WEBVTT 00:00:18.023 --> 00:00:20.217 Hello everyone. 00:00:20.217 --> 00:00:21.634 I'm Sam, 00:00:21.634 --> 00:00:24.401 and I just turned 17. 00:00:24.401 --> 00:00:27.648 A few years ago, before my freshman year in High School, 00:00:27.648 --> 00:00:32.852 I wanted to play snare drum in the Foxboro High School Marching Band, 00:00:32.852 --> 00:00:35.589 and it was a dream that I just had to accomplish. 00:00:35.589 --> 00:00:37.852 But each snare drum and harness 00:00:37.852 --> 00:00:40.155 weighed about 40 pounds each, 00:00:40.155 --> 00:00:42.770 and I have a disease called Progeria. 00:00:42.770 --> 00:00:46.858 So just to give you an idea, I weigh only about 50 pounds. 00:00:46.858 --> 00:00:51.615 So, logistically, I really couldn't carry a regular sized snare drum, 00:00:51.615 --> 00:00:55.654 and because of this the band director assigned me to play 00:00:55.654 --> 00:00:59.005 pit percussion during the halftime show. 00:00:59.005 --> 00:01:01.110 Now pit percussion was fun. 00:01:01.110 --> 00:01:04.803 It involved some really cool auxiliary percussion instruments, 00:01:04.803 --> 00:01:08.623 like the bongos, timpani, 00:01:08.623 --> 00:01:11.107 and timbales, and cowbell. 00:01:11.107 --> 00:01:13.318 So it was fun, 00:01:13.318 --> 00:01:18.420 but it involved no marching, and I was just so devastated. 00:01:18.420 --> 00:01:20.914 However, nothing was going to stop me 00:01:20.914 --> 00:01:23.585 from playing snare drum with the marching band 00:01:23.585 --> 00:01:25.010 in the halftime show. 00:01:25.010 --> 00:01:29.865 So my family and I worked with an engineer to design 00:01:29.865 --> 00:01:31.793 a snare drum harness 00:01:31.793 --> 00:01:35.580 that would be lighter, and easier for me to carry. 00:01:35.580 --> 00:01:39.638 So after continuous work, we made 00:01:39.638 --> 00:01:43.859 a snare drum apparatus that weighs only about 6 pounds. 00:01:43.859 --> 00:01:48.129 (Applause) 00:01:48.129 --> 00:01:52.427 I just want to give you some more information about Progeria. 00:01:52.427 --> 00:01:58.340 It affects only about 350 kids today, worldwide. 00:01:58.340 --> 00:02:00.880 So it's pretty rare, 00:02:00.880 --> 00:02:03.335 and the effects of Progeria include: 00:02:03.335 --> 00:02:07.408 tight skin, lack of weight gain, stunted growth, 00:02:07.408 --> 00:02:09.011 and heart disease. 00:02:09.011 --> 00:02:12.586 Last year my Mom and her team of scientists 00:02:12.586 --> 00:02:16.725 published the first successful Progeria Treatment Study, 00:02:16.725 --> 00:02:19.460 and because of this I was interviewed on NPR, 00:02:19.460 --> 00:02:22.006 and John Hamilton asked me the question: 00:02:22.006 --> 00:02:24.272 "What is the most important thing 00:02:24.272 --> 00:02:26.538 that people should know about you?" 00:02:26.538 --> 00:02:29.264 And my answer was simply that 00:02:29.264 --> 00:02:31.691 I have a very happy life. 00:02:31.691 --> 00:02:35.762 (Applause) 00:02:35.762 --> 00:02:39.663 So even though there are many obstacles in my life, 00:02:39.663 --> 00:02:42.533 with a lot of them being created by Progeria, 00:02:42.533 --> 00:02:45.095 I don't want people to feel bad for me. 00:02:45.095 --> 00:02:47.802 I don't think about these obstacles all the time, 00:02:47.802 --> 00:02:51.007 and I'm able to overcome most of them anyway. 00:02:51.007 --> 00:02:56.132 So I’m here today, to share with you my philosophy for a happy life. 00:02:56.132 --> 00:03:00.757 So, for me, there are 3 aspects to this philosophy. 00:03:00.757 --> 00:03:04.830 So this is a quote from the famous Ferris Bueller. 