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(screaming)
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(jazzy intro)
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Donald Trump?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Sarah Palin?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as Michelle Bachman?
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How does it feel to be the
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same sex as anybody
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you disagree with?
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Why does it even matter
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whether or not you're the
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same gender as somebody else?
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I mean, I'm also the same
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gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein,
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and the guy who introduced
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chocolate to the Western world.
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So what are you even getting
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at with this question?
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Are you trying to say Donald Trump
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is bad, and Donald Trump
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is a man, therefore men are bad?
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Why do you hate rom-coms?
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Or do you just feel like you
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need to hate them?
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Everybody likes The Notebook,
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everybody likes Beyoncé.
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It's just a fact.
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Men hate romantic comedies
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for the same reason you
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hate video games with
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over-sexualized female characters.
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The men in these movies are
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always willing to sacrifice
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their careers, their dreams,
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even their lives to win
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the lead females' affection.
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Now I don't have any empirical
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data to back this up, but
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it seems to me that
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romantic comedies and
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romance movies in general
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cause women to have unrealistic
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expectations of men and what
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love should be like, and these
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become the expectations
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that men have to live up to,
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and it's unfair.
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Feminists like to bitch
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about poor representation of women
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in media intended for men
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because they promote body issues
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and shit like that
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And I agree, to at least, an extent
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But it's not any better for men
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When we're expected to be Prince Charming,
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ready and willing to sacrifice themselves
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physically, mentally, and emotionally
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And we're called selfish for daring to
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have our own desires
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or even misogynistic for daring to draw
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attention to our own problems.
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These movies appeal to the female fantasy
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of having a night in shining armor
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swear their entire existence to pleasing
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them, and thus reinforce these notions
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within their target audience of women
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like you that you somehow deserve
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to have your boyfriends and husbands
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give up everything that makes them
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who they are and basically dehumanize
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themselves for your pleasure and
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devote 100% of their time and energy
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to you. The fact that some of you
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watching this are scoffing at what I
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just said only proves my point.
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You have fooled yourself into thinking
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that I'm somehow the one whose being
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selfish when I object to the notion
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that men should be expected to cave
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into all of your demands, for the sake of
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your perverted idealistic conception
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of love. And I have no doubts that
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some of you will accuse me of being
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bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying
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that, but I'm not and I will
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pre-emptively characterize such an
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argument as out cropping of the
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very mentality that I'm talking about.
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You expect all of your demands to be
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catered to, and any man who is unwilling
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or unable to cater to them must have
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something wrong with them. Us men are
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human beings with our own interests and
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goals, and it's selfish for you to expect
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us to give all that up for you.
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But these movies condition you to expect
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exactly that. And that is why we hate
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romantic comedies. We don't see anything
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romantic about them. What we see is the
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reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable
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expectations about what we should be doing
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with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce.
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"Why do you make women sit around and talk
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about men in movies when y'all easily just
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sit around and talk about boobs for hours?
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One, I don't know, maybe you should be
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asking that to people who rent romantic
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comedies you like so much, because
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those are the movies which have women
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sitting around talking about men. Or,
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better yet, instead of complaining about
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how writers depict women in their movies,
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maybe you should try being the change you
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want to see and write your own damn movie.
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Then you could make the female characters
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sit around and talk about whatever you
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want. Like how men are oppressing them, or
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how men are objectifying them or how men
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are such pigs, or how men spread their
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legs too far apart on the subway, or how
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men hate romantic comedies. There's
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nothing stopping you.
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Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test,
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which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies
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pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd
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hesitate to call any of those movies
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"pro-feminist."
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Three, I don't know a single guy who ever
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talks about boobs for hours at a time.
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I think the only guys who do are medical
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students learning how to conduct
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mammograms. You want to know what most of
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the men I know talk about? Movies, video
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games, politics, religion, music, sports,
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cars, boats, technology, work, guns,
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hunting, places they've been to, people
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they've met, and so on. The subject of
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boobs actually rarely ever comes up.
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Contrary to what you may have been told in
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your Women's Studies class, men don't
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think about sex constantly. If we did, we
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would never have invented the camera
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equipment you used to make this video.
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Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for
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hours at a time, it's feminists. You're
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the ones who are always whining about
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the designs of fictional characters,
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complaining that fat girls' tits are too
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big. And in all honesty, the only time I
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ever even think about a comic book
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character's tits is when I hear a feminist
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bring it up. So I think maybe you're
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projecting.
