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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.72,0:00:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media\Nto talk about sex for a long time.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.60,0:00:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy Polaroids.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.48,0:00:15.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl who eloped\Nwith a man that she met over the telegraph
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.56,0:00:17.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in 1886.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.56,0:00:23.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting,\Nand I am a sexting expert.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.68,0:00:25.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expert sexter.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.80,0:00:30.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means --\NI think you do too.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.00,0:00:32.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[it's a penis]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.40,0:00:34.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.36,0:00:42.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting since\Nthe media attention to it began in 2008.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.72,0:00:45.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book on the moral\Npanic about sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.72,0:00:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And here's what I found:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.36,0:00:50.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most people are worrying\Nabout the wrong thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.60,0:00:54.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent\Nsexting from happening entirely.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.80,0:00:56.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But let me ask you this:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.36,0:01:01.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As long as it's completely consensual,\Nwhat's the problem with sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.24,0:01:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things\Nthat you may not be into,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.28,0:01:07.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.60,0:01:09.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.60,0:01:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky,\Nlike anything that's fun,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.76,0:01:21.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as long as you're not sending an image\Nto someone who doesn't want to receive it,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.48,0:01:23.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.28,0:01:25.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.92,0:01:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when people share\Nprivate images of others
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.20,0:01:30.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without their permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.36,0:01:33.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And instead of worrying about sexting,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.72,0:01:38.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I think we need to do\Nis think a lot more about digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.88,0:01:41.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.68,0:01:44.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now most people\Nare thinking about sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.00,0:01:47.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Nabout consent at all.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.40,0:01:52.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know that we currently\Ncriminalize teen sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.40,0:01:56.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime because\Nit counts as child pornography,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.88,0:01:59.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image of someone under 18,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.76,0:02:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't even matter
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.12,0:02:05.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they took that image of themselves\Nand shared it willingly.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.80,0:02:08.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up with this\Nbizarre legal situation
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.80,0:02:13.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds\Ncan legally have sex in most US states
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.36,0:02:15.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.56,0:02:20.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried\Npassing sexting misdemeanor laws
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.84,0:02:23.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.88,0:02:27.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still\Nmake consensual sexting illegal.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.52,0:02:29.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.80,0:02:34.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to ban all sexting\Nto try to address privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.56,0:02:36.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.08,0:02:41.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's solve the problem of date rape\Nby just making dating completely illegal.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.12,0:02:48.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting,\Nbut can you guess who does?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.52,0:02:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked\Nby their partner's parents.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.52,0:02:58.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this can be because of class bias,\Nracism or homophobia.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.96,0:03:01.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are,\Nof course, smart enough
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.76,0:03:07.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not to use child pornography charges\Nagainst teenagers, but some do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.72,0:03:11.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers\Nat the University of New Hampshire
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.40,0:03:17.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child pornography\Npossession arrests are teens,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.08,0:03:20.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting consensually with other teens.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.48,0:03:24.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.04,0:03:27.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not\Nthe same thing as teen sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.04,0:03:32.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators\Nare also responding to sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.48,0:03:35.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Ntoo much about consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.64,0:03:39.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens is often:\Njust don't do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.20,0:03:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I totally get it --\Nthere are serious legal risks
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.72,0:03:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course, that potential\Nfor privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.40,0:03:48.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.68,0:03:52.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure you did exactly\Nas you were told, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.44,0:03:56.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking,\Nmy kid would never sext.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.92,0:04:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's true, your little angel\Nmay not be sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.40,0:04:03.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33 percent
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.56,0:04:05.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of 16- and 17-year-olds are sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.20,0:04:11.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older,\Nodds are they will be sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.84,0:04:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate\Nabove 50 percent for 18- to 24-year-olds.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.72,0:04:21.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time, nothing goes wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.80,0:04:27.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People ask me all the time things like,\Nisn't sexting just so dangerous, though?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.20,0:04:30.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like you wouldn't\Nleave your wallet on a park bench
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.80,0:04:34.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you expect it's going to get stolen\Nif you do that, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.88,0:04:36.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.36,0:04:40.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting is like leaving your wallet\Nat your boyfriend's house.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.32,0:04:42.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.12,0:04:44.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all the money is just gone,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.04,0:04:47.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you really need to dump that guy.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.69,0:04:49.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.36,0:04:53.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.72,0:04:56.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to prevent\Nthese privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.36,0:04:59.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead we need to make consent central
