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[Música fuerte floreciendo]

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[Voz masculina]
¡Escuchen¡

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Aquí estan diez características
de padres tóxicos,

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quienes arruinan la vida de sus hijos.

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Psicólogos y especialistas en
comportamiento infantil

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pueden diferenciar niños
malagradecidos

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de aquellos que han sido víctimas de
influencia tóxica.

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Por ejemplo:

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Los psicólogos clínicos Seth Meyers y
Preston Ni

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explican como las acciones
de algunos padres

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pueden arruinar la vida de sus hijos.

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Primero que nada, vale la pena mencionar

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que criar hijos es muy difícil,

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y nadie tiene derecho a juzgar

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el estilo de crianza de nadie
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Pero hay una línea muy delgada entre
los errores de los padres

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y el comportamiento tóxico inapropiado,

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o, en otras palabras, padres narcisistas.

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Este video ayudará a encontrar

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lo que realmente afecta la psique
de un niño,

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y a enseñar a aquellos con padres tóxicos

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como pueden lidiar con el problema.

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Antes de especificar los
rasgos principales

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de los padres tóxicos,

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hablemos del efecto que tienen

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en sus hijos.

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Cuando son criados por padres
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los niños:

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No se sienten amados, escuchados o vistos.

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Creen que su apariencia es más importante

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que quien son como persona.

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No sienten apoyo cuando
tratan de desarrollar

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su verdadero yo.

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No saben como confiar.

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Sufren de desarrollo emocional lento

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o ninguno en absoluto.

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Tienen un sentimiento constante 
y persistente de no ser buenos

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durante toda su vida.

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No tienen modelos a seguir
que los enseñen

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como conectar emocionalmente.

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Se les dificulta volverse
independientes

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de sus padres cuando crecen

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Probablemente sufrirán

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de depresión, ansiedad,

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O o trastorno de estrés postraumático 
(TEPT)

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cuando se conviertan en adultos.

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Probablemente crecerán como adultos

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que, o se auto-sabotearán

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o que estarán listos para sacrificar todo

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para alcanzar metas altas.

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Estas son algunas de las consecuencias

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que puede tener los hijos de
padres narcisitas.

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Ahora, echemos un vistazo de cerca

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a los rasgos de aquellos que crían
a sus hijos

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en un ambiente tóxico.

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Empezando por el número diez.

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"Tenme miedo, pero ámame."

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Para los padres tóxicos, un ataque
emocional

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es sinónimo con amor y atención.

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En esas familias, los pueden saber
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de que humor están sus papás

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por el sonido al dejar las llaves,

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o el roce de los zapatos en la entrada.

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Estos niños viven en constante temor

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y aprehensión.

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Padres tóxicos así a menudo se ofenden

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si sus acciones buenas son tratadas
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Ellos reclaman,

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"¡he hecho todo por ti¡"

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¡y aún así eres un malagradecido!

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Número nueve.

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Tienes que lidiar con problemas
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Pero aún no tienes derechos.

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En familias tóxicas,

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los padres comparten su
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de sus hijos.

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Por ejemplo:

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Estos niños probablemente creen que
especificamente

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su mal comportamiento hace
que su padre

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abuse del alcohol para calmarse.

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Más tarde, los niños serán

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arrastrados en los escandalos adultos.

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Crecerán como adolescentes

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forzados a escuchar las quejas
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adaptarse a una situación complicada,

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ponerse en los zapatos de sus padres,

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y ayudar, tolerar y consolarlos.

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Aunque tristemente, en estos casos,

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los niños no tienen derecho a 
expresar su opinión.

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Número ocho.

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"Se el mejor,

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pero no olvides

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que no eres especial."

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Los padres narcisistas

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esperan que sus hijos se desempeñen
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Muy a menudo,

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solo están tratando de
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por sus propios fracasos.

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Si querían construir una
carrera prestigiosa,

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o soñaban con convertirse en
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les hacían falta
cualidades necesarias

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para tener éxito en estas
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Sin embargo, aún si su hijo
lo hace mucho mejor

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de lo que ellos lo hicieron
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todo los logros de sus hijos
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Comentarios de menosprecio
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porque los hace crecer
creyendo que son

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una decepción permanente para sus padres.

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Número siete.

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"Ábrete a mi,

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pero no te sorprendas
por el ridículo."

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Los padres tóxicos

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obligan a sus hijos
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y, a veces, incluso
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si no quieren compartir
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Aunque más tarde,

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la misma información personal
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Por ejemplo:

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pueden no ver nada malo,
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