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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.75,0:00:04.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media to talk\Nabout sex for a long time.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.81,0:00:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy polaroids.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.67,0:00:14.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl who eloped\Nwith a man that she met over the telegraph
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.79,0:00:17.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in 1886.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.76,0:00:23.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting,\Nand I am a sexting expert.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.98,0:00:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expect sexter.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.08,0:00:30.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means,\NI think you do too.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.42,0:00:36.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.75,0:00:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting since \Nthe media attention to it began in 2008.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.04,0:00:45.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book on the moral\Npanic about sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.28,0:00:47.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And here's what I found:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.96,0:00:50.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most people are worrying\Nabout the wrong thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.78,0:00:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent\Nsexting from happening entirely.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.98,0:00:56.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But let me ask you this:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.88,0:01:01.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As long as it's completely consensual,\Nwhat's the problem with sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.44,0:01:05.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things\Nthat you may not be into,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.52,0:01:07.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.62,0:01:10.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.96,0:01:14.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky,\Nlike anything that's fun,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.12,0:01:21.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as long as you're not sending an image\Nto someone who doesn't want to receive it,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.63,0:01:23.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.47,0:01:29.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem is\Nwhen people share private images of others
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.55,0:01:31.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without their permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.76,0:01:34.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And instead of worrying about sexting,\Nwhat I think we need to do
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.35,0:01:38.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is think a lot more about digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.85,0:01:40.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.87,0:01:44.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now most people are thinking
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.50,0:01:47.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about sexting without really thinking\Nabout consent at all.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.49,0:01:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know we currently\Ncriminalize teen sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.41,0:01:56.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime because it counts\Nas child pornography,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.01,0:01:59.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image of someone under 18
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.78,0:02:01.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't even matter
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.42,0:02:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they took that image of themselves\Nand shared it willingly.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.04,0:02:08.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up with this\Nbizarre legal situation
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.05,0:02:12.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds\Ncan legally have sex in most U.S. states
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.49,0:02:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.83,0:02:20.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried passing\Nsexting misdemeanor laws
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.13,0:02:23.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.22,0:02:27.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still make\Nconsensual sexting illegal.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.82,0:02:29.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.16,0:02:33.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to ban all sexting\Nto try to address privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.71,0:02:36.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.44,0:02:41.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's solve the problem of date rape\Nby just making dating completely illegal.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.41,0:02:48.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting,\Nbut can you guess who does?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.80,0:02:52.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked\Nby their partner's parents.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.74,0:02:58.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this can be because of class bias,\Nracism or homophobia.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.22,0:03:04.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are smart enough\Nnot to use child pornography charges
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.68,0:03:07.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,against teenagers but some do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.85,0:03:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers\Nat the University of New Hampshire
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.31,0:03:16.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child pornography\Npossession arrests are teens,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.10,0:03:19.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting consensually with other teens.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.67,0:03:24.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.43,0:03:27.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not\Nthe same thing as teen sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.12,0:03:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators are also\Nresponding to sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.56,0:03:35.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Ntoo much about consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.77,0:03:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens is often,\Njust don't do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.48,0:03:43.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I totally get it,\Nthere are serious legal risks
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.82,0:03:46.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course,\Nthat potential for privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.35,0:03:48.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.98,0:03:51.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure you did exactly\Nas you were told, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.69,0:03:56.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking,\Nmy kid would never sext.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.28,0:03:59.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's true, your little angel\Nmay not be sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.43,0:04:05.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33% of 16 and\N17-year-olds are sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.46,0:04:11.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older,\Nodds are they will be sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.02,0:04:17.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate\Nabove 50% for 18 to 24-year-olds.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.97,0:04:21.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time,\Nnothing goes wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.04,0:04:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People ask me all the time things like,\Nisn't sexting just so dangerous, though,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.57,0:04:31.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you wouldn't leave your wallet\Non a park bench
