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(beep)
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(screaming)
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(jazzy intro)
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Donald Trump?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Sarah Palin?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Michelle Bachman?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as anybody
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you disagree with?
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Why does it even matter
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whether or not you're the
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same gender as somebody else?
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I mean, I'm also the same
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gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein,
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and the guy who introduced
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chocolate to the Western world.
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So what are you even getting
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at with this question?
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Are you trying to say Donald Trump
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is bad, and Donald Trump
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is a man, therefore men are bad?
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Why do you hate rom-coms?
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Or do you just feel like you
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need to hate them?
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Everybody likes The Notebook,
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everybody likes Beyoncé.
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It's just a fact.
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Men hate romantic comedies
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for the same reason you
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hate video games with
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over-sexualized female characters.
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The men in these movies are
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always willing to sacrifice
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their careers, their dreams,
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even their lives to win
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the lead females' affection.
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Now I don't have any empirical
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data to back this up, but
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it seems to me that
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romantic comedies and
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romance movies in general
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cause women to have unrealistic
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expectations of men and what
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love should be like, and these
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become the expectations
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that men have to live up to,
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and it's unfair.
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Feminists like to bitch
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about poor representation of women
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in media intended for men
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because they promote body issues
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and shit like that
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And I agree, to at least, an extent
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But it's not any better for men
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When we're expected to be Prince Charming,
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ready and willing to sacrifice themselves
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physically, mentally, and emotionally
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And we're called selfish for daring to
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have our own desires
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or even misogynistic for daring to draw
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attention to our own problems.
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These movies appeal to the female fantasy
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of having a night in shining armor
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swear their entire existence to pleasing
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them, and thus reinforce these notions
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within their target audience of women
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like you that you somehow deserve
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to have your boyfriends and husbands
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give up everything that makes them
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who they are and basically dehumanize
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themselves for your pleasure and
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devote 100% of their time and energy
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to you. The fact that some of you
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watching this are scoffing at what I
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just said only proves my point.
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You have fooled yourself into thinking
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that I'm somehow the one who's being
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selfish when I object to the notion
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that men should be expected to cave
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into all of your demands, for the sake of
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your perverted idealistic conception
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of love. And I have no doubts that
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some of you will accuse me of being
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bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying
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that, but I'm not and I will
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pre-emptively characterize such an
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argument as out cropping of the
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very mentality that I'm talking about.
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You expect all of your demands to be
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catered to, and any man who is unwilling
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or unable to cater to them must have
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something wrong with them. Us men are
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human beings with our own interests and
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goals, and it's selfish for you to expect
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us to give all that up for you.
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But these movies condition you to expect
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exactly that. And that is why we hate
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romantic comedies. We don't see anything
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romantic about them. What we see is the
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reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable
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expectations about what we should be doing
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with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce.
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"Why do you make women sit around and talk
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about men in movies when y'all easily just
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sit around and talk about boobs for hours?
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One, I don't know, maybe you should be
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asking that to people who write romantic
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comedies you like so much, because
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those are the movies which have women
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sitting around talking about men. Or,
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better yet, instead of complaining about
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how writers depict women in their movies,
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maybe you should try being the change you
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want to see and write your own damn movie.
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Then you could make the female characters
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sit around and talk about whatever you
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want. Like how men are oppressing them, or
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how men are objectifying them or how men
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are such pigs, or how men spread their
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legs too far apart on the subway, or how
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men hate romantic comedies. There's
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nothing stopping you.
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Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test,
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which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies
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pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd
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hesitate to call any of those movies
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"pro-feminist."
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Three, I don't know a single guy who ever
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talks about boobs for hours at a time.
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I think the only guys who do are medical
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students learning how to conduct
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mammograms. You want to know what most of
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the men I know talk about? Movies, video
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games, politics, religion, music, sports,
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cars, boats, technology, work, guns,
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hunting, places they've been to, people
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they've met, and so on. The subject of
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boobs actually rarely ever comes up.
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Contrary to what you may have been told in
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your Women's Studies class, men don't
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think about sex constantly. If we did, we
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would never have invented the camera
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equipment you used to make this video.
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Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for
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hours at a time, it's feminists. You're
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the ones who are always whining about
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the designs of fictional characters,
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complaining that fat girls' tits are too
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big. And in all honesty, the only time I
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ever even think about a comic book
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character's tits is when I hear a feminist
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bring it up. So I think maybe you're
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projecting.
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"Why do you automatically assume that you
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won't like the TV or movies that star a
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female lead?"
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I don't. In fact, some of my favorite
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movies and TV shows have female leads.
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I don't know a single man who has ever
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scoffed at the notion of watching a movie
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or TV show just because it has a female
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protagonist. However, I have seen
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feminists scoff at anything with a male
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lead.
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"Why are you surprised when women are
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funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!"
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I'm not surprised when women are funny.
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There are plenty of funny women out there.
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[names not recognized], et cetera.
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But I will say that, in general, women are
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not as funny as men, and I think most
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women won't agree with that statement.
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I also think there's a reason for this.
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See if you understand what humor is
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and how it works, which I'm guessing
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you don't because you're feminists,
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then you know that the things that make
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laugh often have their roots in very dark
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subject matter.
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To quote the amazing atheist,
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"These people who are fucking offended
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by rape jokes don't even understand
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humor. They don't understand- They
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think of humor as like a happy thing,
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because humor makes us laugh and laughter
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makes us happy, but a lot of the time
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they don't seem to notice that what we're
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actually laughing at is quite dark and
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morbid. Like if you actually look at it
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and examine the jokes, and look at the
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exaggeration and try to figure out the
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mechanics of how the joke works,
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why does it work; you're gonna find that
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a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain
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and suffering. Because laughter is this
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great transcendent tool we have, where
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we can take something that- that's bitter
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and difficult to comprehend or deal with,
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and make it something funny.
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Like if I take a joke like "How many
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police officers does it take change a
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light bulb?"
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"None, they just beat the room for being
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black." you know that joke has it's
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genesis in some very serious, very dark
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shit. And that joke is not making light
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of the fact that people have suffered,
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or it's not making light of the fact that
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people, you know, marched in the Civil
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Rights Movement, or- or that people are
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racial discriminated against, or police
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brutality. It's not making light of any
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of that. What it's doing is it's taking
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that pain and it's taking that dark
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subject matter, and it's helping us
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transcend it for a moment. And view
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the absurdity of our circumstance.
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Because that is what humor is supposed to
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do. Humor at it's best takes the elements
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of the world that are dark and horrible,
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and shows you there absurdity. It shows
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you the absurdity of the human condition.
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and that is important."
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See men are socially conditioned to not
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talk openly and honestly about their
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feelings, which I'll talk more about
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later, and that's why we cultivate a sense
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of humor. The only way we can really talk
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about the things that upset us is if
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we do it through the filter of comedy.
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But women have the clears throat
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"privilege" to not be subject to social
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conditioning, and so they don't feel the
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need to cultivate a sense of humor.
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And that's why women, in general, aren't
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as funny and men. That isn't to say that
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all men are funny, or that all women are
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unfunny. It's just that in general men are
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funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's
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how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly
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doubt that you're funnier than me.
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And it's not because you're a woman.
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Just judging by how you look and talk,
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I'm willing to bet that your sense of
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humor boils down to saying something rude,
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and then following it with "Just kidding".
