[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.57,0:00:03.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men will stop at nothing. Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.57,0:00:05.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd rather die than lose I think. Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.81,0:00:08.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can't trust women. Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.54,0:00:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women can get away with everything\NI think in life, just by smiling. Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.95,0:00:15.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men and women can't get along. Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.45,0:00:19.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't feel Craig\Nunderstands me hardly at all. Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.12,0:00:22.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are we different species? Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.26,0:00:25.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Five men, five women. Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.66,0:00:27.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found it really, really difficult. Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.59,0:00:29.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men have no empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.13,0:00:32.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The world's biggest sex survey... Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.77,0:00:36.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Secret experiments... Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.41,0:00:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in a world first,\Nbrain changing drugs... Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.31,0:00:45.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's totally changed me life. Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.78,0:00:47.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mate? How're you doing? Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.98,0:00:52.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Prepare to discover\Nwhat really separate the sexes. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.69,0:01:06.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've invited five women and five men\Nto take part in a series of unique tests. Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.83,0:01:07.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Good morning.\N- Morning. Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.83,0:01:08.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could you tell me your name please? Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.77,0:01:10.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes. Jamie Hannah. Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.30,0:01:16.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our test group has been chosen to represent\Nas broad a range of people as possible. Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.48,0:01:17.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what is your occupation? Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.64,0:01:18.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a housewife. Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.41,0:01:20.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah, investment banker. Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.61,0:01:21.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Engineer. Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.35,0:01:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a teaching assistant. Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.18,0:01:25.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how many\Nsexual partners have you had? Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.42,0:01:26.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um... three. Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.29,0:01:28.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can count on both hands. Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.56,0:01:32.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hmm, God I can't answer that. Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.62,0:01:35.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, a number less than my wife I think. Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.80,0:01:39.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The volunteers know\Nthey're taking part in a programme Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.33,0:01:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the differences\Nbetween men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.14,0:01:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to take a saliva sample... Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.34,0:01:47.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What they don't know is\Nthat by the end of the programme Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.34,0:01:51.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of them will have totally changed\Ntheir view of who they really are. Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.52,0:01:58.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First they need to complete Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.92,0:02:01.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the BBC's online sex survey. Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.69,0:02:03.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They" be tested on everything from Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.22,0:02:06.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,language to love, geometry to greed. Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.76,0:02:09.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On your laptop computers\Nthere are a series of programmes Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.10,0:02:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that assess a whole range\Nof traits and abilities. Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.53,0:02:17.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we want to see is how\Nthe brains of men and women differ. Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.01,0:02:21.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Professor Richard Lippa and his colleagues Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.81,0:02:23.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,designed the survey for us, Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.84,0:02:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and since it went online nearly half a\Nmillion people world-wide have taken part. Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.58,0:02:35.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the single largest gender survey\Nthat's ever been conducted. Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.56,0:02:41.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've never been able to assess such a\Nvariety of people in so many different areas. Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.93,0:02:46.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we want to know is how\Ndifferent our men and women are Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.83,0:02:49.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how they measure up to the nation. Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.98,0:02:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd rather die than lose I think. Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.48,0:03:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm more interested in engineering\Nthan I am in people. Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.18,0:03:04.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a fighter. Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.22,0:03:07.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that's a masculine quality\Nthat I definitely have. Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.95,0:03:10.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a man in a traditionally female role. Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.42,0:03:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I like to say how I feel. Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.16,0:03:14.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If that gets me into trouble, so be it. Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.96,0:03:16.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well that's me. Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.43,0:03:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He sees me a bit like\Na Rottweiler or something. Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.93,0:03:23.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I always wear something\Nthat's quite low cut, quite you know... Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.30,0:03:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In my job we deal with um,\Nhundred and millions of pounds. Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.17,0:03:29.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're just numbers on screen. Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.44,0:03:30.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're just zeros. Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.41,0:03:34.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wouldn't really say\NI was a girlie girl at all. Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.38,0:03:42.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'll be testing out\Nvolunteers whatever they do. Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.92,0:03:44.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even the cab they arrived in Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.49,0:03:46.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was rigged with hidden cameras. Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.29,0:03:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hello.\N- Alright, how are you doing. Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.26,0:03:49.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And driven by an actor. Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.53,0:03:50.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The BBC, eh? Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.63,0:03:52.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What a load of bollocks.\N- Is it? Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.53,0:03:55.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's going on? Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.54,0:03:58.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're doing a science programme,\Ndifference between men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.07,0:04:00.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The way they think,\Nthe way that we think differently, eh? Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.94,0:04:04.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. As in, men do,\Nwomen don't. You know? Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.91,0:04:08.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I love documentaries.\N- Yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.51,0:04:09.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's so much rubbish on telly. Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.98,0:04:14.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The actor makes sure that all of our\Npassengers hear the same conversation. Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.35,0:04:16.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well they were saying\Nthat the square mile down here, Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.19,0:04:17.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if it-if it was an independent country Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.92,0:04:19.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it would be the 20th richest in the world. Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.79,0:04:20.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.46,0:04:22.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- That's what they were saying.\N- Amazing. Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.93,0:04:25.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well you'd think\Nafter 29 years of marriage Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.76,0:04:27.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'd know someone pretty well,\Nwouldn't you. Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.40,0:04:28.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You would do, wouldn't you. Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.43,0:04:30.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not me. She's run off with another bloke. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.14,0:04:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like obviously not. Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.47,0:04:33.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think that's why I'm on the show. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.21,0:04:36.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd fucking party mass\Noff round the world. Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.44,0:04:40.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just can't believe I was that stupid. Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.65,0:04:45.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But will the men and women Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.68,0:04:48.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember different bits\Nof what they've heard? Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.62,0:04:52.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Will the next person come in please? Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.06,0:04:56.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Psychiatrist Doctor Sandra Scott Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.20,0:04:58.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,springs a surprise interrogation. Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.80,0:05:01.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What kind of car did you come here in? Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.77,0:05:03.