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"Why do you automatically assume that you
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won't like the TV or movies that star a
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female lead?"
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I don't. In fact, some of my favorite
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movies and TV shows have female leads.
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I don't know a single man who has ever
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scoffed at the notion of watching a movie
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or TV show just because it has a female
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protagonist. However, I have seen
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feminists scoff at anything with a male
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lead.
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"Why are you surprised when women are
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funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!"
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I'm not surprised when women are funny.
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There are plenty of funny women out there.
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[names not recognized], et cetera.
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But I will say that, in general, women are
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not as funny as men, and I think most
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women won't agree with that statement.
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I also think there's a reason for this.
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See if you understand what humor is
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and how it works, which I'm guessing
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you don't because you're feminists,
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then you know that the things that make
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laugh often have their roots in very dark
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subject matter.
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To quote the amazing atheist,
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"These people who are fucking offended
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by rape jokes don't even understand
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humor. They don't understand- They
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think of humor as like a happy thing,
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because humor makes us laugh and laughter
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makes us happy, but a lot of the time
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they don't seem to notice that what we're
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actually laughing at is quite dark and
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morbid. Like if you actually look at it
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and examine the jokes, and look at the
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exaggeration and try to figure out the
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mechanics of how the joke works,
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why does it work; you're gonna find that
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a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain
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and suffering. Because laughter is this
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great transcendent tool we have, where
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we can take something that- that's bitter
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and difficult to comprehend or deal with,
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and make it something funny.
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Like if I take a joke like "How many
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police officers does it take change a
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light bulb?"
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"None, they just beat the room for being
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black." you know that joke has it's
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genesis in some very serious, very dark
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shit. And that joke is not making light
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of the fact that people have suffered,
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or it's not making light of the fact that
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people, you know, marched in the Civil
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Rights Movement, or- or that people are
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racial discriminated against, or police
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brutality. It's not making light of any
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of that. What it's doing is it's taking
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that pain and it's taking that dark
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subject matter, and it's helping us
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transcend it for a moment. And view
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the absurdity of our circumstance.
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Because that is what humor is supposed to
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do. Humor at it's best takes the elements
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of the world that are dark and horrible,
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and shows you there absurdity. It shows
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you the absurdity of the human condition.
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and that is important."
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See men are socially conditioned to not
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talk openly and honestly about their
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feelings, which I'll talk more about
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later, and that's why we cultivate a sense
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of humor. The only way we can really talk
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about the things that upset us is if
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we do it through the filter of comedy.
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But women have the clears throat
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"privilege" to not be subject to social
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conditioning, and so they don't feel the
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need to cultivate a sense of humor.
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And that's why women, in general, aren't
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as funny and men. That isn't to say that
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all men are funny, or that all women are
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unfunny. It's just that in general men are
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funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's
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how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly
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doubt that you're funnier than me.
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And it's not because you're a women.
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Just judging by how you look and talk,
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I'm willing to bet that your sense of
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humor boils down to saying something rude,
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and then following it with "Just kidding".
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I mean I'm not the funniest person in
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the world but if you think of yourself
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as the funny one, you probably lack the
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objectivity to realizing that everybody
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else in your circle of friends probably
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thinks of you as the "annoying one".
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Just kidding, actually I'm not.
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"Why do you think we're obsessed with you
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when we hook up?" "Nine times out of
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ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm
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busy, I got shit to do."
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Probably because you do shit like text
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us 50 times in the space of one hour, and
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slash our tires when we dump you after you
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accuse us of cheating because you saw our
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sister's name in our call history. Also
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what shit could you possibly have to do?
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Pluck your eyebrows to the point
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where they're so unnaturally clean around
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the edges that they look like they're
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drawn on? Spend your husband's money
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on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of
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Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write
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more questions for men to answer
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because you're so lacking in self
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awareness that you can't figure out the
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answers for yourself?
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"Why can't I sleep as many people as I
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want to without being judged? When men do
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it, they're congratulated"
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Go ahead and sleep with as many
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people as you want. I don't give a shit,
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but once again I don't know anybody who
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would. The only time I would care is if I
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was dating you, because if you told me
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you've been with 20 other guys before
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I met you, I would naturally assume that
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there was something wrong with you
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if you've been in so many relationships
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and have them all fail. Not to mention the
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fact that your substantially more
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likely to be carrying an STD. And I think
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it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to
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view men who have slept with a lot of
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other women the same way. Also who's
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congratulating men for sleeping around?
