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Welcome back to Shanghai Share Life!

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Why are you looking at me?
Is it my pronunciation?

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You always put your hands like,

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Keep Live Class!

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You always do this gesture.

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That's how you communicate
important information.

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It's subconscious, I don't even
know what I'm doing.

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Let's see what will happen this episode.

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Let's go. Excited!

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I'm so scared.

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Let's go. Today we'll see
her profile picture change.

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Did you take 50 selfies for me
to choose from when you were eating?

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Yes. The ugliest one is still to come.

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Episode 13 (Second Half), Week 13
The Street is Not a Fantasy

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[panelists] "The Street is Not a Fantasy,"
what's that mean?

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Hello.

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-Oh!
-Hello.

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-You're home.
-Yeah.

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Oh yeah, here.

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I got something for everyone.
You can have some first.

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[panelist] He only bought it for her.

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The weather is getting colder.

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I remembered you Shanghai people
traditionally eat chestnuts in the winter.

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You bought chestnuts?

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Yeah.

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My English newspaper.

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You're treating your special
newspaper like this?

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It's ok, I already read it.

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-Eat.
-Thank you.

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But you know, chestnuts
are very high in calories.

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Oh, yeah.

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Having a few is like having a 
bowl of rice.

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Yeah.

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But you still bought it?
Aren't you really diet conscious?

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I bought it for Didi.

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Nice.

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Fatten him up.

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By the way, he asked me to tell you...

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-Who?
-Didi.

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-Tell me what?
-Remember how he left first this morning?

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And we wondered if Carmon was jealous?

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They had a fight over that.

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Yeah.

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Ok.

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She said she doesn't want him to
be close to other girls.

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So that's why he's being so...

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-Avoidant?
-Yeah.

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Because he has a girlfriend now.

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-Being like that doesn't look good.
-Ok.

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[panelist] If I were Gaogao,
I would be so uncomfortable.

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I'll peel it for you.

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-Your hands can't peel it.
-Your hands can't?

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-I'm talking about you.
-It's fine. If it's for you, I can.

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See that? Get ready to
change your profile pic.

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Get ready.

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-Here's two for you.
-Thank you.

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I'll keep working on this one.

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I don't think I would be like that
if I were dating someone.

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I would automatically keep my distance
from other girls.

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Really? I doubt that.

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Why?

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Just a feeling.

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-You have to experience it to know.
-I just have a feeling.

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Why not....

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be my girlfriend to see?

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What?

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I think it's sweet.

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Be my girlfriend to see.

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Something's wrong with your brain
today, right?

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I'm being serious.

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You like me, I like you.

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Don't you like me?

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Since when do I like you?

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Didi said so.

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-Seriously?
-Yeah, we...

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Is Didi trying to mess with us?

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Haven't you been trying to spend
a lot of time with me lately?

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Have I?

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You have!

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Don't I spend time with everyone?
We all spend time together.

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You're being silly.

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So you didn't mean...

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I'm taking these back.

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I still have two.

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No more for you.

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Are you ready to change your
profile picture?

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I'm going to take a hundred photos
that you can choose from.

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Is Didi messing with us?

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Didi...

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It's fine, it's not a big deal.

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Is he trying to find a new way
to harass me?

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This...
Our...

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[panelists] -After that he's still--
-Eating chestnuts?

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-Are you ok?
-I'm fine. Really.

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I was just kidding.

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-It's a ridiculous idea, right?
-Yeah, ridiculous.

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Even if Didi had said that,
I don't think you would mean it.

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We're such good buddies,
I was just joking with you.

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Teasing you for fun.

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Your new jokes are next-level.

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-I know.
-More creative than before.

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Right?

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I'm going to...

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[panelist] He's leaving to cry.

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Read a book.

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-Okay.
-Take your time eating.

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[panelist] His back looks so lonely.

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He can only maintain his dignity
for thirty seconds.

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Wu Jiawen (Carmon)
Designer, 29 years old

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Sun Shirui (Didi)
Student, 20 years old

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Pu Xiaobo (Pupu)
PhD Candidate, 26 years old

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Gao Qilian (Gaogao)
Cosplayer, 25 years old

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Zhang Ting (ARe)
Musician, 27 years old

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Come in.

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-Hello.
-Hello.

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-Can I come in?
-Of course.

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-Do you want to watch something?
-No, just to sit.

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What are you doing?

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Just taking care of some work.

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-What's up?
-I just wanted to talk to you a bit.

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Ok. What is it?

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Just...there might have been
a small misunderstanding.

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[panelist] Misunderstanding...
oh, she's talking about Didi.

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Um, just... earlier today, Pupu talked
to me a little.

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It seems like the way that Didi and I
interact caused some misunderstandings.

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There's nothing between us, just...
how to say it?

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There's nothing weird going on.

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We just talk to each other like this,

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getting mad at each other

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and casually insulting each other.

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But because of your relationship,
it might...

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cause some misunderstanding.
I just never thought about it before.

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I see. That's how it is...

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So awkward.

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You talked about her behind her back.
Now she's asking if you dislike her.

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Yeah.

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It's like this...

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Well...

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We were in the kitchen before, right?

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Didi and I were having an argument.

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Maybe he doesn't understand.
And it's his first relationship.

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So...

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I understand what you mean.

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I want to tell you about my side too.

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-Yeah.
-Just...

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My age gap with him is pretty big.

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It's easy to feel a little insecure.

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[panelist] So candid.

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I understand.

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But...

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I had a problem with him,

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so I laid down some rules with him.

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Including, for example,

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if his girlfriend is next to him,
just don't...

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Just...

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It's true, he is a little...

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He's too much like a little kid.

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I didn't misunderstand you two.
It's his behavior that makes me feel...

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-like I'm being sidelined.
-Yeah, he talks too much.

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But I didn't get the wrong idea.

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I don't want you to misunderstand
me either.

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I know.

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It's mostly his problem.

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-It's all his fault.
-Yeah.

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I don't think you should worry too much
about the age difference.

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Maybe because it's the first time I'm
experiencing this kind of age difference.

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There are some conflicts
I haven't encountered before.

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But sometimes I also feel like
it makes me happy.

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That's why I want to be with him.

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But there are still many conflicts.

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[panelist] Hurry up and ask her 
about Pupu.

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-Either way, don't worry.
-I know.

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-That's good.
-Yeah.

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Next time you yell at him,
I'll be on your side.

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Because he likes to harass me too.
He's so annoying.

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[panelist] She's not going to tell her
about Pupu?

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Seriously?

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I don't like it.

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So cold!

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[panelist] Their height difference
is amazing.

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It's so cold. What do you want to eat?

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Should we go in there?
It looks so warm.

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I don't care, let's go.

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I'm dying. Go in first, hurry.

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-Eat whatever you want.
-Ok.

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I'm still cold.

