1 00:00:06,343 --> 00:00:07,726 (Bell) 2 00:00:09,967 --> 00:00:16,367 (Bell) 3 00:00:34,433 --> 00:00:40,446 (Bell) 4 00:00:57,048 --> 00:01:02,992 (Bell) 5 00:01:17,518 --> 00:01:23,296 So, dear respected Thay, dear sangha, dear friends, 6 00:01:25,025 --> 00:01:31,634 I'm very happy we are together again on this eighth day of November, 7 00:01:32,072 --> 00:01:35,231 in the year 2018. 8 00:01:38,545 --> 00:01:41,857 There is a Day of Mindfulness for us, 9 00:01:42,151 --> 00:01:45,515 you have a Day of Mindfulness to be together 10 00:01:45,952 --> 00:01:50,711 with lay practitioners from many, many countries. 11 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,886 We are very grateful to Thay 12 00:01:58,404 --> 00:02:06,347 because he has always made it possible for the lay practitioners to join us 13 00:02:07,156 --> 00:02:11,789 at Plum Village for the three month Rain Retreat, 14 00:02:12,718 --> 00:02:18,641 which in some countries is not open for lay practitioners to come 15 00:02:18,869 --> 00:02:22,141 and practice with the monastics. 16 00:02:22,618 --> 00:02:26,555 So, since the very beginning of Plum Village, 17 00:02:27,155 --> 00:02:33,118 this has been our way of practicing as a fourfold sangha. 18 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,428 And that means that 19 00:02:37,667 --> 00:02:41,971 the monks and nuns, male and female, 20 00:02:42,370 --> 00:02:46,596 and then the lay practitioners, male and female. 21 00:02:46,824 --> 00:02:50,800 That is meant by four fourfold sangha. 22 00:02:52,849 --> 00:02:56,838 During this Rains Retreat, we have been offering 23 00:02:57,996 --> 00:03:06,374 our understanding and ways of practicing the 14 mindfulness trainings every Sunday, 24 00:03:07,754 --> 00:03:13,449 and then, on Thursdays, there has been a variety of teachings. 25 00:03:14,331 --> 00:03:21,161 So far, we've shared the basic Plum Village practices, 26 00:03:22,460 --> 00:03:25,497 some of the Dharma Doors, 27 00:03:26,307 --> 00:03:33,972 I believe, such as Beginning Anew, Shining Light, guided meditations, 28 00:03:35,692 --> 00:03:41,647 reconciliation within families and relationships. 29 00:03:42,859 --> 00:03:50,722 In the coming weeks, we will be offering our understanding and how we can practice 30 00:03:50,929 --> 00:03:53,421 some of the sutras. 31 00:03:56,118 --> 00:04:01,869 This morning, today we will look at the Discourse on Love. 32 00:04:04,986 --> 00:04:14,240 We remember that the Dharma talk on Sunday ended with a line from one of Thay's poems 33 00:04:15,237 --> 00:04:20,274 and it said: Let us accept one another. 34 00:04:21,428 --> 00:04:27,204 Let us share the vision for Great Love to arise. 35 00:04:30,235 --> 00:04:35,013 Maybe we're wondering, what is this Great Love? 36 00:04:38,254 --> 00:04:43,224 Buddha had some wonderful teachings on Great Love. 37 00:04:44,097 --> 00:04:53,555 And Thay has also offered many deep teachings on what he has called True Love. 38 00:04:55,571 --> 00:05:02,652 So we know there are four expressions of this Great Love, of this True Love. 39 00:05:03,955 --> 00:05:09,138 We know them as loving kindness, 40 00:05:10,233 --> 00:05:13,799 it is also known as maitri or metta, 41 00:05:14,062 --> 00:05:16,166 compassion, 42 00:05:16,503 --> 00:05:21,376 or also known as karuna, in Pali or Sanskrit. 43 00:05:25,872 --> 00:05:28,786 Joy, mudita, 44 00:05:29,714 --> 00:05:33,525 and then equanimity, upeksha. 45 00:05:36,290 --> 00:05:44,263 The Buddha has offered an explanation of these four expressions of love 46 00:05:44,489 --> 00:05:48,139 in the Discourse on Love. 47 00:05:49,324 --> 00:05:55,169 This discourse is available in all of our chanting books, 48 00:05:55,703 --> 00:06:02,033 Chanting from the Heart and all of the translations in the Chanting Book. 49 00:06:02,689 --> 00:06:07,676 And it's found in the session on Monday, Monday morning. 50 00:06:10,886 --> 00:06:20,012 This text or this sutra is very important and really well loved and practiced 51 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:25,808 in the Theravada traditions in Buddhism. 52 00:06:26,626 --> 00:06:33,067 So, we think of the countries where 'source Buddhism', as Thay calls it, 53 00:06:33,422 --> 00:06:38,125 or 'original Buddhism' is practiced. 54 00:06:38,669 --> 00:06:45,899 And that is the country of Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, 55 00:06:46,556 --> 00:06:50,414 Sri Lanka, India and Myanmar. 56 00:06:50,993 --> 00:06:55,200 Primarily the countries in Southeast Asia. 57 00:06:56,283 --> 00:07:03,014 The text is in Pali language, and it's part of their daily practice 58 00:07:03,335 --> 00:07:08,325 to chant this discourse, this sutra. 59 00:07:10,957 --> 00:07:13,581 I discovered that there are 60 00:07:14,013 --> 00:07:19,389 20 translations of this text into English. 61 00:07:21,006 --> 00:07:24,386 19 are available on the Internet, 62 00:07:24,602 --> 00:07:30,010 and then the 20th is the one that Thay and sister Chan Duc did, 63 00:07:30,277 --> 00:07:36,374 or sister True Virtue, sister Annabel. And to me, it's the most beautiful. 64 00:07:37,175 --> 00:07:42,865 If you have an interest in scholarship, 65 00:07:43,108 --> 00:07:49,509 you can look at the other translations which are very accurate, I believe, 66 00:07:49,744 --> 00:07:55,868 I don't read Pali. But in reading the translation 67 00:07:56,642 --> 00:08:04,292 that is available to us everyday, I see that it is very, very beautiful, 68 00:08:04,526 --> 00:08:06,989 the one that we have. 69 00:08:08,002 --> 00:08:12,663 So, why don't we listen to this Discourse on Love. 70 00:08:14,121 --> 00:08:16,772 And, I'll read it. 71 00:08:20,282 --> 00:08:23,492 And I believe many of you have already heard it, 72 00:08:24,236 --> 00:08:26,976 but it's nice to hear it again. 73 00:08:27,195 --> 00:08:35,149 Because I've found that it waters my seeds of happiness and goodness. 74 00:08:35,899 --> 00:08:45,224 It is a wonderful text to nourish the wholesome qualities in ourselves. 75 00:08:47,483 --> 00:08:53,882 So, Discourse on Love. And this is Thay's translation with sister Annabel. 76 00:08:55,426 --> 00:09:00,269 “He or she who wants to attain peace 77 00:09:01,144 --> 00:09:09,112 should practice being upright, humble, and capable of using loving speech. 78 00:09:10,835 --> 00:09:18,986 He or she will know how to live simply and happily, with senses calmed, 79 00:09:19,824 --> 00:09:27,044 without being covetous and carried away by the emotions of the majority. 80 00:09:28,558 --> 00:09:36,085 Let him or her not do anything that will be disapproved of by the wise ones. 81 00:09:37,417 --> 00:09:41,526 And this is what he or she contemplates: 82 00:09:42,466 --> 00:09:50,439 May everyone be happy and safe, and may all hearts be filled with joy. 83 00:09:52,161 --> 00:09:57,400 May all beings live in security and in peace – 84 00:09:58,587 --> 00:10:11,453 beings who are frail or strong, tall or short, big or small, visible or invisible, 85 00:10:12,334 --> 00:10:19,338 near or faraway, already born, or yet to be born. 86 00:10:20,752 --> 00:10:26,294 May all of them dwell in perfect tranquility. 87 00:10:27,653 --> 00:10:31,713 Let no one do harm to anyone. 88 00:10:32,706 --> 00:10:37,325 Let no one put the life of anyone in danger. 89 00:10:38,485 --> 00:10:45,594 Let no one, out of anger or ill will, wish anyone any harm. 90 00:10:47,262 --> 00:10:54,794 Just as a mother loves and protects her only child at the risk of her own life, 91 00:10:57,210 --> 00:11:05,100 cultivate boundless love to offer to all living beings in the entire cosmos. 92 00:11:06,478 --> 00:11:15,109 Let our boundless love pervade the whole universe, above, below, and across. 93 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:20,888 Our love will know no obstacles. 94 00:11:21,313 --> 00:11:28,228 Our heart will be absolutely free from enmity and hatred. 95 00:11:30,254 --> 00:11:39,088 Whether standing or walking, sitting or lying, as long as we are awake, 96 00:11:39,752 --> 00:11:45,211 we should cultivate this love within our heart. 97 00:11:46,381 --> 00:11:50,745 This is the noblest way of living. 98 00:11:51,955 --> 00:11:58,040 Free from wrong views, greed, and sensual desires, 99 00:11:58,690 --> 00:12:05,917 living in beauty and realizing Perfect Understanding, 100 00:12:06,963 --> 00:12:15,840 those who practice boundless love will certainly transcend birth and death.” 101 00:12:22,228 --> 00:12:26,676 I discovered that this sutra grew within me. 102 00:12:26,897 --> 00:12:29,543 I heard it the first time and I thought, 103 00:12:29,711 --> 00:12:35,121 "It's very lovely, very nice, but how can I practice it?" 104 00:12:35,811 --> 00:12:42,195 It seemed to be a real challenge, to have all these qualities, 105 00:12:42,412 --> 00:12:46,475 and to be able to practice boundless love. 106 00:12:48,433 --> 00:12:52,783 So what I did is I read it, I read it very often. 107 00:12:53,385 --> 00:12:55,778 And I simply waited. 108 00:12:55,957 --> 00:13:00,774 And I didn't expect myself to be able to practice it. 109 00:13:01,126 --> 00:13:03,882 It was simply enough to read it. 110 00:13:04,526 --> 00:13:09,328 And I still do this everyday. I read the sutra. 111 00:13:12,944 --> 00:13:18,669 It's very interesting to know that this sutra has a history. 112 00:13:19,977 --> 00:13:25,230 It has an origin. An origin story. 113 00:13:26,591 --> 00:13:32,360 But before I share the origin story of how this sutra was offered by the Buddha, 114 00:13:32,765 --> 00:13:38,918 I want to say a few words about what do we mean by origin stories. 115 00:13:39,425 --> 00:13:41,456 When we 116 00:13:44,307 --> 00:13:48,782 study or hear some of the Buddhist teachings. 117 00:13:50,675 --> 00:13:53,806 Do you know that the lay people 118 00:13:54,068 --> 00:13:56,619 in the time of the Buddha 119 00:13:56,805 --> 00:14:01,517 were the source of many of the mindfulness trainings? 120 00:14:01,739 --> 00:14:05,953 Or the precepts, as they were called in those days. 121 00:14:07,374 --> 00:14:12,609 Both for the lay people and for the monastics. 122 00:14:13,129 --> 00:14:15,845 And how was that possible? 123 00:14:16,345 --> 00:14:20,207 For example, the 5 mindfulness trainings 124 00:14:20,694 --> 00:14:23,605 were created by the Buddha 125 00:14:24,008 --> 00:14:30,742 in response to the request or the mother and father, the parents, 126 00:14:31,436 --> 00:14:34,962 of a monk who had just ordained. 127 00:14:35,489 --> 00:14:38,765 His parents went to the Buddha and said, 128 00:14:39,420 --> 00:14:43,958 "World Honored One, do you have some guidelines for us, 129 00:14:44,490 --> 00:14:51,792 the lay people living in the world, so we could have more happiness and peace?" 130 00:14:54,506 --> 00:14:58,222 So the Buddha thought and he agreed, 131 00:14:58,406 --> 00:15:02,177 he said, "Yes, I will create some guidelines." 132 00:15:02,841 --> 00:15:08,916 And these guidelines, in those days, were offered with the phrase, 133 00:15:09,616 --> 00:15:18,144 "I will refrain from killing. I will abstain from stealing." Et cetera. 