- Oh no.
The YouTubers broke up their relationship.
I hope it wasn't me and Dan.
(production beep)
I've been a YouTuber for a while,
and I've been around a lot of YouTubers too.
So, when I'm at a convention or something,
I can usually tell when I'm with a nice one
or when one is being a total di- (dog bark).
I'm just kidding.
Am I?
I'm just kidding. Am I?
But yeah, spotting a bad apple isn't hard
in the YouTuber world.
I also like to think I've got good morals.
I would save a fish in distress.
I'd let you know if something was
behind you while you were watching this.
(ominous note)
If you checked you better, like this video, I protected you.
Anyway, I'm gonna search the word YouTuber
into Reddit and help solve some people's moral dilemmas.
I feel like I've got a good standing to have opinions
on this matter, and we're gonna decide
if people are the (dog bark) or the nasshole.
Can I say (dog bark) hole on YouTube?
A hole?
No, that's too American.
Bum hole.
That's too British and gross.
Hole. Just hole.
No, that's worse.
Hole. We're going with hole.
Are you the hole? (laughs)
Not you, are they the hole?
Right. Okay. (production beep)
Let's go.
YouTuber, am I the hole?
When I, 23 female, share funny clips of YouTuber Markiplier
with my boyfriend, 26 male. (laughs)
What?
So he gets all jealous.
Is he think you're gonna run off with Markiplier?
So I've been a fan of Markiplier now for five years.
Five years. Get on my level.
I'm a bigger fan than you.
10 years, baby.
So the problem started a week ago
that I started to be a bit more open
about what I like and enjoy.
This is giving a red flag already
because I feel like if you're truly comfortable with him,
it should have already happened after two years
and you are scared to share your interest until now
which seems a bit strange.
Anyway, I started to open up a bit more on what I like
and enjoy with him and everything is fine
until I share a picture meme clip of Markiplier
and then schisse hits the fan.
He starts to get all defensive saying
you like that guy way more than me?
What? No. You give him money.
Does he give you things I don't?
What is happening?
He also thinks the YouTube membership is like only fans.
(laughs) Sorry.
I mean, Mark does have an only fans.
Maybe you got those two confused
but still that should be fine.
Come on.
What's going on?
I've always said that Markiplier content always
gives me a laugh and makes my day.
And he says, "Well, next time, don't come at me
with your problems and talk to your boyfriend, Mark."
What the hell?
Dump his ass now.
Well, Mark is very attractive man
with that deep voice and gives me confusing feelings.
He is not someone to be a threat.
You are not the hole.
Your boyfriend is deep in the hole.
He's so far down, he cannot even see the sky anymore.
He's in the depths.
I mean, you could go to couples counseling
and talk about this with a professional
or find someone that you can just watch Markiplier
videos with.
Enjoy that deep voice.
Even look at his only fans together
without any jealousy or weirdness.
I'm not feeling it.
Oh, we've got an update.
Wait, wait, what?
I, (laughs) sorry.
Sorry. I'm so invested in this already.
I talked to him and showed him this post
in the morning and he said,
"How dare I post this on Reddit?
That was a breach of privacy."
And he blocked me on our text apps and he called me
and told me that he'll drop the stuff I left. (claps)
Yes, in his apartment later today.
So I guess I'm single now.
Oh, I'm so relieved.
That's great.
That's amazing.
Look, as the blanket rule, if you're in a relationship,
your significant other should not be controlling
your interest in any way.
You're in your own bubble.
They are not you.
Get out of that.
Stop it.
(laughs) Oh, that got me riled up.
What we got next?
Ooh, am I the hole for not telling my family about
my YouTube channel?
Okay. That's interesting.
I've been there.
When you first start a YouTube channel, it does feel a bit
like a weird secret that you might not be ready to share
with everyone because you're putting yourself out there.
And for some reason, strangers feel a lot less threatening
than friends and family at the beginning.
So I already get where they're going.
I, 19, make YouTube videos for a very small niche.
Fursuit repair.
I'm no way famous in this niche
let alone on YouTube in general.
But I'm popular enough that I can monetize the content.
I make nowhere near enough to support myself
but it's some extra spending money.
Until recently, I've been saving up for a tattoo
and I've been so excited to get this.
