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Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.63,0:00:20.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Raise your hand if you lie.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.40,0:00:22.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.100,0:00:24.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, right now, if your hand is down,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.90,0:00:26.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're probably a bigger liar
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.47,0:00:29.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than the person nearest to you\Nwith their hand up.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.06,0:00:30.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.20,0:00:33.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's OK, we all lie. Don't worry.\NI lie all the time. Ask my mom.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.86,0:00:35.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.75,0:00:40.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the problem is that little things \Nturn into big things,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.33,0:00:43.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because how we do anything\Nis how we do everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.97,0:00:47.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you lie now, it's going make \Nlying later way easier,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.14,0:00:51.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if you tell the truth now,\Nthe truth comes way easier later.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.17,0:00:55.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's difficult because today\Nwe're flooded with definitions
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.18,0:00:58.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like honesty and hypocrisy and humility,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.26,0:01:00.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and maybe we don't even know\Nwhat they actually mean,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.78,0:01:04.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because if you google them,\Non the surface, the definitions are easy,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.11,0:01:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when you put them into practice,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.26,0:01:07.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they don't work.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.06,0:01:10.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humility is unique,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.37,0:01:14.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because when you have humility,\Npeople don't notice.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.38,0:01:16.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the most important\Nthing about humility.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.57,0:01:19.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is nobody notices but you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.34,0:01:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.84,0:01:23.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nine times out of ten,\Nif you ask someone if they have humility,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.99,0:01:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the answer will be yes
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.09,0:01:27.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,simply because they think\Nthey're being honest.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.31,0:01:30.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's not honesty, it's not meekness,\Nit's not belittling yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.02,0:01:33.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humility is not thinking less of yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.68,0:01:36.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humility is thinking of yourself less.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.66,0:01:38.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.72,0:01:40.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.63,0:01:44.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's funny, someone was asking me and I\Nwas trying to tell them about humility.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.34,0:01:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the most important thing is\Nwhen you work in your groups,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.20,0:01:49.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your teams, your leadership,\Nwherever you are,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.39,0:01:51.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your ministry of your church,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.38,0:01:52.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nobody notices.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.62,0:01:55.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it doesn't work\Nunless you have integrity.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.25,0:01:59.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Integrity is when you align \Nyour actions with your beliefs.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.01,0:02:04.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Latin adjective "integer"\Nmeans "whole" or "one."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.05,0:02:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think of it like that. That's where\Nthe word "integrity" comes from.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.26,0:02:08.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think of it as a pizza,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.46,0:02:11.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so if you cut the pizza,\Nyou separate the pieces out,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.40,0:02:14.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it leaves a missing part\Nin the center.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.55,0:02:17.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you don't have a center,\Nyou don't have a point of reference,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.71,0:02:19.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you lose your integrity,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.18,0:02:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it leaves you asking a question
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.88,0:02:23.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, "Why do I feel this way?\NWhat am I missing?"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.24,0:02:27.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And oftentimes, we try to use beauty,\Nfame, money, success and popularity
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.98,0:02:29.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to bring the pieces back together,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.94,0:02:31.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it just doesn't work.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.74,0:02:36.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It leaves you confused and wondering,\Nyou know, ''Why do I not feel important?''
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.34,0:02:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the thing about integrity\Nis that it leads to hypocrisy.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.29,0:02:42.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you don't align your actions\Nwith your beliefs,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.85,0:02:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you kind of become a hypocrite.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.96,0:02:48.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, acting has always been\Na passion of mine.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.15,0:02:50.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I like the theater, the lights, the sound.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.57,0:02:52.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in high school,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.06,0:02:55.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was studying for a vocab test\Nand the word was "hypocrite,"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.42,0:02:59.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the Greek root suggests\Nsomething along the lines
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.46,0:03:03.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of an image of a person who wears a mask
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.71,0:03:06.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and pretends to be someone\Nhe or she is not
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.37,0:03:08.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a theatrical production.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.90,0:03:11.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when I think about that,\NI think we all have masks,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.52,0:03:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and maybe we don't\Neven know what they are,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.58,0:03:17.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like our social media or our internet\Nor the things we post.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.26,0:03:20.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the theatrical production\Nis just our lives.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.61,0:03:23.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you post things \Nabout what your life is like,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.09,0:03:27.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or do you post things about what you want\Npeople to think that your life is like?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.32,0:03:29.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do your tweets start with "I,"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.22,0:03:31.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or do your tweets start\Nwith "We did this?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.92,0:03:33.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's all something to consider.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.64,0:03:36.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like the movies, you know,\NIron Man, Batman.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.04,0:03:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They all start out with a mask\Nin the beginning of the movie,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.92,0:03:40.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but by the end of the movie,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.96,0:03:42.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we figure out who they are.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.49,0:03:45.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, the person is revealed
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.03,0:03:48.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's because they're missing\Nthe humility side of the equation.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.34,0:03:51.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, I think \Nfor humility and integrity,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.49,0:03:55.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one thing I like to do at this -\NI mean, I feel like I'm 12 up here -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.54,0:03:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one thing I like to do is look up.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.46,0:03:59.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I look up to people,\NI find mentors in people.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.64,0:04:03.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can study off of teachers and people\Nwho have built legacies.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.91,0:04:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the things I do is -\Na person I looked up to is named Ellie.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.48,0:04:08.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when I think about Ellie,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.96,0:04:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she 100% has no prejudice\Nagainst color, race, religion.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.92,0:04:17.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She can face the world without lies,\Nshe can take blame without resentment,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.76,0:04:21.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She can even start\Nthe day without caffeine.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.39,0:04:26.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's interesting because \Nas soon as I think I'm just like Ellie,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.07,0:04:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I remember that Ellie\Nis just my family dog.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.55,0:04:30.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.85,0:04:34.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, as soon as you think\Nyou have humility and integrity
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.13,0:04:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're not a hypocrite,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.70,0:04:38.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're just as good as your dog\Nthat sleeps on the floor.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.96,0:04:42.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, all this is to say - \NI'm not bashing my dog, I love my dog.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.07,0:04:44.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all love our dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.30,0:04:48.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the thing is that there's no levels\Nto humility and integrity.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.48,0:04:52.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You either have it and you practice it,\Nor you have it and you don't practice it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.32,0:04:54.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no in between, no one's better.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.18,0:04:56.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're great at it,\Nyou're as good as your dog.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.62,0:05:01.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, my idea today is to encourage us \Nto align our actions with our beliefs,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.06,0:05:06.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think of ourselves a little bit less,\Nothers a little bit more,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.49,0:05:12.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we'll know exactly who we are \Nand we'll know exactly what we want.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.45,0:05:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.79,0:05:16.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)