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Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.48,0:00:12.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good Morning
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.81,0:00:18.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Worldwide, over 1.5 billion people \Nexperience armed conflict
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.14,0:00:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In response, people are forced to flee \Ntheir country.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.74,0:00:25.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leaving over 15 million refugees.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.51,0:00:27.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Children without a doubt are
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.23,0:00:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the most innocent and vulnerable victims.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.42,0:00:33.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But not just from the obvious\Nphysical dangers,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.16,0:00:37.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but from, the often, unspoken affects\Nthat wars have on their families.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.09,0:00:41.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The experiences of war leave children \Nat real high risk
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.23,0:00:44.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the development of emotional \Nand behavioural problems.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.74,0:00:47.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Children as we can only imagine,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.51,0:00:49.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will feel worried, threaten and at risk.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.82,0:00:52.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there is good news,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.44,0:00:54.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the quality of care that children recieve
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.83,0:00:58.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in their families, can have a \Nmore significant effects
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.23,0:01:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on their well-being, than from
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.28,0:01:03.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the actual experiences of war that \Nthey have been exposed to.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.28,0:01:07.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So actually, children can be protected
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.30,0:01:09.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by warm, secure parenting,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.92,0:01:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during and after conflict.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.64,0:01:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2011, I was a first year PHD Student
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.16,0:01:19.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the University Of Manchester
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.13,0:01:21.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,School Of Physiological Sciences.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.27,0:01:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like many of you here, I watched \Nthe crisis in Syria
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.16,0:01:26.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unfold in front of me on the TV.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.35,0:01:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My family are originally from Syria,\Nand very early on
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.84,0:01:32.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I lost several family members\Nin really horrifying ways.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.52,0:01:36.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I sat and I gathered with my family \Nand watched the TV.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.00,0:01:38.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we have all seen those scenes,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.66,0:01:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bombs destroying, buildings, \Nchaos, destruction.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.85,0:01:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and people screaming and running.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.66,0:01:47.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was always the people screaming\Nand running
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.61,0:01:49.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that really got me the most.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.85,0:01:52.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Specially those terrified \Nlooking children.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.57,0:01:57.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a mother to two young,\Ntypically inquisitive children.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.11,0:01:58.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were five and six then.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.81,0:02:01.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At an age when they typically \Nask lots and lots of questions
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.67,0:02:04.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expect real convincing answers.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.34,0:02:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I began to wonder what it might be like
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.16,0:02:12.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to parent my children in a war-zone \Nand a refugee camp.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.33,0:02:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my children change?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.77,0:02:18.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my daughter's bright happy \Neyes lose their shine?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.68,0:02:21.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would my son's really relax \Ncare-free nature
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.81,0:02:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,become fearful and withdrawn?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.80,0:02:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How would I cope?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.71,0:02:29.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would I change?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.55,0:02:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As psychologists and parent's trainers
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.83,0:02:34.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know that arming parents
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.66,0:02:36.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with skills and caring for their children
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.73,0:02:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can have a huge effect on their well-being.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.03,0:02:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We call this parents training.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.44,0:02:43.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the questions I had
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.90,0:02:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was could Parent Training programs \Nbe useful for families
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.08,0:02:50.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while they're still in war-zones or \Nrefugee camps?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.20,0:02:53.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could we reach them with \Nadvice or training
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.69,0:02:56.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would help them through \Nthe struggles?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.85,0:03:00.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I approached my PHD supervisor,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.27,0:03:01.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professor Rachel Calam,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.79,0:03:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the idea of using my academic skills
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.19,0:03:06.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make some changes in the real world.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.58,0:03:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wasn't quite sure, exactly,\Nwhat I wanted to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.63,0:03:11.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She listened carefully and patiently,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.60,0:03:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then to my joy, \Nshe said:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.98,0:03:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If that is what you want to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.54,0:03:16.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it means so much to you, then \Nlet's do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.35,0:03:20.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's find ways to see if \Nparent programs can be useful
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.82,0:03:23.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for families in this contexts."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.50,0:03:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for the past five years myself \Nand my colleagues,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.78,0:03:28.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professor Calam and Dr. Kim Cartwright
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.90,0:03:31.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have been working on ways \Nto support families
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.36,0:03:34.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have experienced war\Nand displacement.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.15,0:03:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, to know how to help \Nfamilies that have been
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.52,0:03:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through conflict, support their children,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.24,0:03:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first step must obviously be
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.97,0:03:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ask them what are they \Nstruggling with. Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.91,0:03:46.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, it seems obvious,\N\N
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.41,0:03:48.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but often those are the \Nmost vulnerable
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.30,0:03:51.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we are trying to support that\Nwe actually don't ask.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.58,0:03:53.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many times have we just assumed
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.39,0:03:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know exactly the right thing that \Nis gonna help someone or something
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.80,0:03:58.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without actually asking them first.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.04,0:04:02.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So i travelled to the refugee camps \Nin Syria and in Turkey.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.04,0:04:05.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I sat with families and I listened.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.25,0:04:08.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I listened to the parenting challenges