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-Are you cold?
-Yeah.

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-Your hands are so warm.
-Of course.

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So fast.

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-Your pork and rice.
-Thanks. Is this mine?

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Yeah.

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-Please enjoy.
-Thank you.

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[panelist] Give the girl
the first bite!

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-Yeah.
-Come on, kid.

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How many calories is this?

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-500.
-This has 500?

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It's very high in calories.

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[panelist] You're just going to
eat it by yourself?

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He's terrible at this.

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How's your internship search?

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I'm still preparing. Because
last time...

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-Was it a simulation last time?
-Yeah.

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I'm looking for a formal interview
this time.

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Did you do that
when you were in college?

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When I was in college...

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I worked a part-time job abroad.

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From when I graduated college
until now...

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I've been doing design
for almost ten years.

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Did you already know you wanted
to do that in college?

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When I was in college, I read a lot
and had designers I looked up to.

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I really wanted to be like them.

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You had such a clear plan so early.

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What do you want to do after graduating?

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-Will you stay in Shanghai, or..
-I haven't really thought about it.

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I think...

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Maybe I still want to go back
to Nanjing, but I'm not sure.

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I'm probably going to be in Shanghai
indefinitely.

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But you probably still have a sense of
whether you're going to

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become a basketball player or
go into law after graduating, right?

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Not really.

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You don't have a rough plan
or anything?

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No.

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It doesn't matter, I'm only a sophomore.
I haven't even had an internship.

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It's still early.

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This is pretty salty.

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[panelist] This is the youthfulness
you wanted.

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But--

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What?

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Have you thought about what
will happen to us in the future?

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Isn't it too far away to plan now?

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There's no need.

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[panelist] Then how will you
stay together forever?

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Is this really important to you?

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I'm 29.

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I feel like... we need to
think about it seriously.

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Sorry about the wait.

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Eat first, we can talk later.

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But this is a serious issue.

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[panelist] Of course. He doesn't want to
talk about it because it's too serious.

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It's ok.

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Do you think it's okay?

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No, I just...

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Aren't things good like this?

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We're happy every day.

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What's wrong?

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Nothing.

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[panelist] She's mad.

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-Carmon is so moody.
-Yeah.

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If you need stability,
you should have accepted Hao.

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People are just like this.
They want everything.

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Yeah.

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You can't have it both ways.

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Hello: your dessert.

258
00:17:24,260 --> 00:17:25,940
Hi. Thank you.

259
00:17:27,839 --> 00:17:28,660
Enjoy.

260
00:17:28,900 --> 00:17:32,020
What do you want, banana or
blueberry or strawberry?

261
00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:35,220
I'll wait.

262
00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:39,820
Eat it.

263
00:17:41,140 --> 00:17:41,970
Have a bite.

264
00:17:46,740 --> 00:17:47,980
Is it sweet?

265
00:17:50,100 --> 00:17:53,980
-Don't be upset.
-I'm not upset, just thinking.

266
00:17:59,860 --> 00:18:00,760
Just...

267
00:18:06,180 --> 00:18:06,900
Well...

268
00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:14,480
Look, I go to a top university.

269
00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,620
I go to East China Normal
and I'm a law major.

270
00:18:16,620 --> 00:18:17,870
I can play basketball too.

271
00:18:17,870 --> 00:18:20,150
I'm only a sophomore,
and I have so many skills.

272
00:18:20,150 --> 00:18:23,960
When I look for a job later on...

273
00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,050
Even if it's not the best job,
I won't have a problem finding one.

274
00:18:27,050 --> 00:18:28,530
So I don't think about it much.

275
00:18:28,530 --> 00:18:30,180
And...

276
00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,002
in terms of what will happen
with us,

277
00:18:33,002 --> 00:18:36,820
I think things are great
right now.

278
00:18:36,820 --> 00:18:40,900
Every day we spend time together and
eat together and we're so happy.

279
00:18:40,900 --> 00:18:42,120
I promise you that

280
00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,970
after I graduate, no matter
what job I look for,

281
00:18:44,970 --> 00:18:48,280
whether or not I can find a good job,
I'll go wherever you go.

282
00:18:48,820 --> 00:18:49,660
Ok?

283
00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:57,460
Cheer up.

284
00:18:57,900 --> 00:19:00,780
Be happy when you eat, or else
you won't be able to digest.

285
00:19:01,700 --> 00:19:02,481
Right?

286
00:19:03,620 --> 00:19:06,120
-I want this one.
-I'll get it for you.

287
00:19:18,100 --> 00:19:20,620
-It makes me sigh.
-Me too.

288
00:19:20,620 --> 00:19:23,100
-So tiring.
-Why didn't he say that to begin with?

289
00:19:23,100 --> 00:19:25,060
Why did he keep avoiding it?

290
00:19:25,220 --> 00:19:28,110
Because at that point he hadn't
figured out what to say yet.

291
00:19:28,820 --> 00:19:30,460
Put yourself in his shoes.

292
00:19:30,460 --> 00:19:32,020
Your sophomore year...

293
00:19:32,020 --> 00:19:35,180
-You would never think about this.
-Yeah, no way.

294
00:19:35,180 --> 00:19:36,020
Yes.

295
00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:39,200
People at that age, in their
second year of college...

296
00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,850
If you ask them about the future
of their relationship,

297
00:19:41,850 --> 00:19:43,380
they'd be speechless.

298
00:19:43,380 --> 00:19:46,040
And if they ask where you think
you'll be in the future,

299
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,420
of course you'll say by their side.

300
00:19:48,420 --> 00:19:49,680
It doesn't mean anything.

301
00:19:51,020 --> 00:19:53,380
You should help him out.

302
00:19:53,620 --> 00:19:56,220
Isn't it the same as saying
you'll be together forever?

303
00:19:56,220 --> 00:19:58,360
At least Didi is honest.

304
00:19:58,360 --> 00:19:59,840
-Yeah.
-He wouldn't be like you.

305
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,800
Then why did he casually say
that he would be with her forever?

306
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,560
"Forever" is a meaningless word.

307
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:08,420
No, he sincerely thinks
they'll be together forever.

308
00:20:08,420 --> 00:20:10,380
He just doesn't know
what "forever" means.

309
00:20:10,380 --> 00:20:13,680
"Forever" is an easy promise.

310
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,540
But "tomorrow" isn't.

311
00:20:15,540 --> 00:20:18,000
-Yeah.
-Think about it.

312
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,360
Even if you like her right now
and say you'll go wherever she goes,

313
00:20:21,360 --> 00:20:24,120
in the next five years,
if you really got a chance

314
00:20:24,120 --> 00:20:26,570
to go to the U.S. and join the NBA,
wouldn't you go?

315
00:20:26,860 --> 00:20:30,600
He doesn't understand the weight
of his promise to follow her.

