WEBVTT 00:00:07.441 --> 00:00:08.709 Thank you. 00:00:10.739 --> 00:00:14.839 Has anybody heard of a lemming and what a lemming is? 00:00:15.299 --> 00:00:17.185 Well if you don't know I'll tell you. 00:00:17.185 --> 00:00:23.574 A lemming is a little furry rodent that basically jumps off cliffs, 00:00:23.595 --> 00:00:25.236 into the water and drowns. 00:00:25.397 --> 00:00:29.381 And they don't just do this by the ones or twos, they do it by the thousands. 00:00:29.989 --> 00:00:34.783 It's almost as if a senior lemming, the head lemming decides, 00:00:34.790 --> 00:00:37.147 "Hey guys, let's go for a swim!" 00:00:37.411 --> 00:00:39.733 So, they all go, "Yeah! Let's go for a swim!" 00:00:39.922 --> 00:00:43.135 So, they all run to the cliff and they all jump off 00:00:43.135 --> 00:00:45.417 and it's like, "Right, now, everyone swim!" 00:00:45.417 --> 00:00:48.411 And they go, "Swim?" (Gurgling) 00:00:48.411 --> 00:00:50.075 And they all drown. 00:00:50.196 --> 00:00:54.328 And society today is very much the same. 00:00:55.066 --> 00:00:59.398 If you are going to a school, you might find a head lemming 00:00:59.398 --> 00:01:04.407 which decides that they will take drugs, and then a whole bunch of other kids 00:01:04.407 --> 00:01:07.632 will come behind and go along with that head lemming. 00:01:08.317 --> 00:01:11.470 Or they might be lucky, there might be one young individual, 00:01:11.470 --> 00:01:13.849 that says "no" to drugs, 00:01:13.849 --> 00:01:16.085 and a whole bunch of other kids come behind. 00:01:16.727 --> 00:01:19.716 And that's the direction that those people go in. 00:01:21.460 --> 00:01:24.636 And today we will find that the business culture 00:01:24.636 --> 00:01:27.746 has changed a tremendous amount 00:01:27.752 --> 00:01:31.430 over the last five, 10, particularly 15 years. 00:01:31.795 --> 00:01:35.032 And what I want to talk about today is ethical business. 00:01:35.032 --> 00:01:37.957 If you go back to the literature that we've been reading 00:01:37.957 --> 00:01:42.582 over the last hundred to 150 years of the success 00:01:42.582 --> 00:01:46.015 of what's made businesses really work well, 00:01:46.019 --> 00:01:48.796 it's always been based on character. 00:01:49.074 --> 00:01:52.416 It's been based on things like integrity, 00:01:52.416 --> 00:01:58.104 service, loyalty, gentleness, understanding. 00:01:59.595 --> 00:02:04.598 But it seems that over the last five, 10, 15 years 00:02:04.598 --> 00:02:08.568 it's been replaced, what slowly crept in. 00:02:08.568 --> 00:02:11.224 And it's the personality ethic is where - 00:02:11.224 --> 00:02:14.523 It seems like websites today, 00:02:14.523 --> 00:02:18.222 their aim really is to manipulate you, 00:02:18.783 --> 00:02:22.503 lubricate the wheels of a system 00:02:22.503 --> 00:02:26.053 which would extract as much out of you, 00:02:26.053 --> 00:02:27.622 as it possibly can. 00:02:29.422 --> 00:02:32.148 So, what I want to suggest today, 00:02:32.148 --> 00:02:36.882 is that the success of the world is based on character. 00:02:37.732 --> 00:02:41.715 But over the last 10 years, it's like this personality has crept in. 00:02:42.588 --> 00:02:46.065 Where there is no character, and it's all about lubrication. 00:02:47.119 --> 00:02:52.258 And with that, could that be a contribution 00:02:52.263 --> 00:02:54.626 to what's happened in the world today? 00:02:54.626 --> 00:02:56.283 I think it probably has. 00:02:56.283 --> 00:02:58.985 There's problems all over the world with finances, etc. 00:02:58.985 --> 00:03:02.232 So, I believe then it was a character ethic. 00:03:02.232 --> 00:03:06.505 Today it's slowly being replaced by the personality ethic. 