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I don't see any guys walking around with
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trophies for fucking everyone they've
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met. It's not like having sex with easy
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women is some kind of achievement.
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Furthermore, I would say that most media
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portrays men who do that as assholes
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who should be looked at with content.
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I mean -name not recognized- isn't
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exactly portrayed as a model citizen.
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By the way studies have found that the
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majority of people who slut shame women,
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are other women. Maybe you should be
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directing this question at them and not
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men.
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"Why do you consider a woman a tease,
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if she does sleep with you after three
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dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you
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on the first date?"
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Why do you consider a man a douchebag if
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he doesn't call you back three days after
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he meets you, but desperate if he calls
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you the next day?
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"In what world does no mean yes?"
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"No means no."
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I don't know anybody who thinks no
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means yes. Also this question seems to be
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in the spirit of the feminist notion that
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all men are potential rapists. Which
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simply isn't true. I already talked about
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this at length in my other video, "'Teach
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men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric".
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Moving on.
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"Why do you say that women are too
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emotional to be leaders"
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whispering: maybe if feminist argued
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with logics instead of feelings, people
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wouldn't think that.
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"Then justify cat calling by saying
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'men just can't control themselves'"
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I've never heard a man say either, I have
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hear women say both though.
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"Why do you think that just because
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you're nice to me, I owe you my body?"
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Why do you think that just because I'm
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nice to you that I want your body.
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"Sometimes I've been walking down the
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street, hysterically crying because my cat
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was missing, and a man came up and
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was like 'Hey what's up, why are you
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crying? Can I talk to you?'
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"But I want to continue this, so when
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the guy up to you and asked you
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how you were doing, did you judge his
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intentions, or do you feel like-"
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"I was like what the hell is wrong with
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you I'm hysterically crying, holding
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flyers that say missing cat."
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"Wait what if he was checking how you were
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doing because you were crying?"
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"No he was- It was a catcall, it was like
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a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-"
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"What if he was trying to be sweet to get
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into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are
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you crying?'"
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"He's not entitled to my time, honestly"
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"If he had not said anything to you, then
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he's a dick because he's a guy in society
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who saw a girl crying and didn't do
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anything."
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"But it's a different- If he's saying that
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to get my number, that's different that
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him coming up and saying 'Whats
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wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let
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you know. Like that's a different thing"
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"But how is he going to know about your
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cat, he saw a girl crying on the street"
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"Well, it was just- I was hanging up the
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flyers."
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"Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying
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on the street, and she's hysterical and
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she might've just lost her parents and
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has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her
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because she might think I'm objectify her"
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"She doesn't know you. She doesn't know
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you."
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"But we're humans, we should care about
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each other."
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"Of course, of course, but I think you
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have to understand what you come off
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as to women. They don't know you. It's
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like if a brown bear came up and said
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hello to you. Like you just have to like-"
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"Why would you ever send an unsolicited
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dick pic?"
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I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your
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phone number to the types of guys you meet
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in night clubs, you know the type of guys
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who go to such clubs for the specific
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purpose of meeting women, and who read
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books about how to be a pick up artist;
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maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics
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from them.
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"Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass
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women, or make offensive comments about
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women, but when somebody does it to your
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sister, it's not okay?"
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Why do you feel like it's okay to make
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these misandrist videos which paint all
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men as sexual harassers or rapists, but
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when somebody treats your son that way,
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it's not okay?
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"How does it feel to interrupt me when
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I'm in the middle of making a point
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during a meetings?"
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You make it sound like the only people
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who have ever interrupted you are men.
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I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you
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ever stopped to think that maybe people
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interrupt you because they realize you're
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talking shit and wasting time after only
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two sentences.
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"Why do you have to sit with your legs
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so wide open?"
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"I get that you have balls, but I don't
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stand around with my arms wide open
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to make room for my boobs."
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Maybe that's because your boobs don't get
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squished between your arms when you stand
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normally with your arms down by your
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sides. A man's balls are literally between
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his legs, and they do get squished if he
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puts his legs together. It's not exactly
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an apt comparison. Furthermore, why
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do you even care? I don't see you
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complaining about women taking up
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two seats with their bags.