134 00:15:18,741 --> 00:15:24,557 So the Buddha used words that were appropriate for the time and culture 135 00:15:24,853 --> 00:15:27,630 in ancient India. 136 00:15:28,678 --> 00:15:36,105 I think if we continue to use those words in our modern era, 137 00:15:36,999 --> 00:15:42,545 perhaps the mindfulness trainings will not be so easily accepted. 138 00:15:45,046 --> 00:15:52,911 So Thay, with his great understanding and wisdom of our era and culture, 139 00:15:54,229 --> 00:15:59,553 renamed them to call them 'mindfulness trainings', 140 00:15:59,859 --> 00:16:05,477 which is truly what they are about. We'll develop our mindfulness, 141 00:16:06,834 --> 00:16:12,709 and train our mind to think and act in wholesome ways. 142 00:16:13,267 --> 00:16:16,738 So Thay called them mindfulness trainings, 143 00:16:16,959 --> 00:16:20,409 and then, instead of beginning each training with the word 144 00:16:20,657 --> 00:16:25,429 "I will abstain from", or "I will refrain from", 145 00:16:26,442 --> 00:16:34,159 because in our era, it's more a culture of consummation rather than abstaining from. 146 00:16:35,737 --> 00:16:44,530 So Thay chose to use the words, "Aware of suffering caused by" killing, 147 00:16:45,004 --> 00:16:47,515 or stealing. 148 00:16:48,618 --> 00:16:53,528 If we know that such actions are going to create suffering, 149 00:16:54,838 --> 00:16:59,537 or our ways of speaking, or thinking will create suffering, 150 00:16:59,756 --> 00:17:04,811 then we think, "Oh, sure! I'm willing to learn more and practice." 151 00:17:05,032 --> 00:17:07,830 Practice the trainings. 152 00:17:08,014 --> 00:17:13,670 So then Thay gives us ways to understand within the training how to practice. 153 00:17:14,252 --> 00:17:18,869 I am committed to do this. I'm determined 154 00:17:19,810 --> 00:17:27,065 to do something else in order to not cause suffering to myself or others. 155 00:17:29,271 --> 00:17:35,691 The precepts for the monks and nuns were also created by the Buddha 156 00:17:36,503 --> 00:17:42,426 after a situation occurred where there was a mistake 157 00:17:43,016 --> 00:17:46,085 or after an event. 158 00:17:49,364 --> 00:17:54,525 The Buddha did not make precepts, or mindfulness trainings, 159 00:17:54,879 --> 00:17:58,951 we say "a priori", in advance. 160 00:17:59,856 --> 00:18:06,436 The Buddha wanted the monastics to have a way of life 161 00:18:06,702 --> 00:18:14,222 that would make it easy for the lay people to be able to ask questions, 162 00:18:15,076 --> 00:18:19,668 and learn from the monastics, and respect them. 163 00:18:20,868 --> 00:18:26,324 So all of the precepts for the monastics 164 00:18:26,712 --> 00:18:32,154 were made after a specific situation occurred. 165 00:18:33,060 --> 00:18:38,039 And how did the Buddha learn about situations that occurred? 166 00:18:38,550 --> 00:18:42,714 Or behavior on the part of the monastics? 167 00:18:43,570 --> 00:18:46,692 It was from the lay people. 168 00:18:50,565 --> 00:18:54,652 The lay people, when they observed or heard 169 00:18:54,885 --> 00:18:59,180 how the monks and nuns were speaking or acting, 170 00:18:59,499 --> 00:19:04,063 if they were not pleased with the - If they were not happy, 171 00:19:04,267 --> 00:19:07,343 they would go to the Buddha and tell him. 172 00:19:07,499 --> 00:19:11,114 "This is what we saw, this is what happened." 173 00:19:12,278 --> 00:19:17,149 And then the Buddha decided that he didn't want his monastics 174 00:19:17,363 --> 00:19:20,196 to make the same mistake. 175 00:19:20,384 --> 00:19:23,755 So he made precepts for them. 176 00:19:23,983 --> 00:19:31,222 We have to understand, in the beginning, the monastic sangha was forming. 177 00:19:32,111 --> 00:19:35,095 It was brand new. So - 178 00:19:36,115 --> 00:19:39,233 But they didn't know too much about how to be monastics, 179 00:19:39,587 --> 00:19:42,224 so, gradually, 180 00:19:42,711 --> 00:19:46,332 they learned, Buddha learned, and the monastics learned 181 00:19:46,538 --> 00:19:52,401 about what would be the most appropriate way of life for them. 182 00:19:55,108 --> 00:20:02,090 And the Buddha created mindful manners as appropriate codes of behavior. 183 00:20:02,483 --> 00:20:07,804 We are all very grateful to the lay sangha. 184 00:20:08,062 --> 00:20:13,922 In those days they were helping the Buddha and the other monastics 185 00:20:14,306 --> 00:20:18,743 know what they thought would be appropriate behavior. 186 00:20:18,965 --> 00:20:21,956 Let us enjoy just a moment 187 00:20:22,968 --> 00:20:27,541 to come back to ourselves. We'll listen to one sound of the bell 188 00:20:27,786 --> 00:20:31,990 for a moment of mindful breathing. 189 00:20:34,112 --> 00:20:40,845 (Bell) 190 00:20:56,263 --> 00:21:02,919 So I've shared a little bit about origin, origin stories. 191 00:21:05,848 --> 00:21:11,021 The precepts for the monastics, they all have an origin story. 192 00:21:11,851 --> 00:21:15,461 We learn about what happened 193 00:21:15,729 --> 00:21:22,129 and it was a source of maybe some misunderstanding, 194 00:21:23,207 --> 00:21:25,368 a source of 195 00:21:26,851 --> 00:21:29,907 people not being happy, 196 00:21:30,102 --> 00:21:35,949 and so, a guideline was created. An origin story. 197 00:21:36,521 --> 00:21:43,013 And I've used the example of the mindfulness trainings for the lay sangha, 198 00:21:43,342 --> 00:21:51,588 and then, monastic mindful manners and precepts for the monastics. 199 00:21:53,609 --> 00:22:01,146 And also, I've, with great appreciation and gratitude, let all of you know 200 00:22:01,413 --> 00:22:06,456 how important you are for our practice. 201 00:22:06,679 --> 00:22:11,583 And you were instrumental in the time of the Buddha 202 00:22:11,988 --> 00:22:19,363 for helping formulate the appropriate code of behavior for monastics. 203 00:22:20,804 --> 00:22:25,517 I want to add that other monastics also went to the Buddha 204 00:22:25,881 --> 00:22:29,356 to share what they saw other monastics do. 205 00:22:29,709 --> 00:22:33,206 So it wasn't just the lay people going, 206 00:22:33,431 --> 00:22:37,567 it was monastics also letting the Buddha know. 207 00:22:38,188 --> 00:22:42,090 I think the Buddha was very busy, wasn't he? 208 00:22:42,291 --> 00:22:45,956 Not only teaching, but receiving all of these reports 209 00:22:47,047 --> 00:22:52,654 on how people were acting, and speaking, and thinking, et cetera. 210 00:22:53,494 --> 00:23:00,311 So the Buddha listened, I'm sure, very deeply and then reflected. 211 00:23:03,452 --> 00:23:06,254 So from the time of the Buddha 212 00:23:06,472 --> 00:23:09,477 he established the fourfold sangha 213 00:23:09,815 --> 00:23:14,429 of the monastics and the lay people practicing together 214 00:23:14,631 --> 00:23:19,180 and supporting one another in their practice. 215 00:23:20,948 --> 00:23:25,633 So now I'd like to share with you the origin story 216 00:23:26,866 --> 00:23:29,353 of this sutra. 217 00:23:32,284 --> 00:23:35,330 It is said that on one occasion, 218 00:23:35,571 --> 00:23:40,345 some 500 bhikkhus, meaning fully ordained monks, 219 00:23:42,708 --> 00:23:47,216 after receiving some instruction on meditation, 220 00:23:48,891 --> 00:23:52,440 such as awareness of the breathing, 221 00:23:52,679 --> 00:23:57,325 which is what Thay has chosen for our basic meditation practice, 222 00:23:57,846 --> 00:24:02,710 the Anapanasati sutra, they practiced that daily, 223 00:24:03,219 --> 00:24:08,974 aware of our in-breath and our out-breath, aware of our body, relaxing our body. 224 00:24:09,168 --> 00:24:14,940 So the Buddha gave them some topics for their meditation. 225 00:24:16,313 --> 00:24:20,263 Then, they went to a forest in the Himalayas 226 00:24:20,416 --> 00:24:23,174 to practice this meditation. 227 00:24:23,463 --> 00:24:29,409 In those days, they didn't have a practice center such as we know today. 228 00:24:29,704 --> 00:24:33,881 They went to the foot of a tree, or they went into the forest 229 00:24:34,085 --> 00:24:39,012 to a quite, secluded area to practice. 230 00:24:40,265 --> 00:24:45,417 Mostly sitting meditation, and slow walking meditation. 231 00:24:45,659 --> 00:24:48,424 But we know that they also ate mindfully. 232 00:24:48,851 --> 00:24:51,732 But there were some devas. 233 00:24:52,817 --> 00:24:58,201 Maybe a deva would be someone comparable to an angel 234 00:24:58,599 --> 00:25:01,370 in the Christian tradition. 235 00:25:01,938 --> 00:25:07,090 Devas lived in the forest, in nature, where there were trees 236 00:25:09,866 --> 00:25:17,337 and bushes, a lot of natural flora and fauna. 237 00:25:17,932 --> 00:25:22,234 But there was some devas already living there. 238 00:25:22,988 --> 00:25:26,922 Initially, the devas, devas are like 239 00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:32,806 beings that are not in a body form, 240 00:25:34,726 --> 00:25:41,172 but they have already developed some certain amount of consciousness. 241 00:25:41,583 --> 00:25:44,797 But there were devas already living there. 242 00:25:45,014 --> 00:25:50,098 In the beginning, the devas tolerated the presence of the monks. 243 00:25:50,777 --> 00:25:52,965 But they saw 244 00:25:53,449 --> 00:25:59,908 that the bhikkhus were planning to stay there and practice meditation. 245 00:26:00,300 --> 00:26:04,187 And they had no intention to leave. 246 00:26:04,874 --> 00:26:11,874 So the devas realized that and became upset and annoyed with the bhikkhus 247 00:26:12,655 --> 00:26:18,233 for taking their space, for moving in occupying their territory. 248 00:26:18,987 --> 00:26:21,596 So what did they do? 249 00:26:21,777 --> 00:26:27,291 The devas made fearful sighs and horrible sounds 250 00:26:27,478 --> 00:26:32,418 that agitated the six sense organs of the monks. 251 00:26:33,317 --> 00:26:36,217 And they did this at night 252 00:26:36,448 --> 00:26:40,311 to frighten the monks, so they would go away. 253 00:26:41,801 --> 00:26:45,576 The bhikkhus were so disturbed, 254 00:26:45,916 --> 00:26:48,416 that they got sick 255 00:26:48,595 --> 00:26:52,039 and they couldn't make any progress in their meditation. 256 00:26:52,967 --> 00:26:58,020 So they decided to leave the forest to return to the Buddha. 257 00:26:58,525 --> 00:27:03,142 And they reported their experiences of what happened. 258 00:27:04,925 --> 00:27:08,702 So the Buddha received this report, 259 00:27:09,077 --> 00:27:11,610 and in his meditation, 260 00:27:11,987 --> 00:27:17,659 he surveyed the area to find an alternative forest 261 00:27:18,616 --> 00:27:23,182 where the monks could practice in silence. 262 00:27:23,468 --> 00:27:28,646 But he found no other suitable forest in that area. 263 00:27:29,190 --> 00:27:34,607 So what he told them was to return to that forest. 264 00:27:38,589 --> 00:27:42,486 However, before returning to the forest 265 00:27:42,768 --> 00:27:49,648 the Buddha gave them, his monks, this metta meditation. 