00:03:04.830 --> 00:03:08.516 The first aspect to my philosophy is that 00:03:08.516 --> 00:03:11.552 I’m okay with what I ultimately can’t do 00:03:11.552 --> 00:03:14.032 because there is so much I can do. 00:03:14.032 --> 00:03:16.799 Now people sometimes ask me questions like, 00:03:16.799 --> 00:03:19.252 "Isn’t it hard living with Progeria?", or 00:03:19.252 --> 00:03:22.569 "What daily challenges of Progeria do you face?" 00:03:22.569 --> 00:03:26.053 And I’d like to say that, even though I have Progeria, 00:03:26.053 --> 00:03:28.686 most of my time is spent thinking about things 00:03:28.686 --> 00:03:31.534 that have nothing to do with Progeria at all. 00:03:31.534 --> 00:03:36.435 Now this doesn’t mean that I ignore the negative aspects of these obstacles. 00:03:36.435 --> 00:03:38.491 When I can’t do something like 00:03:38.491 --> 00:03:42.557 run a long distance, or go on an intense roller coaster, 00:03:42.557 --> 00:03:44.583 I know what I’m missing out on. 00:03:44.583 --> 00:03:48.499 But instead, I choose to focus on the activities 00:03:48.499 --> 00:03:52.276 that I can do through things that I’m passionate about, 00:03:52.276 --> 00:03:55.791 like scouting, or music, or comic books, 00:03:55.791 --> 00:03:58.756 or any of my favorite Boston sports teams. 00:03:58.756 --> 00:04:01.862 Yeah, so -- (Laughter) 00:04:01.862 --> 00:04:06.001 However, sometimes I need to find a different way to do something 00:04:06.001 --> 00:04:07.712 by making adjustments, 00:04:07.712 --> 00:04:11.799 and I want to put those things in the "can do" category. 00:04:11.799 --> 00:04:14.803 Kind of like you saw with the drum earlier. 00:04:14.803 --> 00:04:16.512 So here’s a clip 00:04:16.512 --> 00:04:18.951 with me playing Spider-Man 00:04:18.951 --> 00:04:21.760 with the Foxboro High School Marching Band 00:04:21.760 --> 00:04:23.864 at halftime a couple of years ago. 00:04:23.864 --> 00:04:25.968 (Video) 00:04:26.648 --> 00:04:32.026 ♫ Spider-Man theme song ♫ 00:05:07.115 --> 00:05:10.622 (Applause) 00:05:10.622 --> 00:05:12.548 Thank you. 00:05:12.548 --> 00:05:14.921 All right, all right, so -- 00:05:14.921 --> 00:05:16.226 That was pretty cool, 00:05:16.226 --> 00:05:19.561 and so I was able to accomplish my dream 00:05:19.561 --> 00:05:22.117 of playing snare drum with the marching band, 00:05:22.117 --> 00:05:25.009 as I believe I can do for all of my dreams. 00:05:25.009 --> 00:05:30.167 So hopefully, you can accomplish your dreams as well, with this outlook. 00:05:30.167 --> 00:05:32.382 The next aspect to my philosophy is 00:05:32.382 --> 00:05:36.818 that I surround myself with people I want to be with, 00:05:36.818 --> 00:05:38.634 people of high quality. 00:05:38.634 --> 00:05:42.680 I’m extremely lucky to have an amazing family, 00:05:42.680 --> 00:05:46.110 who have always supported me throughout my entire life. 00:05:46.110 --> 00:05:48.489 And I’m also really fortunate to have 00:05:48.489 --> 00:05:51.498 a really close group of friends at school. 00:05:51.498 --> 00:05:55.050 Now we’re kind of goofy, a lot of us are band geeks, 00:05:55.050 --> 00:05:57.412 but we really enjoy each other’s company, 00:05:57.412 --> 00:06:00.434 and we help each other out when we need to. 00:06:00.434 --> 00:06:04.562 We see each other for who we are on the inside. 00:06:04.562 --> 00:06:06.865 So this is us goofing off a little bit. 00:06:06.865 --> 00:06:09.372 So we’re juniors in High School now, 00:06:09.372 --> 00:06:15.129 and we can now mentor younger band members, 00:06:15.129 --> 00:06:16.986 as a single collective unit. 00:06:16.986 --> 00:06:19.916 What I love about being in a group like the band, 00:06:19.916 --> 00:06:22.834 is that the music that we make together, 00:06:22.834 --> 00:06:28.243 is true, is genuine, and it supersedes Progeria. 00:06:28.243 --> 00:06:29.875 So I don’t have to worry about that 00:06:29.875 --> 00:06:33.870 when I’m feeling so good about making music. 