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I mean I'm not the funniest person in
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the world but if you think of yourself
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as the funny one, you probably lack the
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objectivity to realize that everybody
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else in your circle of friends probably
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thinks of you as the "annoying one".
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Just kidding, actually I'm not.
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"Why do you think we're obsessed with you
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when we hook up?" "Nine times out of
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ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm
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busy, I got shit to do."
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Probably because you do shit like text
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us 50 times in the space of one hour, and
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slash our tires when we dump you after you
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accuse us of cheating because you saw our
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sister's name in our call history. Also
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what shit could you possibly have to do?
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Pluck your eyebrows to the point
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where they're so unnaturally clean around
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the edges that they look like they're
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drawn on? Spend your husband's money
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on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of
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Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write
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more questions for men to answer
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because you're so lacking in self
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awareness that you can't figure out the
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answers for yourself?
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"Why can't I sleep as many people as I
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want to without being judged? When men do
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it, they're congratulated"
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Go ahead and sleep with as many
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people as you want. I don't give a shit,
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but once again I don't know anybody who
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would. The only time I would care is if I
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was dating you, because if you told me
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you've been with 20 other guys before
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I met you, I would naturally assume that
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there was something wrong with you
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if you've been in so many relationships
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and have them all fail. Not to mention the
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fact that your substantially more
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likely to be carrying an STD. And I think
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it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to
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view men who have slept with a lot of
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other women the same way. Also who's
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congratulating men for sleeping around?
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I don't see any guys walking around with
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trophies for fucking everyone they've
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met. It's not like having sex with easy
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women is some kind of achievement.
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Furthermore, I would say that most media
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portrays men who do that as assholes
0:08:32.426,0:08:34.093
who should be looked at with content.
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I mean -name not recognized- isn't
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exactly portrayed as a model citizen.
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By the way studies have found that the
0:08:39.626,0:08:41.544
majority of people who slut shame women,
0:08:41.544,0:08:43.561
are other women. Maybe you should be
0:08:43.561,0:08:44.910
directing this question at them and not
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men.
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"Why do you consider a woman a tease,
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if she does sleep with you after three
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dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you
0:08:51.444,0:08:52.709
on the first date?"
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Why do you consider a man a douchebag if
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he doesn't call you back three days after
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he meets you, but desperate if he calls
0:08:57.276,0:08:58.228
you the next day?
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"In what world does no mean yes?"
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"No means no."
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I don't know anybody who thinks no
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means yes. Also this question seems to be
0:09:04.394,0:09:06.228
in the spirit of the feminist notion that
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all men are potential rapists. Which
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simply isn't true. I already talked about
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this at length in my other video, "'Teach
0:09:11.759,0:09:13.560
men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric".
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Moving on.
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"Why do you say that women are too
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emotional to be leaders"
0:09:17.710,0:09:19.627
whispering: maybe if feminist argued
0:09:19.627,0:09:22.311
with logics instead of feelings, people
0:09:22.311,0:09:23.911
wouldn't think that.
0:09:23.911,0:09:25.961
"Then justify cat calling by saying
0:09:25.961,0:09:28.078
'men just can't control themselves'"
0:09:28.078,0:09:30.744
I've never heard a man say either, I have
0:09:30.744,0:09:32.226
hear women say both though.
0:09:32.226,0:09:34.078
"Why do you think that just because
0:09:34.078,0:09:35.961
you're nice to me, I owe you my body?"
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Why do you think that just because I'm
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nice to you that I want your body.
0:09:38.794,0:09:42.244
"Sometimes I've been walking down the
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street, hysterically crying because my cat
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was missing, and a man came up and
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was like 'Hey what's up, why are you
0:09:46.561,0:09:47.844
crying? Can I talk to you?'
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"But I want to continue this, so when
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the guy up to you and asked you
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how you were doing, did you judge his
0:09:51.711,0:09:52.995
intentions, or do you feel like-"
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"I was like what the hell is wrong with
0:09:54.660,0:09:56.111
you I'm hysterically crying, holding
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flyers that say missing cat."
0:09:57.627,0:09:59.061
"Wait what if he was checking how you were
0:09:59.061,0:10:00.326
doing because you were crying?"
0:10:00.326,0:10:01.861
"No he was- It was a catcall, it was like
0:10:01.861,0:10:04.311
a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-"
0:10:04.311,0:10:05.744
"What if he was trying to be sweet to get
0:10:05.744,0:10:07.394
into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are
0:10:07.394,0:10:08.576
you crying?'"
0:10:08.576,0:10:10.477
"He's not entitled to my time, honestly"
0:10:10.477,0:10:13.093
"If he had not said anything to you, then
0:10:13.093,0:10:14.961
he's a dick because he's a guy in society
0:10:14.961,0:10:16.794
who saw a girl crying and didn't do
0:10:16.794,0:10:18.444
anything."
0:10:18.444,0:10:19.610
"But it's a different- If he's saying that
0:10:19.610,0:10:20.694
to get my number, that's different that
0:10:20.694,0:10:22.145
him coming up and saying 'Whats
0:10:22.145,0:10:23.645
wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let
0:10:23.645,0:10:25.510
you know. Like that's a different thing"
0:10:25.510,0:10:27.043
"But how is he going to know about your
0:10:27.043,0:10:28.145
cat, he saw a girl crying on the street"
0:10:28.145,0:10:29.178
"Well, it was just- I was hanging up the
0:10:29.178,0:10:30.177
flyers."
0:10:30.177,0:10:31.693
"Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying
0:10:31.693,0:10:33.512
on the street, and she's hysterical and
0:10:33.512,0:10:35.127
she might've just lost her parents and
0:10:35.127,0:10:36.812
has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her
0:10:36.812,0:10:38.626
because she might think I'm objectify her"
0:10:38.626,0:10:40.178
"She doesn't know you. She doesn't know
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you."
0:10:40.927,0:10:41.728
"But we're humans, we should care about
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each other."
0:10:43.311,0:10:44.411
"Of course, of course, but I think you
0:10:44.411,0:10:45.329
have to understand what you come off
0:10:45.329,0:10:47.459
as to women. They don't know you. It's
0:10:47.459,0:10:48.978
like if a brown bear came up and said
0:10:48.978,0:10:51.010
hello to you. Like you just have to like-"
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"Why would you ever send an unsolicited
0:10:53.928,0:10:55.212
dick pic?"
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I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your
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phone number to the types of guys you meet
0:10:58.045,0:11:00.410
in night clubs, you know the type of guys
0:11:00.410,0:11:01.878
who go to such clubs for the specific
0:11:01.878,0:11:03.511
purpose of meeting women, and who read
0:11:03.511,0:11:05.028
books about how to be a pick up artist;
0:11:05.028,0:11:06.477
maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics
0:11:06.477,0:11:07.361
from them.
0:11:07.361,0:11:08.344
"Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass
0:11:08.344,0:11:09.911
women, or make offensive comments about
0:11:09.911,0:11:13.077
women, but when somebody does it to your
0:11:13.077,0:11:14.494
sister, it's not okay?"
0:11:14.494,0:11:15.995
Why do you feel like it's okay to make
0:11:15.995,0:11:17.578
these misandrist videos which paint all
0:11:17.578,0:11:19.445
men as sexual harassers or rapists, but
0:11:19.445,0:11:20.861
when somebody treats your son that way,
0:11:20.861,0:11:22.094
it's not okay?
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"How does it feel to interrupt me when
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I'm in the middle of making a point
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during a meetings?"
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You make it sound like the only people
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who have ever interrupted you are men.