316
00:20:30,780 --> 00:20:33,280
Yeah. There are so many variables
in his life.

317
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:34,000
Yeah.

318
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,500
But I think he really likes Carmon.

319
00:20:36,500 --> 00:20:41,760
In the span of one week, we saw him
make two big promises to Carmon.

320
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,730
It's like doing self-criticisms
every day.

321
00:20:43,730 --> 00:20:46,980
-"I promise whatever happens..."
-Yeah, she laid down rules with him.

322
00:20:46,980 --> 00:20:49,640
He's making too many promises
because he's young.

323
00:20:51,220 --> 00:20:54,160
I can also understand
Carmon's anxiety.

324
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,080
But she really does want it all.

325
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,500
-I think it's too early.
-I agree.

326
00:20:59,500 --> 00:21:01,470
-Yeah.
-Something else happened just now.

327
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,940
I don't know what's going on with
my bet with Keni.

328
00:21:04,940 --> 00:21:07,340
You definitely lost.
I'll take my pictures soon.

329
00:21:07,340 --> 00:21:10,820
-It seems that the confession failed.
-There was never even a confession.

330
00:21:10,820 --> 00:21:12,660
Pupu doesn't even like Gaogao.

331
00:21:12,660 --> 00:21:16,320
He heard something from Didi
and felt like he could score.

332
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,480
I disagree. I object.

333
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,780
-I do too!
-I object!

334
00:21:21,780 --> 00:21:23,540
I think she likes him,

335
00:21:23,540 --> 00:21:25,980
but his confession was so disappointing.

336
00:21:25,980 --> 00:21:27,460
-Yeah.
-What he said was,

337
00:21:27,460 --> 00:21:30,480
If you like me,
then I like you.

338
00:21:31,140 --> 00:21:34,400
If you don't like me,
then I don't like you either.

339
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,040
His logic is...

340
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,180
If you don't like me,
I was just kidding.

341
00:21:39,260 --> 00:21:42,080
Retreat, advance,
offense, defense.

342
00:21:42,420 --> 00:21:43,320
He held back.

343
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:46,180
If she had agreed to get together,
and then he was like,

344
00:21:46,180 --> 00:21:47,080
Just teasing you!

345
00:21:49,900 --> 00:21:52,520
Daxun, why does it seem like
you've done this before?

346
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,980
-No, no.
-Your description is so vivid.

347
00:21:54,980 --> 00:21:58,580
Others don't perceive you as trustworthy.

348
00:21:58,580 --> 00:22:01,420
No! Do you think that confession
was trustworthy?

349
00:22:01,420 --> 00:22:03,740
-I think so.
-How was that trustworthy?

350
00:22:03,740 --> 00:22:07,060
-It was!
-How?

351
00:22:07,060 --> 00:22:10,040
-I think it was sincere.
-Yeah!

352
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,980
That was my favorite confession
of the show.

353
00:22:12,980 --> 00:22:14,800
-It seemed natural.
-Yeah.

354
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,860
And I don't think
this is what he said.

355
00:22:17,860 --> 00:22:19,460
"You like me, so I like you."

356
00:22:19,460 --> 00:22:21,580
He said, "You like me,
I like you too."

357
00:22:21,580 --> 00:22:23,020
"We should be together."

358
00:22:23,180 --> 00:22:25,840
And then he wanted to preserve
his dignity.

359
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,500
That's why he said he was
kidding. "Just teasing you."

360
00:22:29,500 --> 00:22:31,980
to lessen his embarrassment.

361
00:22:32,220 --> 00:22:36,860
He's dumbfounded right now.
He assumed it would go smoothly.

362
00:22:36,860 --> 00:22:39,880
No, I don't think he did.

363
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:45,040
That's why he said it like that.
He was insecure about it, not confident.

364
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,920
Anyway, I don't think
this thing is over.

365
00:22:49,340 --> 00:22:51,900
I don't think that was
a real rejection.

366
00:22:51,900 --> 00:22:53,280
From Gaogao.

367
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,520
-I agree with Teacher Chen.
-Me too.

368
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,560
Me too.

369
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:57,700
Here's an example.

370
00:22:57,700 --> 00:23:01,120
One Valentine's Day, there was
a guy pursuing me at the time.

371
00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:05,280
He sent me a message asking if
I was doing anything the next day.

372
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,400
I said I wasn't.

373
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,700
Then he suggested that we
go out together.

374
00:23:09,700 --> 00:23:12,800
He intentionally didn't say anything
about Valentine's Day.

375
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,720
He just asked me out as if
it was a normal day,

376
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,520
because he was afraid it would
turn into a big deal.

377
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,440
And what it would mean
if I rejected him.

378
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:25,340
So in fact, Pupu is playing
this thing down.

379
00:23:25,340 --> 00:23:28,960
-But you knew that that boy liked you.
-Right.

380
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,460
But Gaogao doesn't know
if Pupu likes her.

381
00:23:32,460 --> 00:23:34,720
Says who? She knows!

382
00:23:35,580 --> 00:23:40,420
-How could she not know?
-What does she know?

383
00:23:40,420 --> 00:23:43,140
-He likes her.
-Are we not all clear on this?

384
00:23:43,140 --> 00:23:47,280
I really think they just
have a roommate relationship.

385
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,680
As if!

386
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,940
-There's nothing between them.
-There will be!

387
00:23:51,940 --> 00:23:53,460
Will not!

388
00:23:53,460 --> 00:23:56,280
-I completely agree with Teacher Chen.
-Me too!

389
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,400
-Raise your hand!
-It's just the beginning.

390
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,440
-Yes.
-It's a confession and a rejection,

391
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,210
but it could also be a beginning.
It's not a one-off deal.

392
00:24:04,210 --> 00:24:10,240
And later it might even be
Gaogao who initiates things with Pupu.

393
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,300
-Gaogao taking the lead.
-Very possible.

394
00:24:12,300 --> 00:24:13,460
Ok, let's all calm down.

395
00:24:13,460 --> 00:24:17,000
Even though these five just had
a heated argument,

396
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,560
let me summarize.

397
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:22,220
Aside from that one, these five
all have the same opinion.

398
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,380
I don't know what you're arguing about.

399
00:24:24,380 --> 00:24:26,620
You all have exactly the same opinion.

400
00:24:26,620 --> 00:24:29,820
-She didn't even say much.
-Yeah!

401
00:24:29,820 --> 00:24:31,360
Then what do you think?

402
00:24:31,360 --> 00:24:35,240
There's nothing between them.

403
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:36,620
They're just roommates.

404
00:24:36,620 --> 00:24:39,640
Ok, let's keep watching.

405
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,190
You'll definitely have to 
change your profile pic.

406
00:24:43,190 --> 00:24:44,320
I still believe it.

407
00:24:49,660 --> 00:24:51,010
[panelist] What's Yuyintang?