266 00:27:51,067 --> 00:27:56,500 The Metta Sutra for them to chant as a daily practice 267 00:27:56,764 --> 00:28:01,107 and then to offer as a meditation 268 00:28:01,625 --> 00:28:06,884 to make the devas more peaceful, to appease them, 269 00:28:07,883 --> 00:28:12,176 and as well for the protection of the monks. 270 00:28:12,781 --> 00:28:17,838 So the monks went back to the same forest where the devas were, 271 00:28:18,434 --> 00:28:21,828 I imagine they were a little bit anxious, 272 00:28:22,017 --> 00:28:26,637 wondering if the Buddha's teachings would be enough 273 00:28:27,389 --> 00:28:30,857 to make the devas calm. 274 00:28:31,044 --> 00:28:37,140 Because they had experienced a lot of agitation from these beings. 275 00:28:38,263 --> 00:28:43,131 So the monks went back, and daily chanted the Metta Sutra, 276 00:28:44,108 --> 00:28:49,342 and the metta meditation throughout the day. 277 00:28:49,962 --> 00:28:52,962 And I believe throughout the night. 278 00:28:53,113 --> 00:28:56,423 They had brief periods of sleep. 279 00:28:56,595 --> 00:29:00,256 The result was transformative. 280 00:29:01,109 --> 00:29:05,163 By receiving this metta energy from the monks, 281 00:29:05,383 --> 00:29:09,988 this energy of loving kindness and compassion from the monks, 282 00:29:13,690 --> 00:29:19,344 the devas developed trust and confidence in the monks. 283 00:29:22,169 --> 00:29:24,240 They welcomed them. 284 00:29:25,654 --> 00:29:31,571 They then had goodwill towards the monks and even looked after them, 285 00:29:31,794 --> 00:29:36,999 making sure they had enough food, and whatever they needed. 286 00:29:38,571 --> 00:29:44,147 And the monks were also able to develop these qualities in themselves, 287 00:29:44,612 --> 00:29:51,673 and offer to the devas their friendliness, their good wishes, 288 00:29:53,354 --> 00:29:57,896 their kindness and their peaceful presence. 289 00:29:58,134 --> 00:30:04,012 That helped calm and watered the best seeds in themselves, 290 00:30:04,213 --> 00:30:06,426 but also 291 00:30:06,898 --> 00:30:10,649 in the hearts and minds of the devas. 292 00:30:10,940 --> 00:30:15,459 So everybody benefited from this practice. 293 00:30:15,783 --> 00:30:18,887 And it is said, that 294 00:30:19,652 --> 00:30:23,599 after this three months period of rains retreat, 295 00:30:23,855 --> 00:30:29,549 that the bhikkhus spent with this meditation in the forest with the devas, 296 00:30:30,472 --> 00:30:35,313 it is said that all 500 bhikkhus became arhats. 297 00:30:36,310 --> 00:30:42,182 And in the Theravada tradition of Buddhism, 298 00:30:42,538 --> 00:30:49,704 an arhat is a person who has purified all of their afflictions, 299 00:30:50,051 --> 00:30:53,598 such as greed, hatred, ignorance. 300 00:30:53,803 --> 00:30:57,843 He has developed to the highest extent possible. 301 00:30:58,063 --> 00:31:01,748 Becoming arhat, you have no more afflictions. 302 00:31:01,916 --> 00:31:05,564 I believe it's just before becoming a buddha. 303 00:31:08,363 --> 00:31:13,077 Being an arhat is pretty good. 304 00:31:13,851 --> 00:31:19,221 So the good fruits of their practice of this metta meditation. 305 00:31:26,294 --> 00:31:31,650 As practitioners in our daily life, wherever we are living, 306 00:31:32,845 --> 00:31:35,221 in the forest, 307 00:31:35,994 --> 00:31:38,532 where there are trees. 308 00:31:38,792 --> 00:31:41,976 And incidentally, you know there are 309 00:31:43,286 --> 00:31:48,563 Greenpeace and organizations that want to protect the life of trees, 310 00:31:49,367 --> 00:31:53,170 and not let people cut down the ancient forests, 311 00:31:54,199 --> 00:31:57,609 which is happening in many countries. 312 00:31:57,864 --> 00:32:02,469 To cut down the ancient forests, and then, what do they do? 313 00:32:02,835 --> 00:32:10,472 In some cases, they plant grass to bring in the cattle. 314 00:32:11,722 --> 00:32:16,348 To grow - They make pasture land. 315 00:32:17,900 --> 00:32:24,698 But the ancient forests provide beautiful fresh oxygen. 316 00:32:24,953 --> 00:32:30,890 The leaves of the trees give us oxygen and they absorb the carbon dioxide 317 00:32:31,304 --> 00:32:34,636 in the process of photosynthesis. 318 00:32:35,172 --> 00:32:38,783 So, the ancient forests are precious. 319 00:32:39,254 --> 00:32:44,466 So whether we live in the ancient forest or in the cities, 320 00:32:45,370 --> 00:32:52,276 there are practices that we can do related to this metta sutra. 321 00:32:57,273 --> 00:33:02,688 I reflected on how I could share this sutra this morning. 322 00:33:04,397 --> 00:33:08,041 And the only thing I could think of 323 00:33:08,405 --> 00:33:11,979 was to do what Thay did. 324 00:33:12,356 --> 00:33:16,604 Because during the winter retreat, the three month rain retreat, 325 00:33:17,956 --> 00:33:21,755 Thay would chose a sutra. 326 00:33:22,368 --> 00:33:28,678 And them he would take short sections of the sutra 327 00:33:29,653 --> 00:33:34,699 and then, share some commentary on each section. 328 00:33:35,606 --> 00:33:41,709 So I hope that's alright with you if I simply do what Thay did. 329 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:49,242 We'll listen to some commentary on this sutra, 330 00:33:49,902 --> 00:33:54,567 and then we'll learn about this meditation 331 00:33:55,440 --> 00:34:00,141 that is based on the sutra, the metta meditation. 332 00:34:02,556 --> 00:34:07,651 Let us take a moment to stretch or change your sitting position 333 00:34:08,987 --> 00:34:14,360 if you wish, or sit in a chair if that will be more comfortable. 334 00:34:14,579 --> 00:34:18,717 We'll have a sound of the bell to reconnect us 335 00:34:19,653 --> 00:34:25,519 with ourselves and with one another. Because when we all breathe together, 336 00:34:26,230 --> 00:34:32,681 at the same time, we're creating a collective energy of mindfulness, 337 00:34:33,253 --> 00:34:37,792 a collective energy of concentration that is shared. 338 00:34:38,321 --> 00:34:42,364 It's an interbeing experience. 339 00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:48,942 (Bell) 340 00:35:01,998 --> 00:35:05,786 So what we share on the sutra 341 00:35:06,647 --> 00:35:10,101 is a different kind of sharing sometimes. 342 00:35:10,492 --> 00:35:12,815 I appreciate 343 00:35:14,274 --> 00:35:19,869 just your willingness to listen, and whatever results is also okay. 344 00:35:21,004 --> 00:35:25,840 It begins with: "He or she who wants to attain peace 345 00:35:26,319 --> 00:35:33,856 should practice being upright, humble, and capable of using loving speech." 346 00:35:37,057 --> 00:35:42,591 So the beginning of the sutra gives us an opportunity 347 00:35:43,304 --> 00:35:48,948 to think about how we can live simply and happily. 348 00:35:49,869 --> 00:35:53,222 How to speak lovingly. 349 00:35:53,893 --> 00:35:58,656 We know we have the mindfulness trainings to help us speak lovingly. 350 00:36:03,269 --> 00:36:07,054 We have also the practice of Beginning Anew, 351 00:36:07,286 --> 00:36:10,508 where we learn how to speak lovingly 352 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:14,365 by sharing our appreciations of others, 353 00:36:14,580 --> 00:36:21,294 how much we have a lot of gratitude for people in our life. 354 00:36:25,756 --> 00:36:29,600 When we are upright, what does that mean? 355 00:36:29,841 --> 00:36:33,124 It means that we have some ethical values. 356 00:36:33,813 --> 00:36:36,872 We live by our values. 357 00:36:37,261 --> 00:36:40,134 So, this person is upright, 358 00:36:40,371 --> 00:36:46,570 that suggests this person is reliable, has ethical values. 359 00:36:50,641 --> 00:36:55,502 We can take refuge in this person because of their honesty, 360 00:36:56,553 --> 00:37:00,780 their capacity to understand. 361 00:37:01,661 --> 00:37:07,350 And not do anything that would be disappointing. 362 00:37:08,244 --> 00:37:10,794 We want not perfect, okay? 363 00:37:10,995 --> 00:37:16,888 But someone who is upright is someone who practices, maybe we put it simply. 364 00:37:17,162 --> 00:37:22,293 Someone who loves the practice and does it wholeheartedly. 365 00:37:22,641 --> 00:37:27,205 But we don't speak of perfect uprightness. 366 00:37:28,420 --> 00:37:32,268 There isn't perfect uprightness. 367 00:37:32,533 --> 00:37:37,643 But just human uprightness. Okay? It is good enough. 368 00:37:41,712 --> 00:37:48,516 We don't covet or want what others have in this simple lifestyle. 369 00:37:49,143 --> 00:37:54,278 We have enough. There is the Sanskrit word 'samtusta'. 370 00:37:54,495 --> 00:37:58,073 We are content with what we have. 371 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:03,053 It says: We know how to live simply and happily, with senses calmed, 372 00:38:03,575 --> 00:38:09,991 without being covetous and carried away by the emotions of the majority. 373 00:38:10,229 --> 00:38:15,081 So if we are in an environment where there is a majority of people 374 00:38:16,278 --> 00:38:23,142 and we find that right now what I need is to feel peaceful and calm, 375 00:38:23,413 --> 00:38:27,299 and maybe the environment is such that 376 00:38:27,699 --> 00:38:30,719 the majority of the people are 377 00:38:31,363 --> 00:38:35,525 a little bit agitated, not so peaceful and calm, 378 00:38:35,875 --> 00:38:38,419 we can choose 379 00:38:40,679 --> 00:38:45,650 to not be carried away by the emotions that are there. 380 00:38:46,346 --> 00:38:51,757 But we are not going to judge at all the emotions of the majority. 381 00:38:52,082 --> 00:38:54,954 We simply observe. 382 00:38:55,186 --> 00:38:59,186 And that is bare attention. We observe what is there, 383 00:38:59,384 --> 00:39:03,290 what are the emotions being expressed. 384 00:39:03,548 --> 00:39:10,869 We observe. We don't judge. And if we wish to not be carried away 385 00:39:11,689 --> 00:39:16,385 by whatever the majority of the emotions are, 386 00:39:16,654 --> 00:39:19,991 that we don't wish to experience, 387 00:39:22,872 --> 00:39:26,001 then we come back to ourselves 388 00:39:26,176 --> 00:39:30,334 and we can practice mindful breathing, mindful walking. 389 00:39:30,576 --> 00:39:35,504 Sometimes, we feel that we have to step outside. 390 00:39:36,062 --> 00:39:38,690 And that is certainly okay, 391 00:39:38,871 --> 00:39:42,076 to not be carried away in certain environments, 392 00:39:42,259 --> 00:39:46,840 we can choose to find temporarily another environment. 393 00:39:47,107 --> 00:39:52,113 We step outside and enjoy mindful walking, 394 00:39:52,881 --> 00:39:58,311 mindful breathing. We learned about protecting our six sense organs. 395 00:39:58,672 --> 00:40:01,901 The sutra says, with senses calmed. 396 00:40:02,158 --> 00:40:06,804 That means that whatever we see, hear, 397 00:40:08,877 --> 00:40:16,974 taste or touch, if it has the effect on us of creating 398 00:40:19,103 --> 00:40:25,178 agitation, or making us feel upset, we are no longer peaceful, 399 00:40:25,489 --> 00:40:30,994 then we want to think of how can I protect my eyes, or my ears, 400 00:40:31,964 --> 00:40:38,955 so they are not going to continually receive this stimulation. 