00:03:06.505 --> 00:03:09.001 I want to quickly introduce my company to you. 00:03:09.631 --> 00:03:15.039 It started 14 years ago when a tornado went throw my hometown in Selsey. 00:03:15.401 --> 00:03:21.573 I had no money, no business experience and I had a very limited education, 00:03:21.573 --> 00:03:25.864 but I saw many tradesmen come down from all over the UK 00:03:25.864 --> 00:03:28.207 to rip homeowners off. 00:03:28.237 --> 00:03:31.933 There were cowboy trades coming down and they were basically overcharging 00:03:31.933 --> 00:03:35.322 or even stealing money off consumers. 00:03:35.634 --> 00:03:39.873 And I looked at the time at the guilds and the federations, 00:03:39.873 --> 00:03:41.985 I looked at what local government was doing 00:03:41.985 --> 00:03:43.853 and the central government was doing, 00:03:43.853 --> 00:03:47.087 and I couldn't see an answer to this problem 00:03:47.087 --> 00:03:50.661 where tradesmen were doing a really poor job. 00:03:51.268 --> 00:03:56.849 So I set out almost from day one, I want to make a difference. 00:03:57.440 --> 00:04:02.847 I want to bring something to the UK which is of real value. 00:04:03.668 --> 00:04:08.943 I didn't set out thinking, wow, I want to build something 00:04:08.959 --> 00:04:11.572 that is going to make me a tremendous amount of money. 00:04:12.494 --> 00:04:18.091 If you build something which is worth and something the consumer 00:04:18.091 --> 00:04:21.830 or business needs, and they're interacting with it, 00:04:21.830 --> 00:04:25.069 and it's got that whole world "worth" around it, 00:04:25.069 --> 00:04:27.631 your money will automatically flow. 00:04:27.631 --> 00:04:32.361 I've never had one single business meeting around my board table 00:04:32.361 --> 00:04:34.348 with my senior managers, saying, 00:04:34.348 --> 00:04:36.936 "How can we extract more money out of people?" 00:04:37.916 --> 00:04:39.355 That's never happened. 00:04:39.355 --> 00:04:40.675 It's always been, 00:04:40.675 --> 00:04:45.566 "How can I build more worth into what we are doing for other people, 00:04:45.566 --> 00:04:48.677 how can we make more of a difference in what we are doing?" 00:04:49.944 --> 00:04:54.671 But today I'll stand here, and I am not being proud or big-headed, 00:04:54.671 --> 00:04:58.792 but we are turning over a 160,000 Euros a week. 00:04:59.701 --> 00:05:01.766 And it hasn't even been designed to do that, 00:05:01.766 --> 00:05:05.061 it's been designed to work on the character ethic 00:05:05.061 --> 00:05:06.928 and to make a difference. 00:05:09.756 --> 00:05:11.523 Begin with the end in mind. 00:05:13.056 --> 00:05:14.608 So what does that mean? 00:05:15.946 --> 00:05:19.147 I don't think many people today really know where they are going. 00:05:19.601 --> 00:05:22.564 They really haven't got a plan for their personal life, 00:05:22.564 --> 00:05:26.543 for their social life, their business life, their family life. 00:05:27.039 --> 00:05:29.495 They really don't know where they are going. 00:05:29.495 --> 00:05:32.638 And I just want you to imagine something for a moment 00:05:32.638 --> 00:05:38.101 that you are at a funeral, and it's very quiet, very somber, 00:05:38.790 --> 00:05:43.656 and there's a resounding atmosphere of love and appreciation 00:05:43.656 --> 00:05:47.177 for the person that's died and there's going to be four speakers 00:05:47.177 --> 00:05:50.529 and they are all going to be speaking about the person that's died. 00:05:51.646 --> 00:05:56.047 And then you suddenly realised that it's actually you that's died. 00:05:56.047 --> 00:05:57.634 And it's your funeral. 