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er it was a silver Mercedes. Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.20,0:05:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anything else? Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.47,0:05:08.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er, silver, leather seats, Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.48,0:05:12.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um, GPS system on the dashboard... Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.91,0:05:13.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That it? Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.98,0:05:18.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I noticed the central locking\Nswitch had a chrome handle Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.42,0:05:21.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for opening the door\Nafter central locking. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.59,0:05:23.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you talk to the cab driver? Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.59,0:05:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er yeah we talked Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.72,0:05:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,er about um... Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.79,0:05:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sort of financial centre of er London. Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.86,0:05:32.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah they were going on\Nabout the square mile which is, Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.56,0:05:34.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you-you might have heard of it,\Njust down here? Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.10,0:05:37.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's where all the banks are in London.\NYeah. Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.44,0:05:41.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They reckon that if it\Nwas an independent country Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.47,0:05:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it'd be the 20th richest\Nin the world. Unbelievable. Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.91,0:05:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.01,0:05:51.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you recall\Nthree facts or possibly more Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.52,0:05:54.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what he told you\Nabout the City of London? Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.32,0:06:00.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um... tch... er... Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.33,0:06:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't remember. He was er, um... Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.90,0:06:09.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er... no. Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.67,0:06:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you remember him\Ntalking about his marriage? Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.84,0:06:13.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes I do, yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.01,0:06:15.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that was another topic covered. Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.64,0:06:17.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was, yeah... Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.88,0:06:18.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Car was automatic by the way. Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.11,0:06:19.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sorry? Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.85,0:06:21.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The car was automatic, by the way. Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.48,0:06:22.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.22,0:06:23.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It had a walnut trim. Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.92,0:06:25.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So were you actually listening to him? Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.38,0:06:28.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I... yes! Er um er or connecting Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.79,0:06:33.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but-rather than wishing\Nto store information, so... Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.76,0:06:34.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did interest you? Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.46,0:06:36.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Talking about his marriage problems. Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.63,0:06:38.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He was really quite open\Nwhich quite surprised me really Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.83,0:06:40.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because men are quite,\Nnormally hide their feelings Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.63,0:06:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he was quite forthcoming. Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.57,0:06:44.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know he's glad\Nthat the kids are older Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.50,0:06:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they've moved out, Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.24,0:06:48.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it just means\Nthat he's alone now really. Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.94,0:06:51.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he said,\Nif it had been the other way round, Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.54,0:06:53.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um, she would have\Nfound out really early on. Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.45,0:06:55.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, sort of\Nwoman's instinct and all that. Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.32,0:06:56.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did you catch her out? Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.15,0:06:59.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You didn't find her at...\Ncome home early, did you? Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.79,0:07:01.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That'd be awful. Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.09,0:07:03.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Generally speaking, Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.26,0:07:07.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of the women had a much be-better\Nmemory for the emotional facts. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.86,0:07:10.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men were more thing oriented... Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.43,0:07:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And women were more people oriented. Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.40,0:07:20.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women like relationships, men like facts. Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.51,0:07:22.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But according to Italian scientists Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.81,0:07:24.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not quite so simple. Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.88,0:07:28.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay guys, take a seat.\NMake yourself comfortable. Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.18,0:07:31.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm just going to get you\Nto watch a few minutes of TV. Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.15,0:07:33.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the Italians are right, Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.72,0:07:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're about to witness\Nsomething very revealing. Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.97,0:07:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A High Street bank has warned\Nthat the number of new buyers Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.77,0:07:55.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has plunged to it's lowest level\Nfor 20 years. The problem of... Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.04,0:07:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we asked our viewers\Nwhat they'd seen and heard Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.08,0:08:01.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we discovered an extraordinary thing. Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.61,0:08:04.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When 24-hour drinking\Nbecomes legal in England Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.45,0:08:06.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Wales later this year pubs... Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.62,0:08:10.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The men remembered some of what\Nour male newsreader had said... Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.36,0:08:12.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Licenses had been applied\Nfor six from London, Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.76,0:08:14.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,none from other places. Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.73,0:08:16.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If they didn't er\Ncurb it within eight weeks Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.06,0:08:18.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were gonna receive a fine. Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.86,0:08:21.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Scientists are warning\Nthat a recent outbreak of bird... Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.03,0:08:24.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when they were\Nwatching his female colleague Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.44,0:08:26.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they appeared to have gone deaf. Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.77,0:08:28.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The scars outbreak in 2002... Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.38,0:08:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...She had two stories... Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.31,0:08:35.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er-er... she was quite\Nattractive for a start. Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.75,0:08:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The girl had a pink top with black trim. Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.58,0:08:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's about all I can remember. Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.05,0:08:42.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she had nice breasts. Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.86,0:08:48.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We found that men\Nare indeed interested in facts, Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.23,0:08:50.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one thing\Nthey're more interested in... Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.100,0:08:52.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is sex. Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.27,0:08:54.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which stands to reason. Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.53,0:08:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men are, after all,\Nmuch more promiscuous than women... Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.37,0:09:00.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aren't they? Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.44,0:09:08.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many partners have you had sexual\Nintercourse with in the past five years? Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.78,0:09:10.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How old were you\Nwhen you lost your virginity? Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.35,0:09:13.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We sent our researchers to find out Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.92,0:09:17.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just how much more\Npromiscuous men really are... Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.56,0:09:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our street survey found that on average, Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.76,0:09:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men reported 13 sexual partners, Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.33,0:09:26.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while women only managed 7, Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.93,0:09:29.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in line with other sex surveys. Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.70,0:09:33.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But hold on,\Nwho are all the men sleeping with? Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.94,0:09:36.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the survey's about\Nsexual behaviours and attitudes. Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.21,0:09:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The trouble with asking\Npersonal questions face to face Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.25,0:09:43.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that you rarely get honest answers. Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.45,0:09:46.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many sexual partners have you had? Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.32,0:09:49.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think... 25 or\Nsomething like that, 20-25. Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.46,0:09:51.