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My boyfriend cheated on me with me cousin [br]about three years ago.

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They're still together and I have to see[br]them at every family gathering.

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Aw that's so messed up.

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I have loved the same girl for the past [br]six years.

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I see her from time to time and we fool [br]around.

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But to me it's more than that. I've been [br]feeling the same heartbreak for six years.

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I dated a guy for almost two years.

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I was so in love with him I changed myself[br]to his liking,

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not realizing that he never felt the same[br]for me.

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He dumped me and when I asked why, he[br]refuses to tell me.

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He left me in the dark to this very day.

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I can relate to that one.

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I had someone do something very similar to me when[br]I was in college.

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Ended up getting back with his old fiance.[br]Didn't tell me about it.

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I wish I wouldn't have put so much of the[br]blame on myself.

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Because at the end of the day it was [br]something going on with him.

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I feel like so many people are hard on[br]themselves in relationships.

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I was in a long distance relationship.[br]Everything I felt was real,

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and I believed it was real for him too.

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We each kept a journal to write letters [br]and when we saw each other again,

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we would read them out loud to each other.

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It was something special. But his friends[br]didn't believe in our relationship and

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pressured him to burn his journal. They[br]recorded it and sent the video to me.

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Jesus Christ

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Uh, it was tormenting and traumatizing.

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I'm astounded by the cruelty.[br]Uh, exhibited by people sometimes.

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Like, you are far better off not being [br]associated with them at all. Whatsoever.

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Because its going to take years for this[br]person and their friends to discover what

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is at the route of their own pain

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That's causing them to want to hurt other[br]people this way.

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But um, you dodged a bullet here.[br]I think.

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My worst heartbreak would have to be when[br]my great grandma passed away five days

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before my twenty-fourth birthday.

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I usually get a picture with her every [br]year for my birthday but not this year.

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My father was never a religious man but [br]when he had liver cancer and was at the

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hour of his death, I saw him pray to a God[br]I had never seen him so scared in his life

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and it broke my heart.

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My best friend died in a car crash.[br]My last words to her were

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"I never want to see you again."

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It will continue to haunt me for the rest [br]of my life. I wish in her final moments

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she knew how much she meant to me,[br]and how much she changed my life for the

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better.

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That, that makes me want to like call up[br]like some of my friends and be like

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"Dude like I love you like do you know[br]that?"

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They're probably gonna be like what are[br]you talking about? But like

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really just letting them know.