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Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.65,0:00:46.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Marrisa m-a rugat sa citesc cateva randuri scrise de cineva pe nume John Piper
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.58,0:00:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,care este un bine cunoscut invatator biblic si
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.76,0:00:50.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acesta scrie despre
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.95,0:00:53.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,casatorie si despre modul in care aceasta
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.78,0:00:58.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taina face trimitere la Cristos si la biserica
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.03,0:00:59.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si el spune:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.85,0:01:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,casatoria nu este menita in principal pentru prosperare economica
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.72,0:01:10.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ci pentru a etala dragostea fidela legamantului dintre Cristos
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.04,0:01:13.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si biserica Lui.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.07,0:01:19.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,El afirma ca a-L cunoaste pe Cristos este mai important
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.52,0:01:22.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decat a-ti castiga existenta
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.01,0:01:25.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a-L pretui pe Cristos este mai important
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.61,0:01:28.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decat a procrea
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.23,0:01:33.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Indiferent de situatie, casnicia dureaza putin
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.53,0:01:36.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,S-ar putea ca sa aduca multe zile luminoase sau sa fie innorata
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.43,0:01:39.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Insa daca ne decidem sa transformam casnicia
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.08,0:01:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in principal in ceea ce a intentionat-o Dumnezeu
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.10,0:01:46.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nicio intristare si nicio nenorocire nu ne pot impiedica
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.18,0:01:50.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ele nu vor fi un obstacol in calea succesului
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.76,0:01:54.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ci o cale spre succes
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.58,0:01:57.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Frumusetea dragostei fidela legamantului dintre Cristos si biserica Lui
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.00,0:02:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,straluceste cel mai clar atunci cand
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.60,0:02:16.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nimic altceva decat Cristos ne poate sustine.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.28,0:02:23.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ian si cu mine ne-am cunoscut in 2005 la colegiu si
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.14,0:02:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,timp de zece luni am trait o perioada de vis pe masura ce ne cunosteam
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.89,0:02:36.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cotrobaind printre lucruri
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.78,0:02:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am gasit una dintre pozele mele preferate care
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.62,0:02:42.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cred ca a fost facuta chiar in seara dinainte
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.33,0:02:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,de accidentul sau.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.90,0:02:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,El si-a pus camera foto pe trepied si
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.20,0:02:50.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,se vede chipul tipic al lui Ian care pentru mine sumarizeaza cine este el.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.54,0:02:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eram prieteni de zece luni si el
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.05,0:02:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lucra ore suplimentare pentru tatal sau, se indrepta spre locul de munca
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.07,0:02:57.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in apropiere de Pittsburgh cand
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.85,0:03:00.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am fost anuntati ca a fost implicat intr-un accident
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.71,0:03:02.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si n-am stiut daca se produsese la locul de munca ori pe drum
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.68,0:03:04.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,asa ca ne-am dus spre Pittsburgh si
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.37,0:03:07.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eu m-am rugat pe tot parcursul drumului ca sa nu-i fi fost afectat creierul
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.04,0:03:08.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dupa cateva ore de stat in spital
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.90,0:03:10.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am aflat ca-i fusese afectat creierul
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.49,0:03:12.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si ca era de cateva ore in operatie.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.37,0:03:14.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ian suferise o leziune cerebrala grava
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.02,0:03:16.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dumnezeu i-a crutat viata
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.97,0:03:20.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Intr-o seara a fost supus la patru sau cinci teste de activitate cerebrala
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.80,0:03:23.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,la fel si dimineata urmatoare si lucrurile mergeau bine, iar
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.45,0:03:26.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creierul lui incepea sa raspunda din nou.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.15,0:03:29.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dupa accident, m-am mutat impreuna cu familia lui asa ca
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.48,0:03:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am fost implicata de-a binelea in terapia sa si
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.60,0:03:38.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am facut tot ce am putut
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.68,0:03:40.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ca sa-i inveselesc viata.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.84,0:03:44.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Iesim in oras si
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.64,0:03:47.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,privind inapoi, este ciudat pentru ca
Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.49,0:03:49.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,el nu poate vorbi si nu poate manca asa ca,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.12,0:03:50.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,probabil ca parem tare ciudati dar,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.57,0:03:53.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,viata ne-a fost minunata si eu pur si simplu
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.52,0:03:57.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vorbesc cu el tot timpul.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.81,0:04:02.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stiam inainte de accidentul sau ca el era
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.97,0:04:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,foarte serios cu privire la casatorie si chiar mersese sa-mi cumpere verigheta asa ca
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.54,0:04:07.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ii stiam intentiile si asta m-a ajutat atat de mult
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.33,0:04:09.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dupa ce n-a mai putut comunica. Am stiut ca ma iubea si
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.36,0:04:11.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am stiut incotro dorea sa indrepte relatia
