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(종소리)

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항상 나 자신이 부족하다고 느낍니다. 어떻게 해야
확신을 가지고 타인의 의견에만 의존하지 않을수 있을까요?

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스님 안녕하세요. 제 질문은...

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저는 어릴 때부터...

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저 자신이 누군가와 항상
비교된다는 느낌을 받으며 자랐습니다.

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저보다 더 나은 누군가와요.

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이런 느낌은...

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어렸을 때부터 지금까지도
계속되고 있습니다.

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이 때문에 저는 무언가
결정할 일이 있을 때마다...

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다른 사람들이 생각을
신경쓰게 되었습니다.

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그들이 내 결정을 좋게 보는지
나쁘게 보는지를요.

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그리고는 누군가 저에게
긍정적으로 칭찬의 말을 하면...

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저는 아주 기분 좋아 하지만,

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제가 한 일에 대해
부정적인 말을 들으면...

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저 자신이 부족하다는 생각에...

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누군가에게 뒤진다는
자책감이 들고...

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항상 이룰 수 없는 무언가를
쫓고 있다는 생각이 들곤 하고...

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저 자신의 존재에 대한 신념도
잃는다는 느낌을 받습니다.

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제 질문은 어떻게 해야
안정적으로 자신에 대한 확신을 가지고...

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다른 사람들의 의견에 지나치게
의존하지 않을 수 있을까 하는 것입니다.

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