1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,306 (beep) 2 00:00:01,357 --> 00:00:03,217 (screaming) 3 00:00:03,245 --> 00:00:18,175 (jazzy intro) 4 00:00:18,390 --> 00:00:19,680 How does it feel to be 5 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Donald Trump? 6 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be 7 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Sarah Palin? 8 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be 9 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the same sex as Michelle Bachman? 10 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How does it feel to be the 11 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 same sex as anybody you disagree with? 12 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why does it even matter 13 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 whether or not you're the 14 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 same gender as somebody else? 15 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean, I'm also the same 16 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein, 17 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and the guy who introduced 18 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 chocolate to the Western world. 19 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So what are you even getting 20 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 at with this question? 21 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Are you trying to say Donald Trump 22 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is bad, and Donald Trump 23 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is a man, therefore men are bad? 24 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you hate rom-coms? 25 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Or do you just feel like you 26 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 need to hate them? 27 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Everybody likes The Notebook, 28 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 everybody likes Beyoncé. 29 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It's just a fact. 30 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men hate romantic comedies 31 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for the same reason you 32 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hate video games with 33 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 over-sexualized female characters. 34 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The men in these movies are 35 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always willing to sacrifice 36 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their careers, their dreams, 37 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even their lives to win 38 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the lead females' affection. 39 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Now I don't have any empirical 40 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 data to back this up, but 41 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it seems to me that 42 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic comedies and 43 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romance movies in general 44 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cause women to have unrealistic 45 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expectations of men and what 46 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 love should be like, and these 47 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 become the expectations 48 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men have to live up to, 49 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and it's unfair. 50 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Feminists like to bitch 51 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about poor representation of women 52 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in media intended for men 53 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because they promote body image issues 54 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and shit like that 55 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I agree, to at least, an extent 56 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But it's not any better for men 57 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 When we're expected to be Prince Charming, 58 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ready and willing to sacrifice themselves 59 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 physically, mentally, and emotionally 60 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we're called selfish for daring to 61 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have our own desires 62 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or even misogynistic for daring to draw 63 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 attention to our own problems. 64 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 These movies appeal to the female fantasy 65 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of having a night in shining armor 66 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 swear their entire existence to pleasing 67 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them, and thus reinforce these notions 68 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 within their target audience of women 69 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like you that you somehow deserve 70 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and should expect 71 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to have your boyfriends and husbands 72 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 give up everything that makes them 73 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who they are and basically dehumanize 74 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 themselves for your pleasure and 75 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 devote 100% of their time and energy 76 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to you. The fact that some of you 77 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 watching this are scoffing at what I 78 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 just said only proves my point. 79 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You have fooled yourself into thinking 80 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that I'm somehow the one whose being 81 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 selfish when I object to the notion 82 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men should be expected to cave 83 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into all of your demands, for the sake of 84 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your perverted idealistic conception 85 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of love. And I have no doubts that 86 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 some of you will accuse me of being 87 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying 88 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that, but I'm not and I will 89 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pre-emptively characterize such an 90 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 argument as out cropping of the 91 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 very mentality that I'm talking about. 92 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You expect all of your demands to be 93 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 catered to, and any man who is unwilling 94 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or unable to cater to them must have 95 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something wrong with them. Us men are 96 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 human beings with our own interests and 97 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 goals, and it's selfish for you to expect 98 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us to give all that up for you. 99 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But these movies condition you to expect 100 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly that. And that is why we hate 101 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic comedies. We don't see anything 102 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 romantic about them. What we see is the 103 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable 104 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expectations about what we should be doing 105 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce. 106 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you make women sit around and talk 107 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about men in movies when y'all easily just 108 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sit around and talk about boobs for hours? 109 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 One, I don't know, maybe you should be 110 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 asking that to people who rent romantic 111 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 comedies you like so much, because 112 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 those are the movies which have women 113 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sitting around talking about men. Or, 114 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 better yet, instead of complaining about 115 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how writers depict women in their movies, 116 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maybe you should try being the change you 117 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want to see and write your own damn movie. 118 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Then you could make the female characters 119 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sit around and talk about whatever you 120 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want. Like how men are oppressing them, or 121 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how men are objectifying them or how men 122 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are such pigs, or how men spread their 123 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 legs too far apart on the subway, or how 124 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men hate romantic comedies. There's 125 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nothing stopping you. 126 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test, 127 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies 128 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd 129 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hesitate to call any of those movies 130 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "pro-feminist." 131 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Three, I don't know a single guy who ever 132 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talks about boobs for hours at a time. 133 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I think the only guys who do are medical 134 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 students learning how to conduct 135 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mammograms. You want to know what most of 136 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the men I know talk about? Movies, video 137 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 games, politics, religion, music, sports, 138 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cars, boats, technology, work, guns, 139 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hunting, places they've been to, people 140 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they've met, and so on. The subject of 141 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 boobs actually rarely ever comes up. 142 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Contrary to what you may have been told in 143 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your Women's Studies class, men don't 144 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think about sex constantly. If we did, we 145 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 would never have invented the camera 146 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equipment you used to make this video. 