0:00:11.675,0:00:16.745 When I was a child,[br]I knew I had superpowers. 0:00:16.745,0:00:20.424 That’s right. 0:00:20.424,0:00:24.653 I thought I was absolutely amazing because[br]I could understand and relate to 0:00:24.653,0:00:29.550 the feelings of brown people like[br]my grandfather, a conservative Muslim guy, 0:00:29.945,0:00:34.563 and also I could understand[br]my Afghan mother and Pakistani father, 0:00:34.563,0:00:39.297 not so religious but[br]laid back, fairly liberal. 0:00:39.297,0:00:43.391 And of course I could understand and[br]relate to the feelings of white people, 0:00:43.391,0:00:45.876 the white Norwegians of my country. 0:00:46.486,0:00:50.704 You know white, brown,[br]whatever, I loved them all. 0:00:50.704,0:00:54.773 I understood them all even if they[br]didn’t always understand each other 0:00:54.773,0:00:56.345 They were all my people. 0:00:56.345,0:00:59.331 My father though was[br]always really worried. 0:00:59.331,0:01:03.185 He kept saying that,[br]even with the best education 0:01:03.185,0:01:08.543 I was not going to get a fair shake,[br]I would face discrimination, 0:01:08.543,0:01:12.096 according to him, and the only way[br]to be accepted by white people 0:01:12.096,0:01:14.056 would be to become famous. 0:01:14.795,0:01:19.018 Now mind you, he had this conversation[br]with me when I was seven years old. 0:01:19.686,0:01:22.538 So, while I’m seven years old he said 0:01:22.538,0:01:26.225 'Look, so its either got to be sports[br]or its got to be music.' 0:01:26.225,0:01:29.795 He didn’t know anything about sports,[br]bless him, so it was music. 0:01:29.795,0:01:34.453 So when I was seven years old[br]he gathered al my toys, all my dolls, 0:01:34.453,0:01:37.223 and he threw them all away. 0:01:37.223,0:01:43.993 In exchange he gave me a crappy little[br]Casio keyboard, and singing lessons, 0:01:43.993,0:01:49.031 and forced me to practice for hours[br]and hours every single day. 0:01:49.031,0:01:53.032 Very quickly he also had me performing[br]for larger and larger audiences, 0:01:53.032,0:01:59.500 bizarrely I became almost a poster child[br]for Norwegian multiculturalism. 0:01:59.500,0:02:05.032 I felt very proud of course because[br]even the newspapers at this point 0:02:05.032,0:02:07.193 were starting to write[br]nice things about brown people, 0:02:07.193,0:02:11.351 so I could feel that[br]my superpower was growing. 0:02:11.351,0:02:16.301 So when I was 12 years old walking home[br]from school I took a little detour 0:02:16.301,0:02:19.477 because I wanted to buy[br]my favourite sweets called 'salty feet'. 0:02:19.594,0:02:21.173 I absolutely loved them. 0:02:21.304,0:02:26.202 On my way into the store, there was this[br]grown white guy in the doorway 0:02:26.202,0:02:33.991 blocking my way, so I tried to walk around[br]him, and as I did that he stopped me, 0:02:33.991,0:02:38.746 and he was staring at me,[br]and he spit in my face and he said 0:02:38.746,0:02:42.725 ‘Get out of my way you little black bitch,[br]you little Paki bitch, get out of my - 0:02:42.725,0:02:49.381 go back home where you came from.’[br]I was absolutely horrified. 0:02:49.381,0:02:53.194 I was staring at him, I was too afraid[br]to wipe the spit off my face, 0:02:53.194,0:02:57.827 even as it was mixing with my tears.[br]I remember looking around, 0:02:57.827,0:03:03.623 hoping any minute now a grownup[br]is going to come and make this guy stop. 0:03:03.623,0:03:08.842 But instead people kept hurrying past me[br]and pretending not to see me. 0:03:08.842,0:03:11.807 I was very confused because I was thinking 0:03:11.807,0:03:16.662 ‘Well, my white people come on,[br]where are they? What’s going on? 0:03:16.662,0:03:18.568 How come they’re not[br]coming and rescuing me?’ 0:03:18.568,0:03:23.642 So needless to say I didn’t buy the sweets[br]I just ran home as fast as I could. 0:03:23.642,0:03:26.350 Things were still ok though, I thought. 