I designed it myself and I had a consultation
and paid the deposit.
I'm excited for your tattoo.
I told my family about this.
My dad was super happy for me
and he knows how much I've been looking forward to this.
However, my mother questioned how I was able to save up
money so quickly
and started to doubt I was putting away so many savings
as I said I was.
She kept grilling me.
I'm sure many people have grilly parents.
Until I told her that I've got a small YouTube channel
that brings in a bit of money and I want to spend that
on the tattoo.
She started demanding I tell her what my channel was called
and showed her the videos.
I declined 'cause that's personal.
I don't want to be judged
and have to answer a million questions about this niche.
She is now upset and not talking to me
and she's being really passive aggressive
and now I feel kind of bad.
So am I the hole?
You are not the hole.
Helicoptery parents, shwa, shwa, shwa.
I'm sure a lot of people are relating right now.
It's up to you what you share with your parents
at 19, you are an adult.
You could go live in Taiwan and that's your choice.
But they might have just had a bit of a pride hit
that they didn't know everything they thought they did
about their child.
They've had this hobby, you didn't want to share it.
I don't think they've got any obligations to share this
with their parents.
I reckon if they wanted to keep the peace
they could just be like,
"Hey, I'm not ready to share it yet.
When I'm more confident with the videos
maybe I'll show you.
But the moment I just wanna keep it for me,"
rather than falling into an arguing match.
But overall, your privacy is your privacy.
And mum has gotta respect that, man. (laughs)
What's wrong with me today?
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Am I the hole feeling neglected
'cause the guy I'm seeing prioritizes YouTube over me?
What? I'm a 17 year old girl.
I'm seeing an 18 year old boy.
We'll call him B.
He's a semi-famous YouTuber with about 180,000 subscribers.
Ooh, anyone join the dots on this one? (laughs)
It's quite specific information.
Starting last month, he went full force
into prioritizing his career, good moves B.
Because his revenue quadrupled.
I believe it's a lot more
than he's investing into our relationship.
I don't think B owes you anything, really.
I currently don't work and don't plan to until I go
to college and he usually pays for everything.
Before his blow up,
he would take me on mediocre dates to Red Robin.
What is Red Robin?
I'm, I'm invested. (laughs)
I'm banned from entering the Red Robin website.
That looks fine.
That's like a diner meets a sports bar.
They shouldn't be complaining.
They're not paying for anything.
Oh, I can't. I can't decide yet.
There might be more to the story.
He never takes me anywhere fancier, and I haven't
got nice gifts since my friend's boyfriends do.
This makes me feel neglected.
Anytime I wanna hang out or talk to him on the phone,
he is making videos and he pays no attention to me.
He makes me feel like he cares more about his channel
than he does me. Jealous of a YouTube channel.
I don't know whether I should leave or not.
My thoughts are that if he's gonna reject me
for this channel, at least put some more
into the relationship and make it worthwhile.
My sister thinks that's an a-hole move
and I sound like a gold digger.
Ooh. I don't think I am.
I just feel a bit neglected.
Ooh, okay.
Right, right, right.
You are the hole, I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. (laughs)
It's like it's not as bad as some of them, but listen,
your boyfriend is buying you Red Robin, snacks,
gourmet burgers.
I mean, you are not getting him anything.
So if you're in this relationship for lovely treats
and bangals and quad bikes, I feel like this is wrong.
This person needs to look into their soul and think
am I with this person for the right reasons?
Or do I just want an iPad?
You want the iPad.
I'm sympathetic.
They're spending all the time working,
but it's an exciting time in their careers.
You've gotta kind of reach some kind of understanding
that things could be busy for a bit and then
you might go to Disneyland when they get the fat checks.
(gasps)
No. He deleted his account, but it's here.
Hey guys. I'm the guy in the post.
I found out about 20 minutes ago and texted her about it.
She basically told me I don't spend enough money on her
and how much I make
and she feels neglected because of that.
I'm glad I know now that she either isn't supportive
of my dreams or only is when she benefits from it.
I've already texted her
that we will not be seeing each other anymore.
(canned cheering, applause)
Thank you for all your defenses.
Wow. This Reddit is a poison chalice.
You could be just posting there, calling your boyfriend out
and then he dumps your ass.
