9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 When I was a child,[br]I knew I had superpowers. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's right. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I thought I was absolutely amazing[br]because I could understand 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and relate to the feelings[br]of brown people, like my grandfather, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a conservative Muslim guy. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And also, I could understand[br]my Afghan mother, my Pakistani father, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 not so religious but[br]laid-back, fairly liberal. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And of course, I could understand[br]and relate to the feelings of white people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The white Norwegians of my country.[br]You know, white, brown, whatever, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I loved them all. I understood them all, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even if they didn't always[br]understand each other, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they were all my people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My father, though,[br]was always really worried. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 He kept saying that[br]even with the best education, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was not going to get a fair shake. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I would still face discrimination,[br]according to him, and that they only way 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to be accepted by white people[br]would be to become famous. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Now mind you, he had this conversation[br]with me when I was seven-years-old. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So while I'm seven-years-old,[br]he said, look, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so its either got to be sports,[br]or its got to be music. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 He didn't know anything about sports --[br]bless him -- so it was music. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So when I was seven-years-old,[br]he gathered all my toys, all my dolls, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and he threw them all away. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In exchange, he gave me a crappy little[br]Casio keyboard and singing lessons. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 He forced me, basically, to practice[br]for hours and hours every single day. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Very quickly, he also had me performing[br]for larger and larger audiences, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and bizarrely, I became almost[br]a kind of poster child 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 for Norwegian multi-culturalism. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I felt very proud, of course. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Even the newspapers were starting[br]to write nice things about brown people, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so I could feel that[br]my superpower was growing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So when I was 12-years-old,[br]walking home from school, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I took a little detour[br]because I wanted to buy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 my favorite sweets called Salty Feets. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I know they sound kind of awful,[br]but I absolutely love them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They're basically these little salty[br]licorice bits in the shape of feet. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And now that I say it out loud,[br]I realize how terrible that sounds, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but be that as it may,[br]I absolutely love them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So on my way into the store,[br]there was this grown white guy 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in the doorway blocking my way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I tried to walk around him,[br]and as I did that, he stopped me 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and he was staring at me,[br]and he spit in my face, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and he said, get out of my way[br]you little black bitch, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you little Paki bitch,[br]go back home where you came from. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was absolutely horrified.[br]I was staring at him. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was too afraid to wipe[br]the spit off my face, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even as it was mixing with my tears. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I remember looking around,[br]hoping that any minute now, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a grown-up is going to come [br]and make this guy stop. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But instead, people kept hurrying past me[br]and pretended not to see me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was very confused[br]because I was thinking, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 well, my white people, come on![br]Where are they? What's going on? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How come they're not[br]coming and rescuing me? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, needless to say,[br]I didn't buy the sweets. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I just ran home as fast as I could. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Things were still okay, though, I thought. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 As time went on, the more successful[br]I became, I eventually started attracting 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 harassment from brown people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Some men in my parent's community[br]felt that it was unacceptable 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and dishonorable for a woman[br]to be involved in music 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and to be so present in the media. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So very quickly, I was starting to become[br]attacked at my own concerts. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I remember one of the concerts,[br]I was onstage, I lean into the audience 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and the last thing I see is[br]a young brown face 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and the next thing I know[br]some sort of chemical is thrown in my eyes 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and I remember I couldn't really see[br]and my eyes were watering 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but I kept singing anyway. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was spit in the face in the streets[br]of Oslo, this time by brown men. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They even tried to[br]kidnap me at one point. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The death threats were endless. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I remember one older bearded guy[br]stopped me in the street one time, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and he said, the reason[br]I hate you so much 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is because you make[br]our daughters think 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they can do whatever they want. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A younger guy warned me[br]to watch my back. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 He said music is un-Islamic[br]and the job of whores, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and if you keep this up,[br]you are going to be raped 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and your stomach will be cut out so that[br]another whore like you will not be born. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Again, I was so confused. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I couldn't understand[br]what was going on. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My brown people now starting[br]to treat me like this -- how come? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Instead of bridging the worlds, [br]the two worlds, I felt like I was 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 falling between my two worlds.[br]I suppose for me, spit was kryptonite. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So by the time I was 17-years-old,[br]the death threats were endless 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and the harassment was constant.[br]It got so bad, at one point my mother 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 sat me down and said, look,[br]we can no longer protect you, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we can no longer keep you safe,[br]so you're going to have to go. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I bought a one-way ticket to London.[br]I packed my suitcase, and I left. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My biggest heartbreak at that point[br]was that nobody said anything. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I had a very public exit from Norway. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My brown people, my white people,[br]nobody said anything. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Nobody said, hold on, this is wrong. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Support this girl, protect this girl[br]because she is one of us. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Nope. Nobody said that. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Instead, I felt like,[br]you know at the airport, on the baggage 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 carousel you have these different[br]suitcases going around and around 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and there's always that one suitcase left[br]at the end, the one that nobody wants, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the one that nobody comes to claim. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I felt like that. I'd never felt so alone.[br]I'd never felt so lost. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, after coming to London,[br]I did eventually resume my music career. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Different place but unfortunately[br]the same old story. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I remember a message sent to me[br]saying that I was going to be killed 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and that rivers of blood were going[br]to flow and that I was going to be raped 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 many times before I died. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 By this point, I have to say, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was actually getting used[br]to messages like this, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but what became different was that[br]now they started threatening my family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So once again, I packed my suitcase,[br]I left music and I moved to the US. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'd had enough. I didn't want to have[br]anything to do with this anymore. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And I was certainly not[br]going to be killed for something 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that wasn't even my dream --[br]it was my father's choice. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I kind of got lost.[br]I kind of fell apart. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I decided that what I wanted to do[br]is spend the next however many years 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of my life supporting young people[br]and to try to be there in some small way, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 whatever way that I could. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I started volunteering for various[br]organizations that were working 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with young Muslims inside of Europe.[br] 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And, to my surprise, what I found[br]was so many of these young people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 were suffering and struggling. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They were facing so many problems[br]with their families and their communities 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who seemed to care more about[br]their honor and their reputation than the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 happiness and the lives of their own kids. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I started feeling like maybe I wasn't[br]so alone, maybe I wasn't so weird. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe there are more of[br]my people out there. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The thing is, what most people[br]don't understand is that there are so many 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of us growing up in Europe who[br]are not free to be ourselves. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We're not allowed to be who we are. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We are not free to marry or to be in[br]relationships with people that we choose. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We can't even pick our own career. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This is the norm in the[br]Muslim heartlands of Europe, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even in the freest societies in the world,[br]we're not free. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Our lives, our dreams, our future[br]does not belong to us, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it belongs to our parents[br]and their community. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I found endless stories of young people[br]who are lost to all of us, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who are invisible to all of us but[br]who are suffering 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and they are suffering alone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Kids we are losing to forced marriages,[br]honor-based violence and abuse. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, eventually, I realized,[br]after several years of working 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 with these young people that[br]I will not be able to keep running. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I can't spend the rest of my life[br]being scared and hiding and 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that I'm actually going[br]to have to do something. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And I also realized that my silence,[br]our silence, allows abuse 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like this to continue. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I decided that I wanted to put[br]my childhood superpower to some use 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 by trying to make people on the different[br]sides of these issues understand 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 what its like to be a young person stuck[br]between your family and your country. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I started making films[br]and I started telling stories. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also wanted people to understand[br]the deadly consequences of us 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 not taking these problems seriously. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So the first film I made was about Benaz. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She was a 17-year-old[br]Kurdish girl in London. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She was obedient, she did[br]whatever her parents wanted. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She tried to do everything right. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She married some guy that[br]her parents chose for her, even though 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 he beat and raped her constantly. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And when she tried to go[br]to her family for help, they said, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 well you got to go back,[br]and be a better wife. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because they didn't want[br]a divorced daughter on their hands 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because, of course, that would bring[br]dishonor on the family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She was beaten so badly[br]her ears would bleed, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and when she finally left and she found[br]a young man that she chose 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and she fell in love with,[br]the community and the family found out 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and she disappeared. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She was found three months later. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She'd been stuffed into a suitcase[br]and buried underneath the house. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She had been strangled,[br]she had been beaten to death by three men, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 three cousins on the orders[br]of her father and uncle. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The added tragedy of Benaz's story[br]is that she had gone to the police 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in England five times, asking for help,[br]telling them that she was 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 going to be killed by her family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The police didn't believe her[br]so they didn't do anything. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And the problem with this is that[br]not only are so many of our kids 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 facing this problem within their families[br]and within their families' communities, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but they're also meeting misunderstandings[br]and apathy in the countries 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 that they grow up in. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 When their own families betray them,[br]they look to the rest of us, and when 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we don't understand, we lose them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So while I was making this film,[br]several people said to me, well Deeyah, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you know, this is just their culture,[br]this is just what those people do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to their kids and[br]we can't really interfere. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I can assure you being murdered[br]is not my culture -- you know? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And surely people who look like me,[br]young women who come 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 from backgrounds like me,[br]should be subject to the same rights, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the same protections as anybody else[br]in our country, why not? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, for my next film, I wanted to try[br]and understand why some of our 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 young Muslim kids in Europe are drawn[br]to extremism and violence. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But with that topic,[br]I also recognized that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was going to have to face my worst fear:[br]the brown men with beards. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The same men, or similar men, to the ones[br]that have hounded me for most of my life. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Men that I've been afraid of[br]most of my life. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Men that I've also deeply disliked,[br]for many, many years. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I spent the next two years[br]interviewing convicted terrorists, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 jihadis and former extremists. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 What I already knew,[br]what was very obvious already, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 was that religion, politics,[br]Europe's colonial baggage, also 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Western foreign policy failures[br]failures of recent years, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 were all a part of the picture. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But what I was more interested[br]in finding out was what are the human, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 what are the personal[br]reasons why some of our 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 young people are susceptible[br]to groups like this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And what really surprised me[br]was that I found wounded human beings. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Instead of the monsters that I was[br]looking for, that I was hoping to find, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 quite frankly because it would have been[br]very satisfying, I found broken people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Just like Benaz, I found that these[br]young men were torn apart from trying 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to bridge the gaps between their families[br]and the countries that they were born in. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And what I also learned is that[br]extremist groups, terrorist groups 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 are taking advantage of these[br]feelings of our young people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and channeling that cynically,[br]channeling that toward violence. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Come to us, they say. "Reject both sides,[br]your family and your country 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because they reject you.. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 For your family, their honor is more[br]important than you and for your country, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a real Norwegian, Brit, or a French person[br]will always be white and never you." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They're also promising our young people[br]things that they crave: significance, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 heroism, a sense of belonging and purpose,[br]a community that loves and accepts them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They make the powerless feel powerful. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The invisible and the silent[br]are finally seen and heard. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This is what they're doing[br]for our young people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why are these groups doing this[br]for our young people and not us? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The thing is, I'm not trying to justify[br]or excuse any of the violence. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 What I am trying to say is that[br]we have to understand 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 why some of our young people[br]are attracted to this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I would like to also show you, actually,[br]these are childhood photos 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 of some of the guys in the film. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 What really struck me is that[br]so many of them -- I never would have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 thought this -- but so many of them[br]have absent or abusive fathers. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And several of these young guys ended up[br]finding caring and compassionate father 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 figures within these extremist groups. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also found men brutalized[br]by racist violence, but who found a way 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to stop feeling like victims[br]by becoming violent themselves. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In fact, I found something,[br]to my horror, that I recognized. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I found the same feelings that I felt[br]as a 17-year-old as I fled from Norway. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The same confusion, the same sorrow,[br]the same feeling of being betrayed 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and not belonging to anyone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The same feeling of being lost[br]and torn between cultures.[br] 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Having said that,[br]I did not choose destruction, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I chose to pick up a camera[br]instead of a gun and the reason I did that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is because of my superpower. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I could see that understanding[br]is the answer, instead of violence.. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Seeing human beings with all their virtues[br]and all their flaws, instead of continuing the 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 caricatures: the us and them,[br]the villains and victims. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'd also finally come to terms with the fact[br]that my two cultures didn't have 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to be on a collision course but instead[br]became a space where I found my own voice. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I stopped feeling like I had to pick[br]a side, but this took me many, many years. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There are so many of our young people[br]today who are struggling with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 these same issues and[br]they're struggling with this alone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And this leaves them open[br]like wounds, and for some, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the worldview of radical Islam becomes[br]the infection that festers 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 in these open wounds. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There's an African proverb that says,[br]if the young are not initiated 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 into the village, they will burn it down[br]just to feel its warmth. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I would like to ask Muslim[br]parents and Muslim communities, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 will you love and care for your children[br]without forcing them 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to meet your expectations? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can you choose them instead of your honor? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can you understand why they're so angry[br]and alienated when you put your honor 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 before their happiness? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can you try to be a friend to your child[br]so that they can trust you 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and want to share with you[br]their experiences, rather than having 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to seek it somewhere else? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And to our young people, tempted[br]by extremism, can you acknowledge that 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your rage is fueled by pain? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Will you find the strength to resist those[br]cynical old men who want to use 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 your blood for their own profits? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can you find a way to live? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can you see that the sweetest revenge 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is for you to live a happy,[br]full and free life? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A life defined by you and nobody else. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Why do you want to become[br]just another dead Muslim kid? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And for the rest of us, when will we start[br]listening to our young people? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How can we support them[br]in re-directing their pain 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 into something more constructive? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They think we don't like them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They think we don't care[br]what happens to them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They think we don't accept them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can we find a way to make[br]them feel differently? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 What will it take for us to see them[br]and notice them before they become 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 either the victims or[br]the perpetrators of violence? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can we make ourselves care about them[br]and consider them to be our own? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And not just be outraged when the victims[br]of violence look like ourselves? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Can we find a way to reject hatred[br]and heal the divisions between us? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The thing is, we cannot afford to give up[br]on each other or on our kids, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even if they've given up on us. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We are all in this together. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And in the long term, revenge and violence[br]will not work against extremists. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Terrorists want us to huddle in our houses[br]in fear, closing our doors and our hearts. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They want us to tear open more wounds[br]in our societies so that they can use them 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to spread their infection more widely. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They want us to become like them:[br]intolerant, hateful and cruel. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The day after the Paris attacks, a friend[br]of mine sent this photo of her daughter. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This is a white girl and an Arab girl. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They're best friends. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This image is kryptonite for extremists. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 These two little girls with[br]their superpowers are showing 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the way forward towards a society[br]that we need to build together, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 a society that includes and supports,[br]rather than rejects our kids. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Thank you for listening.