00:05:59.174 --> 00:06:00.777 What would you want someone 00:06:00.777 --> 00:06:03.274 from your immediate family to say about you? 00:06:03.823 --> 00:06:05.143 What would you want 00:06:05.143 --> 00:06:07.999 from someone from your extented family to say about you? 00:06:08.648 --> 00:06:10.643 What about someone from your work? 00:06:11.503 --> 00:06:13.964 And what about someone from a social group, 00:06:13.964 --> 00:06:15.585 your friendships or something? 00:06:16.389 --> 00:06:18.259 What would you really want them to say? 00:06:19.098 --> 00:06:24.560 If you were to take the time - unfortunately few of you will do this, 00:06:24.560 --> 00:06:28.071 that's my experience - but if you were to take the time, 00:06:28.675 --> 00:06:30.521 and to meditate on those things, 00:06:30.521 --> 00:06:36.914 you'll actually touch some really core important values, 00:06:38.574 --> 00:06:42.384 and I bet money will hardly come into it. 00:06:42.948 --> 00:06:47.008 Money would be a by-product, oh, I really wanted to help this person, 00:06:47.008 --> 00:06:49.689 I want people to remember me for achieving this and this, 00:06:49.689 --> 00:06:51.067 helping these people, 00:06:51.067 --> 00:06:54.153 and of course money is that vehicle to make that happen. 00:06:55.578 --> 00:06:57.295 But begin with the end in mind, 00:06:57.295 --> 00:07:02.112 know what your final destination is going to be. 00:07:03.351 --> 00:07:07.128 They say sticks and stones would never break my bones 00:07:07.128 --> 00:07:08.484 but names will never hurt. 00:07:08.484 --> 00:07:11.737 And my parents used to say to me, "Oh, you shouldn't care what people 00:07:11.737 --> 00:07:13.601 say about you, or think about you". 00:07:13.601 --> 00:07:16.048 I actually very much disagree with that. 00:07:16.890 --> 00:07:20.326 I actually believe that what people think about me, 00:07:20.332 --> 00:07:22.474 and what people say about me, 00:07:22.474 --> 00:07:26.878 is really, really important, because it's my reputation, 00:07:26.886 --> 00:07:30.881 and because that's a real core value of mine, 00:07:30.881 --> 00:07:32.861 that's what I aim at all the time. 00:07:32.861 --> 00:07:38.282 I would never do something to you that I wouldn't want done to myself. 00:07:39.188 --> 00:07:41.179 So what's your working frame? 00:07:42.139 --> 00:07:46.626 What's your end goal in life? Your end goal in your business? 00:07:48.310 --> 00:07:51.419 Begin with the end in mind. Take that time to find out. 00:07:56.101 --> 00:08:00.259 Also, when you've ouind that framework, 00:08:00.269 --> 00:08:02.999 you can build some expectation around your life. 00:08:04.359 --> 00:08:06.706 When you know what you want to achieve, 00:08:06.706 --> 00:08:10.150 when you've got that framework and you are looking forward, 00:08:10.150 --> 00:08:13.290 you can start to build expectations, 00:08:13.472 --> 00:08:16.307 and expectations are key. 00:08:16.821 --> 00:08:21.127 Without expectations, you just bounce along the bottom of life. 00:08:21.801 --> 00:08:24.894 Expectations are like a magnet 00:08:24.894 --> 00:08:29.059 that will pull you towards something you believe is going to happen 00:08:29.059 --> 00:08:32.768 whether it be good or whether it be bad. 00:08:32.768 --> 00:08:34.912 If you have got this expectation, 00:08:34.912 --> 00:08:39.015 this job role or this business that I am involved in now 00:08:39.015 --> 00:08:41.172 is probably not going to be very successful. 00:08:42.235 --> 00:08:45.345 How are you going to act towards that? 00:08:45.371 --> 00:08:49.138 But if you've got an expectation like, "Hey, I am going to start this business, 00:08:49.138 --> 00:08:51.129 I am going to be incredibly successful, 00:08:51.129 --> 00:08:54.346 and I've got this framework which I am going to work with 00:08:54.353 --> 00:08:57.111 within my values, and these are my goals ..." 