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.20,0:04:12.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Intrucat intalnirile noastre aveau un scop clar
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.87,0:04:15.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne rugam ca intr-o zi sa facem pasul casatoriei.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.61,0:04:18.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne-am vazut toti prietenii casatorindu-se si intemeind familii
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.63,0:04:21.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Asta a fost dificil si am incercat sa ne pastram speranta ca si noi urma sa fim candva asa
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.15,0:04:23.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Asta este tablita recunostintei noastre si
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.25,0:04:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ii incurajam pe toti care vin sa scrie un motiv de multumire
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.98,0:04:26.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poate fi ceva minor: pentru mine sunt sambetele dimineata
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.24,0:04:28.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E atat de bine ca am ajuns sa practicam recunostinta.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.21,0:04:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ian, cred ca jumatate din tine spune: Sotia mea
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.14,0:04:37.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ceea ce este minunat
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.50,0:04:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am decis ca nu puteam lua in considerare casnicia ca optiune pana cand Ian nu putea sa comunice
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.96,0:04:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dar daca putea sa comunice cu mine, atunci am putea sa avem o casnicie, stiind ca va fi foarte diferita.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.22,0:04:43.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dar atat timp cat Ian poate vorbi cu mine atunci
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.57,0:04:45.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am putea sa o facem sa functioneze
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.64,0:04:49.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Astfel ca, odata ce Ian a inceput sa comunice, casnicia a devenit o optiune mai solida
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.95,0:04:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mai apoi am vazut cum Ian progeseaza
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.02,0:04:57.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Buna, sotule!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.82,0:04:58.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Buna, sotioara!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.59,0:05:00.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cum iti merge?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.34,0:05:02.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poftim?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.70,0:05:07.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te iubesc!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.72,0:05:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cum ti-a fost ziua?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.22,0:05:10.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am avut o discutie cu tatal lui in care am constientizat ca era posibil sa se intample asta.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.88,0:05:12.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mai apoi, in acea luna august, tatal sau a fost diagnosticat cu cancer cerebral.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.35,0:05:14.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,La momentul acela, cea mai mare framantare a tatalui sau era daca Ian si cu mine
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.18,0:05:16.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,urma sa ne casatorim sau sa intrerupem relatia.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.72,0:05:18.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,El a vrut ca noi sa ne decidem sa ne indreptam vietile intr-o directie
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.77,0:05:21.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A murit inainte de a ne vedea logoditi.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.08,0:05:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dar ne-a dat un imbold puternic si de aceea am demarat logodna.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.57,0:05:25.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pe parcursul consilierii premaritale am folosit doar cartea ''Aceasta casatorie temporara''
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.68,0:05:28.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne-a fost atat de utila intrucat John Piper vorbeste mult despre lucrurile principale si cele secundare
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.20,0:05:32.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Asta e foarte important pentru noi pentru ca ne traim casnicia practic
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.18,0:05:34.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ian nu poate face lucruri secundare precum a munci sau a-mi pregati masa
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.49,0:05:35.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dar el poate sa faca ce este principal si anume sa ma conduca spiritual
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.89,0:05:38.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ian intotdeauna revine la adevarul fundamental al identitatii lui Dumnezeu
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.39,0:05:39.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si asta ma reechilibreaza emotional
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.41,0:05:40.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Asta e cel mai important
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.67,0:05:43.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Avem doi prieteni cu care parcurgem cartea
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.12,0:05:45.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cred ca-i ajutam sa vada ca probabil lucrurile minore din casnicie care-i incanta
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.56,0:05:46.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,merita sa le aduca incantare, dar
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.85,0:05:49.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ele nu sunt definitorii pentru casnicia lor
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.73,0:05:50.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dar avem atatea de invatat
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.81,0:05:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,de la ei
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.80,0:05:56.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lucruri pe care ei le impartasesc
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.53,0:06:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,intrucat relatiile noastre sunt diferite
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.60,0:06:04.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,putem deprinde lucruri diferite unii de la altii
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.25,0:06:05.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cred ca ceea ce ne-a ajutat sa ne luam un asemenea angajament reciproc
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.86,0:06:07.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cel putin pe mine, este sa stiu ca Ian nu m-ar fi parasit daca rolurile ar fi fost inversate
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.97,0:06:11.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si ca ne iubim reciproc
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.24,0:06:15.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si stim ca Dumnezeu va fi credincios casniciei noastre
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.28,0:06:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Putem sa ne iubim unul pe altul
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.82,0:06:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cu o dragoste ca a lui Cristos datorita dizabilitatii lui Ian
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.25,0:06:32.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si pricep aceasta imagine putin mai bine
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.64,0:06:34.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decat daca ai fi fost sanatos
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.87,0:06:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Esti de acord?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.20,0:06:39.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.68,0:06:44.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dar, ce zici, da Dumnezeu putere pentru o casnicie fericita?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.65,0:06:48.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poftim?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.18,0:06:49.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,El este uimitor!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.88,0:06:52.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,El este uimitor?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.01,0:06:53.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da