[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.25,0:00:13.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can anyone explain to me Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.52,0:00:16.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why we spend millions\Nand millions of dollars Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.76,0:00:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on educating about \Ndrug prevention, Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.76,0:00:22.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't take drugs \Nbecause they're bad for you. Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.26,0:00:24.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And allowing parents\Nto worry themselves sick Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.76,0:00:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about will my child \Nget into drugs Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.26,0:00:29.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they mix\Nin a bad company. Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.53,0:00:31.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They don't have \Nto worry at all. Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.24,0:00:37.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are addicted to drugs,\Nbecause of their pain. Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.25,0:00:41.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they are not going to do it \Nbecause they're in bad company. Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.26,0:00:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just because they have\Nsuffered some trauma, Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.51,0:00:46.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's not an easy thing \Nto solve and heal from. Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.78,0:00:49.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's take an issue\Nthat the last two speakers \N Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.03,0:00:50.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have both talked about: Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.28,0:00:51.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mental illness. Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.21,0:00:56.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Across a research, \Nacademic search Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.51,0:01:01.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over the hole of research \Ninto this area in 2005: Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.25,0:01:06.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,69.9% of psychiatric inpatients, Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.50,0:01:09.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with serious psychotic disorders, Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.49,0:01:11.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you probably guessed, Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.02,0:01:14.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yes all of them had suffered \Nfrom childhood trauma. Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.77,0:01:17.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bipolar disorder was mentioned. Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.25,0:01:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,82 to 86 % of people\Nwith bipolar disorder, Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.50,0:01:24.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have suffered from some\Nform of childhood trauma. Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.75,0:01:26.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Border personality disorder: Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.51,0:01:28.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,90% have suffered. Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.24,0:01:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then let's talk about the one \Nthat we have been million, Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.25,0:01:35.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,79 million dollars last year spent\Non raising awareness of: Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.24,0:01:37.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,depression. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.73,0:01:42.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many people \Nwho suffer from depression Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.28,0:01:45.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you think have suffered\Nfrom childhood trauma or abuse? Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.24,0:01:48.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,80%, research tells us. Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.49,0:01:52.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how many of you here\Nhave heard one word Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.74,0:01:55.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what's happened \Nin your childhood, Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.28,0:01:58.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and might help you to heal \Nfrom your depression or anxiety. Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.77,0:02:00.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what we are doing, Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.27,0:02:03.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,raising awareness, so that we can\Nfeed the pharmaceutical companies! Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.76,0:02:06.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that people can take\Nmore medication! Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.51,0:02:08.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because after all in Australia, Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.25,0:02:12.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we take more anti-depressants\Nthan any other country in the world. Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.51,0:02:17.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I work with survivors\Nof childhood trauma, Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.52,0:02:19.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I know from \Nmy independent research, Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.77,0:02:23.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that four years after \Njust a five-day program, Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.52,0:02:26.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is a highly \Nstatistically significant — Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.26,0:02:27.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can never say that word, Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.51,0:02:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,highly statistically \Nsignificant reduction in depression. Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.76,0:02:33.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Six months after \Na five-day program, Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.02,0:02:38.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a 45% reduction,\Nin measured serious mental illness. Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.77,0:02:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what's the silence? Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.76,0:02:42.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why don't we talk about this? Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.51,0:02:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why we not allowed \Nto acknowledge childhood trauma? Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.00,0:02:47.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why we not encouraged\Nto heal from childhood trauma? Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.51,0:02:49.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we know,\Nbecause of neuro-plasticity, Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.51,0:02:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that this is possible. Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.48,0:02:56.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me discover one other \Narea of deep human sadness. Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.48,0:02:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,An area that we all\Ncare passionately about, Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.78,0:03:02.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when it hits us,\Nit really, really hurts. Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.74,0:03:06.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm talking about suicide. Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.75,0:03:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How agonizing it is. Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.50,0:03:11.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The young women I work with Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.26,0:03:12.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at Heal For Life; Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.76,0:03:15.