408
00:24:51,010 --> 00:24:53,840
It's an underground music venue
in Shanghai.

409
00:24:55,740 --> 00:24:56,820
Hello, Teacher Zhang.

410
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,860
-Hello.
-This is my roommate, Pu Xiaobo.

411
00:24:59,860 --> 00:25:02,160
This is the manager of Yuyintang,
Zhang Haisheng.

412
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,020
-Hello.
-Just call me Pupu.

413
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,520
I wanted to connect you two.

414
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,140
He has a few questions
he wanted to ask you.

415
00:25:09,140 --> 00:25:10,210
-Let's sit here.
-Ok.

416
00:25:11,020 --> 00:25:13,500
[panelist] I've heard this manager
is a great person.

417
00:25:13,500 --> 00:25:15,250
-You can put the guitar down.
-Sure.

418
00:25:16,220 --> 00:25:17,520
What's up?

419
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,280
He's a professional
classical guitarist.

420
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,940
Yes, I play classical guitar.

421
00:25:22,380 --> 00:25:26,420
He's a little lost about
the future of his career.

422
00:25:26,620 --> 00:25:28,780
Are you still studying, or...?

423
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,100
-I'm getting a PhD right now.
-Where?

424
00:25:31,100 --> 00:25:36,160
-Manhattan School of Music.
-That's a very good school.

425
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,960
Yes, I thought there might be
more opportunities abroad.

426
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,960
I was building a network there, but
suddenly returning to China this year...

427
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,000
it was...

428
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,280
The simplest question is...

429
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,880
What do you want?

430
00:25:53,740 --> 00:25:56,940
I still want to be one of those...

431
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,220
classical musicians that perform
in concert halls.

432
00:26:02,220 --> 00:26:05,520
In China...

433
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,700
If you want to be a
classical musician,

434
00:26:07,700 --> 00:26:10,580
a professional musician...

435
00:26:11,620 --> 00:26:13,790
As far as I know,
there aren't many of them.

436
00:26:15,360 --> 00:26:19,600
Their target audience,
compared to the target audience of

437
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,380
an indie band like Zhang Ting's...

438
00:26:21,380 --> 00:26:23,550
is probably smaller.

439
00:26:23,940 --> 00:26:28,260
Only a small percentage of musicians
get really popular.

440
00:26:28,620 --> 00:26:33,280
But most independent musicians
in China struggle a lot.

441
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,980
They don't get much income
just from music.

442
00:26:36,980 --> 00:26:39,620
For someone like you 
who hasn't finished their PhD...

443
00:26:39,620 --> 00:26:43,740
It will be hard to get performance
opportunities.

444
00:26:50,500 --> 00:26:52,880
I understand, but...

445
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:57,080
I still want to see if there's...

446
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,860
an agency that might be interested.

447
00:27:02,380 --> 00:27:03,600
An agency...

448
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,160
For classical music, domestically,

449
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,350
they only recruit through
music schools in China.

450
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,920
-You did your bachelor's abroad.
-Yeah.

451
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,800
So the schools here wouldn't
recommend you.

452
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,820
I guess I'm not ready to give up.
I've studied music for so many years.

453
00:27:21,260 --> 00:27:24,740
If you can be indifferent
to fame and fortune,

454
00:27:24,740 --> 00:27:27,440
you can still realize your dream.

455
00:27:28,220 --> 00:27:31,880
My suggestion is, if you are
determined to go down this path,

456
00:27:32,380 --> 00:27:35,200
you have to find ways to perform.

457
00:27:35,540 --> 00:27:38,640
Without regard 
to the venue or pay.

458
00:27:39,360 --> 00:27:42,960
Even performing on the street or
in bars or restaurants would be good.

459
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:48,220
Anyway, I suggest sticking to
your original idea.

460
00:27:48,420 --> 00:27:50,220
As long as you can persevere,

461
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,290
you will definitely be able
to succeed someday.

462
00:27:59,380 --> 00:28:01,620
[panelist] The manager is so
sincere and honest.

463
00:28:01,620 --> 00:28:05,180
Then, Teacher Zhang, do you think
we could schedule a show here?

464
00:28:05,180 --> 00:28:09,660
Like a special show for
his classical guitar.

465
00:28:11,420 --> 00:28:12,520
Lately...

466
00:28:13,540 --> 00:28:16,120
Do you think there's a chance?

467
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,980
I'm afraid it might be difficult.

468
00:28:18,980 --> 00:28:22,140
Our performance schedule is
a little full.

469
00:28:22,460 --> 00:28:25,140
And for this kind of performance...

470
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,700
We would definitely need
a promotional planning period.

471
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,760
And it wouldn't necessarily
draw a crowd.

472
00:28:35,180 --> 00:28:36,880
Ok. Then...

473
00:28:37,360 --> 00:28:39,358
I have to go now.
We can talk another time.

474
00:28:39,358 --> 00:28:42,200
-Let's come watch a show sometime.
-Yes, come back.

475
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,900
Ok. Thank you.

476
00:28:44,900 --> 00:28:46,520
Ok. Bye, Teacher Zhang.

477
00:28:51,900 --> 00:28:53,160
So depressing.

478
00:28:54,460 --> 00:28:57,120
It's ok. Every time
I see him, he...

479
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,660
But he's right.

480
00:28:59,660 --> 00:29:03,320
Yeah, the way he talks is very
to the point.

481
00:29:04,380 --> 00:29:06,300
Good medicine tastes bitter.

482
00:29:06,940 --> 00:29:10,940
It's true, you really can't support
yourself by playing an instrument.

483
00:29:10,940 --> 00:29:11,840
It's the truth.

484
00:29:16,660 --> 00:29:21,520
I think no matter what style of music,
it's not easy for anyone.

485
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,660
My band has been playing
for a long time.

486
00:29:25,580 --> 00:29:29,420
But I still can't rely on the band's
income to support myself.

487
00:29:29,420 --> 00:29:32,350
I have to have a Taobao [online merch] 
store and make clothes

488
00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:34,020
in order to support myself.

489
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,880
I feel like I've lost all
my self-confidence.

490
00:29:41,300 --> 00:29:46,240
Why don't we take Zhang's advice
and try to do something tonight?

491
00:29:46,620 --> 00:29:48,120
Really?

492
00:29:48,780 --> 00:29:51,300
I think giving it a try might
help you feel less lost.

493
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,860
Stop dwelling on it. Let's go.

494
00:29:56,860 --> 00:29:59,620
It's decided, ok? Let's go.

495
00:30:00,180 --> 00:30:03,440
I'll help you find a cool
pedestrian bridge.

496
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,500
How cool can it be?
I'll have to see.

497
00:30:06,500 --> 00:30:07,880
Very cool.

498
00:30:09,820 --> 00:30:12,570
[panelist] Playing on the street
is pretty good.