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.76,0:04:10.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I listened to the parenting struggles
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.99,0:04:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I listened to their call for help
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.11,0:04:15.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes that was \Njust paused
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.67,0:04:18.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as all I could was hold hand\Nwith them and just join them
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.51,0:04:19.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in silence crying and prayer
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.93,0:04:21.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they told me about their struggles
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.28,0:04:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They told me about the rough, \Nharsh refugee camp condition
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.90,0:04:30.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That made it hard to focus on \Nanything but practical chores
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.64,0:04:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like collecting clean water
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.30,0:04:36.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He told me how they watch their \Nchildren withdraw
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.18,0:04:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sadness, depression, anger\Nbed-wetting, thumb sucking
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.38,0:04:45.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fear of loud noises, fear of nightmares,\Nterrifying terrifying nightmares.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.78,0:04:50.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These families had been through\Nwhat we had been watching on the TV.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.52,0:04:54.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The mothers almost half of them were\Nnow wisdom of the war
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.15,0:04:57.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or didn't even know their husbands\Nwere dead or alive,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.86,0:05:00.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,described how they thought they\Nwere coping so badly
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.72,0:05:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They watched their children change
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.60,0:05:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they have had no idea \Nhow to help them.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.94,0:05:08.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They didn't know how to answer\Ntheir children's questions.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.60,0:05:12.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why I found incredibly \Nastonishing and so motivational
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.40,0:05:17.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that these families was so \Nmotivated to support their children
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.02,0:05:20.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Despite all the challenges they faced
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.13,0:05:22.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were trying to help their children
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.64,0:05:25.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were making attempts at seeking\Nsupport from NGO workers
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.38,0:05:30.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from refugee camp teachers,\Nprofessional medics, other parents.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.39,0:05:33.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One mother I met had only been \Naccount for 4 days
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.14,0:05:36.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and had already made two attempts\Nat seeking support
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.07,0:05:38.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for her eight -year-old daughter\N
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.87,0:05:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was having terrifying nightmares.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.51,0:05:46.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But sadly, these attempts are \Nalmost always useless.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.36,0:05:49.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Refugee camp doctors when available \Nare almost always too busy or
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.88,0:05:53.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't have the knowledge all\Nthe time for basic parenting supports.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.50,0:05:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Refugee camp teachers and other \Nparents I just like them
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.80,0:06:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part of a new refugee community\Nwho's struggling with units
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.04,0:06:07.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So then we began to think\Nhow could we help these families.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.64,0:06:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The families were struggling with things\Nmuch bigger than they could cope with.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.84,0:06:16.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Syrian crisis made it clear how\Nincredibly impossible it would be
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.64,0:06:19.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to reach families on an individual level.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.43,0:06:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How else could we help them.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.75,0:06:26.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How would we reach families\Nat a population level and low-cost
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.87,0:06:31.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in these terrifying terrifying times.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.77,0:06:34.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After hours of speaking to NGO workers
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.25,0:06:38.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one suggested a fantastic innovative\Nidea of distributing
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.22,0:06:41.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parenting information leaflets \Nby a bread wrappers.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.89,0:06:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bread wrappers that were delivered\Nto a family
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.30,0:06:47.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a conflict zone in Syria\Nby humanitarian workers
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.20,0:06:49.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's what we did
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.89,0:06:52.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The bread wrappers haven't changed\Nat all in their apperance
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.93,0:06:55.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,except for the addition of two pieces\Nof paper.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.78,0:06:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One was a parenting information leaflet\Nthat had basic advice
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.92,0:07:02.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and information that normalizes\Nthe parents
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.41,0:07:04.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what they might be experiencing\N
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.40,0:07:06.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what their children \Nmight be experiencing
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.24,0:07:08.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and information on how they \Ncould support themselves
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.78,0:07:10.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their children
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.12,0:07:13.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as information like spending time\Ntalking to their child
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.37,0:07:18.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,showing the more affection\Nbeing more patient with your child
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.61,0:07:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talking to your children.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.42,0:07:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other piece of paper \Nwas a feedback question
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.84,0:07:24.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course there was a pen.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.00,0:07:29.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So is this simply leaflet distribution
Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.72,0:07:33.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or is it actually possible means of\Ndelivering psychological first aid
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.34,0:07:35.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that provides warm secure
Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.12,0:07:36.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,loving parenting
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.40,0:07:40.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We managed to distribute 3000 of these\Nin just one week
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.76,0:07:45.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was incredible was we had \N60-percent response rate
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.51,0:07:49.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,SIxty-percent of the three thousand\Nfamilies responded.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.90,0:07:52.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know how many reasearchs\Nwe have here today
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.41,0:07:54.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that kind of response rate\Nis fantastic
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.94,0:07:58.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have this in Manchester\Nwould be a huge achivement
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.16,0:08:00.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let alone in conflict zone in Syria
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.96,0:08:04.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really highlighting how important\Nthese kind of messages word to families.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.64,0:08:06.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We ain't remember how \Nexcited
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.27,0:08:08.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and eager we were\Nfor the return of question is
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.76,0:08:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the families had left hundreds \Nof messages
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.25,0:08:14.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most incredibly positive encouraging.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.13,0:08:15.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My favorite has got to be
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.76,0:08:18.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Thank you for not forgetting about us\Nand our children".