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"Why are women perceived as the weaker
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sex? Even though we literally birth you,
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like watermelons through like 'this'"
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Because physical strength has nothing to
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do with your ability to give birth. Women
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are, generally speaking, not as physically
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strong as men. The average man has about
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50% greater upper body strength than the
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average woman. I'm sorry but that's just
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simple biology. There's also the fact
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that men are by in large the one's who go
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to war and fight and die to protect you.
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Men are the ones who work the dangerous
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jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in
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the industrialized world possible.
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And historically men are also the ones
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who have gone out into the unforgiving
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wilderness to kill dangerous animals so
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ungrateful entitled women like you could
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eat. You as a woman are substantially less
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likely to die during your daily activities
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and you don't have to worry about being
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called a deadbeat for not risking life in
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a factory or field for the benefit of
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others. Nor do you have to worry about
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being told you don't have a real job
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because you work with computers or push
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pencils in a safe, clean environment.
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Women work soft cushy jobs compared to
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men and that's why women make only 7% of
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workplace fatalities despite making up 47%
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of the work force. That is why you're
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perceived as the weaker sex. If you
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don't want people to see you that way,
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then get out of your comfortable air
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conditioned studio and go work on a
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craving boat on a coal mine. You're
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always complaining about employment
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discrimination, so go ahead, take the
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dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just
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how strong and tough you are. And look
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I don't begrudge women for working jobs
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that don't put them in danger and I will
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freely admit that my job isn't
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particularly dangerous; but if you're
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going to sit there and act like women
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are stronger than men just because you can
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give birth, something which you have a
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0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you
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live in the United States, and that's up
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from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right
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off. By the way passing a kidney stone
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hurts more than giving birth. Any woman
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who has experienced both will tell you
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that, and men get them more often so
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blow me.
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"Why is it so bad to show your emotions?"
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"It means you're human."
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Maybe it's because feminists like you
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tell us we're misogynists for even
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daring to complain about our problems.
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Since you're not a man and you don't have
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even the slightest inclining of what it's
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like to be a man, let me spell it out for
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you. Boys are socially conditioned from
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the day we learn to talk to not express
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our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly
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be told to man up and that boys don't cry.
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We don't have the privilege of showing
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our emotions because if we do, it's a sign
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of weakness. To put it simply, us men are
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programmed to believe that our own
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feelings are invalid, and so we hide them
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and we lie about them. We are raised to
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expect that if we tell you our feelings,
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you will shoot them down. You will tell
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us we're wrong for feeling the way we do,
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and even if you don't, we still don't want
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to tell you our feelings because
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we know you'll use them against us.
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You're probably thinking that you don't do
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that but you do, you do it all the time
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and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if
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you have ever had an argument
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with one of them men in your life and
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you told them "If you were a real man..."
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If you ever have then you have done
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exactly what I'm talking about. See no
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woman has ever been told "If you're
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a real woman you wouldn't feel this way"
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Women have their feelings cultivated and
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coddled. You're not only allowed to cry.
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you are expected to, and when you do,
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people around you give you sympathy and
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you are comforted. You are so used to
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getting sympathy that you feel entitled
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to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man
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fully expects to be looked down upon,
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and told that his feelings don't matter if
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he shows any sign of emotional weakness.
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Even by the people he trusts most, because
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that is what he has experienced for
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his entire life, and you wonder why the
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suicide rate for men is four times higher
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than it is for women. I know what you're
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going to say, you're going to say that
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the social conditioning of men to not
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show their emotions is part of the
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patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to
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change that. Good, what heroes you are,
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let me give you a little golf clap while
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you take a sip from your fucking
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'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the
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comfort of your safe space, where
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men aren't allowed.
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"Why are you always trying to prove your
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masculinity?"
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See my answer to the previous question.
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Also wow, how egocentric are you.
551
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You are so certain that the world
552
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revolves around you that you believe that
553
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when a man is acting like a man, that he
554
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must be trying to prove something to you.
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Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a
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man just because he's, you know, a
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fucking man. Why are you constantly trying
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to prove your femininity to me? How
559
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bout that?
560
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"Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss?
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When did words get gendered?"
562
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It's also not considered gentlemen like
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to curse. Swearing is generally
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considered rude regardless of the gender
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of the person who is doing it. Personally
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I don't give a shit if you use
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profanity. Go right the fuck ahead.
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And when did words get genered?
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I guess right around the time the
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word feminist was invented, which is
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at self a gendered word. I'm mean the
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invention of feminism is when everything
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suddenly became gendered. Like when assert
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that interrupting people is somehow a
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uniquely male behavior, or that only
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women get told not to swear.