147 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for 148 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hours at a time, it's feminists. You're 149 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the ones who are always whining about 150 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the designs of fictional characters, 151 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining that fat girls' tits are too 152 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 big. And in all honesty, the only time I 153 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ever even think about a comic book 154 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 character's tits is when I hear a feminist 155 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bring it up. So I think maybe you're 156 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 projecting. 157 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you automatically assume that you 158 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 won't like the TV or movies that star a 159 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 female lead?" 160 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't. In fact, some of my favorite 161 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 movies and TV shows have female leads. 162 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't know a single man who has ever 163 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 scoffed at the notion of watching a movie 164 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or TV show just because it has a female 165 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 protagonist. However, I have seen 166 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminists scoff at anything with a male 167 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lead. 168 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you surprised when women are 169 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!" 170 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not surprised when women are funny. 171 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 There are plenty of funny women out there. 172 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 [names not recognized], et cetera. 173 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But I will say that, in general, women are 174 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not as funny as men, and I think most 175 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women won't agree with that statement. 176 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I also think there's a reason for this. 177 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See if you understand what humor is 178 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and how it works, which I'm guessing 179 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you don't because you're feminists, 180 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then you know that the things that make 181 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laugh often have their roots in very dark 182 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subject matter. 183 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 To quote the amazing atheist, 184 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "These people who are fucking offended 185 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by rape jokes don't even understand 186 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 humor. They don't understand- They 187 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think of humor as like a happy thing, 188 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because humor makes us laugh and laughter 189 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 makes us happy, but a lot of the time 190 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they don't seem to notice that what we're 191 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually laughing at is quite dark and 192 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 morbid. Like if you actually look at it 193 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and examine the jokes, and look at the 194 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exaggeration and try to figure out the 195 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mechanics of how the joke works, 196 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 why does it work; you're gonna find that 197 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain 198 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and suffering. Because laughter is this 199 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 great transcendent tool we have, where 200 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we can take something that- that's bitter 201 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and difficult to comprehend or deal with, 202 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and make it something funny. 203 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like if I take a joke like "How many 204 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 police officers does it take change a 205 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 light bulb?" 206 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "None, they just beat the room for being 207 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 black." you know that joke has it's 208 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 genesis in some very serious, very dark 209 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 shit. And that joke is not making light 210 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the fact that people have suffered, 211 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or it's not making light of the fact that 212 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people, you know, marched in the Civil 213 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Rights Movement, or- or that people are 214 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 racial discriminated against, or police 215 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 brutality. It's not making light of any 216 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of that. What it's doing is it's taking 217 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that pain and it's taking that dark 218 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subject matter, and it's helping us 219 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 transcend it for a moment. And view 220 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the absurdity of our circumstance. 221 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because that is what humor is supposed to 222 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do. Humor at it's best takes the elements 223 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the world that are dark and horrible, 224 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and shows you there absurdity. It shows 225 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you the absurdity of the human condition. 226 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and that is important." 227 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See men are socially conditioned to not 228 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talk openly and honestly about their 229 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feelings, which I'll talk more about 230 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 later, and that's why we cultivate a sense 231 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of humor. The only way we can really talk 232 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 about the things that upset us is if 233 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we do it through the filter of comedy. 234 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 But women have the clears throat 235 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "privilege" to not be subject to social 236 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conditioning, and so they don't feel the 237 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 need to cultivate a sense of humor. 238 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And that's why women, in general, aren't 239 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as funny and men. That isn't to say that 240 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all men are funny, or that all women are 241 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unfunny. It's just that in general men are 242 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's 243 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly 244 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doubt that you're funnier than me. 245 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And it's not because you're a women. 246 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Just judging by how you look and talk, 247 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm willing to bet that your sense of 248 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 humor boils down to saying something rude, 249 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and then following it with "Just kidding". 250 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean I'm not the funniest person in 251 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the world but if you think of yourself 252 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as the funny one, you probably lack the 253 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 objectivity to realizing that everybody 254 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 else in your circle of friends probably 255 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thinks of you as the "annoying one". 256 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Just kidding, actually I'm not. 257 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think we're obsessed with you 258 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when we hook up?" "Nine times out of 259 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm 260 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 busy, I got shit to do." 261 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Probably because you do shit like text 262 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us 50 times in the space of one hour, and 263 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 slash our tires when we dump you after you 264 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accuse us of cheating because you saw our 265 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sister's name in our call history. Also 266 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 what shit could you possibly have to do? 267 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Pluck your eyebrows to the point 268 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 where they're so unnaturally clean around 269 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the edges that they look like they're 270 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 drawn on? Spend your husband's money 271 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of 272 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write 273 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more questions for men to answer 274 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because you're so lacking in self 275 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 awareness that you can't figure out the 276 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 answers for yourself? 