0:03:26.350,0:03:29.681 As time went on, the more[br]successful I became, 0:03:29.681,0:03:34.706 I eventually started attracting[br]harassment from brown people. 0:03:34.706,0:03:40.458 Some men in my parents community felt that[br]it was unacceptable and dishonorable 0:03:40.458,0:03:45.984 for a woman to be involved in music,[br]and to be so present in the media. 0:03:45.984,0:03:53.513 So very quickly I was starting to[br]become attacked at my own concerts. 0:03:53.513,0:03:57.955 I remember one of the concerts, I was[br]on stage, I lean in to the audience, 0:03:57.955,0:04:01.085 and the last thing I see is [br]a young brown face, 0:04:01.085,0:04:05.961 and the next thing I know is some sort[br]of chemical is thrown in my eyes. 0:04:05.961,0:04:09.281 And I remember I couldn’t really see,[br]and my eyes were watering, 0:04:09.281,0:04:10.841 but I kept singing anyway. 0:04:10.841,0:04:16.233 I was spit in the face in the streets[br]of Oslo, this time by brown men. 0:04:16.233,0:04:22.189 They even tried to kidnap me at one point.[br]The death threats were endless. 0:04:22.189,0:04:26.079 I remember one older bearded guy[br]stopped me in the street one time and said 0:04:26.079,0:04:30.129 ‘The reason I hate you so much is because[br]you make our daughters think 0:04:30.129,0:04:32.719 they can do whatever they want.’ 0:04:32.839,0:04:36.449 A younger guy warned me[br]to watch my back, he said 0:04:36.449,0:04:38.878 ‘Music is un-Islamic[br]and the job of whores, 0:04:38.878,0:04:43.824 and if you keep this up you are going to[br]be raped and your stomach will be cut out, 0:04:43.824,0:04:47.698 so that another whore[br]like you will not be born.’ 0:04:47.698,0:04:51.685 Again I was so confused.[br]I couldn’t understand what was going on, 0:04:51.685,0:04:54.683 my brown people now[br]starting to treat me like this. 0:04:54.683,0:04:57.763 How come?[br]Instead of bridging the two worlds, 0:04:57.763,0:05:02.272 I felt like I was falling[br]between the my worlds. 0:05:02.360,0:05:06.075 I suppose for me,[br]spit was kryptonite. 0:05:07.108,0:05:10.699 So by the time I was 17 years old[br]the death threats were endless, 0:05:10.699,0:05:12.493 and the harassment was constant. 0:05:12.493,0:05:14.991 It got so bad at one point[br]my mother sat me down and said 0:05:14.991,0:05:18.657 ‘Look, we can no longer protect you,[br]we can no longer keep you safe, 0:05:18.657,0:05:20.373 so you’re going to have to go.’ 0:05:20.373,0:05:26.120 So I bought a one-way ticket to London.[br]I packed my suitcase, and I left. 0:05:26.120,0:05:30.691 My biggest heartbreak at that point[br]was that nobody said anything. 0:05:30.691,0:05:33.139 I had a very public exit from Norway. 0:05:33.139,0:05:37.591 My brown people, my white people,[br]nobody said anything. 0:05:37.591,0:05:39.295 Nobody said ‘Hold on, this is wrong. 0:05:39.295,0:05:44.690 Support this girl, protect this girl[br]because she is one of us.’ 0:05:44.690,0:05:47.565 Nobody said that. Instead I felt like, 0:05:47.565,0:05:50.904 you know at the airport,[br]on the baggage carousel, 0:05:50.904,0:05:53.779 you have these different suitcases[br]going round and round, 0:05:53.779,0:05:56.191 and there’s always[br]that one suitcase left at the end. 0:05:56.191,0:05:59.769 The one that nobody wants.[br]That nobody comes to claim. 0:05:59.769,0:06:05.750 I felt like that. I’d never felt so alone.[br]I’d never felt so lost. 0:06:05.750,0:06:11.100 So, after coming to London,[br]I did eventually resume my music career. 0:06:11.100,0:06:15.456 Different place, but unfortunately[br]the same old story. 0:06:15.456,0:06:19.170 I remember a message sent to me saying[br]that I was going to be killed, 0:06:19.170,0:06:22.492 and that rivers of blood[br]were going to flow, 0:06:22.492,0:06:26.001 and that I was going to be raped[br]many times before I died. 0:06:26.001,0:06:29.455 By this point I has to say I was actually[br]getting used to messages like this. 0:06:29.574,0:06:34.190 But what became different was that now[br]they started threatening my family. 