[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media to talk\Nabout sex for a long time. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy polaroids. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl who eloped\Nwith a man that she met over the telegraph Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in 1886. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting,\Nand I am a sexting expert. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expect sexter. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means,\NI think you do too. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting since \Nthe media attention to it began in 2008. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book on the moral\Npanic about sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And here's what I found: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most people are worrying\Nabout the wrong thing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent\Nsexting from happening entirely. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But let me ask you this: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As long as it's completely consensual,\Nwhat's the problem with sexting? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things\Nthat you may not be into, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky,\Nlike anything that's fun, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as long as you're not sending an image\Nto someone who doesn't want to receive it, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem is\Nwhen people share private images of others Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without their permission. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And instead of worrying about sexting,\Nwhat I think we need to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is think a lot more about digital privacy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now most people are thinking Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about sexting without really thinking\Nabout consent at all. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know we currently\Ncriminalize teen sexting? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime because it counts\Nas child pornography, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image of someone under 18\Nand it doesn't even matter Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they took that image of themselves\Nand shared it willingly. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up with this\Nbizarre legal situation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds\Ncan legally have sex in most U.S. states Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried passing\Nsexting misdemeanor laws Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still make\Nconsensual sexting illegal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to ban all sexting\Nto try to address privacy violations. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's solve the problem of date rape\Nby just making dating completely illegal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting,\Nbut can you guess who does? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked\Nby their partner's parent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this can be because of class bias,\Nracism or homophobia. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are smart enough\Nnot to use child pornography charges Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,against teenagers but some do. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers\Nat the University of New Hampshire Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child pornography\Npossession arrests are teens, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting consensually with other teens. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not\Nthe same thing as teen sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators are also\Nresponding to sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Ntoo much about consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens is often,\Njust don't do it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I totally get it,\Nthere are serious legal risks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course,\Nthat potential for privacy violations. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure you did exactly\Nas you were told, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking,\Nmy kid would never sext. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's true, your little angel\Nmay not be sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33% of 16 and\N17-year-olds are sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older,\Nodds are they will be sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate\Nabove 50% for 18 to 24-year-olds. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time,\Nnothing goes wrong. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People ask me all the time things like,\Nisn't sexting just so dangerous, though, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you wouldn't leave your wallet\Non a park bench and you expect Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's gonna get stolen\Nif you do that, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting is like leaving your wallet\Nat your boyfriend's house. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all the money is just gone,\Nyou really need to dump that guy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting to try\Nto prevent these privacy violations, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead we need to make consent central Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we think about the circulation\Nof our private information. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology\Nraises privacy concerns. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, in the U.S. the very first\Nmajor debates about privacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies\Nthat were relatively new at the time. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s, people were\Nworried about cameras, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which were just suddenly more portable than ever before, and newspaper gossip columns. They were worried that the camera would capture information about them, take it out of context and widely disseminate it. Does this sound familiar? It's exactly what we're worrying about now with social media and drone cameras and, of course, sexting. And these fears about technology, they make sense because technologies can amplify and bring out our worst qualities and behaviors. But there are solutions. And we've been here before with a dangerous new technology. In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car. Traffic fatality rates were rising. It was a serious problem -- it looks so safe, right? Our first response was to try to change drivers behavior, so we developed speed limits and enforced them through fines. But over the following decades, we started to realize the technology of the car itself is not just neutral. We could design the car to make it safer. So in the 1920s, we got shatter resister windshields. In the 1950s, seatbelts. And in the 1990s, airbags. All three of these areas: laws, individuals, industry came together over time to help solve the problem that a new technology causes.