00:08:57.111 --> 00:09:01.337 and if you feed upon that, it is like a magnet 00:09:01.337 --> 00:09:04.348 that just pulls you towards those expectations. 00:09:05.923 --> 00:09:09.772 But very often you can have those expectations 00:09:09.772 --> 00:09:12.554 and then the pressures of life come upon you. 00:09:13.448 --> 00:09:17.802 And the pressures of the cash flow, and the problems with staff 00:09:17.802 --> 00:09:20.887 and the problems with the market and the problems with marketing 00:09:20.887 --> 00:09:22.288 come around you 00:09:22.288 --> 00:09:24.877 and those expectations can start to [unclear]. 00:09:25.747 --> 00:09:27.731 But hunger is the key. 00:09:29.874 --> 00:09:32.201 Let me just read you something quickly. 00:09:33.204 --> 00:09:34.966 "Fish are biting. 00:09:35.713 --> 00:09:38.703 And after catching a 70 cm pike, 00:09:38.719 --> 00:09:43.864 the local man raised the fish from - you know, for a photograph - 00:09:43.864 --> 00:09:49.955 and the fish lurched forward and grabbed his nose with its mouth." 00:09:51.805 --> 00:09:57.215 It grabbed onto to it so tightly, that the fisherman had to be taken 00:09:57.240 --> 00:10:01.896 to the local doctor's, where a surgeon actually surgically removed the fish. 00:10:02.710 --> 00:10:07.548 If you want something so badly, do you know what? 00:10:07.548 --> 00:10:10.502 The chances are, you won't let it go. And do you know what? 00:10:10.502 --> 00:10:13.379 The chances are you'll probably end up getting it. 00:10:15.389 --> 00:10:16.883 Hunger is the key. 00:10:17.539 --> 00:10:19.837 But you have to feed that hunger. 00:10:20.971 --> 00:10:27.825 For me one of the biggest words in my life is significance and recognition. 00:10:27.825 --> 00:10:32.142 Those are my drivers, that's what I work towards in my life. 00:10:33.409 --> 00:10:36.030 And, how do I feed that hunger? 00:10:36.032 --> 00:10:40.284 For me, I imagine being before my Queen, 00:10:40.284 --> 00:10:42.267 "Arise, Sir Kev." 00:10:43.385 --> 00:10:45.964 I want to be knighted, I want to be recognised 00:10:45.964 --> 00:10:49.512 as the man that's ended the rogue trade problem in the UK. 00:10:49.512 --> 00:10:54.914 That's my driver. That's my goal. That's what feeds me. 00:10:55.417 --> 00:10:57.819 I picture that happening in my life. 00:10:58.098 --> 00:11:02.469 Not just once a month, but I meditate it, 00:11:02.469 --> 00:11:07.501 I meditate upon it, and I physically see myself in front of my Queen 00:11:07.501 --> 00:11:10.151 being knighted for my services to the country. 00:11:12.302 --> 00:11:15.274 But make sure, that you are doing it for the right reasons. 00:11:15.274 --> 00:11:18.604 Make sure that it's not just for profit. 00:11:19.764 --> 00:11:22.294 Make sure that you're looking at the character ethic. 00:11:26.348 --> 00:11:28.065 People in their enviroment. 00:11:28.065 --> 00:11:31.487 This is the key I just wanted to slip in at the end, 00:11:31.487 --> 00:11:34.264 because it's so important when you're growing a business. 00:11:35.197 --> 00:11:38.761 One of these types of meetings many years ago, 00:11:38.761 --> 00:11:41.697 there was a Questions and Answers and someone said, 00:11:41.697 --> 00:11:44.069 "Kev, how have you grown such a big business"? 00:11:44.069 --> 00:11:47.841 And I've said, "Uhm, I haven't really grown the business, 00:11:47.841 --> 00:11:50.515 I've never really looked at it like that, what I have done, 00:11:50.515 --> 00:11:55.566 is I've focused on people and I have built people up. 00:11:56.164 --> 00:11:58.788 And when the people around you are built up, 00:11:58.788 --> 00:12:02.376 you'll naturally have a successfull business. 