00:06:33.870 --> 00:06:36.564 But even having made a documentary, 00:06:36.564 --> 00:06:38.975 going on TV a couple of times, 00:06:38.975 --> 00:06:41.459 I feel like I’m at my highest point 00:06:41.459 --> 00:06:45.607 when I’m with the people that surround me every day. 00:06:45.607 --> 00:06:49.005 They provide the real positive influences in my life, 00:06:49.005 --> 00:06:54.699 as I hope I can provide a positive influence in theirs as well. 00:06:54.699 --> 00:06:58.247 (Applause) 00:06:58.247 --> 00:06:59.436 Thank you. 00:06:59.436 --> 00:07:01.395 So the bottom line here, 00:07:01.395 --> 00:07:05.294 is that I hope you appreciate and love your family, 00:07:05.294 --> 00:07:08.453 love your friends, for you guys, love you Bro’s 00:07:08.453 --> 00:07:11.860 and acknowledge your mentors, 00:07:11.860 --> 00:07:13.557 and your community, 00:07:13.557 --> 00:07:16.654 because they are a very real aspect of everyday life, 00:07:16.654 --> 00:07:20.980 they can make a truly significant, positive impact. 00:07:20.980 --> 00:07:23.663 The third aspect to the philosophy is, 00:07:23.663 --> 00:07:25.898 Keep moving forward. 00:07:25.898 --> 00:07:29.686 Here’s a quote by a man you may know, named Walt Disney, 00:07:29.686 --> 00:07:31.495 and it’s one of my favorite quotes. 00:07:31.495 --> 00:07:34.230 I always try to have something to look forward to. 00:07:34.230 --> 00:07:37.265 Something to strive for to make my life richer. 00:07:37.265 --> 00:07:38.956 It doesn’t have to be big. 00:07:38.956 --> 00:07:41.339 It could be anything from 00:07:41.339 --> 00:07:43.946 looking forward to the next comic book to come out, 00:07:43.946 --> 00:07:46.467 or going on a large family vacation, 00:07:46.467 --> 00:07:48.736 or hanging out with my friends, 00:07:48.736 --> 00:07:51.691 to going to the next High School football game. 00:07:51.691 --> 00:07:55.013 However, all of these things keep me focused, 00:07:55.013 --> 00:07:57.851 and know that there’s a bright future ahead, 00:07:57.851 --> 00:08:02.287 and may get me through some difficult times that I may be having. 00:08:02.287 --> 00:08:07.795 Now this mentality includes staying in a forward thinking state of mind. 00:08:07.795 --> 00:08:11.389 I try hard not to waste energy feeling badly for myself, 00:08:11.389 --> 00:08:14.871 because when I do, I get stuck in a paradox, 00:08:14.871 --> 00:08:19.454 where there’s no room for any happiness or any other emotion. 00:08:19.454 --> 00:08:23.015 Now, it’s not that I ignore when I’m feeling badly, 00:08:23.015 --> 00:08:24.897 I kind of accept it, 00:08:24.897 --> 00:08:28.273 I let it in, so that I can acknowledge it, 00:08:28.273 --> 00:08:31.775 and do what I need to do to move past it. 00:08:31.775 --> 00:08:35.081 When I was younger, I wanted to be an engineer. 00:08:35.081 --> 00:08:36.995 I wanted to be an inventor, 00:08:36.995 --> 00:08:40.009 who would catapult the world into a better future. 00:08:40.009 --> 00:08:42.184 Maybe this came from my love of Legos, 00:08:42.184 --> 00:08:44.502 and the freedom of expression that I felt 00:08:44.502 --> 00:08:47.814 when I was building with them. 00:08:47.814 --> 00:08:53.489 And this was also derived from my family and my mentors, 00:08:53.489 --> 00:08:57.985 who always make me feel whole, and good about myself. 00:08:57.985 --> 00:09:01.133 Now today my ambitions have changed a little bit, 00:09:01.133 --> 00:09:03.609 I’d like to go into the field of Biology, 00:09:03.609 --> 00:09:07.948 maybe cell biology, or genetics, 00:09:07.948 --> 00:09:12.417 or biochemistry, or really anything. 00:09:12.417 --> 00:09:15.698 This is a friend of mine, who I look up to, 00:09:15.698 --> 00:09:19.252 Francis Collins, the director of the NIH, 00:09:19.252 --> 00:09:22.670 and this is us at TEDMED last year, chatting away. 00:09:22.670 --> 00:09:26.208 I feel that no matter what I choose to become, 00:09:26.208 --> 00:09:29.521 I believe that I can change the world. 00:09:29.521 --> 00:09:34.417 And as I’m striving to change the world, I will be happy. 