577
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"Why is it your first instinct to doubt
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women who have been sexually violated or
579
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raped?"
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Maybe a false rape accusation weren't
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systemically encouraged by feminism,
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we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how
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this question is phrased, to doubt women
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who have been sexually violated or raped.
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The more salient question would be,
586
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'Why do you doubt women who claim to have
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been sexually violated or raped. And the
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answer is because we have this thing
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called the presumption of innocence.
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That means a person who is accused of a
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crime is innocent until proven guilty.
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So it's not my first instinct to doubt,
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it's my moral imperative to doubt until
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evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put
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somebody in jail just because somebody
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accused them of murder nor would you put
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them in jail just because somebody accused
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them of theft, nor would you put them in
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jail because somebody accused them of any
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other crime. Why should accusations of
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rape be held to a different standard? This
602
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really isn't a difficult concept to
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understand, and it both baffles me and
604
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disturbs me how often I see feminists
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failing to grasp this. For people who
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claim to fight for social justice, you
607
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really don't understand how justice works,
608
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do you? See a man who its accused of rape,
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will have his life ruined. That's not even
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only if he is convicted, the mere
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accusation is enough to cost him his job,
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his relationships, his education and
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career prospects, his home, his
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reputation, and so on. If a woman wants
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to ruin a man's life all she has to do is
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accuse him of raping her and he will be
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put through the ringer by law enforcement
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and the media; and even if he is found not
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guilty, the damage will have already been
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done and the woman who made the false
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accusation will get away scot free.
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Really it astonishes me that even after
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what happened at Duke and the University
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of Virginia, that you're still asking
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this question. Furthermore, feminists
626
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have abused the word rape to point where
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its lost all meaning. Everything is rape.
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Its gotten to the point where if a woman
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claims she was raped I have to wonder
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if she means a guy actually forcibly put
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his penis in her, or if she had
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consensual sex and just decided to call it
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rape when she decided she regretted it the
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next morning, or if she's merely
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complaining that a guy looked at her in
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a way that made her feel uncomfortable.
637
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I mean what even is rape at this point?
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According to some feminists, it's rape if
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a man changed positions during sex without
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forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend
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breaks up with you because you cheated on
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him. It's rape if you overhear somebody
643
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calling somebody else a slut.
644
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"I got raped, when my mother called
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someone else's daughter a slut."
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Really it's your own damn fault that
647
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people are becoming increasingly reluctant
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to believe rape accusations, because you
649
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have expanded the definition so broadly,
650
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that nobody even knows when you're really
651
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
talking about rape anymore. You did this,
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you asked for it, and now you have buyers
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remorse. Now let me pose a question to
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you, why is it your first instinct to
655
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doubt when a man says he was sexually
656
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violated or raped by a woman.
657
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"Why do you assume a woman is angry
658
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because she's on her period?"
659
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Because women get angry when they're on
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their period. It's a scientific fact that
661
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the hormonal changes a woman experiences
662
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during her period cause her to become
663
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irritable. This is called premenstrual
664
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syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't
665
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always assume a woman is angry because
666
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she is on her period. If your boyfriend
667
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thinks that, then maybe it's because
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you're not being straight forward with him
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and expecting him to be a mind reader.
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Maybe you should try telling him why
671
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you're angry. Ever thought about that?
672
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Ever thought about simply telling him that
673
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you're mad that he ate the last
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Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit
675
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you're getting your panties in twist over.
676
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[mocking voice] "Awe he should just be
677
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able to figure it out"
678
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
Yeah like you should be able to figure out
679
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the answers to these stupid questions
680
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you're asking.
681
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"Why do you think women that wear makeup
682
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are false advertising, we can say the same
683
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thing about your dick size."
684
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You actually answered the question
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yourself. We consider it false
686
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advertising for the same reason that you
687
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think a man who stuffs the crotch of his
688
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
pants is false advertising. If you cover
689
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
up all your pimples and scars with makeup
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you can't really be surprised when he's
691
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taken aback upon discover that you
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don't really look the way you did when you
693
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first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like
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you were lied to if you met a guy who
695
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looked well dressed and drove a nice car,
696
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but then you found out that he got his
697
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clothes at goodwill, and he rented that
698
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car with his burger king salary.
699
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"Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch
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of old white men sitting in a room,
701
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making legislation about what I can and
702
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can't do with my body?"