0:06:34.190,0:06:40.419 So once again, I packed my suitcase,[br]I left music, and I moved to the US. 0:06:40.419,0:06:44.501 I’d had enough. I didn’t want to have[br]anything to do with this anymore. 0:06:44.501,0:06:48.759 And I was certainly not going to be killed[br]for something that wasn’t even my dream, 0:06:48.854,0:06:51.128 it was my father’s choice. 0:06:51.128,0:06:57.629 So I kind of got lost, [br]I kind of fell apart, 0:06:57.629,0:06:59.817 but I decided that what I wanted to do is 0:06:59.817,0:07:04.842 to spend the next however many years[br]of my life supporting young people, 0:07:04.842,0:07:09.637 and to try to be there in some small way,[br]whatever way that I could. 0:07:09.637,0:07:13.668 So I started volunteering for various[br]organisations that were working 0:07:13.668,0:07:18.250 with young Muslims inside of Europe. 0:07:18.250,0:07:23.643 And, to my surprise what I found,[br]was so many of these young people 0:07:23.643,0:07:26.992 were suffering and struggling. 0:07:26.992,0:07:30.403 They were facing so many problems[br]with their families and their communities, 0:07:30.403,0:07:33.868 who seemed to care more about[br]their honour and their reputation 0:07:33.868,0:07:37.259 than the happiness and[br]the lives of their own kids. 0:07:37.259,0:07:41.780 I started feeling like maybe I wasn’t[br]so alone, maybe I wasn’t so weird. 0:07:41.780,0:07:45.896 Maybe there are more[br]of my people out there. 0:07:45.896,0:07:47.827 The thing is what most people[br]don’t understand, 0:07:47.827,0:07:52.355 is that there are so many[br]of us growing up in Europe 0:07:52.355,0:07:57.474 who are not free to be ourselves.[br]We are not allowed to be who we are. 0:07:57.474,0:08:05.231 We are not free to marry, or to be[br]in relationships with, people we choose, 0:08:05.231,0:08:06.898 we can’t even pick our own career. 0:08:06.898,0:08:10.667 This is the norm in[br]the Muslim heartlands of Europe. 0:08:10.667,0:08:13.921 Even in the freest societies[br]in the world, we are not free. 0:08:13.921,0:08:18.102 Our lives, our dreams, our future,[br]does not belong to us, 0:08:18.102,0:08:21.448 it belongs to our parents,[br]and their community. 0:08:21.448,0:08:28.009 I found endless stories of young people,[br]who are lost to all of us, 0:08:28.009,0:08:30.354 Who are invisible to all of us, 0:08:30.354,0:08:33.086 but they are suffering and [br]they are suffering alone. 0:08:33.086,0:08:38.289 Kids that we are losing to forced marriages,[br]to honour based violence and abuse. 0:08:38.289,0:08:43.381 So eventually I realised, after several[br]years of working with these young people, 0:08:43.381,0:08:45.524 that I will not be able to keep running, 0:08:45.524,0:08:50.115 I can’t spend the rest of my life[br]being scared and hiding, 0:08:50.115,0:08:53.389 and that I’m actually going[br]to have to do something. 0:08:53.389,0:08:57.138 And I also realised that[br]my silence, our silence, 0:08:57.138,0:09:00.174 allows abuse like this to continue. 0:09:00.174,0:09:04.599 So I decided that I wanted to put[br]my childhood superpower to some use, 0:09:04.599,0:09:09.376 by trying to make people on[br]the different sides of these issues 0:09:09.376,0:09:11.984 understand what it's like to be[br]a young person stuck 0:09:11.984,0:09:15.769 between your family and your country. 0:09:15.769,0:09:19.270 So I started making films,[br]and I started telling these stories. 0:09:19.270,0:09:21.367 And I also wanted people to understand 0:09:21.367,0:09:26.057 the deadly consequences of us[br]not taking these problems seriously. 0:09:26.057,0:09:29.705 So the first film I made was about Banaz. 0:09:29.705,0:09:33.290 She was a 17 year old[br]Kurdish girl in London. 0:09:33.290,0:09:36.757 She was obedient, she did[br]whatever her parents wanted. 0:09:36.757,0:09:39.687 She tried to do everything right. 0:09:39.687,0:09:42.337 She married some guy[br]that her parent’s chose for her, 0:09:42.337,0:09:45.322 even though he beat[br]and raped her constantly. 