401 00:40:42,226 --> 00:40:45,206 And we learn how to do this gradually. 402 00:40:45,456 --> 00:40:51,305 We learn about the environment, and how I'm feeling, 403 00:40:52,309 --> 00:40:55,972 and to do this, we become aware of our body. 404 00:40:57,098 --> 00:41:01,642 And if we are having emotions come up in us, 405 00:41:02,043 --> 00:41:07,368 such as worry, anxiety, anger or fear. 406 00:41:07,558 --> 00:41:11,898 We can keep our stability. We can keep our peace. 407 00:41:12,731 --> 00:41:15,824 And that is, in a sense, 408 00:41:16,449 --> 00:41:22,264 the practice of keeping our six senses calm. 409 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,296 We keep our stability and we keep our peace. 410 00:41:26,458 --> 00:41:29,902 In a situation where I am the minority, 411 00:41:30,064 --> 00:41:33,802 and I am in an environment where others are the majority, 412 00:41:33,914 --> 00:41:37,787 I accept being minority. Okay? 413 00:41:39,089 --> 00:41:44,600 In our daily lives, you may be a minority at work. 414 00:41:45,384 --> 00:41:48,128 Or at school. 415 00:41:48,281 --> 00:41:54,745 And you are invited to join your colleagues on Friday, for - 416 00:41:55,479 --> 00:41:59,019 They call it happiness hour or something like that. 417 00:41:59,119 --> 00:42:01,829 It means going to the bar. Yes. 418 00:42:01,962 --> 00:42:03,700 (Laughter) 419 00:42:03,834 --> 00:42:07,599 And you are a practitioner. And you practice the five trainings. 420 00:42:07,789 --> 00:42:09,875 Oh!, What do you do? 421 00:42:10,035 --> 00:42:13,221 You say: Okay, I'm a minority. What do I do? 422 00:42:14,865 --> 00:42:20,691 So, if you know you - If your practice is solid enough, 423 00:42:21,053 --> 00:42:25,721 and you won't be carried away by spending some time in the bar, 424 00:42:25,900 --> 00:42:31,359 or a bistro, or wherever it is, if you have confidence in your practice, 425 00:42:31,539 --> 00:42:34,823 then you can go. It's alright. 426 00:42:35,202 --> 00:42:39,362 But the big challenge is: what do you order to drink? 427 00:42:39,556 --> 00:42:41,274 (Laughter) 428 00:42:41,352 --> 00:42:44,119 This is the challenge. Okay? 429 00:42:44,268 --> 00:42:46,813 I leave that to you. 430 00:42:46,950 --> 00:42:48,641 (Laughter) 431 00:42:48,752 --> 00:42:56,222 To find ways to be a minority with the majority of your friends, or colleagues, 432 00:42:56,344 --> 00:42:59,042 or family members, 433 00:42:59,175 --> 00:43:02,306 when you share Christmas or New Year with them. 434 00:43:02,659 --> 00:43:08,572 And maybe that would be something to share in a Dharma sharing group at some point. 435 00:43:09,019 --> 00:43:14,698 How to be a minority and still take refuge in our practice? 436 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,972 But it's fine to be a minority. 437 00:43:19,149 --> 00:43:22,651 Don't feel upset, 438 00:43:22,874 --> 00:43:29,426 or feel that if I'm a minority, I can't succeed in my practice. You can. 439 00:43:30,065 --> 00:43:36,328 It is just your experience of yourself practicing 440 00:43:36,776 --> 00:43:39,974 mindful breathing and mindful walking 441 00:43:40,126 --> 00:43:45,436 that gives you the assurance that my practice is there, in me. 442 00:43:46,347 --> 00:43:49,103 And we don't have to speak, 443 00:43:49,299 --> 00:43:51,921 for example while eating. 444 00:43:52,107 --> 00:43:59,118 Suppose you are invited to join everyone, the majority group, for a lunch or dinner. 445 00:44:00,029 --> 00:44:05,727 And you say, how can I practice mindful eating? I'm a minority. 446 00:44:06,220 --> 00:44:13,867 You can. You can chew mindfully, gently, taste the food, and smile. 447 00:44:14,996 --> 00:44:19,417 But you can keep your silence for a little bit. 448 00:44:19,604 --> 00:44:22,534 And we know we are flexible in our practice. 449 00:44:22,677 --> 00:44:25,371 You may say a few words. 450 00:44:25,575 --> 00:44:30,482 But I've learned, while practicing mindful eating with a group, 451 00:44:30,601 --> 00:44:36,526 and they may not be practitioners, I've learned not to ask questions. 452 00:44:37,526 --> 00:44:41,348 That means I'm going to be talking, and then, they may want, 453 00:44:41,537 --> 00:44:45,319 Please, tell us, clarify your question. 454 00:44:45,485 --> 00:44:51,497 And then I'm caught. I'm talking more during a mindful meal with friends, 455 00:44:51,660 --> 00:44:56,873 or with people who may not know the practice so well. 456 00:45:00,165 --> 00:45:05,370 So, we know that we can live simply and happily 457 00:45:07,314 --> 00:45:11,301 with a lifestyle of a practitioner. 458 00:45:11,508 --> 00:45:16,725 And you can keep your religious tradition, if you are not Buddhist, 459 00:45:16,877 --> 00:45:19,711 you don't have to be Buddhist. 460 00:45:19,855 --> 00:45:23,982 Thay encourages everyone to keep their root tradition, 461 00:45:24,125 --> 00:45:27,704 whatever it is, you can continue. 462 00:45:27,838 --> 00:45:32,152 And just add your mindfulness practices. That's it. 463 00:45:32,331 --> 00:45:35,283 So, without being covetous. 464 00:45:35,421 --> 00:45:39,377 That means without wanting what you see other people have. 465 00:45:39,969 --> 00:45:44,021 Maybe someone has a new pair of shoes, or they are nice, 466 00:45:44,133 --> 00:45:48,976 but you know they cost 150 euros, so we let go of wanting that. 467 00:45:50,229 --> 00:45:55,845 Or a new car, or whatever that is new. 468 00:45:56,946 --> 00:45:59,056 Or old. 469 00:45:59,325 --> 00:46:06,227 So we don't covet, we are not envious. Envious of wanting what other people have. 470 00:46:07,359 --> 00:46:12,571 And then, not being carried away by the emotions of the majority. 471 00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:15,826 We take refuge in our practice. 472 00:46:16,869 --> 00:46:19,126 Okay. It continues: 473 00:46:19,283 --> 00:46:24,958 May everyone be happy and safe, and may all hearts be filled with joy. 474 00:46:29,009 --> 00:46:32,676 So we want everyone to experience joy. 475 00:46:32,818 --> 00:46:39,377 You know, we can say these words even if we don't feel the joy in our heart. 476 00:46:40,872 --> 00:46:45,269 Because as we continue to repeat these words, 477 00:46:45,624 --> 00:46:50,298 we are opening a neural pathway in our brain. 478 00:46:52,391 --> 00:46:56,589 And we are going to let joy walk down the pathway. 479 00:46:57,018 --> 00:47:01,113 We are going to let loving kindness walk down the neural pathway. 480 00:47:01,374 --> 00:47:05,228 We are going to let compassion, joy and equanimity 481 00:47:05,536 --> 00:47:12,823 walk down this new neural pathway that we are creating when we say words. 482 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,539 When we repeat them. 483 00:47:17,266 --> 00:47:22,324 So our heart and mind are in a beautiful state of awareness 484 00:47:23,915 --> 00:47:28,835 when we repeat these words and we wish to share this energy, 485 00:47:29,566 --> 00:47:36,580 our wish, our volition, with all beings. May everyone be happy and safe. 486 00:47:38,972 --> 00:47:44,754 So how can we help contribute to the happiness and safety of everyone? 487 00:47:47,536 --> 00:47:51,811 One of the practices I do to protect the safety 488 00:47:52,945 --> 00:47:55,346 of small beings. 489 00:47:55,600 --> 00:48:00,493 It doesn't have to be this big act that is going to protect the whole world. 490 00:48:00,889 --> 00:48:05,775 But of course, we do it when we are protecting Mother Earth. 491 00:48:06,334 --> 00:48:11,083 If I see a snail, something so tiny, or a slug, 492 00:48:11,422 --> 00:48:14,546 we know what the slugs are, the 'limaces', 493 00:48:14,698 --> 00:48:18,546 sometimes I see them trying to cross the road. 494 00:48:19,967 --> 00:48:22,137 And they're slow. 495 00:48:22,313 --> 00:48:24,070 (Laughter) 496 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,332 So, 497 00:48:26,589 --> 00:48:30,017 what I do? I really try to do this. 498 00:48:30,275 --> 00:48:32,852 I look for a leaf, because I - 499 00:48:33,192 --> 00:48:39,338 You know, they are cold and slimy, so I try to find a leaf or a twig. 500 00:48:39,584 --> 00:48:43,755 Or a worm. We can see worms trying to cross the road. 501 00:48:44,414 --> 00:48:47,366 I pick them up with my hand, no problem, 502 00:48:47,559 --> 00:48:51,405 but I pick them up and I take them to the other side. 503 00:48:52,077 --> 00:48:54,332 To the other shore. 504 00:48:54,509 --> 00:48:56,204 (Laughter) 505 00:48:56,379 --> 00:48:58,472 Shore of non suffering. 506 00:48:58,688 --> 00:49:02,020 The shore of the grass is greener on the other side. 507 00:49:02,170 --> 00:49:07,258 They usually try to go to the other side of the road where there is grass. 508 00:49:07,972 --> 00:49:12,741 And when I see them, they're walking slowly on the pavement. 509 00:49:13,044 --> 00:49:17,307 So I pick up the snails, the slugs, and the worms. 510 00:49:17,519 --> 00:49:20,610 And take them to the other side. 511 00:49:21,163 --> 00:49:25,909 That is helping something be safe. And happy. 512 00:49:28,427 --> 00:49:33,640 We know when we live in the present moment we have many opportunities 513 00:49:33,925 --> 00:49:37,115 to see what is really there. 514 00:49:37,282 --> 00:49:42,312 We've let go of the past, where maybe there wasn't too much happiness, 515 00:49:42,963 --> 00:49:47,084 and we come back to what is in front of us, 516 00:49:47,286 --> 00:49:51,558 what is so beautiful. We have the autumn leaves. 517 00:49:52,174 --> 00:49:55,844 This morning there was the beautiful fog, 518 00:49:56,196 --> 00:49:58,329 when we came from. 519 00:49:58,490 --> 00:50:01,875 There was mist and everything was so soft. 520 00:50:02,837 --> 00:50:05,696 There was greatness and softness, 521 00:50:06,056 --> 00:50:09,601 and the mist was very beautiful. 522 00:50:10,262 --> 00:50:16,160 So it brings a lot of happiness when we are able to simply be there. 523 00:50:17,381 --> 00:50:20,176 To be there in the present moment. 524 00:50:20,381 --> 00:50:26,388 And for that, we let go of our thinking. I've discovered that helps a lot 525 00:50:26,756 --> 00:50:31,847 to not think. Instead of thinking, I breathe in and out. 526 00:50:33,710 --> 00:50:38,285 When I notice a thought arising, I think: Oh! A thought is there. 527 00:50:38,477 --> 00:50:42,706 Hello, my thought. Hello, my worry about the future. 528 00:50:44,048 --> 00:50:50,009 Hello, my regret about the past. Because all of this comes up naturally. 529 00:50:50,716 --> 00:50:58,564 The store consciousness continually sends these messengers up to our mind. 530 00:50:59,255 --> 00:51:02,465 These little messengers from the past 531 00:51:02,933 --> 00:51:06,204 if something waters that seed. 532 00:51:06,370 --> 00:51:09,622 The store consciousness, the deepest level, alaya, 533 00:51:09,799 --> 00:51:14,595 will always let a seed manifest if we've watered it. 534 00:51:15,659 --> 00:51:19,959 So, to help protect us, to be happy and safe, 535 00:51:20,623 --> 00:51:27,748 we can be aware of what kind of seeds in my environment are being watered 536 00:51:30,134 --> 00:51:32,778 by what people say, 537 00:51:32,923 --> 00:51:38,235 what I listen to, what I hear, what I see, okay? 538 00:51:39,158 --> 00:51:45,667 So to be happy, I really enjoy the practice of living in the present moment. 