00:12:02.882 --> 00:12:05.637 But the environment, it's absolutely key. 00:12:06.682 --> 00:12:09.170 Most of us are like the rest of us. 00:12:09.726 --> 00:12:12.377 I am very much like you, you are very much like me 00:12:12.377 --> 00:12:15.095 you wouldn't want me to do something to you 00:12:15.095 --> 00:12:17.470 you know, that you wouldn't have done to yourself. 00:12:18.486 --> 00:12:20.770 You know, I think that's universal. 00:12:21.420 --> 00:12:23.747 But in business, if the bottom line 00:12:24.887 --> 00:12:27.304 the most important thing is the bottom line 00:12:27.304 --> 00:12:33.083 and how much profit and money have we extracted from this sector, 00:12:33.083 --> 00:12:37.869 if that's what it is, if that's the driving force, 00:12:37.887 --> 00:12:41.034 then really it falls into the personality ethic, 00:12:41.034 --> 00:12:47.065 really it falls into, "How can we manipulate people into getting things"? 00:12:47.362 --> 00:12:52.154 But within the environment of my company, I employ about 90 people, 00:12:52.175 --> 00:12:56.453 I would say to my staff, OK, here's the situation you've got 00:12:56.453 --> 00:12:58.828 with a supplier or a customer, 00:12:58.828 --> 00:13:03.744 If you were the supplier or the customer, what would you want to happen to you? 00:13:04.605 --> 00:13:07.974 And I empower my staff to make those decisions. 00:13:08.906 --> 00:13:11.996 And if the decision is, "We've really messed up on this one, Kev 00:13:11.996 --> 00:13:14.361 we should give them their money back," 00:13:14.400 --> 00:13:19.569 my staff are empowered to do that, because that's the right thing. 00:13:20.579 --> 00:13:27.358 So you can imagine my staff now, they're not fish out of water, 00:13:28.764 --> 00:13:32.881 they're not in an environment where they think, "Oh, I am being forced, 00:13:33.357 --> 00:13:38.637 I'm being pressured into making things and doing what the boss says, 00:13:38.637 --> 00:13:42.894 I feel awkward going back to this customer or this supplier and saying, 00:13:42.898 --> 00:13:45.042 they can't have this or they can't have that." 00:13:45.933 --> 00:13:51.064 Is it any little wonder that in the UK- I believe it's worse in Serbia - 00:13:51.064 --> 00:13:54.908 that the average person works for a company for 18 months 00:13:54.917 --> 00:13:58.928 and then they go off trying to find something better? 00:14:00.110 --> 00:14:04.817 In 14 years of running a company and having 90 people work for me 00:14:04.817 --> 00:14:09.115 I can only remember four people leaving my employment. 00:14:10.889 --> 00:14:15.782 It's because I give them that environment 00:14:15.782 --> 00:14:20.345 where they feel as if what they are doing is right. 00:14:21.283 --> 00:14:26.935 I give them that environment so they've got the ability to do to others 00:14:27.590 --> 00:14:30.190 only what they would have done to themselves. 00:14:31.311 --> 00:14:33.853 And does that make my company stand out? 00:14:33.858 --> 00:14:35.274 Absolutely. 00:14:36.147 --> 00:14:41.192 Does it make my company very different from the vast majority of the companies 00:14:41.192 --> 00:14:42.827 in my same sector? 00:14:43.071 --> 00:14:44.373 Absolutely. 00:14:44.373 --> 00:14:47.119 And do you know what my customers say, now? 00:14:47.457 --> 00:14:50.001 Do you know what my tradesmen that join us, say? 00:14:50.001 --> 00:14:53.976 Do you know what our suppliers say? Do you know what? 00:14:54.415 --> 00:14:58.510 "I can't believe that in this day and age there is still a company 00:14:58.510 --> 00:15:02.125 that would have the ethics that this company has. 00:15:02.937 --> 00:15:06.601 And is it any wonder today that even in recession in the UK 00:15:06.601 --> 00:15:09.234 where companies haven't grown for two years, 00:15:09.234 --> 00:15:12.612 that I am growing two and a half percent every month? 