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.68,0:05:03.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we think about the circulation\Nof our private information.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.48,0:05:08.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology\Nraises privacy concerns.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.76,0:05:13.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, in the US the very first\Nmajor debates about privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.40,0:05:17.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies\Nthat were relatively new at the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.92,0:05:21.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s,\Npeople were worried about cameras,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.84,0:05:25.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which were just suddenly\Nmore portable than ever before,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.32,0:05:27.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and newspaper gossip columns.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.84,0:05:31.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were worried that the camera\Nwould capture information about them,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.68,0:05:34.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take it out of context\Nand widely disseminate it.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.24,0:05:36.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does this sound familiar?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.88,0:05:41.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exactly what we're worrying about\Nnow with social media and drone cameras,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.76,0:05:43.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, of course, sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.92,0:05:46.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these fears about technology,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.16,0:05:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they make sense
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.40,0:05:50.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because technologies\Ncan amplify and bring out
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.84,0:05:53.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our worst qualities and behaviors.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.16,0:05:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are solutions.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.56,0:06:00.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we've been here before\Nwith a dangerous new technology.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.72,0:06:04.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.52,0:06:07.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Traffic fatality rates were rising.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.12,0:06:09.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a serious problem --\Nit looks so safe, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.08,0:06:16.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our first response\Nwas to try to change drivers' behavior,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.08,0:06:19.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we developed speed limits\Nand enforced them through fines.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.24,0:06:22.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But over the following decades,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.12,0:06:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we started to realize the technology\Nof the car itself is not just neutral.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.64,0:06:30.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could design the car to make it safer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.88,0:06:34.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the 1920s, we got\Nshatter-resistant windshields.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.36,0:06:36.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the 1950s, seat belts.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.88,0:06:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in the 1990s, airbags.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.44,0:06:42.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All three of these areas:
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.84,0:06:47.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laws, individuals and industry\Ncame together over time
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.64,0:06:51.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help solve the problem\Nthat a new technology causes.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.44,0:06:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we can do the same thing\Nwith digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.16,0:06:57.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, it comes back to consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.36,0:06:59.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's the idea.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.60,0:07:03.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before anyone can distribute\Nyour private information,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.44,0:07:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should have to get your permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.24,0:07:11.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This idea of affirmative consent\Ncomes from anti-rape activists
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.08,0:07:14.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who tell us that we need consent\Nfor every sexual act.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.88,0:07:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we have really high standards\Nfor consent in a lot of other areas.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.48,0:07:21.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about having surgery.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.36,0:07:22.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your doctor has to make sure
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.00,0:07:27.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you are meaningfully and knowingly\Nconsenting to that medical procedure.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.52,0:07:31.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not the type of consent\Nlike with an iTunes Terms of Service
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.24,0:07:34.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you just scroll to the bottom\Nand you're like, agree, agree, whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.92,0:07:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.16,0:07:42.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,\Nwe can have better privacy laws.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.44,0:07:45.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, we just don't have\Nthat many protections.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.88,0:07:49.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your ex-husband or your ex-wife\Nis a terrible person,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.48,0:07:53.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can take your nude photos\Nand upload them to a porn site.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.72,0:07:56.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be really hard\Nto get those images taken down.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.96,0:07:58.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in a lot of states,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.20,0:08:02.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're actually better off\Nif you took the images of yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.04,0:08:04.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then you can\Nfile a copyright claim.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.32,0:08:07.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.40,0:08:10.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if someone\Nviolates your privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.40,0:08:14.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether that's an individual\Nor a company or the NSA,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.28,0:08:18.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can try filing a lawsuit,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.04,0:08:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,though you may not be successful
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.20,0:08:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because many courts assume\Nthat digital privacy is just impossible.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.00,0:08:28.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they're not willing\Nto punish anyone for violating it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.20,0:08:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still hear people\Nasking me all the time,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.12,0:08:37.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,isn't a digital image somehow blurring\Nthe line between public and private
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.44,0:08:39.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's digital, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.60,0:08:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No! No!