539 00:51:46,030 --> 00:51:48,921 I see the beautiful orchid. 540 00:51:49,097 --> 00:51:52,340 The orchid is there, just being an orchid. 541 00:51:53,117 --> 00:51:58,801 He or she doesn't have to do anything else but be, be present. 542 00:51:59,140 --> 00:52:02,550 And the orchid is there for all of us. 543 00:52:02,774 --> 00:52:07,011 So life is available for all of us. 544 00:52:09,419 --> 00:52:14,206 Thay would quote André Gide, the French writer, 545 00:52:14,403 --> 00:52:19,602 who said that God is available 24 hours a day. 546 00:52:20,927 --> 00:52:25,357 The question is, are we available to God? 547 00:52:27,082 --> 00:52:31,976 And Thay would then say: "Life is available to us. 548 00:52:32,136 --> 00:52:35,240 The beauties, the wonders. 549 00:52:40,264 --> 00:52:47,861 The happiness is available to us 24 hours a day. But are we available to life?" 550 00:52:49,664 --> 00:52:57,296 And Thay would often begin his talks by saying: "Breathing in, I know I'm alive. 551 00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:04,525 Breathing out, I smile to life in me and around me." 552 00:53:06,086 --> 00:53:12,541 So our practice can be, let us smile to life in us and around us. 553 00:53:13,841 --> 00:53:18,891 Life is all forms of life. All forms of life. 554 00:53:20,851 --> 00:53:24,883 One of the practices I love to do to be happy, 555 00:53:27,951 --> 00:53:32,588 to water my seeds of happiness and feel at peace, 556 00:53:33,034 --> 00:53:37,119 is whenever I come to Upper Hamlet, if time permits, 557 00:53:37,279 --> 00:53:41,514 I enjoy walking around the lotus pond you have here. 558 00:53:41,743 --> 00:53:45,535 It's so beautiful in all seasons. 559 00:53:45,883 --> 00:53:47,811 And, 560 00:53:48,423 --> 00:53:51,916 I love to look in the water and see the fish. 561 00:53:52,133 --> 00:53:54,383 There are fish there. 562 00:53:54,707 --> 00:53:58,681 Gold fish you call them? Carp? Carp. 563 00:54:01,471 --> 00:54:04,040 They travel together, they are a sangha. 564 00:54:04,885 --> 00:54:09,097 You usually don't see one alone. They're together. 565 00:54:09,650 --> 00:54:13,479 There is a nice history of the fish in that pond. 566 00:54:13,939 --> 00:54:17,047 There was a time when after breakfast 567 00:54:17,456 --> 00:54:21,245 the residents here 568 00:54:21,701 --> 00:54:25,685 would give them some of the bread. 569 00:54:26,637 --> 00:54:30,435 So there was a time when we would see pieces of bread floating 570 00:54:30,787 --> 00:54:34,121 everywhere in the pond. But that stopped. 571 00:54:35,042 --> 00:54:41,026 And I enjoy looking how the fish grow, you know? They grow, and I wondered, 572 00:54:41,165 --> 00:54:45,744 how do they grow? What is their nutriment? What is feeding them? 573 00:54:46,067 --> 00:54:48,875 But apparently they don't need much to eat. 574 00:54:52,595 --> 00:54:57,138 So we want all beings, their hearts to be filled with joy. 575 00:54:57,303 --> 00:54:59,662 And we send out this energy. 576 00:54:59,843 --> 00:55:04,976 May you be happy and safe, and may your heart be filled with joy. 577 00:55:06,783 --> 00:55:11,362 It continues: May all beings live in security and in peace. 578 00:55:13,503 --> 00:55:16,480 So we want this for everybody. 579 00:55:16,637 --> 00:55:22,485 We want our children to experience security and peace in society. 580 00:55:23,121 --> 00:55:27,269 Of course, at home, and at school. 581 00:55:27,946 --> 00:55:30,518 We want our sanghas, 582 00:55:31,644 --> 00:55:34,150 our family, our friends. 583 00:55:34,379 --> 00:55:38,314 So we discover with our practice of being peaceful, 584 00:55:39,066 --> 00:55:43,381 and knowing how to transform our strong emotions 585 00:55:43,922 --> 00:55:46,825 into peace and happiness 586 00:55:47,021 --> 00:55:53,039 we can contribute to the security and peace of all beings. 587 00:55:56,588 --> 00:56:00,923 We want to contribute to the peace and happiness of Mother Earth, 588 00:56:01,207 --> 00:56:07,156 because we know that Mother Earth is in us, all the elements 589 00:56:08,352 --> 00:56:12,340 that are in the food we eat, that's Mother Earth. 590 00:56:13,603 --> 00:56:19,628 And we are in Mother Earth, of course. We're living on Mother Earth. 591 00:56:19,784 --> 00:56:23,082 So there is a real, deep connection that we have, 592 00:56:23,249 --> 00:56:26,746 an interbeing connection with Mother Earth. 593 00:56:27,265 --> 00:56:30,870 And we want to live in security and in peace, 594 00:56:31,359 --> 00:56:34,898 and provide this for Mother Earth. 595 00:56:35,193 --> 00:56:42,309 Beings who are frail or strong, tall or short, big or small, visible or invisible, 596 00:56:42,592 --> 00:56:47,676 near or faraway, already born, or yet to be born. 597 00:56:48,613 --> 00:56:53,104 May all of them dwell in perfect tranquility. 598 00:56:53,795 --> 00:56:57,510 Nothing is left out. That's everything. 599 00:56:57,709 --> 00:57:00,919 All forms of life, everywhere. 600 00:57:01,169 --> 00:57:09,437 Whether they're frail, poor health, good health, tall, short, big, tiny, 601 00:57:10,441 --> 00:57:13,561 visible, we can see them, or we can't see them, 602 00:57:13,759 --> 00:57:17,216 like the 'aoûtats' in August, if you have been here. 603 00:57:17,765 --> 00:57:20,222 Do we know about these little 604 00:57:21,927 --> 00:57:26,157 harvest mites, in other countries their live in the grass, 605 00:57:26,370 --> 00:57:30,393 and when it's hot, they love us. They bite. 606 00:57:30,717 --> 00:57:32,891 And then we itch. 607 00:57:33,003 --> 00:57:35,902 Okay, whether we can see them, or can't see them, 608 00:57:36,106 --> 00:57:41,691 like the flu virus. Has it arrived yet? We can't see it, but we see the effects. 609 00:57:41,871 --> 00:57:47,130 Visible or not visible, near or faraway, 610 00:57:50,173 --> 00:57:55,581 already born or yet to be born. They are on their way to manifesting. 611 00:57:56,365 --> 00:58:02,066 May everyone dwell in perfect tranquility. 612 00:58:02,969 --> 00:58:06,279 That means tranquility to be 613 00:58:07,497 --> 00:58:11,622 free of fear, anxiety, worry, 614 00:58:13,335 --> 00:58:17,062 related to being discriminated against. 615 00:58:17,229 --> 00:58:20,562 That is, there is discrimination in the world, 616 00:58:20,774 --> 00:58:26,684 discriminated against based on their size, or other characteristics, 617 00:58:27,271 --> 00:58:33,013 such as race, nationality, religion, or gender. 618 00:58:34,381 --> 00:58:39,978 Discrimination can take many forms and expressions. 619 00:58:41,703 --> 00:58:46,030 So, we are bodhisattvas, awakened beings. 620 00:58:46,519 --> 00:58:50,233 We want to wish everyone well-being. 621 00:58:51,878 --> 00:58:54,099 No harm. 622 00:58:54,291 --> 00:58:59,108 And we send this energy of love and well-being to everyone, 623 00:58:59,388 --> 00:59:07,769 near or far, already born, visible, not visible, the whole cosmos. 624 00:59:09,924 --> 00:59:12,955 I want to mention something that - 625 00:59:13,832 --> 00:59:17,020 There are bodhisattvas everywhere now. 626 00:59:17,568 --> 00:59:20,458 So, it's very encouraging. 627 00:59:21,537 --> 00:59:25,624 We know there have been many refugees worldwide. 628 00:59:25,806 --> 00:59:29,739 And the United Nation's High Commission on Refugees 629 00:59:29,876 --> 00:59:38,550 has published the figures that now there are 68.5 million people around the world 630 00:59:38,951 --> 00:59:41,363 who are refugees. 631 00:59:42,007 --> 00:59:47,678 25.4 million have had to settle in different countries. 632 00:59:48,782 --> 00:59:52,887 And more than half of them are now under 18. 633 00:59:54,857 --> 01:00:01,621 And we've learned that the United Nation's High Commission on Refugees has a staff 634 01:00:02,876 --> 01:00:10,202 of 11,517 people, and I've called them bodhisattvas. 635 01:00:10,788 --> 01:00:16,349 But they are out there, helping. They are rescue at sea, 636 01:00:16,950 --> 01:00:20,320 in boats out there rescuing people. 637 01:00:20,532 --> 01:00:24,054 We know during the War in Vietnam Thay and su co Chan Khong, 638 01:00:24,262 --> 01:00:28,155 perhaps were the first to start the rescue at sea, 639 01:00:29,439 --> 01:00:34,925 hiring big boats to go out at sea and save the refugees. 640 01:00:35,862 --> 01:00:39,785 So this bodhisattva practice continues. 641 01:00:40,510 --> 01:00:45,861 And you know, some of these bodhisattvas, we have the honor to meet at Plum Village. 642 01:00:47,659 --> 01:00:52,867 You may be those bodhisattvas already. You are there, you are bodhisattvas. 643 01:00:53,144 --> 01:00:55,769 It's just we don't know it. 644 01:00:56,085 --> 01:01:01,934 But during the summer retreat, we had the honor of meeting some of them. 645 01:01:02,490 --> 01:01:07,274 They are ordinary human beings, but, they have a great heart. 646 01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:14,591 There was one retreatant, she and her family adopted 647 01:01:16,294 --> 01:01:21,619 a family of four refugees from a war torn country, 648 01:01:21,836 --> 01:01:26,163 from a war devastated country. The family fled 649 01:01:26,434 --> 01:01:29,915 and she and her husband and family adopted them. 650 01:01:30,879 --> 01:01:36,609 And, believe it or not, this summer two dogs arrived at New Hamlet. 651 01:01:37,844 --> 01:01:42,524 It seems to be in the summer, the cats, the dogs, they arrive. 652 01:01:42,933 --> 01:01:44,778 So, 653 01:01:45,210 --> 01:01:49,148 two dogs were abandoned, they arrived to the New Hamlet 654 01:01:49,298 --> 01:01:53,377 and you know what? She drove home with one of these dogs, 655 01:01:53,617 --> 01:01:56,381 and her daughter, in a small car. 656 01:01:56,536 --> 01:01:58,405 That's - 657 01:01:58,609 --> 01:02:01,675 That's metta. That's this love. 658 01:02:03,139 --> 01:02:06,991 We learned there is a water company, a mineral water company, 659 01:02:07,196 --> 01:02:11,890 in the Auvergne region of France. 660 01:02:13,507 --> 01:02:19,174 And they have been in partnership with UNESCO for more than 12 years 661 01:02:19,882 --> 01:02:25,901 to make clean, drinkable water available to the children and families in Africa. 662 01:02:26,538 --> 01:02:30,535 And the drought ridden areas of Africa. 663 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:36,797 And they say, for every 1 liter of their water that we buy, 664 01:02:37,230 --> 01:02:44,328 they provide 10 liters of fresh drinkable water in Africa. 665 01:02:45,609 --> 01:02:47,949 So this is metta. 666 01:02:48,143 --> 01:02:52,236 Making it possible for everyone to be happy and safe, 667 01:02:52,449 --> 01:02:55,250 and to protect their lives. 668 01:02:57,118 --> 01:03:02,626 Just as a mother loves and protects her only child at the risk of her own life, 669 01:03:02,986 --> 01:03:11,222 let us cultivate boundless love to offer to all living beings in the entire cosmos. 