499
00:30:20,700 --> 00:30:23,420
I'm still a little apprehensive.
Will this really work?

500
00:30:23,420 --> 00:30:27,150
Once we set up the equipment and you
start playing, you won't be nervous.

501
00:30:27,780 --> 00:30:30,920
I'm not nervous, just not
used to this.

502
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,600
It's ok, you'll adapt.

503
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,920
Here? There're a lot of people here.

504
00:30:38,460 --> 00:30:41,140
[panelist] This girl is so nice,
staying with him.

505
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:48,760
Let's try it.

506
00:30:51,860 --> 00:30:52,660
Yeah.

507
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,200
-There's sound.
-It's distorted, we can't turn it loud.

508
00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,840
It's a little quiet.

509
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,600
I'll stand here and listen.

510
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,020
It's not bad.

511
00:31:27,860 --> 00:31:30,740
-I'll play you the song you like.
-Ok.

512
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,460
-This is a little romantic.
-The status of your bet is uncertain.

513
00:31:51,460 --> 00:31:53,280
Yeah, it's romantic.

514
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,520
Take my arms,

515
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,200
I never use them.

516
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,060
Your goodbye

517
00:32:05,060 --> 00:32:09,140
left me with eyes that cry

518
00:32:09,140 --> 00:32:11,560
How can I

519
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,840
go on without you?

520
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,480
[panelist] He plays so well.

521
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,480
So why not take ...

522
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,480
If you don't put a bucket out,
how will people give you money?

523
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,040
What he wants isn't money.

524
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,700
He wants people to appreciate him.

525
00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:34,370
People only show appreciation for you
by giving money.

526
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,000
-You're good.
-Thank you.

527
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,280
[panelist] Someone gave money!

528
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,880
-Open for business.
-We got a donation.

529
00:33:09,500 --> 00:33:11,620
It's fun to watch passersby react.

530
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,240
Thank you.

531
00:33:25,860 --> 00:33:27,540
[panelist] Someone else gave money.

532
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:35,820
Keep going.

533
00:33:36,380 --> 00:33:37,980
That's not the problem.

534
00:33:41,500 --> 00:33:43,390
[panelist] His feelings are
complicated.

535
00:33:43,390 --> 00:33:46,440
-I feel like he's going to cry.
-Yes, he's both happy and upset.

536
00:33:49,220 --> 00:33:52,180
No one is stopping to listen,
just walking past.

537
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,220
[panelist] See, what he needs is
people to appreciate his talent.

538
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,700
When we first started going to the
livehouse to perform,

539
00:34:01,700 --> 00:34:04,380
sometimes we would have a really
awkward audience.

540
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,550
[panelist] There are people
taking pictures.

541
00:34:36,139 --> 00:34:38,420
How much did they give?
Let me see.

542
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,139
Three yuan.

543
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,500
Four yuan.

544
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:52,940
I put it here because--

545
00:34:53,510 --> 00:34:55,546
[panelist] Why is he angry
all of a sudden?

546
00:34:55,546 --> 00:34:58,280
He's fallen apart.
He's in a terrible mood.

547
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:02,200
It's ok. You'll have all kinds of
audiences when you perform.

548
00:35:05,060 --> 00:35:06,660
I'm done.

549
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:14,160
-I'm not here to beg for food.
-Pupu.

550
00:35:17,260 --> 00:35:20,540
Don't go! You're really done?

551
00:35:21,140 --> 00:35:22,860
I'm not here to beg.

552
00:35:24,140 --> 00:35:26,160
[panelist] Speaker! Bag!

553
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,820
-She's nice enough to get your stuff.
-Yeah.

554
00:36:12,260 --> 00:36:15,880
Hello.

555
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,680
What happened?

556
00:36:24,980 --> 00:36:26,820
He's not in a good mood
right now.

557
00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:31,780
I'll go up and talk to him first.
I'll fill you in later.

558
00:36:45,540 --> 00:36:48,900
[panelist] Will that upset Gaogao?

559
00:36:49,180 --> 00:36:51,180
I hope so! Come on!

560
00:36:51,180 --> 00:36:54,600
The profile picture is
changing back and forth.

561
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,320
It's time to strike back.

562
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,360
-Gaogao.
-Gaogao.

563
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,400
Gaogao, get up there.

564
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,500
-The boy you like...
-Has been hurt.

565
00:37:04,500 --> 00:37:06,720
He needs a little love.

566
00:37:24,260 --> 00:37:25,480
I'm coming in.

567
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,340
[panelist] This girl is too kind.

568
00:37:50,740 --> 00:37:52,220
Are you feeling any better?

569
00:38:08,180 --> 00:38:10,360
What were we doing?

570
00:38:13,700 --> 00:38:17,400
Just begging like street beggars?

571
00:38:24,620 --> 00:38:29,440
Why did I spend so many years
learning music? For this?

572
00:38:33,900 --> 00:38:35,870
For people to throw me a couple
of coins?

573
00:38:36,740 --> 00:38:38,340
This performance...

574
00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:42,720
the point wasn't to get money.

575
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:46,520
I just wanted them to listen
to me more seriously.

576
00:38:48,300 --> 00:38:51,040
Not every performance will
be like you imagined.

577
00:38:53,430 --> 00:38:56,480
A lot of my performances turn out
differently from how I hope.

578
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,400
What am I doing?

579
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,400
I studied for so many years, but
I can't even go to a concert hall here?

580
00:39:02,720 --> 00:39:04,650
[panelist] Why are you arguing
with her?

581
00:39:04,650 --> 00:39:07,830
You're acting like she's the one
not letting you play in a concert.

582
00:39:10,460 --> 00:39:11,400
This year...

583
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,840
No matter what, I'll have my own
concert in Shanghai.

584
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,500
[panelist] Look at Gaogao.

585
00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:28,000
Strike back!

586
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,360
Keni, your profile picture.

587
00:39:31,460 --> 00:39:34,420
She cares about him.
Roommates care about each other.

588
00:39:34,420 --> 00:39:37,730
-I care about my roommate too.
-Do you listen at your roommate's door?

589
00:39:37,980 --> 00:39:40,080
That's caring a little too much,
isn't it?

590
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,100
What are you doing now?

591
00:40:00,700 --> 00:40:03,060
-I have to do some work.
-Ok.

592
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,900
I'm going to the play room.

593
00:40:12,100 --> 00:40:13,340
Hello.

594
00:40:15,780 --> 00:40:17,700
What are you doing here?

595
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:18,960
Um...

596
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:20,960
What is it?

597
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,460
Pupu and ARe are inside.

598
00:40:24,460 --> 00:40:28,900
And...it seems like Pupu isn't
in a good mood.

599
00:40:28,900 --> 00:40:30,330
So maybe don't go in for now.

600
00:40:30,330 --> 00:40:32,420
Pupu's not happy?
I'll go in and see.

