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Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.48,0:00:12.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good Morning
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.81,0:00:18.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Worldwide, over 1.5 billion people \Nexperience armed conflict
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.14,0:00:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In response, people are forced to flee \Ntheir country.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.74,0:00:25.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leaving over 15 million refugees.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.51,0:00:27.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,children without a doubt are
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.23,0:00:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the most innocent and vulnerable victims
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.33,0:00:33.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but not just from the obvious\Nphysical dangers,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.16,0:00:37.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but from, the often, unspoken affects\Nthat wars have on their families.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.09,0:00:41.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The experiences of war leave children \Nat real high risk
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.10,0:00:44.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the development of emotional \Nand behavioural problems.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.58,0:00:47.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,children as we can only imagine,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.51,0:00:49.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will feel worried, threaten and at risk.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.82,0:00:52.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there is good news.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.44,0:00:54.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Quality of care that children recieve
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.91,0:00:58.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in their families, can have a more significant effects
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.23,0:01:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on their well-being, than from
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.28,0:01:03.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the actual experiences of war that \Nthey have been exposed to.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.28,0:01:07.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So actually, children can be protected
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.30,0:01:09.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by warm, secure parenting.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.92,0:01:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during and after conflict.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.64,0:01:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2011, I was a first year PHD Student
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.16,0:01:19.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the University Of Manchester
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.13,0:01:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,School Of Physiological Sciences.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.27,0:01:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like many of you here, I watched \Nthe crisis in Syria
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.16,0:01:26.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unfold in front of me on the Tv.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.35,0:01:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My family are originally from Syria,\Nand very early on
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.84,0:01:32.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I lost several family members\Nin really horrifying ways.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.29,0:01:36.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I sit and I gathered with my family \Nand watched the TV.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.00,0:01:38.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we have all seen those scenes,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.66,0:01:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bombs destroying, buildings, \Nchaos, destruction.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.85,0:01:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and people screaming and running.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.66,0:01:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was always the people screaming\Nand running
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.90,0:01:49.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that really got me the most.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.71,0:01:52.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Specially those terrified looking children.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.57,0:01:57.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a mother to two young,\Ntypically inquisitive children.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.23,0:01:58.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were five and six then.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.26,0:02:01.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At an age when they typically ask lots and lots of questions
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.85,0:02:04.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expect real convincing answers.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.58,0:02:08.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I began to wonder what it might be like
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.35,0:02:12.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to parent my children in a war-zone \Nand a refugee camp.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.45,0:02:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my children change?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.77,0:02:18.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my daughter's bright happy eyes lose their shine?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.68,0:02:21.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my sons' really relax \Ncare-free nature
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.81,0:02:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,become fearful and withdrawn?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.80,0:02:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How would I cope?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.71,0:02:29.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would I change?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.55,0:02:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As psychologists and parent's trainers
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.83,0:02:34.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know that arming parents
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.66,0:02:36.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with skills and caring for their children
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.73,0:02:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can have a huge effect on their well-being.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.03,0:02:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We call this parents training.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.44,0:02:43.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the questions I had
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.90,0:02:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was could Parent Training programs be useful for families
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.08,0:02:50.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while they're still in war-zones or refugee camps?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.20,0:02:53.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could we reach them with advise or training
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.69,0:02:56.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would help them through the struggles?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.85,0:03:00.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I approached my PHD supervisor,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.27,0:03:01.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professor Rachel Calam,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.79,0:03:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the idea of using my academic skills
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.19,0:03:06.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make some changes in the real world.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.58,0:03:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wasn't quite sure, exactly,\Nwhat I wanted to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.53,0:03:11.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She listened carefully and patiently,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.60,0:03:12.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to my joy, she said:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.77,0:03:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If that is what you want to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.52,0:03:16.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it means so much to you, then \Nlet's do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.35,0:03:20.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's find ways to see if \Nparent programs can be useful
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.82,0:03:23.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for families in this contexts."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.46,0:03:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for the past five years myself and my colleagues,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.78,0:03:28.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professor Calam and Dr. Kim Cartwright
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.90,0:03:31.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have been working on ways \Nto support families
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.36,0:03:34.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have experienced war\Nand displacement.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.26,0:03:36.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, to know how to help \Nfamilies that have been
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.23,0:03:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through conflict, support their children,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.24,0:03:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the first step must obviously be
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.97,0:03:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ask them what are they struggling with. Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.91,0:03:46.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, it seems obvious,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.59,0:03:48.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but often those are \Nthe most vulnerable
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.27,0:03:51.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we are trying to support that we actually don't ask.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.55,0:03:53.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many times have we just assumed
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.39,0:03:56.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know exactly the right thing that is gonna help someone or something
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.39,0:03:58.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without actually asking them first.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.04,0:04:02.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So i travelled to the refugee camps in Syria and in Turkey.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.04,0:04:05.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And i sat with families and i listened.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.25,0:04:08.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I listened to the parenting challenges
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.76,0:04:10.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I listened to the parenting struggles
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.99,0:04:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I listened to their call for help
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.11,0:04:15.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes that was \Njust paused
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.67,0:04:18.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as all I could was hold hand\Nwith them and just join them
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.51,0:04:19.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in silence crying and prayer
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.92,0:04:21.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they told me about their struggles
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.90,0:04:24.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They told me about the ruffle, harsh\Nrefugee camp condition
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.12,0:04:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That made it hard to focus on \Nanything but practical chores
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.00,0:04:28.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like collecting clean water
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.56,0:04:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He told me how they watch their \Nchildren with draw
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.56,0:04:40.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sadness, depression, anger\Nbed-wetting, thumb sucking
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.56,0:04:45.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fear of loud noises, fear of nightmares\Nterrifying terrifying nightmares
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.02,0:04:49.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this families had been through\Nwhat we had been watching on the TV
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.02,0:04:55.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the mothers almost half of them were\Nnow window of the wars
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.15,0:04:58.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or didn't even know their husbands\Nwere dead or alive
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.15,0:05:01.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,describe how they thought they\Nwere coping so badly
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.72,0:05:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They watch their children change
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.79,0:05:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they have had no idea \Nhow to help them.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.94,0:05:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They didn't know how to answer\Ntheir children's questions.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.60,0:05:09.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why I found incredibly \Nastonishing and so motivational
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.78,0:05:18.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that these families was so \Nmotivated to support their children
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.02,0:05:20.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to spice all the challenges they face
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.13,0:05:22.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they'll try to help their children
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.64,0:05:26.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will making attempt that they\Ncan support from