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.96,0:08:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything digital\Nis not just automatically public.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.32,0:08:46.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't make any sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.24,0:08:49.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As NYU legal scholar\NHelen Nissenbaum tells us,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.76,0:08:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have laws and policies and norms
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.40,0:08:55.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that protect all kinds\Nof information that's private,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.56,0:08:58.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't make a difference\Nif it's digital or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.00,0:09:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your health records are digitized
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.68,0:09:04.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your doctor can't\Njust share them with anyone.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.84,0:09:09.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your financial information\Nis held in digital databases,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.32,0:09:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your credit card company can't\Njust post your purchase history online.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.08,0:09:20.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better laws could help address\Nprivacy violations after they happen,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.56,0:09:24.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one of the easiest things\Nwe can all do is make personal changes
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.96,0:09:27.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help protect each other's privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.36,0:09:30.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always told that privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.28,0:09:33.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is our own, sole,\Nindividual responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.36,0:09:37.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, constantly monitor\Nand update your privacy settings.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.64,0:09:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, never share anything\Nyou wouldn't want the entire world to see.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.40,0:09:44.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't make sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.64,0:09:47.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Digital media are social environments
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.64,0:09:51.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we share things\Nwith people we trust all day, every day.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.76,0:09:55.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Princeton researcher\NJanet Vertesi argues,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.76,0:09:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our data and our privacy,\Nthey're not just personal,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.80,0:10:02.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're actually interpersonal.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.40,0:10:05.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so one thing you can do\Nthat's really easy
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.68,0:10:10.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is just start asking for permission before\Nyou share anyone else's information.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.80,0:10:15.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to post a photo\Nof someone online, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.36,0:10:17.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to forward an email thread,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.84,0:10:19.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.24,0:10:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you want to share\Nsomeone's nude selfie,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.04,0:10:24.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.56,0:10:30.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These individual changes can really\Nhelp us protect each other's privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.04,0:10:33.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we need technology companies\Non board as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.36,0:10:38.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These companies have very little\Nincentive to help protect our privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.88,0:10:42.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because their business models\Ndepend on us sharing everything
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.20,0:10:44.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with as many people as possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.08,0:10:47.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if I send you an image,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.04,0:10:50.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can forward that\Nto anyone that you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.16,0:10:54.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what if I got to decide\Nif that image was forwardable or not?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.44,0:10:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would tell you, you don't\Nhave my permission to send this image out.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.52,0:11:02.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We do this kind of thing all the time\Nto protect copyright.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.68,0:11:07.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you buy an e-book, you can't just\Nsend it out to as many people as you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.48,0:11:10.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So why not try this with mobile phones?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.96,0:11:15.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you can do is we can demand\Nthat tech companies add these protections
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.76,0:11:19.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to our devices and our platforms\Nas the default.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.52,0:11:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, you can choose\Nthe color of your car,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.96,0:11:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the airbags are always standard.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.08,0:11:31.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we don't think more\Nabout digital privacy and consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.92,0:11:34.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there can be serious consequences.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.36,0:11:37.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a teenager from Ohio --
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.64,0:11:40.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's call her Jennifer,\Nfor the sake of her privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.12,0:11:44.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She shared nude photos of herself\Nwith her high school boyfriend,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.72,0:11:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinking she could trust him.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.72,0:11:49.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unfortunately, he betrayed her
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.68,0:11:52.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and sent her photos\Naround the entire school.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.68,0:11:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer was embarrassed and humiliated,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.80,0:12:00.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but instead of being compassionate,\Nher classmates harassed her.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.96,0:12:02.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They called her a slut and a whore
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.84,0:12:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they made her life miserable.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.36,0:12:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer started missing school\Nand her grades dropped.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.52,0:12:13.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ultimately, Jennifer decided\Nto end her own life.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.72,0:12:17.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer did nothing wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.44,0:12:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All she did was share a nude photo
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.72,0:12:22.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with someone she thought\Nthat she could trust.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.56,0:12:25.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet our laws tell her
Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.20,0:12:29.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she committed a horrible crime\Nequivalent to child pornography.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.92,0:12:31.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our gender norms tell her
Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.44,0:12:34.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that by producing\Nthis nude image of herself,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.68,0:12:37.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she somehow did the most\Nhorrible, shameful thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.40,0:12:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we assume that privacy\Nis impossible in digital media,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.64,0:12:48.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we completely write off and excuse\Nher boyfriend's bad, bad behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.20,0:12:54.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are still saying all the time\Nto victims of privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.96,0:12:56.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What were you thinking?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.24,0:12:58.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should have never sent that image."
Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.64,0:13:03.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're trying to figure out\Nwhat to say instead, try this.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.16,0:13:07.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine you've run into your friend\Nwho broke their leg skiing.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.24,0:13:12.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took a risk to do something fun,\Nand it didn't end well.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.84,0:13:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're probably\Nnot going to be the jerk who says,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.40,0:13:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I guess you shouldn't\Nhave gone skiing then."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.08,0:13:22.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.24,0:13:25.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can see that victims\Nof privacy violations
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.52,0:13:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,deserve our compassion,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.28,0:13:31.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not criminalization, shaming,\Nharassment or punishment.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.44,0:13:36.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can support victims,\Nand we can prevent some privacy violations
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.96,0:13:41.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making these legal,\Nindividual and technological changes.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.84,0:13:47.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the problem is not sexting,\Nthe issue is digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.68,0:13:50.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one solution is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.68,0:13:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the next time a victim\Nof a privacy violation comes up to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.28,0:13:58.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming them,\Nlet's do this instead:
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.04,0:14:01.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's shift our ideas\Nabout digital privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.48,0:14:04.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and let's respond with compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.68,0:14:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:05.92,0:14:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)