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can count on both hands. Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.26,0:09:52.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can... Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.06,0:09:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- So 10.\N- Ten. Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.46,0:09:58.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Either men are exaggerating or Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.50,0:10:01.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women are being\Neconomical with the truth. Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.70,0:10:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To find out what's going on Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.84,0:10:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we asked our volunteers\Nto take a lie detector test. Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.01,0:10:10.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm gonna put wire round your stomach, Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.54,0:10:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm gonna put\None around your chest... Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.51,0:10:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then take the reading from one of them. Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.02,0:10:19.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Try to breathe normally without taking\Nin a deep breath or holding your breath. Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.72,0:10:20.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.62,0:10:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Try not to nod or shake your head, Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.19,0:10:22.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just say yes and no. Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.12,0:10:24.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.69,0:10:30.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am the owner of a financial\Nand accounting recruitment firm... Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.70,0:10:36.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm very money driven. Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.10,0:10:40.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be Jack I want to have\Nnice holidays, you know, Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.84,0:10:43.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to get my convertible sports car. Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.11,0:10:46.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in the next six months\Nthey're my goals. Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.44,0:10:47.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm gonna achieve them. Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.85,0:10:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gonna make sure it happens. Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.85,0:10:53.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Well I am about to start the test.\N- Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.89,0:10:55.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I wanna hear from you\Nis a yes or a no. Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.82,0:10:56.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.39,0:10:59.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Is your first name Lucy?\N- Yes. Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.36,0:11:06.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you had around 10\Nsexual partners in your lifetime? Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.13,0:11:07.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.97,0:11:12.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you had more than 10\Nsexual partners in your lifetime? Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.81,0:11:14.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes. Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.21,0:11:23.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have had more sexual partners\Nthan I admitted to. Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.52,0:11:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know the reasons as to probably why\NI didn't want to sort of announce it, Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.25,0:11:28.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but yes I have. Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.22,0:11:29.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well what are the reasons? Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.22,0:11:31.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I think the main reasons\Nis-is sort of you know, Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.49,0:11:34.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the reputation side of it um, you know. Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.26,0:11:35.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to attract the... Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.33,0:11:38.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think the-the man out there is\Nstill old-fashioned in his views and points, Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.60,0:11:42.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um, I think that you know, he still likes\Na very sort of feminine type of girl who... Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.47,0:11:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the thought of him, er her sorry, Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.74,0:11:47.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have slept with a lot of men,\Nyou know, disgusts him. Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.48,0:11:53.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they filled in\Nour anonymous online survey, Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.68,0:11:58.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men and women did admit to having\Nthe same numbers of sexual partners. Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.48,0:12:02.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what's more,\Nnearly a quarter of both sexes Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.76,0:12:06.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,admitted to having been\Nunfaithful to a long-term partner. Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.96,0:12:10.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We also found that\Nwhatever their past experience, Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.50,0:12:12.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men predicted more than twice as many Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.36,0:12:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexual partners in the future\Nthan women did. Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.04,0:12:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So even though men\Nare distracted by the idea of sex Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.71,0:12:24.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they aren't more promiscuous\Nthan women after all. Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.91,0:12:28.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just that they'd like to be. Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.32,0:12:32.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So one myth busted. Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.18,0:12:34.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What about the other stereotypes? Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.45,0:12:35.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women are more emotional. Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.19,0:12:37.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're more understanding... Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.72,0:12:38.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Friendlier... Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.72,0:12:39.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sensitive... Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.72,0:12:40.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Caring... Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.53,0:12:46.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But are women really more caring? Dialogue: 0,0:12:48.77,0:12:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We hired an 8-year old actress, Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.00,0:12:54.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fitted her with a secret camera, Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.11,0:12:57.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and abandoned her on a London street. Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.28,0:13:02.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is what happened next... Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.66,0:13:22.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This test is a measure of empathy, Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.54,0:13:26.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the ability to put yourself\Nin someone else's shoes Dialogue: 0,0:13:26.44,0:13:28.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to act appropriately. Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.21,0:13:33.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hello darling. Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.55,0:13:35.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You alright, sweetheart?\N- Yeah. Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.38,0:13:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're waiting for someone, pet? Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.82,0:13:40.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah my mummy's just gone in Simsbury's. Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.72,0:13:46.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- How long's she been?\N- Mm, don't know. Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.43,0:13:52.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want some company? Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.56,0:13:54.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I think it was shock\Nto both of us to see Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.87,0:13:58.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little girl sitting all on her own\Nup against a cement wall. Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.17,0:14:02.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes. And you just wanted to\Ngo in and protect her and... Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.64,0:14:03.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. And that's... Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.78,0:14:05.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,make sure that she was okay. Dialogue: 0,0:14:05.68,0:14:08.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it was just commonsense Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.51,0:14:11.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you see a little girl on her own\Nyou don't walk past her. Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.08,0:14:15.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I saw her twice actually,\Ngoing down and coming back up... Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.26,0:14:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought she was probably waiting for\Nsomebody in the hairdressers actually. Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.66,0:14:22.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I noticed she actually did have\Nquite a brand new pair of shoes on. Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.63,0:14:26.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I thought she doesn't look as if\Nshe's in a light amount of trouble. Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.87,0:14:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a man with me own, aren't I. Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.20,0:14:34.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if I'm seen talking\Nto little girls like that, Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.41,0:14:35.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what's the reaction? Dialogue: 0,0:14:37.94,0:14:40.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of all the excuses given\Nfor doing nothing, Dialogue: 0,0:14:40.68,0:14:42.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,concern about being seen as a paedophile Dialogue: 0,0:14:42.82,0:14:44.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seems the most plausible. Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.32,0:14:48.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But note that none of\Nthe men alerted the authorities Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.89,0:14:51.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or asked a women to help on their behalf. Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.39,0:14:53.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you doing there, poppet? Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.52,0:14:55.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,During the hour we filmed, Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.43,0:14:57.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,41 women stopped to help. Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.43,0:15:02.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some of them were so concerned\Nthat they came back several times. Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.90,0:15:07.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But only two men stopped. Dialogue: 0,0:15:07.41,0:15:08.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one of them was with a woman. Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.07,0:15:10.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Are you alright, darlin'?\N- Yeah... Dialogue: 0,0:15:11.08,0:15:13.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Twenty two percent of women offered help Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.65,0:15:16.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as opposed tojust one percent of men. Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.35,0:15:21.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But this is just one test, Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.99,0:15:24.