0:09:45.322,0:09:48.475 And when she tried to go[br]to her family for help they said 0:09:48.475,0:09:51.049 ‘Well, you’ve got to go back[br]and be a better wife.’ 0:09:51.049,0:09:54.180 Because they didn’t want[br]a divorced daughter on their hands, 0:09:54.180,0:09:57.469 because of course, that would bring[br]dishonor on the family. 0:09:57.469,0:10:00.794 She was beaten so badly[br]her ears would bleed. 0:10:00.794,0:10:06.487 And when she finally left, and she found[br]a young man that she chose, 0:10:06.487,0:10:10.311 and she fell in love with, the community[br]and the family found out, 0:10:10.311,0:10:15.267 and she disappeared.[br]She was found three months later. 0:10:15.267,0:10:21.826 She’d been stuffed into a suitcase,[br]and buried underneath a house. 0:10:24.586,0:10:28.484 She had been strangled,[br]she had been beaten to death, 0:10:28.595,0:10:35.109 by three men, three cousins,[br]on the orders of her father and uncle. 0:10:35.109,0:10:37.361 The added tragedy of Banaz’s story, 0:10:37.361,0:10:43.726 story is that she had gone to the police[br]in England five times asking for help. 0:10:43.726,0:10:46.301 Telling them that she was going[br]to be killed by her family. 0:10:46.301,0:10:49.999 The police didn’t believe her,[br]so they didn’t do anything. 0:10:49.999,0:10:51.555 And the problem with this, 0:10:51.555,0:10:55.065 is that not only are so many of[br]our kids facing these problems, 0:10:55.065,0:10:59.240 within their families and[br]within their families communities, 0:10:59.240,0:11:05.534 but they are also meeting[br]misunderstanding and apathy 0:11:05.534,0:11:08.772 in the countries they grow up in. 0:11:09.394,0:11:13.259 When their own families betray them,[br]they look to the rest of us. 0:11:13.259,0:11:18.042 And when we don’t understand,[br]we lose them. 0:11:18.042,0:11:21.755 So while I was making this film, [br]several people said to me 0:11:21.755,0:11:24.180 'Well, Deeyah, you know[br]this is just their culture, 0:11:24.180,0:11:27.993 this is just what those people do to[br]their kids and we can’t really interfere.’ 0:11:27.993,0:11:33.080 I can assure you,[br]being murdered is not my culture. 0:11:33.080,0:11:37.371 And surely people who look like me, [br]young women who come 0:11:37.371,0:11:41.002 from backgrounds like mine,[br]should be subject to the same rights, 0:11:41.002,0:11:45.395 the same protections,[br]as anybody else in our country. 0:11:45.395,0:11:47.648 Why not? 0:11:47.648,0:11:52.706 So, for my next film, I wanted[br]to try and understand why 0:11:52.706,0:11:57.377 some of our young Muslim kids in Europe[br]are drawn to extremism and violence. 0:11:57.377,0:12:00.285 But with that topic,[br]also recognised 0:12:00.285,0:12:02.683 that I was going to have[br]to face my worst fear. 0:12:02.683,0:12:06.620 The brown men with beards. 0:12:06.620,0:12:12.538 Similar men, to the ones that have[br]hounded me for most of my life. 0:12:12.683,0:12:16.205 Men that I’ve been afraid of[br]most of my life. 0:12:16.205,0:12:21.022 Men that I’ve also deeply disliked[br]for many many years. 0:12:21.022,0:12:24.551 So I spent the next two years[br]interviewing convicted terrorists, 0:12:24.551,0:12:26.938 jihadis and former extremists. 0:12:26.938,0:12:30.970 What I already knew,[br]what was very obvious already, 0:12:30.970,0:12:35.531 was that religion, politics,[br]Europe’s colonial baggage, 0:12:35.675,0:12:39.775 also Western foreign policy failures[br]of recent years, 0:12:39.775,0:12:41.937 were all a part of the picture. 0:12:41.937,0:12:45.662 But what I was more interested[br]in finding out, was what are the human, 0:12:45.662,0:12:49.409 what are the personal reasons[br]why some of our young people 0:12:49.409,0:12:52.443 are susceptible to groups like this. 0:12:52.443,0:12:57.472 And what really surprised me,[br]was that I found wounded human beings. 0:12:57.472,0:13:02.899 Instead of the monsters that I was[br]looking for, that I was hoping to find 0:13:03.021,0:13:09.289 quite frankly because it would have been[br]very satisfying, I found broken people. 