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Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.70,0:00:03.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Kratko zvono)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.15,0:00:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Dugo zvono)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.04,0:00:32.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dragi Thay (ucitelj), draga Sangha (zajednica)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.36,0:00:37.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja puno patim zbog svog oca...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.05,0:00:41.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On je...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.40,0:00:45.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tesko mi je...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.56,0:00:51.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vidjeti ga...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.79,0:00:55.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...i postalo je gotovo pa opasno.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.44,0:00:59.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne zelim ga vise vidjeti
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.60,0:01:03.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dao sam mu vise prilika da se promijeni.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.14,0:01:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tjerao sam se da idem k njemu
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.25,0:01:11.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali vise ne mogu.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.28,0:01:14.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moje pitanje je:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.62,0:01:20.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da li ga i dalje trebam pokusavati promijeniti
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.78,0:01:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i truditi se ici kod njega,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.75,0:01:28.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,iako me to cini jako umornim?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.09,0:01:40.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dragi Thay, nas prijatelj je rekao
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.51,0:01:43.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da ima puno poteskoca sa svojim ocem.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.18,0:01:48.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jako mu je tesko posjecivati ga
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.78,0:01:52.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i osjeca da je cak pocelo biti opasno
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.85,0:01:55.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pokusao se natjerati da ide
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.87,0:01:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pruzati ocu puno prilika da se promijeni
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.78,0:02:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i transformira,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.26,0:02:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali osjeca da to nije uspjelo.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.67,0:02:08.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ima osjecaj da se vise ne moze natjerati na to.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.28,0:02:13.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali zanima ga da li bi svejedno \Ntrebao pokusavati
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.02,0:02:18.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pomoci ocu da se transformira\Ni promijeni,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.44,0:02:25.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da li da se natjera\Nda mu pomogne.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.66,0:02:33.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da bi nasli pravi odgovor,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.49,0:02:35.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,moramo prvo razmotriti,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.40,0:02:38.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,traziti odgovor dublje,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.03,0:02:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da vidimo pravi odnos \Nizmedu nas i druge osobe,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.76,0:02:51.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bilo da smo sin i otac,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.24,0:02:55.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili kcer i majka,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.64,0:03:00.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili smo partneri.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.94,0:03:04.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ako imas poteskoca s drugom osobom,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.79,0:03:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i ako ga/ju zelis promijeniti,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.16,0:03:17.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prva stvar koju trebamo napraviti \Nje pogledati dublje u sebe
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.65,0:03:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i u tu osobu
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.70,0:03:23.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da shvatimo...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.62,0:03:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kakav je nas odnos, povezanost.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.56,0:03:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obicno mislimo...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.81,0:03:34.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da je druga osoba "izvan" nas.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.90,0:03:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A to nije dobra perspektiva.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.19,0:03:45.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U ovom slucaju,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.18,0:03:48.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mislimo da je otac "izvan" nas
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.51,0:03:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i da trebamo samo promijeniti\Nto sto je vani, a ne to sto je unutra.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.39,0:04:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moramo uvidjeti da je otac u nama.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.84,0:04:04.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nas otac je prisutan\Nu svakoj stanici naseg tijela.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.22,0:04:06.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nas otac je u nama.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.99,0:04:10.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mi smo "nastavak" svog oca.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.60,0:04:21.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I lakse je promijeniti oca iznutra, prvo.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.72,0:04:26.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A to mozemo raditi 24 sata dnevno.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.100,0:04:29.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne moramo ga ici vidjeti,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.94,0:04:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,razgovarati s njim da bi ga promijenili.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.58,0:04:35.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nacin na koji disemo,\Nnacin na koji hodamo,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.72,0:04:38.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ga mogu promijeniti u nama.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.71,0:04:41.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pozovemo ga da hoda uz nas,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.06,0:04:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da sjedi uz nas,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.50,0:04:45.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da se smije uz nas.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.85,0:04:49.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tad ce se otac promijeniti u nama.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.47,0:04:54.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Inace ces odrasti\Ni ponasati se tocno kao sto se on ponasa.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.34,0:05:01.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ima puno djece \Nkoja mrze svoje oceve,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.64,0:05:04.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja obecavaju da, kad odrastu,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.46,0:05:09.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nece se ponasati kao njihov otac,\Nniti govoriti stvari koje on govori.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.16,0:05:10.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali kad napokon odrastu,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.75,0:05:13.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ponasati ce se tocno kao njihov otac.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.82,0:05:17.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I pricati ce tocno kao njihov otac.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.15,0:05:25.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To se dogodilo puno puta, uvijek.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.26,0:05:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ti to mrzis,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.70,0:05:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne zelis biti takav,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.23,0:05:31.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne zelis tako pricati,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.99,0:05:35.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali biti ces tocno takav,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.70,0:05:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pricati tocno tako.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.49,0:05:44.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I to u Budizmu zovemo "Samsara",\N- "vjecno vracanje".
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.67,0:05:48.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nastavljas biti kao otac,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.14,0:05:50.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne samo fizicki,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.64,0:05:53.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nego i svojim nacinom zivota.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.76,0:05:58.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I zato, \Nkad prakticiras Buddhadharmu,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.58,0:06:00.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imas sansu.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.69,0:06:03.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Prvo moras promijeniti \Nsliku oca u sebi.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.17,0:06:09.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I kad uspijes
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.55,0:06:11.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,promijeniti oca na taj nacin,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.74,0:06:14.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on vise nece zavrsiti u Samsari\N(vjecnoj patnji).
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.94,0:06:18.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A ti neces prenijeti takvo ponasanje\Nsvojoj djeci.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.85,0:06:23.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tako ces okoncati ciklus\NSamsare, vjecnog vracanja,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.99,0:06:28.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"reciklaze",
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.80,0:06:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"recikliranja".
Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.58,0:06:36.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I kad je slika oca transformirana iznutra,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.96,0:06:42.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,transformacija oca izvana\Nce biti puno laksa.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.75,0:06:44.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To je moje iskustvo.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.02,0:06:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poznajem redovnike koji su teski.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.16,0:06:58.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smije se :) )
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.68,0:07:02.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oni su velikodostojnici u crkvi,\Nu Budistickoj crkvi.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.84,0:07:11.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vrlo su konzervativni...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.56,0:07:15.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...konzervativni.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.64,0:07:20.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nisu dopustili da se odvije transformacija
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.79,0:07:24.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u zajednici.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.96,0:07:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A znamo, da bi sluzili drustvu,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.88,0:07:33.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,moramo obnavljati svoju zajednicu.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.49,0:07:36.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bilo da je tvoja zajednica Krscanska,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.12,0:07:42.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili Budisticka, ili Islamska, ili Zidovska, \Nzar ne?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.70,0:07:47.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mnogi od nas su zeljni\Nobnoviti svoje tradicije,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.11,0:07:51.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sluziti svojem drustvu i drugim ljudima bolje,\Nje li tocno?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.77,0:07:56.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali postoji toliko konzervativnih stavova u crkvi.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.32,0:07:59.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I to je istina i u mojem slucaju.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.61,0:08:06.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali primijetio sam to vrlo rano.\NRekao sam:
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.16,0:08:07.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mi imamo...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.55,0:08:10.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oni su u nama.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.12,0:08:13.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moramo sebe promijeniti prve.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.43,0:08:21.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle ako si partner,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.91,0:08:25.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i tvoj se partner ne zeli promijeniti.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.17,0:08:31.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nemoj misliti da on postoji \Nsamo "izvan" tebe.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.20,0:08:34.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On/ona postoji i u tebi.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.37,0:08:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cak i ako ste se razveli.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.83,0:08:46.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jucer sam dobio pitanje;
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.20,0:08:55.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Mozemo li se pomiriti, zapoceti ispocetka\Ns nekim od koga smo se razveli?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.40,0:09:02.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I to je tocno pitanje na koje odgovaramo.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.18,0:09:05.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jer cak..
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.12,0:09:10.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Na pocetku vjerujes, da nakon razvoda
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.39,0:09:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mozes konacno biti svoj,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.10,0:09:17.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i u potpunosti ukloniti tu osobu iz sebe.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.90,0:09:21.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To je pogresno.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.40,0:09:22.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smije se)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.42,0:09:26.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neces ga nikad uspjeti ukloniti.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.81,0:09:29.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neces ju nikad uspjeti ukloniti iz sebe.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.62,0:09:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nema sanse!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.60,0:09:40.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle, prije nego pokusas \Ndjelovati na osobu izvana,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.43,0:09:45.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pomogni mu s promjenom iznutra,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.15,0:09:48.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pomogni joj s promjenom iznutra.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.85,0:09:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.08,0:09:56.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,s takvom praksom,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.18,0:10:00.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uspjeti cemo se transformirati
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.77,0:10:04.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i postati primjer.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.65,0:10:06.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Postanemo "cisti".
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.93,0:10:11.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nas nacin je tocno taj nacin\Nkakav zelimo za njega.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.87,0:10:18.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle pricajuci, ponasajuci se,\Nziveci zivot,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.02,0:10:22.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pocinjemo ga mijenjati.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.98,0:10:26.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne mijenjas ga pricanjem,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.03,0:10:28.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mozda njega to ne moze promijeniti.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.29,0:10:36.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali nacin na koji reagiras,\Ntvoje ponasanje, reakcija,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.15,0:10:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako mu odgovaras,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.37,0:10:42.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to pomaze promijeniti tu osobu.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.27,0:10:47.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato jer on takoder ima inteligenciju,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.05,0:10:50.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i primijetiti ce to.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.72,0:10:54.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.63,0:10:56.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Znas da..
Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.31,0:11:00.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da bi uspio promijeniti sebe,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.90,0:11:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i promijeniti drugu osobu,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.80,0:11:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trebas Sanghu (zajednicu),\Ni prijatelje da te podrze.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.63,0:11:15.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato trebamo potraziti utociste u Sanghi.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.61,0:11:20.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moramo nauciti kako koristiti\Nkolektivnu energiju Sanghe
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.89,0:11:23.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da nas podrzi u transformaciji \Ni iscjeljenju,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.76,0:11:27.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i u transformaciji druge osobe.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.09,0:11:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nemoj biti nadobudan promijeniti \Nnekoga prebrzo.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.48,0:11:36.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Prvo ga moramo prihvatiti takvim kakav jest.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.20,0:11:39.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moramo ju prihvatiti takvom kakva jest.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.65,0:11:44.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I nakon sto ga/ju prihvatis,\Nosjecas se odmah bolje.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.94,0:11:47.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I onda ga/ju pocinjes mijenjati u sebi.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.33,0:11:50.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To je vrlo duboka vjezba.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.06,0:11:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I obzirom na to da nas prijatelj\Ndolazi u Plum Village svake godine,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.98,0:11:58.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i vjezbao je s nama\Nod malih nogu,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.86,0:12:01.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ja vjerujem da on to moze.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.08,0:12:04.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A mi cemo ga podrzati da uspije.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.54,0:12:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nikad ne gubimo nadu.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.13,0:12:10.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.54,0:12:12.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nacin da ne izgubimo nadu,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.54,0:12:17.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,je da se trudimo svaki dan,\Nvjezbamo, svakodnevno.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.27,0:12:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hvala ti na pitanju.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.04,0:12:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jako je dobro.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.17,0:12:27.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Kratko zvono)
Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.04,0:12:36.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Dugo zvono)