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one way of measuring empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.33,0:15:30.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our volunteers are about to try another. Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.40,0:15:43.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Former para Paddy Doyle\Nruns a boxing gym. Dialogue: 0,0:15:43.24,0:15:46.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it wasn't for fitness\NI'd be... be-be in prison. Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.28,0:15:47.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know. I would be. Dialogue: 0,0:15:47.71,0:15:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paddy holds 130 world records Dialogue: 0,0:15:50.55,0:15:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for fitness and endurance. Dialogue: 0,0:15:53.89,0:15:57.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He is officially\Nthe world's fittest athlete. Dialogue: 0,0:15:58.62,0:16:02.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've-I've had to be selfish\Ner while doing my sport. Dialogue: 0,0:16:03.96,0:16:04.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's affected my relationships Dialogue: 0,0:16:05.16,0:16:06.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because women couldn't take that. Dialogue: 0,0:16:07.03,0:16:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was either the world records or them. Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.17,0:16:11.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And unfortunately I went\Nfor the world records. Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.81,0:16:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like the others, Dialogue: 0,0:16:14.91,0:16:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paddy has filled in a detailed psychological\Nquestionnaire designed to measure empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:16:25.25,0:16:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of the half a million people\Nwho took part in our online survey, Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.19,0:16:32.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over 90%% % of the top scorers were women. Dialogue: 0,0:16:32.89,0:16:35.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men were very much in second place. Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.100,0:16:41.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do you think\Nyour husband would do on this? Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.60,0:16:42.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do-what do you think his score... Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.63,0:16:43.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh this guy, you'd be having a laugh, Dialogue: 0,0:16:44.07,0:16:45.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right at bottom. Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.54,0:16:46.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men have no empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.01,0:16:47.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.87,0:16:50.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Well let's to a man to see\Nhow he feels about that. Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.48,0:16:53.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For empathising I got 12 out of 20. Dialogue: 0,0:16:53.88,0:16:55.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, are we surprised? Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.31,0:16:56.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes. Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.58,0:17:00.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thought it would have been um...\Na bit less. Dialogue: 0,0:17:00.95,0:17:03.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. So that has surprised me. Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.89,0:17:07.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the empathy test Dialogue: 0,0:17:07.36,0:17:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paddy actually outscored\Nall the other men, Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.73,0:17:12.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all but two of the women. Dialogue: 0,0:17:14.23,0:17:14.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paddy's breaking the mould Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.10,0:17:16.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shown that some men\Ncan be very empathic. Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.07,0:17:17.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What about you? Dialogue: 0,0:17:18.07,0:17:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, definitely not.\NA case, apparently, according to this test. Dialogue: 0,0:17:22.04,0:17:23.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got 3 out of 20. Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.64,0:17:25.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Apparently I've been told\NI do lack a bit of empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.11,0:17:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And er I-I have tried using it\Nin a sentence before like saying, Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.78,0:17:31.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I empathise with you. Dialogue: 0,0:17:31.28,0:17:32.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But apparently that's not empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:17:33.52,0:17:35.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I suggest you go to\NPaddy for some lessons? Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.45,0:17:36.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will. Dialogue: 0,0:17:41.09,0:17:45.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz and Craig Watson have\Na personal interest in empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.46,0:17:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone looks so happy, don't they. Dialogue: 0,0:17:48.10,0:17:50.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It seemed very idyllic really. Dialogue: 0,0:17:50.94,0:17:55.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I rememberjust feeling\Nvery comfortable with you. Then. Dialogue: 0,0:17:57.04,0:17:59.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Craig is very calculating. Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.28,0:18:00.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's very stubborn. Dialogue: 0,0:18:00.71,0:18:01.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Incredibly stubborn. Dialogue: 0,0:18:02.01,0:18:04.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz is... is the opposite of myself. Dialogue: 0,0:18:04.78,0:18:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, she's almost too fiery, Dialogue: 0,0:18:07.05,0:18:09.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,too almost out of control at times. Dialogue: 0,0:18:10.12,0:18:13.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't feel Craig\Nunderstands me hardly at all. Dialogue: 0,0:18:13.96,0:18:16.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we've gone out sometimes\Nand Craig's had a book, Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.40,0:18:17.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he's reading the book when we're out. Dialogue: 0,0:18:17.96,0:18:18.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know and that-that... Dialogue: 0,0:18:18.80,0:18:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that really upsets me actually. Dialogue: 0,0:18:20.60,0:18:22.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, I haven't done\Nthat for several years. Dialogue: 0,0:18:22.27,0:18:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh you've done it recently. Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.57,0:18:27.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Craig is living the life\Nof a bachelor, actually. Dialogue: 0,0:18:27.87,0:18:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he, you know,\Nhe's a great bachelor. Dialogue: 0,0:18:34.25,0:18:35.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz and Craig blame each other Dialogue: 0,0:18:36.05,0:18:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for their failure to communicate. Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.72,0:18:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in an unusual move\Nwe've asked neurologist Reuben Gerr Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.62,0:18:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to examine their brains. Dialogue: 0,0:18:44.82,0:18:47.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So um here is er the scanner, Dialogue: 0,0:18:47.66,0:18:51.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and er what we will get\Nis an image of your brain anatomy, Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.10,0:18:53.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but more importantly we'll get images of Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.10,0:18:56.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what parts of the brain become active Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.37,0:18:59.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you have to solve\Nspecific kinds of problems. Dialogue: 0,0:19:01.11,0:19:02.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A key part of empathy Dialogue: 0,0:19:02.67,0:19:05.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is recognising how other people feel. Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.34,0:19:07.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'll start doing the tests, Dialogue: 0,0:19:07.51,0:19:12.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the first test is the test\Ner of emotion recognition. Dialogue: 0,0:19:12.95,0:19:16.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you have to answer whether the face er Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.52,0:19:20.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looks to you like a positive\Nor a negative emotion. Dialogue: 0,0:19:20.76,0:19:23.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To me communication is\Nmostly about the non-verbal, Dialogue: 0,0:19:23.23,0:19:25.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not what you actually say\Nbut what you're feeling. Dialogue: 0,0:19:25.60,0:19:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think Craig's not that in touch\Nwith his feelings enough. Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.77,0:19:31.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Actually maybe I've got perhaps\Nmore sensitivity in that area Dialogue: 0,0:19:31.34,0:19:34.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than I'm given credit for,\Nand-and vice versa that Lizzie Dialogue: 0,0:19:34.41,0:19:37.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hasn't got quite as much strength in that area\Nthat she gives herself credit for. Dialogue: 0,0:19:39.01,0:19:40.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well that's interesting. Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.34,0:19:41.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just learned something else. Dialogue: 0,0:19:44.62,0:19:46.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the scan reveals that Liz and Craig Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.82,0:19:48.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,read other people's emotion differently Dialogue: 0,0:19:49.09,0:19:53.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then some of their misunderstandings\Nmight be instantly explained. Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.43,0:20:00.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The part of the brain that deals with emotions\Nis right in the centre of the brain, right here. Dialogue: 0,0:20:00.77,0:20:03.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz shows er a hefty activation, Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.74,0:20:07.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas Craig's brain\Nshows no activation at all Dialogue: 0,0:20:07.21,0:20:09.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in this emotional part of the brain... Dialogue: 0,0:20:09.51,0:20:10.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not locking on. Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.31,0:20:14.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...whereas you went straight to\Nthe emotional part and you say, Dialogue: 0,0:20:14.31,0:20:17.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how would I have felt\Nif I were looking like that. Dialogue: 0,0:20:17.32,0:20:19.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You-you-you immediately invoke the... Dialogue: 0,0:20:19.25,0:20:21.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the-the emotional part of your brain. Dialogue: 0,0:20:22.65,0:20:27.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz is 40%% % more accurate than Craig\Nat reading emotion in others Dialogue: 0,0:20:27.29,0:20:30.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because she is using the\Nemotional part of her own brain. Dialogue: 0,0:20:31.66,0:20:33.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the scans reveal that in this test Dialogue: 0,0:20:33.73,0:20:38.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Craig shows no emotional response at all. Dialogue: 0,0:20:38.30,0:20:40.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz, are you surprised at Craig's result? Dialogue: 0,0:20:40.67,0:20:42.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What surprised me most was the fact Dialogue: 0,0:20:42.57,0:20:48.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it was completely devoid of any emotional\Nresponse in the centre part of the brain. Dialogue: 0,0:20:48.55,0:20:51.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean that actually\Nhas given me a big insight into Dialogue: 0,0:20:51.68,0:20:56.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why um I've often felt I wish\Nhe would show some emotion... Dialogue: 0,0:20:56.99,0:20:58.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah but-but also switching back, Dialogue: 0,0:20:58.22,0:21:00.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in terms of our relationship and\Nin terms ofjust our understanding, Dialogue: 0,0:21:00.73,0:21:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I sometimes need things to be spelt out more.\NYeah. Dialogue: 0,0:21:03.10,0:21:06.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah that-just don't think I'm going\Nto take it on telepathically or sojust, Dialogue: 0,0:21:06.100,0:21:08.