Ho, ho, ho. (laughs)
Turned into Mario there. Watch out crisp rat.
That was a ride.
Can we keep the train going?
A lot of these seems to be
about people being jealous of YouTube channels.
What we got?
Am the hole for blasting Disney music?
How is this gonna be related to YouTube?
Hello, I'm 16.
I've got an older brother, 19
who's one of those prank YouTubers and TikTokers.
Oh, that must be hard to live with. (laughs)
No offense to pranksters.
I do not like a prank.
Pranks stressed me out.
If I was in a prank house for a year,
I think I'd have to go live in a monastery like my nerves,
my nerves cannot take a prank.
I would become Father Philip.
He's been doing this kind of content since 2017
and makes some pretty good money from it.
It's annoying for me and I hate it as his little sister.
I'm constantly having a camera shoved in my face
even when I'm busy.
He's "pranked me" by pretending to delete my school projects
off my laptop, throwing out my homework/study material.
He once fabricated a fake report card that he gave
to my tech illiterate parents who've got me grounded
for a month.
What? What?
With my money, I recently bought a Bluetooth speaker.
Whenever it- (laughs)
This is amazing.
Whenever I see him and his stupid camera,
I blast whatever Disney music I can, Let It Go,
We Don't Talk About Bruno, anything I can
because then Disney is vicious with copyright
and he cannot use any of the footage.
(canned cheering) (claps)
This is the third time I've clapped in this video
but I'm impressed.
He's tried talking to me about it,
usually on camera to "work out our issue".
That means he's just trying to go back to pranking me.
Because I'm very popular with his audience,
he's been slowly losing views and followers
and blaming me for the speaker.
My parents are taking his side as he's providing for us,
and he's the golden child.
It sounds to me like you've got the perfect revenge.
I hate pranks so much.
I feel like pranks are only good
if you're doing something nice for the person
not just using your sister for quick entertainment.
So your brother had it coming.
Also, you should be getting a cut of the videos
if you're the main star of the pranks.
Another thing I would tell you is most
prank channels are fake, right?
So if you and your brother wanna be harmonious,
make some money.
Just fake some pranks
because that's what all prankers do on YouTube.
It's so obvious as well
because there's so many pranks where there's just
a high quality camera in the corner.
It's like, (laughs).
Like did they not notice the cameraman
in their bedroom?
Anyway.
Yeah. I'm sorry, your brother sounds terrible.
Hopefully he'll move out soon into one of those prank houses
and then you'll be free.
Am I the hole for confronting my girlfriend
about her obsession with a celebrity?
Me and my girlfriend can sometimes be a little jealous
but we are usually very understanding of each other.
This happened moments ago. Ooh, live.
My girlfriend wanted me to look at a video she saved
and as I was scrolling, I begin to notice the amount
of pictures and videos saved of this pair of YouTubers.
(laughs) It's not popular YouTubers Dan and Phil, is it?
(laughs) Don't wanna put salt in the wound.
No, I'm being vain.
Now, I knew she liked them
'cause she watches their videos every day
but it never seemed like she liked them this much.
I scrolled and saw there were 200 pictures
of videos of them in the span of two weeks.
Look, people hyperfixate on stuff.
It's fine.
Chill out.
I said, "I never knew you were obsessed with them."
And she flipped.
She got really defensive and claimed I was being jealous.
Long story short, we're no longer on speaking terms.
Oh no.
The YouTubers broke up the relationship. (laughs)
Hope it wasn't me and Dan.
It sounds like you got some issues in this relationship
but you can't be jealous of YouTubers on the phone.
People hyperfixate on stuff.
You should see someone's phone that's been watching
Our Flag Means Death.
You should see the Twitter bookmarks of a Heartstopper fan.
It's a whole thing.
You kinda let your girlfriend have their interests.
This guy is pretty deep in my hole, right? (laughs)
Am I the hole for forcing my friends to watch YouTube videos
on my birthday?
Me and my girlfriend don't have a lot of friends
but we've managed to get into a group of five people
but we're constantly inviting 'em to go
out and pay for almost every activity.
Cinema, waterpark, ice cream, pizza.
Last Saturday, I invited everyone to my house, my birthday.
We had pizza and beers and started playing some board games.
