0:00:12.051,0:00:16.243 I've been looking after people [br]in the last moments of their lives 0:00:16.243,0:00:17.922 for 23 years. 0:00:18.982,0:00:21.715 And in these years I learned many things, 0:00:21.715,0:00:25.256 some of which I would like [br]to share with you today. 0:00:26.436,0:00:31.964 I learned that working at the center[br]of other people's pain 0:00:31.964,0:00:36.188 doesn't make you a bitter or sad person. 0:00:36.918,0:00:38.141 Quite the opposite. 0:00:38.891,0:00:42.940 It teaches you to appreciate [br]every moment of your existence, 0:00:42.940,0:00:45.741 and to be grateful for all you have. 0:00:46.971,0:00:48.938 I learned that miracles exist. 0:00:49.538,0:00:51.820 But maybe in a different way 0:00:51.820,0:00:53.651 to what we'd like them to be. 0:00:54.251,0:00:59.867 Like being able to see a miracle[br]in an act of reconciliation, 0:00:59.867,0:01:04.793 forgiveness, love or transformation. 0:01:05.933,0:01:11.232 I learned that humor [br]is a very powerful tool 0:01:11.232,0:01:17.232 that allows you to make some space[br]in the middle of the solemnity, 0:01:17.232,0:01:20.563 insecurity and fear 0:01:20.563,0:01:23.929 generated by the close presence of death. 0:01:25.269,0:01:31.378 I learned that we doctors need to work[br]harder on our omnipotence, 0:01:31.378,0:01:33.394 be more humble 0:01:33.394,0:01:37.174 and not feel frustrated[br]or that we have failed 0:01:37.174,0:01:40.840 when despite doing everything we can, 0:01:40.840,0:01:43.363 the results are not what we expected. 0:01:44.673,0:01:49.205 I learned that when [br]we are going through difficult times, 0:01:49.205,0:01:51.070 it is important to look around. 0:01:51.070,0:01:55.720 There are many people who are suffering 0:01:55.720,0:01:58.926 and in much more adverse conditions[br]compared to ours. 0:01:59.786,0:02:04.005 And that allows you to put [br]your own problem in perspective. 0:02:05.745,0:02:12.216 Finally, I learned and I keep learning,[br]that it's not just about healing. 0:02:12.916,0:02:18.478 Above all, it is about [br]bringing relief and being there. 0:02:19.148,0:02:24.351 Cultivating love and compassion [br]helps facing suffering. 0:02:24.781,0:02:27.252 And they can be a legacy for the family. 0:02:28.412,0:02:31.864 Cultivating love and compassion 0:02:31.864,0:02:37.124 can leave a path of transcendence[br]for others to tread. 0:02:37.674,0:02:40.928 (Applause)