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(jazzy intro)

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How does it feel to be the

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same sex as Donald Trump?

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How does it feel to be the

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same sex as Sarah Palin?

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How does it feel to be the

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same sex as Michelle Bachman?

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How does it feel to be the

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same sex as anybody

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you disagree with?

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Why does it even matter

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whether or not you're the

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same gender as somebody else?

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I mean, I'm also the same

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gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein,

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and the guy who introduced

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chocolate to the Western world.

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So what are you even getting

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at with this question?

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Are you trying to say Donald Trump

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is bad, and Donald Trump

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is a man, therefore men are bad?

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Why do you hate rom-coms?

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Or do you just feel like you

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need to hate them?

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Everybody likes The Notebook,

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everybody likes Beyoncé.

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It's just a fact.

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Men hate romantic comedies

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for the same reason you

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hate video games with

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over-sexualized female characters.

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The men in these movies are

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always willing to sacrifice

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their careers, their dreams,

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even their lives to win

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the lead females' affection.

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Now I don't have any empirical

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data to back this up, but

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it seems to me that

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romantic comedies and

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romance movies in general

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cause women to have unrealistic

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expectations of men and what

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love should be like, and these

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become the expectations

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that men have to live up to,

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and it's unfair.

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Feminists like to bitch

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about poor representation of women

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in media intended for men

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because they promote body issues

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and shit like that

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And I agree, to at least, an extent

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But it's not any better for men

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When we're expected to be Prince Charming,

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ready and willing to sacrifice themselves

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physically, mentally, and emotionally

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And we're called selfish for daring to

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have our own desires

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or even misogynistic for daring to draw

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attention to our own problems.

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These movies appeal to the female fantasy

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of having a night in shining armor

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swear their entire existence to pleasing

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them, and thus reinforce these notions

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within their target audience of women

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like you that you somehow deserve

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to have your boyfriends and husbands

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give up everything that makes them

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who they are and basically dehumanize

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themselves for your pleasure and

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devote 100% of their time and energy

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to you. The fact that some of you

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watching this are scoffing at what I

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just said only proves my point.

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You have fooled yourself into thinking

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that I'm somehow the one who's being

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selfish when I object to the notion

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that men should be expected to cave

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into all of your demands, for the sake of

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your perverted idealistic conception

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of love. And I have no doubts that

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some of you will accuse me of being

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bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying

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that, but I'm not and I will

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pre-emptively characterize such an

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argument as out cropping of the

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very mentality that I'm talking about.

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You expect all of your demands to be

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catered to, and any man who is unwilling

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or unable to cater to them must have

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something wrong with them. Us men are

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human beings with our own interests and

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goals, and it's selfish for you to expect

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us to give all that up for you.

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But these movies condition you to expect

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exactly that. And that is why we hate

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romantic comedies. We don't see anything

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romantic about them. What we see is the

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reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable

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expectations about what we should be doing

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with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce.

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"Why do you make women sit around and talk

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about men in movies when y'all easily just

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sit around and talk about boobs for hours?

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One, I don't know, maybe you should be

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asking that to people who write romantic

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comedies you like so much, because

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those are the movies which have women

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sitting around talking about men. Or,

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better yet, instead of complaining about

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how writers depict women in their movies,

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maybe you should try being the change you

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want to see and write your own damn movie.

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Then you could make the female characters

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sit around and talk about whatever you

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want. Like how men are oppressing them, or

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how men are objectifying them or how men

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are such pigs, or how men spread their

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legs too far apart on the subway, or how

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men hate romantic comedies. There's

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nothing stopping you.

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Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test,

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which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies

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pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd

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hesitate to call any of those movies

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"pro-feminist."

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Three, I don't know a single guy who ever

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talks about boobs for hours at a time.

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I think the only guys who do are medical

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students learning how to conduct

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mammograms. You want to know what most of

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the men I know talk about? Movies, video

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games, politics, religion, music, sports,

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cars, boats, technology, work, guns,

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hunting, places they've been to, people

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they've met, and so on. The subject of

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boobs actually rarely ever comes up.

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Contrary to what you may have been told in

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your Women's Studies class, men don't

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think about sex constantly. If we did, we

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would never have invented the camera

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equipment you used to make this video.

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Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for

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hours at a time, it's feminists. You're

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the ones who are always whining about

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the designs of fictional characters,

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complaining that fat girls' tits are too

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big. And in all honesty, the only time I

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ever even think about a comic book

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character's tits is when I hear a feminist

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bring it up. So I think maybe you're

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projecting.

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"Why do you automatically assume that you

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won't like the TV or movies that star a

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female lead?"

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I don't. In fact, some of my favorite

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movies and TV shows have female leads.

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I don't know a single man who has ever

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scoffed at the notion of watching a movie

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or TV show just because it has a female

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protagonist. However, I have seen

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feminists scoff at anything with a male

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lead.

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"Why are you surprised when women are

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funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!"

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I'm not surprised when women are funny.

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There are plenty of funny women out there.

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[names not recognized], et cetera.

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But I will say that, in general, women are

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not as funny as men, and I think most

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women won't agree with that statement.

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I also think there's a reason for this.

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See if you understand what humor is

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and how it works, which I'm guessing

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you don't because you're feminists,

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then you know that the things that make

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laugh often have their roots in very dark

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subject matter.

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To quote the amazing atheist,

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"These people who are fucking offended

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by rape jokes don't even understand

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humor. They don't understand- They

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think of humor as like a happy thing,

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because humor makes us laugh and laughter

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makes us happy, but a lot of the time

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they don't seem to notice that what we're

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actually laughing at is quite dark and

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morbid. Like if you actually look at it

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and examine the jokes, and look at the

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exaggeration and try to figure out the

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mechanics of how the joke works,

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why does it work; you're gonna find that

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a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain

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and suffering. Because laughter is this

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great transcendent tool we have, where

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we can take something that- that's bitter

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and difficult to comprehend or deal with,

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and make it something funny.

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Like if I take a joke like "How many

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police officers does it take change a

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light bulb?"

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"None, they just beat the room for being

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black." you know that joke has it's

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genesis in some very serious, very dark

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shit. And that joke is not making light

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of the fact that people have suffered,

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or it's not making light of the fact that

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people, you know, marched in the Civil

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Rights Movement, or- or that people are

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racial discriminated against, or police

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brutality. It's not making light of any

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of that. What it's doing is it's taking

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that pain and it's taking that dark

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subject matter, and it's helping us

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transcend it for a moment. And view

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the absurdity of our circumstance.

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Because that is what humor is supposed to

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do. Humor at it's best takes the elements

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of the world that are dark and horrible,

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and shows you there absurdity. It shows

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you the absurdity of the human condition.

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and that is important."

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See men are socially conditioned to not

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talk openly and honestly about their

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feelings, which I'll talk more about

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later, and that's why we cultivate a sense

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of humor. The only way we can really talk

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about the things that upset us is if

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we do it through the filter of comedy.

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But women have the <i>clears throat</i>

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"privilege" to not be subject to social

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conditioning, and so they don't feel the

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need to cultivate a sense of humor.

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And that's why women, in general, aren't

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as funny and men. That isn't to say that

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all men are funny, or that all women are

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unfunny. It's just that in general men are

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funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's

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how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly

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doubt that you're funnier than me.

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And it's not because you're a woman.

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Just judging by how you look and talk,

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I'm willing to bet that your sense of

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humor boils down to saying something rude,

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and then following it with "Just kidding".

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I mean I'm not the funniest person in

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the world but if you think of yourself

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as the funny one, you probably lack the

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objectivity to realize that everybody

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else in your circle of friends probably

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thinks of you as the "annoying one".

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Just kidding, actually I'm not.

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"Why do you think we're obsessed with you

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when we hook up?" "Nine times out of

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ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm

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busy, I got shit to do."

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Probably because you do shit like text

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us 50 times in the space of one hour, and

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slash our tires when we dump you after you

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accuse us of cheating because you saw our

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sister's name in our call history. Also

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what shit could you possibly have to do?

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Pluck your eyebrows to the point

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where they're so unnaturally clean around

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the edges that they look like they're

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drawn on? Spend your husband's money

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on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of

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Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write

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more questions for men to answer

274
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because you're so lacking in self

275
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awareness that you can't figure out the

276
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answers for yourself?

277
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"Why can't I sleep as many people as I

278
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want to without being judged? When men do

279
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it, they're congratulated"

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Go ahead and sleep with as many

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people as you want. I don't give a shit,

282
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but once again I don't know anybody who

283
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would. The only time I would care is if I

284
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was dating you, because if you told me

285
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you've been with 20 other guys before

286
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I met you, I would naturally assume that

287
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there was something wrong with you

288
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if you've been in so many relationships

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and have them all fail. Not to mention the

290
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fact that your substantially more

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likely to be carrying an STD. And I think

292
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it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to

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view men who have slept with a lot of

294
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other women the same way. Also who's

295
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congratulating men for sleeping around?

296
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I don't see any guys walking around with

297
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trophies for fucking everyone they've

298
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met. It's not like having sex with easy

299
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women is some kind of achievement.

300
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Furthermore, I would say that most media

301
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portrays men who do that as assholes

302
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who should be looked at with content.

303
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I mean -name not recognized- isn't

304
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exactly portrayed as a model citizen.

305
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By the way studies have found that the

306
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majority of people who slut shame women,

307
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are other women. Maybe you should be

308
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directing this question at them and not

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men.

310
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"Why do you consider a woman a tease,

311
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if she does sleep with you after three

312
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dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you

313
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on the first date?"

314
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Why do you consider a man a douchebag if

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he doesn't call you back three days after

316
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he meets you, but desperate if he calls

317
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you the next day?

318
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"In what world does no mean yes?"

319
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"No means no."

320
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I don't know anybody who thinks no

321
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means yes. Also this question seems to be

322
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in the spirit of the feminist notion that

323
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all men are potential rapists. Which

324
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simply isn't true. I already talked about

325
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this at length in my other video, "'Teach

326
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men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric".

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Moving on.

328
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"Why do you say that women are too

329
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emotional to be leaders"

330
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<i>whispering:</i> maybe if feminist argued

331
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with logics instead of feelings, people

332
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wouldn't think that.

333
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"Then justify cat calling by saying

334
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'men just can't control themselves'"

335
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I've never heard a man say either, I have

336
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hear women say both though.

337
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"Why do you think that just because

338
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you're nice to me, I owe you my body?"

339
00:09:35,961 --> 00:09:37,495
Why do you think that just because I'm

340
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nice to you that I want your body.

341
00:09:38,794 --> 00:09:42,244
"Sometimes I've been walking down the

342
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street, hysterically crying because my cat

343
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was missing, and a man came up and

344
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was like 'Hey what's up, why are you

345
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crying? Can I talk to you?'

346
00:09:47,844 --> 00:09:49,244
"But I want to continue this, so when

347
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the guy up to you and asked you

348
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how you were doing, did you judge his

349
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intentions, or do you feel like-"

350
00:09:52,995 --> 00:09:54,660
"I was like what the hell is wrong with

351
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you I'm hysterically crying, holding

352
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flyers that say missing cat."

353
00:09:57,627 --> 00:09:59,061
"Wait what if he was checking how you were

354
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doing because you were crying?"

355
00:10:00,326 --> 00:10:01,861
"No he was- It was a catcall, it was like

356
00:10:01,861 --> 00:10:04,311
a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-"

357
00:10:04,311 --> 00:10:05,744
"What if he was trying to be sweet to get

358
00:10:05,744 --> 00:10:07,394
into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are

359
00:10:07,394 --> 00:10:08,576
you crying?'"

360
00:10:08,576 --> 00:10:10,477
"He's not entitled to my time, honestly"

361
00:10:10,477 --> 00:10:13,093
"If he had not said anything to you, then

362
00:10:13,093 --> 00:10:14,961
he's a dick because he's a guy in society

363
00:10:14,961 --> 00:10:16,794
who saw a girl crying and didn't do

364
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anything."

365
00:10:18,444 --> 00:10:19,610
"But it's a different- If he's saying that

366
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to get my number, that's different that

367
00:10:20,694 --> 00:10:22,145
him coming up and saying 'Whats

368
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wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let

369
00:10:23,645 --> 00:10:25,510
you know. Like that's a different thing"

370
00:10:25,510 --> 00:10:27,043
"But how is he going to know about your

371
00:10:27,043 --> 00:10:28,145
cat, he saw a girl crying on the street"

372
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"Well, it was just- I was hanging up the

373
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flyers."

374
00:10:30,177 --> 00:10:31,693
"Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying

375
00:10:31,693 --> 00:10:33,512
on the street, and she's hysterical and

376
00:10:33,512 --> 00:10:35,127
she might've just lost her parents and

377
00:10:35,127 --> 00:10:36,812
has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her

378
00:10:36,812 --> 00:10:38,626
because she might think I'm objectify her"

379
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"She doesn't know you. She doesn't know

380
00:10:40,178 --> 00:10:40,927
you."

381
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"But we're humans, we should care about

382
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each other."

383
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"Of course, of course, but I think you

384
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have to understand what you come off

385
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as to women. They don't know you. It's

386
00:10:47,459 --> 00:10:48,978
like if a brown bear came up and said

387
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hello to you. Like you just have to like-"

388
00:10:51,010 --> 00:10:53,928
"Why would you ever send an unsolicited

389
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dick pic?"

390
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I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your

391
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phone number to the types of guys you meet

392
00:10:58,045 --> 00:11:00,410
in night clubs, you know the type of guys

393
00:11:00,410 --> 00:11:01,878
who go to such clubs for the specific

394
00:11:01,878 --> 00:11:03,511
purpose of meeting women, and who read

395
00:11:03,511 --> 00:11:05,028
books about how to be a pick up artist;

396
00:11:05,028 --> 00:11:06,477
maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics

397
00:11:06,477 --> 00:11:07,361
from them.

398
00:11:07,361 --> 00:11:08,344
"Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass

399
00:11:08,344 --> 00:11:09,911
women, or make offensive comments about

400
00:11:09,911 --> 00:11:13,077
women, but when somebody does it to your

401
00:11:13,077 --> 00:11:14,494
sister, it's not okay?"

402
00:11:14,494 --> 00:11:15,995
Why do you feel like it's okay to make

403
00:11:15,995 --> 00:11:17,578
these misandrist videos which paint all

404
00:11:17,578 --> 00:11:19,445
men as sexual harassers or rapists, but

405
00:11:19,445 --> 00:11:20,861
when somebody treats your son that way,

406
00:11:20,861 --> 00:11:22,094
it's not okay?

407
00:11:22,094 --> 00:11:23,628
"How does it feel to interrupt me when

408
00:11:23,628 --> 00:11:24,977
I'm in the middle of making a point

409
00:11:24,977 --> 00:11:26,094
during a meetings?"

410
00:11:26,094 --> 00:11:27,361
You make it sound like the only people

411
00:11:27,361 --> 00:11:28,527
who have ever interrupted you are men.

412
00:11:28,527 --> 00:11:30,195
I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you

413
00:11:30,195 --> 00:11:31,278
ever stopped to think that maybe people

414
00:11:31,278 --> 00:11:33,627
interrupt you because they realize you're

415
00:11:33,627 --> 00:11:35,461
talking shit and wasting time after only

416
00:11:35,461 --> 00:11:36,328
two sentences.

417
00:11:36,328 --> 00:11:37,795
"Why do you have to sit with your legs

418
00:11:37,795 --> 00:11:38,777
so wide open?"

419
00:11:38,777 --> 00:11:40,994
"I get that you have balls, but I don't

420
00:11:40,994 --> 00:11:43,227
stand around with my arms wide open

421
00:11:43,227 --> 00:11:44,661
to make room for my boobs."

422
00:11:44,661 --> 00:11:46,295
Maybe that's because your boobs don't get

423
00:11:46,295 --> 00:11:47,812
squished between your arms when you stand

424
00:11:47,812 --> 00:11:49,162
normally with your arms down by your

425
00:11:49,162 --> 00:11:51,361
sides. A man's balls are literally between

426
00:11:51,361 --> 00:11:52,577
his legs, and they do get squished if he

427
00:11:52,577 --> 00:11:54,162
puts his legs together. It's not exactly

428
00:11:54,162 --> 00:11:56,877
an apt comparison. Furthermore, why

429
00:11:56,877 --> 00:11:58,427
do you even care? I don't see you

430
00:11:58,427 --> 00:11:59,927
complaining about women taking up

431
00:11:59,927 --> 00:12:01,462
two seats with their bags.

432
00:12:01,462 --> 00:12:02,561
"Why are women perceived as the weaker

433
00:12:02,561 --> 00:12:03,110
sex? Even though we literally birth you,

434
00:12:03,110 --> 00:12:08,729
like watermelons through like 'this'"

435
00:12:08,729 --> 00:12:10,178
Because physical strength has nothing to

436
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do with your ability to give birth. Women

437
00:12:11,578 --> 00:12:13,361
are, generally speaking, not as physically

438
00:12:13,361 --> 00:12:16,045
strong as men. The average man has about

439
00:12:16,045 --> 00:12:18,227
50% greater upper body strength than the

440
00:12:18,227 --> 00:12:20,194
average woman. I'm sorry but that's just

441
00:12:20,194 --> 00:12:22,343
simple biology. There's also the fact

442
00:12:22,343 --> 00:12:24,227
that men are by in large the one's who go

443
00:12:24,227 --> 00:12:26,078
to war and fight and die to protect you.

444
00:12:26,078 --> 00:12:27,578
Men are the ones who work the dangerous

445
00:12:27,578 --> 00:12:29,327
jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in

446
00:12:29,327 --> 00:12:30,611
the industrialized world possible.

447
00:12:30,611 --> 00:12:32,478
And historically men are also the ones

448
00:12:32,478 --> 00:12:33,512
who have gone out into the unforgiving

449
00:12:33,512 --> 00:12:35,027
wilderness to kill dangerous animals so

450
00:12:35,027 --> 00:12:36,694
ungrateful entitled women like you could

451
00:12:36,694 --> 00:12:38,928
eat. You as a woman are substantially less

452
00:12:38,928 --> 00:12:40,827
likely to die during your daily activities

453
00:12:40,827 --> 00:12:42,377
and you don't have to worry about being

454
00:12:42,377 --> 00:12:44,145
called a deadbeat for not risking life in

455
00:12:44,145 --> 00:12:45,711
a factory or field for the benefit of

456
00:12:45,711 --> 00:12:47,162
others. Nor do you have to worry about

457
00:12:47,162 --> 00:12:48,511
being told you don't have a real job

458
00:12:48,511 --> 00:12:50,261
because you work with computers or push

459
00:12:50,261 --> 00:12:51,861
pencils in a safe, clean environment.

460
00:12:51,861 --> 00:12:53,861
Women work soft cushy jobs compared to

461
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men and that's why women make only 7% of

462
00:12:55,911 --> 00:12:58,495
workplace fatalities despite making up 47%

463
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of the work force. That is why you're

464
00:13:00,395 --> 00:13:02,228
perceived as the weaker sex. If you

465
00:13:02,228 --> 00:13:03,411
don't want people to see you that way,

466
00:13:03,411 --> 00:13:04,745
then get out of your comfortable air

467
00:13:04,745 --> 00:13:06,211
conditioned studio and go work on a

468
00:13:06,211 --> 00:13:08,144
craving boat on a coal mine. You're

469
00:13:08,144 --> 00:13:09,527
always complaining about employment

470
00:13:09,527 --> 00:13:11,028
discrimination, so go ahead, take the

471
00:13:11,028 --> 00:13:12,859
dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just

472
00:13:12,859 --> 00:13:14,628
how strong and tough you are. And look

473
00:13:14,628 --> 00:13:16,544
I don't begrudge women for working jobs

474
00:13:16,544 --> 00:13:18,045
that don't put them in danger and I will

475
00:13:18,045 --> 00:13:19,594
freely admit that my job isn't

476
00:13:19,594 --> 00:13:21,195
particularly dangerous; but if you're

477
00:13:21,195 --> 00:13:22,678
going to sit there and act like women

478
00:13:22,678 --> 00:13:24,561
are stronger than men just because you can

479
00:13:24,561 --> 00:13:26,160
give birth, something which you have a

480
00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,328
0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you

481
00:13:28,328 --> 00:13:30,162
live in the United States, and that's up

482
00:13:30,162 --> 00:13:31,896
from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right

483
00:13:31,896 --> 00:13:34,295
off. By the way passing a kidney stone

484
00:13:34,295 --> 00:13:36,145
hurts more than giving birth. Any woman

485
00:13:36,145 --> 00:13:37,978
who has experienced both will tell you

486
00:13:37,978 --> 00:13:39,294
that, and men get them more often so

487
00:13:39,294 --> 00:13:40,261
blow me.

488
00:13:40,261 --> 00:13:42,079
"Why is it so bad to show your emotions?"

489
00:13:42,079 --> 00:13:43,477
"It means you're human."

490
00:13:43,477 --> 00:13:45,029
Maybe it's because feminists like you

491
00:13:45,029 --> 00:13:46,812
tell us we're misogynists for even

492
00:13:46,812 --> 00:13:48,128
daring to complain about our problems.

493
00:13:48,128 --> 00:13:51,310
Since you're not a man and you don't have

494
00:13:51,310 --> 00:13:52,261
even the slightest inclining of what it's

495
00:13:52,261 --> 00:13:53,827
like to be a man, let me spell it out for

496
00:13:53,827 --> 00:13:55,643
you. Boys are socially conditioned from

497
00:13:55,643 --> 00:13:57,112
the day we learn to talk to not express

498
00:13:57,112 --> 00:13:59,828
our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly

499
00:13:59,828 --> 00:14:01,512
be told to man up and that boys don't cry.

500
00:14:01,512 --> 00:14:03,910
We don't have the privilege of showing

501
00:14:03,910 --> 00:14:06,111
our emotions because if we do, it's a sign

502
00:14:06,111 --> 00:14:08,294
of weakness. To put it simply, us men are

503
00:14:08,294 --> 00:14:09,843
programmed to believe that our own

504
00:14:09,843 --> 00:14:11,745
feelings are invalid, and so we hide them

505
00:14:11,745 --> 00:14:13,562
and we lie about them. We are raised to

506
00:14:13,562 --> 00:14:15,427
expect that if we tell you our feelings,

507
00:14:15,427 --> 00:14:17,045
you will shoot them down. You will tell

508
00:14:17,045 --> 00:14:18,879
us we're wrong for feeling the way we do,

509
00:14:18,879 --> 00:14:21,312
and even if you don't, we still don't want

510
00:14:21,312 --> 00:14:22,811
to tell you our feelings because

511
00:14:22,811 --> 00:14:23,762
we know you'll use them against us.

512
00:14:23,762 --> 00:14:25,378
You're probably thinking that you don't do

513
00:14:25,378 --> 00:14:27,061
that but you do, you do it all the time

514
00:14:27,061 --> 00:14:29,145
and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if

515
00:14:29,145 --> 00:14:30,495
you have ever had an argument

516
00:14:30,495 --> 00:14:31,628
with one of them men in your life and

517
00:14:31,628 --> 00:14:33,112
you told them "If you were a real man..."

518
00:14:33,112 --> 00:14:35,412
If you ever have then you have done

519
00:14:35,412 --> 00:14:37,479
exactly what I'm talking about. See no

520
00:14:37,479 --> 00:14:39,178
woman has ever been told "If you're

521
00:14:39,178 --> 00:14:40,945
a real woman you wouldn't feel this way"

522
00:14:40,945 --> 00:14:42,861
Women have their feelings cultivated and

523
00:14:42,861 --> 00:14:44,895
coddled. You're not only allowed to cry.

524
00:14:44,895 --> 00:14:46,743
you are expected to, and when you do,

525
00:14:46,743 --> 00:14:48,345
people around you give you sympathy and

526
00:14:48,345 --> 00:14:49,978
you are comforted. You are so used to

527
00:14:49,978 --> 00:14:51,444
getting sympathy that you feel entitled

528
00:14:51,444 --> 00:14:53,811
to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man

529
00:14:53,811 --> 00:14:55,928
fully expects to be looked down upon,

530
00:14:55,928 --> 00:14:57,427
and told that his feelings don't matter if

531
00:14:57,427 --> 00:14:59,011
he shows any sign of emotional weakness.

532
00:14:59,011 --> 00:15:01,244
Even by the people he trusts most, because

533
00:15:01,244 --> 00:15:03,178
that is what he has experienced for

534
00:15:03,178 --> 00:15:05,328
his entire life, and you wonder why the

535
00:15:05,328 --> 00:15:06,977
suicide rate for men is four times higher

536
00:15:06,977 --> 00:15:08,778
than it is for women. I know what you're

537
00:15:08,778 --> 00:15:10,061
going to say, you're going to say that

538
00:15:10,061 --> 00:15:11,461
the social conditioning of men to not

539
00:15:11,461 --> 00:15:12,861
show their emotions is part of the

540
00:15:12,861 --> 00:15:15,095
patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to

541
00:15:15,095 --> 00:15:17,245
change that. Good, what heroes you are,

542
00:15:17,245 --> 00:15:19,179
let me give you a little golf clap while

543
00:15:19,179 --> 00:15:20,328
you take a sip from your fucking

544
00:15:20,328 --> 00:15:21,528
'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the

545
00:15:21,528 --> 00:15:23,127
comfort of your safe space, where

546
00:15:23,127 --> 00:15:24,562
men aren't allowed.

547
00:15:24,562 --> 00:15:28,178
"Why are you always trying to prove your

548
00:15:28,178 --> 00:15:29,112
masculinity?"

549
00:15:29,112 --> 00:15:31,028
See my answer to the previous question.

550
00:15:31,028 --> 00:15:34,078
Also wow, how egocentric are you.

551
00:15:34,078 --> 00:15:36,061
You are so certain that the world

552
00:15:36,061 --> 00:15:37,711
revolves around you that you believe that

553
00:15:37,711 --> 00:15:39,429
when a man is acting like a man, that he

554
00:15:39,429 --> 00:15:41,045
must be trying to prove something to you.

555
00:15:41,045 --> 00:15:42,912
Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a

556
00:15:42,912 --> 00:15:44,345
man just because he's, you know, a

557
00:15:44,345 --> 00:15:46,694
fucking man. Why are you constantly trying

558
00:15:46,694 --> 00:15:48,760
to prove your femininity to me? How

559
00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:49,360
bout that?

560
00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,110
"Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss?

561
00:15:51,110 --> 00:15:53,029
When did words get gendered?"

562
00:15:53,029 --> 00:15:54,710
It's also not considered gentlemen like

563
00:15:54,710 --> 00:15:56,528
to curse. Swearing is generally

564
00:15:56,528 --> 00:15:57,978
considered rude regardless of the gender

565
00:15:57,978 --> 00:15:59,796
of the person who is doing it. Personally

566
00:15:59,796 --> 00:16:01,062
I don't give a shit if you use

567
00:16:01,062 --> 00:16:02,345
profanity. Go right the fuck ahead.

568
00:16:02,345 --> 00:16:04,361
And when did words get genered?

569
00:16:04,361 --> 00:16:05,611
I guess right around the time the

570
00:16:05,611 --> 00:16:07,328
word feminist was invented, which is

571
00:16:07,328 --> 00:16:09,079
at self a gendered word. I'm mean the

572
00:16:09,079 --> 00:16:10,811
invention of feminism is when everything

573
00:16:10,811 --> 00:16:12,594
suddenly became gendered. Like when assert

574
00:16:12,594 --> 00:16:14,110
that interrupting people is somehow a

575
00:16:14,110 --> 00:16:16,177
uniquely male behavior, or that only

576
00:16:16,177 --> 00:16:17,760
women get told not to swear.

577
00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:19,845
"Why is it your first instinct to doubt

578
00:16:19,845 --> 00:16:21,660
women who have been sexually violated or

579
00:16:21,660 --> 00:16:22,611
raped?"

580
00:16:22,611 --> 00:16:24,527
Maybe a false rape accusation weren't

581
00:16:24,527 --> 00:16:26,428
systemically encouraged by feminism,

582
00:16:26,428 --> 00:16:28,311
we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how

583
00:16:28,311 --> 00:16:30,228
this question is phrased, to doubt women

584
00:16:30,228 --> 00:16:32,528
who have been sexually violated or raped.

585
00:16:32,528 --> 00:16:34,544
The more salient question would be,

586
00:16:34,544 --> 00:16:36,129
'Why do you doubt women who <i>claim</i> to have

587
00:16:36,129 --> 00:16:37,945
been sexually violated or raped. And the

588
00:16:37,945 --> 00:16:39,795
answer is because we have this thing

589
00:16:39,795 --> 00:16:41,845
called the presumption of innocence.

590
00:16:41,845 --> 00:16:43,729
That means a person who is accused of a

591
00:16:43,729 --> 00:16:45,595
crime is innocent until proven guilty.

592
00:16:45,595 --> 00:16:47,761
So it's not my first instinct to doubt,

593
00:16:47,761 --> 00:16:50,344
it's my moral imperative to doubt until

594
00:16:50,344 --> 00:16:53,078
evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put

595
00:16:53,078 --> 00:16:54,478
somebody in jail just because somebody

596
00:16:54,478 --> 00:16:56,230
accused them of murder nor would you put

597
00:16:56,230 --> 00:16:57,829
them in jail just because somebody accused

598
00:16:57,829 --> 00:16:59,361
them of theft, nor would you put them in

599
00:16:59,361 --> 00:17:00,695
jail because somebody accused them of any

600
00:17:00,695 --> 00:17:02,145
other crime. Why should accusations of

601
00:17:02,145 --> 00:17:04,828
rape be held to a different standard? This

602
00:17:04,828 --> 00:17:06,245
really isn't a difficult concept to

603
00:17:06,245 --> 00:17:07,845
understand, and it both baffles me and

604
00:17:07,845 --> 00:17:09,529
disturbs me how often I see feminists

605
00:17:09,529 --> 00:17:11,845
failing to grasp this. For people who

606
00:17:11,845 --> 00:17:13,194
claim to fight for social justice, you

607
00:17:13,194 --> 00:17:14,628
really don't understand how justice works,

608
00:17:14,628 --> 00:17:17,245
do you? See a man who its accused of rape,

609
00:17:17,245 --> 00:17:19,644
<i>will</i> have his life ruined. That's not even

610
00:17:19,644 --> 00:17:21,579
only if he is convicted, the mere

611
00:17:21,579 --> 00:17:23,561
accusation is enough to cost him his job,

612
00:17:23,561 --> 00:17:25,328
his relationships, his education and

613
00:17:25,328 --> 00:17:26,795
career prospects, his home, his

614
00:17:26,795 --> 00:17:29,463
reputation, and so on. If a woman wants

615
00:17:29,463 --> 00:17:31,211
to ruin a man's life all she has to do is

616
00:17:31,211 --> 00:17:32,979
accuse him of raping her and he will be

617
00:17:32,979 --> 00:17:34,177
put through the ringer by law enforcement

618
00:17:34,177 --> 00:17:35,896
and the media; and even if he is found not

619
00:17:35,896 --> 00:17:37,428
guilty, the damage will have already been

620
00:17:37,428 --> 00:17:39,062
done and the woman who made the false

621
00:17:39,062 --> 00:17:40,678
accusation will get away scot free.

622
00:17:40,678 --> 00:17:42,912
Really it astonishes me that even after

623
00:17:42,912 --> 00:17:44,646
what happened at Duke and the University

624
00:17:44,646 --> 00:17:46,177
of Virginia, that you're still asking

625
00:17:46,177 --> 00:17:47,646
this question. Furthermore, feminists

626
00:17:47,646 --> 00:17:49,045
have abused the word rape to point where

627
00:17:49,045 --> 00:17:51,245
its lost all meaning. Everything is rape.

628
00:17:51,245 --> 00:17:53,462
Its gotten to the point where if a woman

629
00:17:53,462 --> 00:17:54,911
claims she was raped I have to wonder

630
00:17:54,911 --> 00:17:56,144
if she means a guy actually forcibly put

631
00:17:56,144 --> 00:17:57,945
his penis in her, or if she had

632
00:17:57,945 --> 00:17:59,429
consensual sex and just decided to call it

633
00:17:59,429 --> 00:18:01,162
rape when she decided she regretted it the

634
00:18:01,162 --> 00:18:02,595
next morning, or if she's merely

635
00:18:02,595 --> 00:18:04,578
complaining that a guy looked at her in

636
00:18:04,578 --> 00:18:06,012
a way that made her feel uncomfortable.

637
00:18:06,012 --> 00:18:07,312
I mean what even is rape at this point?

638
00:18:07,312 --> 00:18:09,995
According to some feminists, it's rape if

639
00:18:09,995 --> 00:18:11,496
a man changed positions during sex without

640
00:18:11,496 --> 00:18:13,912
forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend

641
00:18:13,912 --> 00:18:15,911
breaks up with you because you cheated on

642
00:18:15,911 --> 00:18:17,928
him. It's rape if you overhear somebody

643
00:18:17,928 --> 00:18:19,362
calling somebody else a slut.

644
00:18:19,362 --> 00:18:23,844
"I got raped, when my mother called

645
00:18:23,844 --> 00:18:25,979
someone else's daughter a slut."

646
00:18:25,979 --> 00:18:28,129
Really it's your own damn fault that

647
00:18:28,129 --> 00:18:29,795
people are becoming increasingly reluctant

648
00:18:29,795 --> 00:18:31,713
to believe rape accusations, because you

649
00:18:31,713 --> 00:18:33,062
have expanded the definition so broadly,

650
00:18:33,062 --> 00:18:34,612
that nobody even knows when you're really

651
00:18:34,612 --> 00:18:36,680
talking about rape anymore. You did this,

652
00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,878
you asked for it, and now you have buyers

653
00:18:38,878 --> 00:18:40,895
remorse. Now let me pose a question to

654
00:18:40,895 --> 00:18:42,578
you, why is it your first instinct to

655
00:18:42,578 --> 00:18:44,512
doubt when a man says he was sexually

656
00:18:44,512 --> 00:18:45,913
violated or raped by a woman.

657
00:18:45,913 --> 00:18:47,411
"Why do you assume a woman is angry

658
00:18:47,411 --> 00:18:48,761
because she's on her period?"

659
00:18:48,761 --> 00:18:50,413
Because women get angry when they're on

660
00:18:50,413 --> 00:18:52,295
their period. It's a scientific fact that

661
00:18:52,295 --> 00:18:54,079
the hormonal changes a woman experiences

662
00:18:54,079 --> 00:18:55,596
during her period cause her to become

663
00:18:55,596 --> 00:18:57,563
irritable. This is called premenstrual

664
00:18:57,563 --> 00:18:59,980
syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't

665
00:18:59,980 --> 00:19:02,012
always assume a woman is angry because

666
00:19:02,012 --> 00:19:03,596
she is on her period. If your boyfriend

667
00:19:03,596 --> 00:19:04,562
thinks that, then maybe it's because

668
00:19:04,562 --> 00:19:05,962
you're not being straight forward with him

669
00:19:05,962 --> 00:19:07,195
and expecting him to be a mind reader.

670
00:19:07,195 --> 00:19:09,063
Maybe you should try telling him why

671
00:19:09,063 --> 00:19:10,928
you're angry. Ever thought about that?

672
00:19:10,928 --> 00:19:12,729
Ever thought about simply telling him that

673
00:19:12,729 --> 00:19:13,929
you're mad that he ate the last

674
00:19:13,929 --> 00:19:15,594
Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit

675
00:19:15,594 --> 00:19:17,345
you're getting your panties in twist over.

676
00:19:17,345 --> 00:19:18,862
[mocking voice] "Awe he should just be

677
00:19:18,862 --> 00:19:19,696
able to figure it out"

678
00:19:19,696 --> 00:19:20,863
Yeah like you should be able to figure out

679
00:19:20,863 --> 00:19:22,096
the answers to these stupid questions

680
00:19:22,096 --> 00:19:23,412
you're asking.

681
00:19:23,412 --> 00:19:24,695
"Why do you think women that wear makeup

682
00:19:24,695 --> 00:19:27,079
are false advertising, we can say the same

683
00:19:27,079 --> 00:19:28,413
thing about your dick size."

684
00:19:28,413 --> 00:19:30,078
You actually answered the question

685
00:19:30,078 --> 00:19:30,677
yourself. We consider it false

686
00:19:30,677 --> 00:19:32,095
advertising for the same reason that you

687
00:19:32,095 --> 00:19:33,678
think a man who stuffs the crotch of his

688
00:19:33,678 --> 00:19:35,946
pants is false advertising. If you cover

689
00:19:35,946 --> 00:19:37,262
up all your pimples and scars with makeup

690
00:19:37,262 --> 00:19:38,813
you can't really be surprised when he's

691
00:19:38,813 --> 00:19:40,562
taken aback upon discover that you

692
00:19:40,562 --> 00:19:41,978
don't really look the way you did when you

693
00:19:41,978 --> 00:19:44,096
first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like

694
00:19:44,096 --> 00:19:45,579
you were lied to if you met a guy who

695
00:19:45,579 --> 00:19:47,029
looked well dressed and drove a nice car,

696
00:19:47,029 --> 00:19:48,612
but then you found out that he got his

697
00:19:48,612 --> 00:19:50,413
clothes at goodwill, and he rented that

698
00:19:50,413 --> 00:19:51,962
car with his burger king salary.

699
00:19:51,962 --> 00:19:53,862
"Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch

700
00:19:53,862 --> 00:19:55,512
of old white men sitting in a room,

701
00:19:55,512 --> 00:19:58,162
making legislation about what I can and

702
00:19:58,162 --> 00:19:59,628
can't do with my body?"

703
00:19:59,628 --> 00:20:01,295
Wasn't it a room full of old white men

704
00:20:01,295 --> 00:20:02,879
that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling.

705
00:20:02,879 --> 00:20:05,196
You know, women have had the right to

706
00:20:05,196 --> 00:20:07,112
vote for almost a hundred years now, and

707
00:20:07,112 --> 00:20:08,545
polling data has found that women are more

708
00:20:08,545 --> 00:20:10,412
likely to vote than men; and yet these

709
00:20:10,412 --> 00:20:12,512
old white men keep getting elected.

710
00:20:12,512 --> 00:20:14,362
And I see a lot of you people supporting

711
00:20:14,362 --> 00:20:16,079
Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty

712
00:20:16,079 --> 00:20:18,312
fuckin old and white to me. Go figure.

713
00:20:18,312 --> 00:20:19,996
Furthermore, why does it even matter that

714
00:20:19,996 --> 00:20:21,462
they're white? Why does their melanin

715
00:20:21,462 --> 00:20:22,995
level matter more than the merit of their

716
00:20:22,995 --> 00:20:25,579
ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr.

717
00:20:25,579 --> 00:20:27,529
who once said "I have a dream that my

718
00:20:27,529 --> 00:20:29,330
four little children will one day live in

719
00:20:29,330 --> 00:20:30,845
a nation where they will not be judge by

720
00:20:30,845 --> 00:20:32,111
the color of their skin, but by the

721
00:20:32,111 --> 00:20:33,861
content of their character." For as much

722
00:20:33,861 --> 00:20:35,629
as you people like to accuse other of

723
00:20:35,629 --> 00:20:37,079
being racist, you sure do judge people

724
00:20:37,079 --> 00:20:39,045
based on their race a lot. Oh but it's

725
00:20:39,045 --> 00:20:40,880
not racism when you do it because of

726
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,112
power structures or some other mental

727
00:20:42,112 --> 00:20:43,778
gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether

728
00:20:43,778 --> 00:20:45,496
or not the prejudice somebody is being

729
00:20:45,496 --> 00:20:47,096
subjected to is institutionalized makes

730
00:20:47,096 --> 00:20:49,096
any difference to them when it happens.

731
00:20:49,096 --> 00:20:50,945
Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of

732
00:20:50,945 --> 00:20:52,979
who is doing it to whom. Calling it

733
00:20:52,979 --> 00:20:54,462
something other than racism doesn't

734
00:20:54,462 --> 00:20:56,163
change the fact that it's fucking racism;

735
00:20:56,163 --> 00:20:57,646
And the only people who think otherwise

736
00:20:57,646 --> 00:20:59,278
are racist like you. This mentality that

737
00:20:59,278 --> 00:21:01,295
only certain people can be racist hinges

738
00:21:01,295 --> 00:21:02,996
on the categorization of people based on

739
00:21:02,996 --> 00:21:04,978
their ethnicity, and the ascribing of

740
00:21:04,978 --> 00:21:06,495
attributes to them such as privilege,

741
00:21:06,495 --> 00:21:08,795
based on those racial categories. You

742
00:21:08,795 --> 00:21:10,429
have to make judgements based on race to

743
00:21:10,429 --> 00:21:11,896
make this argument work, you have to make

744
00:21:11,896 --> 00:21:13,778
assumptions and generalization about their

745
00:21:13,778 --> 00:21:15,296
race and origin to make those judgments.

746
00:21:15,296 --> 00:21:16,963
So you have to be racist to use this

747
00:21:16,963 --> 00:21:18,979
argument, how do you not see the problem

748
00:21:18,979 --> 00:21:20,329
with this, how do you not see the problem

749
00:21:20,329 --> 00:21:21,529
with putting people's race before the

750
00:21:21,529 --> 00:21:23,162
merits of their argument and categorizing

751
00:21:23,162 --> 00:21:25,095
people into a hierarchy of consideration

752
00:21:25,095 --> 00:21:26,812
based on their race. How the fuck do you

753
00:21:26,812 --> 00:21:28,662
expect to fight racism with racism, and

754
00:21:28,662 --> 00:21:30,146
then expect people to take you seriously.

755
00:21:30,146 --> 00:21:31,978
Maybe this is the reason why you think

756
00:21:31,978 --> 00:21:33,296
that if somebody thinks that you're

757
00:21:33,296 --> 00:21:34,546
stupid it must be because you're a woman.

758
00:21:34,546 --> 00:21:36,329
You're projecting, you judge other people

759
00:21:36,329 --> 00:21:37,813
based on their race and gender so you

760
00:21:37,813 --> 00:21:39,378
assume other people are doing it to you.

