1 99:59:59,999 --> 00:00:23,731 2 00:00:23,731 --> 00:00:25,082 So I still remember the exact spot 3 00:00:25,082 --> 00:00:27,488 on the highway where I was driving. 4 00:00:27,488 --> 00:00:29,708 I think I remember it so vividly because 5 00:00:29,708 --> 00:00:31,823 I was having one of the most important 6 00:00:31,823 --> 00:00:33,873 conversations that I’ve ever had with 7 00:00:33,873 --> 00:00:35,259 myself. 8 00:00:35,259 --> 00:00:37,531 In that moment in my car, 9 00:00:37,531 --> 00:00:43,331 I knew in my bones, I wouldn’t drink alcohol again. 10 00:00:43,339 --> 00:00:45,224 So you might be thinking what was the rock 11 00:00:45,224 --> 00:00:47,874 bottom that brought me to that point? 12 00:00:47,874 --> 00:00:52,547 And the answer is … there wasn’t one! 13 00:00:52,547 --> 00:00:54,874 You see, I was a gray area drinker and 14 00:00:54,874 --> 00:00:58,224 I drank between two extremes. 15 00:00:58,224 --> 00:01:01,067 I wasn’t an end stage, lose everything kind of 16 00:01:01,067 --> 00:01:03,250 drinker, not by a long shot. 17 00:01:03,250 --> 00:01:05,260 If you would have asked my friends and family if they 18 00:01:05,260 --> 00:01:06,571 thought I had a drinking problem 19 00:01:06,571 --> 00:01:08,778 they would have said, “of course not”. 20 00:01:08,778 --> 00:01:11,082 But I also wasn’t an "every now and again drinker" 21 00:01:11,082 --> 00:01:12,588 who would have a glass of champagne 22 00:01:12,588 --> 00:01:14,836 for example at the wedding and then not 23 00:01:14,836 --> 00:01:16,736 drink again for weeks. 24 00:01:16,736 --> 00:01:19,606 I didn’t fall into either one of those drinking categories 25 00:01:19,606 --> 00:01:21,775 or drinking extremes. And ... 26 00:01:21,775 --> 00:01:25,093 maybe you can identify? 27 00:01:25,093 --> 00:01:26,763 As a nutritionist who has worked in 28 00:01:26,763 --> 00:01:29,053 corporate wellness since 2004, 29 00:01:29,053 --> 00:01:31,293 I functioned really well. I knew how 30 00:01:31,293 --> 00:01:33,623 to eat well, I worked out on a regular 31 00:01:33,623 --> 00:01:37,113 basis and I loved to read and study 32 00:01:37,113 --> 00:01:39,943 everything health and wellness. 33 00:01:39,943 --> 00:01:42,463 But what people didn’t know 34 00:01:42,463 --> 00:01:45,032 was how much I loved the “off” switch 35 00:01:45,032 --> 00:01:50,428 that wine provided to my “on” and often anxious brain. 36 00:01:50,428 --> 00:01:53,170 I loved the immediate effect that red wine delivered. 37 00:01:53,170 --> 00:01:55,000 And people also didn’t see how 38 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:59,270 easy and frequent it was for one glass of wine 39 00:01:59,270 --> 00:02:03,270 to turn into one bottle of wine. 40 00:02:03,270 --> 00:02:05,650 There is a commune characteristic and pattern 41 00:02:05,650 --> 00:02:07,190 in gray area drinking that I 42 00:02:07,190 --> 00:02:09,120 experience and I’ve watched many others 43 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,290 experience as well and that’s a stopping 44 00:02:11,290 --> 00:02:14,490 and restarting drinking. 45 00:02:14,490 --> 00:02:17,590 One time I stopped for 7 months, another time I 46 00:02:17,590 --> 00:02:20,350 stopped for 30 days, and other short periods 47 00:02:20,350 --> 00:02:22,814 in between, and then I would think to myself: 48 00:02:22,814 --> 00:02:24,814 “Why am I being so restrictive? 49 00:02:24,814 --> 00:02:27,004 I can be a social drinker”. 50 00:02:27,004 --> 00:02:30,584 So I’d return to drinking 51 00:02:30,584 --> 00:02:32,284 only to return to a level of drinking 52 00:02:32,284 --> 00:02:34,244 where I regret it. 53 00:02:34,244 --> 00:02:36,584 This back and forth drinking marry-go-around 54 00:02:36,584 --> 00:02:39,914 was the exact thing that I knew I wanted to exit off for good 55 00:02:39,914 --> 00:02:43,914 that day in my car on the highway. 56 00:02:43,914 --> 00:02:46,304 And maybe you actually don’t identify with 57 00:02:46,304 --> 00:02:49,564 gray area drinking because not everyone will. 58 00:02:49,564 --> 00:02:50,644 But here is what I know with 59 00:02:50,644 --> 00:02:53,754 absolute certainty: there are people in 60 00:02:53,754 --> 00:02:55,554 your life right now, it could be family 61 00:02:55,554 --> 00:03:00,214 members, close friends, colleagues, and 62 00:03:00,214 --> 00:03:02,404 they are worrying and wondering 63 00:03:02,404 --> 00:03:04,674 as they’re rethinking their drinking 64 00:03:04,674 --> 00:03:07,894 because they are in the gray area, 65 00:03:07,894 --> 00:03:11,165 but more than likely they are not talking to you about it 66 00:03:11,165 --> 00:03:13,705 and they are not talking to others about it 67 00:03:13,705 --> 00:03:14,935 because they think they are the only ones 68 00:03:14,935 --> 00:03:17,395 and they think they are alone. 69 00:03:17,395 --> 00:03:20,522 So how do I know this? I’ve lived this 70 00:03:20,522 --> 00:03:22,422 for many years. 71 00:03:22,422 --> 00:03:25,102 the more I've been speaking out professionally about my 72 00:03:25,102 --> 00:03:27,962 gray area drinking experience the more my email inbox 73 00:03:27,962 --> 00:03:30,622 gets flooded with emails from 74 00:03:30,622 --> 00:03:35,072 attorneys and therapists, 75 00:03:35,072 --> 00:03:40,232 senior level managers and nurses, stay in home moms, 76 00:03:40,232 --> 00:03:43,552 yoga instructors, and many many others. 77 00:03:43,552 --> 00:03:45,982 And the words are different, but 78 00:03:45,982 --> 00:03:48,092 the jest of what they write me is all 79 00:03:48,092 --> 00:03:50,142 the same and they say, “I identify with 80 00:03:50,142 --> 00:03:52,682 your drinking story. 81 00:03:52,683 --> 00:03:55,043 I don’t have a rock bottom either, 82 00:03:55,043 --> 00:03:58,493 I want to be able to drink socially, but I end up regretting 83 00:03:58,493 --> 00:04:02,093 how much I drink on a frequent basis." 84 00:04:02,093 --> 00:04:06,823 This gray area drinking spectrum is real 85 00:04:06,823 --> 00:04:10,673 and it’s large. And a lot of high achieving, 86 00:04:10,673 --> 00:04:11,863 high functioning people who 87 00:04:11,863 --> 00:04:16,003 silently live here every day. 88 00:04:16,003 --> 00:04:18,503 But beyond gray area drinking is even something 89 00:04:18,503 --> 00:04:22,573 bigger and that’s a collective story of anxiety. 90 00:04:22,573 --> 00:04:25,143 And this I believe is where we are 91 00:04:25,143 --> 00:04:28,833 collectively missing the mark. 92 00:04:28,833 --> 00:04:30,763 We don’t need anymore cognitive hoops to 93 00:04:30,763 --> 00:04:32,503 jump through and we don’t need anymore 94 00:04:32,503 --> 00:04:35,413 ways to focus our will power and contort 95 00:04:35,413 --> 00:04:38,803 our will power in an attempt to “fix” ourselves, 96 00:04:38,803 --> 00:04:42,233 what we need is practical training 97 00:04:42,233 --> 00:04:44,423 in how to nourish our nervous system 98 00:04:44,423 --> 00:04:51,793 in a revolutionary and new way. 99 00:04:51,793 --> 00:04:54,413 So there is many components and pieces to this, 100 00:04:54,413 --> 00:04:56,223 but one component and one 101 00:04:56,223 --> 00:04:58,043 interesting place to start can be 102 00:04:58,043 --> 00:05:00,903 understanding your neurotransmitters. 103 00:05:00,903 --> 00:05:07,203 So let’s start with GABA. 104 00:05:07,203 --> 00:05:10,973 So GABA is the natural anti-anxiety neurotransmitter. 105 00:05:10,973 --> 00:05:14,223 When GABA is low we can feel anxious 106 00:05:14,223 --> 00:05:16,653 and our mind can get stuck in a loop of worry, 107 00:05:16,653 --> 00:05:20,923 rumination or obsession about anything. 108 00:05:20,923 --> 00:05:25,523 Serotonin is the natural anti-depressant neurotransmitter. 109 00:05:25,523 --> 00:05:27,333 When serotonin is low we can feel 110 00:05:27,333 --> 00:05:30,093 more depressed, unhappy, and crave things like 111 00:05:30,093 --> 00:05:33,633 carbs and alcohol and have trouble sleeping. 112 00:05:34,843 --> 00:05:37,703 Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that’s in charge 113 00:05:37,703 --> 00:05:39,863 of our focus and motivation. 