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have one common complaint\Nwhen they go to hospital Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.26,0:03:17.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having tried to kill themselves: Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.50,0:03:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nobody ever asks why? Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.78,0:03:23.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if they did Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.06,0:03:26.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will get the same answer\Nfrom all those young people. Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.76,0:03:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because of my internal pain\Nfrom my childhood. Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.52,0:03:32.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I think I am worthless,\NI worth nothing. Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.26,0:03:35.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because no one cares \Nabout the fact that I've been abused. Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.24,0:03:38.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if I look at them, Esperance Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.50,0:03:39.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which in the Central Coast Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.79,0:03:42.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,runs a wonderful suicide \Nprevention service. Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.74,0:03:44.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tony Humphrey,\Nwrote to me and said, Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.52,0:03:48.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Around 90% of all the women, Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.24,0:03:49.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who have attempted suicide Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.53,0:03:50.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who I have worked with, Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.77,0:03:53.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have ever suffered \Nfrom sexual abuse Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.23,0:03:55.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or child abuse of some type. Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.54,0:03:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And a slightly lower \Npercentage for the men." Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.50,0:04:00.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So have any of you, Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.03,0:04:03.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ever seen anything \Nabout suicide prevention, Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.07,0:04:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is talked about\Nwhat happened in your childhood? Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.26,0:04:08.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Has there been a campaign\Nwhich has said, Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.49,0:04:11.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ask a friend \Nwhen they're down. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.27,0:04:12.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What happened\Nin your childhood? Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.76,0:04:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Talk to me about \Nyour childhood. Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.51,0:04:17.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that is \Nvery, very likely, Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.51,0:04:20.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have an impact\Non your current mental well-being." Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.76,0:04:24.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So maybe for a moment \Nsome of you maybe think Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.05,0:04:26.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What she keeps talking \Nabout childhood trauma and abuse? Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.76,0:04:28.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What actually is it? Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.49,0:04:31.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Childhood trauma \Ncovers a huge spectrum. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.52,0:04:33.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It covers abandonment,\Ndeath of the parents, Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.76,0:04:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,alcoholic parents, Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.26,0:04:37.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,childhood sexual abuse,\Nphysical abuse, Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.27,0:04:38.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotional abuse. Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.48,0:04:42.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It covers of course\Nnatural disasters. Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.48,0:04:45.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What happens\Nwhen a trauma occurs? Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.77,0:04:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A trauma is more emotion \Nthan the brain can deal with. Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.22,0:04:52.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trauma, at the time it is happening, Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.51,0:04:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the person,\Nin an age-appropriate way Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.51,0:04:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinks that their life is threatened. Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.77,0:05:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the brain reacts to this trauma Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.06,0:05:02.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and develops differently, Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.27,0:05:06.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is why childhood trauma\Nhas a much bigger impact on behavior later Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.51,0:05:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the whole way the brain \Noperates later in life. Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.73,0:05:12.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trauma cannot be remembered. Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.24,0:05:15.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me give you\Nan example of this, Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.06,0:05:16.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's because \Nthe conscious brain\N Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.75,0:05:19.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shuts down during trauma. Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.78,0:05:22.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You may remember\Nor you may not. Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.25,0:05:23.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Princess Diana's bodyguard, Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.53,0:05:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after they were try to find out \Nwhat actually happened in the accident, Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.26,0:05:28.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they hypnotized, Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.52,0:05:30.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the French police \Nhypnotized the man \N Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.52,0:05:32.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that he could remember. Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.26,0:05:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that part of his brain\Ncould be unlocked. Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.50,0:05:38.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that he could say what actually\Nhappened at that moment of impact. Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.50,0:05:42.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I suppose\Nmy great wishes Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.25,0:05:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that this silence\Ncould be broken. Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.50,0:05:48.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I have hope that\Nthis silence can be broken. Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.25,0:05:50.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because 40 years ago, Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.78,0:05:52.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was the big C, Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.79,0:05:54.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was cancer. Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.48,0:05:56.