703
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Wasn't it a room full of old white men
704
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that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling.
705
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You know, women have had the right to
706
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vote for almost a hundred years now, and
707
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polling data has found that women are more
708
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likely to vote than men; and yet these
709
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old white men keep getting elected.
710
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And I see a lot of you people supporting
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Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty
712
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fuckin old and white to me. Go figure.
713
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Furthermore, why does it even matter that
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they're white? Why does their melanin
715
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level matter more than the merit of their
716
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ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr.
717
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who once said "I have a dream that my
718
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four little children will one day live in
719
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a nation where they will not be judge by
720
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the color of their skin, but by the
721
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content of their character." For as much
722
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as you people like to accuse other of
723
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being racist, you sure do judge people
724
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based on their race a lot. Oh but it's
725
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not racism when you do it because of
726
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power structures or some other mental
727
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether
728
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or not the prejudice somebody is being
729
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subjected to is institutionalized makes
730
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any difference to them when it happens.
731
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Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of
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who is doing it to whom. Calling it
733
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something other than racism doesn't
734
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change the fact that it's fucking racism;
735
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And the only people who think otherwise
736
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are racist like you. This mentality that
737
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only certain people can be racist hinges
738
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on the categorization of people based on
739
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their ethnicity, and the ascribing of
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attributes to them such as privilege,
741
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based on those racial categories. You
742
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have to make judgements based on race to
743
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make this argument work, you have to make
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assumptions and generalization about their
745
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race and origin to make those judgments.
746
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So you have to be racist to use this
747
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
argument, how do you not see the problem
748
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with this, how do you not see the problem
749
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with putting people's race before the
750
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
merits of their argument and categorizing
751
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
people into a hierarchy of consideration
752
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based on their race. How the fuck do you
753
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expect to fight racism with racism, and
754
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then expect people to take you seriously.
755
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Maybe this is the reason why you think
756
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that if somebody thinks that you're
757
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stupid it must be because you're a woman.
758
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You're projecting, you judge other people
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based on their race and gender so you
760
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assume other people are doing it to you.
761
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Well I've got news for you, I don't think
762
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you're stupid because you're a woman, I
763
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think you're stupid because you're stupid.
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Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not
765
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like they don't also tell me what I can't
766
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do with my body. For example, I can't take
767
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the palm of my hand and slap some sense
768
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into you, without being considered
769
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assault.
770
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"Do you have a coochie?"
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No.
772
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"Why are straight guys so obsessed with
773
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lesbians?"
774
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Why are straight women so obsessed with
775
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gay guys? Or better yet, why are women
776
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
so obsessed with lesbians? According to
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Porn hub search data for 2014, the number
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one thing women search for was lesbian
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porn. Proportionately women look up
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lesbian porn more than men do.
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"How does it feel to get kicked in the
782
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balls?"
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How do you think it feels, you dumb
784
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bitch?
785
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"Do you ever get tired of being manly all
786
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the time?"
787
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Do you? You're the one that's dressed like
788
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a lumberjack. To answer the question, no,
789
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not really. It comes naturally to me
790
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since I'm, you know, a man. The fact
791
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that you're asking this question implies
792
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that you sometimes get tired of being
793
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
feminine, so do you ever get tired of
794
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being feminine all the time? Is that why
795
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you're dressed like a lumberjack?
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Would you like to be a man?
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Well you have to pass a test first. Have
798
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you mastered the art of manspreading?
799
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Have you completed your forty hours of
800
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rape training?
801
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
"Why are you so afraid of gender
802
99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
equality?"
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I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is
804
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gender inequality. Which is what feminist
805
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are actually pushing for. You want
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examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and
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co-founder of feminist initiative,
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Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media
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called a man tax, which would have raised
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taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the
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idea that all men should be held
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accountable for all man on women violence.
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It should be noted that Schyman was
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convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a
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year before making this proposal.
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In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal
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have unanimously opposed changes to rape
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laws that would make it possible for
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women to be convicted of rape. They
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succeeded and now women in Israel commit
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sex act on non-consenting adults or
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children who are not old enough to
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legally give informed consent, are not
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actually being charged with rape, and are
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instead charged with lesser crimes. In
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2013 Indian feminists successfully
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pressured the government to rewrite rape
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laws in such a way that only men could be
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charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica
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Valenti published an article in the
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Guardian advocating paying men less than
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women. In 2015, York University planned to
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hold an international men's day meant to
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highlight issues affecting men and boys,
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such as the high suicide rate, shorter
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life expectancies, and struggles faced in
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getting and education. It was canceled
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after feminists student, staff, and alumni
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protested and held a petition to ban it,
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which received almost 200 signatures.