0:11:28.527,0:11:30.195
I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you
0:11:30.195,0:11:31.278
ever stopped to think that maybe people
0:11:31.278,0:11:33.627
interrupt you because they realize you're
0:11:33.627,0:11:35.461
talking shit and wasting time after only
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two sentences.
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"Why do you have to sit with your legs
0:11:37.795,0:11:38.777
so wide open?"
0:11:38.777,0:11:40.994
"I get that you have balls, but I don't
0:11:40.994,0:11:43.227
stand around with my arms wide open
0:11:43.227,0:11:44.661
to make room for my boobs."
0:11:44.661,0:11:46.295
Maybe that's because your boobs don't get
0:11:46.295,0:11:47.812
squished between your arms when you stand
0:11:47.812,0:11:49.162
normally with your arms down by your
0:11:49.162,0:11:51.361
sides. A man's balls are literally between
0:11:51.361,0:11:52.577
his legs, and they do get squished if he
0:11:52.577,0:11:54.162
puts his legs together. It's not exactly
0:11:54.162,0:11:56.877
an apt comparison. Furthermore, why
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do you even care? I don't see you
0:11:58.427,0:11:59.927
complaining about women taking up
0:11:59.927,0:12:01.462
two seats with their bags.
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"Why are women perceived as the weaker
0:12:02.561,0:12:03.110
sex? Even though we literally birth you,
0:12:03.110,0:12:08.729
like watermelons through like 'this'"
0:12:08.729,0:12:10.178
Because physical strength has nothing to
0:12:10.178,0:12:11.578
do with your ability to give birth. Women
0:12:11.578,0:12:13.361
are, generally speaking, not as physically
0:12:13.361,0:12:16.045
strong as men. The average man has about
0:12:16.045,0:12:18.227
50% greater upper body strength than the
0:12:18.227,0:12:20.194
average woman. I'm sorry but that's just
0:12:20.194,0:12:22.343
simple biology. There's also the fact
0:12:22.343,0:12:24.227
that men are by in large the one's who go
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to war and fight and die to protect you.
0:12:26.078,0:12:27.578
Men are the ones who work the dangerous
0:12:27.578,0:12:29.327
jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in
0:12:29.327,0:12:30.611
the industrialized world possible.
0:12:30.611,0:12:32.478
And historically men are also the ones
0:12:32.478,0:12:33.512
who have gone out into the unforgiving
0:12:33.512,0:12:35.027
wilderness to kill dangerous animals so
0:12:35.027,0:12:36.694
ungrateful entitled women like you could
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eat. You as a woman are substantially less
0:12:38.928,0:12:40.827
likely to die during your daily activities
0:12:40.827,0:12:42.377
and you don't have to worry about being
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called a deadbeat for not risking life in
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a factory or field for the benefit of
0:12:45.711,0:12:47.162
others. Nor do you have to worry about
0:12:47.162,0:12:48.511
being told you don't have a real job
0:12:48.511,0:12:50.261
because you work with computers or push
0:12:50.261,0:12:51.861
pencils in a safe, clean environment.
0:12:51.861,0:12:53.861
Women work soft cushy jobs compared to
0:12:53.861,0:12:55.911
men and that's why women make only 7% of
0:12:55.911,0:12:58.495
workplace fatalities despite making up 47%
0:12:58.495,0:13:00.395
of the work force. That is why you're
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perceived as the weaker sex. If you
0:13:02.228,0:13:03.411
don't want people to see you that way,
0:13:03.411,0:13:04.745
then get out of your comfortable air
0:13:04.745,0:13:06.211
conditioned studio and go work on a
0:13:06.211,0:13:08.144
craving boat on a coal mine. You're
0:13:08.144,0:13:09.527
always complaining about employment
0:13:09.527,0:13:11.028
discrimination, so go ahead, take the
0:13:11.028,0:13:12.859
dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just
0:13:12.859,0:13:14.628
how strong and tough you are. And look
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I don't begrudge women for working jobs
0:13:16.544,0:13:18.045
that don't put them in danger and I will
0:13:18.045,0:13:19.594
freely admit that my job isn't
0:13:19.594,0:13:21.195
particularly dangerous; but if you're
0:13:21.195,0:13:22.678
going to sit there and act like women
0:13:22.678,0:13:24.561
are stronger than men just because you can
0:13:24.561,0:13:26.160
give birth, something which you have a
0:13:26.160,0:13:28.328
0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you
0:13:28.328,0:13:30.162
live in the United States, and that's up
0:13:30.162,0:13:31.896
from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right
0:13:31.896,0:13:34.295
off. By the way passing a kidney stone
0:13:34.295,0:13:36.145
hurts more than giving birth. Any woman
0:13:36.145,0:13:37.978
who has experienced both will tell you
0:13:37.978,0:13:39.294
that, and men get them more often so
0:13:39.294,0:13:40.261
blow me.
0:13:40.261,0:13:42.079
"Why is it so bad to show your emotions?"
0:13:42.079,0:13:43.477
"It means you're human."
0:13:43.477,0:13:45.029
Maybe it's because feminists like you
0:13:45.029,0:13:46.812
tell us we're misogynists for even
0:13:46.812,0:13:48.128
daring to complain about our problems.
0:13:48.128,0:13:51.310
Since you're not a man and you don't have
0:13:51.310,0:13:52.261
even the slightest inclining of what it's
0:13:52.261,0:13:53.827
like to be a man, let me spell it out for
0:13:53.827,0:13:55.643
you. Boys are socially conditioned from
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the day we learn to talk to not express
0:13:57.112,0:13:59.828
our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly
0:13:59.828,0:14:01.512
be told to man up and that boys don't cry.
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We don't have the privilege of showing
0:14:03.910,0:14:06.111
our emotions because if we do, it's a sign
0:14:06.111,0:14:08.294
of weakness. To put it simply, us men are
0:14:08.294,0:14:09.843
programmed to believe that our own
0:14:09.843,0:14:11.745
feelings are invalid, and so we hide them
0:14:11.745,0:14:13.562
and we lie about them. We are raised to
0:14:13.562,0:14:15.427
expect that if we tell you our feelings,
0:14:15.427,0:14:17.045
you will shoot them down. You will tell
0:14:17.045,0:14:18.879
us we're wrong for feeling the way we do,
0:14:18.879,0:14:21.312
and even if you don't, we still don't want
0:14:21.312,0:14:22.811
to tell you our feelings because
0:14:22.811,0:14:23.762
we know you'll use them against us.
0:14:23.762,0:14:25.378
You're probably thinking that you don't do
0:14:25.378,0:14:27.061
that but you do, you do it all the time
0:14:27.061,0:14:29.145
and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if
0:14:29.145,0:14:30.495
you have ever had an argument
0:14:30.495,0:14:31.628
with one of them men in your life and
0:14:31.628,0:14:33.112
you told them "If you were a real man..."
0:14:33.112,0:14:35.412
If you ever have then you have done
0:14:35.412,0:14:37.479
exactly what I'm talking about. See no
0:14:37.479,0:14:39.178
woman has ever been told "If you're
0:14:39.178,0:14:40.945
a real woman you wouldn't feel this way"
0:14:40.945,0:14:42.861
Women have their feelings cultivated and
0:14:42.861,0:14:44.895
coddled. You're not only allowed to cry.