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.77,0:04:34.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you expect it's gonna get stolen\Nif you do that, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.74,0:04:36.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.66,0:04:39.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexting is like leaving your wallet\Nat your boyfriend's house.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.38,0:04:42.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.41,0:04:47.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all the money is just gone,\Nyou really need to dump that guy.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.76,0:04:56.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting to try\Nto prevent these privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.64,0:04:59.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead we need to make consent central
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.90,0:05:03.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we think about the circulation\Nof our private information.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.67,0:05:08.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology\Nraises privacy concerns.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.96,0:05:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, in the U.S. the very first\Nmajor debates about privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.79,0:05:17.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies\Nthat were relatively new at the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.07,0:05:20.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s, people were\Nworried about cameras,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.06,0:05:25.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which were just suddenly more portable\Nthan ever before,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.62,0:05:27.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and newspaper gossip columns.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.32,0:05:31.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were worried that the camera\Nwould capture information about them,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.98,0:05:34.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take it out of context\Nand widely disseminate it.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.52,0:05:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does this sound familiar?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.53,0:05:41.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exactly what we're worrying about\Nnow with social media and drone cameras.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.93,0:05:44.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, of course, sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.30,0:05:48.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these fears about technology,\Nthey make sense because technologies
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.12,0:05:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can amplify and bring out\Nour worst qualities and behaviors.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.17,0:05:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are solutions.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.73,0:06:00.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we've been here before\Nwith a dangerous new technology.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.86,0:06:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.74,0:06:06.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Traffic fatality rates were rising.\N
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.37,0:06:10.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a serious problem --\Nit looks so safe, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.65,0:06:16.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our first response was to try\Nto change drivers behavior,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.97,0:06:19.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we developed speed limits and\Nenforced them through fines.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.45,0:06:22.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But over the following decades,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.09,0:06:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we started to realize the technology\Nof the car itself is not just neutral.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.98,0:06:31.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could design the car to make it safer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.38,0:06:34.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the 1920s, we got\Nshatter-resistant windshields.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.73,0:06:39.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the 1950s, seatbelts.\NAnd in the 1990s, airbags.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.73,0:06:42.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All three of these areas:
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.83,0:06:46.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laws, individuals, industry\Ncame together
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.94,0:06:51.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over time to help solve the problem\Nthat a new technology causes.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.54,0:06:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we can do the same thing\Nwith digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.31,0:06:57.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, it comes back to consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.42,0:06:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's the idea.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.28,0:07:03.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before anyone can distribute\Nyour private information,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.81,0:07:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should have to get your permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.48,0:07:11.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This idea of affirmative consent\Ncomes from anti-rape activists who tell us
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.92,0:07:14.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we need consent for every sexual act.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.09,0:07:19.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we have really high standards\Nfor consent in a lot of other areas.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.49,0:07:21.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about having surgery.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.76,0:07:23.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your doctor has to make sure that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.57,0:07:27.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are meaningfully and knowingly\Nconsenting to that medical procedure.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.79,0:07:31.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not the type of consent with\Nan iTunes Terms of Service
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.56,0:07:35.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you scroll to the bottom and\Nyou're like, agree, agree, whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.52,0:07:41.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,\Nwe can have better privacy laws.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.60,0:07:45.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now we just don't have\Nthat many protections.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.09,0:07:49.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your ex-husband or your ex-wife\Nis a terrible person,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.57,0:07:53.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can take your nude photos\Nand upload them to a porn site.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.100,0:07:56.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be really hard to get\Nthose images taken down.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.05,0:07:59.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in a lot of states,\Nyou're actually better off
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.96,0:08:01.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you took the images of yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.20,0:08:04.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then you can\Nfile a copyright claim.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.60,0:08:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if someone\Nviolates your privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.61,0:08:14.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether that's an individual or\Na company or the NSA,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.42,0:08:19.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can try filing a lawsuit,\Nthough you may not be successful
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.41,0:08:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because many courts assume that\Ndigital privacy is just impossible.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.25,0:08:28.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they're not willing to punish\Nanyone for violating it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.46,0:08:32.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still hear people\Nasking me all the time,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.62,0:08:37.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,isn't a digital image somehow blurring\Nthe line between public and private
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.93,0:08:39.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's digital, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.06,0:08:40.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No! No!