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one talked \Nabout cancer, Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.24,0:05:57.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we didn't mentioned it, Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.54,0:06:00.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was just,\N"They have got the big C!" Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.50,0:06:01.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But now wonderfully\N Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.78,0:06:03.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everyone talks about cancer. Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.17,0:06:05.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We know people \Nwho have suffered from cancer. Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.24,0:06:07.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We talk to them, \Nwe encourage them, we love them, Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.53,0:06:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they tell us immediately\Nwhen they have cancer. Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.49,0:06:12.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you imagine how it would be, Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.52,0:06:14.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if in my lifetime —\Nthis is my longing, Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.53,0:06:16.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that people talk \Nabout childhood trauma. Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.77,0:06:18.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is Ok to say, Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.53,0:06:21.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I had a terrible childhood.\NAll these things happened." Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.36,0:06:23.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the other \Nperson listening says, Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.04,0:06:25.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let me support you. \NLet me help you in your healing. Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.76,0:06:28.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me help you\Nwork through what is happened Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.52,0:06:30.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the development of your brain, Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.27,0:06:32.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you suffered\Nfrom childhood trauma." Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.75,0:06:36.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wouldn't that be \Na better world for all of us? Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.51,0:06:38.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because what is creating \Nthis silence? Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.49,0:06:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is the embarrassment? Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.49,0:06:43.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is it shame? Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.27,0:06:44.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are we shamed by the stigma? Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.78,0:06:46.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because we are not allowed to know Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.36,0:06:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when there is a rape victim,\Nthe name of the rape victim. Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.28,0:06:52.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As if in some way \Nthat rape was their fault! Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.49,0:06:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why is it that all the concentration \Nis on stranger danger, Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.51,0:07:01.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and church abuse?\NWhen that's about 1% of all abuse! Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.27,0:07:05.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Abuse happens in the home\Nand it happens to families. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.76,0:07:08.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But every single one of you here, Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.26,0:07:10.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can help change that. Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.46,0:07:14.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If each one of you \Nhelp me in my big idea. Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.27,0:07:15.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If each one of you\N Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.28,0:07:17.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who's actually suffered\Nfrom childhood trauma says, Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.79,0:07:19.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I have no reason \Nto be ashamed of it. Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.77,0:07:21.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It wasn't my fault. Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.78,0:07:24.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It wasn't my fault\Nfor my childhood was not perfect. Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.78,0:07:27.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I deserve\Nlove and support." Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.48,0:07:29.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If those of you when you meet, Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.26,0:07:35.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,someone who's addicted \Nfrom gambling, alcohol, drugs, Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.74,0:07:36.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you say them, Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.79,0:07:38.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, has anyone \Never discussed with you Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.53,0:07:40.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what happened\Nin your childhood? Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.26,0:07:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you think you might like \Nto heal from your childhood?" Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.75,0:07:47.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If only with any moment\Nthe mental illness Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.03,0:07:48.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you could say them not just — Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.51,0:07:50.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is a wonderful campaign,\Nbut, "Are you Ok?" Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.74,0:07:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, \N"Hey do you want to talk about Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.26,0:07:53.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what happened\Nin your childhood? Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.77,0:07:56.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I understand an awful\Nlot of people with mental illness Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.52,0:07:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have suffered from some form\Nof childhood trauma. Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.78,0:08:00.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Talk to me about it. Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.26,0:08:03.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every single one of you\Ncould do that. Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.53,0:08:06.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every single one of you\Ncan help me achieve my big idea. Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.77,0:08:08.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every single one of you Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.28,0:08:10.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can get involved \Nwith the Heal For Life foundation, Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.52,0:08:13.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and help us to make this world \Na happy place. Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.73,0:08:17.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I leave you with\None final thought. Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.75,0:08:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wonder what it would \Nhave happened to this world, Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.49,0:08:25.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if someone\Nhad healed Adolf Hitler,\N Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.05,0:08:27.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from his much acknowledged \Nchild abuse. Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.52,0:08:28.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.52,0:08:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)