0:14:44.895,0:14:46.743
you are expected to, and when you do,
0:14:46.743,0:14:48.345
people around you give you sympathy and
0:14:48.345,0:14:49.978
you are comforted. You are so used to
0:14:49.978,0:14:51.444
getting sympathy that you feel entitled
0:14:51.444,0:14:53.811
to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man
0:14:53.811,0:14:55.928
fully expects to be looked down upon,
0:14:55.928,0:14:57.427
and told that his feelings don't matter if
0:14:57.427,0:14:59.011
he shows any sign of emotional weakness.
0:14:59.011,0:15:01.244
Even by the people he trusts most, because
0:15:01.244,0:15:03.178
that is what he has experienced for
0:15:03.178,0:15:05.328
his entire life, and you wonder why the
0:15:05.328,0:15:06.977
suicide rate for men is four times higher
0:15:06.977,0:15:08.778
than it is for women. I know what you're
0:15:08.778,0:15:10.061
going to say, you're going to say that
0:15:10.061,0:15:11.461
the social conditioning of men to not
0:15:11.461,0:15:12.861
show their emotions is part of the
0:15:12.861,0:15:15.095
patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to
0:15:15.095,0:15:17.245
change that. Good, what heroes you are,
0:15:17.245,0:15:19.179
let me give you a little golf clap while
0:15:19.179,0:15:20.328
you take a sip from your fucking
0:15:20.328,0:15:21.528
'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the
0:15:21.528,0:15:23.127
comfort of your safe space, where
0:15:23.127,0:15:24.562
men aren't allowed.
0:15:24.562,0:15:28.178
"Why are you always trying to prove your
0:15:28.178,0:15:29.112
masculinity?"
0:15:29.112,0:15:31.028
See my answer to the previous question.
0:15:31.028,0:15:34.078
Also wow, how egocentric are you.
0:15:34.078,0:15:36.061
You are so certain that the world
0:15:36.061,0:15:37.711
revolves around you that you believe that
0:15:37.711,0:15:39.429
when a man is acting like a man, that he
0:15:39.429,0:15:41.045
must be trying to prove something to you.
0:15:41.045,0:15:42.912
Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a
0:15:42.912,0:15:44.345
man just because he's, you know, a
0:15:44.345,0:15:46.694
fucking man. Why are you constantly trying
0:15:46.694,0:15:48.760
to prove your femininity to me? How
0:15:48.760,0:15:49.360
bout that?
0:15:49.360,0:15:51.110
"Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss?
0:15:51.110,0:15:53.029
When did words get gendered?"
0:15:53.029,0:15:54.710
It's also not considered gentlemen like
0:15:54.710,0:15:56.528
to curse. Swearing is generally
0:15:56.528,0:15:57.978
considered rude regardless of the gender
0:15:57.978,0:15:59.796
of the person who is doing it. Personally
0:15:59.796,0:16:01.062
I don't give a shit if you use
0:16:01.062,0:16:02.345
profanity. Go right the fuck ahead.
0:16:02.345,0:16:04.361
And when did words get genered?
0:16:04.361,0:16:05.611
I guess right around the time the
0:16:05.611,0:16:07.328
word feminist was invented, which is
0:16:07.328,0:16:09.079
at self a gendered word. I'm mean the
0:16:09.079,0:16:10.811
invention of feminism is when everything
0:16:10.811,0:16:12.594
suddenly became gendered. Like when assert
0:16:12.594,0:16:14.110
that interrupting people is somehow a
0:16:14.110,0:16:16.177
uniquely male behavior, or that only
0:16:16.177,0:16:17.760
women get told not to swear.
0:16:17.760,0:16:19.845
"Why is it your first instinct to doubt
0:16:19.845,0:16:21.660
women who have been sexually violated or
0:16:21.660,0:16:22.611
raped?"
0:16:22.611,0:16:24.527
Maybe a false rape accusation weren't
0:16:24.527,0:16:26.428
systemically encouraged by feminism,
0:16:26.428,0:16:28.311
we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how
0:16:28.311,0:16:30.228
this question is phrased, to doubt women
0:16:30.228,0:16:32.528
who have been sexually violated or raped.
0:16:32.528,0:16:34.544
The more salient question would be,
0:16:34.544,0:16:36.129
'Why do you doubt women who claim to have
0:16:36.129,0:16:37.945
been sexually violated or raped. And the
0:16:37.945,0:16:39.795
answer is because we have this thing
0:16:39.795,0:16:41.845
called the presumption of innocence.
0:16:41.845,0:16:43.729
That means a person who is accused of a
0:16:43.729,0:16:45.595
crime is innocent until proven guilty.
0:16:45.595,0:16:47.761
So it's not my first instinct to doubt,
0:16:47.761,0:16:50.344
it's my moral imperative to doubt until
0:16:50.344,0:16:53.078
evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put
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somebody in jail just because somebody
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accused them of murder nor would you put
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them in jail just because somebody accused
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them of theft, nor would you put them in
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jail because somebody accused them of any
0:17:00.695,0:17:02.145
other crime. Why should accusations of
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rape be held to a different standard? This
0:17:04.828,0:17:06.245
really isn't a difficult concept to
0:17:06.245,0:17:07.845
understand, and it both baffles me and
0:17:07.845,0:17:09.529
disturbs me how often I see feminists
0:17:09.529,0:17:11.845
failing to grasp this. For people who
0:17:11.845,0:17:13.194
claim to fight for social justice, you
0:17:13.194,0:17:14.628
really don't understand how justice works,
0:17:14.628,0:17:17.245
do you? See a man who its accused of rape,
0:17:17.245,0:17:19.644
will have his life ruined. That's not even
0:17:19.644,0:17:21.579
only if he is convicted, the mere
0:17:21.579,0:17:23.561
accusation is enough to cost him his job,
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his relationships, his education and
0:17:25.328,0:17:26.795
career prospects, his home, his
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reputation, and so on. If a woman wants
0:17:29.463,0:17:31.211
to ruin a man's life all she has to do is
0:17:31.211,0:17:32.979
accuse him of raping her and he will be
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put through the ringer by law enforcement
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and the media; and even if he is found not
0:17:35.896,0:17:37.428
guilty, the damage will have already been
0:17:37.428,0:17:39.062
done and the woman who made the false
0:17:39.062,0:17:40.678
accusation will get away scot free.
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Really it astonishes me that even after
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what happened at Duke and the University
0:17:44.646,0:17:46.177
of Virginia, that you're still asking
0:17:46.177,0:17:47.646
this question. Furthermore, feminists
0:17:47.646,0:17:49.045
have abused the word rape to point where
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its lost all meaning. Everything is rape.
0:17:51.245,0:17:53.462
Its gotten to the point where if a woman
0:17:53.462,0:17:54.911
claims she was raped I have to wonder
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if she means a guy actually forcibly put
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his penis in her, or if she had
0:17:57.945,0:17:59.429
consensual sex and just decided to call it
0:17:59.429,0:18:01.162
rape when she decided she regretted it the
0:18:01.162,0:18:02.595
next morning, or if she's merely
0:18:02.595,0:18:04.578
complaining that a guy looked at her in
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a way that made her feel uncomfortable.
0:18:06.012,0:18:07.312
I mean what even is rape at this point?
0:18:07.312,0:18:09.995
According to some feminists, it's rape if
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a man changed positions during sex without
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forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend
0:18:13.912,0:18:15.911
breaks up with you because you cheated on
0:18:15.911,0:18:17.928
him. It's rape if you overhear somebody
0:18:17.928,0:18:19.362
calling somebody else a slut.