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.47,0:08:44.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything digital is not\Njust automatically public.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.74,0:08:46.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't make any sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.94,0:08:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As NYU legal scholar\NHelen Nissenbaum tells us,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.90,0:08:52.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have laws and policies\Nand norms that protect
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.08,0:08:56.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all kinds of information that's private,\Nand it doesn't make a difference
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.88,0:08:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if it's digital or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.22,0:09:02.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your health records\Nare digitized but your doctor
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.65,0:09:04.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can't just share them with anyone.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.91,0:09:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your financial information\Nis held in digital databases,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.45,0:09:13.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your credit card company can't\Njust post your purchase history online.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.25,0:09:19.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better laws could help address\Nprivacy violations after they happen,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.30,0:09:24.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one of the easiest things\Nwe can all do is make personal changes
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.24,0:09:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help protect each other's privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.29,0:09:33.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always told that privacy is our\Nown, sole, individual responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.63,0:09:37.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, constantly monitor\Nand update your privacy settings.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.70,0:09:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told never share anything you\Nwouldn't want the entire world to see.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.22,0:09:44.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't make sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.11,0:09:47.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Digital media are social environments
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.98,0:09:52.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we share things\Nwith people we trust all day, every day.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.05,0:09:55.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Princeton researcher\NJennifer ?argues,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.67,0:09:59.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our data and are privacy,\Nthey're not just personal,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.89,0:10:02.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're actually interpersonal.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.86,0:10:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so one thing you can do,\Nthat's really easy
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.82,0:10:10.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is just start asking for permission before\Nyou share anyone else's information.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.32,0:10:14.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to post a photo\Nof someone online, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.40,0:10:18.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to forward an email thread,\Nask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.45,0:10:24.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you want to share someone's nude\Nselfie, obviously, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.84,0:10:29.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These individual changes can really\Nhelp us protect each other's privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.09,0:10:33.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we need technology companies\Non board as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.71,0:10:38.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These companies have very little\Nincentive to help protect our privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.96,0:10:42.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because their business models depend on\Nus sharing everything
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.46,0:10:44.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with as many people as possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.23,0:10:47.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if I send you an image,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.38,0:10:49.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can forward that\Nto anyone that you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.26,0:10:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what if I got to decide\Nif that image was forwardable or not?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.60,0:10:58.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would tell you that you don't\Nhave my permission to send this image out.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.78,0:11:02.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We do this kind of thing all the time\Nto protect copy right.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.85,0:11:07.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you buy an e-book, you can't just\Nsend it out to as many people as you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.62,0:11:10.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So why not try this with mobile phones?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.23,0:11:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you can do is we can demand\Nthat tech companies add these protections
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.87,0:11:19.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to our devices and our platforms\Nas the default.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.57,0:11:22.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, you can choose\Nthe color of your car,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.90,0:11:25.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the airbags are always standard.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.33,0:11:32.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we don't think more about\Ndigital privacy and consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.56,0:11:35.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there can be serious consequences.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.76,0:11:38.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a teenager from Ohio,\Nlet's call her Jennifer,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.33,0:11:43.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the sake of her privacy,\Nshe shared nude photos of herself
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.32,0:11:46.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her high-school boyfriend,\Nthinking she could trust him.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.89,0:11:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unfortunately, he betrayed her and\Nsent her photos around the entire school.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.99,0:11:56.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer was embarrassed and humiliated,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.78,0:12:00.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but instead of being compassionate,\Nher classmates harassed her.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.31,0:12:03.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They called her a slut and a whore.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.42,0:12:05.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They made her life miserable.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.59,0:12:08.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer started missing school\Nand her grades dropped.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.77,0:12:13.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ultimately, Jennifer decided\Nto end her own life.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.93,0:12:17.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer did nothing wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.56,0:12:19.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All she did was share a nude photo
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.100,0:12:22.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with someone she thought\Nthat she could trust.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.64,0:12:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet our laws tell her
Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.46,0:12:29.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she committed a horrible crime\Nequivalent to child pornography.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.98,0:12:31.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our gender norms tell her that
Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.97,0:12:34.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by producing this nude image of herself,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.80,0:12:38.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she somehow did the most\Nhorrible, shameful thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.70,0:12:42.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we assume that privacy\Nis impossible in digital media,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.80,0:12:48.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we completely write-off and excuse\Nher boyfriend's bad, bad behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.22,0:12:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are still saying all the time\Nto victims of privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.89,0:12:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what were you thinking?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.71,0:12:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should have never sent that image.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.93,0:13:03.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're trying to figure out\Nwhat to say instead, try this.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.21,0:13:08.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine you've run into your friend\Nwho broke their leg skiing.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.60,0:13:12.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took a risk to do something fun\Nand it didn't end well.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.92,0:13:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're probably not going to be\Nthe jerk who says, well,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.12,0:13:18.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess you shouldn't\Nhave gone skiing then.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.30,0:13:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,\Nwe can see that
Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.88,0:13:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,victims of privacy violations\Ndeserve our compassion,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.63,0:13:31.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not criminalization, shaming,\Nharassment, or punishment.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.59,0:13:36.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can support victims and\Nwe can prevent some privacy violations
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.27,0:13:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making these legal, individual\Nand technological changes.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.98,0:13:47.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the problem is not sexting,\Nthe issue is digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.90,0:13:50.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one solution is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.07,0:13:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the next time a victim\Nof a privacy violation comes up to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.26,0:13:57.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming them,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:57.35,0:13:58.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's do this instead:\N
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.79,0:14:02.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's shift our ideas\Nabout digital privacy and
Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.48,0:14:04.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's respond with compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.89,0:14:06.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.