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To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter
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wrote a condescending article on
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Independent.co.uk enlightening readers
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why we don't need an international men's
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day. You can claim the definition of
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feminism is advocating gender equality
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all you want, but actions speak louder than
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words. And it's really hard to believe the
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feminist movement is really a movement
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for equality, when you dismiss anyone who
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brings up men's issues as misogynists.
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You say all men are rapists, you try to
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ban men from certain place son college
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campuses, you actively fight against
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father's rights, undermine the
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presumption of innocence when it comes
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to rape accusations, and you deny
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statistics about male victims of domestic
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abuse. As well as protest and disrupt
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conferences about male suicide.
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"This is what mens' rights looks like"
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"This is what mens' rights looks like"
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"This is what mens' rights looks like"
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All that said, why are you so afraid of
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gender equality?
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"Why do I deserve to be paid less than
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you?"
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"In what world does 77 cents equal a
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dollar?"
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"In what world does 68 cents equal a
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dollar?"
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"How is that fair?"
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After I finished writing my answers to
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all these questions, I actually counted
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them and realized there are only 33
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questions, instead of 36. I just
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naturally assumed these four questions
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are actually one and answer them as such,
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but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this
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compound question as a bunch of seperate
881
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questions, in order to bolster their count
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for their deceptive, click baiting title.
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Like it wasn't bad enough that they're
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already not even questions. Anyway, this
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has been pointed out countless times by
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countless other people, but the wage gap
887
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is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit
888
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I don't mean that it doesn't exist.
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I mean it's bullshit because of the way
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it's presented. The observed wage gap it
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based on comparing the average income of
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men to the average income of women without
893
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considering any variables. Sometimes when
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the wage gap is brought up they add women
895
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get paid less for the same jobs, but
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that's horseshit. Asking women why they
897
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get paid less than men is like asking why
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men are more likely to die in the
899
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workplace than women. It's because men
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and women tend to work different jobs;
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and just like some jobs are more dangerous
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than others, some jobs pay more than
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others. And since men tend to work
904
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higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM
905
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fields, men tend to make more money.
906
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And even when you are comparing men and
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women working the same jobs, there are
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things which factor into why men get paid
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more. Such as the fact that men are more
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likely to work overtime, or more likely
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to ask for raises or promotions, or less
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likely to take time off, or more
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competitive, or more likely to take risks,
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prioritize earnings more than women,
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retire at a later age, and all these other
916
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things which studies have found. With all
917
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this taken into consideration, it's no
918
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wonder that men get paid more, men work
919
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more. And really I hate to point out this
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obvious bit of common sense, but if
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companies could actually get away with
922
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paying women less, don't you think they
923
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would just hire nothing but women to save
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money. Do you honestly think that
925
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corporations are such boys clubs that
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giving advantages to men is more important
927
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to them than their profits and shareholder
928
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interests. Don't be stupid. And no the
929
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fact that there are so few women in STEM
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fields has nothing to do with
931
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discrimination. In fact, surveys have
932
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found that there is a 2 to 1 preference
933
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for female applicants in STEM fields
934
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over equally qualified men. So the reason
935
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that there are so few women in STEM
936
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fields is because few women are interested
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in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you
938
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want more women in STEM fields, then maybe
939
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you shouldn't have wasted your parents
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money on a degree in gender studies.
941
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And if you wish to continue pushing this
942
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baseless contention that the patriarchy
943
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is keeping women out of STEM fields, then
944
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explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping
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women from dominating certain fields
946
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such as veterinary, medicine, psychology,
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pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore,
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which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68
949
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cents. I've also heard other feminists
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claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't
951
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keep your story straight kind of says
952
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something about it. And I'm really
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struggling to understand why you thought
954
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including this discrepancy in your video
955
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was a good idea. Maybe you should have
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let a man proofread it. (whispering) that
957
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was a joke. I know I have to explain it
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because feminists don't understand jokes,
959
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but it was a joke, alright.
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"Why are you intimidated by a woman who
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makes more money than you? That's
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awesome! More money"
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I'm not, but since we're making
964
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assumptions, why are you intimidated
965
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by my deep, booming, commanding, yet
966
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sultry baritone voice.