00:15:14.441 --> 00:15:17.357 Is it a coincidence? Absolutely not. 00:15:18.002 --> 00:15:20.608 Character ethic is so important. 00:15:23.270 --> 00:15:26.475 Decide. Make a decision. 00:15:26.475 --> 00:15:29.625 How you want to run your life, how you want to run your business. 00:15:30.243 --> 00:15:35.636 Is this based on character, integrity, loyalty, friendship, gentleness 00:15:35.657 --> 00:15:39.472 or are you going to change and be a lemming 00:15:39.472 --> 00:15:43.779 and do what all of the new companies are doing in the world today? 00:15:44.275 --> 00:15:46.881 And decide, no, I am going to manipulate people, 00:15:46.881 --> 00:15:49.662 I am going to use Content Management Systems, 00:15:49.662 --> 00:15:52.239 and I am going to use the software 00:15:52.239 --> 00:15:55.389 to make out that my customer is important, 00:15:55.389 --> 00:15:58.307 but really the bottom line is how much money I make. 00:15:59.592 --> 00:16:03.506 I'd suggest, please, go for the character ethic. 00:16:04.023 --> 00:16:06.250 Find out what your core values are. 00:16:06.250 --> 00:16:08.985 If you don't know what your core values are, 00:16:08.985 --> 00:16:12.289 how can you possibly even achieve them? 00:16:12.297 --> 00:16:13.879 How can you set targets? 00:16:13.879 --> 00:16:17.206 How do you know if you have achieved anything in life? 00:16:18.211 --> 00:16:20.400 Go to that funeral. 00:16:20.405 --> 00:16:21.961 Write those things down. 00:16:23.249 --> 00:16:25.182 Build your expectations. 00:16:25.785 --> 00:16:30.069 If you don't believe you can achieve something, you will never act upon it. 00:16:31.073 --> 00:16:32.617 It's so simple. 00:16:33.154 --> 00:16:37.781 Most people have no expectations or, if they have, it's really loose. 00:16:38.646 --> 00:16:40.092 Really loose. 00:16:41.065 --> 00:16:44.321 Someone might say, "Well I've started a business a few weeks ago, 00:16:44.321 --> 00:16:47.421 and my expectations is that it would be successful", 00:16:47.427 --> 00:16:49.424 or "that's what I am hoping for." 00:16:50.559 --> 00:16:53.591 But really define what your expectations are. 00:16:53.900 --> 00:16:55.542 They are like a magnet. 00:16:55.542 --> 00:16:58.118 Get fotographs of what you want to achieve. 00:16:58.118 --> 00:17:00.853 Put them on your walls, in your living room, 00:17:00.856 --> 00:17:02.681 in your business, in your toilette, 00:17:02.681 --> 00:17:04.221 in your kitchen. 00:17:05.022 --> 00:17:06.700 We are all visual people. 00:17:06.700 --> 00:17:08.790 If you can see what you want to achieve, 00:17:08.790 --> 00:17:10.202 what your expectation is, 00:17:10.202 --> 00:17:14.860 and if you see that every day, it's like a magnet, it will draw you. 00:17:14.860 --> 00:17:17.551 And your actions will come from it. 00:17:19.052 --> 00:17:21.049 And if you want something so bad, 00:17:21.049 --> 00:17:23.410 never let it go and you'll probably get it. 00:17:24.091 --> 00:17:27.059 Feed that hunger as much as you possibly can. 00:17:28.359 --> 00:17:32.260 And create an environment people want to operate in. 00:17:32.260 --> 00:17:34.015 Put yourself in their shoes. 00:17:34.500 --> 00:17:36.843 How would you want to be employed? 00:17:36.843 --> 00:17:39.387 How would you want to be a supplier or a customer? 00:17:40.301 --> 00:17:42.550 Treat people the way you would want to. 00:17:43.366 --> 00:17:47.864 If you catch this, it will revolutionize your life. 00:17:47.864 --> 00:17:51.739 It has taken me in six years, from a 200,000 pound company, 00:17:51.739 --> 00:17:54.475 to a 6.8 million company. 00:17:54.958 --> 00:17:56.207 Thank you very much. 00:17:56.207 --> 00:17:57.970 (Applause)