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've actually got to tell me. Dialogue: 0,0:21:08.80,0:21:12.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And also I mean in situations where\Nthere's plenty of conflict and so on, Dialogue: 0,0:21:12.54,0:21:14.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm trying to calm things down actually. Dialogue: 0,0:21:14.24,0:21:15.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess I just want to avoid conflict, Dialogue: 0,0:21:16.01,0:21:18.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas you're more able to...\Nor more willing to fort of embrace... Dialogue: 0,0:21:19.14,0:21:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Well I just think it's-it's a much\Nmore interesting level to operate on Dialogue: 0,0:21:23.05,0:21:26.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you can get into\Nyour emotional response a bit more. Dialogue: 0,0:21:26.32,0:21:29.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If women assume that men\Nare just like them, and vice versa, Dialogue: 0,0:21:29.39,0:21:30.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's when you get into difficulties. Dialogue: 0,0:21:31.09,0:21:31.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As far as you're concerned Dialogue: 0,0:21:31.86,0:21:33.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're sending out all these signals. Dialogue: 0,0:21:33.36,0:21:35.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's entirely obvious that you are upset, Dialogue: 0,0:21:35.83,0:21:37.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so then when the bloke doesn't respond Dialogue: 0,0:21:37.53,0:21:38.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you up the anti some more Dialogue: 0,0:21:38.76,0:21:40.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you're determined\Nto get an emotional response, Dialogue: 0,0:21:40.67,0:21:42.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you introduce emotive s-you know, Dialogue: 0,0:21:42.60,0:21:44.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotive topics so he has to respond, Dialogue: 0,0:21:44.64,0:21:45.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he can't ignore it. Dialogue: 0,0:21:46.10,0:21:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then what do you do? Dialogue: 0,0:21:47.37,0:21:48.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You end up having a ding-dong. Dialogue: 0,0:21:48.91,0:21:51.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a shame for it\Nto have to degenerate into a row... Dialogue: 0,0:21:51.34,0:21:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just in order to activate\Nthe emotional response... Dialogue: 0,0:21:54.35,0:21:57.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The only real way forward\Nis to realise we are different, Dialogue: 0,0:21:57.18,0:21:59.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we process this sort\Nof information differently, Dialogue: 0,0:21:59.32,0:22:00.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how are we gonna make that work. Dialogue: 0,0:22:07.39,0:22:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until recently scientists\Nwere reluctant to acknowledge Dialogue: 0,0:22:10.43,0:22:12.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any sex differences. Dialogue: 0,0:22:12.53,0:22:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Partly because of history. Dialogue: 0,0:22:15.87,0:22:21.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1879 Gustav LeBon,\Nthe founding father of psychology Dialogue: 0,0:22:21.27,0:22:24.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,announced that\Nintelligent women are so rare Dialogue: 0,0:22:24.78,0:22:28.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they are as exceptional as\Nthe birth of any monstrosity, Dialogue: 0,0:22:28.48,0:22:31.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as for example, a gorilla with two heads. Dialogue: 0,0:22:32.05,0:22:35.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Consequently we men\Nneglect them entirely. Dialogue: 0,0:22:38.09,0:22:42.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that, 125 years ago, was medical fact. Dialogue: 0,0:22:47.57,0:22:51.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I bring out a male brain\Nand put it next to a female brain Dialogue: 0,0:22:51.50,0:22:53.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can see er\Nthere's very little differences Dialogue: 0,0:22:53.67,0:22:56.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in any of the structures\Non the surface of the brain. Dialogue: 0,0:22:56.34,0:22:59.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The only difference really\Nbetween these two is their size. Dialogue: 0,0:22:59.64,0:23:03.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, ah, in general female brains\Nare a little bit smaller. Dialogue: 0,0:23:04.05,0:23:07.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the er explanation for this is\Nthat men tend to be bigger. Dialogue: 0,0:23:07.95,0:23:11.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so this is in proportion\Nto that difference in body size. Dialogue: 0,0:23:11.86,0:23:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think anyone's going to suggest Dialogue: 0,0:23:13.16,0:23:16.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that a small man is any\Nless intelligent than a large man. Dialogue: 0,0:23:16.53,0:23:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having said that,\Nthere have been a number of er studies Dialogue: 0,0:23:19.13,0:23:23.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to suggest that certain areas of the brain\Nmight be slightly different in size. Dialogue: 0,0:23:23.40,0:23:28.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the biggest areas of difference\Nappear to be in language processing, Dialogue: 0,0:23:29.04,0:23:29.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and also in this part Dialogue: 0,0:23:29.98,0:23:35.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the frontal lobe which is important\Nin visio-spacial processing. Dialogue: 0,0:23:35.41,0:23:38.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this might be\Nthe basis for some of the er Dialogue: 0,0:23:38.25,0:23:41.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,functional differences we see\Nbetween men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:23:41.22,0:23:43.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah, they may just be wired up differently. Dialogue: 0,0:23:44.82,0:23:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dub. Dialogue: 0,0:23:46.29,0:23:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In this test Dialogue: 0,0:23:47.56,0:23:50.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tim is listening to made-up words. Dialogue: 0,0:23:51.03,0:23:51.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bok. Dialogue: 0,0:23:52.33,0:23:55.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Different sounds are played\Nto each ear at the same time... Dialogue: 0,0:23:55.73,0:23:56.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bub. Dialogue: 0,0:23:56.77,0:23:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but Tim only hears one of them. Dialogue: 0,0:24:00.14,0:24:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gab. Dialogue: 0,0:24:01.64,0:24:03.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Clare listens to the same test, Dialogue: 0,0:24:04.04,0:24:05.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is what she hears... Dialogue: 0,0:24:06.34,0:24:07.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gab and gat. Dialogue: 0,0:24:08.18,0:24:11.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because women use both sides\Nof the brain to process speech Dialogue: 0,0:24:11.85,0:24:13.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Clare can hear both sounds. Dialogue: 0,0:24:13.78,0:24:15.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tod and top. Dialogue: 0,0:24:16.19,0:24:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dot. Dialogue: 0,0:24:17.32,0:24:21.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Tim, who as a man,\Nonly uses the right side of his brain... Dialogue: 0,0:24:21.86,0:24:22.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get. Dialogue: 0,0:24:22.76,0:24:24.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...can only hear one. Dialogue: 0,0:24:25.43,0:24:26.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bok. Dialogue: 0,0:24:28.23,0:24:30.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found it really, really difficult. Dialogue: 0,0:24:30.34,0:24:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It-it almost came over as one word... Dialogue: 0,0:24:32.74,0:24:34.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...in both ears at the same time. Dialogue: 0,0:24:38.88,0:24:41.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Things aren't looking very good for men. Dialogue: 0,0:24:41.85,0:24:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah it was automatic by the way. Dialogue: 0,0:24:43.98,0:24:46.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Object-centred, partially deaf, Dialogue: 0,0:24:46.38,0:24:49.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unempathic, sex-obsessed fantasists Dialogue: 0,0:24:49.96,0:24:52.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not how most of them\Nwould like to be remembered. Dialogue: 0,0:24:54.09,0:24:58.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men are supposed to be\Ngo-getting, thrusting, successful. Dialogue: 0,0:24:59.43,0:25:02.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we're giving them a chance to shine. Dialogue: 0,0:25:03.10,0:25:07.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, men love competition\Nand they're great at driving. Dialogue: 0,0:25:09.54,0:25:10.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aren't they? Dialogue: 0,0:25:11.44,0:25:13.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want women to win. Badly. Dialogue: 0,0:25:13.48,0:25:15.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm gonna really try and win this. Dialogue: 0,0:25:16.88,0:25:17.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm in! Dialogue: 0,0:25:18.08,0:25:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I almost feel it\Nin the pit of me stomach... Dialogue: 0,0:25:20.02,0:25:22.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I just wanna be better\Nthan everybody else. Dialogue: 0,0:25:25.76,0:25:28.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The hormone testosterone\Nplays an important part Dialogue: 0,0:25:28.76,0:25:30.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in competitiveness. Dialogue: 0,0:25:30.83,0:25:33.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Testosterone, the so-called male hormone, Dialogue: 0,0:25:33.73,0:25:36.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is actually produced by\Nboth men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:25:50.92,0:25:53.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're analysing our\Nvolunteers' hormone levels Dialogue: 0,0:25:53.28,0:25:54.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,throughout the competition Dialogue: 0,0:25:54.95,0:25:57.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to see how their testosterone responds. Dialogue: 0,0:26:07.10,0:26:10.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It seems that men, um,\Nthe kind of biological response Dialogue: 0,0:26:10.60,0:26:13.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to competition is very different\Nthan that in women. Dialogue: 0,0:26:15.14,0:26:16.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the men we see large fluctuations Dialogue: 0,0:26:16.88,0:26:20.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is consistent with what one expects\Nin response to competition, Dialogue: 0,0:26:21.61,0:26:24.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we see virtually zero fluctuation Dialogue: 0,0:26:24.52,0:26:25.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the women. Dialogue: 0,0:26:28.45,0:26:33.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men are more likely, um, as a result of\Nthis increase in testosterone to take risks, Dialogue: 0,0:26:33.36,0:26:34.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and risks might end in encounter Dialogue: 0,0:26:35.13,0:26:37.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and competitive encounter\Nmay be beneficial. Dialogue: 0,0:26:38.70,0:26:42.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The testosterone powered\Nmen quickly take the lead. Dialogue: 0,0:26:44.30,0:26:46.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lucy in cart 6,\Nthe woman who wanted to win, Dialogue: 0,0:26:47.17,0:26:49.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is languishing in 7th place. Dialogue: 0,0:26:51.84,0:26:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But right at the very front is Lloyd Dialogue: 0,0:26:54.91,0:26:58.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hotly pursued by Jamie\Ndriving cart number 8. Dialogue: 0,0:27:00.32,0:27:03.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah there's an individual who's very\Nmuch worth, ah, pointing out to you, Dialogue: 0,0:27:03.99,0:27:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that is number 2. Dialogue: 0,0:27:05.96,0:27:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah if we look at his T-levels um Dialogue: 0,0:27:07.66,0:27:10.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and compare them with his pre-race levels, Dialogue: 0,0:27:10.63,0:27:12.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a substantial increase. Dialogue: 0,0:27:13.66,0:27:15.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's ah likely to be a very competitive, Dialogue: 0,0:27:16.03,0:27:20.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,highly... highly strung individual\Nwho takes it very seriously. Dialogue: 0,0:27:24.01,0:27:26.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm more interested in\Nengineering than in people. Dialogue: 0,0:27:26.94,0:27:30.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it-if it came a choice between\Nseparating me from me lathe, Dialogue: 0,0:27:30.48,0:27:32.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and separating me from Oliver, Dialogue: 0,0:27:32.32,0:27:34.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would let go of the lathe. Dialogue: 0,0:27:34.72,0:27:36.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I wouldn't give it up easily. Dialogue: 0,0:27:40.62,0:27:41.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Want me to go first? Dialogue: 0,0:27:42.56,0:27:43.