1 00:00:06,406 --> 00:00:07,486 Hashtag goals. 2 00:00:09,510 --> 00:00:11,020 What was the first thing that came to 3 00:00:11,020 --> 00:00:12,513 mind when you heard me say this? 4 00:00:13,091 --> 00:00:14,391 Was it Kylie Jenner's lips? 5 00:00:14,684 --> 00:00:15,847 Eyebrows on fleek? 6 00:00:15,847 --> 00:00:16,867 Or did you just ask yourself 7 00:00:16,867 --> 00:00:17,703 Why'd she just say 8 00:00:17,703 --> 00:00:18,529 hashtag goals then pause? 9 00:00:18,529 --> 00:00:19,217 Who gave her the mike? 10 00:00:19,217 --> 00:00:19,807 What is she doing? 11 00:00:20,227 --> 00:00:22,356 But did you ever stop and think 12 00:00:22,356 --> 00:00:24,129 what really are my goals? 13 00:00:24,129 --> 00:00:25,699 and how can I achieve them? 14 00:00:25,926 --> 00:00:26,976 Well for many of us 15 00:00:26,976 --> 00:00:28,226 graduating 16 00:00:28,226 --> 00:00:29,436 maybe just passing english [indiscernible] 17 00:00:29,436 --> 00:00:31,216 at this point 18 00:00:31,976 --> 00:00:32,886 going to university 19 00:00:32,886 --> 00:00:33,951 getting that dream job 20 00:00:33,951 --> 00:00:34,853 may have been the first thing 21 00:00:34,853 --> 00:00:35,685 that came to mind 22 00:00:35,685 --> 00:00:36,758 when you heard me say 23 00:00:36,758 --> 00:00:37,558 hashtag goals. 24 00:00:38,229 --> 00:00:40,527 But how often do you consider the barriers 25 00:00:40,527 --> 00:00:42,017 that make achieving these goals 26 00:00:42,017 --> 00:00:43,521 way more difficult 27 00:00:43,521 --> 00:00:45,643 and the fact that some of these barriers 28 00:00:45,656 --> 00:00:47,256 only apply to you 29 00:00:47,256 --> 00:00:48,726 because of your gender. 30 00:00:49,958 --> 00:00:51,253 Well, there's a term called 31 00:00:51,253 --> 00:00:52,571 the Glass Ceiling or the Glass wall 32 00:00:52,571 --> 00:00:54,002 or the Glass Barrier, whatever you 33 00:00:54,002 --> 00:00:54,802 want to call it 34 00:00:54,915 --> 00:00:56,381 it's a term used to describe 35 00:00:56,381 --> 00:00:59,211 that unseen barrier that prevents you from 36 00:00:59,217 --> 00:01:01,174 achieving your goals just because of your 37 00:01:01,174 --> 00:01:03,344 gender regardless of any qualifications 38 00:01:03,344 --> 00:01:05,209 or achievements you may have. 39 00:01:05,796 --> 00:01:06,728 So whether that's trying to get a certain 40 00:01:06,728 --> 00:01:08,438 position at work 41 00:01:08,438 --> 00:01:10,135 or the wage gap between men and women 42 00:01:10,135 --> 00:01:11,475 for equal work or even just 43 00:01:11,483 --> 00:01:13,491 gender stereotyping people on their 44 00:01:13,491 --> 00:01:14,341 work roles and abilities. 45 00:01:15,534 --> 00:01:16,665 But I can tell you first-hand 46 00:01:16,665 --> 00:01:17,665 how discouraging 47 00:01:17,665 --> 00:01:20,865 facing a wall like this can be to 48 00:01:21,167 --> 00:01:23,097 girls trying to achieve their goals. 49 00:01:23,736 --> 00:01:25,056 I'd like to compare this 50 00:01:25,056 --> 00:01:26,730 to walking up a flight of stairs 51 00:01:26,740 --> 00:01:28,404 and at every level you're blocked 52 00:01:28,404 --> 00:01:30,114 by a transparent wall. 53 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:31,625 You can see beyond this wall 54 00:01:31,625 --> 00:01:33,026 because your goal is set 55 00:01:33,026 --> 00:01:34,796 to get to the very top of the stairs 56 00:01:34,799 --> 00:01:36,379 but you just can't get past it. 57 00:01:36,990 --> 00:01:38,410 Well how do you do that? 58 00:01:38,410 --> 00:01:40,224 Well let me share a situation that 59 00:01:40,224 --> 00:01:41,484 actually happened to me. 60 00:01:42,108 --> 00:01:43,248 A wall I once faced 61 00:01:43,282 --> 00:01:44,958 was being discriminated against 62 00:01:44,958 --> 00:01:46,728 because of my gender. 