After a few hours got seated on the couch
and started chatting with each other.
I was kind of bored.
It's your birthday dude.
I was kind of bored.
So I turned on TV and put on some Smosh videos.
Great choice.
We love Smosh.
No one seemed to care.
So I literally zoned out
and kept watching until I got to Reddit videos. (laughs)
Have I just been called out?
Oh no.
I was so intrigued in the videos.
There we go.
See they're worth watching.
That I forgot there were people there
and just kept eating snacks while watching.
I didn't realize no one was talking anymore.
Oh no.
(groans)
Someone got up and said they had to go because it was late.
The problem started when in the group chat
everyone got mad at me and said I was a bad host
and they would never come to my home again
because I forced them to watch YouTube videos.
I could.
Oh, oh no, my girlfriend and I are shocked and confused.
I don't understand
if the YouTube videos really made them mad
if it was something else.
How did you zone out?
I don't understand.
Unless you're thinking we're all
in our rat mode on the phone.
Not really talking to each other part of the evening.
But it doesn't seem like that.
I think they were all like, let's have a chat, friend.
And then you were just watching YouTube videos
and ignoring them and then they went home.
Like what?
But flip reverse.
I feel like on your birthday you get a bit of a hole pass
to be slightly weird, slightly extra or make your friends
do things they don't necessarily want to do.
So I get the feeling they're probably just roasting
in the group chat rather than being actually mean.
I don't know.
I've not read the messages
but that's where I'm coming from.
Because if they're good friends
they're not gonna throw it away over one evening.
If we're making a call, you are a mild hole for that.
Oh my God, I just clicked off
and I have to read this one from the homepage.
Am I the hole for giving my daughter a stuffed bear filled
with human hair? (laughs)
What!? What?
What is happening?
My wife and I just had a daughter,
our first child three months ago.
My family has a tradition where the firstborn
will get a special stuffed animal.
I got one from my mother when I was born who got one
from their mother, who got one from their father
and so on and so on.
And the reason it's special is
because the stuffing is made from the parents.
Why? Why?
That's like saying
I've got a beanbag made of my sister's teeth.
What, what is happening?
When the child is old enough
to start getting their hair cut,
their parents will save their hair as much as they can.
When a child becomes a parent themselves,
the grandparent will save the used hair
to make a stuffed animal for the baby.
This is weird.
I don't wanna shame people's traditions,
but this is strange to me.
It's giving ritual, cult, bear that is gonna reanimate
with granddad's soul after being filled with his hair.
You know what I mean?
My mother spent a lot of time making this stuffed bear
from scratch to fill with my childhood hair.
She finished it last week to give to the baby.
Instead of liking the bear, my wife said it was gross
and disgusting and she wouldn't have it around our daughter.
I told her, it's our daughter, not hers.
There's nothing disgusting about my family's tradition.
She said it was unhygienic.
I told her it's not.
The hair is clean and preserved.
And she said, if I ever put that thing near our daughter,
she would throw it in the trash.
I told my mother about the fight
and now she's feuding with my wife too.
Oh, bad move, dude.
Why did you tell the mother?
Listen, everyone has their weird traditions
and stuff like that.
All you had to do was say, thanks mum.
Mum leaves.
Take it away and put it in a cupboard.
Mum comes back.
Oh, the baby was eating it.
So we've put it in storage for now.
Mum's happy. Wife's happy.
You went and ruin it by telling mummy.
I'm gonna say it's kind of a nice but also gross tradition.
I don't see much wrong with it.
I don't think you are a hole,
I feel like you made the wrong decision.
I don't think your wife is really either though.
I get both sides.
This one, I don't think there's a wrong party.
I think you both just have different opinions
about hair bears.
What the hell did that have to do with YouTube?
Wow. Wow.
Okay. Right.
I'm gonna go shave my head
and shovel the cuttings into a stuffed animal.
I'm feeling inspired.
Leave some comments about what you think
about these situations as well.
YouTube, it can make relationships.
It can break relationships.
Is it about the website or is it about the people?
What do you reckon, guys?
Did they deserve my judgment there?
I don't know.
Was I too harsh?
It's too late now.
It's happened.
Look, no one's perfect.
We all have our moments.
We've all been a hole at some part of our lives.
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