967
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"Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?"
968
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"When opiniated men are seen as bosses."
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Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless
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they actually are somebody's boss.
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Otherwise they are just called assholes.
972
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Unless of course their opinions disagree
973
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with you. In which case they are kicked
974
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off of campus, banned from speaking at
975
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events, and told to stop mansplaining.
976
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Maybe that's why opiniated women like you
977
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are seen as bitches.
978
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"Why aren't you speaking up when you hear
979
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your male friends behind closed doors,
980
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make jokes that are offensive to
981
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women?"
982
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Because they're jokes, and they aren't
983
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meant to be taken seriously.
984
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"These people who are fucking offended by
985
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rape jokes don't even understand humor."
986
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If that's not a good enough answer, then
987
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let me ask you this, do you speak up when
988
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your female friends make jokes that are
989
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offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because
990
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it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I
991
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thought you said you were probably funnier
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than me? You think of yourself as a funny
993
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woman but you don't want people making
994
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jokes that don't cater to your own
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personal taste. Stop trying to please
996
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other people's speech, you empty
997
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headed bimbo. (Horn blaring)
998
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"Why are you so afraid of recognizing
999
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your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a
1000
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bad person, just recognizing it and do
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something about it."
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I just love how you boldly assert that I
1003
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have privilege without backing up that
1004
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assertion at all. And then pursue to talk
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down to me in this condescending tone,
1006
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like it's just so obvious it's such an
1007
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unassailable argument. (mocking voice)
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It doesn't mean you're a bad person.
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But I guess being the same gender as
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Donald Trump does. To answer your
1011
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question, it's because I don't have
1012
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privilege, I really don't, but you do.
1013
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I defy you name one, just one, legal
1014
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privilege that I have, which you don't
1015
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also have. Because I can think of several
1016
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you have which I don't have. Let me list
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ten. Women are almost always granted
1018
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custody of children in a divorce by
1019
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default unless the man can prove she is
1020
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unfit to care for them. See
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misrepresentation of gender bias
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committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court
1023
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by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite
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the fact that children are twice as
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likely to be abused by their mother than
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they are by their father. According to
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page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013
1028
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published by the US Department of Health
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and Human Services. Women have more
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social safety nets designed for them,
1031
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which is why they only make up 24% of
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the homeless population. This is in spite
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of the fact that 42% of homeless men are
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employed, versus only 27% of homeless
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women. This is according to page 2 of
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"Who's Homeless" published by the National
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Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and
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page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless
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Majority" published by Healing Hands
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in June 2001. Women get more lenient
1041
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sentences for equivalent crimes. See
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"Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal
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Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012.
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A woman could get a male coworker fired
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from his job simply by accusing him of
1046
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sexual harassment even without proving it.
1047
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It's so easy for a woman to get a man
1048
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fired at a malice, and it happens so
1049
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often that men are now starting to avoid
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women all together in the workplace.
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Refusing to mentor or help them.
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Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book,
1053
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"Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a
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woman can declare a man to be the father
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of her child and sue him for child
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support and it's up to the man to prove
1057
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he isn't the father by taking a DNA test.
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And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he
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doesn't do it in that time, then a court
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can declare him responsible for the child
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even if he proves he isn't the father
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later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for
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child support. A woman who gets
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pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the
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man she stole it from for child support.
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And before you argue that a man should
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keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to
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be a father, imagine if you heard a
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conservative Christian arguing against
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abortion by saying 'women should keep
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their legs together if they don't want to
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be mothers' I think you would lose your
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shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping
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a man or an underage boy can sue him for
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child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer.
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A woman could get an abortion in
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complete disregard for the wishes of the
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father, she doesn't even have to tell
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she's seeking an abortion. A woman can
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also sue the father for child support if
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he wants nothing to do with the child.
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So basically a woman can opt out of
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parenthood but a man cannot.
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Domestic violence against women is
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actually taken seriously. Men are always
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presumed to be the aggressors in
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domestic violence cases. Despite the fact
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that CDC statistics have found that more
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than 70% of non reciprocated domestic
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violence is perpetuated by women.
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Even when a man is recognized as a being
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a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost
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always presumed to be at fault.
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People ask 'What did he do to piss her
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off?'
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So let me pose a question to you, Why are
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you so afraid of recognizing your
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privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad
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person. Just recognize it and do something
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about it. Or don't, I already know you
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won't.