277 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why can't I sleep as many people as I 278 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 want to without being judged? When men do 279 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it, they're congratulated" 280 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Go ahead and sleep with as many 281 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people as you want. I don't give a shit, 282 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but once again I don't know anybody who 283 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 would. The only time I would care is if I 284 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was dating you, because if you told me 285 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you've been with 20 other guys before 286 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I met you, I would naturally assume that 287 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 there was something wrong with you 288 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if you've been in so many relationships 289 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and have them all fail. Not to mention the 290 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fact that your substantially more 291 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to be carrying an STD. And I think 292 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to 293 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 view men who have slept with a lot of 294 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 other women the same way. Also who's 295 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 congratulating men for sleeping around? 296 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't see any guys walking around with 297 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 trophies for fucking everyone they've 298 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 met. It's not like having sex with easy 299 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women is some kind of achievement. 300 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Furthermore, I would say that most media 301 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 portrays men who do that as assholes 302 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who should be looked at with content. 303 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean -name not recognized- isn't 304 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly portrayed as a model citizen. 305 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 By the way studies have found that the 306 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 majority of people who slut shame women, 307 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are other women. Maybe you should be 308 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 directing this question at them and not 309 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men. 310 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you consider a woman a tease, 311 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if she does sleep with you after three 312 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you 313 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the first date?" 314 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you consider a man a douchebag if 315 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he doesn't call you back three days after 316 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he meets you, but desperate if he calls 317 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you the next day? 318 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does no mean yes?" 319 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "No means no." 320 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't know anybody who thinks no 321 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 means yes. Also this question seems to be 322 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in the spirit of the feminist notion that 323 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all men are potential rapists. Which 324 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 simply isn't true. I already talked about 325 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this at length in my other video, "'Teach 326 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric". 327 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Moving on. 328 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you say that women are too 329 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 emotional to be leaders" 330 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 whispering: maybe if feminist argued 331 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with logics instead of feelings, people 332 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wouldn't think that. 333 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Then justify cat calling by saying 334 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'men just can't control themselves'" 335 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I've never heard a man say either, I have 336 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hear women say both though. 337 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think that just because 338 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're nice to me, I owe you my body?" 339 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you think that just because I'm 340 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 nice to you that I want your body. 341 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Sometimes I've been walking down the 342 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 street, hysterically crying because my cat 343 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was missing, and a man came up and 344 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 was like 'Hey what's up, why are you 345 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 crying? Can I talk to you?' 346 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But I want to continue this, so when 347 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the guy up to you and asked you 348 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how you were doing, did you judge his 349 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 intentions, or do you feel like-" 350 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I was like what the hell is wrong with 351 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you I'm hysterically crying, holding 352 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 flyers that say missing cat." 353 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Wait what if he was checking how you were 354 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doing because you were crying?" 355 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "No he was- It was a catcall, it was like 356 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-" 357 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "What if he was trying to be sweet to get 358 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are 359 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you crying?'" 360 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "He's not entitled to my time, honestly" 361 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "If he had not said anything to you, then 362 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he's a dick because he's a guy in society 363 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who saw a girl crying and didn't do 364 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 anything." 365 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But it's a different- If he's saying that 366 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to get my number, that's different that 367 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 him coming up and saying 'Whats 368 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let 369 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you know. Like that's a different thing" 370 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But how is he going to know about your 371 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cat, he saw a girl crying on the street" 372 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Well, it was just- I was hanging up the 373 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 flyers." 374 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying 375 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the street, and she's hysterical and 376 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she might've just lost her parents and 377 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her 378 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because she might think I'm objectify her" 379 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "She doesn't know you. She doesn't know 380 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you." 381 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "But we're humans, we should care about 382 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 each other." 383 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Of course, of course, but I think you 384 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have to understand what you come off 385 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as to women. They don't know you. It's 386 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like if a brown bear came up and said 387 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hello to you. Like you just have to like-" 388 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why would you ever send an unsolicited 389 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dick pic?" 390 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your 391 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 phone number to the types of guys you meet 392 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in night clubs, you know the type of guys 393 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who go to such clubs for the specific 394 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 purpose of meeting women, and who read 395 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 books about how to be a pick up artist; 396 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics 397 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from them. 398 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass 399 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women, or make offensive comments about 400 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women, but when somebody does it to your 401 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sister, it's not okay?" 402 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why do you feel like it's okay to make 403 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 these misandrist videos which paint all 404 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men as sexual harassers or rapists, but 405 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when somebody treats your son that way, 406 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's not okay? 407 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How does it feel to interrupt me when 408 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm in the middle of making a point 409 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 during a meetings?" 410 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You make it sound like the only people 411 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have ever interrupted you are men. 412 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you 413 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ever stopped to think that maybe people 414 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 interrupt you because they realize you're 415 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talking shit and wasting time after only 416 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 two sentences. 417 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you have to sit with your legs 418 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so wide open?" 419 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I get that you have balls, but I don't 420 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stand around with my arms wide open 421 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to make room for my boobs." 