0:13:09.289,0:13:13.952 Just like Banaz, I found that[br]these young men were torn apart 0:13:13.952,0:13:17.826 from trying to bridge[br]the gaps between their families, 0:13:17.826,0:13:20.529 and the countries that they were born in. 0:13:20.529,0:13:24.473 And what I also learnt is that[br]extremist groups, terrorist groups, 0:13:24.473,0:13:27.799 are taking advantage of[br]these feelings of our young people, 0:13:27.799,0:13:32.287 and channeling that cynically,[br]channeling that towards violence. 0:13:32.287,0:13:33.769 ‘Come to us!’, they say. 0:13:33.769,0:13:38.392 ‘Reject both sides, your family and[br]your country, because they reject you. 0:13:38.392,0:13:41.077 For your family, their honour[br]is more important than you, 0:13:41.077,0:13:45.392 and for your country, a real Norwegian, [br]Brit or a French person 0:13:45.392,0:13:49.740 will always be white and never you.’ 0:13:49.740,0:13:52.839 They are also promising our young people[br]the things that they crave, 0:13:52.839,0:13:57.349 significance, heroism, a sense of[br]belonging and purpose. 0:13:57.349,0:14:03.625 A community that loves and accepts them.[br]They make the powerless feel powerful. 0:14:03.625,0:14:08.688 The invisible and the silent[br]are finally seen and heard. 0:14:08.688,0:14:14.277 This is what they are doing[br]for our young people. 0:14:14.277,0:14:17.999 Why are these groups doing this[br]for our young people and not us? 0:14:17.999,0:14:28.828 The thing is, I’m not trying to[br]justify or excuse any of the violence. 0:14:28.828,0:14:32.314 What I am trying to say,[br]is that we have to understand 0:14:32.314,0:14:36.903 why some of our young people[br]are attracted to this. 0:14:36.903,0:14:38.904 I would like to also show you, 0:14:38.904,0:14:43.576 these are childhood photos[br]of some of the guys in the film. 0:14:43.576,0:14:50.843 What really struck me is that so many[br]of them - I never would have thought this, 0:14:50.843,0:14:54.508 but so many of them have[br]absent of abusive fathers. 0:14:54.508,0:14:57.154 And several of these young guys ended up 0:14:57.154,0:15:02.565 finding caring and compassionate father[br]figures within these extremist groups. 0:15:02.565,0:15:08.127 I also found men brutalized[br]by racist violence, 0:15:08.127,0:15:13.043 but who found a way to stop feeling like[br]victims by becoming violent themselves. 0:15:13.043,0:15:17.777 In fact, I found something[br]to my horror that I recognised. 0:15:17.777,0:15:24.837 I found the same feelings that I felt[br]as a 17 year old, as I fled from Norway. 0:15:24.837,0:15:32.568 The same confusion, the same sorrow,[br]the same feeling of being betrayed. 0:15:32.568,0:15:37.981 And not belonging to anyone. 0:15:37.981,0:15:42.774 The same feeling of being lost[br]and torn between two cultures. 0:15:42.774,0:15:45.479 Having said that,[br]I did not choose destruction, 0:15:45.479,0:15:47.996 I chose to pick up a camera,[br]instead of a gun. 0:15:47.996,0:15:51.641 And the reason I did that,[br]is because of my superpower, 0:15:51.641,0:15:56.192 I could see that understanding[br]is the answer, instead of violence. 0:15:56.192,0:16:01.554 Seeing human beings, with[br]all their virtues, and all their flaws, 0:16:01.554,0:16:05.843 instead of continuing the caricatures[br]of us and them, the villains and victims. 0:16:05.843,0:16:10.622 I had also finally come to terms[br]with the fact that my two cultures 0:16:10.622,0:16:12.216 didn’t have to be on a collision course, 0:16:12.216,0:16:15.770 but instead became a space[br]where I found my own voice. 0:16:15.770,0:16:18.174 I stopped feeling[br]like I had to pick a side. 0:16:18.174,0:16:21.606 But this took me many, many years. 0:16:21.606,0:16:24.089 There are so many[br]of our young people today 0:16:24.089,0:16:28.549 who are struggling with these same issues,[br]and they are struggling with this alone. 