0:18:19.362,0:18:23.844
"I got raped, when my mother called
0:18:23.844,0:18:25.979
someone else's daughter a slut."
0:18:25.979,0:18:28.129
Really it's your own damn fault that
0:18:28.129,0:18:29.795
people are becoming increasingly reluctant
0:18:29.795,0:18:31.713
to believe rape accusations, because you
0:18:31.713,0:18:33.062
have expanded the definition so broadly,
0:18:33.062,0:18:34.612
that nobody even knows when you're really
0:18:34.612,0:18:36.680
talking about rape anymore. You did this,
0:18:36.680,0:18:38.878
you asked for it, and now you have buyers
0:18:38.878,0:18:40.895
remorse. Now let me pose a question to
0:18:40.895,0:18:42.578
you, why is it your first instinct to
0:18:42.578,0:18:44.512
doubt when a man says he was sexually
0:18:44.512,0:18:45.913
violated or raped by a woman.
0:18:45.913,0:18:47.411
"Why do you assume a woman is angry
0:18:47.411,0:18:48.761
because she's on her period?"
0:18:48.761,0:18:50.413
Because women get angry when they're on
0:18:50.413,0:18:52.295
their period. It's a scientific fact that
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the hormonal changes a woman experiences
0:18:54.079,0:18:55.596
during her period cause her to become
0:18:55.596,0:18:57.563
irritable. This is called premenstrual
0:18:57.563,0:18:59.980
syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't
0:18:59.980,0:19:02.012
always assume a woman is angry because
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she is on her period. If your boyfriend
0:19:03.596,0:19:04.562
thinks that, then maybe it's because
0:19:04.562,0:19:05.962
you're not being straight forward with him
0:19:05.962,0:19:07.195
and expecting him to be a mind reader.
0:19:07.195,0:19:09.063
Maybe you should try telling him why
0:19:09.063,0:19:10.928
you're angry. Ever thought about that?
0:19:10.928,0:19:12.729
Ever thought about simply telling him that
0:19:12.729,0:19:13.929
you're mad that he ate the last
0:19:13.929,0:19:15.594
Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit
0:19:15.594,0:19:17.345
you're getting your panties in twist over.
0:19:17.345,0:19:18.862
[mocking voice] "Awe he should just be
0:19:18.862,0:19:19.696
able to figure it out"
0:19:19.696,0:19:20.863
Yeah like you should be able to figure out
0:19:20.863,0:19:22.096
the answers to these stupid questions
0:19:22.096,0:19:23.412
you're asking.
0:19:23.412,0:19:24.695
"Why do you think women that wear makeup
0:19:24.695,0:19:27.079
are false advertising, we can say the same
0:19:27.079,0:19:28.413
thing about your dick size."
0:19:28.413,0:19:30.078
You actually answered the question
0:19:30.078,0:19:30.677
yourself. We consider it false
0:19:30.677,0:19:32.095
advertising for the same reason that you
0:19:32.095,0:19:33.678
think a man who stuffs the crotch of his
0:19:33.678,0:19:35.946
pants is false advertising. If you cover
0:19:35.946,0:19:37.262
up all your pimples and scars with makeup
0:19:37.262,0:19:38.813
you can't really be surprised when he's
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taken aback upon discover that you
0:19:40.562,0:19:41.978
don't really look the way you did when you
0:19:41.978,0:19:44.096
first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like
0:19:44.096,0:19:45.579
you were lied to if you met a guy who
0:19:45.579,0:19:47.029
looked well dressed and drove a nice car,
0:19:47.029,0:19:48.612
but then you found out that he got his
0:19:48.612,0:19:50.413
clothes at goodwill, and he rented that
0:19:50.413,0:19:51.962
car with his burger king salary.
0:19:51.962,0:19:53.862
"Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch
0:19:53.862,0:19:55.512
of old white men sitting in a room,
0:19:55.512,0:19:58.162
making legislation about what I can and
0:19:58.162,0:19:59.628
can't do with my body?"
0:19:59.628,0:20:01.295
Wasn't it a room full of old white men
0:20:01.295,0:20:02.879
that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling.
0:20:02.879,0:20:05.196
You know, women have had the right to
0:20:05.196,0:20:07.112
vote for almost a hundred years now, and
0:20:07.112,0:20:08.545
polling data has found that women are more
0:20:08.545,0:20:10.412
likely to vote than men; and yet these
0:20:10.412,0:20:12.512
old white men keep getting elected.
0:20:12.512,0:20:14.362
And I see a lot of you people supporting
0:20:14.362,0:20:16.079
Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty
0:20:16.079,0:20:18.312
fuckin old and white to me. Go figure.
0:20:18.312,0:20:19.996
Furthermore, why does it even matter that
0:20:19.996,0:20:21.462
they're white? Why does their melanin
0:20:21.462,0:20:22.995
level matter more than the merit of their
0:20:22.995,0:20:25.579
ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr.
0:20:25.579,0:20:27.529
who once said "I have a dream that my
0:20:27.529,0:20:29.330
four little children will one day live in
0:20:29.330,0:20:30.845
a nation where they will not be judge by
0:20:30.845,0:20:32.111
the color of their skin, but by the
0:20:32.111,0:20:33.861
content of their character." For as much
0:20:33.861,0:20:35.629
as you people like to accuse other of
0:20:35.629,0:20:37.079
being racist, you sure do judge people
0:20:37.079,0:20:39.045
based on their race a lot. Oh but it's
0:20:39.045,0:20:40.880
not racism when you do it because of
0:20:40.880,0:20:42.112
power structures or some other mental
0:20:42.112,0:20:43.778
gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether
0:20:43.778,0:20:45.496
or not the prejudice somebody is being
0:20:45.496,0:20:47.096
subjected to is institutionalized makes
0:20:47.096,0:20:49.096
any difference to them when it happens.
0:20:49.096,0:20:50.945
Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of
0:20:50.945,0:20:52.979
who is doing it to whom. Calling it
0:20:52.979,0:20:54.462
something other than racism doesn't
0:20:54.462,0:20:56.163
change the fact that it's fucking racism;
0:20:56.163,0:20:57.646
And the only people who think otherwise
0:20:57.646,0:20:59.278
are racist like you. This mentality that
0:20:59.278,0:21:01.295
only certain people can be racist hinges
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on the categorization of people based on
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their ethnicity, and the ascribing of
0:21:04.978,0:21:06.495
attributes to them such as privilege,
0:21:06.495,0:21:08.795
based on those racial categories. You
0:21:08.795,0:21:10.429
have to make judgements based on race to
0:21:10.429,0:21:11.896
make this argument work, you have to make
0:21:11.896,0:21:13.778
assumptions and generalization about their
0:21:13.778,0:21:15.296
race and origin to make those judgments.
0:21:15.296,0:21:16.963
So you have to be racist to use this
0:21:16.963,0:21:18.979
argument, how do you not see the problem
0:21:18.979,0:21:20.329
with this, how do you not see the problem
0:21:20.329,0:21:21.529
with putting people's race before the
0:21:21.529,0:21:23.162
merits of their argument and categorizing
0:21:23.162,0:21:25.095
people into a hierarchy of consideration
0:21:25.095,0:21:26.812
based on their race. How the fuck do you
0:21:26.812,0:21:28.662
expect to fight racism with racism, and
0:21:28.662,0:21:30.146
then expect people to take you seriously.