422 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe that's because your boobs don't get 423 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 squished between your arms when you stand 424 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 normally with your arms down by your 425 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sides. A man's balls are literally between 426 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his legs, and they do get squished if he 427 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 puts his legs together. It's not exactly 428 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 an apt comparison. Furthermore, why 429 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do you even care? I don't see you 430 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining about women taking up 431 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 two seats with their bags. 432 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are women perceived as the weaker 433 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sex? Even though we literally birth you, 434 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like watermelons through like 'this'" 435 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because physical strength has nothing to 436 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do with your ability to give birth. Women 437 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are, generally speaking, not as physically 438 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 strong as men. The average man has about 439 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 50% greater upper body strength than the 440 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 average woman. I'm sorry but that's just 441 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 simple biology. There's also the fact 442 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that men are by in large the one's who go 443 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to war and fight and die to protect you. 444 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men are the ones who work the dangerous 445 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in 446 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the industrialized world possible. 447 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And historically men are also the ones 448 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have gone out into the unforgiving 449 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wilderness to kill dangerous animals so 450 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ungrateful entitled women like you could 451 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 eat. You as a woman are substantially less 452 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to die during your daily activities 453 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and you don't have to worry about being 454 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called a deadbeat for not risking life in 455 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a factory or field for the benefit of 456 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 others. Nor do you have to worry about 457 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being told you don't have a real job 458 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because you work with computers or push 459 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pencils in a safe, clean environment. 460 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women work soft cushy jobs compared to 461 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men and that's why women make only 7% of 462 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 workplace fatalities despite making up 47% 463 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the work force. That is why you're 464 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 perceived as the weaker sex. If you 465 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't want people to see you that way, 466 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then get out of your comfortable air 467 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conditioned studio and go work on a 468 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 craving boat on a coal mine. You're 469 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always complaining about employment 470 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 discrimination, so go ahead, take the 471 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just 472 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 how strong and tough you are. And look 473 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't begrudge women for working jobs 474 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that don't put them in danger and I will 475 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 freely admit that my job isn't 476 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 particularly dangerous; but if you're 477 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 going to sit there and act like women 478 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are stronger than men just because you can 479 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 give birth, something which you have a 480 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you 481 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 live in the United States, and that's up 482 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right 483 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 off. By the way passing a kidney stone 484 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hurts more than giving birth. Any woman 485 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who has experienced both will tell you 486 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that, and men get them more often so 487 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 blow me. 488 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why is it so bad to show your emotions?" 489 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "It means you're human." 490 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe it's because feminists like you 491 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 tell us we're misogynists for even 492 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 daring to complain about our problems. 493 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Since you're not a man and you don't have 494 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even the slightest inclining of what it's 495 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like to be a man, let me spell it out for 496 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you. Boys are socially conditioned from 497 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the day we learn to talk to not express 498 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly 499 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 be told to man up and that boys don't cry. 500 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We don't have the privilege of showing 501 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 our emotions because if we do, it's a sign 502 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of weakness. To put it simply, us men are 503 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 programmed to believe that our own 504 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feelings are invalid, and so we hide them 505 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we lie about them. We are raised to 506 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expect that if we tell you our feelings, 507 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you will shoot them down. You will tell 508 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 us we're wrong for feeling the way we do, 509 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and even if you don't, we still don't want 510 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to tell you our feelings because 511 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we know you'll use them against us. 512 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You're probably thinking that you don't do 513 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that but you do, you do it all the time 514 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if 515 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you have ever had an argument 516 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with one of them men in your life and 517 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you told them "If you were a real man..." 518 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 If you ever have then you have done 519 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 exactly what I'm talking about. See no 520 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 woman has ever been told "If you're 521 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a real woman you wouldn't feel this way" 522 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women have their feelings cultivated and 523 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 coddled. You're not only allowed to cry. 524 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you are expected to, and when you do, 525 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people around you give you sympathy and 526 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you are comforted. You are so used to 527 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 getting sympathy that you feel entitled 528 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man 529 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fully expects to be looked down upon, 530 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and told that his feelings don't matter if 531 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 he shows any sign of emotional weakness. 532 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Even by the people he trusts most, because 533 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that is what he has experienced for 534 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his entire life, and you wonder why the 535 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 suicide rate for men is four times higher 536 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than it is for women. I know what you're 537 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 going to say, you're going to say that 538 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the social conditioning of men to not 539 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 show their emotions is part of the 540 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to 541 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 change that. Good, what heroes you are, 542 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 let me give you a little golf clap while 543 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you take a sip from your fucking 544 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the 545 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 comfort of your safe space, where 546 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men aren't allowed. 547 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you always trying to prove your 548 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 masculinity?" 549 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See my answer to the previous question. 550 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Also wow, how egocentric are you. 551 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You are so certain that the world 552 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 revolves around you that you believe that 553 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 when a man is acting like a man, that he 554 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 must be trying to prove something to you. 555 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a 556 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 man just because he's, you know, a 557 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fucking man. Why are you constantly trying 558 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to prove your femininity to me? How 559 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bout that? 560 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss? 561 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 When did words get gendered?" 562 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It's also not considered gentlemen like 563 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to curse. Swearing is generally 564 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 considered rude regardless of the gender 565 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the person who is doing it. Personally 566 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't give a shit if you use 567 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 profanity. Go right the fuck ahead. 568 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And when did words get genered? 569 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I guess right around the time the 570 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 word feminist was invented, which is 571 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 at self a gendered word. I'm mean the 572 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 invention of feminism is when everything 573 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 suddenly became gendered. Like when assert 574 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that interrupting people is somehow a 575 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 uniquely male behavior, or that only 576 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women get told not to swear. 577 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why is it your first instinct to doubt 578 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women who have been sexually violated or 579 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 raped?" 580 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe a false rape accusation weren't 581 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 systemically encouraged by feminism, 582 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how 583 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this question is phrased, to doubt women 584 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who have been sexually violated or raped. 585 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The more salient question would be, 586 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 'Why do you doubt women who claim to have 587 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 been sexually violated or raped. And the 588 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 answer is because we have this thing 589 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called the presumption of innocence. 590 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 That means a person who is accused of a 591 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 crime is innocent until proven guilty. 592 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So it's not my first instinct to doubt, 593 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it's my moral imperative to doubt until 594 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put 595 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 somebody in jail just because somebody 596 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accused them of murder nor would you put 597 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them in jail just because somebody accused 598 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 them of theft, nor would you put them in 599 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jail because somebody accused them of any 600 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 other crime. Why should accusations of 601 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape be held to a different standard? This 602 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 really isn't a difficult concept to 603 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 understand, and it both baffles me and 604 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 disturbs me how often I see feminists 605 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 failing to grasp this. For people who 606 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 claim to fight for social justice, you 607 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 really don't understand how justice works, 608 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do you? See a man who its accused of rape, 609 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 will have his life ruined. That's not even 610 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 only if he is convicted, the mere 611 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accusation is enough to cost him his job, 612 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his relationships, his education and 613 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 career prospects, his home, his 614 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 reputation, and so on. If a woman wants 615 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to ruin a man's life all she has to do is 616 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accuse him of raping her and he will be 617 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 put through the ringer by law enforcement 618 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and the media; and even if he is found not 619 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 guilty, the damage will have already been 620 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 done and the woman who made the false 621 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accusation will get away scot free. 622 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Really it astonishes me that even after 623 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 what happened at Duke and the University 624 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of Virginia, that you're still asking 625 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this question. Furthermore, feminists 626 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have abused the word rape to point where 627 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 its lost all meaning. Everything is rape. 628 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Its gotten to the point where if a woman 629 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 claims she was raped I have to wonder 630 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 if she means a guy actually forcibly put 631 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his penis in her, or if she had 632 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 consensual sex and just decided to call it 633 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape when she decided she regretted it the 634 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 next morning, or if she's merely 635 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 complaining that a guy looked at her in 636 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a way that made her feel uncomfortable. 637 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I mean what even is rape at this point? 638 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 According to some feminists, it's rape if 639 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a man changed positions during sex without 640 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend 641 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 breaks up with you because you cheated on 642 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 him. It's rape if you overhear somebody 643 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 calling somebody else a slut. 644 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "I got raped, when my mother called 645 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 someone else's daughter a slut." 646 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Really it's your own damn fault that 647 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people are becoming increasingly reluctant 648 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to believe rape accusations, because you 649 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have expanded the definition so broadly, 650 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that nobody even knows when you're really 651 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talking about rape anymore. You did this, 652 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you asked for it, and now you have buyers 653 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 remorse. Now let me pose a question to 654 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you, why is it your first instinct to 655 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 doubt when a man says he was sexually 656 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 violated or raped by a woman. 657 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you assume a woman is angry 658 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because she's on her period?" 659 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because women get angry when they're on 660 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their period. It's a scientific fact that 661 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the hormonal changes a woman experiences 662 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 during her period cause her to become 663 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 irritable. This is called premenstrual 664 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't 665 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always assume a woman is angry because 666 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she is on her period. If your boyfriend 667 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thinks that, then maybe it's because 668 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're not being straight forward with him 669 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and expecting him to be a mind reader. 670 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe you should try telling him why 671 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're angry. Ever thought about that? 672 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Ever thought about simply telling him that 673 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're mad that he ate the last 674 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit 675 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're getting your panties in twist over. 676 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 [mocking voice] "Awe he should just be 677 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 able to figure it out" 678 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Yeah like you should be able to figure out 679 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the answers to these stupid questions 680 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're asking. 681 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do you think women that wear makeup 682 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are false advertising, we can say the same 683 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thing about your dick size." 684 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You actually answered the question 685 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 yourself. We consider it false 686 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 advertising for the same reason that you 687 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think a man who stuffs the crotch of his 688 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pants is false advertising. If you cover 689 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 up all your pimples and scars with makeup 690 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you can't really be surprised when he's 691 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 taken aback upon discover that you 692 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't really look the way you did when you 693 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like 694 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you were lied to if you met a guy who 695 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 looked well dressed and drove a nice car, 696 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but then you found out that he got his 697 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 clothes at goodwill, and he rented that 698 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 car with his burger king salary. 