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't just secretly let him win Dialogue: 0,0:27:43.83,0:27:45.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like his mum can. Dialogue: 0,0:27:46.36,0:27:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just don't feel it's honest. Dialogue: 0,0:27:48.73,0:27:50.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right are you ready? Ready for this? Dialogue: 0,0:27:50.34,0:27:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Dialogue: 0,0:27:51.44,0:27:52.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jump, jump. Dialogue: 0,0:27:56.11,0:27:56.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be honest I don't really feel bad Dialogue: 0,0:27:56.84,0:27:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he's crying. Dialogue: 0,0:27:59.88,0:28:01.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To me he's just displaying Dialogue: 0,0:28:01.51,0:28:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I would feel if I lost Dialogue: 0,0:28:03.58,0:28:05.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and want to be doing\Nthe same thing really. Dialogue: 0,0:28:09.22,0:28:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- How old is he?\N- Six. Dialogue: 0,0:28:14.89,0:28:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not a monster. Dialogue: 0,0:28:20.46,0:28:23.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But monstrous things\Nare happening to Lloyd. Dialogue: 0,0:28:23.57,0:28:24.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jamie's taken the lead Dialogue: 0,0:28:24.90,0:28:27.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he's not showing\Nany signs of giving it back. Dialogue: 0,0:28:29.87,0:28:31.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as Lloyd tries to regain the lead Dialogue: 0,0:28:31.78,0:28:33.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his testosterone sky-rockets Dialogue: 0,0:28:33.71,0:28:37.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and things go from bad to worse. Dialogue: 0,0:28:40.98,0:28:44.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet more testosterone,\Nand more stupid risks. Dialogue: 0,0:28:45.49,0:28:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lloyd's race position is in free-fall. Dialogue: 0,0:28:50.23,0:28:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Jamie strolls past the chequered flag, Dialogue: 0,0:28:54.26,0:28:56.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lloyd's world has disintegrated. Dialogue: 0,0:28:58.54,0:29:01.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The former race leader finishes fifth. Dialogue: 0,0:29:03.37,0:29:04.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I have an extraordinary finding here Dialogue: 0,0:29:05.08,0:29:12.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where number 2's testosterone levels decline\Nrapidly to nearly that of his pre-race levels Dialogue: 0,0:29:13.02,0:29:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which suggests to me\Nthat something unusual has happened, Dialogue: 0,0:29:16.09,0:29:17.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that something has,\Nsomething's gone wrong here Dialogue: 0,0:29:17.96,0:29:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I suspect\Nhe's not very happy about it. Dialogue: 0,0:29:24.16,0:29:26.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel absolutely enraged. Dialogue: 0,0:29:26.63,0:29:28.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not with anybody else but with myself. Dialogue: 0,0:29:30.90,0:29:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Five minutes ago, when you were up there, Dialogue: 0,0:29:33.34,0:29:35.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could have got out, smashed something, Dialogue: 0,0:29:36.04,0:29:36.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hit somebody. Dialogue: 0,0:29:36.84,0:29:37.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's how I felt. Dialogue: 0,0:29:37.98,0:29:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wouldn't have done, Dialogue: 0,0:29:39.01,0:29:41.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you know\Nyou can't do that in public but... Dialogue: 0,0:29:41.38,0:29:41.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel good. Dialogue: 0,0:29:42.15,0:29:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I mean I wanted...\NI-I did actually aim to win. Dialogue: 0,0:29:45.12,0:29:45.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wasn't going in the... Dialogue: 0,0:29:46.02,0:29:48.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, I wanted to have a good time\Nbut I wanted to win as well. Dialogue: 0,0:29:51.22,0:29:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jamie's testosterone levels\Nduring the race Dialogue: 0,0:29:53.19,0:29:55.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,revealed the secret of his success. Dialogue: 0,0:29:57.50,0:29:59.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While Lloyd's levels went through the roof Dialogue: 0,0:29:59.86,0:30:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jamie's were much more subtle, Dialogue: 0,0:30:01.83,0:30:03.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,allowing him to become more competitive Dialogue: 0,0:30:04.04,0:30:06.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and take informed risks. Dialogue: 0,0:30:07.84,0:30:10.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His modest rises were useful Dialogue: 0,0:30:10.58,0:30:13.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where Lloyd's were catastrophic. Dialogue: 0,0:30:14.98,0:30:16.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if we look at the women, Dialogue: 0,0:30:16.61,0:30:19.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no rise in\Ntestosterone levels at all. Dialogue: 0,0:30:19.88,0:30:22.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no doubt\Nthat women can be competitive Dialogue: 0,0:30:22.29,0:30:26.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they don't have the edge\Nthat testosterone can give men. Dialogue: 0,0:30:26.89,0:30:28.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am a very competitive person Dialogue: 0,0:30:28.39,0:30:29.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was trying to do my best. Dialogue: 0,0:30:30.06,0:30:31.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, I think I just, you know, break... Dialogue: 0,0:30:32.06,0:30:33.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then when I see\Nsomebody in front of me, Dialogue: 0,0:30:34.13,0:30:36.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of trying to\Nswerve round them I hesitate. Dialogue: 0,0:30:38.47,0:30:40.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The men's' rise in testosterone Dialogue: 0,0:30:40.64,0:30:43.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,turbo-charges their competitive instinct, Dialogue: 0,0:30:43.47,0:30:46.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,though it can be a very mixed blessing. Dialogue: 0,0:30:48.91,0:30:50.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not by chance Dialogue: 0,0:30:50.32,0:30:52.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that women are less prone to road-rage. Dialogue: 0,0:30:56.65,0:30:59.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Testosterone is an\Nincredibly powerful hormone. Dialogue: 0,0:30:59.89,0:31:01.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It affects us all - Dialogue: 0,0:31:01.36,0:31:03.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:31:03.70,0:31:07.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it affects us\Nwell before we're even born. Dialogue: 0,0:31:11.57,0:31:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For the first few weeks of development Dialogue: 0,0:31:13.74,0:31:19.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's impossible to tell if the tiny embryo\Nfloating in its amniotic fluid is a boy or a girl. Dialogue: 0,0:31:20.78,0:31:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They all appear to be female. Dialogue: 0,0:31:24.75,0:31:25.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in week 8 Dialogue: 0,0:31:25.95,0:31:29.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the males start to produce\Ntestosterone in huge quantities, Dialogue: 0,0:31:29.92,0:31:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their bodies change. Dialogue: 0,0:31:34.26,0:31:35.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's recently been discovered Dialogue: 0,0:31:35.69,0:31:40.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that from the very start\Nthey seem to behave differently as well. Dialogue: 0,0:31:43.43,0:31:45.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At just a few hours old Dialogue: 0,0:31:45.44,0:31:48.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,girls prefer to look at a human face Dialogue: 0,0:31:48.97,0:31:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while boys will look at,\Nwell, anything really. Dialogue: 0,0:31:56.41,0:31:59.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Barely born, and yet girls like people. Dialogue: 0,0:32:00.45,0:32:03.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And boys like things. Dialogue: 0,0:32:13.10,0:32:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Professor Simon Baron-Cohen had a hunch\Nthat the differences in behaviour Dialogue: 0,0:32:17.34,0:32:19.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were down to testosterone. Dialogue: 0,0:32:20.47,0:32:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He just needed proof. Dialogue: 0,0:32:23.11,0:32:24.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was very surprised to discover Dialogue: 0,0:32:24.48,0:32:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that hospitals routinely store the amniotic fluid\Nafter they carry out an amniocentesis... Dialogue: 0,0:32:33.45,0:32:36.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the opportunity\Nthat we were looking for. Dialogue: 0,0:32:36.19,0:32:37.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here was the fluid Dialogue: 0,0:32:37.36,0:32:39.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that if you like allowed us\Nto go back in time Dialogue: 0,0:32:39.72,0:32:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make any link between\Nthe hormone levels in the womb Dialogue: 0,0:32:43.96,0:32:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the child's current behaviour. Dialogue: 0,0:32:48.50,0:32:52.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well finding the amniocentesis test\Nwas tremendously exciting Dialogue: 0,0:32:52.34,0:32:55.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because never before were you\Nable to measure testosterone levels Dialogue: 0,0:32:56.14,0:32:57.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,produced by the child Dialogue: 0,0:32:57.84,0:33:00.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and look at later\Nbehaviour in relation to that. Dialogue: 0,0:33:01.24,0:33:02.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh look at that there. Dialogue: 0,0:33:02.71,0:33:03.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do you think the big triangle's Dialogue: 0,0:33:03.92,0:33:05.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pushing the little one? Dialogue: 0,0:33:06.72,0:33:07.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't know. Dialogue: 0,0:33:07.55,0:33:08.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't know? Dialogue: 0,0:33:08.72,0:33:14.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well all the cartoons are designed to make\Npeople think about the two triangles as people. Dialogue: 0,0:33:14.79,0:33:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what we want to look at is\Nwhether there is any difference between Dialogue: 0,0:33:18.23,0:33:20.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the one with high testosterone\Nand low testosterone... Dialogue: 0,0:33:21.16,0:33:22.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very boring Dialogue: 0,0:33:23.33,0:33:27.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The kids with high testosterone are more\Nlikely to behave in a masculine way Dialogue: 0,0:33:27.90,0:33:29.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than the kids with low testosterone. Dialogue: 0,0:33:30.41,0:33:31.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The mummy and a baby, Dialogue: 0,0:33:31.88,0:33:34.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the mummy's pushing the baby out, Dialogue: 0,0:33:34.34,0:33:37.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so she could watch telly, Dialogue: 0,0:33:37.42,0:33:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,missed baby too noisy. Dialogue: 0,0:33:39.48,0:33:40.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah? That's great... Dialogue: 0,0:33:41.35,0:33:43.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the big triangle was a person, Dialogue: 0,0:33:43.65,0:33:45.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what kind of person would it be? Dialogue: 0,0:33:46.66,0:33:49.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- A triangle person.\N- A triangle person. Dialogue: 0,0:33:49.19,0:33:50.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What about the little triangle? Dialogue: 0,0:33:51.06,0:33:52.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What kind of person would they be? Dialogue: 0,0:33:53.33,0:33:56.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah but they're not,\N'cos they haven't got any legs. Dialogue: 0,0:33:57.14,0:34:00.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we've been able to show\Nthat the testosterone levels, Dialogue: 0,0:34:00.70,0:34:05.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,week 16 of your life,\Nare related to the eye contact you make, Dialogue: 0,0:34:06.14,0:34:09.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the social relationships that you have,\Nthe interests you have, Dialogue: 0,0:34:09.48,0:34:11.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how fast you learn to talk. Dialogue: 0,0:34:11.65,0:34:16.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All these things that could be very, very\Nimportant in the long term, for who you are. Dialogue: 0,0:34:22.53,0:34:27.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most of us will never have the opportunity\Nto have our amniotic fluid analysed. Dialogue: 0,0:34:28.70,0:34:32.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there is a scientist whose\Ncontroversial theory could mean Dialogue: 0,0:34:32.37,0:34:37.