00:09:34.417 --> 00:09:36.562 About four years ago, 00:09:36.562 --> 00:09:39.247 HBO began to film a documentary 00:09:39.247 --> 00:09:42.282 about my family and me called “Life According to Sam”. 00:09:42.282 --> 00:09:46.285 That was a pretty great experience, but it was also four years ago. 00:09:46.285 --> 00:09:49.761 And like anyone, my views on many things have changed, 00:09:49.761 --> 00:09:54.165 and hopefully matured, like my potential career choice. 00:09:54.165 --> 00:09:58.798 However, some things have stayed the same throughout that time. 00:09:58.798 --> 00:10:02.679 Like my mentality, and philosophy towards life. 00:10:02.679 --> 00:10:04.730 So I would like to show you 00:10:04.730 --> 00:10:07.921 a clip of my younger self from the film, 00:10:07.921 --> 00:10:11.492 that I feel embodies that philosophy. 00:10:11.492 --> 00:10:12.659 (Video) 00:10:12.659 --> 00:10:16.314 I know more about it genetically. 00:10:16.314 --> 00:10:19.857 So it’s less of an embodiment now. 00:10:19.857 --> 00:10:21.335 It used to be like 00:10:21.335 --> 00:10:24.135 this thing that prevents me from doing all this stuff, 00:10:24.135 --> 00:10:26.669 that causes other kids to die, 00:10:26.669 --> 00:10:29.639 that causes everybody to be stressed, 00:10:29.639 --> 00:10:35.276 and now it’s a protein that is abnormal, 00:10:35.276 --> 00:10:39.072 that weakens the structure of cells. 00:10:40.465 --> 00:10:42.076 So, 00:10:42.076 --> 00:10:45.458 and it takes a burden off of me because now 00:10:45.458 --> 00:10:48.210 I don’t have to think about 00:10:48.210 --> 00:10:51.802 Progeria as an entity. 00:10:55.905 --> 00:10:57.507 Okay, pretty good, huh? 00:10:57.507 --> 00:11:01.596 (Applause) 00:11:01.596 --> 00:11:02.671 Thank you. 00:11:02.671 --> 00:11:05.990 So, as you can see I’ve been thinking this way for many years. 00:11:05.990 --> 00:11:10.435 But I’d never really had to apply all of these aspects of my philosophy 00:11:10.435 --> 00:11:14.176 to the test at one time, until last January. 00:11:14.176 --> 00:11:19.010 I was pretty sick, I had a chest cold, and I was in the hospital for a few days, 00:11:19.010 --> 00:11:23.600 and I was secluded from all of the aspects of my life that I felt 00:11:23.600 --> 00:11:25.124 made me, me, 00:11:25.124 --> 00:11:27.952 that kind of gave me my identity. 00:11:27.952 --> 00:11:31.029 But knowing that I was going to get better, 00:11:31.029 --> 00:11:34.009 and looking forward to a time that I would feel good again, 00:11:34.009 --> 00:11:36.659 helped me to keep moving forward. 00:11:36.659 --> 00:11:39.211 And sometimes I had to be brave, 00:11:39.211 --> 00:11:41.003 and it wasn’t always easy. 00:11:41.003 --> 00:11:42.617 Sometimes I faltered, 00:11:42.617 --> 00:11:44.363 I had bad days, 00:11:44.363 --> 00:11:47.857 but I realized that being brave isn’t supposed to be easy. 00:11:47.857 --> 00:11:51.957 And for me, I feel it’s the key way to keep moving forward. 00:11:51.957 --> 00:11:54.181 So, all in all, 00:11:54.181 --> 00:11:57.725 I don’t waste energy feeling bad for myself. 00:11:57.725 --> 00:12:01.040 I surround myself with people that I want to be with, 00:12:01.040 --> 00:12:03.317 and I keep moving forward. 00:12:03.317 --> 00:12:06.689 So with this philosophy, I hope that all of you, 00:12:06.689 --> 00:12:08.766 regardless of your obstacles, 00:12:08.766 --> 00:12:11.613 can have a very happy life as well. 00:12:11.613 --> 00:12:13.131 Oh, wait, hang on a second, 00:12:13.131 --> 00:12:15.619 one more piece of advice –- 00:12:15.619 --> 00:12:17.219 (Laughter) 00:12:17.219 --> 00:12:19.709 Never miss a party if you can help it. 00:12:19.709 --> 00:12:22.085 My school’s homecoming dance is tomorrow night, 00:12:22.085 --> 00:12:24.169 and I will be there. 00:12:24.169 --> 00:12:25.641 Thank you very much. 00:12:25.641 --> 00:12:31.295 (Applause)