> 00:10:57.807 is the fact that these women are unstable, dark, negative, 00:10:57.989 --> 00:11:00.370 and don't feel their own significance. 00:11:00.543 --> 00:11:01.861 The reason it keeps causing him pain 00:11:01.940 --> 00:11:03.631 is that these common personality traits 00:11:03.662 --> 00:11:04.694 in the women he has been with 00:11:04.718 --> 00:11:07.496 always end up making him feel emotionally unstable, 00:11:07.535 --> 00:11:10.797 hopeless, and as if he's sinking into a dark space. 00:11:11.305 --> 00:11:14.170 You see the reality, if this man was to look deep enough, 00:11:14.210 --> 00:11:16.780 is that he himself is emotionally unstable, 00:11:16.805 --> 00:11:20.495 dark, negative, and lacks a sense of significance - 00:11:20.766 --> 00:11:22.020 that is *his* wound. 00:11:22.083 --> 00:11:24.932 He is attracting women with his exact same wound. 00:11:25.194 --> 00:11:26.520 He is subconsciously convinced 00:11:26.575 --> 00:11:29.392 that if he can get an unstable, dark, negative woman 00:11:29.440 --> 00:11:31.289 who lacks a sense of significance, 00:11:31.337 --> 00:11:34.670 to feel stable, light, happy and self-confident - 00:11:34.781 --> 00:11:36.471 he has healed his own problem. 00:11:36.766 --> 00:11:39.044 When this man thinks about the prospect of being with a woman 00:11:39.073 --> 00:11:41.488 who is stable, light, happy and self-confident, 00:11:41.520 --> 00:11:43.322 he feels as sense of panic. 00:11:43.432 --> 00:11:45.059 He feels as if he will be exposed 00:11:45.114 --> 00:11:46.670 and cannot hide his dysfunction 00:11:46.750 --> 00:11:49.349 and is, ultimately, not good-enough for her. 00:11:49.745 --> 00:11:51.452 This man is trying to rescue himself 00:11:51.500 --> 00:11:53.349 through the women he is with. 00:11:53.475 --> 00:11:54.738 He is trying to rescue and heal 00:11:54.762 --> 00:11:56.738 the parts of himself that need healing, 00:11:56.817 --> 00:11:58.039 through her. 00:11:58.293 --> 00:12:00.928 If your relationships are chronically painful, 00:12:00.975 --> 00:12:03.230 chances are that what you have in common 00:12:03.293 --> 00:12:04.618 is your wounds. 00:12:04.889 --> 00:12:07.826 You are trying to save yourselves through each other 00:12:07.873 --> 00:12:10.230 and as the other person exacerbates your wounds, 00:12:10.269 --> 00:12:12.793 you will beg them to solve the problem and make you feel better, 00:12:12.841 --> 00:12:14.571 but the pain just gets worse ... 00:12:14.706 --> 00:12:15.944 The more time you're with them, 00:12:15.984 --> 00:12:18.071 the bigger this mirror becomes. 00:12:18.499 --> 00:12:19.539 I will give you a hint 00:12:19.563 --> 00:12:22.444 that the thing we most often try to rescue in others 00:12:22.484 --> 00:12:25.770 is the deepest wound, or the most extreme pain, 00:12:25.833 --> 00:12:27.246 in our own lives. 00:12:27.452 --> 00:12:29.349 A while back, I did a video 00:12:29.397 --> 00:12:33.270 called "Find your Negative Imprint - Find your Life Purpose". 00:12:33.778 --> 00:12:36.770 I encourage you to go watch that video again, 00:12:36.968 --> 00:12:39.778 and to see what your negative imprint might be. 00:12:39.849 --> 00:12:40.659 Once you find that, 00:12:40.722 --> 00:12:42.159 it can give you a good clue 00:12:42.205 --> 00:12:43.889 as to what you're trying to 'rescue' 00:12:43.928 --> 00:12:45.277 through your partners. 00:12:46.229 --> 00:12:47.397 Once we become aware 00:12:47.436 --> 00:12:50.325 of what our real wound is in within ourselves, 00:12:50.381 --> 00:12:52.421 we can stop trying to heal it, vicariously, 00:12:52.484 --> 00:12:53.698 through the other person, 00:12:53.785 --> 00:12:56.737 and we can focus on healing that within ourselves. 00:12:56.809 --> 00:12:57.309 For example - 00:12:57.349 --> 00:12:58.627 The woman in the previous scenario 00:12:58.659 --> 00:13:01.278 could take steps to feel less lonely. 00:13:01.674 --> 00:13:04.357 She could also make different relationship decisions, 00:13:04.388 --> 00:13:06.936 so that she chooses men who make her feel 00:13:06.968 --> 00:13:08.651 as if she has a companion 00:13:08.674 --> 00:13:11.372 instead of men who are emotionally unavailable. 00:13:11.562 --> 00:13:12.738 The man in the previous scenario 00:13:12.793 --> 00:13:16.531 can change his life in ways that make him feel more stable. 00:13:17.023 --> 00:13:19.166 He could start to develop positivity 00:13:19.245 --> 00:13:22.047 and also develop self-confidence so that, eventually, 00:13:22.111 --> 00:13:24.333 he could feel a sense of his own significance. 00:13:24.372 --> 00:13:28.925 Awareness causes Healing and Integration to occur spontaneously. 00:13:29.245 --> 00:13:31.714 So often, being aware of the wound within us 00:13:31.760 --> 00:13:33.936 is enough to increase our Frequency 00:13:33.992 --> 00:13:36.278 to the degree that we are no longer attracted 00:13:36.349 --> 00:13:39.016 to the people who mirror our wounds - 00:13:39.190 --> 00:13:41.603 that leads to better-feeling relationships. 00:13:41.872 --> 00:13:42.976 That being said, 00:13:43.031 --> 00:13:45.198 all that's left to ask is one question - 00:13:45.563 --> 00:13:49.198 What is within you, that is in need of rescue? 00:13:49.738 --> 00:13:50.889 Have a good week ... 00:13:51.133 --> 00:14:39.038 ♪ Outtro Music ♪