0:21:30.146,0:21:31.978
Maybe this is the reason why you think
0:21:31.978,0:21:33.296
that if somebody thinks that you're
0:21:33.296,0:21:34.546
stupid it must be because you're a woman.
0:21:34.546,0:21:36.329
You're projecting, you judge other people
0:21:36.329,0:21:37.813
based on their race and gender so you
0:21:37.813,0:21:39.378
assume other people are doing it to you.
0:21:39.378,0:21:41.146
Well I've got news for you, I don't think
0:21:41.146,0:21:42.879
you're stupid because you're a woman, I
0:21:42.879,0:21:44.745
think you're stupid because you're stupid.
0:21:44.745,0:21:47.229
Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not
0:21:47.229,0:21:48.811
like they don't also tell me what I can't
0:21:48.811,0:21:50.981
do with my body. For example, I can't take
0:21:50.981,0:21:52.829
the palm of my hand and slap some sense
0:21:52.829,0:21:54.462
into you, without being considered
0:21:54.462,0:21:55.245
assault.
0:21:55.245,0:21:56.212
"Do you have a coochie?"
0:21:56.212,0:21:56.946
No.
0:21:56.946,0:21:57.613
"Why are straight guys so obsessed with
0:21:57.613,0:21:58.278
lesbians?"
0:21:58.278,0:21:59.346
Why are straight women so obsessed with
0:21:59.346,0:22:01.345
gay guys? Or better yet, why are women
0:22:01.345,0:22:03.362
so obsessed with lesbians? According to
0:22:03.362,0:22:05.878
Porn hub search data for 2014, the number
0:22:05.878,0:22:07.345
one thing women search for was lesbian
0:22:07.345,0:22:09.312
porn. Proportionately women look up
0:22:09.312,0:22:10.763
lesbian porn more than men do.
0:22:10.763,0:22:12.779
"How does it feel to get kicked in the
0:22:12.779,0:22:13.430
balls?"
0:22:13.430,0:22:14.512
How do you think it feels, you dumb
0:22:14.512,0:22:15.329
bitch?
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"Do you ever get tired of being manly all
0:22:16.879,0:22:17.630
the time?"
0:22:17.630,0:22:19.246
Do you? You're the one that's dressed like
0:22:19.246,0:22:21.579
a lumberjack. To answer the question, no,
0:22:21.579,0:22:23.797
not really. It comes naturally to me
0:22:23.797,0:22:26.562
since I'm, you know, a man. The fact
0:22:26.562,0:22:28.062
that you're asking this question implies
0:22:28.062,0:22:29.312
that you sometimes get tired of being
0:22:29.312,0:22:30.862
feminine, so do you ever get tired of
0:22:30.862,0:22:32.562
being feminine all the time? Is that why
0:22:32.562,0:22:33.846
you're dressed like a lumberjack?
0:22:33.846,0:22:35.362
Would you like to be a man?
0:22:35.362,0:22:37.361
Well you have to pass a test first. Have
0:22:37.361,0:22:39.063
you mastered the art of manspreading?
0:22:39.063,0:22:40.829
Have you completed your forty hours of
0:22:40.829,0:22:42.362
rape training?
0:22:42.362,0:22:43.845
"Why are you so afraid of gender
0:22:43.845,0:22:44.412
equality?"
0:22:44.412,0:22:46.713
I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is
0:22:46.713,0:22:48.829
gender inequality. Which is what feminist
0:22:48.829,0:22:50.563
are actually pushing for. You want
0:22:50.563,0:22:53.462
examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and
0:22:53.462,0:22:55.263
co-founder of feminist initiative,
0:22:55.263,0:22:57.246
Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media
0:22:57.246,0:22:59.129
called a man tax, which would have raised
0:22:59.129,0:23:00.762
taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the
0:23:00.762,0:23:02.280
idea that all men should be held
0:23:02.280,0:23:04.280
accountable for all man on women violence.
0:23:04.280,0:23:06.113
It should be noted that Schyman was
0:23:06.113,0:23:08.563
convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a
0:23:08.563,0:23:10.180
year before making this proposal.
0:23:10.180,0:23:12.697
In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal
0:23:12.697,0:23:14.279
have unanimously opposed changes to rape
0:23:14.279,0:23:16.496
laws that would make it possible for
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women to be convicted of rape. They
0:23:18.362,0:23:20.796
succeeded and now women in Israel commit
0:23:20.796,0:23:22.879
sex act on non-consenting adults or
0:23:22.879,0:23:24.346
children who are not old enough to
0:23:24.346,0:23:25.712
legally give informed consent, are not
0:23:25.712,0:23:27.179
actually being charged with rape, and are
0:23:27.179,0:23:29.130
instead charged with lesser crimes. In
0:23:29.130,0:23:31.179
2013 Indian feminists successfully
0:23:31.179,0:23:33.012
pressured the government to rewrite rape
0:23:33.012,0:23:34.680
laws in such a way that only men could be
0:23:34.680,0:23:37.046
charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica
0:23:37.046,0:23:38.730
Valenti published an article in the
0:23:38.730,0:23:40.462
Guardian advocating paying men less than
0:23:40.462,0:23:43.013
women. In 2015, York University planned to
0:23:43.013,0:23:45.012
hold an international men's day meant to
0:23:45.012,0:23:46.829
highlight issues affecting men and boys,
0:23:46.829,0:23:48.696
such as the high suicide rate, shorter
0:23:48.696,0:23:50.412
life expectancies, and struggles faced in
0:23:50.412,0:23:52.696
getting and education. It was canceled
0:23:52.696,0:23:54.513
after feminists student, staff, and alumni
0:23:54.513,0:23:56.462
protested and held a petition to ban it,
0:23:56.462,0:23:58.478
which received almost 200 signatures.
0:23:58.478,0:23:59.896
To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter
0:23:59.896,0:24:01.562
wrote a condescending article on
0:24:01.562,0:24:04.162
Independent.co.uk enlightening readers
0:24:04.162,0:24:05.778
why we don't need an international men's
0:24:05.778,0:24:07.880
day. You can claim the definition of
0:24:07.880,0:24:09.747
feminism is advocating gender equality
0:24:09.747,0:24:11.512
all you want, but actions speak louder than
0:24:11.512,0:24:13.747
words. And it's really hard to believe the
0:24:13.747,0:24:15.579
feminist movement is really a movement
0:24:15.579,0:24:17.129
for equality, when you dismiss anyone who
0:24:17.129,0:24:18.696
brings up men's issues as misogynists.
0:24:18.696,0:24:20.862
You say all men are rapists, you try to
0:24:20.862,0:24:23.045
ban men from certain place son college
0:24:23.045,0:24:24.647
campuses, you actively fight against
0:24:24.647,0:24:26.046
father's rights, undermine the
0:24:26.046,0:24:27.563
presumption of innocence when it comes
0:24:27.563,0:24:28.480
to rape accusations, and you deny
0:24:28.480,0:24:30.379
statistics about male victims of domestic
0:24:30.379,0:24:32.130
abuse. As well as protest and disrupt
0:24:32.130,0:24:33.928
conferences about male suicide.
0:24:33.928,0:24:36.447
"This is what mens' rights looks like"
0:24:36.447,0:24:38.696
"This is what mens' rights looks like"
0:24:38.696,0:24:41.763
"This is what mens' rights looks like"
0:24:41.763,0:24:43.712
All that said, why are you so afraid of
0:24:43.712,0:24:44.829
gender equality?