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can all tell how much testosterone\Nwe've been exposed to in the womb right now. Dialogue: 0,0:34:40.34,0:34:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our fingers have information\Nabout how much testosterone Dialogue: 0,0:34:43.68,0:34:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how much oestrogen\Nwe've been exposed to in the womb. Dialogue: 0,0:34:46.65,0:34:50.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the longer one's ring finger\Nrelative to one's index finger, Dialogue: 0,0:34:50.66,0:34:52.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more testosterone you've had. Dialogue: 0,0:34:52.46,0:34:55.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that testosterone\Nhas an effect on the brain, Dialogue: 0,0:34:55.86,0:34:57.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on the body. Dialogue: 0,0:34:58.20,0:34:59.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If a boy has a large amount Dialogue: 0,0:34:59.63,0:35:01.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of testosterone before birth Dialogue: 0,0:35:01.57,0:35:02.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's likely to be born Dialogue: 0,0:35:02.73,0:35:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a very efficient heart\Nand vascular system. Dialogue: 0,0:35:08.21,0:35:11.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the longer one's ring finger\Nrelative to one's index finger, Dialogue: 0,0:35:12.01,0:35:14.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the faster one can run. Dialogue: 0,0:35:14.78,0:35:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These athletes are five\Nthousand meter specialists. Dialogue: 0,0:35:18.32,0:35:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Professor Manning has never met them, Dialogue: 0,0:35:20.42,0:35:21.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or seen them race. Dialogue: 0,0:35:22.22,0:35:23.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if his theory is correct Dialogue: 0,0:35:23.89,0:35:26.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he'll be able to tell us all about them. Dialogue: 0,0:35:26.96,0:35:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I should be able to do\Nis look at the differences Dialogue: 0,0:35:29.46,0:35:31.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between the ring finger\Nand the index finger, Dialogue: 0,0:35:31.40,0:35:34.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on that basis rank\Nthese runners first, second, Dialogue: 0,0:35:35.03,0:35:36.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,third, fourth and so on. Dialogue: 0,0:35:38.67,0:35:40.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In theory that should work. Dialogue: 0,0:35:41.97,0:35:44.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In practice,\Nwe're providing Professor Manning Dialogue: 0,0:35:44.21,0:35:46.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with photocopies of the athletes' hands Dialogue: 0,0:35:46.64,0:35:48.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in return he's risking his reputation Dialogue: 0,0:35:49.05,0:35:53.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by providing us with the results of a race\Nthat has yet to be run. Dialogue: 0,0:35:55.35,0:35:58.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm-I'm looking at a kind\Nof living fossil in the fingers, Dialogue: 0,0:35:58.52,0:36:02.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something which tells us about\Nan event a long time ago Dialogue: 0,0:36:02.83,0:36:05.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the development of\Nthis particular individual. Dialogue: 0,0:36:09.03,0:36:10.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Each of these cards has got a number on. Dialogue: 0,0:36:11.07,0:36:13.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The numbers are obscured\Nso don't take the front off, Dialogue: 0,0:36:13.70,0:36:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,er and the number is my prediction Dialogue: 0,0:36:15.41,0:36:18.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as to where you're going to\Nend up at the end of the race. Dialogue: 0,0:36:19.98,0:36:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On your marks... Dialogue: 0,0:36:22.45,0:36:23.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are other variables Dialogue: 0,0:36:23.31,0:36:25.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I ha-just have\Nno knowledge of whatsoever. Dialogue: 0,0:36:25.42,0:36:28.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many times do\Nthese runners train, for example. Dialogue: 0,0:36:28.69,0:36:30.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er are they feeling okay today. Dialogue: 0,0:36:30.32,0:36:31.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have they had a row with their girlfriend. Dialogue: 0,0:36:31.92,0:36:33.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, I don't know these men, Dialogue: 0,0:36:33.62,0:36:36.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all I've seen are their hands. Dialogue: 0,0:36:37.93,0:36:39.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know I'm quite nervous about this. Dialogue: 0,0:36:39.23,0:36:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, I hope I'm right and er, Dialogue: 0,0:36:41.67,0:36:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm willing to give it a go. Dialogue: 0,0:36:54.95,0:36:59.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In most people the difference between\Nring and index fingers is small. Dialogue: 0,0:36:59.68,0:37:01.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the ring finger of one of our runners Dialogue: 0,0:37:01.89,0:37:05.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a whopping six millimetres\Nlonger than his index finger, Dialogue: 0,0:37:06.32,0:37:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Professor Manning is certain\Nthat he's found his winner. Dialogue: 0,0:37:22.01,0:37:23.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was absolutely magnificent. Dialogue: 0,0:37:24.38,0:37:28.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I'd like you to do is to line up\Nin your finishing order, Dialogue: 0,0:37:28.55,0:37:32.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we'll work down line\Nand I'll rip your numbers off. Dialogue: 0,0:37:32.75,0:37:34.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Starting with Russell... Dialogue: 0,0:37:35.12,0:37:37.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh my god. That is amazing. Dialogue: 0,0:37:38.32,0:37:39.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pot luck so far. Dialogue: 0,0:37:40.86,0:37:42.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No way! Dialogue: 0,0:37:51.64,0:37:52.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Six. Dialogue: 0,0:37:52.90,0:37:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We got four out of six right Dialogue: 0,0:37:54.70,0:37:57.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but er the two that were wrong\Nwere kinda quite close. Dialogue: 0,0:37:57.94,0:38:00.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah I thought that\Nthe finger thing was bollocks Dialogue: 0,0:38:00.48,0:38:01.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there's so many variables. Dialogue: 0,0:38:02.51,0:38:03.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm very impressed. Dialogue: 0,0:38:06.02,0:38:09.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Professor Manning has agreed to\Ndo one further, more radical test... Dialogue: 0,0:38:11.52,0:38:13.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to see if finger length\Ncan be used to determine Dialogue: 0,0:38:14.12,0:38:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our volunteers' brain sex - Dialogue: 0,0:38:16.83,0:38:19.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how male or female their brains are. Dialogue: 0,0:38:20.30,0:38:25.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I arrange you\Nalong this line in terms of Dialogue: 0,0:38:25.77,0:38:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the amount of testosterone\Nyou've had before birth, Dialogue: 0,0:38:28.31,0:38:31.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that has no implications for sexuality, Dialogue: 0,0:38:31.68,0:38:37.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but is has some implications about\Nyour very, very early brain organisation. Dialogue: 0,0:38:39.32,0:38:43.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our fingers may provide a record\Nof testosterone in the womb Dialogue: 0,0:38:43.39,0:38:45.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the genes\Nthat trigger its production Dialogue: 0,0:38:45.62,0:38:48.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also determine finger growth. Dialogue: 0,0:38:52.23,0:38:55.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In general the men and\Nwomen performed to type. Dialogue: 0,0:38:56.07,0:38:57.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The men are at the male end Dialogue: 0,0:38:58.10,0:39:00.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the women are at the female end. Dialogue: 0,0:39:01.07,0:39:04.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liz and Craig are at opposite ends. Dialogue: 0,0:39:07.68,0:39:09.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there's one exception. Dialogue: 0,0:39:10.58,0:39:14.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grace's fingers put her\Nwell into the male domain. Dialogue: 0,0:39:15.75,0:39:18.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In our survey of half a million people, Dialogue: 0,0:39:18.69,0:39:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the biggest difference between men\Nand women was in visuo-spacial tasks. Dialogue: 0,0:39:25.56,0:39:29.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On average men scored\N40%% % higher than women. Dialogue: 0,0:39:33.80,0:39:36.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But some women did outstandingly well Dialogue: 0,0:39:37.38,0:39:41.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Professor Manning thinks\Nthat's partly down to testosterone. Dialogue: 0,0:39:48.65,0:39:50.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If Professor Manning is right Dialogue: 0,0:39:50.45,0:39:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grace should do rather well Dialogue: 0,0:39:52.22,0:39:55.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at our very own visuo-spacial task. Dialogue: 0,0:39:55.93,0:39:57.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hi everybody.\N- Hi. Dialogue: 0,0:39:57.19,0:39:58.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Morning Tony.\N- Good morning. Dialogue: 0,0:39:58.63,0:40:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm here today to teach you\Non the cut 432 backhoe loader. Dialogue: 0,0:40:05.90,0:40:09.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Operating a digger requires\Na lot of hand-eye co-ordination. Dialogue: 0,0:40:10.41,0:40:12.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And visuo-spacial skills. Dialogue: 0,0:40:12.51,0:40:14.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay? As if you're holding a fine lady. Dialogue: 0,0:40:15.98,0:40:17.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And according to our survey Dialogue: 0,0:40:17.72,0:40:21.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most women aren't that great\Nat visuo-spacial skills. Dialogue: 0,0:40:22.69,0:40:23.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Put the bucket flat. Dialogue: 0,0:40:23.62,0:40:25.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, the bucket's...\Nwhich one's the bucket? Dialogue: 0,0:40:25.66,0:40:26.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't, don't dig it in though. Dialogue: 0,0:40:26.82,0:40:28.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. Ooh. Dialogue: 0,0:40:29.29,0:40:30.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've just got to be gentle. Dialogue: 0,0:40:31.03,0:40:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you will win because we're gentle. Dialogue: 0,0:40:33.10,0:40:34.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These lot are like... Dialogue: 0,0:40:38.20,0:40:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's brilliant. Dialogue: 0,0:40:40.64,0:40:44.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All our volunteers\Nhave to do is copy Tony. Dialogue: 0,0:40:44.91,0:40:47.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh you've gotta be kidding me. Dialogue: 0,0:40:47.98,0:40:50.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And try not to break too many eggs. Dialogue: 0,0:40:53.38,0:40:55.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to Professor Manning... Dialogue: 0,0:40:56.55,0:40:57.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grace is the only woman Dialogue: 0,0:40:57.89,0:40:59.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who'll be any good at this. Dialogue: 0,0:41:02.09,0:41:03.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good luck. Dialogue: 0,0:41:10.87,0:41:12.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh shit. Dialogue: 0,0:41:13.07,0:41:14.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh no! Dialogue: 0,0:41:20.31,0:41:24.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As expected, the women were\Ncomprehensively outclassed by the men. Dialogue: 0,0:41:24.68,0:41:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've broken my bucket. Dialogue: 0,0:41:34.69,0:41:36.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there was one exception. Dialogue: 0,0:41:37.06,0:41:39.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grace was joint winner with Lloyd, Dialogue: 0,0:41:40.70,0:41:43.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,scoring three times higher\Nthan the rest of the women. Dialogue: 0,0:41:48.27,0:41:49.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think most of the... the girls, Dialogue: 0,0:41:49.97,0:41:50.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the other four girls are living up Dialogue: 0,0:41:51.18,0:41:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the social expectations\Nof being woman-like, Dialogue: 0,0:41:53.98,0:41:56.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas Grace hasn't\Nfallen into that trap. Dialogue: 0,0:42:01.85,0:42:04.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a flight test engineer\Non the eurofire to typhoo. Dialogue: 0,0:42:05.86,0:42:07.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I assess the aircraft systems Dialogue: 0,0:42:07.69,0:42:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whilest it's being flown\Nby one of our test pilots. Dialogue: 0,0:42:12.100,0:42:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wouldn't really say\NI was a girlie-girl at all. Dialogue: 0,0:42:16.40,0:42:19.