670 01:03:14,456 --> 01:03:20,991 We learn from the neuroscientists there is a region in the brain 671 01:03:21,668 --> 01:03:25,767 where compassion is located, so to speak. 672 01:03:27,473 --> 01:03:30,979 And this area of the brain 673 01:03:31,675 --> 01:03:35,206 that they identified as compassion 674 01:03:35,428 --> 01:03:40,234 is very, very close to the center for maternal love. 675 01:03:41,264 --> 01:03:43,953 That's interesting. 676 01:03:44,232 --> 01:03:49,578 So just as a mother will protect her only child, this is the love 677 01:03:50,423 --> 01:03:55,311 that can be instinctual perhaps. 678 01:03:55,478 --> 01:04:00,266 I've seen pictures of lionesses protecting their cubs, 679 01:04:01,548 --> 01:04:06,222 mother dogs protecting their puppies, et cetera. 680 01:04:07,981 --> 01:04:11,070 And in my own personal experience, 681 01:04:11,516 --> 01:04:17,248 in listening to consultations, when retreatants want to share 682 01:04:17,932 --> 01:04:22,238 about something in their life, how to practice with it, 683 01:04:23,474 --> 01:04:27,940 I have listened to many mothers and also fathers. 684 01:04:29,068 --> 01:04:34,996 And I've learned that they really love their daughters and their sons. 685 01:04:35,327 --> 01:04:38,068 There is really love there. 686 01:04:38,279 --> 01:04:41,762 No matter what age their children are, 687 01:04:42,378 --> 01:04:47,210 or no matter what their children are up to or have done, 688 01:04:48,046 --> 01:04:52,544 or if their children haven't talked to them for 5 years, 10 years, whatever. 689 01:04:53,572 --> 01:04:58,529 There can be suffering, of course, but I've had heard 690 01:04:59,483 --> 01:05:05,353 and learned there is love, there, there is this maternal and paternal love. 691 01:05:06,355 --> 01:05:09,232 But the difficulty is 692 01:05:09,477 --> 01:05:13,458 that sometimes the parents' suffering is just too great. 693 01:05:13,611 --> 01:05:19,409 The mother's suffering has just been too great over a long period of time, 694 01:05:19,709 --> 01:05:23,443 or she received this suffering from her parents, 695 01:05:23,620 --> 01:05:27,641 an ancestor's suffering has been transmitted. 696 01:05:27,975 --> 01:05:32,774 So that is why they haven't learned how to express their love. 697 01:05:34,503 --> 01:05:38,032 And their sons and daughters may believe 698 01:05:38,218 --> 01:05:42,292 that their mother doesn't love them, or their father doesn't love them. 699 01:05:42,979 --> 01:05:46,033 But it's my belief 700 01:05:46,394 --> 01:05:49,714 the parental love is there. 701 01:05:50,242 --> 01:05:58,101 And that deep down inside of us we can learn to forgive, if necessary, 702 01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:02,690 and love our parents when we understand and learn more. 703 01:06:07,818 --> 01:06:12,639 So this love, this boundless love is developing now 704 01:06:13,372 --> 01:06:15,829 to the point where the Buddha said: 705 01:06:15,984 --> 01:06:20,423 Let our boundless love pervade this whole universe, 706 01:06:21,517 --> 01:06:27,119 in all directions, above, below, and across. 707 01:06:27,586 --> 01:06:30,393 In the ten directions. 708 01:06:30,562 --> 01:06:33,270 That is northwest, southwest, you know, 709 01:06:33,453 --> 01:06:36,720 northeast, southeast, you know that, okay. 710 01:06:37,034 --> 01:06:40,879 All the directions let this boundless love. 711 01:06:41,709 --> 01:06:48,092 We can have this thought and this intention, and this volition, 712 01:06:48,745 --> 01:06:54,986 even if it hasn't been developed yet in us. Okay? 713 01:06:55,366 --> 01:07:00,573 So, please, believe me. It's enough to say the words. 714 01:07:03,398 --> 01:07:08,469 This love is perhaps like the love that is described in the New Testament, 715 01:07:08,662 --> 01:07:11,571 the King James version. 716 01:07:11,792 --> 01:07:16,449 The love that Jesus offered and spoke of. 717 01:07:16,947 --> 01:07:22,420 When the new Testament was translated into the Greek language, 718 01:07:22,517 --> 01:07:27,242 the word used was 'agape', 'agape'. 719 01:07:27,953 --> 01:07:33,418 So this was the word used to describe this spiritual love. 720 01:07:34,212 --> 01:07:37,033 And we know there are many kinds of love. 721 01:07:37,980 --> 01:07:40,647 You have many relationships, 722 01:07:40,886 --> 01:07:45,652 and you can reflect on the nature of the love in your relationships. 723 01:07:45,816 --> 01:07:49,672 But the boundless love is like 724 01:07:49,971 --> 01:07:54,566 the love that we read about in the Bible, the 'agape', 725 01:07:54,769 --> 01:07:59,490 and in the Old Testament there is a word from the Hebrew language called 726 01:08:01,575 --> 01:08:04,865 'chesed', I don't know if I pronounce it correctly, 727 01:08:05,490 --> 01:08:08,431 c-h-e-s-e-d. 728 01:08:09,416 --> 01:08:11,234 [xesed]? 729 01:08:11,378 --> 01:08:14,636 Yes, [xesed], we have a resource here. 730 01:08:14,819 --> 01:08:20,757 Good. And that means for love, goodness and kindness, like metta. 731 01:08:21,225 --> 01:08:25,427 So this kind of love, this boundless love is found 732 01:08:26,111 --> 01:08:33,526 in other spiritual traditions, it has its counterpart in other spiritual traditions. 733 01:08:35,373 --> 01:08:39,485 So, there are no obstacles to this love. 734 01:08:39,684 --> 01:08:44,340 Even if in our mind we have anger, and hatred arising. 735 01:08:44,546 --> 01:08:48,483 Okay, they are just mental formations. 736 01:08:48,675 --> 01:08:50,730 Don't be - 737 01:08:50,916 --> 01:08:53,548 Don't water them. 738 01:08:53,993 --> 01:08:57,088 Don't be too attached to all of this, 739 01:08:57,346 --> 01:09:01,303 these mental formations called anger, and hatred, and all that. 740 01:09:01,434 --> 01:09:04,519 They are mental formations, and they will arise. 741 01:09:04,660 --> 01:09:08,210 They are there, in the depth of our consciousness, okay. 742 01:09:08,417 --> 01:09:12,430 They arise when conditions are favorable. 743 01:09:12,606 --> 01:09:15,609 And then, we let them go back. 744 01:09:15,793 --> 01:09:21,385 But now we want to help arise this metta, this boundless love. 745 01:09:22,835 --> 01:09:27,740 So what is this boundless love? How can we help it arise? 746 01:09:29,901 --> 01:09:33,870 He said there are no obstacles, really. 747 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,488 The first thing we want to do is to convince our mind 748 01:09:37,793 --> 01:09:40,492 that there is boundless love. 749 01:09:40,697 --> 01:09:45,237 Because the mind consciousness sometimes says: "No, there is no love in the world. 750 01:09:45,424 --> 01:09:48,631 Read the news, look at all of that. No love." 751 01:09:48,786 --> 01:09:52,753 We want to convince our mind. Yes, there is love. 752 01:09:52,914 --> 01:09:57,393 All right. So, as I've hinted to so far, 753 01:09:57,549 --> 01:10:02,072 there is this boundless love and what will help is 754 01:10:02,562 --> 01:10:05,999 reciting the sutra. 755 01:10:07,700 --> 01:10:11,670 There is a poem Thay wrote called 'Alone Again'. 756 01:10:11,786 --> 01:10:14,797 It's a beautiful poem. 757 01:10:14,951 --> 01:10:20,818 Some of the words towards the end are: "Knowing the immortality of love, 758 01:10:21,033 --> 01:10:24,927 those who love you will behold you, 759 01:10:25,116 --> 01:10:31,831 will continue to behold you across ten thousand worlds of birth and dying." 760 01:10:32,464 --> 01:10:38,969 Bodhisattvas never abandon anyone. We keep this love in our heart 761 01:10:39,140 --> 01:10:42,777 no matter what is happening. 762 01:10:42,961 --> 01:10:47,884 No matter what we see, or what we hear. 763 01:10:48,365 --> 01:10:52,120 We cultivate this love, the immortality of love. 764 01:10:54,550 --> 01:10:58,528 You know, people loving, practicing love, 765 01:10:58,914 --> 01:11:03,057 we are impermanent. People come and go, right? 766 01:11:03,521 --> 01:11:07,950 But love has continued. It continues to manifest. 767 01:11:08,888 --> 01:11:11,661 People playing the guitar, 768 01:11:11,805 --> 01:11:15,472 their hands come and go. Different hands play the guitar. 769 01:11:15,598 --> 01:11:18,554 But guitars stay. 770 01:11:18,709 --> 01:11:21,465 So love stays. 771 01:11:22,605 --> 01:11:25,287 People breathe in and out. 772 01:11:25,438 --> 01:11:29,102 The lungs come and go. They are different lungs, right? 773 01:11:29,241 --> 01:11:33,926 But breath has continued. Mindful breathing has continued. 774 01:11:34,090 --> 01:11:38,766 Mindful walking has continued. The feet change, 775 01:11:38,883 --> 01:11:44,486 people doing the mindful walking, their feet change, right? 776 01:11:45,028 --> 01:11:49,423 But mindful walking has continued. 777 01:11:51,828 --> 01:11:58,268 So: "Living in beauty and realizing Perfect Understanding, 778 01:11:58,446 --> 01:12:04,278 those who practice boundless love will certainly transcend birth and death." 779 01:12:05,256 --> 01:12:09,701 Living in beauty and realizing Perfect Understanding. 780 01:12:09,926 --> 01:12:12,660 How can we live in beauty? 781 01:12:12,821 --> 01:12:17,773 There is a Native American song, Now I Walk in Beauty. 782 01:12:17,984 --> 01:12:21,989 Beauty is before me, beauty is above me, 783 01:12:22,334 --> 01:12:26,576 beauty is around me, above and below me. 784 01:12:26,808 --> 01:12:30,041 So there is beauty in the ten directions. 785 01:12:30,204 --> 01:12:36,423 We can live in beauty, as I mentioned, by living in the present moment. 786 01:12:37,489 --> 01:12:40,531 And the Perfect Understanding. 787 01:12:40,701 --> 01:12:46,184 To understand, we want to be able to stop for a minute, 788 01:12:46,572 --> 01:12:51,472 to practice stopping with each step. It's vipassana, okay? 789 01:12:51,654 --> 01:12:54,817 In the southern tradition we stop, 790 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:58,364 come back to ourselves with mindful breathing, 791 01:12:58,485 --> 01:13:01,247 and then, we look deeply. 792 01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:04,612 And this is the understanding that will come 793 01:13:04,753 --> 01:13:09,023 when we have mindfulness, concentration, and then 794 01:13:09,186 --> 01:13:12,397 that will lead to insight. 795 01:13:12,552 --> 01:13:17,848 So let us practice now the first vipassana, the stopping. 796 01:13:18,094 --> 01:13:21,839 We will stop for a minute and breathe. 797 01:13:24,137 --> 01:13:27,368 And we will hear a sound of the bell. 798 01:13:27,495 --> 01:13:33,016 The bell is always this voice inviting us to come back to ourselves. 799 01:13:33,718 --> 01:13:39,746 (Bell) 800 01:13:50,812 --> 01:13:53,355 So - 801 01:13:55,179 --> 01:13:59,458 And now we are ready for the shorter version of this sutra. 802 01:13:59,615 --> 01:14:04,258 It has been written on the board. It is the metta meditation. 803 01:14:04,416 --> 01:14:10,479 The monks practiced the longer sutra, every single sentence of that sutra, 804 01:14:10,641 --> 01:14:13,429 and then it was shortened. 