699 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch 700 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of old white men sitting in a room, 701 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 making legislation about what I can and 702 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 can't do with my body?" 703 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Wasn't it a room full of old white men 704 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling. 705 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You know, women have had the right to 706 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 vote for almost a hundred years now, and 707 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 polling data has found that women are more 708 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to vote than men; and yet these 709 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 old white men keep getting elected. 710 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And I see a lot of you people supporting 711 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty 712 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fuckin old and white to me. Go figure. 713 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Furthermore, why does it even matter that 714 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they're white? Why does their melanin 715 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 level matter more than the merit of their 716 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr. 717 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who once said "I have a dream that my 718 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 four little children will one day live in 719 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a nation where they will not be judge by 720 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the color of their skin, but by the 721 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 content of their character." For as much 722 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as you people like to accuse other of 723 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being racist, you sure do judge people 724 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race a lot. Oh but it's 725 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not racism when you do it because of 726 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 power structures or some other mental 727 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether 728 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or not the prejudice somebody is being 729 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 subjected to is institutionalized makes 730 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 any difference to them when it happens. 731 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of 732 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who is doing it to whom. Calling it 733 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something other than racism doesn't 734 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 change the fact that it's fucking racism; 735 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And the only people who think otherwise 736 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are racist like you. This mentality that 737 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 only certain people can be racist hinges 738 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 on the categorization of people based on 739 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 their ethnicity, and the ascribing of 740 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 attributes to them such as privilege, 741 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on those racial categories. You 742 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have to make judgements based on race to 743 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 make this argument work, you have to make 744 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assumptions and generalization about their 745 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 race and origin to make those judgments. 746 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So you have to be racist to use this 747 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 argument, how do you not see the problem 748 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with this, how do you not see the problem 749 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with putting people's race before the 750 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 merits of their argument and categorizing 751 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people into a hierarchy of consideration 752 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race. How the fuck do you 753 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 expect to fight racism with racism, and 754 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 then expect people to take you seriously. 755 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe this is the reason why you think 756 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that if somebody thinks that you're 757 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stupid it must be because you're a woman. 758 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You're projecting, you judge other people 759 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 based on their race and gender so you 760 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assume other people are doing it to you. 761 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Well I've got news for you, I don't think 762 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're stupid because you're a woman, I 763 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think you're stupid because you're stupid. 764 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not 765 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 like they don't also tell me what I can't 766 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do with my body. For example, I can't take 767 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the palm of my hand and slap some sense 768 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 into you, without being considered 769 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assault. 770 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Do you have a coochie?" 771 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 No. 772 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are straight guys so obsessed with 773 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lesbians?" 774 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why are straight women so obsessed with 775 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gay guys? Or better yet, why are women 776 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 so obsessed with lesbians? According to 777 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Porn hub search data for 2014, the number 778 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 one thing women search for was lesbian 779 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 porn. Proportionately women look up 780 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 lesbian porn more than men do. 781 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How does it feel to get kicked in the 782 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 balls?" 783 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 How do you think it feels, you dumb 784 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bitch? 785 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Do you ever get tired of being manly all 786 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the time?" 787 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Do you? You're the one that's dressed like 788 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a lumberjack. To answer the question, no, 789 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 not really. It comes naturally to me 790 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 since I'm, you know, a man. The fact 791 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that you're asking this question implies 792 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that you sometimes get tired of being 793 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminine, so do you ever get tired of 794 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 being feminine all the time? Is that why 795 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you're dressed like a lumberjack? 796 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Would you like to be a man? 797 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Well you have to pass a test first. Have 798 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 you mastered the art of manspreading? 799 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Have you completed your forty hours of 800 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape training? 801 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you so afraid of gender 802 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equality?" 803 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is 804 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender inequality. Which is what feminist 805 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are actually pushing for. You want 806 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and 807 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 co-founder of feminist initiative, 808 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media 809 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 called a man tax, which would have raised 810 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the 811 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 idea that all men should be held 812 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 accountable for all man on women violence. 813 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It should be noted that Schyman was 814 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a 815 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 year before making this proposal. 816 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal 817 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have unanimously opposed changes to rape 818 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laws that would make it possible for 819 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women to be convicted of rape. They 820 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 succeeded and now women in Israel commit 821 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 sex act on non-consenting adults or 822 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 children who are not old enough to 823 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 legally give informed consent, are not 824 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually being charged with rape, and are 825 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 instead charged with lesser crimes. In 826 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 2013 Indian feminists successfully 827 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pressured the government to rewrite rape 828 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 laws in such a way that only men could be 829 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica 830 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Valenti published an article in the 831 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Guardian advocating paying men less than 832 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women. In 2015, York University planned to 833 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hold an international men's day meant to 834 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 highlight issues affecting men and boys, 835 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 such as the high suicide rate, shorter 836 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 life expectancies, and struggles faced in 837 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 getting and education. It was canceled 838 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 after feminists student, staff, and alumni 839 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 protested and held a petition to ban it, 840 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which received almost 200 signatures. 841 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter 842 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wrote a condescending article on 843 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Independent.co.uk enlightening readers 844 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 why we don't need an international men's 845 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 day. You can claim the definition of 846 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminism is advocating gender equality 847 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all you want, but actions speak louder than 848 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 words. And it's really hard to believe the 849 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminist movement is really a movement 850 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for equality, when you dismiss anyone who 851 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 brings up men's issues as misogynists. 852 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You say all men are rapists, you try to 853 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 ban men from certain place son college 854 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 campuses, you actively fight against 855 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 father's rights, undermine the 856 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 presumption of innocence when it comes 857 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to rape accusations, and you deny 858 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 statistics about male victims of domestic 859 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 abuse. As well as protest and disrupt 860 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 conferences about male suicide. 861 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 862 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 863 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "This is what mens' rights looks like" 864 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 All that said, why are you so afraid of 865 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 gender equality? 866 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why do I deserve to be paid less 867 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than you?" 868 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does 77 cents 869 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equal a dollar" 870 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "In what world does 68 cents 871 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 equal a dollar" 872 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "How is that fair?" 873 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 After I finished writing my answers 874 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to all these questions, I actually 875 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 counted them and realized there are only 876 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 33 questions instead of 36. 877 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I just naturally assumed these 4 878 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 questions are actually 1 879 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and answer them as such, but 880 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 no. Buzzfeed actually considered 881 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this compound question as a 882 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bunch of separate questions, in order 883 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to bolster their count for their 884 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 deceptive clickbaiting title. Like it 885 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 wasn't bad enough that they 886 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are already not even really 887 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 questions. Anyway, this has been pointed 888 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 out countless times, by countless other 889 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 people, but the wage gap is bullshit. 890 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And when I say its bullshit, I don't 891 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mean that it doesn't exist. I mean its 892 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bullshit because of the way its presented. 893 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The observed wage gap is based on 894 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 comparing the average income of men to 895 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the average income of women, without 896 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 considering any variables. Sometimes when 897 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the wage gap is brought up, they add 898 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that women get paid less for the same 899 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jobs. But thats horseshit. Asking women 900 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 why they get paid less than men, is like 901 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 asking why men are more likely to die 902 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in the workplace then woman. Its because 903 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men and women tend to work different jobs. 904 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And just like some jobs are more dangerous 905 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 than others, some jobs pay more than 906 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 others, and since men tend to work 907 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM 908 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fields. Men tend to make more money.And 909 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 even when you are comparing men and women 910 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 working the same jobs, there are things 911 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which factor into why men get paid more. 912 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Such as the fact that men are more likely 913 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to work overtime, are more likely to ask 914 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for raises or promotions, are less 915 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 likely to take time off, are more 916 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 competitive, are more likely to take risks 917 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Prioritize earnings more than women. 918 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Retire at a later age, and all these other 919 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 things which studies have found. With 920 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 all these taken into considertion 921 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 its no wonder that men get paid more. 922 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men work more, and really I hate to point 923 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 out this obvious bit of common sense, 924 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but if companies could actually get away 925 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with paying women less, don't you 926 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think they would hire nothing but women, 927 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to save money. Do you honestly think 928 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that corporations are such boys clubs, 929 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that giving advantages to men is 930 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 more important to them, then their profits 931 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and shareholder interests. Don't be 932 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 stupid. And no, the fact that there are so 933 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 few women in STEM fields has nothing to 934 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 do with discrimination. In fact surveys 935 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have found that there is a 2 to 1 936 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 preference for female applicants 937 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in STEM fields over equally qualified 938 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 men. So the reason that there is so few 939 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women in STEM fields is because few women 940 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are interested in pursuing careers in 941 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 STEM fields. If you want more women in 942 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 STEM fields, then maybe you shouldn't 943 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have wasted your parents money on a degree 944 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in gender studies. And if you wish to 945 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 continue pushing the spaceless contention 946 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 that the patriarchies can keep women 947 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 out of STEM fields, then explain why the 948 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 patriarchy isn't stopping women from 949 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dominating certain fields, such as 950 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 veterinary medicine, psychology 951 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore 952 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which is it? 77 cents to a dollar 953 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or 68 cents? I've also heard other 954 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 feminist claim 72 cents. The fact that you 955 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 can't keep your story straight, kinda 956 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 says something about it. And I'm really 957 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 struggling to understand why you 958 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 thought including this discrepancy 959 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in your video was a good idea. 960 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe you should have let a man proofread 961 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it. 962 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 That was a joke, I know I have to explain 963 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 it because feminist don't understand 964 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 jokes, but it was a joke, alright. 965 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you more intimidated by a women 966 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 who makes more money than you? 967 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Thats awesome, more money" 968 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I'm not. But since we're making 969 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assumptions, why are you intimidated by 970 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 my deep, ooming, commanding, 971 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 yet sultry, baritone voice. 972 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are opinionated women seen 973 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 as bitches?" 