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've always found boys' toys\Nfar more interesting than girls'. Dialogue: 0,0:42:22.01,0:42:24.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You might think that Grace\Nhas simply acquired 3-D skills Dialogue: 0,0:42:25.08,0:42:27.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by becoming an engineer Dialogue: 0,0:42:27.78,0:42:30.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but her fingers tell a different story. Dialogue: 0,0:42:33.28,0:42:34.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even before she was born, Dialogue: 0,0:42:35.08,0:42:36.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,testosterone gave Grace Dialogue: 0,0:42:36.75,0:42:37.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an all-male brain Dialogue: 0,0:42:38.06,0:42:40.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with better visuo-spacial skills. Dialogue: 0,0:42:46.10,0:42:48.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Testosterone is an\Nincredibly powerful hormone Dialogue: 0,0:42:48.100,0:42:52.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that affects us all, men and women. Dialogue: 0,0:42:52.27,0:42:55.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- A triangle person.\N- A triangle person. Dialogue: 0,0:42:56.47,0:42:58.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It shapes our bodies... Dialogue: 0,0:42:59.84,0:43:01.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and affects our minds... Dialogue: 0,0:43:04.05,0:43:06.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it even seems to be\Nat the heart of why Dialogue: 0,0:43:06.22,0:43:10.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on average women are better at\Nlanguage and emotional skills Dialogue: 0,0:43:11.26,0:43:14.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while men are better\Nat visuo-spacial skills. Dialogue: 0,0:43:15.93,0:43:19.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But of course it's not quite that simple. Dialogue: 0,0:43:20.26,0:43:23.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Averages conceal individual differences. Dialogue: 0,0:43:24.40,0:43:27.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've got nine months\Nin the womb to consider Dialogue: 0,0:43:27.34,0:43:31.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and testosterone is not produced\Nin the same amounts Dialogue: 0,0:43:31.28,0:43:32.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,throughout those nine months. Dialogue: 0,0:43:33.68,0:43:38.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that it's possible to have\Na kind of mosaic brain. Dialogue: 0,0:43:40.05,0:43:41.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Different levels of testosterone Dialogue: 0,0:43:42.05,0:43:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at different times in development Dialogue: 0,0:43:43.95,0:43:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,might explain apparently contradictory Dialogue: 0,0:43:46.12,0:43:48.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,brain skills in the same person. Dialogue: 0,0:43:51.13,0:43:52.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So although Paddy's verbal skills Dialogue: 0,0:43:52.86,0:43:55.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,put him firmly in the male camp, Dialogue: 0,0:43:56.07,0:43:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he was as sensitive as most women Dialogue: 0,0:43:58.17,0:44:00.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it came to some tests of empathy. Dialogue: 0,0:44:02.44,0:44:06.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Previously, um,\NI perceived it as a weakness Dialogue: 0,0:44:06.68,0:44:09.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as the days have gone by\Nand going through all the tests, Dialogue: 0,0:44:10.01,0:44:13.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm quite happy that\NI've got another side to me. Dialogue: 0,0:44:14.62,0:44:16.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I was also happy\Nthat most of the times Dialogue: 0,0:44:16.52,0:44:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was standing on the 100 m...\N100%% % male brain size. Dialogue: 0,0:44:24.93,0:44:27.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Time for one last test. Dialogue: 0,0:44:30.07,0:44:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This task is gonna be\Nabout changing nappies. Dialogue: 0,0:44:33.20,0:44:35.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And each one of you lucky ladies Dialogue: 0,0:44:35.24,0:44:38.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is gonna have to be with this,\Nwell crying baby. Dialogue: 0,0:44:40.74,0:44:44.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On the face of it, simply a question\Nof who's best at child care. Dialogue: 0,0:44:45.78,0:44:48.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in fact it has a deeper purpose. Dialogue: 0,0:44:48.69,0:44:50.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're a good boy for\NAuntie Lulu weren't you, Dialogue: 0,0:44:50.62,0:44:54.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'cos you didn't do any, any,\Nany naughtiness for Lulu. Dialogue: 0,0:44:57.43,0:45:01.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As we might expect,\Nmost of the women do the task well... Dialogue: 0,0:45:07.17,0:45:09.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There you go you right mate?\NHowya doing? Dialogue: 0,0:45:10.31,0:45:13.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While most of the men... struggle. Dialogue: 0,0:45:17.35,0:45:21.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see how this thing works. Okay. Dialogue: 0,0:45:22.35,0:45:27.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh I got that wrong already.\NTry again. Okay mate. Dialogue: 0,0:45:28.02,0:45:29.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This will be interesting. Dialogue: 0,0:45:30.93,0:45:32.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you might expect testosterone Dialogue: 0,0:45:32.76,0:45:35.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fuelled ultra-male-brained Lloyd Dialogue: 0,0:45:35.80,0:45:37.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to struggle more than most. Dialogue: 0,0:45:40.14,0:45:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think I did a... a particularly\Ngood job of connecting with the child. Dialogue: 0,0:45:45.28,0:45:46.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there was a task to do, wasn't there, Dialogue: 0,0:45:46.51,0:45:48.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I just had to get\Non with it and do it. Dialogue: 0,0:45:49.58,0:45:51.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know I could be\Nchanging a tyre on a car. Dialogue: 0,0:45:51.78,0:45:53.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a little bit to one side. Dialogue: 0,0:45:55.05,0:45:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even me own son, Dialogue: 0,0:45:55.95,0:45:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found it quite alien\Nto connect with him. Dialogue: 0,0:45:57.86,0:46:00.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I only made a connection grew older Dialogue: 0,0:46:00.26,0:46:02.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the connection\Ngot stronger and stronger. Dialogue: 0,0:46:02.19,0:46:05.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wasn't instinctive, immediate bond. Dialogue: 0,0:46:05.76,0:46:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was something that grew very,\Nvery gradually with my son... Dialogue: 0,0:46:16.37,0:46:17.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't connect too easily with people. Dialogue: 0,0:46:17.57,0:46:19.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's actually making\Nme quite emotional. Dialogue: 0,0:46:19.51,0:46:20.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I actually wanna cry. Dialogue: 0,0:46:29.85,0:46:32.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you like, there's something missing... Dialogue: 0,0:46:41.100,0:46:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many men find making\Nemotional connections difficult. Dialogue: 0,0:46:47.17,0:46:51.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once the women had changed\Nthe nappy they picked the baby up. Dialogue: 0,0:46:51.91,0:46:53.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In stark contrast, Dialogue: 0,0:46:53.24,0:46:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most of the men simply stepped away. Dialogue: 0,0:47:00.62,0:47:02.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want me to return her? Or... Dialogue: 0,0:47:02.79,0:47:03.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything's fine? Dialogue: 0,0:47:04.12,0:47:10.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nappy-changed, baby spoken to, task done. Dialogue: 0,0:47:11.50,0:47:16.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy.\NAre you going to be a footballer? Dialogue: 0,0:47:16.53,0:47:19.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet despite Lloyd's fear\Nthat he doesn't readily connect, Dialogue: 0,0:47:20.04,0:47:22.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it came to the end of the baby test Dialogue: 0,0:47:22.41,0:47:23.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he surprised everyone. Dialogue: 0,0:47:24.17,0:47:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ooooh! There's a real,\Na real connection there. Dialogue: 0,0:47:27.24,0:47:28.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. He's enjoying that. Dialogue: 0,0:47:28.71,0:47:32.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Feels, it looks natural to him,\Nit feels natural. Dialogue: 0,0:47:32.78,0:47:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could kiss you. Dialogue: 0,0:47:33.95,0:47:37.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ooooh, I see,\Nwe're talking now aren't we. Eh? Dialogue: 0,0:47:38.29,0:47:41.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lloyd is aware that\Nhe's not naturally empathic. Dialogue: 0,0:47:42.59,0:47:46.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So he's made more of an effort,\Nworking his brain harder. Dialogue: 0,0:47:47.53,0:47:51.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The result is that his behaviour is\Nindistinguishable from the women's. Dialogue: 0,0:47:51.87,0:47:54.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ooooh yes. Look. Dialogue: 0,0:47:55.61,0:47:57.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel really quite\Nemotional watching that. Dialogue: 0,0:47:58.14,0:48:00.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's lovely... Dialogue: 0,0:48:01.71,0:48:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's almost like he does\Nall these empathic things Dialogue: 0,0:48:03.61,0:48:07.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but in his mind these things don't add er\Nadd-add up to empathy for some reason. Dialogue: 0,0:48:07.82,0:48:08.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not quite sure what ha... Dialogue: 0,0:48:08.68,0:48:11.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not quite sure how\Nhe would describe these things. Dialogue: 0,0:48:15.66,0:48:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The sex of our brain is not as clear cut Dialogue: 0,0:48:18.06,0:48:19.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as the sex of our body. Dialogue: 0,0:48:20.33,0:48:22.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm much more feminine than I realised. Dialogue: 0,0:48:23.83,0:48:26.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While women tend to\Nhave female brain sex, Dialogue: 0,0:48:26.44,0:48:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and men usually have male brain sex, Dialogue: 0,0:48:29.07,0:48:31.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as individuals we are a mosaic, Dialogue: 0,0:48:31.64,0:48:33.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a unique mixture of both. Dialogue: 0,0:48:33.48,0:48:35.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a child-minder looking after kids, Dialogue: 0,0:48:35.75,0:48:38.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd have hoped my empathy score\Nwould be a bit better. Dialogue: 0,0:48:41.25,0:48:45.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though I have got a hard exterior\Nbut it's nice I've got a soft interior. Dialogue: 0,0:48:45.49,0:48:46.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can learn a lot from Paddy. Dialogue: 0,0:48:46.72,0:48:49.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er P-er and Paddy has-has\Nlearned me a lot already. Dialogue: 0,0:48:50.43,0:48:52.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're saying that guys have\Nthese skills and girls have these, Dialogue: 0,0:48:52.83,0:48:53.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I think you'd be more successful Dialogue: 0,0:48:54.10,0:48:56.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you were a guy who\Nhad all these female skills. Dialogue: 0,0:48:56.23,0:48:56.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you. Dialogue: 0,0:48:56.87,0:48:58.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cos then you'd have\Nsomething different to offer. Dialogue: 0,0:48:58.70,0:49:03.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've perhaps assumed I had more\Nof a male brain than a female brain Dialogue: 0,0:49:03.24,0:49:07.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there are things that I have got\Nquite a lot of my female aspects as well Dialogue: 0,0:49:07.44,0:49:10.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then totally become\Na better person for it. Dialogue: 0,0:49:11.18,0:49:15.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And knowing about our brain-sex\Nand where our strengths and weaknesses lie Dialogue: 0,0:49:15.25,0:49:16.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has to mean a better understanding Dialogue: 0,0:49:16.79,0:49:19.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of ourselves and each other. Dialogue: 0,0:49:19.52,0:49:21.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I-I think it's a two-way street Dialogue: 0,0:49:21.56,0:49:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and actually that we both actually\Nhave to take a little bit more time Dialogue: 0,0:49:24.63,0:49:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and effort to understand where\Nthe other person is coming from. Dialogue: 0,0:49:30.03,0:49:30.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah...