9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Translation & Subtitles: thoseguiltyeyes | scandal-heaven.com[br]⠀[br]Hello! RINA here. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Today's video is one where I'll be chatting at home for the first time in forever. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Hasn't it been a really long time? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Lately I've been filming vlogs of stuff I do when I go out, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so it makes me feel that it's been a really long time since I've done this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It feels kind of weird. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I asked people to send in stuff like what's been bothering them lately, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 what they've been thinking about, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or any large or small problems. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'll be selecting a few of those and talking about them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A lot of them overlapped. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like, there were a lot who were thinking the same thing, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or worrying about the same thing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There were also a lot of things that I could relate to. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It made me think that everyone really does think the same kind of things. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'll talk and answer them leisurely as we think together. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 (Before that...) 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A lot of my viewers are around the same age as me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'll be turning 32 in August, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and mostly everyone is around that age. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I felt that the problems unique to my generation 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and that the way you think changes with each generation. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was like, "Yeah, I guess [people my age] do think of things like that now." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 At any rate, I'll start reading from the first screenshot I took. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "This is my third year in the workforce. Every day is like a routine, and it seems like every year there's less and less fun things to do." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Right? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You have to go to work every day and come home. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've always been in the music scene, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and I think it's a job that involves meeting new people 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and doing things in new places relatively often. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you look at it roughly, the process is very similar. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We make new music, promote it, tour, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 tour while making new music, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and record that music after touring. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's a very luxurious way of life, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but I totally understand [situations like the question asker]. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, if you ask people around you how to keep things fresh, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think there will come a time when it will be a little difficult. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I think the only way to do that is to learn something new, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or find something you like to do, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or study something new as an adult. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In that sense, sometimes you have no choice but to become someone new. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 For me, how I should edit a video is different from what I'd do with music. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm not saying that right now it feels really fresh, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but when I went to French school, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it really felt like I was off to a new start. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Also, as I mentioned in my video about this, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've been doing Pilates to work out and refresh myself. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Recently, every day--it's really a recent thing-- 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've been trying to spend an hour a day 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 studying something that has nothing to do with my lifestyle or work. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe do something like that. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think you have to get things going on your own. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's impossible to prepare a fresh environment every day. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah, it takes time, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but in the end, I think the only thing you can do 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is to make a new move on your own. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 On to the next question. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "II haven't had any feelings of love for a man for more than 5 years now." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I see. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's like, "What does it mean to love, anyway?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Love, huh. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The power of love is incredible. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It can make you do anything. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The moment you fall in love with someone, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or the period of time, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 is really a great thing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But sometimes I think that if I could make myself happy, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I would really be invincible. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Someone might think I'm really lonely, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but I try to be myself and have fun on my own. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 At any rate, I think I try to be the kind of person 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who can have fun by myself. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure I'm not doing it very well, though. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you're having a good time and you're feeling fulfilled, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 maybe there's someone you'd like to be with 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or someone you'd be attracted to. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you're mentally open like that, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 you might have a better chance of meeting someone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But as you get older, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it feels like you're less likely to have people that you like. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Or rather, the number lessens. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There's more and more to consider. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So it'd be nice if you could make yourself as happy as possible 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and have good encounters and feelings of love 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 appear somewhere along the way, wouldn't it? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I totally get you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I totally understand this situation. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I often wonder how I and my family will live in the future. I'm filled with anxiety." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Family, huh... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm the eldest out of five kids. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My mom was a single mother. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also played the father role in the family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's why I do a lot of thinking. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Like wondering how we can all be happy in the end. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Since I love my job, there are times when I'm like, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I need to work hard and earn money." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's not the only thing, though. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There are definitely times when I feel anxious 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 because my family is one I have to support properly. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Since this person might not have the same circumstances as me, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 they may be feeling a different kind of anxiety. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I definitely feel that way sometimes, too. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I hope we can keep the band going for as long and healthy as possible, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but I wonder how I would be able live my life 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 if something difficult happened to me, such as my health declining. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's no good if I can't look after my family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 What I should do at that time... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This is not a negative thing in terms of the band at all, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but something I think about calmly as a human being. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Sometimes it's hard to find the answer, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and I get anxious and scared. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But in the end, I feel like I have no choice but to do what's in front of me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I totally get that about family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's because you care about them so much that you're worried. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I understand. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also play the father figure in financial situations. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've been paying for my sisters' tuitions all this time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I pay all the rent and living expenses at my parents' house. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Sometimes I feel like it's hard to talk about money with others. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think that instability there would have a huge impact on one's mental health. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 For me too... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But there's no choice but to work hard, ultimately. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There's no choice but for me to do it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think that's why I've been able to stay motivated and try all kinds of things. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Sometimes I wonder if I'd be able to work this hard if it was just for me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Sometimes it can be an anxiety factor. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think that knowing there's something you need to look after can be motivating. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Human relations and communication in the workplace are difficult, aren't they?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They are difficult. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In my case... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The band's been together since we were young. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We have a very special bond. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So it's a very difficult relationship to explain in words. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But each one of us is an individual person, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and although we're friends who have been playing music together as a band for a long time, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 we are also different from each other. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's good to be involved 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 while maintaining a good sense of distance and emotional space. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's why we've been able to support each other 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and be a band for such a long time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In that way... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think I've been adjusting and thinking about it a lot more since we've grown up. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But the relationship between us is a bit too special, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so this may not be helpful to others. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Also, we have close relationships to those at our management office and record label. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think that's the main thing about interpersonal relationships at work in my case. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But that might also be a special case. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it depends on the office, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but in our case, we are very close, like a family. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 At this time, I really want to separate and cherish my private life, in a good way, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so, honestly, I think there are more things we don't mention or talk about than before. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Not that there's anything wrong with it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's why I think our relationships keep changing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You yourself change as well. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It would be good if we could all communicate what we need to convey, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 maintain a good distance, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and build relationships at work while protecting ourselves. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've never really experienced what it's like to have a boss and subordinates like in a company, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so I might not understand all that properly. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't think I know anything about it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I can imagine it, but I'm sure there are things you won't understand unless you're there experiencing it, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so I don't think I can say anything adequate. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure it must be hard. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's really commendable. It really is. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think that's impressive. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We speak really casually to the head of our office. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's what it's like [where we are]. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's how close we are. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But that doesn't happen very often, I'm sure. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's why there are so many things that I can't even imagine. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But there's a part of me that believes that if you really convey something properly, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it will get through to everyone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It'd be nice to be involved without it being too difficult. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Here's a cute question. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I'm going to Tokyo Disneyland for the first time in forever. I'm so unsure what to eat at the park." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's so cute. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So tranquil. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Disney's great. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I also went recently with a friend. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It might have been a while ago, actually. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It was fun. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I always have to have a churro. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's delicious. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Please have fun! 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They might have already gone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I get emotional easily and regret it later." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I get you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I totally get you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because you value something and have passion for it... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Your words become strong, fast, and sharp. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because, you know... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't think it's possible to be emotional without passion. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You know you'll regret it, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and you'll probably hate yourself for being that way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's great to be able to change things in creative ways, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but I think it's really great to have something you're passionate about, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 something you can put your heart and soul into, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 to the point where it's something really emotional for you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm totally the same way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm totally like that when I talk about the band. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There are times when I wonder why I said something the way I did, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or how I could have communicated it better. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's why sometimes I try talking about that topic one more time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There are many times when you can't apologize properly. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Those times are when you reaffirm that you are passionate about it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's been a long time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But yeah, in that way... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's great when there are things that you can really get emotionally attached to. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I think it would be good if we could talk about the things we want to change, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even if it's just a little bit at a time, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 or about the things we think we did wrong that we can make up for later, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 even if it's after the fact. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure there will be times when they'll understand, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and you'll feel better, too. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I'm tired of comparing my life with my friends all the time." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Looking at social media, right? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You subsciously compare things. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Isn't that the same for everyone? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If there are accounts that make you feel bad when you see their posts, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's fine if you mute them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In regards to social media, that is. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I wonder if there are times when they do comparisons during conversations. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Because everything in your life is something you've experienced yourself, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think there are times when you feel like there are no improvements in your life. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I feel like there are so many cases where someone's life is insanely special from someone else's perspective. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're like, "That's not what my life's like." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure there's a lot of things you don't realize, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like the parts that other people envy and think are amazing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 In fact, I think it might happen in your own life too. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I'm a 24-year-old woman. I'm going out with someone 12 years older than me, and it's hard to keep up because my money sense differs." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe you should talk to them about this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're dating, after all. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's better that the two of you talk about it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 For the long run, as well. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it'd be a good idea to honestly discuss what you had written to me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I'm going overseas for a year soon for work, and I'm wondering if I should go out with someone I like right now." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You mean it'd end up being a long-distance relationship, right? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's fine to go out with them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Surprisingly, a year goes by so quickly. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 They could go overseas if they want. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You can call each other and stay in touch. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Maybe I'm the type of person who doesn't think of distance as a problem. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's a good thing when two people like and are attracted to each other. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It might not be easy to see each other, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but what about when you are living in the same country? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 However, I think there's a possibility it'll become a special time that you can say afterwards was a good time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's really cool when women work hard for a year overseas like this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Ah, I got one of these questions. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Now that I'm at the age where I have friends who are getting married or living together, I feel anxious even though I've never been in a relationship." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Almost all of the questions I got are like this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 When I ask for questions, most of them are like this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There's really no way to solve this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Everyone is different, so there's no need to worry. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But it is true that when you think about your body and such, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 it's natural that you feel like you're counting backwards, especially for women. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure there will be a lot of things to think about, like whether you'd have a baby or not. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I get it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm wondering what's going to happen to me too, really. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 With that in mind... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But there's always so much to do in front of me. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Just because I take a break doesn't mean I'm getting married. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've been in my band for a long time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Yeah, I don't know anymore. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But my married friends say that it's really all about timing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 A lot of people say they never thought it would be like this, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and I also think that's how it must be. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So, to rewind a bit, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm the type of person who thinks it's better to have a foundation where I'm fine even if I'm all alone. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'd like to be able to live a normal and happy life on my own, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 and then go out with someone or not, get married or not. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's like we'll have new kind of fun when we're together. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's what I feel right now. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's what I'm feeling now. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I get you. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Isn't it the same for everyone? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So don't think you're the only one. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Make yourself happy by thinking that you're not in any particular hurry. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It doesn't have to be fun all the time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it would be nice to have that, to be able to live somehow in a good way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Marriage is not the ultimate goal. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 And then there's a lot of new and difficult things to do. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "This is about interior design preferences. I just moved, so I'm unsure of what to do. RINA, what theme do you have at your place?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Oh, they moved? It's fun to design new places. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I kind of like antique vibes. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I go to flea markets. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I got that mirror in back of me at a flea market. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've bought antiques in Europe, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 like that picture frame next to [the mirror]. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've bought stuff from vintage shops in Osaka. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I go to stores like that when we go overseas on tour. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I've bought lamps and such. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Hold on a sec. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This one. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I bought this recently. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I bought this in Paris recently. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I collect stuff from various places while traveling. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Something like that. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Also, my sofa is beige. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 My tables are also mostly beige. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Beige might be my go-to color. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Beige. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Beige in color. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Ah, this one... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "If I can't congratulate my bias on their marriage, would I be semi-disqualified [as a fan] because I love them too much?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Ah, but...yeah... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It is shocking, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 when fans are suddenly informed like that. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We're all human, of course. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Even if you understand that they're in love and has a private life, it's still shocking, I'm sure. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You've been supporting them with your time and money for a long time. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't think that disqualifies you as a fan. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I'm sure there are people who feel that way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But things like that are not something you can control. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 The artists as well. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's someone's life, and they are free to choose to do things as they see fit. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I totally understand. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I get it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I wonder if fans would congratulate me if I got married. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 All of the questions from here on are about marriage. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "Can I be happy without getting married?" 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I don't think I need to get married, but everyone I know is in a rush to get married." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "After meeting more than 30 people on a dating app, no matter how much I think about it, I prefer my ex-girlfriend. I'm already heartbroken." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But you worked really hard. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You made a change and took action. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's impressive, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 meeting over 30 people. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It takes a lot of power to meet people, doesn't it? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're meeting someone for the first time, and you've done it 30 times. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's impressive. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I see. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Your ex-girlfriend. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 This is difficult. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you have high expectations, you might end up hurting yourself. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But why not try talking [to your ex] just once? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you're able to. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You could just meet up. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you really think you can't handle it anymore, why not confess your feelings? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I really feel like that could help sort some things out. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I feel like just properly conveying your feelings would make a difference. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I hope you meet someone good. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I'll be quitting my job tomorrow. I'm in the process of looking for a new job, but I'm not sure if I'll find a good one." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's great. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I have a girl friend who recently decided to change jobs. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 We're about the same age. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She doesn't have a clear idea of what she wants to do or what she wants to do next, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so it's difficult for her to choose a company. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She's single, but I've heard that there aren't many companies that'll hire a woman in her 30s 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 who might get married soon and quit, or who might get pregnant and quit. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's also tough. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was just thinking how difficult that is. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She applied to a lot of places, and x 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 x 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Before that happened, I got a call from her. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 She was crying, asking what she should do. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I was also panicking. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 But I listened to her, and she told me all of this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I know it's a real pain. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 x 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So I hope you can get through this and do your best now 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 so that your future self can feel at ease. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't know what a good place would look like for you, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 but... 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I hope you find a company where you can demonstrate your full potential and feel at ease. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "I started playing the drums this year but can't play them very well." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 That's totally fine. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Then you've been playing for a little over half a year. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's normal to have trouble drumming well at first, so it's okay. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 An instrument is something you practice for your whole life. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 If you stop even for a little, you'll decline. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 [The drums] are really interesting and a lot of work, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 since the sound comes directly from them. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Keep having fun as you continue playing. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I hope you continue having fun while making changes, such as covering your favorite songs, 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 playing louder, or changing your settings up. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 "What do you think about one's boyfriend hanging out with other girls? I'm getting a little tired of my friends and boyfriend being in contact with each other so much." 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 There were a lot of questions from people having trouble with their significant others. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 So let's talk about it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're in a relationship, so you want to be able to talk about 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 the good things and the bad things with the person you're with. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 x 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I think it's best to convey that with love. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's better to talk about it than deny it. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 x 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I don't know how long I've been talking. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It's been over 40 minutes. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 How will I put it all together? 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It was a lot of fun to be able to talk about everyday life with you guys. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 It was nice. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Even if I don't get an answer, just being able to talk to people like this, even if it's through a screen. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I really felt like we're living in the same era and in the same way. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Everyone worries about similar things. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 You're not alone, so don't worry too much about things like this or feel anxious. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Of course, the opposite is also good. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 I hope we can keep talking like this. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 At any rate, if you're able to get through x, you'll be fine. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Thanks so much for watching to the end. 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 See you in my next video! 9:59:59.000,9:59:59.000 Bye bye!