0:24:44.829,0:24:45.579
"Why do I deserve to be paid less than
0:24:45.579,0:24:47.430
you?"
0:24:47.430,0:24:49.330
"In what world does 77 cents equal a
0:24:49.330,0:24:50.013
dollar?"
0:24:50.013,0:24:51.413
"In what world does 68 cents equal a
0:24:51.413,0:24:51.997
dollar?"
0:24:51.997,0:24:52.913
"How is that fair?"
0:24:52.913,0:24:54.813
After I finished writing my answers to
0:24:54.813,0:24:55.845
all these questions, I actually counted
0:24:55.845,0:24:56.896
them and realized there are only 33
0:24:56.896,0:24:58.695
questions, instead of 36. I just
0:24:58.695,0:25:00.262
naturally assumed these four questions
0:25:00.262,0:25:02.029
are actually one and answer them as such,
0:25:02.029,0:25:03.579
but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this
0:25:03.579,0:25:05.112
compound question as a bunch of seperate
0:25:05.112,0:25:07.179
questions, in order to bolster their count
0:25:07.179,0:25:09.013
for their deceptive, click baiting title.
0:25:09.013,0:25:10.230
Like it wasn't bad enough that they're
0:25:10.230,0:25:12.897
already not even questions. Anyway, this
0:25:12.897,0:25:15.029
has been pointed out countless times by
0:25:15.029,0:25:16.946
countless other people, but the wage gap
0:25:16.946,0:25:18.711
is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit
0:25:18.711,0:25:20.180
I don't mean that it doesn't exist.
0:25:20.180,0:25:21.931
I mean it's bullshit because of the way
0:25:21.931,0:25:24.063
it's presented. The observed wage gap it
0:25:24.063,0:25:25.613
based on comparing the average income of
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men to the average income of women without
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considering any variables. Sometimes when
0:25:29.230,0:25:30.912
the wage gap is brought up they add women
0:25:30.912,0:25:32.179
get paid less for the same jobs, but
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that's horseshit. Asking women why they
0:25:34.496,0:25:36.130
get paid less than men is like asking why
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men are more likely to die in the
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workplace than women. It's because men
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and women tend to work different jobs;
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and just like some jobs are more dangerous
0:25:43.630,0:25:45.229
than others, some jobs pay more than
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others. And since men tend to work
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higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM
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fields, men tend to make more money.
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And even when you are comparing men and
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women working the same jobs, there are
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things which factor into why men get paid
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more. Such as the fact that men are more
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likely to work overtime, or more likely
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to ask for raises or promotions, or less
0:26:01.996,0:26:04.163
likely to take time off, or more
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competitive, or more likely to take risks,
0:26:06.312,0:26:08.112
prioritize earnings more than women,
0:26:08.112,0:26:09.779
retire at a later age, and all these other
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things which studies have found. With all
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this taken into consideration, it's no
0:26:14.363,0:26:16.614
wonder that men get paid more, men work
0:26:16.614,0:26:19.147
more. And really I hate to point out this
0:26:19.147,0:26:20.830
obvious bit of common sense, but if
0:26:20.830,0:26:22.213
companies could actually get away with
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paying women less, don't you think they
0:26:23.696,0:26:25.029
would just hire nothing but women to save
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money. Do you honestly think that
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corporations are such boys clubs that
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giving advantages to men is more important
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to them than their profits and shareholder
0:26:32.096,0:26:34.863
interests. Don't be stupid. And no the
0:26:34.863,0:26:36.529
fact that there are so few women in STEM
0:26:36.529,0:26:37.829
fields has nothing to do with
0:26:37.829,0:26:39.647
discrimination. In fact, surveys have
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found that there is a 2 to 1 preference
0:26:41.196,0:26:42.746
for female applicants in STEM fields
0:26:42.746,0:26:45.096
over equally qualified men. So the reason
0:26:45.096,0:26:46.462
that there are so few women in STEM
0:26:46.462,0:26:48.446
fields is because few women are interested
0:26:48.446,0:26:50.913
in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you
0:26:50.913,0:26:52.497
want more women in STEM fields, then maybe
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you shouldn't have wasted your parents
0:26:53.996,0:26:55.563
money on a degree in gender studies.
0:26:55.563,0:26:57.547
And if you wish to continue pushing this
0:26:57.547,0:26:59.180
baseless contention that the patriarchy
0:26:59.180,0:27:00.879
is keeping women out of STEM fields, then
0:27:00.879,0:27:02.662
explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping
0:27:02.662,0:27:04.413
women from dominating certain fields
0:27:04.413,0:27:06.113
such as veterinary, medicine, psychology,
0:27:06.113,0:27:08.547
pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore,
0:27:08.547,0:27:10.597
which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68
0:27:10.597,0:27:13.113
cents. I've also heard other feminists
0:27:13.113,0:27:15.113
claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't
0:27:15.113,0:27:16.514
keep your story straight kind of says
0:27:16.514,0:27:18.114
something about it. And I'm really
0:27:18.114,0:27:19.496
struggling to understand why you thought
0:27:19.496,0:27:21.046
including this discrepancy in your video
0:27:21.046,0:27:22.697
was a good idea. Maybe you should have
0:27:22.697,0:27:25.280
let a man proofread it. (whispering) that
0:27:25.280,0:27:26.614
was a joke. I know I have to explain it
0:27:26.614,0:27:28.296
because feminists don't understand jokes,
0:27:28.296,0:27:30.379
but it was a joke, alright.
0:27:30.379,0:27:32.163
"Why are you intimidated by a woman who
0:27:32.163,0:27:33.696
makes more money than you? That's
0:27:33.696,0:27:35.379
awesome! More money"
0:27:35.379,0:27:37.047
I'm not, but since we're making
0:27:37.047,0:27:39.330
assumptions, why are you intimidated
0:27:39.330,0:27:41.697
by my deep, booming, commanding, yet
0:27:41.697,0:27:43.213
sultry baritone voice.
0:27:43.213,0:27:45.381
"Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?"
0:27:45.381,0:27:47.897
"When opiniated men are seen as bosses."
0:27:47.897,0:27:50.446
Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless
0:27:50.446,0:27:51.879
they actually are somebody's boss.
0:27:51.879,0:27:53.797
Otherwise they are just called assholes.
0:27:53.797,0:27:55.796
Unless of course their opinions disagree
0:27:55.796,0:27:57.480
with you. In which case they are kicked
0:27:57.480,0:27:59.213
off of campus, banned from speaking at
0:27:59.213,0:28:01.162
events, and told to stop mansplaining.
0:28:01.162,0:28:03.213
Maybe that's why opiniated women like you
0:28:03.213,0:28:04.464
are seen as bitches.
0:28:04.464,0:28:06.430
"Why aren't you speaking up when you hear
0:28:06.430,0:28:09.097
your male friends behind closed doors,
0:28:09.097,0:28:10.895
make jokes that are offensive to
0:28:10.895,0:28:11.613
women?"
0:28:11.613,0:28:12.963
Because they're jokes, and they aren't
0:28:12.963,0:28:14.546
meant to be taken seriously.
0:28:14.546,0:28:16.497
"These people who are fucking offended by
0:28:16.497,0:28:18.547
rape jokes don't even understand humor."
