1 00:00:12,051 --> 00:00:16,243 I've been looking after people in the last moments of their lives 2 00:00:16,243 --> 00:00:17,922 for 23 years. 3 00:00:18,982 --> 00:00:21,715 And in these years I learned many things, 4 00:00:21,715 --> 00:00:25,256 some of which I would like to share with you today. 5 00:00:26,436 --> 00:00:31,964 I learned that working at the center of other people's pain 6 00:00:31,964 --> 00:00:36,188 doesn't make you a bitter or sad person. 7 00:00:36,918 --> 00:00:38,141 Quite the opposite. 8 00:00:38,891 --> 00:00:42,940 It teaches you to appreciate every moment of your existence, 9 00:00:42,940 --> 00:00:45,741 and to be grateful for all you have. 10 00:00:46,971 --> 00:00:48,938 I learned that miracles exist. 11 00:00:49,538 --> 00:00:51,820 But maybe in a different way 12 00:00:51,820 --> 00:00:53,651 to what we'd like them to be. 13 00:00:54,251 --> 00:00:59,867 Like being able to see a miracle in an act of reconciliation, 14 00:00:59,867 --> 00:01:04,793 forgiveness, love or transformation. 15 00:01:05,933 --> 00:01:11,232 I learned that humor is a very powerful tool 16 00:01:11,232 --> 00:01:17,232 that allows you to make some space in the middle of the solemnity, 17 00:01:17,232 --> 00:01:20,563 insecurity and fear 18 00:01:20,563 --> 00:01:23,929 generated by the close presence of death. 19 00:01:25,269 --> 00:01:31,378 I learned that we doctors need to work harder on our omnipotence, 20 00:01:31,378 --> 00:01:33,394 be more humble 21 00:01:33,394 --> 00:01:37,174 and not feel frustrated or that we have failed 22 00:01:37,174 --> 00:01:40,840 when despite doing everything we can, 23 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,363 the results are not what we expected. 24 00:01:44,673 --> 00:01:49,205 I learned that when we are going through difficult times, 25 00:01:49,205 --> 00:01:51,070 it is important to look around. 26 00:01:51,070 --> 00:01:55,720 There are many people who are suffering 27 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,926 and in much more adverse conditions compared to ours. 28 00:01:59,786 --> 00:02:04,005 And that allows you to put your own problem in perspective. 29 00:02:05,745 --> 00:02:12,216 Finally, I learned and I keep learning, that it's not just about healing. 30 00:02:12,916 --> 00:02:18,478 Above all, it is about bringing relief and being there. 31 00:02:19,148 --> 00:02:24,351 Cultivating love and compassion helps facing suffering. 32 00:02:24,781 --> 00:02:27,252 And they can be a legacy for the family. 33 00:02:28,412 --> 00:02:31,864 Cultivating love and compassion 34 00:02:31,864 --> 00:02:37,124 can leave a path of transcendence for others to tread. 35 00:02:37,674 --> 00:02:40,928 (Applause)