761
00:21:39,378 --> 00:21:41,146
Well I've got news for you, I don't think

762
00:21:41,146 --> 00:21:42,879
you're stupid because you're a woman, I

763
00:21:42,879 --> 00:21:44,745
think you're stupid because you're stupid.

764
00:21:44,745 --> 00:21:47,229
Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not

765
00:21:47,229 --> 00:21:48,811
like they don't also tell me what I can't

766
00:21:48,811 --> 00:21:50,981
do with my body. For example, I can't take

767
00:21:50,981 --> 00:21:52,829
the palm of my hand and slap some sense

768
00:21:52,829 --> 00:21:54,462
into you, without being considered

769
00:21:54,462 --> 00:21:55,245
assault.

770
00:21:55,245 --> 00:21:56,212
"Do you have a coochie?"

771
00:21:56,212 --> 00:21:56,946
No.

772
00:21:56,946 --> 00:21:57,613
"Why are straight guys so obsessed with

773
00:21:57,613 --> 00:21:58,278
lesbians?"

774
00:21:58,278 --> 00:21:59,346
Why are straight women so obsessed with

775
00:21:59,346 --> 00:22:01,345
gay guys? Or better yet, why are women

776
00:22:01,345 --> 00:22:03,362
so obsessed with lesbians? According to

777
00:22:03,362 --> 00:22:05,878
Porn hub search data for 2014, the number

778
00:22:05,878 --> 00:22:07,345
one thing women search for was lesbian

779
00:22:07,345 --> 00:22:09,312
porn. Proportionately women look up

780
00:22:09,312 --> 00:22:10,763
lesbian porn more than men do.

781
00:22:10,763 --> 00:22:12,779
"How does it feel to get kicked in the

782
00:22:12,779 --> 00:22:13,430
balls?"

783
00:22:13,430 --> 00:22:14,512
How do you think it feels, you dumb

784
00:22:14,512 --> 00:22:15,329
bitch?

785
00:22:15,329 --> 00:22:16,879
"Do you ever get tired of being manly all

786
00:22:16,879 --> 00:22:17,630
the time?"

787
00:22:17,630 --> 00:22:19,246
Do you? You're the one that's dressed like

788
00:22:19,246 --> 00:22:21,579
a lumberjack. To answer the question, no,

789
00:22:21,579 --> 00:22:23,797
not really. It comes naturally to me

790
00:22:23,797 --> 00:22:26,562
since I'm, you know, a man. The fact

791
00:22:26,562 --> 00:22:28,062
that you're asking this question implies

792
00:22:28,062 --> 00:22:29,312
that you sometimes get tired of being

793
00:22:29,312 --> 00:22:30,862
feminine, so do you ever get tired of

794
00:22:30,862 --> 00:22:32,562
being feminine all the time? Is that why

795
00:22:32,562 --> 00:22:33,846
you're dressed like a lumberjack?

796
00:22:33,846 --> 00:22:35,362
Would you like to be a man?

797
00:22:35,362 --> 00:22:37,361
Well you have to pass a test first. Have

798
00:22:37,361 --> 00:22:39,063
you mastered the art of manspreading?

799
00:22:39,063 --> 00:22:40,829
Have you completed your forty hours of

800
00:22:40,829 --> 00:22:42,362
rape training?

801
00:22:42,362 --> 00:22:43,845
"Why are you so afraid of gender

802
00:22:43,845 --> 00:22:44,412
equality?"

803
00:22:44,412 --> 00:22:46,713
I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is

804
00:22:46,713 --> 00:22:48,829
gender inequality. Which is what feminist

805
00:22:48,829 --> 00:22:50,563
are actually pushing for. You want

806
00:22:50,563 --> 00:22:53,462
examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and

807
00:22:53,462 --> 00:22:55,263
co-founder of feminist initiative,

808
00:22:55,263 --> 00:22:57,246
Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media

809
00:22:57,246 --> 00:22:59,129
called a man tax, which would have raised

810
00:22:59,129 --> 00:23:00,762
taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the

811
00:23:00,762 --> 00:23:02,280
idea that all men should be held

812
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,280
accountable for all man on women violence.

813
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,113
It should be noted that Schyman was

814
00:23:06,113 --> 00:23:08,563
convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a

815
00:23:08,563 --> 00:23:10,180
year before making this proposal.

816
00:23:10,180 --> 00:23:12,697
In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal

817
00:23:12,697 --> 00:23:14,279
have unanimously opposed changes to rape

818
00:23:14,279 --> 00:23:16,496
laws that would make it possible for

819
00:23:16,496 --> 00:23:18,362
women to be convicted of rape. They

820
00:23:18,362 --> 00:23:20,796
succeeded and now women in Israel commit

821
00:23:20,796 --> 00:23:22,879
sex act on non-consenting adults or

822
00:23:22,879 --> 00:23:24,346
children who are not old enough to

823
00:23:24,346 --> 00:23:25,712
legally give informed consent, are not

824
00:23:25,712 --> 00:23:27,179
actually being charged with rape, and are

825
00:23:27,179 --> 00:23:29,130
instead charged with lesser crimes. In

826
00:23:29,130 --> 00:23:31,179
2013 Indian feminists successfully

827
00:23:31,179 --> 00:23:33,012
pressured the government to rewrite rape

828
00:23:33,012 --> 00:23:34,680
laws in such a way that only men could be

829
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,046
charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica

830
00:23:37,046 --> 00:23:38,730
Valenti published an article in the

831
00:23:38,730 --> 00:23:40,462
Guardian advocating paying men less than

832
00:23:40,462 --> 00:23:43,013
women. In 2015, York University planned to

833
00:23:43,013 --> 00:23:45,012
hold an international men's day meant to

834
00:23:45,012 --> 00:23:46,829
highlight issues affecting men and boys,

835
00:23:46,829 --> 00:23:48,696
such as the high suicide rate, shorter

836
00:23:48,696 --> 00:23:50,412
life expectancies, and struggles faced in

837
00:23:50,412 --> 00:23:52,696
getting and education. It was canceled

838
00:23:52,696 --> 00:23:54,513
after feminists student, staff, and alumni

839
00:23:54,513 --> 00:23:56,462
protested and held a petition to ban it,

840
00:23:56,462 --> 00:23:58,478
which received almost 200 signatures.

841
00:23:58,478 --> 00:23:59,896
To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter

842
00:23:59,896 --> 00:24:01,562
wrote a condescending article on

843
00:24:01,562 --> 00:24:04,162
Independent.co.uk enlightening readers

844
00:24:04,162 --> 00:24:05,778
why we don't need an international men's

845
00:24:05,778 --> 00:24:07,880
day. You can claim the definition of

846
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,747
feminism is advocating gender equality

847
00:24:09,747 --> 00:24:11,512
all you want, but actions speak louder than

848
00:24:11,512 --> 00:24:13,747
words. And it's really hard to believe the

849
00:24:13,747 --> 00:24:15,579
feminist movement is really a movement

850
00:24:15,579 --> 00:24:17,129
for equality, when you dismiss anyone who

851
00:24:17,129 --> 00:24:18,696
brings up men's issues as misogynists.

852
00:24:18,696 --> 00:24:20,862
You say all men are rapists, you try to

853
00:24:20,862 --> 00:24:23,045
ban men from certain place son college

854
00:24:23,045 --> 00:24:24,647
campuses, you actively fight against

855
00:24:24,647 --> 00:24:26,046
father's rights, undermine the

856
00:24:26,046 --> 00:24:27,563
presumption of innocence when it comes

857
00:24:27,563 --> 00:24:28,480
to rape accusations, and you deny

858
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,379
statistics about male victims of domestic

859
00:24:30,379 --> 00:24:32,130
abuse. As well as protest and disrupt

860
00:24:32,130 --> 00:24:33,928
conferences about male suicide.

861
00:24:33,928 --> 00:24:36,447
"This is what mens' rights looks like"

862
00:24:36,447 --> 00:24:38,696
"This is what mens' rights looks like"

863
00:24:38,696 --> 00:24:41,763
"This is what mens' rights looks like"

864
00:24:41,763 --> 00:24:43,712
All that said, why are you so afraid of

865
00:24:43,712 --> 00:24:44,829
gender equality?

866
00:24:44,829 --> 00:24:45,579
"Why do I deserve to be paid less than

867
00:24:45,579 --> 00:24:47,430
you?"

868
00:24:47,430 --> 00:24:49,330
"In what world does 77 cents equal a

869
00:24:49,330 --> 00:24:50,013
dollar?"

870
00:24:50,013 --> 00:24:51,413
"In what world does 68 cents equal a

871
00:24:51,413 --> 00:24:51,997
dollar?"

872
00:24:51,997 --> 00:24:52,913
"How is that fair?"

873
00:24:52,913 --> 00:24:54,813
After I finished writing my answers to

874
00:24:54,813 --> 00:24:55,845
all these questions, I actually counted

875
00:24:55,845 --> 00:24:56,896
them and realized there are only 33

876
00:24:56,896 --> 00:24:58,695
questions, instead of 36. I just

877
00:24:58,695 --> 00:25:00,262
naturally assumed these four questions

878
00:25:00,262 --> 00:25:02,029
are actually one and answer them as such,

879
00:25:02,029 --> 00:25:03,579
but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this

880
00:25:03,579 --> 00:25:05,112
compound question as a bunch of seperate

881
00:25:05,112 --> 00:25:07,179
questions, in order to bolster their count

882
00:25:07,179 --> 00:25:09,013
for their deceptive, click baiting title.

883
00:25:09,013 --> 00:25:10,230
Like it wasn't bad enough that they're

884
00:25:10,230 --> 00:25:12,897
already not even questions. Anyway, this

885
00:25:12,897 --> 00:25:15,029
has been pointed out countless times by

886
00:25:15,029 --> 00:25:16,946
countless other people, but the wage gap

887
00:25:16,946 --> 00:25:18,711
is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit

888
00:25:18,711 --> 00:25:20,180
I don't mean that it doesn't exist.

889
00:25:20,180 --> 00:25:21,931
I mean it's bullshit because of the way

890
00:25:21,931 --> 00:25:24,063
it's presented. The observed wage gap it

891
00:25:24,063 --> 00:25:25,613
based on comparing the average income of

892
00:25:25,613 --> 00:25:26,896
men to the average income of women without

893
00:25:26,896 --> 00:25:29,230
considering any variables. Sometimes when

894
00:25:29,230 --> 00:25:30,912
the wage gap is brought up they add women

895
00:25:30,912 --> 00:25:32,179
get paid less for the same jobs, but

896
00:25:32,179 --> 00:25:34,496
that's horseshit. Asking women why they

897
00:25:34,496 --> 00:25:36,130
get paid less than men is like asking why

898
00:25:36,130 --> 00:25:37,413
men are more likely to die in the

899
00:25:37,413 --> 00:25:39,295
workplace than women. It's because men

900
00:25:39,295 --> 00:25:41,013
and women tend to work different jobs;

901
00:25:41,013 --> 00:25:43,630
and just like some jobs are more dangerous

902
00:25:43,630 --> 00:25:45,229
than others, some jobs pay more than

903
00:25:45,229 --> 00:25:46,963
others. And since men tend to work

904
00:25:46,963 --> 00:25:48,963
higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM

905
00:25:48,963 --> 00:25:50,929
fields, men tend to make more money.

906
00:25:50,929 --> 00:25:52,596
And even when you are comparing men and

907
00:25:52,596 --> 00:25:54,479
women working the same jobs, there are

908
00:25:54,479 --> 00:25:56,480
things which factor into why men get paid

909
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,212
more. Such as the fact that men are more

910
00:25:58,212 --> 00:26:00,314
likely to work overtime, or more likely

911
00:26:00,314 --> 00:26:01,996
to ask for raises or promotions, or less

912
00:26:01,996 --> 00:26:04,163
likely to take time off, or more

913
00:26:04,163 --> 00:26:06,312
competitive, or more likely to take risks,

914
00:26:06,312 --> 00:26:08,112
prioritize earnings more than women,

915
00:26:08,112 --> 00:26:09,779
retire at a later age, and all these other

916
00:26:09,779 --> 00:26:12,630
things which studies have found. With all

917
00:26:12,630 --> 00:26:14,363
this taken into consideration, it's no

918
00:26:14,363 --> 00:26:16,614
wonder that men get paid more, men work

919
00:26:16,614 --> 00:26:19,147
more. And really I hate to point out this

920
00:26:19,147 --> 00:26:20,830
obvious bit of common sense, but if

921
00:26:20,830 --> 00:26:22,213
companies could actually get away with

922
00:26:22,213 --> 00:26:23,696
paying women less, don't you think they

923
00:26:23,696 --> 00:26:25,029
would just hire nothing but women to save

924
00:26:25,029 --> 00:26:26,446
money. Do you honestly think that

925
00:26:26,446 --> 00:26:28,197
corporations are such boys clubs that

926
00:26:28,197 --> 00:26:30,162
giving advantages to men is more important

927
00:26:30,162 --> 00:26:32,096
to them than their profits and shareholder

928
00:26:32,096 --> 00:26:34,863
interests. Don't be stupid. And no the

929
00:26:34,863 --> 00:26:36,529
fact that there are so few women in STEM

930
00:26:36,529 --> 00:26:37,829
fields has nothing to do with

931
00:26:37,829 --> 00:26:39,647
discrimination. In fact, surveys have

932
00:26:39,647 --> 00:26:41,196
found that there is a 2 to 1 preference

933
00:26:41,196 --> 00:26:42,746
for female applicants in STEM fields

934
00:26:42,746 --> 00:26:45,096
over equally qualified men. So the reason

935
00:26:45,096 --> 00:26:46,462
that there are so few women in STEM

936
00:26:46,462 --> 00:26:48,446
fields is because few women are interested

937
00:26:48,446 --> 00:26:50,913
in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you

938
00:26:50,913 --> 00:26:52,497
want more women in STEM fields, then maybe

939
00:26:52,497 --> 00:26:53,996
you shouldn't have wasted your parents

940
00:26:53,996 --> 00:26:55,563
money on a degree in gender studies.

941
00:26:55,563 --> 00:26:57,547
And if you wish to continue pushing this

942
00:26:57,547 --> 00:26:59,180
baseless contention that the patriarchy

943
00:26:59,180 --> 00:27:00,879
is keeping women out of STEM fields, then

944
00:27:00,879 --> 00:27:02,662
explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping

945
00:27:02,662 --> 00:27:04,413
women from dominating certain fields

946
00:27:04,413 --> 00:27:06,113
such as veterinary, medicine, psychology,

947
00:27:06,113 --> 00:27:08,547
pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore,

948
00:27:08,547 --> 00:27:10,597
which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68

949
00:27:10,597 --> 00:27:13,113
cents. I've also heard other feminists

950
00:27:13,113 --> 00:27:15,113
claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't

951
00:27:15,113 --> 00:27:16,514
keep your story straight kind of says

952
00:27:16,514 --> 00:27:18,114
something about it. And I'm really

953
00:27:18,114 --> 00:27:19,496
struggling to understand why you thought

954
00:27:19,496 --> 00:27:21,046
including this discrepancy in your video

955
00:27:21,046 --> 00:27:22,697
was a good idea. Maybe you should have

956
00:27:22,697 --> 00:27:25,280
let a man proofread it. (whispering) that

957
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,614
was a joke. I know I have to explain it

958
00:27:26,614 --> 00:27:28,296
because feminists don't understand jokes,

959
00:27:28,296 --> 00:27:30,379
but it was a joke, alright.

960
00:27:30,379 --> 00:27:32,163
"Why are you intimidated by a woman who

961
00:27:32,163 --> 00:27:33,696
makes more money than you? That's

962
00:27:33,696 --> 00:27:35,379
awesome! More money"

963
00:27:35,379 --> 00:27:37,047
I'm not, but since we're making

964
00:27:37,047 --> 00:27:39,330
assumptions, why are you intimidated

965
00:27:39,330 --> 00:27:41,697
by my deep, booming, commanding, yet

966
00:27:41,697 --> 00:27:43,213
sultry baritone voice.

967
00:27:43,213 --> 00:27:45,381
"Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?"

968
00:27:45,381 --> 00:27:47,897
"When opiniated men are seen as bosses."

969
00:27:47,897 --> 00:27:50,446
Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless

970
00:27:50,446 --> 00:27:51,879
they actually are somebody's boss.

971
00:27:51,879 --> 00:27:53,797
Otherwise they are just called assholes.

972
00:27:53,797 --> 00:27:55,796
Unless of course their opinions disagree

973
00:27:55,796 --> 00:27:57,480
with you. In which case they are kicked

974
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,213
off of campus, banned from speaking at

975
00:27:59,213 --> 00:28:01,162
events, and told to stop mansplaining.

976
00:28:01,162 --> 00:28:03,213
Maybe that's why opiniated women like you

977
00:28:03,213 --> 00:28:04,464
are seen as bitches.

978
00:28:04,464 --> 00:28:06,430
"Why aren't you speaking up when you hear

979
00:28:06,430 --> 00:28:09,097
your male friends behind closed doors,

980
00:28:09,097 --> 00:28:10,895
make jokes that are offensive to

981
00:28:10,895 --> 00:28:11,613
women?"

982
00:28:11,613 --> 00:28:12,963
Because they're jokes, and they aren't

983
00:28:12,963 --> 00:28:14,546
meant to be taken seriously.

984
00:28:14,546 --> 00:28:16,497
"These people who are fucking offended by

985
00:28:16,497 --> 00:28:18,547
rape jokes don't even understand humor."

986
00:28:18,547 --> 00:28:20,380
If that's not a good enough answer, then

987
00:28:20,380 --> 00:28:22,429
let me ask you this, do you speak up when

988
00:28:22,429 --> 00:28:24,146
your female friends make jokes that are

989
00:28:24,146 --> 00:28:26,980
offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because

990
00:28:26,980 --> 00:28:30,181
it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I

991
00:28:30,181 --> 00:28:31,329
thought you said you were probably funnier

992
00:28:31,329 --> 00:28:33,280
than me? You think of yourself as a funny

993
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,596
woman but you don't want people making

994
00:28:34,596 --> 00:28:35,763
jokes that don't cater to your own

995
00:28:35,763 --> 00:28:37,597
personal taste. Stop trying to please

996
00:28:37,597 --> 00:28:39,114
other people's speech, you empty

997
00:28:39,114 --> 00:28:40,380
headed bimbo. (Horn blaring)

998
00:28:40,380 --> 00:28:42,447
"Why are you so afraid of recognizing

999
00:28:42,447 --> 00:28:44,263
your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a

1000
00:28:44,263 --> 00:28:46,228
bad person, just recognizing it and do

1001
00:28:46,228 --> 00:28:47,780
something about it."

1002
00:28:47,780 --> 00:28:49,014
I just love how you boldly assert that I

1003
00:28:49,014 --> 00:28:50,314
have privilege without backing up that

1004
00:28:50,314 --> 00:28:52,079
assertion at all. And then pursue to talk

1005
00:28:52,079 --> 00:28:53,596
down to me in this condescending tone,

1006
00:28:53,596 --> 00:28:55,496
like it's just so obvious it's such an

1007
00:28:55,496 --> 00:28:57,397
unassailable argument. (mocking voice)

1008
00:28:57,397 --> 00:28:59,197
It doesn't mean you're a bad person.

1009
00:28:59,197 --> 00:29:00,614
But I guess being the same gender as

1010
00:29:00,614 --> 00:29:02,513
Donald Trump does. To answer your

1011
00:29:02,513 --> 00:29:03,979
question, it's because I don't have

1012
00:29:03,979 --> 00:29:06,196
privilege, I really don't, but you do.

1013
00:29:06,196 --> 00:29:09,279
I defy you name one, just one, legal

1014
00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:12,030
privilege that I have, which you don't

1015
00:29:12,030 --> 00:29:13,663
also have. Because I can think of several

1016
00:29:13,663 --> 00:29:15,530
you have which I don't have. Let me list

1017
00:29:15,530 --> 00:29:18,430
ten. Women are almost always granted

1018
00:29:18,430 --> 00:29:19,913
custody of children in a divorce by

1019
00:29:19,913 --> 00:29:21,479
default unless the man can prove she is

1020
00:29:21,479 --> 00:29:22,963
unfit to care for them. See

1021
00:29:22,963 --> 00:29:24,379
misrepresentation of gender bias

1022
00:29:24,379 --> 00:29:26,030
committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court

1023
00:29:26,030 --> 00:29:28,763
by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite

1024
00:29:28,763 --> 00:29:30,430
the fact that children are twice as

1025
00:29:30,430 --> 00:29:31,864
likely to be abused by their mother than

1026
00:29:31,864 --> 00:29:33,330
they are by their father. According to

1027
00:29:33,330 --> 00:29:34,964
page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013

1028
00:29:34,964 --> 00:29:37,297
published by the US Department of Health

1029
00:29:37,297 --> 00:29:38,947
and Human Services. Women have more

1030
00:29:38,947 --> 00:29:40,663
social safety nets designed for them,

1031
00:29:40,663 --> 00:29:42,363
which is why they only make up 24% of

1032
00:29:42,363 --> 00:29:44,263
the homeless population. This is in spite

1033
00:29:44,263 --> 00:29:46,363
of the fact that 42% of homeless men are

1034
00:29:46,363 --> 00:29:48,412
employed, versus only 27% of homeless

1035
00:29:48,412 --> 00:29:50,164
women. This is according to page 2 of

1036
00:29:50,164 --> 00:29:51,847
"Who's Homeless" published by the National

1037
00:29:51,847 --> 00:29:54,263
Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and

1038
00:29:54,263 --> 00:29:56,079
page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless

1039
00:29:56,079 --> 00:29:57,663
Majority" published by Healing Hands

1040
00:29:57,663 --> 00:30:00,496
in June 2001. Women get more lenient

1041
00:30:00,496 --> 00:30:02,230
sentences for equivalent crimes. See

1042
00:30:02,230 --> 00:30:03,896
"Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal

1043
00:30:03,896 --> 00:30:05,813
Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012.

1044
00:30:05,813 --> 00:30:08,397
A woman could get a male coworker fired

1045
00:30:08,397 --> 00:30:10,063
from his job simply by accusing him of

1046
00:30:10,063 --> 00:30:11,962
sexual harassment even without proving it.

1047
00:30:11,962 --> 00:30:13,813
It's so easy for a woman to get a man

1048
00:30:13,813 --> 00:30:15,779
fired at a malice, and it happens so

1049
00:30:15,779 --> 00:30:17,497
often that men are now starting to avoid

1050
00:30:17,497 --> 00:30:19,214
women all together in the workplace.

1051
00:30:19,214 --> 00:30:20,863
Refusing to mentor or help them.

1052
00:30:20,863 --> 00:30:22,913
Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book,

1053
00:30:22,913 --> 00:30:25,796
"Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a

1054
00:30:25,796 --> 00:30:27,663
woman can declare a man to be the father

1055
00:30:27,663 --> 00:30:29,280
of her child and sue him for child

1056
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,180
support and it's up to the man to prove

1057
00:30:31,180 --> 00:30:33,264
he isn't the father by taking a DNA test.

1058
00:30:33,264 --> 00:30:35,830
And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he

1059
00:30:35,830 --> 00:30:37,514
doesn't do it in that time, then a court

1060
00:30:37,514 --> 00:30:39,031
can declare him responsible for the child

1061
00:30:39,031 --> 00:30:40,512
even if he proves he isn't the father

1062
00:30:40,512 --> 00:30:43,463
later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for

1063
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child support. A woman who gets

1064
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pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the

1065
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man she stole it from for child support.

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And before you argue that a man should

1067
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keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to

1068
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be a father, imagine if you heard a

1069
00:30:54,397 --> 00:30:55,946
conservative Christian arguing against

1070
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abortion by saying 'women should keep

1071
00:30:57,297 --> 00:30:58,580
their legs together if they don't want to

1072
00:30:58,580 --> 00:31:00,364
be mothers' I think you would lose your

1073
00:31:00,364 --> 00:31:02,897
shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping

1074
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a man or an underage boy can sue him for

1075
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child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer.

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A woman could get an abortion in

1077
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complete disregard for the wishes of the

1078
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father, she doesn't even have to tell

1079
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she's seeking an abortion. A woman can

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also sue the father for child support if

1081
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he wants nothing to do with the child.

1082
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So basically a woman can opt out of

1083
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parenthood but a man cannot.

1084
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Domestic violence against women is

1085
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actually taken seriously. Men are always

1086
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presumed to be the aggressors in

1087
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domestic violence cases. Despite the fact

1088
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that CDC statistics have found that more

1089
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than 70% of non reciprocated domestic

1090
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violence is perpetuated by women.

1091
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Even when a man is recognized as a being

1092
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a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost

1093
00:31:37,346 --> 00:31:38,464
always presumed to be at fault.

1094
00:31:38,464 --> 00:31:39,913
People ask 'What did he do to piss her

1095
00:31:39,913 --> 00:31:40,614
off?'

1096
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So let me pose a question to you, Why are

1097
00:31:43,263 --> 00:31:44,863
you so afraid of recognizing your

1098
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privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad

1099
00:31:46,946 --> 00:31:49,063
person. Just recognize it and do something

1100
00:31:49,063 --> 00:31:52,047
about it. Or don't, I already know you

1101
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won't.