0:28:18.547,0:28:20.380
If that's not a good enough answer, then
0:28:20.380,0:28:22.429
let me ask you this, do you speak up when
0:28:22.429,0:28:24.146
your female friends make jokes that are
0:28:24.146,0:28:26.980
offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because
0:28:26.980,0:28:30.181
it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I
0:28:30.181,0:28:31.329
thought you said you were probably funnier
0:28:31.329,0:28:33.280
than me? You think of yourself as a funny
0:28:33.280,0:28:34.596
woman but you don't want people making
0:28:34.596,0:28:35.763
jokes that don't cater to your own
0:28:35.763,0:28:37.597
personal taste. Stop trying to please
0:28:37.597,0:28:39.114
other people's speech, you empty
0:28:39.114,0:28:40.380
headed bimbo. (Horn blaring)
0:28:40.380,0:28:42.447
"Why are you so afraid of recognizing
0:28:42.447,0:28:44.263
your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a
0:28:44.263,0:28:46.228
bad person, just recognizing it and do
0:28:46.228,0:28:47.780
something about it."
0:28:47.780,0:28:49.014
I just love how you boldly assert that I
0:28:49.014,0:28:50.314
have privilege without backing up that
0:28:50.314,0:28:52.079
assertion at all. And then pursue to talk
0:28:52.079,0:28:53.596
down to me in this condescending tone,
0:28:53.596,0:28:55.496
like it's just so obvious it's such an
0:28:55.496,0:28:57.397
unassailable argument. (mocking voice)
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It doesn't mean you're a bad person.
0:28:59.197,0:29:00.614
But I guess being the same gender as
0:29:00.614,0:29:02.513
Donald Trump does. To answer your
0:29:02.513,0:29:03.979
question, it's because I don't have
0:29:03.979,0:29:06.196
privilege, I really don't, but you do.
0:29:06.196,0:29:09.279
I defy you name one, just one, legal
0:29:09.279,0:29:12.030
privilege that I have, which you don't
0:29:12.030,0:29:13.663
also have. Because I can think of several
0:29:13.663,0:29:15.530
you have which I don't have. Let me list
0:29:15.530,0:29:18.430
ten. Women are almost always granted
0:29:18.430,0:29:19.913
custody of children in a divorce by
0:29:19.913,0:29:21.479
default unless the man can prove she is
0:29:21.479,0:29:22.963
unfit to care for them. See
0:29:22.963,0:29:24.379
misrepresentation of gender bias
0:29:24.379,0:29:26.030
committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court
0:29:26.030,0:29:28.763
by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite
0:29:28.763,0:29:30.430
the fact that children are twice as
0:29:30.430,0:29:31.864
likely to be abused by their mother than
0:29:31.864,0:29:33.330
they are by their father. According to
0:29:33.330,0:29:34.964
page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013
0:29:34.964,0:29:37.297
published by the US Department of Health
0:29:37.297,0:29:38.947
and Human Services. Women have more
0:29:38.947,0:29:40.663
social safety nets designed for them,
0:29:40.663,0:29:42.363
which is why they only make up 24% of
0:29:42.363,0:29:44.263
the homeless population. This is in spite
0:29:44.263,0:29:46.363
of the fact that 42% of homeless men are
0:29:46.363,0:29:48.412
employed, versus only 27% of homeless
0:29:48.412,0:29:50.164
women. This is according to page 2 of
0:29:50.164,0:29:51.847
"Who's Homeless" published by the National
0:29:51.847,0:29:54.263
Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and
0:29:54.263,0:29:56.079
page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless
0:29:56.079,0:29:57.663
Majority" published by Healing Hands
0:29:57.663,0:30:00.496
in June 2001. Women get more lenient
0:30:00.496,0:30:02.230
sentences for equivalent crimes. See
0:30:02.230,0:30:03.896
"Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal
0:30:03.896,0:30:05.813
Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012.
0:30:05.813,0:30:08.397
A woman could get a male coworker fired
0:30:08.397,0:30:10.063
from his job simply by accusing him of
0:30:10.063,0:30:11.962
sexual harassment even without proving it.
0:30:11.962,0:30:13.813
It's so easy for a woman to get a man
0:30:13.813,0:30:15.779
fired at a malice, and it happens so
0:30:15.779,0:30:17.497
often that men are now starting to avoid
0:30:17.497,0:30:19.214
women all together in the workplace.
0:30:19.214,0:30:20.863
Refusing to mentor or help them.
0:30:20.863,0:30:22.913
Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book,
0:30:22.913,0:30:25.796
"Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a
0:30:25.796,0:30:27.663
woman can declare a man to be the father
0:30:27.663,0:30:29.280
of her child and sue him for child
0:30:29.280,0:30:31.180
support and it's up to the man to prove
0:30:31.180,0:30:33.264
he isn't the father by taking a DNA test.
0:30:33.264,0:30:35.830
And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he
0:30:35.830,0:30:37.514
doesn't do it in that time, then a court
0:30:37.514,0:30:39.031
can declare him responsible for the child
0:30:39.031,0:30:40.512
even if he proves he isn't the father
0:30:40.512,0:30:43.463
later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for
0:30:43.463,0:30:45.646
child support. A woman who gets
0:30:45.646,0:30:47.564
pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the
0:30:47.564,0:30:49.379
man she stole it from for child support.
0:30:49.379,0:30:51.231
And before you argue that a man should
0:30:51.231,0:30:52.713
keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to
0:30:52.713,0:30:54.397
be a father, imagine if you heard a
0:30:54.397,0:30:55.946
conservative Christian arguing against
0:30:55.946,0:30:57.297
abortion by saying 'women should keep
0:30:57.297,0:30:58.580
their legs together if they don't want to
0:30:58.580,0:31:00.364
be mothers' I think you would lose your
0:31:00.364,0:31:02.897
shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping
0:31:02.897,0:31:04.880
a man or an underage boy can sue him for
0:31:04.880,0:31:06.880
child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer.
0:31:06.880,0:31:08.930
A woman could get an abortion in
0:31:08.930,0:31:10.563
complete disregard for the wishes of the
0:31:10.563,0:31:12.180
father, she doesn't even have to tell
0:31:12.180,0:31:14.263
she's seeking an abortion. A woman can
0:31:14.263,0:31:15.914
also sue the father for child support if
0:31:15.914,0:31:17.430
he wants nothing to do with the child.
0:31:17.430,0:31:19.246
So basically a woman can opt out of
0:31:19.246,0:31:20.630
parenthood but a man cannot.
0:31:20.630,0:31:22.696
Domestic violence against women is
0:31:22.696,0:31:25.030
actually taken seriously. Men are always
0:31:25.030,0:31:26.680
presumed to be the aggressors in
0:31:26.680,0:31:27.797
domestic violence cases. Despite the fact
0:31:27.797,0:31:30.047
that CDC statistics have found that more
0:31:30.047,0:31:32.280
than 70% of non reciprocated domestic
0:31:32.280,0:31:33.980
violence is perpetuated by women.
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Even when a man is recognized as a being
0:31:35.912,0:31:37.346
a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost
0:31:37.346,0:31:38.464
always presumed to be at fault.
0:31:38.464,0:31:39.913
People ask 'What did he do to piss her
0:31:39.913,0:31:40.614
off?'
0:31:40.614,0:31:43.263
So let me pose a question to you, Why are
0:31:43.263,0:31:44.863
you so afraid of recognizing your
0:31:44.863,0:31:46.946
privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad
0:31:46.946,0:31:49.063
person. Just recognize it and do something
0:31:49.063,0:31:52.047
about it. Or don't, I already know you
0:31:52.047,0:31:56.941
won't.