114 00:05:39,863 --> 00:05:42,733 When dopamine’s low it can be hard to stay at a coarse 115 00:05:42,733 --> 00:05:44,723 and stay on track with your goals 116 00:05:44,723 --> 00:05:46,953 and your routines. 117 00:05:46,953 --> 00:05:49,393 So people with low GABA people will often 118 00:05:49,393 --> 00:05:52,313 say that they drink as a way to relax. 119 00:05:52,313 --> 00:05:55,693 That was me. People with low serotonin 120 00:05:55,693 --> 00:05:59,523 will say they drink as a way to have fun, 121 00:05:59,523 --> 00:06:01,523 and people with low dopamine will say they 122 00:06:01,523 --> 00:06:03,073 drink as a way to connect 123 00:06:03,073 --> 00:06:06,683 and engage with others. 124 00:06:06,683 --> 00:06:08,023 But here’s the problem and here is what I 125 00:06:08,023 --> 00:06:09,963 want to you know and take from this talk — 126 00:06:09,963 --> 00:06:12,763 It can be relatively easy for most people 127 00:06:12,763 --> 00:06:14,613 on the gray area drinking spectrum 128 00:06:14,613 --> 00:06:16,933 to stop drinking, 129 00:06:16,933 --> 00:06:19,233 but it can be hard to stay stopped, 130 00:06:19,233 --> 00:06:21,343 especially if we are not 131 00:06:21,343 --> 00:06:23,733 replenishing our neurotransmitters and 132 00:06:23,733 --> 00:06:25,523 nourishing our nervous system 133 00:06:25,523 --> 00:06:30,063 in a comprehensive and consistent way. 134 00:06:30,063 --> 00:06:33,793 So here’s the good news, in turns out that 135 00:06:33,793 --> 00:06:35,353 there is actually specific foods, 136 00:06:35,353 --> 00:06:37,683 movements and lifestyle practices that 137 00:06:37,683 --> 00:06:39,223 while they are great wellness tips for 138 00:06:39,223 --> 00:06:41,883 everyone, they have very direct and 139 00:06:41,883 --> 00:06:45,313 immediate roles in boosting all of our 140 00:06:45,313 --> 00:06:48,313 neurotransmitters. 141 00:06:48,313 --> 00:06:51,043 So as a way to give you some practical 142 00:06:51,043 --> 00:06:52,773 ways that you can begin to boost your 143 00:06:52,773 --> 00:06:57,283 neurotransmitters now I’d like to start by 144 00:06:57,283 --> 00:07:01,653 doing that by using the acronym “NOURISH” 145 00:07:01,653 --> 00:07:04,863 So N - notice nature. 146 00:07:04,863 --> 00:07:07,993 Research shows that when our pleasure, 147 00:07:07,993 --> 00:07:09,513 which is dopamine, 148 00:07:09,513 --> 00:07:12,153 and our happiness, which is serotonin, 149 00:07:12,153 --> 00:07:14,873 both begin to rise when we go into areas 150 00:07:14,873 --> 00:07:17,413 with a large density of trees or a large 151 00:07:17,413 --> 00:07:19,573 body of water like an ocean. 152 00:07:19,573 --> 00:07:21,613 All it takes is 20 minutes 153 00:07:21,613 --> 00:07:23,893 of being around nature with 154 00:07:23,893 --> 00:07:25,903 a lot of trees, a lot of water for your 155 00:07:25,903 --> 00:07:28,273 GABA, serotonin, and dopamine 156 00:07:28,273 --> 00:07:32,156 to begin to rise. 157 00:07:32,156 --> 00:07:34,366 O - observe your breath. 158 00:07:34,366 --> 00:07:36,696 There are many medications that can stunt, 159 00:07:36,696 --> 00:07:38,346 blunt, and block 160 00:07:38,346 --> 00:07:40,286 the fight-flight-freeze response 161 00:07:40,286 --> 00:07:43,006 in your body, there are no medications 162 00:07:43,006 --> 00:07:46,566 that can boost the calm response. 163 00:07:46,566 --> 00:07:48,006 But there is one mechanism in your body 164 00:07:48,006 --> 00:07:50,346 that can do that naturally. 165 00:07:50,346 --> 00:07:52,956 And that mechanism is your breath. 166 00:07:52,956 --> 00:07:55,096 When our breath is regulated our 167 00:07:55,096 --> 00:07:57,956 neurotransmitters become regulated. 168 00:07:57,956 --> 00:08:03,246 Take a breath! 169 00:08:03,246 --> 00:08:05,536 How does that feel? 170 00:08:05,536 --> 00:08:06,626 You all just gave a little boost 171 00:08:06,626 --> 00:08:12,003 to your GABA, serotonin, and dopamine. 172 00:08:12,003 --> 00:08:13,793 U - uniting with others. 173 00:08:13,793 --> 00:08:16,256 The research is solid: close social bonds, 174 00:08:16,256 --> 00:08:18,766 community, and social connections have 175 00:08:18,766 --> 00:08:20,873 a direct impact on our nervous system. 176 00:08:20,873 --> 00:08:22,463 In our technology driven world 177 00:08:22,463 --> 00:08:24,493 we have become very deficient 178 00:08:24,493 --> 00:08:26,733 of human touch. 179 00:08:26,733 --> 00:08:28,776 Hug the people who support you, 180 00:08:28,776 --> 00:08:31,199 hug your pets, get body work, 181 00:08:31,199 --> 00:08:33,279 massage or Reiki, it doesn't matter, 182 00:08:33,279 --> 00:08:35,659 whatever resonates with you. 183 00:08:35,659 --> 00:08:38,269 Physical touch has an immediate impact 184 00:08:38,269 --> 00:08:43,699 on boosting GABA, serotonin and dopamine. 185 00:08:43,699 --> 00:08:45,783 R - replenish with food. 186 00:08:45,783 --> 00:08:47,073 When you eat protein, 187 00:08:47,073 --> 00:08:48,263 whether it’s animal protein or 188 00:08:48,263 --> 00:08:50,653 vegetable protein, it doesn’t matter, 189 00:08:50,653 --> 00:08:53,003 it breaks down into amino acids and amino 190 00:08:53,003 --> 00:08:55,443 acids are what replenish GABA, serotonin, 191 00:08:55,443 --> 00:08:57,183 and dopamine. 192 00:08:57,183 --> 00:08:58,503 When you eat healthy fats, 193 00:08:58,503 --> 00:09:00,293 particularly in the form of Omega 3 fats 194 00:09:00,293 --> 00:09:04,163 like fish oil, flax seeds, or walnuts, 195 00:09:04,163 --> 00:09:06,420 those Omega 3 fats are the raw materials 196 00:09:06,420 --> 00:09:08,690 that make your neurotransmitters. 197 00:09:08,690 --> 00:09:11,070 When you eat carbohydrates, specifically 198 00:09:11,070 --> 00:09:13,510 in the ideal form of vegetables, 199 00:09:13,510 --> 00:09:14,800 and even more specific, 200 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,420 leafy green vegetables, 201 00:09:16,420 --> 00:09:18,140 they break down into B vitamins and 202 00:09:18,140 --> 00:09:20,440 B vitamins are the pre-cursors that make 203 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,180 serotonin. When you replenish with food 204 00:09:23,180 --> 00:09:27,370 you replenish your neurotransmitters. 205 00:09:27,370 --> 00:09:30,157 I - initiate movement. Any exercise will 206 00:09:30,157 --> 00:09:31,977 boost the neurotransmitters. 207 00:09:31,977 --> 00:09:34,187 The Boston University did a study with 208 00:09:34,187 --> 00:09:36,567 yoga participants and they had them do 209 00:09:36,567 --> 00:09:38,887 a 60-minute yoga class. 210 00:09:38,887 --> 00:09:39,877 And then when they measured 211 00:09:39,877 --> 00:09:41,487 they're GABA after that class 212 00:09:41,487 --> 00:09:42,687 they found everyone’s GABA went up 213 00:09:42,687 --> 00:09:45,167 at least on 27%. 214 00:09:45,167 --> 00:09:46,317 Some participants had 215 00:09:46,317 --> 00:09:48,797 arising GABA up to 80%. 216 00:09:48,797 --> 00:09:50,447 Compared to a control group 217 00:09:50,447 --> 00:09:52,297 that read a book for 60 minutes, 218 00:09:52,297 --> 00:09:54,357 there was no change in their GABA. 219 00:09:54,357 --> 00:09:56,787 One 60-minute yoga class 220 00:09:56,787 --> 00:09:58,717 can initiate a boost in all 221 00:09:58,717 --> 00:10:00,967 your neurotransmitters. 222 00:10:00,967 --> 00:10:04,077 But after we active, we need to be still. 223 00:10:04,077 --> 00:10:05,887 S - sitting in stillness allows 224 00:10:05,887 --> 00:10:07,907 the nervous system the opportunity 225 00:10:07,907 --> 00:10:11,457 to respond and adopt in a complex world 226 00:10:11,457 --> 00:10:13,027 that we live and work in 227 00:10:13,027 --> 00:10:14,877 in a very nurusing way. 228 00:10:14,877 --> 00:10:16,127 And particularly sitting in 229 00:10:16,127 --> 00:10:18,497 stillness and silence, invoking a sacred 230 00:10:18,497 --> 00:10:22,377 prayer, meditation, or scripture 231 00:10:22,377 --> 00:10:25,157 can really feed and replenish your GABA, 232 00:10:25,157 --> 00:10:29,698 serotonin, and dopamine. 