805 01:14:13,716 --> 01:14:18,020 The shortened version actually was first 806 01:14:19,424 --> 01:14:23,912 created by Buddhaghosa. He was 807 01:14:27,284 --> 01:14:32,319 a commentator, he was a monk who lived in the 5th century in Sri Lanka, 808 01:14:33,153 --> 01:14:36,679 more that 1,500 years ago. 809 01:14:36,879 --> 01:14:42,274 He was a scholar who wrote commentaries on the Buddhist teachings. 810 01:14:42,815 --> 01:14:49,625 He wrote a book called the Visuddhimagga, which is The Path of Purification. 811 01:14:50,161 --> 01:14:55,840 And it is the most important manual of Buddhist meditation 812 01:14:56,397 --> 01:15:00,938 for the Theravada school of Buddhism. 813 01:15:01,324 --> 01:15:06,199 That is the Buddhism that is practiced in the southeast Asian countries 814 01:15:06,424 --> 01:15:09,090 that I mentioned. 815 01:15:09,265 --> 01:15:12,019 Buddhaghosa, 816 01:15:12,828 --> 01:15:19,391 he gave this teaching on the four Brahmaviharas, 817 01:15:19,770 --> 01:15:23,308 the four unlimited minds. 818 01:15:23,497 --> 01:15:28,197 And it's in the part two in the section on concentration, 819 01:15:28,343 --> 01:15:31,458 because it helps us concentrate. 820 01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:37,309 And Thay has based this metta meditation that we have written for you, 821 01:15:37,521 --> 01:15:40,151 it's Thay's version 822 01:15:40,298 --> 01:15:45,101 of the meditation that was offered by the Buddhaghosa 823 01:15:45,393 --> 01:15:49,002 on the four unlimited minds, 824 01:15:49,154 --> 01:15:56,957 which are loving kindness, as I mentioned, compassion, equanimity - Excuse me, 825 01:15:57,359 --> 01:16:03,841 loving kindness, compassion, joy, sympathetic joy, and equanimity. 826 01:16:05,197 --> 01:16:09,887 We use all four of these expressions of love 827 01:16:10,045 --> 01:16:14,435 when we practice this meditation. 828 01:16:14,986 --> 01:16:18,943 I want to share from my personal experience 829 01:16:19,171 --> 01:16:22,992 why I offer this meditation to you. 830 01:16:23,174 --> 01:16:27,534 Because it has been a practice I do every morning 831 01:16:27,856 --> 01:16:30,943 for about a year and a half. 832 01:16:31,073 --> 01:16:34,534 And I share this very often. 833 01:16:34,725 --> 01:16:40,188 Because I've experienced that I had a lot to transform. 834 01:16:40,515 --> 01:16:48,022 With seeds of anger, ill-will, or irritation, getting upset easily, 835 01:16:48,328 --> 01:16:51,007 all of that. 836 01:16:51,181 --> 01:16:55,069 Maybe you have some of that too. I don't know. 837 01:16:55,257 --> 01:16:57,805 But I decided, 838 01:16:57,991 --> 01:17:03,182 after hearing I think our lay friends and some monastics say 839 01:17:04,009 --> 01:17:08,522 that first of all they begin by reading this sutra every morning. 840 01:17:08,656 --> 01:17:12,506 So I started doing that. I woke up a little bit earlier, 841 01:17:12,626 --> 01:17:17,012 I read this sutra to myself, that was very good, 842 01:17:17,144 --> 01:17:20,359 and then, I got our of bed. 843 01:17:20,493 --> 01:17:24,547 So I do this practice before getting out of bed. 844 01:17:24,723 --> 01:17:27,647 It's my first action. 845 01:17:27,832 --> 01:17:30,798 My first thoughts of the day. 846 01:17:30,942 --> 01:17:33,110 For me, 847 01:17:33,269 --> 01:17:37,094 the firsts moments of every day are so important. 848 01:17:37,228 --> 01:17:39,762 Before I brush my teeth. 849 01:17:39,909 --> 01:17:42,800 Because usually I have to wait. 850 01:17:42,886 --> 01:17:46,073 Many people share the bathroom, so we wait. 851 01:17:46,203 --> 01:17:49,613 I start my practice before that. 852 01:17:49,835 --> 01:17:54,198 Sit up in bed, I started by reading this sutra. 853 01:17:54,543 --> 01:17:58,456 And then I noticed, how can I help my mind? 854 01:17:58,552 --> 01:18:01,974 Because reading the sutra was helpful. 855 01:18:02,153 --> 01:18:05,102 So, then I decided to try 856 01:18:05,303 --> 01:18:11,218 this guided meditation: May I be happy, may I be peaceful. 857 01:18:11,795 --> 01:18:18,336 Very good. I was sending this good energy to myself before starting the day. 858 01:18:18,868 --> 01:18:22,371 That was very nice. I was giving myself 859 01:18:24,300 --> 01:18:30,093 a good start before the mental formations were watered. 860 01:18:32,347 --> 01:18:37,045 So that unwholesome mental formations would manifest. 861 01:18:37,311 --> 01:18:41,893 So I would start by watering the good mental formations, 862 01:18:42,090 --> 01:18:45,157 bringing up the wholesome thoughts. 863 01:18:45,330 --> 01:18:48,659 And then I noticed that sometimes in the sangha 864 01:18:48,787 --> 01:18:51,722 there were situations where there was 865 01:18:52,417 --> 01:18:57,786 disharmony, or two people were having difficulty in their relationship. 866 01:18:58,257 --> 01:19:02,138 Or another sister wasn't happy with me. 867 01:19:02,337 --> 01:19:07,475 And I knew by the way she acted, 868 01:19:07,650 --> 01:19:12,347 she would turn away when she saw me, she would run away. 869 01:19:12,816 --> 01:19:17,909 And I knew that doing Beginning Anew was not the right time. 870 01:19:18,072 --> 01:19:25,427 Because words were not acceptable, were not possible. 871 01:19:25,641 --> 01:19:29,369 Sometimes people's suffering is so great, 872 01:19:29,525 --> 01:19:33,544 that whatever you say can water their suffering. 873 01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:37,481 You have the intention of helping, 874 01:19:37,701 --> 01:19:41,432 and you speak lovingly and with good words. 875 01:19:41,569 --> 01:19:49,407 However, how people receive is based on how they perceive. Okay? 876 01:19:50,406 --> 01:19:55,560 How they hear what you say is based on their perception. 877 01:19:56,037 --> 01:19:59,588 And what determines our perception? 878 01:20:00,127 --> 01:20:02,887 Past experiences. 879 01:20:03,064 --> 01:20:06,295 So we have past experiences, 880 01:20:06,911 --> 01:20:10,391 with the tone of voice people have used, 881 01:20:10,574 --> 01:20:13,360 or what words they have used. 882 01:20:13,572 --> 01:20:18,199 And all of these past experiences are in store consciousness. 883 01:20:18,973 --> 01:20:21,759 They are sleeping. 884 01:20:21,909 --> 01:20:29,082 So even if approach someone who runs away, and I say with kind words and gentle voice, 885 01:20:29,187 --> 01:20:32,361 she may hear it differently. 886 01:20:32,505 --> 01:20:37,562 Because in her past, people spoke with a loud voice and angrily. 887 01:20:38,654 --> 01:20:42,892 So I cannot control how people perceive. 888 01:20:43,677 --> 01:20:50,789 I have my intention, my motivation, but how people will perceive it, 889 01:20:51,157 --> 01:20:53,699 I don't know. 890 01:20:53,812 --> 01:20:56,135 But I observe. 891 01:20:56,310 --> 01:21:00,969 And if I see that words are not the best thing at this moment, 892 01:21:01,170 --> 01:21:05,915 what I started to do is this meditation. 893 01:21:06,130 --> 01:21:10,230 In the morning I would say, I would have this person, 894 01:21:10,820 --> 01:21:14,268 I would see her, whatever. 895 01:21:14,422 --> 01:21:18,270 You can do this for family members, for roommates, 896 01:21:19,474 --> 01:21:22,490 for politicians. 897 01:21:22,753 --> 01:21:25,104 Anyone. 898 01:21:25,323 --> 01:21:28,331 You think of this person, you have this person. 899 01:21:28,508 --> 01:21:33,161 And then you send this energy. So there is a part of this meditation that says: 900 01:21:33,271 --> 01:21:37,571 May you be happy, may you be peaceful. 901 01:21:37,783 --> 01:21:41,246 And you say every single line. 902 01:21:41,365 --> 01:21:45,219 May you be safe and free from accidents. 903 01:21:45,369 --> 01:21:51,231 May you be free from your anger, your fear, your anxiety. 904 01:21:51,398 --> 01:21:56,818 And you can specify whatever it is you wish for this person 905 01:21:57,062 --> 01:22:00,204 that they can transform. 906 01:22:00,375 --> 01:22:05,608 May you learn to look at yourself with the eyes of understanding and love. 907 01:22:05,754 --> 01:22:11,567 Very often we don't know how to look at ourselves with understanding and love. 908 01:22:11,706 --> 01:22:14,992 So we send this wish for this person: 909 01:22:15,170 --> 01:22:21,735 May you be able to begin to look at yourself with understanding and compassion. 910 01:22:22,673 --> 01:22:28,901 May you be able to look at whatever is causing your suffering, 911 01:22:29,109 --> 01:22:34,439 begin to look at it. Because sometimes we can't. It's too scary. 912 01:22:34,818 --> 01:22:38,793 We can say: When the time is right for you, 913 01:22:38,923 --> 01:22:44,644 may you begin to look at your source of what makes you upset. 914 01:22:45,323 --> 01:22:48,259 And then we send the wish: 915 01:22:48,429 --> 01:22:54,751 May you learn how to recognize what will bring you happiness and joy. 916 01:22:57,197 --> 01:23:01,161 And may you learn how to nourish 917 01:23:02,232 --> 01:23:06,633 and be in contact with what brings you happiness and joy. 918 01:23:07,814 --> 01:23:12,577 When you are able to do this, then you may continue to live 919 01:23:12,762 --> 01:23:16,713 with freshness, solidity and freedom. 920 01:23:16,901 --> 01:23:21,646 You feel fresh, more fresh, when you wake up. 921 01:23:22,431 --> 01:23:25,014 You have more solidity, 922 01:23:25,187 --> 01:23:31,468 in terms of doing your practice and knowing the practice is helping. 923 01:23:31,815 --> 01:23:37,070 And you are more free from these moments of suffering. 924 01:23:38,007 --> 01:23:42,382 So I started to do this, with a particular situation, 925 01:23:42,550 --> 01:23:47,510 and I continued even though the present moment was difficult. 926 01:23:47,827 --> 01:23:53,944 I did not go out of my way to have contact, I respected. 927 01:23:54,193 --> 01:23:57,539 I gave distance and space. 928 01:23:57,698 --> 01:24:03,179 And, you know? After 21 days, one day she came up to me, and she said: 929 01:24:03,398 --> 01:24:05,951 "Good morning." 930 01:24:06,068 --> 01:24:10,455 So it has proven to be effective. 931 01:24:10,585 --> 01:24:14,377 There was this one situation that was really - 932 01:24:14,921 --> 01:24:20,457 Brought me a lot of confirmation that the practice helps. 933 01:24:21,301 --> 01:24:25,794 And I've seen it how it helps in general. 934 01:24:26,068 --> 01:24:29,490 So, if you don't know what to do, 935 01:24:29,871 --> 01:24:35,371 and really there is nothing to be done for the moment in a situation, 936 01:24:35,746 --> 01:24:41,072 there is something you can do. There is this practice of metta meditation. 937 01:24:45,341 --> 01:24:50,540 So it's just offered as a possibility. You don't have to. 938 01:24:51,292 --> 01:24:58,777 You can take it step by step or read just one sentence of the sutra. 939 01:24:59,093 --> 01:25:02,198 You can choose what sentence. 940 01:25:02,354 --> 01:25:05,990 Or you don't read the sutra at all, you don't have to. 941 01:25:06,139 --> 01:25:10,493 And if you want to choose one sentence 942 01:25:10,742 --> 01:25:13,241 from the meditation, 943 01:25:13,805 --> 01:25:16,306 that's possible. 