63 00:01:47,318 --> 00:01:49,438 So last year my school academy and I 64 00:01:49,452 --> 00:01:50,689 said we'd do a bunch of projects 65 00:01:50,689 --> 00:01:51,927 around Edmonton 66 00:01:51,927 --> 00:01:52,896 we'd go and present 67 00:01:52,896 --> 00:01:54,325 at different establishments 68 00:01:54,325 --> 00:01:55,525 to young female students 69 00:01:55,530 --> 00:01:57,410 how girls and boys are portrayed 70 00:01:57,410 --> 00:01:58,290 in media 71 00:01:58,290 --> 00:02:00,148 how damaging this image can be. 72 00:02:00,148 --> 00:02:02,378 So we'd go out in our academy uniform 73 00:02:02,378 --> 00:02:04,258 and we'd do these presentations 74 00:02:04,258 --> 00:02:05,678 but between one of the presentations 75 00:02:05,678 --> 00:02:07,148 three of my classmates and me 76 00:02:07,166 --> 00:02:09,226 were pulled to the side and asked to leave 77 00:02:09,226 --> 00:02:11,586 the establishment we were presenting at 78 00:02:11,586 --> 00:02:14,403 because our uniform academy skirts 79 00:02:14,467 --> 00:02:16,797 didn't respect their dress code. 80 00:02:16,808 --> 00:02:18,163 Mind you, they respected our 81 00:02:18,163 --> 00:02:20,263 dress code which was past the fingertips. 82 00:02:21,266 --> 00:02:23,342 I was blocked from achieving my 83 00:02:23,342 --> 00:02:24,002 goal that day. 84 00:02:25,185 --> 00:02:26,555 This was the first instance where I really 85 00:02:26,555 --> 00:02:27,942 saw how young girls can be 86 00:02:27,942 --> 00:02:30,052 prevented from achieving their goals 87 00:02:30,063 --> 00:02:31,913 just because of their gender. 88 00:02:32,726 --> 00:02:34,747 Instead of teaching young girls about 89 00:02:34,747 --> 00:02:36,777 being discriminated against because of 90 00:02:36,784 --> 00:02:37,554 their gender 91 00:02:37,554 --> 00:02:39,504 which is what I was doing with my academy 92 00:02:39,565 --> 00:02:41,995 I was actually experiencing it. 93 00:02:42,608 --> 00:02:44,085 I was made to feel guilty 94 00:02:44,085 --> 00:02:45,191 for doing something 95 00:02:45,191 --> 00:02:46,807 or in this case wearing something 96 00:02:46,807 --> 00:02:48,734 that was completely appropriate. 97 00:02:49,596 --> 00:02:51,492 My Glass Wall was in front of me 98 00:02:51,522 --> 00:02:53,122 and I felt pretty terrible. 99 00:02:53,982 --> 00:02:56,402 I felt afraid to wear my uniform again 100 00:02:56,403 --> 00:02:57,889 even if it was something 101 00:02:57,889 --> 00:02:59,161 that I was proud to wear 102 00:02:59,161 --> 00:02:59,873 because to me 103 00:02:59,881 --> 00:03:01,203 my uniform symbolises 104 00:03:01,203 --> 00:03:02,506 being a part of change 105 00:03:02,524 --> 00:03:03,524 and having a voice 106 00:03:03,524 --> 00:03:04,939 and feeling empowered 107 00:03:04,939 --> 00:03:05,569 yet 108 00:03:05,569 --> 00:03:07,163 I felt none of those things. 109 00:03:07,953 --> 00:03:09,010 But how did I get back to feeling all 110 00:03:09,010 --> 00:03:10,210 those things again? 111 00:03:10,716 --> 00:03:12,026 Well I was fortunate enough 112 00:03:12,026 --> 00:03:13,966 to have my friends and teachers 113 00:03:13,966 --> 00:03:15,898 that were there on the spot and after 114 00:03:15,898 --> 00:03:17,577 when that happened 115 00:03:17,577 --> 00:03:18,501 to help support me 116 00:03:18,501 --> 00:03:21,011 and acknowledge that it wasn't my fault 117 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:22,048 and that I was ok 118 00:03:22,048 --> 00:03:26,568 and this all really made sense to me 119 00:03:26,568 --> 00:03:28,361 because my Glass Wall was shattered 120 00:03:28,361 --> 00:03:30,830 with the help of other people 121 00:03:30,830 --> 00:03:33,180 because a Glass Ceiling 122 00:03:33,199 --> 00:03:36,115 is something that needs