233 00:10:29,698 --> 00:10:32,700 H - harness your creativity. 234 00:10:32,700 --> 00:10:35,140 Dopamine loves the creative flow. 235 00:10:35,140 --> 00:10:37,785 And the way you get into a creative flow is to pick 236 00:10:37,785 --> 00:10:39,745 a single focused activity 237 00:10:39,745 --> 00:10:41,745 that ends en “ing”. 238 00:10:41,745 --> 00:10:43,825 Some examples are gardening, 239 00:10:43,825 --> 00:10:45,815 fishing, painting. 240 00:10:45,815 --> 00:10:47,435 But be careful because there are some 241 00:10:47,435 --> 00:10:49,435 other activities that end en “ing” 242 00:10:49,435 --> 00:10:50,695 that make us feel like we get 243 00:10:50,695 --> 00:10:54,636 a dopamine hit: drinking, smoking, 244 00:10:54,636 --> 00:10:56,766 overeating. 245 00:10:56,766 --> 00:11:00,266 Fishing, painting, the positive hobbies 246 00:11:00,266 --> 00:11:02,026 boost your dopamine. 247 00:11:02,026 --> 00:11:05,526 The other: drinking, smoking, overeating 248 00:11:05,526 --> 00:11:07,416 depletes dopamine. Harnish your 249 00:11:07,416 --> 00:11:09,696 creativity, but be very conscientious 250 00:11:09,696 --> 00:11:14,016 how you doing that. 251 00:11:14,016 --> 00:11:18,066 As of today, It has been 1054 days 252 00:11:18,066 --> 00:11:27,294 since I’ve had a drink of alcohol. 253 00:11:27,294 --> 00:11:29,214 But I didn’t have a rock bottom moment 254 00:11:29,214 --> 00:11:32,154 that brought me to this point 255 00:11:32,154 --> 00:11:36,314 and you don’t need to have one either. 256 00:11:36,314 --> 00:11:38,394 From the outside looking in my drinking 257 00:11:38,394 --> 00:11:40,864 didn’t look problematic, 258 00:11:40,864 --> 00:11:42,074 but from the inside looking out 259 00:11:42,074 --> 00:11:43,857 at the road I was traveling down 260 00:11:43,857 --> 00:11:45,112 I knew the way I was drinking 261 00:11:45,112 --> 00:11:46,792 was a problem for me. 262 00:11:46,792 --> 00:11:48,089 And I’m not the only one 263 00:11:48,089 --> 00:11:49,856 making this decision. 264 00:11:49,856 --> 00:11:52,496 There are thousands of people in this country, 265 00:11:52,496 --> 00:11:55,026 in the U.K., in Australia, and Canada 266 00:11:55,026 --> 00:11:57,316 who are rethinking their drinking 267 00:11:57,316 --> 00:11:58,346 and stopping drinking because 268 00:11:58,346 --> 00:12:01,456 they choose to, not because they have to. 269 00:12:01,456 --> 00:12:03,466 A whole paradigm is shifting 270 00:12:03,466 --> 00:12:06,156 and we up on a whole new wellness movement 271 00:12:06,156 --> 00:12:10,275 starting to go alcohol free. 272 00:12:10,275 --> 00:12:12,125 But I’ll be honest there were two things 273 00:12:12,125 --> 00:12:14,685 I worried about when I stopped drinking. 274 00:12:14,685 --> 00:12:16,355 And the first was: what would happen with 275 00:12:16,355 --> 00:12:20,236 my relationships? This one surprised me. 276 00:12:20,236 --> 00:12:22,146 The important relationships in my life, 277 00:12:22,146 --> 00:12:24,446 family stuck by me, but they deepened. 278 00:12:24,446 --> 00:12:26,746 And I look back at all the new wonderful 279 00:12:26,746 --> 00:12:28,846 people who who had entered my life in 280 00:12:28,846 --> 00:12:30,796 the last 3 years, some of them drink, 281 00:12:30,796 --> 00:12:33,296 some of them don’t, but our relationship 282 00:12:33,296 --> 00:12:37,296 is not built on my personal decision to 283 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not drink. We’ve been able to connect and 284 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 relate and we’re aligned in a way that is 285 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 new for me. And it’s been really really 286 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nourishing to add these relationships 287 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to my life. 288 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The second thing I worried about was what 289 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if