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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.83,0:00:04.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm trying to compose\Nmy blog post for tonight,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.05,0:00:07.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm thinking\Nit sounds really believable
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.47,0:00:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I went to prison and hugged\Na bunch of really nice prisoners,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.14,0:00:17.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while a DJ busy, threw on some records,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.55,0:00:21.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Richard Branson told me\Nwhere I can score some free heroin.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.71,0:00:23.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.50,0:00:25.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.74,0:00:35.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,True story!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.74,0:00:36.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.47,0:00:44.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lesson number one:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.81,0:00:52.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,never believe a prediction\Nthat doesn't empower you.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.22,0:00:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was born,\Nthe doctors told my parents
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.24,0:01:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I would be dead\Nwithin the first 24 hours of my life.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.08,0:01:09.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,35 years later, all those doctors are dead
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.77,0:01:11.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.75,0:01:22.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I am the only doctor that remains.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.28,0:01:23.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.41,0:01:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.50,0:01:32.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Never believe a prediction\Nthat doesn't empower you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.33,0:01:37.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many predictions have been\Nthrown at you your whole life?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.88,0:01:41.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you believe predictions\Nthat do not empower you,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.99,0:01:45.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will wither away and die,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.64,0:01:49.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either physically die\Nor your spirit will die
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.47,0:01:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as you just walk around\Nthe world like a carcass
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.60,0:01:56.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is just following the masses.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.12,0:02:03.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll be given\Na lot of titles in your life,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.76,0:02:07.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll be told so many different things.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.16,0:02:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You must only listen\Nto that which empowers you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.21,0:02:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a belief\Nthat has served me in my life,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.24,0:02:19.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that is that everyone\Nis rooting from me to win,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.51,0:02:22.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even those that do not know it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.79,0:02:28.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm not here today to tell you\Nthat I've had adversity in my life
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.07,0:02:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and therefore, I know\Nwhat you are going through.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.76,0:02:36.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't have a clue what any of you\Nare going through in your lives.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.76,0:02:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did not grow up in your neighborhoods\Nmore than likely.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.78,0:02:44.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did not have your set of parents,\Nnor do I live in your body.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.46,0:02:48.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've not had the events\Nthat you've had happened to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.94,0:02:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can tell you I am only\Nan expert on one thing,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.02,0:02:57.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's how to be me, and I do it well.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.02,0:02:58.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.48,0:03:07.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's not come easily,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.89,0:03:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've gone through things that I don't wish\Nupon anyone in this room.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.20,0:03:18.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've had metal rods pulled out\Nof bone marrow while I was awake,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.62,0:03:21.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've had jaw infections\Nwhere teeth had to be extracted
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.96,0:03:24.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I can no longer chew my own food.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.95,0:03:27.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to get up everyday,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.58,0:03:32.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and be showered and cared for\Nphysically by another human being;
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.09,0:03:35.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fortunately, she's a gorgeous\Nwoman that I married.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.16,0:03:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.05,0:03:43.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get stared at everywhere I go,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.76,0:03:45.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the moment people meet me,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.88,0:03:48.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they don't know a thing\Nabout my résumé,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.22,0:03:53.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they automatically, just by\Nthe human nature, think to themselves:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.48,0:03:58.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, it must be so difficult\Nto be that man!"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.69,0:04:03.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If somebody pities me,\Nthey're wasting their time,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.70,0:04:07.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I have chosen a life of strength,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.21,0:04:10.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am here to help you\Nchoose a life of strength,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.95,0:04:14.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I'm going to tell you,\Nwe've talked about drugs here.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.40,0:04:19.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what the worst drug\Nthat ever hit the human race is?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.57,0:04:21.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pity.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.32,0:04:24.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The moment you feel sorry\Nfor another person
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.06,0:04:27.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or the moment you feel sorry\Nfor yourself, you're hosed.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.51,0:04:31.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're totally, completely\Nfrozen in potential.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.90,0:04:37.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can not pity ourselves,\Nwe can not pity you.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.87,0:04:45.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, I get to go home today, yes, I get\Nto have what many would call freedom,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.01,0:04:48.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I'm going to talk to you about freedom
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.14,0:04:51.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what I really choose\Nto see freedom as,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.88,0:04:53.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because like I said,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.19,0:04:56.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can not believe predictions\Nthat do not empower you!.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.62,0:05:01.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second lesson today is\Nyou are not your condition.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.35,0:05:02.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.49,0:05:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not disabled!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.80,0:05:08.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sure, I'll take the handicapped\Nparking privileges
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.75,0:05:10.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.50,0:05:15.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that does not define me as a man.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.19,0:05:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not able?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.52,0:05:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been looked at and treated\Nmy whole life as if I am not able.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.22,0:05:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have had to rise above and show people
Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.79,0:05:28.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the only disability\Nis one's refusal to adapt.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.95,0:05:32.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to adapt to whatever\Nenvironment you're in,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.06,0:05:34.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if it's prison.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.31,0:05:38.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what does adaption look like?\NI think it looks like celebration.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.40,0:05:41.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when you meet people\Nthat are celebrating their life,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.34,0:05:44.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you want to be around them,\Nyou want to learn from them,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.07,0:05:46.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you want to do business with them,\Nyou want to hire them.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.86,0:05:50.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look! If you do not want to be seen\Nas a prisoner or a convict
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.08,0:05:53.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you get out of this,\Nor even while you're in this,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.59,0:05:55.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is an attitude,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.57,0:05:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is a belief in yourself that you bring\Nvalue to the human race,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.18,0:06:03.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no matter what your current condition,\Ntitle, or stature is.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.80,0:06:11.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if I believe that I am disabled,\NI would wither up, I would be shy,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.32,0:06:16.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would be insecure, I would be afraid,\NI would act like I need your help.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.36,0:06:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the rest of humanity\Nwould be OK with that,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.30,0:06:22.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I choose something else,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.58,0:06:25.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I choose to be strong,\NI choose to be a leader,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.14,0:06:28.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I choose to have words\Nto move this planet,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.67,0:06:31.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you why I was born.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.56,0:06:35.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I hope it inspires you to\Nfind out why you were born.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.27,0:06:39.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was born to rid\Nthis world of insecurity.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.26,0:06:43.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when a human being\Nis insecure, they do stupid stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.64,0:06:46.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we feel like we're not enough,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.29,0:06:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we chase external validation,\Nand external objects
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.27,0:06:53.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to tell us we're enough.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.42,0:06:54.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.82,0:06:56.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.51,0:07:02.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are enough.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.89,0:07:05.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you I've made\Na pledge of the therapist
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.83,0:07:10.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to love all human beings,\Nno matter what they've done.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.02,0:07:11.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because deep down inside,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.93,0:07:16.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found that every human being\Njust wants to be loved,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.23,0:07:18.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if they're tough,\Neven if they're scary,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.58,0:07:20.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if they're vicious.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.49,0:07:23.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You get them in the right position,\Nat the right time,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.03,0:07:24.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they'll tell you the truth.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.61,0:07:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They just want to be loved.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.19,0:07:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know whom they want\Nthe love from the most?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.53,0:07:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not their moms, not their dads,\Nnot their wardens.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.38,0:07:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,None of these people.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.58,0:07:35.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They want to be able to look in\Nthe mirror and love themselves.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.72,0:07:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you can figure that out,\Nthen you're going somewhere.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.84,0:07:40.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.20,0:07:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you can not feel sorry for yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.28,0:07:52.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you feel sorry\Nfor yourself, you will wither.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.97,0:07:57.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there's a contradiction\Nto feeling sorry for yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.93,0:08:02.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's the opposite extreme,\Nit's what I call 'bullying yourself, '
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.95,0:08:08.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beating yourself up, being\Nyour own enemy and telling yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.09,0:08:10.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that all those predictions,\Nthose negative opinions
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.79,0:08:13.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they're true, they're right,\Nyou're washed up, failure.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.71,0:08:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not going to amount to anything.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.73,0:08:19.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bullying yourself is the most\Ndangerous thing that you could do.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.81,0:08:24.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can not afford to pity yourself,\Nyou can not afford to bully yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.66,0:08:26.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have to love yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.100,0:08:30.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the last lesson that I'm going\Nto share with you today
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.78,0:08:36.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is I'm going to teach you\Nwhat the real prison is,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.18,0:08:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not surrounded by bar,\Nwire, or electrical fences,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.58,0:08:44.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the real prisons do not have guards,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.22,0:08:48.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the real prison's up here.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.68,0:08:51.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we all got it,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.08,0:08:59.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we all have a mind that chatters,\Nso often won't stop chattering.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.48,0:09:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know where your salvation is?\NIt's not outside these walls.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.46,0:09:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've met so many people that are\Nso extremely successful and famous,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.52,0:09:17.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are in prison,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.46,0:09:21.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they're stuck in their minds,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.29,0:09:25.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bullying themselves, pitying themselves.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.66,0:09:29.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,True freedom is dropping down\Nout of that mind.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.93,0:09:35.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what my wife has taught me\Nis to drop into your hearts.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.09,0:09:39.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the mastering this beating thing
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.36,0:09:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is more than just sending\Nblood to the extremities.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.66,0:09:44.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is it doing?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.23,0:09:48.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's sending emotional possibilities,\Ninfinite possibilities of choice
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.94,0:09:52.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in our behavior, in our life,\Nin our attitude.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.69,0:09:57.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you love yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.06,0:10:02.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether you're sleeping\Non a prison cot, or in a mansion,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.59,0:10:04.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether you have food in your belly,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.48,0:10:07.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you don't know\Nwhen your next meal is coming,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.09,0:10:09.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you love yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.15,0:10:12.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you learn to master your emotions,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.30,0:10:15.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then and only then are you free.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.44,0:10:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love you, each and everyone of you,\Nand I wish you freedom within these walls.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.20,0:10:21.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God bless.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.36,0:10:22.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)