teamwork 123 00:03:36,115 --> 00:03:37,537 but as cliché as it sounds 124 00:03:37,537 --> 00:03:39,256 the glory in life is that 125 00:03:39,256 --> 00:03:41,193 you learn from your past experiences 126 00:03:41,193 --> 00:03:42,813 and you have no regrets 127 00:03:42,813 --> 00:03:44,826 but when you see that Glass Ceiling 128 00:03:44,826 --> 00:03:45,771 that Glass Wall 129 00:03:45,771 --> 00:03:47,109 that barrier in front of you 130 00:03:47,109 --> 00:03:48,854 and you wonder how on earth 131 00:03:48,854 --> 00:03:50,714 you're gonna break through it 132 00:03:50,756 --> 00:03:52,415 take a look at the broken pieces of glass 133 00:03:52,415 --> 00:03:54,766 on the ground around you and behind you 134 00:03:54,786 --> 00:03:56,749 and let those broken pieces of glass 135 00:03:56,749 --> 00:03:58,071 give you the strength 136 00:03:58,071 --> 00:03:59,449 to break through that barrier 137 00:03:59,449 --> 00:04:00,472 in front of you 138 00:04:00,472 --> 00:04:01,584 because you've realised 139 00:04:01,584 --> 00:04:03,146 you've already done it before 140 00:04:03,146 --> 00:04:04,736 and you can do it again 141 00:04:04,743 --> 00:04:06,926 and the good thing about these kinds of 142 00:04:06,926 --> 00:04:09,196 barriers is that they become easier to break 143 00:04:09,210 --> 00:04:11,292 when you realise there are other people 144 00:04:11,292 --> 00:04:12,822 trying to break it with you. 145 00:04:12,972 --> 00:04:15,232 When we realise we're all trying to break 146 00:04:15,499 --> 00:04:17,479 the exact same glass 147 00:04:17,549 --> 00:04:19,107 and this is why we need to start 148 00:04:19,107 --> 00:04:20,457 working together now. 149 00:04:20,557 --> 00:04:22,617 Because by working together now 150 00:04:22,665 --> 00:04:24,242 we make this process easier 151 00:04:24,242 --> 00:04:25,802 for generations to come 152 00:04:25,802 --> 00:04:26,836 just like generations 153 00:04:26,836 --> 00:04:28,236 that have passed before us 154 00:04:28,246 --> 00:04:29,216 like our mothers 155 00:04:29,222 --> 00:04:31,722 even inspiring women like Malala 156 00:04:31,731 --> 00:04:33,975 who fought for change just so that girls 157 00:04:33,975 --> 00:04:36,325 can have an education. 158 00:04:36,345 --> 00:04:39,579 These women fought together to make the 159 00:04:39,579 --> 00:04:41,479 struggle easier for us 160 00:04:41,479 --> 00:04:43,290 by fighting for our right to vote 161 00:04:43,310 --> 00:04:44,310 by taking most of the hits 162 00:04:44,310 --> 00:04:46,125 and punches in the workplace 163 00:04:46,135 --> 00:04:47,645 just so we can experience 164 00:04:47,654 --> 00:04:48,694 less discrimination. 165 00:04:49,679 --> 00:04:51,884 They have shown us that we need to instill 166 00:04:51,884 --> 00:04:54,854 leadership among young girls now 167 00:04:54,863 --> 00:04:56,404 because when we give them these 168 00:04:56,404 --> 00:04:57,840 amazing leadership skills 169 00:04:57,840 --> 00:05:00,210 and we teach them to work together 170 00:05:00,224 --> 00:05:01,786 and to be aware of gender issues 171 00:05:01,786 --> 00:05:02,746 both male and female 172 00:05:02,756 --> 00:05:05,446 and to instill self-worth 173 00:05:05,453 --> 00:05:07,710 we give them the ability to break through 174 00:05:07,710 --> 00:05:09,052 any Glass Ceiling 175 00:05:09,052 --> 00:05:10,512 any barrier they face 176 00:05:11,402 --> 00:05:13,283 and this will allow them 177 00:05:13,283 --> 00:05:14,813 and give them the ability 178 00:05:14,813 --> 00:05:16,403 to achieve their goals. 179 00:05:16,603 --> 00:05:18,073 So I'm going to leave you 180 00:05:18,093 --> 00:05:19,223 with one question 181 00:05:19,866 --> 00:05:22,066 What does hashtag goals mean to you? 182 00:05:22,085 --> 00:05:22,955 Thank you.