something awful happened and it would 290 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be so painful that I’ll want to numb it 291 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with a glass or a bottle of wine? That 292 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 worry came true. Eighteen months into not 293 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 drinking I hit my worse personal financial 294 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 crisis in my life. If there was ever 295 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a time when I wanted to numb 296 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the experience and anesthetize the intense 297 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 anxiety and fear that I felt that was 298 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the time. But I didn’t do it. And I 299 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 believe the reason I got through that time 300 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 without drinking wasn’t because I had 301 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 an intellectual understanding of 302 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the nervous system, which I do, but 303 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 intellectualizing something is what gets 304 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 me through something. And it wasn’t 305 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because I had a strong will power, which 306 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don’t, my will power fatigue is as much 307 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as the next person. But what I had was 308 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a very targeted and specific nourishment 309 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that I had given my nervous system 310 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 leading up to that point in a very new and 311 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 different way. And that had given me 312 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a zone of resilience and internal zone 313 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of resilience that I’ve never had before. 314 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So whatever road you’re on and wherever 315 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you are on that road with your own 316 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 internal conversation, whether you’re 317 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a healthcare professional like myself, 318 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a business professional in any industry, 319 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a stay at home parent or anyone else, if 320 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you know in your bones that you’re in 321 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the gray area with drinking or anything 322 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 else as an attempt to regulate the anxiety 323 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in your body or the discomfort in your 324 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 life, don’t forget: your GABA, 325 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your serotonin, and your dopamine are 326 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 waiting for you to activate them with 327 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 certain foods, movements and lifestyle 328 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 practices, and when you do that you’re 329 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 giving your nervous system the 330 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nourishment it’s been craving all along. 331 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Thank you!