601
00:40:32,420 --> 00:40:35,120
-Wait.
-Wait for what?

602
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,070
-What are you doing?
-I'm going in to see.

603
00:40:37,070 --> 00:40:39,980
-Isn't he upset?
-They're talking, don't interrupt them.

604
00:40:39,980 --> 00:40:41,840
-Pupu-
-You don't know what happened.

605
00:40:42,660 --> 00:40:44,740
[panelist] He's so funny.

606
00:40:44,740 --> 00:40:47,060
What are you doing here?
Why aren't you going in?

607
00:40:47,060 --> 00:40:48,080
Aren't you two close?

608
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,880
-It's your fault.
-My fault? What did I do?

609
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:56,680
-What does it have to do with me?
-Did you tell Pupu I like him?

610
00:40:58,860 --> 00:41:01,030
Did I? No, I was just kidding
around with him.

611
00:41:01,540 --> 00:41:04,020
-Don't-- I'm going in.
-Wait.

612
00:41:04,020 --> 00:41:05,220
I'm going in.

613
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,120
He took it seriously. He told me.

614
00:41:08,780 --> 00:41:10,460
Let me go in.

615
00:41:12,100 --> 00:41:15,500
[panelist] Carmon is upset again.
She thinks they're acting too close.

616
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,000
I'm not talking to you right now.

617
00:41:20,140 --> 00:41:22,420
[panelist] He saw!

618
00:41:23,940 --> 00:41:25,420
An endless, bitter war.

619
00:41:27,100 --> 00:41:29,040
These people are unbelievable.

620
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,880
Didn't you want to go in?
Why are you sitting here?

621
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,720
I wanted to see what was going on.

622
00:41:35,540 --> 00:41:36,300
Sit there.

623
00:41:37,260 --> 00:41:38,160
Why?

624
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,840
-What for?
-Sit there.

625
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:41,180
Why?

626
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,180
I don't want you next to me.

627
00:41:43,180 --> 00:41:44,780
What? Why?

628
00:41:44,780 --> 00:41:46,000
What did I do?

629
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,920
You really don't know?

630
00:41:48,620 --> 00:41:51,380
She didn't want you to go in,
why did you badger about it?

631
00:41:51,380 --> 00:41:54,460
What do you mean badger?
I care about my roommates.

632
00:41:54,460 --> 00:41:55,620
Of course I--

633
00:41:55,620 --> 00:41:57,290
You care about your roommate,

634
00:41:57,290 --> 00:41:59,180
but do you care about our problem?

635
00:41:59,180 --> 00:42:01,520
What kind of-
What do these things--

636
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:02,540
Go sit there.

637
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:03,950
But-

638
00:42:05,140 --> 00:42:06,800
She's so quick to anger.

639
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,680
She's mad that he's not
thinking about their future.

640
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,420
He wants to gossip about
other people instead.

641
00:42:13,420 --> 00:42:15,180
She's really controlling.

642
00:42:18,240 --> 00:42:20,180
But- what's wrong now?

643
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:23,380
What is it?

644
00:42:24,100 --> 00:42:26,680
We only just finished
having an argument-

645
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:31,880
and immediately you just-
you make me feel like you don't care.

646
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,000
About <i>our</i> problem.

647
00:42:35,620 --> 00:42:39,240
[panelist] Shouldn't you say
he's a good person?

648
00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:42,040
Going to help others
means that I don't care about us?

649
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,080
Then that means--

650
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,920
I should only think about us
and ignore everyone around me.

651
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,990
Only think about us,
is that what you want?

652
00:42:48,740 --> 00:42:49,600
You-

653
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:55,640
You didn't even properly
think about our problem

654
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,220
before concerning yourself
with someone else's problem.

655
00:42:59,060 --> 00:42:59,880
But I-

656
00:43:01,740 --> 00:43:03,600
How should he think about
their problem?

657
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Should he just sit at the table
and think about their problem?

658
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,100
Screw his life, screw his friends,

659
00:43:09,100 --> 00:43:10,880
screw all his other relationships?

660
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,520
Let it go.

661
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,500
Don't be mad.

662
00:43:13,500 --> 00:43:15,400
Ziqi, let it go.

663
00:43:16,100 --> 00:43:18,300
I didn't just set aside
our problem.

664
00:43:18,300 --> 00:43:20,020
I just happened to encounter them

665
00:43:20,020 --> 00:43:22,060
and thought I could help my roommate.

666
00:43:22,060 --> 00:43:24,280
I don't think there's
anything wrong with that.

667
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:25,740
And about our thing,

668
00:43:25,980 --> 00:43:28,200
what else is there to discuss?

669
00:43:28,540 --> 00:43:31,540
We didn't even arrive at an answer.

670
00:43:31,540 --> 00:43:33,640
How can I give you an answer?

671
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,540
How can I know,
after I graduate,

672
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,160
Where I'll go, what I'll do?
How can I know that right now?

673
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:45,400
I can't answer that.

674
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,380
Do you think it's practical for me
to have an answer right now?

675
00:43:48,380 --> 00:43:51,040
You just want to hear me say those
unrealistic promises,

676
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,090
and you'll be happy, right?
I can say them.

677
00:43:56,300 --> 00:44:01,160
I just need something a little
more clear.

678
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,300
I need to feel like you're
taking this to heart.

679
00:44:04,300 --> 00:44:07,860
But you aren't. You're just
smiling like an idiot.

680
00:44:07,860 --> 00:44:10,140
I didn't say I wasn't 
thinking about it.

681
00:44:10,140 --> 00:44:11,440
I just feel like-

682
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,800
Maybe you are thinking about it,
but if it's not clear for me to see,

683
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,600
-what am I supposed to think?
-So you don't believe me?

684
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:21,120
I don't not believe you. But your
attitude is strange.

685
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,090
What's strange? I went to
help a roommate.

686
00:44:23,090 --> 00:44:23,960
Is that strange?

687
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,190
[panelist] Didi's thinking
is very clear.

688
00:44:26,190 --> 00:44:27,000
Yeah.

689
00:44:34,260 --> 00:44:35,360
Great.

690
00:45:10,260 --> 00:45:11,500
Over here...

691
00:45:12,420 --> 00:45:15,460
Deng Ziqi is going crazy.

692
00:45:15,460 --> 00:45:17,230
She was slapping her legs
and yelling.

693
00:45:17,230 --> 00:45:18,120
Say it again.

694
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,080
I already forgot what I said. Just-

695
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,840
"He's not your son!"

696
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,010
"Is he your puppet?!"

697
00:45:23,010 --> 00:45:25,340
"Even if he was your son,
you can't be like this!"

698
00:45:25,340 --> 00:45:26,300
No, what I said was,

699
00:45:26,300 --> 00:45:28,980
Even if he was your son,
you should still give him space.

700
00:45:28,980 --> 00:45:30,060
She remembered. Yeah!

701
00:45:30,060 --> 00:45:33,440
How someone else thinks,
how he acts,

702
00:45:33,740 --> 00:45:37,100
if you keep putting pressure on him
and trying to influence him,

703
00:45:37,100 --> 00:45:39,730
and you're forcing him to think
according to your logic,

704
00:45:39,730 --> 00:45:41,560
-is he your puppet?
-Agreed.

705
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:42,860
-Right?
-Yeah.

706
00:45:42,860 --> 00:45:45,560
She's so controlling.
This kind of person is scary.

707
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,180
She's insecure.

708
00:45:47,180 --> 00:45:49,540
Her worst enemy right now
is herself.

709
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:54,240
This must be the biggest reason
she hasn't found love for so long.

710
00:45:54,240 --> 00:45:56,940
Carmon wants him to only 
be thinking about her.

711
00:45:56,940 --> 00:45:58,820
To only be thinking 
about their issues.

712
00:45:58,820 --> 00:46:04,160
Do you think we didn't consider
their age difference enough?

713
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,900
I think Carmon's insecurity
is understandable.

714
00:46:08,420 --> 00:46:12,960
We're just worried that they won't 
be able to stay together like this.

715
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,320
There's no way.

716
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,780
Maybe Didi will get controlled by her
so much that he'll think it's fine.

717
00:46:17,780 --> 00:46:19,240
Didi will get used to it.

718
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,200
Because he's still young.

719
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,300
I think if they stay together
for a few months,

720
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,220
Didi won't be the one to change.

721
00:46:26,220 --> 00:46:27,960
-It has to be Carmon.
-Yes.

722
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,580
Carmon will have to realize
that she can't be like this.

723
00:46:30,580 --> 00:46:33,200
If she can change,
they might have a chance.

724
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,160
There's no point in Didi changing.

725
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,000
His changes will be never-ending.

726
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,440
We'll have to see what they're like
in two years,

727
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:45,030
-when the honeymoon period has faded.
-You want to watch them for two years?

728
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:49,780
If she can change, it will be
because Didi's thinking is clear.

729
00:46:49,780 --> 00:46:52,400
I thought Didi's rhetorical
questions were all on point.

730
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,260
Yes, Didi's pushback against her
was clearly articulated.

731
00:46:56,260 --> 00:46:57,940
Yeah.

732
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,100
And then there's Pupu.

733
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:02,640
He's pretty temperamental.

734
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:07,240
It was ridiculous how he spoke
to ARe just now.

735
00:47:07,240 --> 00:47:09,220
It's not like she put you
out of work.

736
00:47:09,220 --> 00:47:10,940
Yeah, I agree.

737
00:47:10,940 --> 00:47:13,160
And she was so kind to help him.

738
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,920
Introducing you to the manager,
taking you to busk,

739
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,340
even encouraging you,
and you're angry? Seriously?

740
00:47:18,340 --> 00:47:22,440
Based on our understanding of Pupu,
he must know he did something wrong.

741
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,410
He'll apologize later, but he
couldn't help it in the moment.

742
00:47:25,940 --> 00:47:28,860
-ARe has experienced all of this.
-Yes.

743
00:47:28,860 --> 00:47:32,180
So she told him that he just has to play.

744
00:47:32,180 --> 00:47:35,740
Why did someone throwing you a
couple of coins upset you?

745
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,090
And you should take the weather
into consideration, right?

746
00:47:39,090 --> 00:47:41,750
-Yeah.
-It's cold: who's going to listen to you?

747
00:47:41,750 --> 00:47:43,300
You'd have to be so bundled up.

748
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,410
There are really those kinds of
performances, though.

749
00:47:47,410 --> 00:47:50,700
With a whole symphony behind
one guy playing the guitar.

750
00:47:50,700 --> 00:47:52,870
-You're talking about concert musicians.
-Yes.

751
00:47:52,870 --> 00:47:55,460
-There can only be so many of those.
-True.

752
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,380
So many people in the world play piano.

753
00:47:58,380 --> 00:48:00,580
But you only know Lang Lang,
Zhao Yinyin...

754
00:48:00,580 --> 00:48:02,240
-Yes.
-Li Yundi.

755
00:48:02,240 --> 00:48:05,450
That's it. So many pianists out there,
but how many can you name?

756
00:48:05,450 --> 00:48:06,280
That's it.

757
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,720
It's easy for people
with artistic ideals

758
00:48:10,720 --> 00:48:12,740
to fall into wishful thinking.

759
00:48:12,740 --> 00:48:13,700
Don't.

760
00:48:13,700 --> 00:48:16,920
I think if you can't let go of
the idea that

761
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,660
you're destined for something,
you won't succeed.

762
00:48:19,660 --> 00:48:20,940
Yes.

763
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,300
You have to be thick-skinned
to be an artist.

764
00:48:23,660 --> 00:48:26,520
You have to be willing to 
put aside your dignity.

765
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:31,720
I was on another show once that had us
fly to a foreign country.

766
00:48:31,720 --> 00:48:35,060
We were all tasked with busking
on the street,

767
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,740
because no one abroad would
recognize us.

768
00:48:37,740 --> 00:48:43,520
My teammate and I also
put a guitar case on the ground

769
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,220
and started to perform.

770
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,800
Some people threw money into our case,
and we were really happy.

771
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,240
Some people were like,

772
00:48:52,720 --> 00:48:54,500
What are you doing?

773
00:48:54,500 --> 00:48:56,120
Don't block the path.

774
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,700
Really disdainful types.

775
00:48:57,780 --> 00:49:01,680
Some of the other participants
who finished the challenge said

776
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,980
that it was really hard,
that it made them feel undignified.

777
00:49:04,980 --> 00:49:08,480
But I thought, if you look at it
from another angle,

778
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,340
isn't this the reason 
you make music and art?

779
00:49:11,340 --> 00:49:14,140
Because there are too many
indifferent people in the world.

780
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,440
That was so inspirational.

781
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,020
-You're clapping for yourself.
-Well said.

782
00:49:24,020 --> 00:49:26,040
Ok, let's watch the next segment.

783
00:49:31,720 --> 00:49:33,080
What happened?

784
00:49:34,780 --> 00:49:36,000
Today...

785
00:49:36,580 --> 00:49:40,120
I took Pupu to meet the
manager of Yuyintang.

786
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,560
And after that, I took him
to a subway entrance.

787
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,460
To busk?

788
00:49:45,980 --> 00:49:47,540
Pretty much.

789
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,920
The results weren't great.

790
00:49:52,540 --> 00:49:56,120
After a few people came over
and tossed him a few coins...

791
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,640
When the first person gave a coin,
maybe he was a little happy.