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.95,0:08:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is really illustrates a potential \Nmeans of the delivery of psychological
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.73,0:08:27.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first data families and the return of \Nfeedback to
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.18,0:08:29.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just imagine replicating this using\Nother means
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.89,0:08:31.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as baby look distribution
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.91,0:08:35.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or female hygiene kits \Nor even food baskets
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.03,0:08:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's bring this closer to home
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.100,0:08:39.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the refugee crisis is one\N
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.61,0:08:42.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having an effect on every single one of us
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.56,0:08:45.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're bombarded with images \Ndaily of statistics
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.44,0:08:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and photos
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.55,0:08:48.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's not surprising
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.67,0:08:50.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because by last month
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.10,0:08:52.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over 1 million refugees \Nhad reached europe
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.23,0:08:57.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,1 million refugees are joining\Nour communities
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.39,0:08:59.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're becoming our neighbors
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.40,0:09:01.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their children are attending our \Nchildren schools
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.37,0:09:06.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we've adapted the leaflets to \Nmeet the needs of European refugees
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.88,0:09:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we have them online open access
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.22,0:09:12.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and areas with a really high \Nrefugee influx.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.25,0:09:14.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, the Swedish healthcare\Nuploaded it
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.68,0:09:16.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,onto their website
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.05,0:09:17.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,within the first 45 mintutes
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.57,0:09:19.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was downloaded 343 times
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.41,0:09:23.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really highlighting how important it is\Nfor volunteers
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.09,0:09:25.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,practitioners and other parents \Nto have open
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.58,0:09:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,access psychological first aid messages.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.58,0:09:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2013, I was sitting on the cold \Nharsh floor of a refugee camp tent
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.48,0:09:40.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with mother sitting around me as\NI was conducting a focus group
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.75,0:09:42.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,across from East, an elderly lady
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.02,0:09:46.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with what seemed to be a 13-year-old\Ngirl lying beside her,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.16,0:09:49.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her head on the other ladies knees.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.82,0:09:53.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The girls stayed quiet throughout\Nthe focus group not talking at all
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.28,0:09:55.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her knees curled up \Nagainst her chest.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.17,0:09:58.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Towards the end of the focus group
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.11,0:10:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and as I was thanking the mothers\Nfor their time
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.81,0:10:03.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the other lady looked at me while\Npointing at the young girl
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.64,0:10:07.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and said to me:" Can you help us with?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.43,0:10:09.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not quite sure what she expected\Nme to do
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.48,0:10:12.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I looked at the young girl and smiled,\Nin Arabic I said
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.57,0:10:13.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Arabic)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.56,0:10:16.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What is your name?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.57,0:10:19.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She looked at me really confused \Nand engaged
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.30,0:10:21.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but then said:"Halluan"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.75,0:10:25.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Halluan is the best name for\Nthe Arabic female name Halla
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.68,0:10:28.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and is only really used to refer\Nto really young girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.48,0:10:32.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At that point, I realized that actually\NHallo was probably much
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.97,0:10:37.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,older than thirteen, it turns out Halla \Nwas a 25-year-old mother
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.20,0:10:40.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to three young children
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Halla had been a confident bright \Nbubby loving caring mother
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to her children.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the war had changed all about.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She had lived through bombs drop\Nbeing dropped in her town.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She had lived through explosions, \N
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when fighter jets were flying around\Ntheir building dropping bombs.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her children would be screaming\Nterrified from the noise.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Halla would frantically grab pillows
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and cover her children is to \Nblock out the noise.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the while screaming herself
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they reached to the refugee camp
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she knew they were finally \Nin some kind of safety,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she completely withdrew to acting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like her old childhood self.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She completely rejected her family,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her children, her husband.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Halla simply could no longer cope. \N
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now this is the parenting struggle \Nwith a really tough ending
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but sadly, it is not uncommon.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those, who experienced armed conflict\Nand displacement
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will face serious emotional struggles
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's something we can all relate\Nto.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you