[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.00,0:00:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OSHO Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.00,0:00:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OSHO TALKS: silence shared in words Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.00,0:00:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OSHO International Foundation presents Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.00,0:00:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Making Love A Sacred Experience Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.00,0:00:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just a simple method of meditation to suggest to Latin lovers, Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.00,0:00:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they may find their way? Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.00,0:00:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The simplest method Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.00,0:01:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for lovers is, while they are making love Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.00,0:01:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should make it a Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.00,0:01:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sacred experience. Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.00,0:01:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All the religions have destroyed Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.00,0:01:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sacredness of love. Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.00,0:01:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have condemned it as sin. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.00,0:01:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the conditioning has gone so deep Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.00,0:01:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the human mind Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.00,0:01:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that people are making love in such a hurry, Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.00,0:01:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as if Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.00,0:02:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they want to finish it as quickly as possible. Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.00,0:02:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naturally, if it is a sin Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.00,0:02:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is better finished soon. Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.00,0:02:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their hearts are guilt-ridden, Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.00,0:02:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their minds completely full of sin. Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.00,0:02:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If lovers want to make love a meditative experience, Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.00,0:02:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then the first thing is to drop the idea that it is sin, Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.00,0:02:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it is something wrong. Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.00,0:02:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is something Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.00,0:03:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,immensely beautiful, Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.00,0:03:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a tremendous gift of nature, Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.00,0:03:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of existence, for which you should not be guilty, Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.00,0:03:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should be grateful! Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.00,0:03:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to show your gratefulness Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.00,0:03:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have to make Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.00,0:03:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a special place for it. Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.00,0:03:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every house and every couple which can afford it Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.00,0:03:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,should have a separate room just for love: Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.00,0:03:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no other vibe there -- Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.00,0:03:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no fight, no argument, Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.00,0:03:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no throwing of pillows. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.00,0:04:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They should enter the room after taking a bath, Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.00,0:04:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as if they are going into a temple. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.00,0:04:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The room should be full of Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.00,0:04:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beautiful burning incense; Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.00,0:04:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there should not be glaring lights -- Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.00,0:04:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just candles, dim light. Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.00,0:04:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they should not be in a hurry, Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.00,0:04:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the foreplay is immensely important, Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.00,0:04:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the simple reason that the woman's whole body is erotic. Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.00,0:05:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man's whole body is not erotic; Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.00,0:05:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his sexuality is local, Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.00,0:05:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.00,0:05:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,limited to his genitalia. Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.00,0:05:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the woman's whole body is erotic, Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.00,0:05:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and unless her whole body starts Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.00,0:05:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,throbbing Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.00,0:05:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with joy, with ecstasy, Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.00,0:05:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she will not have any orgasmic experience. Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.00,0:05:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the man plays enough with the woman's body, Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.00,0:05:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the woman plays enough with the man's body... Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.00,0:06:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the meditation technique is: Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.00,0:06:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while you are playing with each other's body, Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.00,0:06:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remain a witness, Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.00,0:06:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't get identified. Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.00,0:06:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there are four persons, not two: Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.00,0:06:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the woman and the witness inside, Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.00,0:06:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the man and the witness inside. Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.00,0:06:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The witness is simply watching what the man is doing to the woman, Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.00,0:06:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what the woman is doing to the man. Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.00,0:06:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The witness has no Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.00,0:06:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,judgment of good and bad; it is simply like a mirror, Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.00,0:06:53.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,showing what is happening. Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.00,0:06:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This witnessing is nothing but awareness, Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.00,0:07:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,alertness, consciousness. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.00,0:07:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And particularly in the foreplay, Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.00,0:07:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you are conscious, alert, Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.00,0:07:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then there is a possibility Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.00,0:07:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you both will know the exact time Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.00,0:07:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when your bodies are ready to make love. Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.00,0:07:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will feel the bio-electricity of each other's body. Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.00,0:07:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you start making love, don't be in a hurry. Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.00,0:07:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let the woman be always on top. Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.00,0:08:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The missionary posture Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.00,0:08:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the worst posture in the whole world. Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.00,0:08:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the East Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.00,0:08:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nobody knew before the Christians reached there Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.00,0:08:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the man can be on top of the woman. Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.00,0:08:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is so brutal, Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.00,0:08:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is so ugly. Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.00,0:08:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The woman is delicate, Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.00,0:08:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a huge Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.00,0:08:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,animal Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.00,0:08:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is doing pushups over the poor woman! Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.00,0:09:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In India it is called the missionary posture, Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.00,0:09:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it became known only when missionaries came to India. Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.00,0:09:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They made India aware that this too is possible; Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.00,0:09:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise, the woman is always to be on top. Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.00,0:09:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And scientifically Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.00,0:09:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is right that the woman should be on top, Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.00,0:09:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then she can be more active Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.00,0:09:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the man can be less active. Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.00,0:09:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the man is on top, the woman cannot be more active, Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.00,0:09:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the man is more active. Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.00,0:09:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If he is more active, he comes to his ejaculation very soon, Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.00,0:10:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the woman Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.00,0:10:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has not yet come to the point where she can have an orgasm. Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.00,0:10:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the woman is on top and she is active, Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.00,0:10:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the man remains inactive, Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.00,0:10:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is every possibility Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.00,0:10:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that by the time the woman Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.00,0:10:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comes to orgasm Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.00,0:10:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the man will be coming to orgasm. Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.00,0:10:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if both come to orgasm at the same time, Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.00,0:10:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then there is a tremendous meeting and merging, Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.00,0:10:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as if bodies disappear Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.00,0:11:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and two souls are no longer two souls, Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.00,0:11:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two beings are no longer two beings. Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.00,0:11:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the witnessing continues. Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.00,0:11:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is your inner work of meditation that goes on: Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.00,0:11:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are witnessing. Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.00,0:11:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.00,0:11:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your orgasm has settled, Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.00,0:11:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,slowly slowly disappearing, watch it. Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.00,0:11:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Watch as it is coming up, Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.00,0:11:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watch as it explodes, Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.00,0:11:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watch as it starts settling back again Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.00,0:11:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the normal Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.00,0:12:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,state of your bodies. Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.00,0:12:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then don't be in a hurry to separate from each other; Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.00,0:12:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remain together for awhile. Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.00,0:12:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In tantra that is called valley orgasm. Dialogue: 0,0:12:27.00,0:12:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is not known to millions of people. Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.00,0:12:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first orgasm was peak orgasm. Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.00,0:12:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You had met together Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.00,0:12:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on a peak of your energy, Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.00,0:12:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now the peak has disappeared. Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.00,0:12:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But every peak has a valley by its side; Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.00,0:13:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without a valley there can be no peak. Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.00,0:13:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you can remain silently watching Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.00,0:13:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,together, Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.00,0:13:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will be amazed: Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.00,0:13:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is another orgasm with a totally different beauty, Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.00,0:13:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a different depth, Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.00,0:13:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a different joy -- Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.00,0:13:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the valley orgasm. Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.00,0:13:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until the valley orgasm disappears and you come back again to normal, Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.00,0:13:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't separate. Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.00,0:13:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Meanwhile, all the time the witnessing continues. Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.00,0:13:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you separate, Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.00,0:14:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't just Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.00,0:14:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,start going to sleep. Dialogue: 0,0:14:10.00,0:14:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Something very essential is still there, Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.00,0:14:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that is the afterplay. Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.00,0:14:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have made such Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.00,0:14:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a turmoil in the whole energy of each other's Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.00,0:14:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bodies, minds, Dialogue: 0,0:14:40.00,0:14:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it is needed. You massage each other's body, Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.00,0:14:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,play with each other's body, Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.00,0:14:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have beautiful incense, flowers, candlelight, music... Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.00,0:15:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you feel like dancing, you dance. Dialogue: 0,0:15:03.00,0:15:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the witnessing continues. Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.00,0:15:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why am I insisting that witnessing continues? Dialogue: 0,0:15:16.00,0:15:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am emphasizing it because if you do it many times, Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.00,0:15:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then one day you can try just witnessing, Dialogue: 0,0:15:29.00,0:15:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without your man, without your woman -- alone. Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.00,0:15:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the same room, Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.00,0:15:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the same atmosphere, Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.00,0:15:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the same incense Dialogue: 0,0:15:43.00,0:15:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which creates the same memories; Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.00,0:15:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same light, Dialogue: 0,0:15:53.00,0:15:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same milieu, Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.00,0:16:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you start simply witnessing, sitting there. Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.00,0:16:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you are in for a great surprise. Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.00,0:16:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All that has been happening with the woman Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.00,0:16:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,starts happening Dialogue: 0,0:16:17.00,0:16:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just inside you, Dialogue: 0,0:16:20.00,0:16:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without the woman or without the man. Dialogue: 0,0:16:26.00,0:16:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You start moving slowly to the peak orgasm -- Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.00,0:16:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same experience Dialogue: 0,0:16:36.00,0:16:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with no physical, no biological expression -- Dialogue: 0,0:16:46.00,0:16:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you reach to the valley orgasm, Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.00,0:16:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same experience. Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.00,0:17:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have learned meditation through love, Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.00,0:17:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you have also learned Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.00,0:17:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,love through meditation; Dialogue: 0,0:17:08.00,0:17:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will go on enriching each other. Dialogue: 0,0:17:14.00,0:17:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This will bring maturity Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.00,0:17:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to both the persons, Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.00,0:17:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the maturity will release Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.00,0:17:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their repressed intelligence, Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.00,0:17:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,awareness, Dialogue: 0,0:17:41.00,0:17:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lovingness, compassion. Dialogue: 0,0:17:46.00,0:17:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it will destroy jealousy, anger, hatred. Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.00,0:18:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It will bring tremendous changes in you. Dialogue: 0,0:18:00.00,0:18:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those changes will be the proof Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.00,0:18:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you are on the right track. Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.00,0:18:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Source: The Last Testament, Vol.3, #14 Copyright © Osho International Foundation, Switzerland. Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.00,0:18:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Music: Basho's Pond Copyright © Osho International Foundation, Switzerland.OSHO ® is a registered ™ Dialogue: 0,0:18:22.00,0:18:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For more information, visit: www.osho.com