792
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,760
But when the next few people
tossed in coins,

793
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:06,680
maybe he gradually began feeling like 
they weren't there to hear his music.

794
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,240
Like he was a beggar?

795
00:50:08,240 --> 00:50:11,400
Yeah. It felt like a blow to him.

796
00:50:14,540 --> 00:50:16,550
[panelist] Gaogao understands 
the reason.

797
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,460
I feel like helping him
perform in a concert hall...

798
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,580
would be the only way
to make him feel better.

799
00:50:25,100 --> 00:50:28,120
I think we can. Let's look for
a venue.

800
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,140
-Yeah.
-And deal with the logistics.

801
00:50:32,340 --> 00:50:33,210
Then we...

802
00:50:33,820 --> 00:50:36,580
We can talk about it later
with Carmon and Didi.

803
00:50:36,580 --> 00:50:38,580
And we can all think about how
to do it.

804
00:50:57,100 --> 00:50:58,140
Hello.

805
00:50:59,100 --> 00:51:00,920
How are you? Are you okay now?

806
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,740
I'm okay. Much better.

807
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,510
You may be better, but I have
a problem.

808
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,220
I have no words.

809
00:51:16,060 --> 00:51:16,960
I'll sit here.

810
00:51:18,300 --> 00:51:20,660
It's fine, I'm just really speechless,
you know?

811
00:51:20,980 --> 00:51:22,300
What's the matter?

812
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:24,940
Carmon and I came back...

813
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,660
We had a small fight when
we were out.

814
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,880
It wasn't that bad by itself.

815
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,510
But when we came back, you were
in there, so we went up.

816
00:51:33,510 --> 00:51:34,900
We saw Gaogao standing there.

817
00:51:34,900 --> 00:51:38,011
I wanted to go in the playroom, 
but she said you were inside.

818
00:51:38,011 --> 00:51:40,014
She said not to go in
since you were upset.

819
00:51:40,014 --> 00:51:42,140
I said, so what? I'll go in
and talk to him.

820
00:51:42,140 --> 00:51:44,900
At that point, Carmon came back down
with her laptop.

821
00:51:45,740 --> 00:51:48,260
I looked at her and she
glared back at me.

822
00:51:49,620 --> 00:51:52,540
I could tell something was wrong,
so I followed her.

823
00:51:53,020 --> 00:51:55,220
She probably saw 
you and Gaogao together.

824
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,480
It wasn't that. It had nothing
to do with that.

825
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:01,400
It was our own problem.

826
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,800
She's 29. She asked me to
tell her my plans for the future.

827
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:08,089
But you--

828
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,420
But how can I solve this problem?
I have no way of solving it right now.

829
00:52:12,420 --> 00:52:14,880
Yeah, it's an impossible demand.

830
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,960
If I said to her, Carmon...

831
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:22,280
after I graduate in a few years,
I can guarantee you all these things,

832
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:24,260
isn't that lying?

833
00:52:24,260 --> 00:52:26,020
Yeah. You...

834
00:52:26,240 --> 00:52:28,420
haven't even graduated yet.
How could you...

835
00:52:29,900 --> 00:52:32,700
I feel like this isn't how 
a relationship should be.

836
00:52:33,660 --> 00:52:36,640
[panelist] You're taking a class.
Relationship Class.

837
00:52:37,420 --> 00:52:40,720
This is just part of dating.

838
00:52:40,720 --> 00:52:43,720
No matter what I do, she says
I'm not taking things seriously.

839
00:52:43,720 --> 00:52:45,540
Or she says I have a bad attitude.

840
00:52:45,540 --> 00:52:48,680
Maybe she feels insecure.....

841
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:51,780
[panelist] What is it?

842
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,510
I've been listening at the door
for ten minutes.

843
00:53:04,240 --> 00:53:05,160
Get out.

844
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,860
[panelist] New member?

845
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,300
Which one are you?

846
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,880
He seems familiar.
I've seen him somewhere.

847
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,200
New guy! New guy!

848
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,240
I feel like I've seen him before, 
but I forget where.

849
00:54:10,240 --> 00:54:11,560
He seems like a male idol.

850
00:54:12,580 --> 00:54:14,620
But would an idol come to
a dating show?

851
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,560
Maybe he just wants to make friends.
It's not like you have to date.

852
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:23,140
-Carmon really scared me just now.
-She said she listened for ten minutes.

853
00:54:23,140 --> 00:54:25,520
I feel like even the cameraman
was scared.

854
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,430
He was shaking when he
turned the camera.

855
00:54:27,430 --> 00:54:29,220
It was difficult to turn around.

856
00:54:29,220 --> 00:54:32,040
Carmon really is a little scary.

857
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:35,160
Her facial expression and tone
were really scary.

858
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,330
It wasn't the first time 
she spoke like this.

859
00:54:37,330 --> 00:54:39,240
Earlier she said, "You sit over there."

860
00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:40,620
"Don't come near me."

861
00:54:40,620 --> 00:54:41,840
"There! There!"

862
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,240
-It's happened a lot.
-This was the scariest.

863
00:54:44,240 --> 00:54:47,500
She gives you the feeling like
she's some big boss.

864
00:54:47,500 --> 00:54:51,760
It's like when you're in school and
the dean is watching you from behind.

865
00:54:51,860 --> 00:54:53,340
Exactly, just like that.

866
00:54:53,340 --> 00:54:56,480
Some people are on their phones
and the dean is like,

867
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:58,540
-Come outside.
-What are you doing?

868
00:54:58,540 --> 00:54:59,740
Calm down, everyone.

869
00:54:59,740 --> 00:55:05,100
Before Chinese New Year, Carmon was
the delicate victim of our show.

870
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,700
In the Year of the Ox, why is
she suddenly...

871
00:55:08,700 --> 00:55:11,180
-Reared up like a bull.
-So bullish.

872
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,000
In dating, she really...

873
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,600
They say relationships
change people for the better.

874
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:24,400
She's jealous and insecure,
so she wants him to change.

875
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,460
To be honest, I think...

876
00:55:26,460 --> 00:55:31,680
Don't blame it on Didi's age and say
she's insecure because he's young.

877
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,000
I think she's just like this
in relationships.

878
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,400
That's why she seems so natural
behaving like this.

879
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:37,500
Yes.

880
00:55:37,500 --> 00:55:42,360
I'm just wondering if Didi
is going to stand up for himself

881
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,200
and push back against her until
maybe slowly...

882
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,180
she'll change to become
less controlling.

883
00:55:48,180 --> 00:55:49,520
That would be a good result.

884
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,450
Let's see what will happen next episode.

885
00:55:51,450 --> 00:55:53,080
-Ok.
-See you next time, friends!

886
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:54,971
Until next time, Shanghai Share Life!

887
00:55:54,971 --> 00:55:59,331
[Translated and timed by jackie]
[Reviewed by hearthrose]