944 01:25:16,498 --> 01:25:19,778 Remember we don't have to do everything all at once. 945 01:25:19,993 --> 01:25:22,891 Like the 5 mindfulness trainings. 946 01:25:23,059 --> 01:25:26,323 We don't have to practice everything all at once. 947 01:25:26,515 --> 01:25:30,612 We can choose that which resonates in us. 948 01:25:32,279 --> 01:25:38,987 And we remember that this sutra and this metta meditation of universal love, 949 01:25:38,987 --> 01:25:41,900 sending our love everywhere, 950 01:25:42,015 --> 01:25:46,269 made it possible for the monks to go back to the forest 951 01:25:46,429 --> 01:25:50,128 and continue their practice for three months. 952 01:25:50,532 --> 01:25:54,393 It calmed that negative energy. 953 01:25:55,671 --> 01:26:02,686 We can offer this metta meditation in many situations. 954 01:26:02,941 --> 01:26:06,674 Any difficult relationship. 955 01:26:06,984 --> 01:26:10,751 It doesn't have to be that you are in a difficult relationship. 956 01:26:10,872 --> 01:26:15,538 It can be our parents, your brothers and sisters, whatever. 957 01:26:15,685 --> 01:26:19,313 It's possible. People who are ill. 958 01:26:23,336 --> 01:26:25,570 It is possible to apply this. 959 01:26:25,896 --> 01:26:30,933 I mentioned also a metta practice of the four mantras of love 960 01:26:31,091 --> 01:26:34,834 that Thay has created. You may also know these. 961 01:26:35,227 --> 01:26:39,986 We say: I am here for you. You say that to someone. 962 01:26:40,636 --> 01:26:44,412 And that is your bringing happiness to the other. 963 01:26:44,594 --> 01:26:48,454 That is the first, that's loving kindness. 964 01:26:48,614 --> 01:26:51,367 You say this to someone who likes you. 965 01:26:51,550 --> 01:26:55,700 You doesn't say it to someone who doesn't like you. They won't be happy. 966 01:26:55,849 --> 01:27:00,866 Someone that you love, it's the mantra of love, four love mantras. Okay. 967 01:27:02,184 --> 01:27:07,260 Second one: I know you are there and I am happy. Okay? 968 01:27:10,146 --> 01:27:14,656 So this is the joy, and the loving kindness. 969 01:27:14,900 --> 01:27:18,964 I know you are there, and I am joyful, I am happy. 970 01:27:19,158 --> 01:27:22,726 Your presence brings me joy and happiness. 971 01:27:22,878 --> 01:27:25,178 Third mantra: 972 01:27:25,357 --> 01:27:29,478 I know you suffer, and that is why I am here for you. 973 01:27:29,693 --> 01:27:32,635 So now we are going to practice compassion 974 01:27:32,764 --> 01:27:38,349 of the four unlimited minds of love, compassion. I see you are suffering. 975 01:27:38,660 --> 01:27:43,008 Compassion is wanting to relieve the suffering of others. 976 01:27:43,718 --> 01:27:47,181 You want to and you are capable. 977 01:27:47,807 --> 01:27:51,982 Loving kindness is wanting to bring happiness to others. 978 01:27:52,141 --> 01:27:55,469 You want to bring happiness, and you are capable. 979 01:27:55,645 --> 01:27:59,844 So the third mantra of love is: I know you suffer, 980 01:27:59,984 --> 01:28:03,169 that is why I am here for you. 981 01:28:03,661 --> 01:28:07,752 You have compassion, you want to relieve their suffering, 982 01:28:08,066 --> 01:28:14,427 and you offer enough of your happiness to be able to relieve their suffering. 983 01:28:14,849 --> 01:28:20,467 I can be there for you. I have enough happiness and compassion. 984 01:28:21,550 --> 01:28:26,694 I want to relieve your suffering, that is why I come to be with you, 985 01:28:26,884 --> 01:28:29,750 or I call you, or whatever. 986 01:28:31,549 --> 01:28:37,900 The fourth mantra of love is: I suffer, please help. Please, help me. 987 01:28:38,834 --> 01:28:45,372 This is when we are suffering and we need other's compassion to help us. 988 01:28:46,274 --> 01:28:52,361 But we want to ask people who like us. Okay? Alright. 989 01:28:52,772 --> 01:28:57,793 We call on others, our sangha, our friends, our loved ones. 990 01:28:58,272 --> 01:29:02,019 We let them know. I'm in a difficult situation. 991 01:29:03,230 --> 01:29:07,830 You can help me by doing the following. 992 01:29:08,796 --> 01:29:12,676 So we call on not only compassion, 993 01:29:12,841 --> 01:29:16,125 but their loving kindness. 994 01:29:17,005 --> 01:29:20,819 And their joy at being able to help us. 995 01:29:21,010 --> 01:29:26,598 So loving kindness, compassion, joy, the equanimity is 996 01:29:26,798 --> 01:29:34,140 the practice of non discrimination. Not taking sides, and including everyone. 997 01:29:34,950 --> 01:29:40,061 That's the fourth aspect of unbounded love, 998 01:29:40,675 --> 01:29:48,202 is that our heart is wide and big, it includes everyone, no discrimination. 999 01:29:49,264 --> 01:29:54,828 We don't take sides, we have a balanced attitude. 1000 01:29:55,275 --> 01:30:00,050 We have equanimity, which is balance. 1001 01:30:05,136 --> 01:30:08,391 We've heard about the beginning a new practice 1002 01:30:08,594 --> 01:30:11,552 and that is also practicing. 1003 01:30:11,732 --> 01:30:16,223 Loving kindness, bringing happiness with our words, with listening. 1004 01:30:16,508 --> 01:30:19,977 Being able to say: "I'm sorry". 1005 01:30:20,138 --> 01:30:25,573 We are practicing compassion by apologizing for mistakes, 1006 01:30:25,756 --> 01:30:30,160 so we can relieve their suffering at our mistake. 1007 01:30:30,335 --> 01:30:34,113 We have compassion enough to apologize. 1008 01:30:34,585 --> 01:30:41,698 And we share our difficulties so that gives them a possibility of understanding 1009 01:30:42,331 --> 01:30:46,203 and opening their heart of equanimity. 1010 01:30:46,315 --> 01:30:53,974 They will understand and have a better possibility of accepting our difficulty. 1011 01:30:55,167 --> 01:30:58,283 Share our suffering, our hurts, 1012 01:30:58,412 --> 01:31:01,848 so we call on their compassion for that. 1013 01:31:01,955 --> 01:31:05,482 And their understanding and equanimity. 1014 01:31:05,617 --> 01:31:09,781 So loving kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity 1015 01:31:10,277 --> 01:31:15,542 are seeds that we have, all of us. They are in the store consciousness. 1016 01:31:16,433 --> 01:31:20,627 We just want to be able to water them daily, 1017 01:31:21,142 --> 01:31:26,810 if you wish, so that they will manifest and become stronger and stronger. 1018 01:31:27,438 --> 01:31:33,356 We know when a seed manifests, because it has been watered in store consciousness 1019 01:31:33,622 --> 01:31:38,711 when it manifests it becomes stronger, well-developed. 1020 01:31:39,767 --> 01:31:43,799 So instead of letting our anger and resentment, and 1021 01:31:44,611 --> 01:31:50,073 judgementalness, fear, all of that 1022 01:31:50,389 --> 01:31:54,446 come up so often so that it gets so strong and big, 1023 01:31:54,545 --> 01:32:01,525 we want to let those seeds of suffering go back and invite other seeds to come up. 1024 01:32:02,454 --> 01:32:10,412 We know now that the metta meditation, the Discourse on Love is one way 1025 01:32:11,975 --> 01:32:18,323 to do selective watering of the most wholesome and beneficial seeds 1026 01:32:19,063 --> 01:32:21,669 in our store consciousness, 1027 01:32:21,864 --> 01:32:25,356 so they will manifest in our mind consciousness 1028 01:32:25,569 --> 01:32:28,668 and become stronger and more solid. 1029 01:32:28,825 --> 01:32:32,794 And the result will be happier. 1030 01:32:33,528 --> 01:32:36,087 We will have more peace. 1031 01:32:36,268 --> 01:32:41,285 And we will be able to transcend our fear of birth and death. 1032 01:32:41,955 --> 01:32:49,756 That means we will have so much confidence and trust in this metta meditation, 1033 01:32:50,545 --> 01:32:54,948 that we will see that everything is just manifesting. 1034 01:32:55,159 --> 01:32:57,954 Our love, our peace, our joy. 1035 01:32:58,106 --> 01:33:02,918 Everything just manifests, and then ceases to manifest. 1036 01:33:03,733 --> 01:33:10,246 The love, and the boundless love and the four aspects 1037 01:33:11,167 --> 01:33:15,032 will become our experience of life. 1038 01:33:17,558 --> 01:33:22,328 We will understand that birth and death are just ideas. 1039 01:33:22,526 --> 01:33:25,135 They are just concepts. 1040 01:33:25,273 --> 01:33:30,128 I read that Thay said that birth and death exist 1041 01:33:31,180 --> 01:33:35,353 only because we think they exist. 1042 01:33:35,686 --> 01:33:38,038 That is very deep. 1043 01:33:38,207 --> 01:33:41,277 Just because we think they exist. 1044 01:33:41,467 --> 01:33:45,071 What is there instead of birth and death there is manifestation 1045 01:33:45,222 --> 01:33:52,119 and ceasing to manifest because the causes are no longer there for manifestation. 1046 01:33:53,788 --> 01:33:58,362 But I do want to honor the translations, 1047 01:33:58,628 --> 01:34:02,961 the 19 other translations that have been made of this sutra. 1048 01:34:06,644 --> 01:34:09,946 And they say: Those who practice boundless love 1049 01:34:10,112 --> 01:34:13,968 will no longer be born again in a womb. 1050 01:34:15,054 --> 01:34:19,830 So that is how the traditional translation of the Pali words means 1051 01:34:19,969 --> 01:34:23,082 you won't have rebirth. 1052 01:34:23,368 --> 01:34:29,852 Okay? You will not be subject to coming to remanifesting in the world. 1053 01:34:31,140 --> 01:34:35,137 But Thay and sister Chan Duc translated, instead of saying: 1054 01:34:35,298 --> 01:34:38,915 "You won't be reborn in a womb", they said: 1055 01:34:39,527 --> 01:34:45,462 If you practice boundless love, you will certainly transcend birth and death. 1056 01:34:45,804 --> 01:34:48,646 That is very beautiful. 1057 01:34:48,954 --> 01:34:51,877 Dear friends, I thank you for your patience, 1058 01:34:52,031 --> 01:34:54,890 which is a sign of love. 1059 01:34:55,301 --> 01:34:58,922 I must say you have to love me, it's been long. 1060 01:34:59,100 --> 01:35:02,857 Thank you for your patience and for your listening. 1061 01:35:03,025 --> 01:35:06,786 I have provided for each hamlet CTC 1062 01:35:08,538 --> 01:35:12,327 some copies of the sutra, both in French, and English, 1063 01:35:12,489 --> 01:35:17,078 and also the guided meditation that we wrote on the board. 1064 01:35:17,235 --> 01:35:22,764 Maybe the CTCs can make more copies available to our friends 1065 01:35:22,994 --> 01:35:26,154 who are here for another five weeks. 1066 01:35:26,406 --> 01:35:30,887 And if you won't be here for another five weeks, you may be able 1067 01:35:32,524 --> 01:35:37,036 to take a picture of that, because everyone has devices now, 1068 01:35:37,378 --> 01:35:39,966 or write it down. 1069 01:35:40,124 --> 01:35:42,974 Now we will listen to three sounds of the bell, 1070 01:35:43,094 --> 01:35:46,622 and maybe there are some announcements. Thank you, dear friends. 1071 01:35:46,745 --> 01:35:50,479 It's been my happiness and joy to be with you. 1072 01:35:54,592 --> 01:36:00,505 (Bell) 1073 01:36:17,687 --> 01:36:24,143 (Bell) 1074 01:36:40,372 --> 01:36:48,124 (Bell) 1075 01:37:27,580 --> 01:37:29,477 (Bell)