0:16:28.549,0:16:31.927 And this leaves them open like wounds. 0:16:31.927,0:16:35.711 And for some, the world view[br]of radical Islam 0:16:35.711,0:16:39.637 becomes the infection that festers[br]in these open wounds. 0:16:39.637,0:16:43.857 There’s an African proverb that says 0:16:43.857,0:16:48.880 ‘If the young are not[br]initiated into the village, 0:16:48.880,0:16:53.580 they will burn it down[br]just to feel its warmth.’ 0:16:53.580,0:16:57.571 I would like to ask to Muslim parents[br]and Muslim communities, 0:16:57.571,0:17:00.680 will you love and care for your children, 0:17:00.680,0:17:03.275 without forcing them[br]to meet your expectations? 0:17:03.275,0:17:05.660 Can you choose them, [br]Instead of your honour? 0:17:05.660,0:17:09.560 Can you understand why[br]they’re so angry and alienated, 0:17:09.560,0:17:11.889 when you put your honour[br]before their happiness? 0:17:11.889,0:17:16.514 Can you try to be a friend to your child[br]so that they can trust you, 0:17:16.514,0:17:19.335 and want to share with you[br]their experiences, 0:17:19.335,0:17:21.854 rather than having to seek it[br]somewhere else? 0:17:21.854,0:17:25.261 And to our young people,[br]tempted by extremism, 0:17:25.261,0:17:30.552 can you acknowledge that[br]your rage is fuelled by pain? 0:17:30.552,0:17:34.892 Will you find the strength to resist[br]those cynical old men, 0:17:34.892,0:17:38.457 who want to use your blood[br]for their own profits? 0:17:38.457,0:17:41.626 Can you find a way to live? 0:17:41.626,0:17:45.824 Can you see that the sweetest revenge[br]is for you to live a happy, 0:17:45.824,0:17:50.461 full and free life, a life defined[br]by you and nobody else? 0:17:50.461,0:17:55.047 Why do you want to become[br]just another dead Muslim kid? 0:17:55.047,0:17:58.983 And for the rest of us, when will we[br]start listening to our young people? 0:17:58.983,0:18:03.330 How can we support them[br]in redirecting their pain 0:18:03.330,0:18:06.330 into something more constructive? 0:18:06.330,0:18:10.565 They think we don’t like them, they think[br]we don’t care what happens to them. 0:18:10.565,0:18:12.730 They think we don’t accept them. 0:18:12.730,0:18:15.709 Can we find a way to[br]make them feel differently? 0:18:15.709,0:18:19.657 What will it take for us[br]to see them, and notice them, 0:18:19.657,0:18:24.989 before they become either the victims[br]or the perpetrators of violence? 0:18:24.989,0:18:28.366 Can we make ourselves care about them,[br]and consider them to be our own, 0:18:28.366,0:18:33.641 and not just be outraged when the victims[br]of violence look like ourselves? 0:18:33.641,0:18:39.881 Can we find a way to reject hatred,[br]and heal the divisions between us? 0:18:39.881,0:18:42.544 The thing, is we cannot afford[br]to give up on each other, or on our kids, 0:18:42.544,0:18:46.536 even if they’ve given up on us.[br]We are all in this together. 0:18:46.536,0:18:52.865 And in the long term, revenge and violence[br]will not work against extremists. 0:18:52.865,0:18:57.288 Terrorists want us to huddle[br]in our houses and fear, 0:18:57.288,0:18:58.993 closing our doors and our hearts. 0:18:58.993,0:19:02.837 They want us to tear open[br]more wounds in our societies, 0:19:02.837,0:19:06.901 so that they can use them[br]to spread their infection more widely. 0:19:06.901,0:19:12.983 They want us to become like them,[br]intolerant, hateful and cruel. 0:19:12.983,0:19:20.715 The day after the Paris attacks, a friend[br]of mine sent this photo of her daughter. 0:19:20.715,0:19:24.738 This is a white girl and an Arab girl.[br]They’re best friends. 0:19:24.738,0:19:28.660 This image is the kryptonite[br]for extremists. 0:19:28.660,0:19:34.069 These two little girls,[br]with their superpowers, 0:19:34.069,0:19:39.683 are showing the way forward towards[br]a society that we need to build together. 0:19:39.683,0:19:47.204 A society that includes, and supports,[br]rather than rejects our kids. 0:19:47.204,0:19:49.959 Thank you for listening.