974 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "When opinionated men are seen as bosses" 975 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Opinionated men aren't seen as bosses, 976 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unless they actually are somebodies boss, 977 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 otherwise they're just called assholes. 978 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Unless of course their opinions disagree 979 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with you, in which case they are kicked 980 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 off their campus, banned from speaking 981 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 at events, and told to stop mansplaining. 982 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe thats why opinionated women like you 983 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are seen as bitches. 984 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why aren't you speaking up, when you 985 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 hear your male friends behind closed doors 986 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 make jokes that are offensive to women" 987 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because they're jokes and aren't meant 988 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to be taken seriously. 989 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "These people who are fucking offended by 990 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 rape jokes, don't even understand humor" 991 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 If thats not a good enough answer, then 992 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 let me ask you this, do you speak up when 993 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your female friends, make jokes that 994 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are offensive to men? No? Why not? 995 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Oh because its empowering, right? 996 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Fuck off. Also I thought you said you were 997 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 probably funnier than me. You think 998 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of yourself as a funny women, but you 999 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't want people making jokes that don't 1000 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 cater to your own personal taste. Stop 1001 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 trying to police other peoples speech, you 1002 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 empty headed bimbo. 1003 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 (beep) 1004 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Why are you so afraid of recognizing 1005 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your own privilege? Doesn't mean your a 1006 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 bad person, just recognize it, and do 1007 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something about it." 1008 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I just love how you boldly assert that I 1009 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have privilege, without backing up that 1010 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 assertion at all, and then proceed to 1011 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 talk down to me in this condescending 1012 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 tone like its just so obvious its such a 1013 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 unassailable argument. 1014 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It doesn't mean you're a bad person. 1015 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 By I guess being the same gender as Donald 1016 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Trump does. To answer your question, its 1017 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 because I don't have privilege. I really 1018 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 don't. But you do. I defy you to name one, 1019 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 just one, legal privilege, that I have 1020 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 which you don't also have, because I can 1021 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 think of serveral you have, which I don't 1022 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 have. Let me list ten. Women are almost 1023 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 always granted custody of children in a 1024 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 divorce by default, unless the man can 1025 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 prove she is unfit to care for them. 1026 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See misinterpretation of gender bias 1027 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court 1028 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 by Mark B. Rosenthal. 1029 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 This is despite the fact that children 1030 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 are twice as likely to be abused by their 1031 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 mother than they are by their father. 1032 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 According to page 49 of child 1033 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 maltreatment of 2013. 1034 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Published by the U.S. department of health 1035 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and human services. 1036 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women have more social safety nets 1037 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 designed for them. 1038 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Which is why they only make up 24% 1039 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 of the homeless population. 1040 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 This is in spite of the fact that 1041 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 42% of homeless men are employed 1042 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 versus only 27% of homeless women . 1043 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 This is according to page 2 of 1044 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Who is Homeless?" published by the 1045 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 national coalition for the homeless 1046 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 July, 2009. And page 1 of "Single Males: 1047 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 The Homeless Majority." Published by 1048 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Healing Hands in June 2001. 1049 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Women get more lenient sentences 1050 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for equivalent crimes. 1051 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 See "Estimating Gender disparities in 1052 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Federal Criminal Cases." by Sonja B. Starr 1053 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 2012. 1054 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A women can get a male coworker fired from 1055 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 his job simply by accusing him of sexual 1056 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 harassment even without proving it. 1057 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 It is so easy for a woman to get a man 1058 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 fired out of malice, that it happens so 1059 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 often that men are now starting to avoid 1060 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 women all together in the work place 1061 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 refusing to mentor or help them. 1062 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book 1063 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "Sex and the Office" 2015. 1064 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 In California, a woman can declare a man 1065 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to be the father of her child and sue him 1066 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for child support. It is up to the man 1067 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to prove that he is not the father by 1068 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 taking a DNA test and he only gets 30 days 1069 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to do so. If he doesn't do it in 1070 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 this time. Then the court can declare him 1071 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 responsible for the child, even if he 1072 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 proves that he is not the father later. 1073 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A woman can sue a sperm donor for 1074 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 child support. 1075 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A women who gets pregnant 1076 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 with stolen sperm, can sue the man 1077 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 she stole it from for child support. 1078 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A women who gets pregnant by raping a man 1079 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 or underaged boy, can sue him for 1080 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 child support. See Hermesman vs Seyer. 1081 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A woman can get an abortion in complete 1082 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 disregard for the wishes of the father. 1083 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 She doesn't even have to tell him she 1084 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is seeking an abortion. 1085 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A women can also sue the father 1086 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 for child support if he wants nothing 1087 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 to do with the child. 1088 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So basically a woman can opt out of 1089 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 parenthood but a man cannot. 1090 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Domestic violence against woman 1091 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 is actually taken seriously. 1092 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Men are always assumed to be the aggressor 1093 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in domestic violence cases, despite 1094 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 the fact the CDC statistics 1095 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 found that more than 70% of 1096 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 non-reciprocated domestic violence is 1097 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 perpetuated by women. 1098 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Even when a man is recognized as being a 1099 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 victim of abuse, he is almost always 1100 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 presumed to be at fault. 1101 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 People ask, 1102 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 "What did he do to piss her off?" 1103 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So let me pose a question to you. 1104 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Why are you so afraid of recognizing your 1105 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 privilege. It doesn't mean you're 1106 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 a bad person. 1107 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Just recognize it and do 1108 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 something about it. 1109 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Or don't, I already know you won't.